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Tuesday, November 10, 2020

Insta Scoop: Heart Evangelista Responds to Netizen Pushing Her to Have a Baby



Images courtesy of Instagram: iamhearte

98 comments:

  1. It is NEVER OKAY to make comments like that. PERIOD.

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    1. Ganon talaga mga tao. Kung ano un kulang sa iyo un ang sinasaksak sa lalamunan mo. Para saktan ka. As if naman napakaperpekto ng buhay nila. If i know, may anak man yang mga yan eh nagdidildil naman ng asin. Sa buhay ni Heart pa din pipiliin ko.

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    2. People should avoid asking these questions because we may never know the pain and sadness that some women have felt who went through miscarriage, difficulty in getting pregnant and other fertility concerns. Tsk!

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    3. Such classy answers. No negativity. Lalo lang pinakita ng trolls na ibang level ang kindness ni Heart. Beautiful inside and out. Bless you more dear Hearty๐Ÿ™

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    4. Bakit naman biglang ipapasok about sa baby e wala naman kinalaman sa picture na pinost? Nainggit ba si basher? hahaha

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  2. Wtf is wrong with these people! Ang kapal ng mukha nila to push someone to have a baby if they are not the one who will suffer (from pregnancy, expenses, etc) for it. Mind your own business

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  3. May utak naman tayo. Hwag manghinayang gamitin. Baka kalawangin. People should learn how to hold their tongue on sensitive issues like that. Hindi nyo alam kung gaano kasakit yung akala nyong simpleng comment lang.

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    1. Ah yung mga daliri at mga utak nila yung nangati hindi yung mga dila nila.

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    2. Anon 1:17am it's still a communication. You can use the word "i am talking" even u are just using ur mjnd or typing at ur phone. It's just common sense.

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    3. Well said 12:16

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    4. 1:17 is so shallow.

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  4. Parang mali sya ng tag sa reply nya. Pinagtanggol nga sya nung tao e nasermonan pa.

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    1. Tinag nya kasi nag miscarriage, so same sila ng pinagdaanan. Napahaba lang at syempre emotional

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  5. Very well said, heart! Don't mind other people

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  6. Grabe na din ang bashers ngayon nagdidikta ng buhay. Pwedeng maging masaya ng walang asawa o anak bakit ba hindi nyo matanggap yon?

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  7. Apektading apektado mga Fantangards sa buhay ng kanilang idolo! As if mga buhay nila ang maaayos at sasaya kung magkaanak ang idolo nila. Hahahahahahaha! Sad.......

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  8. being a mother is not just the essence of being a woman. actually sushmita sen's answer is not really the right answer. obviously that was held in the Ph.

    anyway, what im trying to say is ndi lang nsusukay sa pagiging ina ang pagiging babae. Being able to be a mother to your adopted or niences and nephews is enough.

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    1. But if you have a deep longing for your very own child, hindi mapupunan ng kahit na sino yung longing mo.

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    2. Ito kasing si Michelle Madrigal pabroadcast pa ayan gigil mga utaw.

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    3. kung ndi nga ibigay, eh di okay lang. Women can accept that. as long as heart can be a rich tita. she has kids with chiz na.

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    4. Yeah Sushmita's answer won't cut it ngayon.

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    5. 12:45 Then look inside you and wonder why you have a "puwang." I have no kids and don't feel anything missing in my life. I am complete - with or without a child.

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    6. 12:45 In life, we have to accept that not all that we long for can be given to us, whether anak man yan o career or kung ano pa mang heart's desire meron tayo. It is up to us too figure how to live without the things we long for if that is not an option. Oo shempre masakit at mahirap pero ganun talaga ang buhay e. We cant get everything we want.

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    7. Society's expectation of a woman is to be a mother. Nowadays some women no longer want to experience motherhood.

      Having children or none won't make you less of a woman.

      A woman has many ways of expressing her femininity and her love for others.

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  9. Wala masyadong ginagawa sa buhay pati buhay ng iba pinakekealaman...these people need to get a life

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  10. Kasi people should stop insisting that you're missing out on life if you don't have kids. That is just so insensitive. Some couples do not want to have. Some cannot have. Leave them alone.

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  11. For someone who experienced miscarriage, sobrang below the belt yung ganyang comment. Hindi nila alam ano pinagdaanan nung tao. Parang pinamumukha nila na malaking kabawasan sa pagkatao ni Heart na wala pa siyang anak. Akala mo naman napakadaling magconceive ng bata. Bashing them for their personality, fashion, or whatever is one thing. Pero wag naman sana nila saktan ng ganyan mga celebrities. Tao rin yang mga yan. Kudos to Heart for trying her best to still be polite kahit di deserve nung nagcomment.

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  12. Heart was honest and vulnerable and kind enough in her replies. She trully is blessed. Bashers jealous.

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    1. Yes they are very jealous. Wala na kasing maibato sa perfect na buhay ni heart kaya pinipilit ungkatin ang hindi pagkakaroon ng anak. Milya milya na ang accomplishments ni heart. She is correct that she is very blessed.

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  13. Wrong tag lhat gnwa n heart. Ay sus!

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    1. di naman wrong tag sumagot lang sya but i think kasi na block nya na yung isa she was just validaating yung sinabi ng nagtnggol sa kanya. Mga tao talaga ano mema langk ahit walang kinalaman sa post nya it's so insensitive.

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    2. 1:08 wrong din yung comprehension mo. She’s tagging the right person. Nag share silang dalawa sa kanilang experience about miscarriage. Yung dalawang pakialamera, she tagged them at sinagot din nya. Read again hope you get it the 2nd time.

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    3. Not wrong tag. Nagcommiserate nga sa kanya kaya nireplyan nya rin

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  14. Even though you can does not mean you should :) Besides, dami ng tao sa mundo :)

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    1. Yes to this lalo na kung hindi afford to support kids at iaasa lang sa gubyerno at sa ibang tao.

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  15. harsh! always remember be kind. you never know what they are going through. and to Heart, please don't mind them and never try to explain yourself. they don't know what they are doing.

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  16. obviously yun mga nagcocomment ng ganyan, mga troll yan, seeking attention on social media. naghahanap ng comment back, like back, followers, etc. alam naman nila na mali yan, pero that's how you get attention/make papansin eh. it's actually sad and desperate. but somehow it works, look si heart mismo nag comment sa kanya. so mission accomplished, napansin sya.

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    1. 1:19, pero bakit karamihan ng trolls ay 1 to 22 lang ang followers? Karamihan sa trolls or bashers naka private at walang content. Kung marami man silang followers baka nag pm sila sa ibang strangers o kaya naman sobrang dami mag hashtag.

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  17. akala ng nakararami kasi, having a child or having children of your own eh kumpleto na ang pagiging babae or pagkatao mo. na parang hindi masaya ang buhay ni heart kung wala sya sariling anak. hindi lang anak ang magbbgay sa iyo ng kasiyahan, having God in your life is a joyful feeling first and foremost and heart is korek in saying that bonus na lang ang pagkakaroon ng anak. if it comes thank God, if not, then God is more than enough.

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    1. What do you mean na bonus na lang ang pagkakaroon ng anak? If that's the case then having children is an exception rather than the norm. God designed women to produce offsprings, kaya nga may uterus, ovary, fallopian tube mga babae. Otherwise, mabibilang lang Ang merong reproductive organs. Heart shouldn't say bonus na lang pagkakaroon ng anak. Ang bitter lang ng dating. She could have said they are trying but Hindi pa gina grant ni Lord yung wish nya magka baby

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    2. 12:00 she has been blessed and couldn’t ask for more.

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    3. Hey 1200 kaloka ka. Okay so designed nga katawan naten to have children, so why is it that biologically meron talaga saten mga di maka conceive naturally? And tama naman si Heart, bonus nalang pagnagka anak kasi hindi lahat ng babae kaya or blessed magka anak.

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    4. Isa pa tong si 12:00 sa halimbawa ng mahilig mangealam hahaha pati b naman how heart should have said it e may kuda pa rin.. ba naman yan tsk

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    5. Low comprehension si 1200 teehee

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    6. 12:00 kung binasa mo mabuti, sinabi ni heart na nagtry sya at choice nya yun at yun wala pa din sya anak e choice na yun ni God. At ayaw nya daw iquestion yun bilang blessed naman nga sya kahit wala sya anak. So pag binigyan sya e bonus na yun. Meaning sobransobrang blessing na. Ayan ha, ni explain ko na sayo. Pero try mo din basahin bka sakali makuha mo na.

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    7. I'd rather travel to beautiful counties than have kids. Maka visit ng top 6 favourite countries ko, blessing na yun para sa akin. Mahirap manganak, kahit na love ko ang boyfriend ko. Gusto ko magkaroon kami ng pretty daughter whom I will call Daphne. Kaso hirap ng buhay ngayon tsaka medyo takot ako dahil sobrang sakit daw ng pangaganak at pag ire. Mas masakit daw kesa sa tattoo. Kaya for me, mas possible pa na mapuntahan ko ang dream countries ko (syempre after the pandemic is gone). Mas bonus pa sa akin ang pagkakaroon ng anak.

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  18. I don’t want to say the word b*** sa ibang tao kasi we are not perfect. Pero yun ganitong tao matatawag mo talaga na b***. Kasi una sa lahat walang manners, hindi aware na bastos siya at hindi requirement ng isang babae na magkaron ng baby just to feel complete and accepted by the society.

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    1. This 1:29. It just shows kung paano sila pinalaki ng magulang nila.

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  19. Daming pakielamera sa di naman nila matris.

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  20. Nagtataka ako halos lahat ng mga Tito at tita Yung mga mid 40’s pataas ganyan sila.. Puros sila Bakit Bakit Bakit or Hinde Kaya “Sige ka Ikaw din Mahirap na Baka Hinde ka makabuo” Meron pa ang taba mo! Grabe

    Sa case ko I never ask my friends who are married now Matagal na never ko tinanung kelan kayo makaanak Anu plans nila.. Una I find it sensitive at nahihiya din ako mag tanung . I only ask them how’s married life, I get advice from them mga do and donts pag mag asawa na ako how to deal with stress Mga ganun. Not unless mag share sila Bakit Wala pa and that’s the only time I will enter na ... Ewan ko if it goes sa iba Dito ? Ako aksi ganun e

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    1. Uso yan sa matatanda i remember my lola nakasalubong namin kamag anak namin na preggers na we all know e walang asawa. Ang tanong nya “kelan kasal?” Super nakakahiya. Feeling nila porket matanda sila they have a free pass to be rude and insensitive. Pag sinita mo yang mga yan sila pa galit.

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    2. Pag may isang anak ka naman ang tanong eh kelan mo susundan... honestly, do they really care if susundan mo anak mo? Ako din naiinis if they question our decision bakit isa lang anak namin.

      People doesnt know how to stop their mouth. Hindi naman nola alam yung mga silent struggles and challenges mo. Akala nila basta basta ka lang mabubuntis just because gusto nila. Buti sana kung sasagutin nila gastos sa panganganak, needs at school ng bata. Maka dikta kala mo may say or care sayo..

      Sensya #mayhugot #nakakarelate sa mga nosey at makukulit.

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    3. Sana sila na lang magpabuntis lol

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  21. Hay dapat be responsible on socmed di porket fake account. Di nila alam pinagdadaanan ng mga tao no.

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    1. Kaya sila fake account para masabi nila ang gusto nilang sabihin.

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  22. Nabasa pa talaga ni heart yun sa dami ng mga comment? Sorry pero tingin ko si heart din nag-comment nyan para mukha shang api char!

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    1. grabe ang pait siguro ng buhay mo para makapag-isip ka ng ganyan

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    2. Why would she do that? Ang dami na nga niyang attention na nakukuha both good and bad.

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    3. Jusko, natural page nya yan kaya mababasa nya. Pati yan pinakikialaman mo pa? Lol, iba din. ๐Ÿคฃ

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    4. Isa ka pa! Smh.

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    5. naisip mo yon? pang telenobela or gone girl novel utak mo teh. katakot

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    6. Oo nga 11:11. Lupit ng imagination ni 1:52. Baka siya yung ganun.

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  23. And if magka anak na si Heart, next comment ng mga tao, kelan masusundan? hayyy these people, get a life

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    1. Agree! Kala mo naman pag nagtanong kung iisponsoran yung susunod mong anak. Hirap ng buhay ngayon, dito lang naman sa pinas na parang utang na loob mong malaman kung kelangan sundan ang anak or kelan mag aanak. Sa US ang rude tingnan na nagtatanong ka ng ganyang details kasi paki mo ba sa decision ng mag asawa sa buhay.

      Minsan yung mga matatanong na yan naghahanap lang yan ng mali sa ibang tao para ma feel nila na importante at nakaka angat sila by pointing out whats missing kahit kuntento na yung tao

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    2. True! Wala nang kasiyahan ang mga tao mangbato ng kung anu-anong pangingialam sa buhay ng may buhay. People seriously need to learn online ethics.

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  24. Ganyan nmn talaga.. pag maganda buhay mo hahanapan ka ng kulang at yun ang ipapamuka sayo para mafeel nila na mas angat pa din sila kahit papaano. Mga insecure sa buhay! Nakikitingin na nga lang e nangingialam pa.

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  25. There are many ways now to have a kid, hindi issue ang money at also heart says na next year she plans to do seryes and movies so wala talaga sa plan now
    For example assunta de rossi, pokwang nagka anak pa nga anything is possible in God's perfect time

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  26. Yung kapitbahay namin 45 years old nagka baby sya akala nila wala ng chance so kaya pa kay heart she's below 40

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  27. Sa panahon ngayon hindi baby ang dapat sinasuggest kundi imaintain ang magandang physical and mental health. As much as possible nga kung pwede lang wag muna magbuntis sa panahon ngayon dahil sa health concerns. Daming galinggalingan talaga. Di nagiisip.

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  28. Likas sa mga pinoy na inggetero at inggetera ang maghanap ng bagay na wala ka or kulang sa yo para mabawasan ang nararamdaman nilang frustrations sa buhay nila.

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  29. Heart seems nice. I don’t know why a lot of people hate her

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  30. sunog si loving mommy. pakialamera kasi. as if naman pag ginusto mong magka-baby, inoorder lang sa grocery di ba? A baby is a gift from God. Di pwedeng i-demand... ang importante, masaya ka sa piling ng pamilya mo at ng Panginoon. Heart is very blessed. besides may mga step children sya na i'm sure mahal na mahal niya and vice versa. Not having children is not the end of the world. kung talagang di para sa iyo, pwede namang mag-adopt kung talagang gusto mo ng baby.

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    1. Natawa ako sa grocery! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  31. Hahaha mga inggitera lang yan Heart. Carry on!

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  32. Wow to tell her she needs a BONUS badly?!? Ang bastos

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  33. I think what that commenter not able to manage was Heart standing with arc de triomphe behind pic.

    That's where the bitter blow coming, envy.

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  34. I attended a birthday party yesterday, at mga relatives andun. One aunt approached me and said, Wala pa bang laman yan? referring to my tummy, another one said, bakit ka ba nagmamadali umuwi wala namang anak na naghihintay sa yo. It is always like this and it always hurts especially when you are having trouble conceiving. It is never okay to ask those insensitive questions. Parang ang perkpeto ng mga buhay nila.

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    1. I feel for u 5:23. That's why i hate attending parties and reunions with relatives. I don't want to answer their insensitive questions. Anyway, may covid pa sana no muna sa party.

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    2. No one dared ask me these types of question because I never back down. Sabihan na nila akong taklesa, but respect is earned.

      A relative asked me years ago bakit di pa kami magpakasal ng then-boyfriend ko. Ang sagot ko, we're still go focusing on our careers. She pressed on, kaya sinagot ko na in front of everyone, Sige papakasal po kami agad, pa-help sa preparation ha. Tapos pa-plan na rin ok paano namin ma-aachieve ang work/life balance.

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  35. Some people are so mean. Any wife would like to have a child with her husband. Who's not? I was married 2007 to my long time foreigner boyfriend from 1997. Before we got married, I had 2 miscarriages. My OB Gyne advised me to stop working, otherwise, there will be a 3rd one, kung magbuntis ako ulit. My relationship with my husband is from 1997, until now we're still together and we still don't have a child. Sa una umiiyak ako, every time my period comes. But my husband always comfort me by saying, it's in God's hands. Afterall, when he courted me until the time we got married, hindi nya daw inisip kung mag kakaanak kami. I was 33 then and he was 35. So don't think there will be no chance na hindi magiging masaya ang mag asawa, kung pinag kaiitan ng anak. Heart is righjt, it's just a bonus kung magkaroon. Let's just be positive for everyone. Peace to all.

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  36. It’s a cycle. Kelan kamagkaka jowa? Kelan kayo magpapakasal? Kelan kayo mag aanak? Kelan nyo susundan? These things, pinapakialaman ng tao. I dont mind being asked this if ka close kitA e.g parents. Old people comment like this kasi kasi sa panahon nila, that was expected of them. They don’t realize that this is a different generation with different struggles but that doesn’t make them necessarily/ instantly insensitive.

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  37. Ako nga sinabihan ng Tito ko old maid “Ikaw kelan ka mag aaswa wag ka gagaya sa akin Sige ka Ikaw Hinde mahihirapan ka na niyan makaanak Wala mag aalaga sayo pag tumanda ka”

    Sagot ko sa sobrang inis ko?

    “Sino ba nagsabi magiging katulad kita?”

    You know what? He got mad and nag sumbong pa sa Nanay ko. Hahahaha after that, Hinde na niya ako Tina tanung about my personal life .

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    1. Apir 11:51! Gusto ko yung resbak line mo๐Ÿ‘Asking for permission to use it ๐Ÿ˜„

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    2. Go ahead sis! Ang dami ko sinagot na kamag anak ng ganyan even my moms friends na masydo pakelemera. Promise! Nagagalit na nga Nanay ko sa akin haha. Sabi ko they choose the wrong person na diktihan nila ako dun. I even heard a cousin of mine talking about me being single Bakit wlaa ako asawa.. sagot ko.. I don’t settle for less not like you! I know it’s mean Pero ang mean niya sa akin e.

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    3. 2:00, naaalala ko sabi ng younger cousin, loser daw ako for choosing to be single. Akala niya kasi no choice kaya ako single. Syempre alangan naman kung sino ang bet kong guy kahit may red flag sasagutin ko? ๐Ÿคฆ‍♀️ Lagi niya pinapakita sa FB niya na binibigyan siya ng flowers. Tapos bigla siyang kinarma for calling me a loser. Nag cheat ang boyfriend niya! Kaya ayan, two years later after having lots of flings and many heartaches, first time ko magkaroon ng boyfriend na Facebook official and legal (kilala ng both families)at the age of 29. One year na kami and counting. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    4. 200 i always get that question din sa mga kamag-anak. Im 40 and still single. Walang boyfriend. Im praying for the one kung iggrant ni Lord pero kung ndi, okay lang. Blessed ako para magreklamo. As long as okay ang family ko, okay ako. Wag na kau makialam sa buhay ng iba. Kanya kanya tau ng blessing at kakulangan.

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    5. 2:00 Go girl! And wapakels! Rude magtanong ang mga chismosa, eh di rude din ang isagot diba ๐Ÿ˜„

      7:19 I'm 36 and single too. Better to be single na walang stress kesa in a relationship na di ka masaya at sakit sa ulo. I wish you all the best and enjoy life ๐Ÿ™‚

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  38. Just maybe hindi si heart ang problema. Baka kayong mga bashers ang may problema.

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  39. three words to those who have nothing better to say and do: GET A LIFE. :-)

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  40. Shhhh i have a secret classmates, i don’t like children. They are emotional gifts but economically a burden. Maingay, makulit, gagastusan mo pa minsan sasagutin ka pa. Walang katapusan. When children approach me, I don’t know what to do with them. Usually i give them barya or bill to go buy candy, away from me.

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  41. Gusto ko yun sagot nya, too blessed hence too shy to ask more from God, ang ganda nman.

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