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Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Julia Montes's View on Cheating Impresses Alden Richards, Magandang Buhay Hosts


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  1. I love her since doble kara days.
    Watched her interviews and she is very mature for her age. I guess one factor is the hardships she went through when she was young.

    Mabait sya sa lola nya at sunod lang sya sa mga auditions since wala daw sila pambayad sa kuryente, tuition etc. Kaya siguro nagclick sila ni Coco since both of them love their lolas so much

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    1. She sounded like girl na matagal na manipulate kaya ang mindset nya ay mag victim blame. She's too old to think like that na maging martyr. All her life nga naman bata pa lang na manipulate na ng adult.

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    2. Baka feeling helpless kaya ganun

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    3. 1:00 nag uusap kayo? NGreklamo sya na she is being manipulated? Tama na sa overthinkinh

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    4. Agree ako sayo 1:00 AM.

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    5. 1:36 ok na sana ung argument mo, pero ung mag complain for being manipulated makes no sense 🀣

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    6. 1:36 this is fp chill

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    7. 1am Her way of thinking is from someone na meron nang pamilya. Hindi yan abnormal kind of thinking. She's talking about real life, hindi sa fantasy world na perfect ang lahat ng tao. Bawat isa may non-negotiables, nagkataon for her, pinipili nya mag forgive but may limitations pa din naman.

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    8. 1:00 hey woke you ok? Parang ang dilim ng mundo mo

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    9. Problema na niya yan kung okay sa kanya ang cheating. Wala na kayong magagawa. She's a multi millionaire in dollars HAHAHAHA

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    10. I am not 1:00am pero mali naman talaga pananaw ni Julia sa cheating. She calls it “nadapa” hello , cheating is not “accidental”. It is a process , a series of actions. It is intentional. She is downplaying cheating. It’s not good, especially for young people.

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  2. For some reason, I find it cringy and inappropriate nung siniksik ni Alden si Julia sa corner ng couch. I mean boy, alam naman ng lahat in a relationship yung tao. Masyado ka namang pa-promo saka respeto na lang sa partner ni girl. Tapos si Regine kinilig pa daw kuno. Wag kami ah.

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    1. Agree! Kahit na ba alam natin that he is harmless, mahiya naman sya sa karelasyon nung isa.

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    2. Daming nakikita basta hater noh. They are good friends. Plus they need to choose if romance or breakup based sa screen. So ano gagawin? Kandong kay Julia? Mas ok sayo yon? πŸ™„

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    3. Pa woke maritess strikes again! Dami hater at bashers ni A and J. Walang kakwenta kwenta ang narratives. Keep ‘em coming mga accla!

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    4. Cringey naman talaga yung pagsiksik ni Alden, pabebe padin

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    5. 127 suit yourself. He’s still rich and famous compare to you or your idol

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    6. 11:36 Basta maka bash lang kay Alden kahit ano gagawin malaking issue.πŸ™„

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    7. Parang may game sila na chose Break Up or Stay. Hater ka lang.

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    8. Sa mga nagsasabi na siniksik ni Alden yun sarili nya kay Julia sa upuan. May concept po ang interview. They have to choose kung romance or breakup. Makita naman sa backdrop. So kung parehas ang sagot nila most likely magsiksik sila side. And kaya nya playfully siniksik sa breakup side dahil ang question is about cheating. He was trying to stop Julia na gumitna between romance and breakup. Then Julia explained her answer na cringey din para sa inyo.

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    9. Alam mo kasi Artista mga yan, kasama yan sa promotion ng show nila. Pampahype and kilig kumbaga. Nautusan lang sila. Seryus kanaman masyado πŸ˜‚

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    10. 10:59 Mas papanoorin ko anuman ang pino-promote nila kung wala na yung mga pakilig na ganyan, lalo na when everybody knows na taken na yung isa. Ang labas tuloy eh parang di sincere and forced ang dating.

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    11. 12:57 Paano naging woke ang comment ni 11:36? Alam mo ba kung paano gamitin ang word na yan o mema ka lang? Saka parang di naman niya binash si J, si A lang.

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    12. 749 then don’t watch it. You hated both of the actors in that film anyway. Choose your happiness somewhere else

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    13. Pa shunga ng pashunga mga bashers noh 🀦🏻‍♀️

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    14. 7:49 Sa panahon ngayon mas okay na honest and sincere ang mga artista kapag nagpopromote ng project kesa magpakilig pero fake naman diba...

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    15. 10:38 It wasn't bashing. It is a valid observation. And not everyone who makes a comment that is not positive to Alden, is an Alden hater.

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  3. Mukhang speaking from experience…hmmm

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  4. may point nmn mnsan ssbhin mo sa sarili mo pg nag cheat wala na break na pero pg andun kna kaya mo plng mgpatawad pero wag nmn yung paulit ulit like yung loisa ronnie

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    1. Maybe sa first time is enough. Kasi issue ng nag cheat na partner yun and eventually mauulit yun dahil nasa nature na yun.

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    2. 12:55 nakaka ego boost kaya yun sa lalaki na nag cheat sya tapos tatanggapin ka pa rin? Malamang wala na respect nyan sayo at mauulit ulit yan.

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    3. No, even first time pa yan. You lose trust to that person, so how can expect him/her to be loyal to you. Cheating is not the other partner’s fault. The cheater is to be blamed here. I don’t agree sa sinabi nya na baka may pagkukulang ka kaya ginawa yun. No way. Cheating is cheating and no excuses here and victim blaming.

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    4. Just recently found out my husband cheated on me. Kung wala lang kaminv anak, I wouldve left him. It's unacceptable for me. Kaso we have kids. I dont want them to suffer. Sanay na sila sa happy family.

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  5. Ang cringe ni Alden. Sorry after ng mga prev interviews niya, i cant feel the sincerity anymore

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    1. Hater ka lang! Keep hating girl

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    2. Eh baket naka abang ka dito?

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    3. naging promo boy na. tss

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    4. Ang sipag ng mga tagapagtanggol ni alden hahaha sana mapa blockbuster niyo movie niya ha….

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    5. 11:41 Ikaw nga ang cringe eh laging nakaabang sa bawat happenings ni Alden para lang mang bash eh.🀦‍♀️

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    6. 1.19 teh, matagal na siyang ganyan. Showbiz na showbiz, walang sincerity sa mga ginagawa or sinasabi in front of the camera

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    7. 1.38 true. lagi sila nakaabang sa mga criticism. talaga namang promo boy siya. halata na yun since nung baguhan pa lang siya. yes, nasundan ko yung since Tween Hearts pa lang.

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    8. I like Julia's reasoning. not ideal pero makatotohanan. Yung iba dito lahat na lang napansin but the conversation at hand walang comment. As a kdrama fan, when I watch interviews sa Netflix(and other platforms) ganyan din naman ang galawan ng mga actors kapag promos. mas pa-cute pa nga silaπŸ˜† Haters gonna hate lang talagaπŸ’―

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  6. I agree with J. Lalo na being in a longterm relationship gives you a different perspective on cheating. Lalo na kung kilala mo sa sarili mo ang values and character ng partner mo. Kapag once nagcheat ang dali lang sabihin na hiwalayan mo, pero ang totoo hindi rin ganon kasimple. Not making excuses for the other person pero you really have to evaluate kung yung pinagsamahan niyo is enough to overlook this particular trial in your relationship. Iba naman yon sa habitual cheater. Yun talaga have respect for yourself and leave na lang.

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    1. Once a cheater always a cheater! Next time di ba yan magpapahuli

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    2. isipin na lang na pag long term relasyon ay pag nagawa nya yun dati he will do it again kasi kahit ganon na kayo katagal ibigsabihin from the start he never liked your nor respects you. Be for real

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    3. Sorry i have to disagree with this because kung ung cheater nga ay dinisregard ang buong pagsasama nyo 4 others, so why we cant also do that? S super tagal nyo n nagsasama and faithful ka and your partner cant do that is very disrespectful!!! Wag natin hayaan na igaslight nila tayo because we are not their puppet. Cheater will always cheat

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    4. eh kung open relationship na lang? scratch that, i don’t think the pinoy macho men & their fragile egos would go for that. but women have needs too!

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    5. Di dapat ikaw ang mag-evaluate. Don’t waste sa tao na di kaya ibigay ang loyalty sayo. Ikaw na rin nagsabi, if you’re in a long term relationship, then mas dapat na hindi yan ginagawa ng partner mo kasi dapat meron sya respect sa yo and mahal ka talaga nya. No excuses for cheaters, please give yourself some respect and don’t let other people abuse you and your relationship.

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    6. May napanood ako na yung iba nagttyaga na lang dahil sa "tagal ng pinagsamahan" kahit suyang suya na sa partner which is hindi tama..

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  7. Based siguro sa experience nya so totoo nga siguro yung mga alingasngas before .

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  8. Kakadisappoiny ka Julia Kaya ka nauuto ni Coco.

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    1. Mamsh mahirap mag give up kung mahal mo ang isang tao lalo kung matagal na kayo magkasama

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    2. 9:29 mahirap pero mas okay it will be harder if tumagal pa

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    3. 9:29 kahit niloloko ka na? Kaya minsan marami naaabuse because you let people do that to you. Love and respect yourself first.

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    4. 7:22 gurl paniniwala mo yan, dont shove it to other people, we love differently, and that includes forgiveness. di tama magcheat, pero di din mali ang magpatawad to make a relationship work. di ako naniniwala na once ancheater, always a cheater. masyadong closed lang utak ng naniniwala dun. people are not perfect, may magkakamali at magkakamali, pero ang tinitignan mo dapat dun ay kung may natutunan sa pagkakamali na yun, kasi if you already gave up, baka yun na pala yun para sayo, kaso bumitaw ka agad.

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    5. Girl, lifetime financial benefits ang iisipin mo if si Coco ang partner mo.

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    6. 6:26 Kaya kong magbanat ng buto kaysa may kasama ako kayang ibigay sa akin ang langit at lupa pero walang peace of mind .

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  9. Sorryy Julia pero ganyan ang mindset ng mga taong sanay magaslight ng parters nila. Pag nagcheat partner mo, una mong tatanungin sarili mo anong nagawa mong mali? Ngek i can only imagine

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    1. Yes. Agree ba magpatawad pero pagkukulang mo kaya nagcheat? Very wrong girl. Mababa self esteem nitong taong to.

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    2. ano naman basis mo nyan? sa fnatasy world mo na perfect ang mga tao? lol

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  10. The groomed by the groomer

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    1. Nah! Typical pinoy mentality. Wag maghihiwalay para sa pamilya. Mag sacrifice para buo ang pamilya. I dont think she was groomed. She was already earning big time on her teens. Just like your lolas back in the days na teenager pa lang nagpapamilya na.

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  11. Hay halatang g*****d si ate mo at mukang namanipulate sya to be submissive. Kawawa naman but I hope C is giving her the best life

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    1. wow its like you full of jealous and hater hahahahahaha make sure you life best of life or maybe the worse of life that you have now!!!!

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    2. 9:28 Pinagsasabi mo hahaha

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  12. Grabe talaga bang ito ang topic hindi kaya masakit dun sa isang host na cheater ang asawa hahaha

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    1. Hahahah! Parang yung da face to face. Nung sinabi nung isang babae dun na atleast kahit madami siyang anak, isa lang daw ang tatay. Sapul na sapul si Momshie Karla kaya biglang bumanat na wala daw masama na iba iba tatay ng mga anak. Hahahaha! Nagturo pa ng mali sa mga tao.

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  13. Na budol ang tawag dyan. Ang tanong bakit siya nag cheat KUNG mahal ka niya. Kung nasa rough patch kayo nakakatulong ba na mag cheat na siya. Dehado talaga tayo mga girls sa mindset na to kasi madalas gusto nila the best of both worlds. Ang saya para sa kanila na nakatikim ng ibang ulam habang may benefits siya nakukuha sayo. Kung patawarin mo sana hindi dahil sa tingin mo na may mali sayo kasi kung may mali sa kanya ok ba na mag cheat ka sa partner mokasi kung baliktad sigurado ako hindi nila kayang magpatawad

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    1. pinoy guys have this archaic double standard thing na “i have needs” so i can sleep with anyone i want…. but then they expect their partners to be pure as the driven snow. smh

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    2. Same comment ng friend ko about my relationship noon sa husband kong cheater. Buti may mga tao pa na ganito magisip. :) kaya buti na din nagising na ako sa katotohanan. Sana un iba magising na din magisip isip. Wag sana nila mafeel un nangyari sakin before.

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    3. 7:41 kawawa tayo sa ganyang sitwasyon. Habang aligaga tayo at nagiisip ng way para maayos ang relasyon, nandon siya nagpapasarap sa buhay.

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    4. Ang ganda ng comment na to. Thank you!

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    5. 6:40 lagi kong kinukutusan ang mga kapatid kong lalaki kapag ipinapangalandakan ang ganyang opinyon. Minsan pinopoint out ko yung mga flaws nila physically para matubuan ng konting hiya man lang

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  14. Sa babae kyo galit pero dun sa lalakeng made her feel that ay hindi? Hilig mag victim blaming ng mga chismosa dito

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    1. Yup, galit ako sa lalake.

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    2. what makes you think na di kami galit sa lalake? ang point lang nung iba wag mag pauto e nauto naman kasi talaga si gurl. ok na?

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  15. Sorry Juls di ako agree.

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    1. that julia opinion and she is not add your opinion to hers hahahahahaha

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    2. 9:30 ang sakit mong mag Ingles😭

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    3. 9:30 asuhin mo muna english mo bako ka umupinyon haha nahilo ako sayo

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    4. 930 kanina ka pa. Pwede namang mag Tagalog dear

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    5. 9:30 open the schools!!!

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  16. Sorry but this is a straight up gaslighting.

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  17. Si Alden yung tropa mo na tutulungan kang magising sa katotohanan. Julia has been saying Alden and Direk Irene have become very close to her. For sure may nakwento na yan. Kaya siguro ganun ang reaction ni Alden.

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    1. Sana nga maganda advice ni alden para ma realize ni Julia na hindi sayang if umalis sya sa ganong relasyon

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    2. Weh. Parang si Alden nga ang kelangan magising sa katotohan ehhh 🫣🫣

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  18. Moral lesson of the story... if you want to tolerate cheating, then stay :) :) :) If not, then the door is right there :D :D :D What so amazing is when people go into these monogamous relationships but then cheats later on ;) ;) ;)

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    1. 12:41 Finally may punto siya at matinong nasabi kahit keypad emoji

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  19. Medyo mahirap yun hah kasi isipin ko palang na my partner kissed and slept with someone sobrang awts yun. Pero it takes courage to forgive. Siguro sobrang pagmamahal kaya kakayanin ng iba na isalba ang relationship or may mga batang involved. Isa o dalawa kaya siguro pero pag pa ulit2 witit.

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    1. I think it will really test your courage to leave a long term relationship. Kasi wala ka naman ikakabenefit to love someone na nag cheat kahit matagal na nangyari it will still hurt. So might as well leave kesa mag isang decade pa

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    2. Totoo ito. When my cousin went to work overseas her husband cheated & seared a child. She went home & still accepted him. She would always tell me it is not easy to leave as they have a child together. Personally I would have left him, filed an annulment & continued to work overseas. But I guess she loved him so for her to stay. So what can we do di ba?

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    3. Pwede naman maagpatawad but it doesn't mean you have to tolerate.

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  20. Sobrang cringe tong dalawa to

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    1. Masyadong pashowbiz sa publicity

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    2. Pansin ko din, parang just for the sake of selling a movie, they'll do anything

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    3. Mas cringe yung mga haters na tulad nyo. Magbago na kayo!

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  21. Maraming friends si Julia na mga mature women at mga disente , experienced pagdating sa buhay at relationship sana mabigyan sya ng UNSOLICITED advice, iba ang thinking ni Julia M bec of her experiences

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    1. that her own opinion to what she think. What about you!!! if you friends give advice to you!!!! to you take its or u think its wrong and can do what dreamer is telling to act. Look at yourself first if you dont think about what the opinion feeling u thought about hahahhahaha or you just hate julia

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  22. Cheating comes as betrayal. So easy to say na wag hiwalayan but to be betrayed by the person you trusted most is the hardest thing to move on from. Just saying

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    1. Agree πŸ‘πŸ‘ Just for the sake of na yang ganyan. For the sake of kids, for the sake of sasabihin ng iba na hiwalay kayo o broken family, for the sake of hindi mapunta ang guy sa ibang girl.

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    2. Cheating is cheating. It’s devious action

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    3. 11:42 ako yung staying for the kids. Halos maloka ako when I found out . I have symptoms of betrayal trauma. I would leave him if we didnt have kids. I dont care sa sasabihin ng ibang tao. Mas nangibabaw lang talaga love ko for my kids. I dont want them to have a broken family.

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  23. Well ang tanong kung happy ka o hindi. May iba na okay lang kahit nagcheat tapos nagbago. May iba okay lang kahit cheater pa rin pero sa kanya bumabalik. Problema na nila yan.

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  24. Naku Julia unahin mo respeto sa sarili. Cheating is a choice your partner made. Hindi yun dahil may kulang sayo. A guy who makes you feel that way is major red flag! Get out of that relationship. You deserve better.

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  25. sa akin lang naman ito ha, maganda si julia pero wala siyang star quality na pang-alagwa ng kasikatan. yes, kilala siya but di niya maabot yung naabot ng ibang kasabayan niya. kumbaga sa pila ng sikat, pang-gitna lang siya, di pambungad or pang-finale.

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    1. Actually hindi malakas ang dating niya. Parang may kulang. Kahit nung walang hanggan days, si dawn at Richard ang nagdala ng show. Di siya talaga pangmalakasan na Lead star.

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    2. harsh but i agree. kulang siya sa oomph. but i guess you can’t have it all.

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    3. Siguro dahil pinares agad sya sa mas matatanda sa kanya kaya parang minadali ang maturity.

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    4. Maganda nman sya bothering lang talaga yung bibig nya. Mukha pa syang suplada. Gumaan lng ang awra nya ng pinartner sya kay Coco.

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  26. I've been watching Julia's interviews for this movie. You can sense something is not right. She said that it was Alden and Direct Irene who helped her find her voice and gain confidence to believe in herself. Tapos she didn't tell Coco na may love scene. Gives you hints on their relationship.

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    1. Eme lng ni julia yun na hndi alam ni coco, kc nga dba sabi nya sa interview nya pinabasa nya kay coco yung Script. Nagustuhan dn ni coco kya nag GO sya.

      Mapag usapan lng kya sinabi hndi nya pina alam na may love scene.

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    2. Ohhhh I didnt watch her interviews and that's off nga if you cant tell your partner that

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    3. May off talaga mga promo interviews nila, pa showbiz to the point na naging cringey

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    4. Andres de pulutong siguro sya ka Cc

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    5. Kaya nga naiinis ako sa mga ganyan artista hindi inaayon ang sinasabi sa kinikilos.

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  27. Kung walang Coco, malamang itong si Julia and Alden ang magkatuluyan. You can sense na match sila sa ugali at values. Plus same age sila.

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    1. Baka madagdag lang sa listahan na pinaasa ni Alden

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    2. di sila talo uy

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    3. Mas nagtatagal yung medyo opposite kayo ng partner mo pero walang lamangan, may respeto at tiwala sa isat isa.

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  28. I don't agree kay Julia na dapat tulungan mo ang partner mong nadapa. Gurl! Yung partner mong nadapa pinili magpasalo sa iba! Hindi sayo.

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    1. True di nadapa yun. Nag Hanap ng ibang pugad

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    2. Nadapa as if its an accident. He cheated on you choice nya yun.

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  29. Sana ma gets ni julia na nakaka ego boost na kahit na nag cheat partner mo makikipagayos pa rin. Nothing good to save

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  30. What ? San nya yan natutunan…. Cheating is a no no no for me.Once nagawa na nya yan gagawin at gagawin pa din.Ewwww I can’t imagine πŸ™ˆ.Halatang bata pa talaga sya huhu too early na groom talaga.Kung baga bata pa lang na take advantage na sya kaya ganyn pananaw nya huhuhu

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    1. Hndi nmn lhat ng Cheater paulit ulit nang gagawin, meron akong kakilala. Once nag cheat sa asawa, may mga anak sila, pero sa Huli nag kaayos hndi n nag cheat c guy, pero parusa dn sa Guy yung bawat galaw mo (reremind sayo ng asawa mo kung paano k nag taksil.) even n tumanda kayo paulit ulit parin ssbhn n nag Cheat ka. Masakit dn s lalaki na nag try k na mag bago pero nsa Past parin yung isa.
      Ang ending yung asawa nag cheat dn pla. Ng hndi nya alam guy

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  31. Iyon ang tingin ni Julia at sa mga nag disagree,eh kayo iyon. Madali kasi sabihin sa mga hindi nakaranas. Hindi naman kasi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, go away ka kaagad.

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    1. kadalasan kasi manipulated noong developmental years pa lang

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    2. true! kanya kanyang situation yan. iba yung minsan nadapa sa habitual pag-disrespect sa iyo

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  32. Never been cheated before pero siguro pareho kami ni Julia ng opinion about it kapag matagal na ang relationship ninyo, me mga anak kayo at kasal kayo. Its hard to gave that up basta na lang. Siguro pag usapan at kung yung guy or girl ay di na uulit o nangako na magbabago tuloy pa din bigyan ng chance pero pag naulit pa ulit then yun na siguro ang dahilan para mag desisyon na ng ibang option.

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    1. Cheating is cheating.

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    2. the thing is for sure julia's partner or your partner will never do the same you guys did. If kayo naman ang nag cheat for sure they will never make it work with you guys.

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    3. By doing this shows sa guy na kaya mo tanggalin mo respect mo sa sarili mo. And he'll do it again kasi na ego boost sya

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  33. If nagcheat sayo ibig sabihin your partner doesn’t respect you. Ganun lang yun. Deal breaker na dapat yan. Hindi mo kasalanan na nagcheat sayo.

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  34. Sana wag nalang niya sinabi on tv para hindi magka idea yung bf niya, na ah ok pala

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    1. Parang yung sagot nya inayon lng nya sa character nya.

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  35. Mukhang manait itong si Julia Montes. I hope she is happy.

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  36. This mindset is a result of grooming and/or Stockholm Syndrome sadly.

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  37. Click si Julia and Alden personality wise.

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  38. I don't tolerate cheating but for me if I really love that person who cheated on me and I care a lot for him then I would probably give him another chance to patch things up. This doesn't necessarily mean that I don't respect myself nor I have tolerated someone cheating on me, but if you care a lot for someone it will be hard to let of your relationship that easily. I will give him the benefit of the doubt of course that he may or may not cheat again, so I won't hundred percent chance the partner until I am hundred percent sure he will be faithful to me fo the second time around.

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  39. Basta may pera kang umalis, umalis ka na at isama mo ang mga anak mo. They will take you for granted kapag ganyan ka at alam nila na you will stay. The moment you decide to leave dun na sila maghahabol sayo pero don't fall for it kasi madalas gagawin ulit nila yan sayo

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  40. Love love Julia pero please lang 2023 na wag na yang ganyan mindset especially sa mga babae. Wag na din ipagkalat na okay lang ganyan. Cheating is a choice!! Kesahodang matagal na kayo

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  41. You deserve what you tolerate, Julia. Now read this again.

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  42. Paulit ulit kang lolokohin pag ganyan ang mindset mo, sayo nga umuuwi pero pinagtatawanan ka namn ng mga tao. Kung di kayanh respetuhin ng partner mo irespeto mo sarili mo girl

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  43. Sus hindi din nakakaimpress na di ka kayang ilantad ng jowa sa public. Ano say mo dyan Julia?

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  44. Depende rin yun sa kung gaano kalala ang impact ng pagchicheat.

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    1. Eventually it will some joy sa puso mo

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  45. I'd rather be single than be with a person who can't stay faithful and loyal to me for whatever reason.

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    1. For me parang takot si Julia maging single kaya okay lang sa kanya yun.

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  46. Okay yung paliwanag ni Julia at gets ko ang POV niya although for me pag nagcheat isang beses, hindi na talaga. It is like hurting you once physically. Pag isang beses, wag mo na paulitin

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  47. This is what I see as a problem with these promo when it comes to movies. The mere fact a person or both persons if they are in a relationship...is to continue the facade. It becomes and is OVERKILL. Why are we Filipinos so so bent on KILIG that it doesn't even bare any truth or reality especially when you know one or even both might or are in a committed relationship? Are we that desperate to see something that really isn't there? Are our actors that so good " in acting " to make you feel head over heels? All for the name of " support watch " the movie.

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    1. Kaya mas prefer ko pag real life lovers yung bida sa mga ganitong project at least hindi ako magiguilty if kikiligin ako sa kanila.

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  48. Bio dad of my daughter cheated on me. Hiwalay agad I don’t care about my daughter that time sooner or later she will nderstamd what I did. No second chances for cheating. Cheating is cheating. Now my daughter is 24 she’s so proud of what I did. Raising her alone since she was in grade 2. Life is quiet and peaceful

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    1. I separated for different reasons, but I totally agree. The peace of mind and autonomy on ever level is priceless. As a working parent, I have enough on my plate so I just choose myself more now.

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  49. i dont think i can tolerate betrayal like that. siguro depende sa sitwasyon like nalasing , ONS with an unknown girl.. maybe pwede magpatawad.. and thats a big maybe… but if like pinursue nya or pinursue sya tapos he gave in.. i dont think i can accept that. kahit pa sabihin na may pagkukulang ako sa relationship, hindi justification yun to seek comfort somewhere else.

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    1. I think kahit nalasing you know what you're doing

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  50. cheater cheats. walang nagbabago sa kanila. pwede kung nagsawa na lamg or nilipasan na ng panahon at wala nang pumapatol. wala pa akong narinig na babae na naging happy sa isang cheater. kahit na sabihin nyang nagbago na or tumino na, i know deep inside she wished she”s with a better partner who is loyal and will always respect her. if you catch yourself making excuses for that person cheating on you, time to re evaluate your life!

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    1. true why would you rob yourself of joy and peace. You can forgive your partner pero it will always still hurt and give you anxiety

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    2. This. Sabi nga ni Annabelle Rama ang asawa niya tumino na nung lampas 70 na.

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  51. Magaling umarteng maldita sa kanyang mga roles itong si Julia pero in real life mukha siyang mahina at parang madaling mauto.

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  52. I was so confident that cheating means goodbye kagad. When it actually happened to me, I immediately thought of my kids and the effect of a broken family to them (lalo pa no divorce here in the Phils). With Julia’s answer, Im kinda sure she already went thru that with Coco. Kaya ganun na sya sumagot. I also did a similar thinking/decision process of asking myself those questions. I still feel pain and I cant forget. Im also jaded. I put my partner on a pedestal before I found out, so now I dont look at marriage the same way as before………

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    1. I feel you, 11:03

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    2. well the effect on kids ay makikita ng mga anak nila na walang respect yung tatay nila sa nanay nila and they are not enough kaya okay lang ibreak family nila

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  53. nagkamali siya one time, then that is something you consciously decide upon. Madali talaga magsabi na hiwalayan agad at a cheater is always a cheater, but unless you’ve been in that situation mahirap magjudge sa decisions ng iba.

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  54. Sobrang dikit si Alden kay Julia. Baka bugbogin ni tanggol.

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  55. So ang pag cheat niya is parang punishment mo if may mali ka? Ang cruel naman, sana perfect siya para ma justify ng maayos ang cheating. Isang pinakamasakit na pwedeng gawin ng isang tao is mag cheat

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  56. Gustong bumenta kaya labasan na ng kung ano anong gimik

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  57. Being cheated on wrecks you so much! And the cheater with the cohort has no remorse for you. Kudos to those strong enough who can offer immediate forgiveness & second chance. May you find your way out soon, because they don't deserve someone like you.

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    1. They are not strong

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    2. Gaslighting lang gurl? Thats not really strong kasi kung totoong strong ka, u would not immediately give your forgiveness and 2nd chance. Kahit anong sabihin nya, u would not let him bend the truth and make you the wrong one kasi u didnt give him the 2nd chance.

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    3. That's not being strong. The strong ones walk away because cheating should be non-negotiable.

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    4. 2:16 yes thank you! i did this. best decision of my life.

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  58. Martyr no self respect

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  59. Sabi nga ng nanay ni Laida Magtalas nung nagloko yung asawa niya, “Love is a choice, and forgiveness is a choice.” Nung nagloko one time yung tatay ko ansakit saming family yun kasi never in a million years ko maiisip magagawa niya yun. Pero eventually napatawad siya ng nanay ko at hanggang ngayon sila pa din going over 40 years na silang kasal. That may not be the case for everybody, may iba naghihiwalay. Kanya kanyang desisyon yan, pero it doesn’t mean one choice is better than the other kasi di naman lahat ng situation ng tao pareho.

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    1. But you're still hurting and for sure yung mom mo rin

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    2. 9:40 For me not really anymore, it’s all in the past and we all chose to move on from it. Of course I can’t speak for my mom but this happened over ten years ago and I don’t think my mom stayed because of us kids kasi malaki na kami at that time. They both decided to work on their relationship. But like I said, that’s what worked for them. Saka lahat ng tao nasasaktan, nasasayo na yun how you want to handle it. But I will not impose on others na mali ka o tama ako. Kasi madali magsalita until it happens to you. And it also doesn’t mean if a person chose to stay na mahina agad sila tulad ng ibang sinasabi dito. There is strength in choosing to stay and there is also strength in choosing to leave.

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    3. 8:02 i guess depende sa gravity ng pagloloko. Meron kaseng lalaki or babae mga nagbabar lang nag te table ng gro or hosto. Nag papa extra service sa spa. Meron din mga hangang landian sa text or calls lang and nothing physical. Meron naman binabahay na talaga yung kabit. Meron din nagka anak na si iba. So swerte ninyo if fling lang talaga yung nangyare sa tatay mo.

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  60. Sabi nga ni Whitney Houston, “learning to love yourself is the Greatest Love of All”

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  61. Cheating is never an accident. Pinili at ginusto yan nung tao. Hinding hindi mo kasalanan if nagcheat ang partner mo. Kung may pagkukulang ka, kayong 2 dapat aayos at maguusap, di dapat sa ibang tao siya hahanap ng pupuno. Pano mo mapapatawad ang taong dinisrespect at sinaktan ka? I guess sa iba mapapatawad. Baka mas mahaba lang tolerance nila. Pero gurl sure ka ba na di na uulit o di na umuulit? Parang ang hirap, habambuhay kang magwoworry.

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  62. kaloka ung narrative nya na ‘ baka kay nagkamali ako kaya sya nagcheat’. Gaslightin ba sarili mo? Cheating is cheating is cheating gurl. Pag nagkamai ang partner pagusapan nyo, hindi magcheat. kaloka ka gurl.

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  63. It's so hard to judge but I can't help but feel sorry for this girl. She seems so naive and foolish. Clearly the guy doesn't respect her and the gr****** rumours appear to be factual. I don't see Alden being impressed. He likely knows the backstory. Well one day if J and her cheating partner separate, I hope she can learn to love herself. It's one thing to give someone a second chance, quite another to take partial blame for his philandering - very poor self-esteem.

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  64. This is plain and simple. Iba iba ang pain tolerance ng tao. Pwedeng sa iba hindi nila kayanin and they would end the relationship. Meron namang iba, dahil sobra sobra pagmamahal nila sa asawa nila they tend to forgive and carry on. Kung ilang beses o hanggang kailan sila ganon, sila lang nakakaalam niyan. But personally for me, no na pag nag cheat. Especially kung may nangyare, kase pwedeng makabuntis ng iba, imagine magkaka kapatid sa labas pa mga anak mo. Mahirap yung para sa mga bata na alam nilang may kahati sila sa lahat ng bagay sa daddy nila. So kung mag cheat, ekis, alam niya ginagawa niya nung ginagawa niya yun, and he was not sorry while doing it. Alam niya kung ano ang pwedeng mawala sa kanya and thats you or you and your kids. Pero hindi niya yun binigyan ng importansya.

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    1. Those who stay, i dont think it's because sobra sobra ang pagmamahal nila sa asawa nila. I think mas sobra yung fear -- takot mag isa, takot sa sasabihin ng tao, takot sa whatever is in store pagkatapos ng break up

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  65. She sounds like she's in a controlling relationship and she doesn't seem happy. Hindi na sya blooming, parang haggard at laki ng tinanda. Mukha na syang 45.

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    1. Mas matanda ang guy kaya malamang controlling.

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    2. Grabe ka naman sa 45! mukha nga lang syang 25.

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    3. 6:21 she definitely doesn't look like 25 even in real life, parang nasa 30-35 yung itsura niya sa personal

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  66. Sana alam ni Julia na walang lalaki ang gagawa na ayusin yung relasyon kung kung si Julia ang nag chea at nabaliktad ang situation.

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  67. It takes a lot of courage and maturity to be able to forgive the person who hurt you, whether it be cheating or as simple as they forgot your bday. And a lot more maturity to be able to take a step back and ask yourself what went wrong. Coz a lot of times, people who get cheated on just blame the other person and never analyze the whole relationship.

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