Monday, August 5, 2019

Major Goal

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Winning the heart of Beloved Daughter (BD) was the easiest part for Patient Partner (PP). Perhaps, he knew what he was getting into, as the succeeding steps in their relationship were continuous tests in their relationship. Like years ago, winning a woman meant gaining her family’s favor as well. In PP’s case, he’s been trying his best.

Recently, BD asked Her Elders (HE) if PP could finally propose to her, as their relationship have been long in terms of showbiz standards. Besides, they have been through so much and the only stumbling block is the approval of HE. HE has strict instructions on not having surprise proposals coming from PP, hence, BD had to seek permission.

During their talk, HE asked BD if she is really ready to settle down. BD said that even if PP proposes, they will only have the wedding after they have finished all their commitments. While BD thought HE would have a change of heart, she was left in limbo. HE set the major goal before giving any blessing. Basically, all properties and bank accounts will be transferred to their names. HE was afraid that everything BD owned would become conjugal property once BD gets married. Although PP comes from a well-off family, he has many siblings with whom he will share whatever family wealth they have.

HE has become doubtful if PP could give the life BD deserves, as his career and business ventures have yet to really become lucrative, His absence and reemergence in the industry resulted in bashing and negativity. Subsequently, the effect might hit his career.

As for a prenup, HE does not want anything that would give the press and the public something to feast on. Instead of having a prenup, HE thought it best to have all BD’s assets turned over to them. What HE was thinking of was the eventuality the couple would breakup after marriage, and PP would end up getting more than he deserves. Hence, HE has another hidden agenda behind the non-prenup. The simple aim is to ensure that whatever PP has, BD will get a slice as well. PP, of course, gets not as much as all BD's assets will already be with HE if they agree to the set conditions. 

“A good intention, with a bad approach, often leads to a poor result.” ― Thomas Edison

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112 comments:

  1. Grabe tong HE!!!!!!! Nakakainit ng ulo!!!

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    1. Bakit? It’s normal to worry about your child kase wala naman makakapagsabi talaga ng future. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to play it safe. Ang dami na nabiktima ng ganyan nahiya mag pa sign ng prenup tapos ayun problema kapag nag hiwalay. Not just here but also abroad.

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    2. Sobra na syang selfish. Msyado na syang gahaman. Sarili na lang nya iniisip nya

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    3. 1:23 kumulo ang dugo ko kay HE, talagang milking cow sa kanya si BD

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    4. Grabeng kaplastikan naman yan, HE! Kairita! Just let them do a prenup and be over it. Everyone does it, it's ok. Just leave most, if not all assets to BD, she did work for them after all! Kailangan talaga ipangalan sa HE?!

      Pwede bang yung marriage ang i-focus at hindi yung getaway divorce/annulment procedures?!

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    5. 1:27 binasa mo ba yung BI? Ayaw nga ng prenup! Gusto ilipat lahat ng properties and assets kay HE!

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    6. 1.27 naintindihan mo ba binasa mo..Ayaw nya ng prenup para yung assets n properties ni M e kahati si S pero si S itatransfer assets and properties nya sa HE nya para di maging conjugal properties

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    7. 1:27 - She is not being worried about the future. She is just selfish and greedy. BD is waaaay past the age of consent. Nothing is guaranteed, we all have to close our eyes and hope for the best.

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    8. Nung Una Kong nabasa, naisip ko kukunin niya lahat pinaghirapan ni BD. Nung nag back read ako, to protect her pala. Men oa na pero naiintidihan ko.

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    9. Ok lang yun ganitong kondisyon kaso this will create conflict between siblings naman pag namatay ang HE. BD can agree to this only if HE is also willing to leave a will and testament na lahat ng properties ni BD sa kanya lang din mapupunta pag nawala na HE. BD has always been generous to her siblings pero she should not share her entire lifetime savings, it's about time na magbanat sila ng buto.

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    10. 3:05 ako rin, for whatever reason, wala rin ako tiwala kay PP. ako lang naman ito.

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    11. You do understand na pag nilipat nya, even BD has no right sa pinaghirapan nya di ba? HE can do whatever she wants sa properties and pera and BD will not have a say.

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    12. Sana, for once, mag-stood up si BD kay HE. Let them she is already capable to taking decision and accountability of her own life. Hard work and effort nia ung ininvest nia para kumita nang malaki. Nakakaawa naman si BD. Hayyss

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    13. 1:27 itransfer lahat ng properties ni BD sa kanila? Ok ka lang? So magsisimula yung dalawa with zero balance tapos HE milyones ang nasa bangko and living the diva loca?

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    14. Ayaw ng pRenup Dahil: 1) in case of dissolution of marriage, HE will get nothing, 2) Walang makukuha si HE sa wealth ni PP, which is old money. Ayaw din ni HE yan. Which brings out true colours of HE. BD is the goose that lays the golden eggs, more than their own flesh and blood. Andami nang binigay sa kanila di pa rin Nakuntento. BD: get a lawyer and protect your self from vultures. You are of age. Kung ano man ang naitulong mo sa kanil, it’s about time na tumayo sila sa sarili nilang mga paa. Sign a prenup.marami pang projects ang darating sa yo. PP: prenup will protect yourself as well.

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    15. There are better ways of protecting BD. Prenup is one. Family corporation is another. Putting all assets under HE's name is plain greedy. Tagal nang nagtatrabaho ni BD for them, di pa rin makatayo sa sariling paa si HE and company?! Pwede ba, get a job!

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  2. BD - S
    PP - M
    Pak!

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    1. Prenuptial na lang. Better. Kakatakot si HE. Greedy siya. Di naman siya concern kay BD. Never has.

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  3. Oa ka na HE! Tanda na ni BD eh. Pakawalan mo na yan

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  4. Sobra na si HE. Sobraaa

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  5. Greedy HE, BD earned it, she’s been working her ass off and you HE still can’t give what’s rightfully hers BD. The issue with HE is always money.

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  6. Iba talaga tong HE ni BD. Gahaman sa pera talaga.

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  7. Kapal muks talaga grabe ni HE!! Nakakagigil!!

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  8. Eh hindi naman sila ganun kayaman from the beginning, kung hindi nag showbiz is BD malamang ganun pa rin status nila. Wag ganyan HE, wag mo ipagkait ang para kay BD. Lilipas ang kasikatan nya, narating na ni BD ang peak ng career nya kaya HE wag kang gahaman. Tsk!

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    1. Baka kaya protective din. Kase nga hindi sila mayaman and kumayod ng todo si BD for all those things. Medyo delikado talaga kung mapupunta ang half sa lalaki. Not that I’m saying hindi trustworthy si PP. Hindi trustworthy ang mga lalaki in general because they can do things without your knowledge (e.g. have illegitimate kids) which will have a huge impact in terms of legalities of possessions. Remember, ang babae kapag nagloko you can physically tell (nabubuntis). Ang lalaki, surprise!!! Biglang ang dami na pala ka share ng properties n’yo.

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    2. Prenup protects each person’s property prior to marriage and follows whatever are the stipulations therein, only involving the partners. Which means protected si BD. Yun ang ayaw ni HE, wala silang makukuha once she gets married or separated. Toxic yang si HE.

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    3. Dapat naman talaga may prenup pero hindi yung lahat ng assets mapunta kay HE na kung tutuusin dapat may sarilingbipon or mga trabaho hindi inasa lang kay BD

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    4. 1:56 iba ang protective sa gahaman, Basahin mo ulit yung BI, ayaw nila ng pre nup kasi gusto nila may hati pa rin si babae sa assets ni lalaki, pero yun assets ni babae ipapangalan nila sa kanila para walang hati si lalake, Fair ba yan sa pananaw mo?

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    5. May prenup para dyan! So ano, mas "safe" ilagay sa pangalan ni HE?! Kesa prenup?! Seriously, it's not bad ptess to have a prenup. Given how greedy HE and company are, you think the other potential heirs will just give all these back to BD in the event of HE's death?! Uh-huh... kwento mo yan sa pagong, HE!

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    6. 1:56 ung gusto ng pre-nup pagiging protective iyon talaga. pero si HE ayaw ng pre-nup, ang gusto eh ilipat lahat ng property ni BD sa kanya para may habol si BD sa yaman ni PP pero si PP walang habol sa yaman ni PP. simple pre-nup will suffice pero ung ililipat sa name ni HE lahat eh hindi for protection ni BD un. for protection ni HE un. kklk!0

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  9. Kung malipat sa names nila, maibalik pa kaya kay BD kung mag split sina BD af PP? Or parang mamalimos si BD kasi wala syang sariling anda?

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    1. I was thinking of the same thing while reading the BI. Kung maghiwalay man sila, I have very serious doubts kung ibabalik ni HE yung pinaghirapan ni BD.

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    2. Kaya BD, get your OWN lawyer, not just HE’s lawyers. Wag Na wag kang pipirma at papayag without consultation, in a one sided transaction.

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    3. Hindi ba ang paghahatian lang ay yung naipundar nila from the start of their marriage? Hindi kasama yung naipundar ng bawat isa b4 the marriage.

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    4. Same question

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    5. Maibabalik ba? depende, may iba pang legal na tigapagmana si HE eh!

      Mamamalimos ba? hopefully not, may ibang projects at work pa naman siguro si BD even after marriage. Pero baka manlimos si BD na ibalik ang assets sa kanya if push comes to shove.

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    6. ka BD parin naman mapupunta yun eventually kapag mamamatay na si HE. mejo gets ko naman yung paranoia ni HE. cguro wag nalang lahat.. i-transfer nlang ni BD to HE para equal na ang net worth ng dalawa.

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  10. Tsk! That's so disturbingly selfish. Though they want to protect the assets of BD, HE should consult a good lawyer. Besides, BD got siblings too? If HE passes on the siblings will have rights over assets turned over by BD. That won't be really fair.

    What they can do is to put her assets in a trust fund, such that it would be handed over to the future children of BD.

    Or change stance on prenup, never mind if there will be nasty talk about it. It is a necessity nowadays anyway.

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    1. I couldn't agree more. Sa trust fund nalang and prenup if ang worry ni HE na baka matulad kay J at K ang ending pag di mag work out. Pero knowing PP well mannered yan.

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    2. Mag prenup na talaga if the goal is to protect the girl's assets.

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    3. Agree on those options. Knowing din ang siblings ni BD? Nakow, piyesta. At least with a trust fund and prenup, BD is free to specify her terms. Wala namang taboo sa prenup especially if you're a celebrity.

      In fairness naman to PP, sila ang TUNAY na mayaman, I wonder if HE is worried about things like this.

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  11. mautak ang pamilya..... ayaw na maiisahan...

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  12. napakagahaman! napakatindi!

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    1. mismo! napakamakasarili. buong buhay na ngtatrabaho c BD wla plang properties na nkapangalan sa kanya?

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  13. Kapal ng elders di pa kayo masaya binuhay kayo ng masagana ni bd mag banat naman kayo ng buto.

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    1. Naku bes, hindi mangyayari yan hanggang there’s milk sa cow. 😂

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  14. Pinag hirapan ni BD yan, jusko HE bigyan mo ng freedom si BD. Natatakot ka lang bumalik sa dating lifestyle kaya ka ganyan.

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  15. Bitter sweet!! At last they gave their permission, however, they want to keep all her hard work. God Bless BD!!

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  16. uhm helloooo there's such a thing as prenuptial agreement

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    1. Ayaw nga ni HE baks.

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    2. Ayaw nga, kasi gusto nila may hati pa rin anak nila sa assets ng mapapang-asawa.

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  17. I’d say it’s safer na prenup nalang. If it’s transferred to them kase, in case anything happens to them, that’ll become their estate and hindi naman only child si BD and mahirap na baka pag awayan pa within siblings. There’s nothing wrong with having a prenup. Dapat encourage na yan sa mga tao for protection of both parties.

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    1. Yes. Wala talaga masama sa prenup actually ineencourage na nga ito ngayon before getting marriage esp sa mga bunso na babae Tapos most of the properties of ur parents goes to the bunso. Dapat May prenup talaga !

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    2. kya nga ayaw nla ng prenup gusto nla manatili parin sa family nla ang properties. whatever happen to them pati yung ibang anak may makukuha unlike kng ilipat kay BD.

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    3. Agree 145. Understandable yan na maging maingat ang HE, after all pinaghirapan naman talaga ni BD yun. In case lang naman di maging maganda ang relasyon nung lovebirds in the future, at least protected si BD. However, prenuptial agreement is the best option cguro not the transfer of everything to their names.

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    4. kung gusto lang proteksyunan ang pinaghirapan ni BD, prenup na lang. Ang kaso, gahaman nga sa pera ayaw ng prenup para may makuha si BD kay PP pag nagkataon. pero si PP wala.

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    5. Sana nga maging batas ang prenup na ito for those who have assets that are 10million above.

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    6. Prenup! BD's assets should stay with her and her future children! Kalokang HE to!

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    7. 2:02 pinagsasasabi mo? hindi nagiging conjugal property ang mga namamana after marriage. kklk!

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  18. Ay grabe naman ata kung lahat... back to zero si BD kung ganun... kawawa rin kasi sya naman naghirap at kumayod para dun... pero wais si HE kaya go lang kung saan masaya...

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  19. ganun ba kaliit ang makukuhang share ni PP? Para mag panic si HE or natatakot na mawalan ng access sa bank account at properties ni BD? At goodbye sa life style of the rich? What ever ang reason mo HE, hindi makatarungan.

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  20. That's the smart thing to do. Nag-iisa lng si BD kaya pag na tsugi ang HE, kay BD lang din mapupunta lahat. But ofcourse desisyon pa rin ni BD ang dapat mangyari.

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    1. Pre nup na lang talaga and a will.

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    2. Smart or selfish? How sure kay BD mapupunta?

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  21. I’m so sorry to say this but if BD agrees to HE’s terms then it’s entirely her fault. First, she’s already an adult that can think straight and decide. Second, she worked hard to have a better life, not just for her but the whole family so wala na sakanya ang “utang na loob”. Third, it’s her friggin’ life!

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    1. Manikang de susi din BD Kaya huwag na umasa lels

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  22. I wonder kung anong kinakatakot ni BD kay HE? Ang tanda na nya eh.

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    1. Sunod sunuran lang siya talaga. Wala sariling desisyon at pagiisip.

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    2. Agree. This is already her fault for making HE go too far.

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  23. Kya nga May prenup diba? Pati yun Ayaw niya ? Yun na nga pinaka safetest way e if ever mag hiwalay sila.

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  24. Worse comes to worse, it’s still better to lose all your possessions to your own flesh and blood than risk having strangers take half of them in case your husband decides to spawn kids outside of your marriage in the future. Better safe than sorry. Do a prenup, there’s nothing wrong with that.

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  25. Smart move by HE to protect BD’s assets. They can always write a living will so that all $ and properties are willed to BD in case inevitable happen.

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    1. asa pa na ibabalik nila ke BD pag may mangyari sa kanila.

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    2. Nope. To BD’s children, not HE

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    3. 2:00am, if the assets of BD transfers to HE, wala ng habol si BD. HE can do what they want with it once the assets are transferred to them. HE can sell or transfer the assets to BD’s other siblings. No legal recourse si BD if that happens. Best thing to do is create a trust for BD’s assets. PP won’t be able to touch it incase they separate & BD will still have access to her earnings.

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  26. Prenup Na Lang . Ok na sana to protect BD but why under their name. Kapal.

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  27. Prenup parin is the only answer but BD should get herself her own lawyer wag na pansinin HE nya. Para lahat ng kinikita niya, properties it’s all hers parin kahit May asawa na siya. Basta pre nup is the only way!

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  28. Kaya ayaw ng prenup ni HE is because mayaman din naman si PP, grabe na 'to!

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  29. Ok na yan, pumayag nalang sya, pede na yan. Dami pa namang projects eh. Para lang makawala na. Kawawa naman si BD. Go BD, payag na girl!

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  30. Prenup na lang na everything earned before the marriage will not be conjugal property para fair. Si HE style bulok. Nakahanap ng Paraan na kamkamin yun lahat ng pinaghirapan ni BD

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    1. I totally agree! Gusto talaga makuha ni HE lahat ng kinita ni BD. Sana magconsult ng lawyer si BD para mabigyan sya right legal advise. Sana matuto ns si BD tumayo da sariling paa.

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    2. Nako pati nga meron si PP gusto din niya. Kaya ayaw prenup

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    3. tama ka baks! juice colored! sinu ba namang T ang papayag na ilipat lahat ng kayamanan sa name ng iba para lang masecure kuno ang future if ever na maghiwalay? eh lalo lang nahawakan sa leeg ni HE si BD if ilipat sa kanila ang lahat ng property.

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  31. HE matapobre! And the irony! 😂

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    1. Ang pobre naging matapobre! Lol!

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  32. Wala naman assurance na kay BD maibabalik yan. Let's face it. Money is the root of all evil. Kahit pamilya pa yan.

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  33. He does not want to protect BD, she ultimately wants protect BD's siblings. And to me thats also unfair to BD.

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  34. Paki investigate kung lahat ng properties galing sa kita ni BD ay na kaninong pangalan. Iniisip kung nasa pangalan ni HE!

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  35. Ayaw paawat ni HE pinahihirapan talaga si BD pati bank accounts kaloka. Okay na sana yong assets kasi nga "protective" pero the bank accounts????? I doubt naman na wala pang sariling bank account yang si HE bakit pati bank accounts ni BD need pa ilipat sa kanya eh hindi naman siya ang naghirap nyan.

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  36. Sa huli, walang kasalang magaganap

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  37. Come on people, eh ano kung may pera pamilya ni PP? User pa rin sya at nakikiride on sa career ni BD. Tama lang na may worries pa rin si HE regarding PP.

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  38. Naku walang kasalan to. Daming excuses. Kung gusto noon pa. Sure ba gusto ni girl magpakasal kay boy?

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  39. HE sobrang malala naman ang pagkagahaman. Pinaghirapan ni BD un di man lang sya makinabang ng konti?

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  40. Not updated with Philippine laws, estate planning, etc anymore. But here in the U.S, what only becomes conjugal is what the couple built, established, or created during the marriage. Hence, what BD earned as a single woman (before the marriage) is hers only, and same with PP, his only, including inheritance he may get from his family. These can be clearly documented and still remain under their respective names, no need to transfer to HE. But since BD is known to be an obedient daughter ever since, she may succumb to the parents’s wishes, before they give blessings to get married. A prenup is ideal, and perhaps PP should initiate it just to prove to HE that he is in good faith. HE should also bear in mind, their daughter is not entitled to inheritance of PP, rather she is only entitled to whatever they accumulate as a married couple throughout the duration. They should consult a lawyer to clarify all these before marrying to allay fears of HE.

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  41. Ayaw nga nya ng prenup kasi makikihati din sya sa yaman ni M.hahaha

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  42. Selfish! Gusto itransfer assets ni BD sa kanila tapos Ayaw ng pre nup kasi pag piye-pyestahan daw .. pero ang talagang hidden agenda ay kung walang prenup at maghiwalay ang dalawa BD will get part of what PP has .. and PP will end up with nothing kasi nga naitransfer na assets ni BD kina HE!

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  43. Lol its more like HE wants all na meron si BD (S). ililipat tapos lalong hahawakan sa leeg si S kasi nga hawak nila lahat ng yaman. kklk! dami na din namang datung na nakuha sila HE pero bakit parang ayaw pa din mawalan? hindi ba marunong maginvest ang mga yan at lahat ng napasok puro galing kay S? cant they stand on their own na given na foe sure eh malaki na din naibigay ni S kanila?

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  44. Ano na mag pre nup nalang.... ang totoong mayaman lang ang talagang will insist on this. Be smart. Its your money your rules

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  45. Uy HE hindi sayo pera yan. Pera yan ni BD. Mahiya ka naman.

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  46. kakapal ng mga mukha. di magbanat ng buto

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  47. This is HE being afraid that once BD marries, she will settle down, not be able to secure as much projects thus drastically cutting the money they're getting, or worse, probably elope with PP to another country. Getting all her money is HE's collateral for BD to not leave her family and continue on becoming their cash cow.

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  48. Prenuptial agreement lang dapat. No need ng ilipat names ng properties ni BD.

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  49. Ang di ko maintindihan sa ibang tao, bakit ba parang sure na sure silang maghihiwalay sila if ever man ikasal yung dalawa? Pwede bang iwish na lang natin kung mung matuloy sa simbahan yung dalawa eh sana pang habang buhay na yung love nila just like any other couple na ikinakasal?

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  50. Prenup will protect the girl and her assets also dapat hindi ilipat sa HE ang lahat ng assets dahil papano pag nagkaanak na si girl at mapapangasawa nito? Dapat sa mga bata malilipat ang assets.

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