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Saturday, October 31, 2015

Unexpected Manifestation of Stress

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For someone who has always been caught between freedom and responsibility, coping mechanisms can only take as much. The common advice is to first accept the stressor and then find a way to rechannel stress. When talking to friends is insufficient, some indulge in hobbies, such as getting into the trend of adult coloring books, baking cupcakes, or firing some bullets in the range, to feel better.

Sometimes, when a person can no longer handle the stress, behavior can manifest the heavy burden. Others have a clear change in their behavior, whereas others could not afford to show their feelings because their image has to take precedence.

Work is one of the reasons for stress, but for most showbiz personalities, work is something enjoyable and those who think of acting or hosting as stressful slowly fade out of the business. However, showbiz personalities are people who fall in and out of love. For ordinary people, they can show their sadness and disappointment to their peers without fear of being revealed. By contrast, a mere change in behavior or look of a showbiz celebrity can get the public speculating and talking.

For Prominent Figure (PF), stress has reached high levels, such that health is an issue. Luckily, PF is smart enough to seek diagnosis for the discomfort and was advised medication to make sure no further harm would come. No surgery was required for the condition, which was good. The pressure was really getting on to PF, as a doctor’s assistance was needed to figure out what was ailing PF. Allegedly, PF was too bothered by the meddling of people, which resulted in affecting the body. Having lived a monitored life, each movement of PF was watched and through the years, the freedom that should be given to someone of age was deprived of PF.

Thus, when love entered the picture, PF was extremely torn between feelings and freedom versus duty and responsibility. When the relationship of PF and Another Celebrity (AC) was out in the open, the immediate reaction was not towards the couple, but more on the camp of PF. Predictably, the camp attempted to break the relationship, but PF and AC stuck to each other. While people thought that the camp has given in to the desire of PF, apparently, there is still restraint in giving PF the freedom to love and to be with AC without issue.

PF is still young and has much potential to tap, but the celebrity has given so much already to the family and the field of entertainment. Family has benefitted from the career of PF and yet they would not grant PF the opportunity to move and love freely.

In times of stress, the best thing we can do for each other is to listen with our ears and our hearts and to be assured that our questions are just as important as our answers. ― Fred Rogers

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Friday, October 30, 2015

Accepting the Ugly Truth

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One of the saddest days in marriage would be the day that husband and wife realize that they are not attuned to each other, and what was supposed to be a match made in heaven was turning into a living hell. A high profile relationship and the ideal family image do not guarantee that all is well between the man and woman.

After several years into their marriage, Talented Actress (TA) discovered that Her Husband (HH) has been keeping a secret from her. TA discovered that HH has an alleged mistress (AM) whom he has set–up in a flat. AM and HH share the same school and chances are both had been classmates. Thus, HH had met AM long before he met TA. Belonging to the few celebrities who can wave a diploma from a university, HH projects an image of someone responsible.

The marital problem reached a point that TA and HH already consulted a lawyer. However, their family image is very strong and breaking apart their family will have more consequences than a ruined reputation. They have many endorsements that could be affected if they separate. Consumer products are keen on utilizing celebrities that project the ideal as their brand image. Hence, a tumultuous relationship can affect the brand they are endorsing.

Nonetheless, no one wants a broken family, which is so typical of showbiz marriages. Instead of pursuing legal options, TA and HH opted to make their marriage work. In what was perceived as a desperate effort, TA did something drastic to make HH interested.

However, this new situation did not stop the issue. HH and AM are still together. Thus, TA has decided to let things be in anticipation that HH will come back to his senses and remember his vows at the altar. Perhaps, TA has succumbed to accepting a mistress in their lives if she wants their marriage to last.

TA and HH have different backgrounds. While TA was struggling in showbiz to establish a career, HH was living the life of a typical student in a private school. As TA fretted over her career direction, HH was probably mulling over where he would work after completing his degree. Although HH is a celebrity in his own right, he always seems to have his foot firmly anchored in his private life. As time passed, HH realized that he could not achieve a certain level of conversation with TA, who has spent her whole life in the crazy world of showbiz. Thus, they probably could not achieve the quality communication that HH had expected.  

Some people think that the truth can be hidden with a little cover-up and decoration. But as time goes by, what is true is revealed, and what is fake fades away. -Ismail Haniyeh

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