Monday, August 12, 2019

Confessing Love’s End

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In a private meeting with Trusted Elder (TE), Honest Man (HM) could only say nothing but the reality that has brought him to the doorsteps of TE. Over the years, when HM was growing up, TE was there for him to guide him through choices professionally and remind him about his personal life. However, HM was stubborn and the point came when he only listened to himself and every advice TE gave was rejected.

Circumstances, however, change. HM was probably too overconfident that his life would be happier if he followed his heart. Unfortunately, that was not the case, as HM forgot something very important and that was himself.

The love that HM thought would be enough was not as simple as he thought it to be. Love Interest (LI) was not what HM thought to be. If HM thought that he would be able to control LI or that LI would accept him a hundred percent, he was very wrong. LI remained independent-minded and HM forgot that LI had an entire clan behind her.

At the beginning, the clan welcomed HM because LI showed him love. However, HM pushed his limits and instead of developing camaraderie with the clan, he opted to be himself. He was aloof and indifferent toward the clan. As the clan was geared toward the conservative side, his behavior was not acceptable. His physical looks, which evolved through time, was thumbed down. The clan was uncomfortable with his style and thus, they stayed away from him. Invitations to family gatherings became lesser, as they do not want to have anything to do with him, as sometimes he comes over looking like he has yet to have a bath.

His habits have taken over his hygiene as well. He allegedly would smell of smoke and alcohol, to the point that he was not allowed to touch or carry his child. This issue soon became a major one for HM and LI. Fights ensued and soon, HM had allegedly physically hurt LI. Any man who hits a woman regardless of the reason is bad news. Subsequently, HM was asked to leave their home. LI went through the motions of having a medical certificate and preliminary legal remedies to make sure HM cannot just barge in their home to see her.

When HM ended his story, TE could have said, ‘I knew that would happen.’ He did not. Instead, he advised HM to seek professional help to ensure that he would have better insights on the way he has been conducting his life.

‘A confession has to be part of your new life.’ – Ludwig Wittgenstein

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80 comments:

  1. HM should learn that everything isn't the same anymore. He has a child already and he has to be a good role model.

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  2. Hindi na nagmature si HM.

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  3. Li- E
    HM -J
    TE- J
    Saklap naman nito.

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  4. Kawawa naman si girl

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    1. Buti na lang independent at matatag sya kung iba yan hugot agad sa socmed ha ha

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    2. Walang masama humugot sa soc med. We deal pain differently. Whats not acceptable to you might be for others. How people vent out is non of your business

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    3. weh it's everyone's business once you put it on social media shunga

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  5. HM - J
    LI - E
    TE - Row 4 ako mga memsh! Copy na lang ako ng sagot dito ...

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  6. HM - J, LI - E, not sure who TE is.

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  7. HM - J
    TE - M
    LI - E

    I somehow know this story since the brother of LI is good friend of my barkada

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    1. Yeah I know the story too. Cause the cousin of LI is the wife of the good friend of my neighbor’s daughter’s classmate.

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    2. Who is trusted elder? From the side of E or J ?

      Clues pls !

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    3. @1:46 Who is TE??..More clues please..

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    4. 2:09 I think it's M

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    5. O sige, siino si TE?

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    6. 2:04 tf so related yun lahat ng sinabi mo sa mismong neighbor mo hindi ikaw nakikichismis ka lang 😂😂😂

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    7. Grabe hahahahaha @2:04

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    8. 2:04 kulang pa yan! Dapat 7 degrees of separation. Pero infer, natawa ako. Super witty!

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  8. This is J and his mentor.

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  9. J,E
    Hay nako ayan na nga ba J tinapon mo lahat e

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  10. TE - M
    HM - J
    LI - E

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  11. J E M
    Tama ang advise ni TE kasi it seems like HM is going through sonething psychological that only a professional in the field can help him. His vices might be the effect of his condition rather than it being the cause.

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    1. Professional help is not going to magically 'cure' anything unless HM is determine to fight his condition himself. One at a time.

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    2. 100 percent agree, hindi immaturity ang sakit sa utak, it's a disease that's need to be treated professionally, yung mga artist talaga sobrang prone sa depression, bipolar etc... Let's hope him the best, I will still watch his movies

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    3. I know the symptoms. Negative schizophrenia:( red flag na agad yun pagpapabaya sa hygiene:( he needs psych help and medication:(

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  12. TE - J HM - J LI - E

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  13. TE - M
    HM - J
    LI - E

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  14. HM - J
    LI - E
    TE - JM

    Hula lang.hehe

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  15. Ang sakit neto sa puso at sa pride.... sayang na sayang :(

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  16. TE- M
    HM- J
    LI- E
    Easy peasy!

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  17. E and J. Never hurt a woman especially E who accepted you whole-hearterdly!

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    1. 1:51 agree, E has sacrificed a lot but J won't realise that bc he's always protected by you know who.

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    2. True. Pero in the beginning naman, it was E who sort of encouraged yung kabaliwan ni J. Maybe it went too far and that the fun is over.

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    3. 1:15 nah don't blame her for his problems, he had them way before she met him. She like many of his exes gave him a chance but he keeps falling off the wagon.

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  18. Hm - j
    Li - e
    Te - j

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  19. LI - E HM- J. Naku HM kailangan mo na talaga ng tulong para ipagamot ang pagka-alcohoic mo.

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    1. Hindi sya titigil hanggat may palaging sasalo sa kanya

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  20. TE - M?
    HM - J
    LI - E

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  21. HM needs professional help. Sayang talaga siya.

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  22. And now the end is near....

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  23. HM - J
    LI - E
    TE - J

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  24. HM - J
    LI - E
    TE - ? Di ko ito kilala

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  25. HM - J
    LI - E

    Bakit kasi kelangan niya kontrolin si girl? At saka bakit ayaw niyang maligo? Mukhang ermitanyong lasing palagi

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    1. Because he's hitting rock bottom..he's an alcoholic! He needs to submit to rehab..the girl was an enabler so, it got worst!

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  26. J E

    Kudos to E. What she did is the right course - get medical certifications, evidences to legally make sure the abusive is out of picture.

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  27. J and E pero si TE sino yon na row 4 ako dun ah.

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  28. HM - J
    LI - E
    TE - J

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  29. Feel ko si J na may mali. Kasi sana man lang inaayos niya din sarili niya. Its not only about him.. Its also about the girl and the baby and of course girl's family on the side.

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  30. Oh see. Yung guy yung may problem pero si girl yung inaaway ng netizens nun. So dapat talaga wag maniwala sa kung ano lang ang nakikita

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    1. True mga bulag bulagan at kunsintidor ang faney ni guy kaya mas lumalala ang problema nya.

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  31. May mali din sya dito eh. Yun gusto mangyari ni HM malabo. Kahit sinong babae itapat sa kanya di nagtatagal. Ang relationship is 2 way and yun gusto nya is very selfish. Di naman pwede lahat ng gusto nya mangyari tanggap ng tanggap na lang si girl. Buti Sana Kung maganda yun mga gusto nya mangyari eh hindi naman. As for LI, eh di ngayon nakuha mo hinahanap mo! 👊

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    1. Anu ba gusto nya mangyari? Spill the beans beks

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  32. Yan na nga ba parang kanta "babalik ka rin" sa una ka lang natanggap ni E.....kalaunan nagsawa din

    Para ng hindi naliligo naging "DUGYOT" kahit sangkatutak ang pera kapag ang tao walang disiplina sa sarili walang saysay ang buhay mo

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  33. Parehong mali si HM and LI. Parehong maling akala. Akala ni HM eto na ang love of his life, the one who will give him happiness. Syempre honeymoon stage kaya high na high ang feeling. Si LI naman maling akala na wow naka jackpot sya ng partner, kung baga sya ang winner. When reality bites, ayan na lumabas na ang tunay na kulay nilang dalawa. Domestic violence is never right though. HM needs to re-evaluate himself.

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  34. Depression and alcohol. Oh dear, sad...

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  35. Hay naku J, better shape up..or you'll end w/ colon and lung cancer nasa huli ang pagsisi!

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  36. kahit kelan talaga eh yang mga in-laws ang panira sa relasyon kklk!

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  37. Ladies let this be a lesson. All that glitters isn't gold. Prince charming can still turn into a toad.

    As for HM and men out there, hindi porket maganda, sexy and malambing magiging masaya ka. You can't live on s** alone.

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  38. Ichura pa lang ni guy alam mo kung sino may katok sa dalawa. Personal hygiene is life!!!

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  39. Sad naman neto! Akala forevs na.

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  40. girls mahirao magkaasawa na laging laaing at mabaho. Trust me. Nakakawalang gana tumabi sa amoy usok at alak, anjan na din un tamad din sila mag toothbrush

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    1. Totoo yan. Kahit gaano ka ka in love nung una, pag nakasama mo na at nakilala mo ng husto, ma turn off ka. Lalo na pag nanakit.

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    2. May kasabihan nga na makilala mo ang isang tao pag nakasama mo na sya sa iisang bubong

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  41. Sad that this happened to J. For sure, E loved him sincerely. Kaya lang may mali na talaga from the start palang ng relationship nila

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  42. If this is J & E, sayang naman. You & me against the world tapos mauuwi lang sa hiwalayan. They deserve each other; they bring out the best in each other pa naman.

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  43. Not suprised at all... i saw this coming....

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