Friday, August 2, 2019

Tweet Scoop: Paulo Avelino Reveals Failed Suicide Attempt Years Ago After Reflecting on Suicide of Close Friend

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81 comments:

  1. i dont know why but i just love him. kinikilig ako sa kanya..since Goyo! lol

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    1. Nagpapaawa bigla hahaha nang-LJ Reyes kasi siya

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    2. natumbok mo wag kaseng epal nanahimik na yung naagrabyado nia nakikisawsaw p kc dameng alam pabibo masyado

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    3. Nilihis nya isyu sa kanya .. pabibo then paawa haha

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    4. Grabe these people. Depression and suicidal tendencies are never to be taken lightly, porke mukhang pagpapaawa. Revealing something personal like that takes a lot of courage, and hindi lang for the sake of cleaning his name. Tapos. Uwi na kayo.

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    5. thank you goodbye!!!

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  2. Seems like he’s still suffering from depression and had attacks when he’s writing that down. He’s blaming himself pa for what happened to his friend, i think he needs to see a psychiatrist to actually help him cope up. Muka kasing hindi pa sya moved on.

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    1. Baka nga. Minsan mahirap din sa sitwasyon niya lalo na nag text pa ang friend niya. Yung sana nandun siya para pigilan ang gagawin ng friend niya pero hindi niya alam na seryoso na gagawin.

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    2. Meh, alam na nga niya na SELFISH SIYA! Puro Me! Me! Me! Ito yung mga taong umiikot sa kanila ang mundo!

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    3. Sana ang mga talent managagement should watch out hindi lang yung career ng talents nila kung hindi pati yung health nila. Dapat nga may mga psychiatrist na every year ay nagche-check sa kanila para malaman kung may suicidal thoughts ba sila.

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    4. 1:39 mahirap yan kasi medyo sensitive at personal topic ang mental health. Parang calling them out won't help kasi baka nahihiya sila.

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    5. Di lang psychiatrist maybe more on psychologist para more on mindfullness, meditation and not rely on meds.

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    6. Yong a few years back yun yong time na nagbreak cla ni LJ. Nagmoved kc sya sa ABS nawalan ng time cguro sa isat isa tapos intrigues.. tahimik kc sya hindi nmn tipong manloloko..

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  3. Kaya siguro supportive siya sa mga kaibigan niya.

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  4. I admire his courage to speak about what he went through and continue to go through. Mental health issues are no joke. I wish you well Paulo.

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  5. Awww.. Be strong, Pau. 🙏

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  6. Mahirap minsan makita na nagsa-suffer ang isang tao lalo na kung magaling syang magtago ng emotions.
    I am the breadwinner of my family, ako takbuhan ng mga kamaganak ko pag kulang sila financially. Kahit wala din ako, d ko din matiis na di magbigay kht paano. Kaya yung frustrations, pagod, at lungkot sinasarili ko na lang, isip ko kasi wala naman sila magagawa sarili ko lng aasahan ko.
    Kaso nalaman ko may cancer ako at dhil sa liit ng sweldo ko wala naman akong ipon, nahihirapan ako; di ko din gusto pa magpabigat sa kapatid ko, matanda na nanay ko, kaya minsan naiisip ko din mag-give up kesa madami pang madamay sa sitwasyon ko. Kaso ang daming tao ultimo di ko kakilala minsan nakasabay ko lng sa hospital magpacheckup nagbibigay ng encouragement at ssabihin na pagpe-pray nya ako. Parang ang daming instrumentong pinadala skin para magpatuloy ako kaya hanggat me chance na binibigay skin si God na mabuhay lalaban ako. Para sa pamilya ko, para sa mga taong naniniwala sakin, at higit sa lahat para sa sarili ko.
    Kaya Sa mga may pinagdadaan dyan, kaya natin to. Laban lang tayo, ok lang malungkot, ok lng umiyak, pro wag tayo susuko. Naniniwala ako na dadating ang araw pagtatawanan na lng natin mga paghihirap natin sa ngayon. Sa mga wala naman problem jan, don’t forget to be thankful. Prayers goes out to all of you.

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    1. Bawal isa sa atin May pinagdadaanan. Salamat sa ini share mo. We look for many things to distract us, till we find the real deal, the Infinite One, who is greater than our ordeals. Praying for u......

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    2. Watch the skit guys in YouTube, serenity prayer. Sana makatulong sa mga May pinagdaraanan. salamat po.

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    3. 12:53 am God bless you!

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    4. I hope mag heal ka God Bless you

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    5. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you get better soon!

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    6. Praying for your healing. And for all other needs you wish for. Be strong.

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    7. Prayers for you 😀. Ako din naman gusto ko lang sana sa pagtulog ko di na ako magigising. 😊 Di ko rin kaya magsuiside same sayo hindi man tayo pareho ng pinagdadaanan.

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    8. I’m praying for you. Keep the fairh and keep going on with your life. May God always be with you.

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    9. You made me cry. Thanks for sharing your story. You are an inspiration. God bless praying for you.

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    10. Pareho tayo, takbuhan din ako ng pamilya ko. Hanggang nagka cancer ako. Nagka utang utang, pero nalagpasan din lahat. Prayers and my loved ones gave me strength and motivation to fight. 10 years na ko cancer free and recently Lang debt free na rin. You are a good person. Just said a prayer to you. Virtual hugs to you.

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    11. Isasama kita sa mga dasal ko, friend.

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    12. 12:53 i’ll include u in my prayers. May Jesus heal you. God bless you!

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    13. Prayers for u too. Hope u will survive this.

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    14. Hugs.. I'll pray for you too 12:53.Thank you for sharing your story, you inspired me somehow to keep fighting. God bless us

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    15. hugs ang my prayers for you.

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    16. Totoo yan be strong with every problems you encounter. PRAY unceasingly..
      minsan kc yong solusyon sa problema ipinapakita na sa atin, pinaparamdam,kaso yong gusto natin solusyon,yun gusto natin mangyari kaya napo frustrate tayo..

      may reason lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay natin, madalas di natin makikita agad yong koneksyon, pero kung pagtutugmain ang mga pangyayari, doon pa lang natin marerealize.

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    17. been battling depression ever since may namatay na sobra-sobrang mahal ko sa buhay. you inspire me to keep the light and fight this illness. pagppray ko na sana gumaling ka! god bless you..

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  7. Ewan ko bat daming may ayaw kay Paulo dito. I’ve been following him sa mga private accounts nya like for the game one and his socmed and muka namang he’s nice and not pa-showbiz person. He is also intelligent!

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    1. Madaming gusto si Paulo. Totoong tao siya.

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    2. Daming may ayaw sakanya kesyo pa smart pa deep daw

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    3. gusto kasi ng mga tao yung ngpapacute lage.

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    4. 2:35 Sanay kasi ang mga utaw na nagsasabi nyan sa jejemon at kababawan. Smart shaming masyado

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    5. But he is not a responsible father

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    6. 10.29 am stop judging... you do not know whole story

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  8. I think it was 2013 nang magkaroon ng rumor na nag-attempt siya mag suicide. A year after he and LJ separated. Maybe his camp denied it kasi mas malala pa ang stigma sa mental illness noon. I hope he can talk to a professional para ma-address nang maayos ang concerns at matulungan siya mag-cope.

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    1. Nahirapan din pala siya sa pag break nila ni LJ. Akala lang siguro ng mga tao basta iniwan ang mag ina na walang paki.

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  9. Actually, you watch out for that supportive friend, that confidante friend who's always available for you when you have troubles. They are the friends who will not tell you their own problems because they're listening and attending to your woes. They are busy being shock absorbers that they have no time to heal themselves.

    Be kind, and be a little aware if you're finding yourself seeking out the same person again and again for your issues. That person might be already getting overwhelmed with his own problems, and with the sadness he feels for you when he's there for you. If that friend is an empathe, he/she will feel the same or more sorrow than you do, and what he/she feels lingers longer than you can imagine.

    Ask them, once in a while, if they are alright. Do not call on them only when you are out of sorts. Please share with them happy thoughts and news, and ask how they are doing. Be that friend if ever they tell you what hurts or bothers them. Because when they do open up to you, it sometimes means they are unable to find that light anymore that you see from them. Give them back some sense of positivity and support. They don't really require much, usually they only need some sounding board or some guidance and insights, and then they are good again. Just, don't overwhelm them too much, that they might find you a toxic, depression-inducing friend. Instead, be that wonderful friend when they need a friend.

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    1. To be honest, i feel like I'm that type of friend. If I sense that someone is having problems I make it a point to reach out. Kaya lang, recently, when i experience a very bad situation I feel like I'm alone. I tried to reach out to a very selected few but I feel like walang may time or what. It makes it harder.

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    2. This. Thank you for this.

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    3. 4:23 Hugs, hun. Sometimes, there's no choice but to bear it alone. We do wish we have friends that can give us time when we actually need them, just as we do for them, but life, or some other things, get in the way. It's not that we are depending on someone to feel better, but sometimes, the sounding board also needs a sounding board. 🙁

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    4. I am that one friend, their confidante, the trusted one na pagsabihan ng problema. Pero hindi ako nakakapagsabi sa kanila ng problema ko. May pinagdaanan ako 4yrs ago, none of my personal friends ang nakaalam. Only 3 online frienda knew about that.

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    5. 4:23 SELFISH NGA KASI MGA TAO. ME! ME! ME!. Puro mga problema nila ang hinihinga sa iba pero hindi naman nila pinakikinggan yung mga paghinga ng iba!

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    6. Thank you, 2:14.

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    7. 5:24 yes, ganyan yung pakiramdam ko ngayon. Medyo masakit.

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  10. You have to forgive yourself.It’s not easy what he is going through.Praying for you...

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    1. This part is the hardest for me - self forgiveness. Andami kong regrets na dala dala everyday

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    2. I’ve lost a dear friend too. He did not committed suicide but he died of other cause. I was full of regrets too. On his last months, I tried to ignore him dahil nagtatampo ako for petty reasons. After a few months, I found out that he was in the hospital and in critical condition. I was able to visit him ate the hospital but he’s already unconscious. I hated myself. I still hate myself. I wish it was me who died. I hated those people na narerealize lang yung worth ng mga tao pag wala na and turns out na ganun din pala ako. I wish I can go back and change everything. There are nights na hindi ako makatulog kasi gusto ko na mamatay. He was always the nicest, sweetest and clingiest to me.

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  11. Drama effect of a deadbeat dad

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    1. You are a horrible person

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    2. Huuu mani wala ka jan.paepek Lang nya yan.being a responsible dad ang unahin mo.dami drama!

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    3. At sino nagsabi na deadbeat dad siya? As per lj and contis may sustento siya at dumadalaw sa bata

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    4. 131 i just cried beciz i lost a very good friend last monday. pls naman be considerate.

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    5. Sana hindi dumami kagaya mo mag isip 1:31

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    6. bakit kasama ka ba nya para masabi mong deadbeat dad sya?kailangan pa ba nyang iparating sa tao na nagsusustento sya sa anak nya

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  12. Ansakit. Naramdaman ko pain nya dto 😭

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  13. Lost my bestfriend to suicide years ago. You try to move forward, but you never really get over it.

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  14. This is true. My workmate before saw him personally kasi duon sa show nila dati ni Maja, yung bahay na pinag shoshootingan duon sila nag shoot. Paulo as per my former workmate was so quiet. He has his own world daw talaga at parang hirap pangitiin.

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  15. minsan naisip ko na kahit paano maswerte ako na kahit hindi ako nabiyayaan ng magandang muka, magandang trabaho at di poblema ang pera eh diko napapagdaanan ang depression. di kc yata uso ang depression sa mga batang laki sa slums of Tondo.

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    1. Depression can hit anyone. Laki din kaming magpipinsan sa Tondo. May kaibigan ako (kapitbahah namin sa Tondo) na may depression and nagkakapanic attacks pag hindi nakakainom ng gamot.

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    2. Baka lang kc naging immune na cla sa buhay sa Tondo parang ordinaryo na lang yong problem..
      Mas okay to live a simple life pero okay din na mangarap din tayo para sa atin sa mga anak natin..

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    3. Depression is an illness. Walang social status pinipili. It’s not like some people are used to hardships kaya they do not get into depression easily. Be thankful you do not have that chemical imbalance which makes other people prone to it.

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  16. maraming beses na ko nag attempt mag suicide simula bata ako. siguro mga grade 4. may times na iniinom ko lahat ng vitamins o kaya lahat ng paracetamol pero nagsusuka lang ako at nagigising pa. Lagi kong tanong, baket ako nagigising pa? eh ayoko na talaga. Then came high school, walang attempts pero may thoughts and idea on how to die. I hated school, i dont like my classmates pero i tried my best to be friendly and to fit in. Siguro kung malaman nila kung ano man pinagdaanan ko hindi sila maninila. I always put another masks,it's like there is another person na humaharap sakanila. Kumuha ako ng psychology para sana maintindihan ko sarili ko, nung college i found true and real friends. I found ways to cope and i've been better. Until i gave birth to my son. I attempted to hang myself, but my son saw me. And I realized kapag tinuloy ko yun, sya ang unang makakakita sa dead body ko. Ma trauma sya and posible na pagdaanan nya rin pinagdadaanan ko or maybe worst pa. I've been battling with mental illness for 17 years. They say it's a lifetime battle and no one's really fully healed. But now i have more reasons to fight. I hoped when I am on edge, new reasons will be added and light will consumed me.

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    1. Prayers for you 12:08

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    2. Laban lang, girl. It's not gonna be an easy journey but surround yourself with your loved ones. Pwede ka ring mag-vent out here, kaming mga ka-FP, laging andito, makikinig rin kahit most of the times, miron lang. Hugs!

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    3. Fight, fight, fight! God bless your soul.

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    4. 12:08 Be strong for yourself and be strong for your son..ganon din aq minsan mabilis pumasok sa isip q to end my life pero nagagawa q idivert especially pag naiisip q mga anak q.baka magaya nila pag iisip q at paano cla pag nawala aq.
      Magdasal ka at itry mo makipag usap sa mga tao na masayahin at positibo pananaw sa buhay kc kung ang kasama mo ay loner din or puro problema din cnasabi di makkatulong sa u..
      Try your best na daigin yong negative na naiisip mo. Surrender it to God. Believe that everything will be okay and it will be okay..

      I will pray for you and also those who are going thru depression. Pag daw marami magpray for you,mabilis madinig ang dasal. But we should also help ourselves..God bless.

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  17. Sos laos na kasi kaya gumaganun

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  18. Para nawala Ang pansin Ng mga tao sa tweet Niya about ghosting Kaya ni-reveal Niya Ito...

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  19. I've always had the feeling that he's a quiet, reserved and melancholic person. These types of people make genuine friends but can be difficult to be in a relationship with. Kelangan mo sila bigyan ng space at alone time, you have to understand their broodiness and moodiness while they sort themselves out. Not a lot of women can put up with that.

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  20. Lets not assume that his a ghosting father just bcause he doesnt post pic of him and his son. Remember that he still sends money and visits his son. Mismong nanay na nagsabi. Eh si contis ba good father?

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