Wednesday, July 24, 2019

Insta Scoop: BB Gandanghari Calls Out Ricky Lo for Misgendering



Images courtesy of Instagram: gandangharibb

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    1. Why is that maarte? I’m not LGBTQ+ but I understand their plight and people like you further how they are mistreated and discriminated

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    2. I don’t think nag inarte cya. She just wants to be identified as a woman. I feel for her. It must be so hard to earn respect as a transgender, etc.

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    3. Respeto po ang tawag dun at hindi basta arte lang

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    4. Maarte for you, but not for them. Just let them be.

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    5. Oh dear. You don't understand because you are not in her position. I bet you don't even know intersex, nonbinary, pansexual, queer and other terms under the umbrella.

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    6. Baka nasanay lang

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    7. 1:24 Just let them be? Eh siya nga gumagawa ng issue sa public reprimand na yan, isa lang naman dapat kinakausap niya. Pwede naman siguro niang iprivate msg?

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    8. Came here to say the same thing 1:28.

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    9. 1:28 di mo naman kailangan iinist alamin ng mga tao anong klase mga terms na yan. We dont owe u hello mas madaming isipin ang dapat MAS bigyan pansin kesa sama eklavu nyan. Lalo na sa Pinas

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    10. Kayo nga mismo di nyo kabisado ang labeling yet you REQUIRE us, 1:28

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    11. 1:28 bakit ikakaunlad o may premyo ba pagnalaman namin ang terms na yan hahahaa! Feeling ka

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    12. Hindi arte yan guys. Even pagpronounce ng name mo dapat niccorrect mo kasi identity mo un sayo un.

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    13. 1:06 he wants to be identified as a woman? He is not a woman. Look at the definition of a women or woman in the dictionary. Woman is naturally born and she is not. Transgender but definitely not a woman

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    14. Oh for F sake! Not everyone is used to your different TYPES OF ORIENTATION/PREFERENCE. You are a traswoman at some point in your life you we’re a man you can expect people just to throw away that just because you did. All along I thought what the LGBTQ are fighting for respect and acceptance? But you guys cant. I understand that you want to refer as she or as a female but the thing is you were a man first it does take time and stop forcing the world!

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    15. Sorry ha, too complicated for my primate brain. He at she nga na basic, nababaligtad ko eh... IT. IT na lang, pwede?

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    16. Muka pa rin naman kasi siyang lalaki e. Maybe magpunta siya sa Thailand baka maging mas soft ang look niya. Medyo brusko pa siya sa current look niya na ganyan e.

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    17. Freedom of speech, unang una di nman na alter ni Rustom ang chromosomes nya kaya lalaki pa rin sya. That's a fact. Lalaki pa rin ang DNA nya. Kaya he will forever be a HE! Sige nga kpag ba na dna test ung buhok nya malalaman b na trans sya at dpat female sya? Diba hindi? Kaya tumigil sya. Unless makagawa ng way para ma alter ang dna at chromosomes ng tao, lalaki pa rin sya. Sana un muna ang inasikaso ng lgbtq hindi kung ano ano kiyeme

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    18. But pag dating sa hospital identify pa din sya as male di ba?or like kung unidentified person ilalagay john doe not jane doe...curious din po ako

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    19. 1:28 Ako i dont care to know na. Kasi pag inalam ko yan, magdadagdag na naman kayo ng panibago niong definitions. Tapos irerequire nio na naman na alamin ng madla para di kayo maoffend.

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    20. Just because bb was referred to as “him” doesn’t mean hindi na sya nirerespeto. He may be hurt pero ang ginawa nya kay ricky lo ay pamamahiya. Pwede naman sigurong kinausap nya in private yung tao.

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    21. The fact is lalaki pa rin ang dna nya, di nya pdeng ipilit dahil ang biological truth is male ang gender nya. Magpapalit muna sya ng dna bago nya iinsist na babae sya.

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    22. True. Maarte nman talaga pwede naman nya private message na lang yung tao kase private din message ni Ricky. Obviously it was an honest mistake. And if he wants to raise awareness sana di na mention name ni Ricky Lo. Pinahiya na yung tao ginamit pa? Sometimes we demand respect but we ourselves dont know the word respect. This time ke Ricky Lo ako.

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    23. 8:03 I agree with you.

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    24. Sorry ha, pero di kayo ang magdidikta ng kung ano gusto ko itawag nyo sa akin. Kung sakaling trans ako ipagpipilitan ko ang karapatan kong tawaging woman, at irefer as she. If its my choice to be a woman, as respect to my decision, you should refer to me as a woman. Now, kung kayo din dumaan sa ganyan, irerespect ko kayo pabalik. Mutual respect lang yan. Kung may kaibigan o kakilala akong di kaya gawin yun, then time to say goodbye to them.

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  2. Okay, pero pwede namang private message nalang siguro hano? Hindi naman din sinabi in public ni Ricky

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    1. Maybe she wants to raise awareness na din.

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    2. 1:27 muka naman close sila ni ricky. Buti sana kung random person lang yan

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    3. Pahanash lang

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    4. Oa lang. it’s a pm and they’re same lgbt, wag iissue kesyo awareness. Sometimes ka-oahan nlng tlga parang di batang 90s

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    1. Don't u know how to respect ppl on this category? If u respect others with the same classification why not BB? We only live once and be happy, we don't live to please u.

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    2. And we dont live to please you either 2:01. Hindi porke konting kibot mag iiba kayo ng term e susunod kami lahat

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    3. True..you could be addressed differently or have a sex change but you can never change your chromosomes..XY pa rin..just stating biological facts.

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    4. taray ni baks 2:08am

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    5. 2:08 agree
      kada taon ba magdadagdag ng panibagong classifications. parang gay lingo lang ah, sipag mag-imbento ng bago, tapos mangangaral ng respect pag di ka na makasunod

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    6. 2:08 👍🏼

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    7. 2:08 Exactly!!!

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    8. @12:53 & 2:08AM, and you're not required to say hi and address them inappropriately either, BB, Caitlyn, and all the transgender communtiy. If you CANNOT give them RESPECT, the least you can do is to NOT INSULT or OFFEND them. Kahit wag ka magpakita ng kabutihan sa kanila, magpakatao ka na lang. Thank you and may God Bless you.

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  4. Kakasawa na mga to. Kahit baliktarin pa ang mundo, kahit magpaputol ka pa, "he" ka pa rin. Don't force these terms on us. Di pwede lagi kayong magagalit pag nirefer kayo sa tunay at original niyong gender.

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    1. True. Ganto din ung ke aiza e. Sobrang entitlement naman na to

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    2. Hindi po entitlement un. Wag po kayong magpakaignorante. Kayo ang dahilan kung bakit walang kaayusan sa mundo.

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    3. Korek!!! Kakainis na pinipilit lahat ng tao. We respect them but respect us that we do not agree.

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    4. This is one of the times when the word entitlement is overused. And not used correctly. We should be evolving as a society. At ito ay part ng pagiging progressive society. Hindi sila entitled. Kayo lang yung ayaw magmove forward sa modern society at gusto niyo mastuck sa sinaunang panahon kung san iniinsulto ang mga kagaya ni Binibini. Feel na feel siguro niyo nun na ang superior niyo kaya ayaw niyong magadjust para sa kanila ngayon.

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    5. super true! dinadamay pa tayo sa confusion nila

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    6. How can you say na you respect them when you go directly against who they are Anon 4:56 AM? Tolerance is not respect. Respect requires acceptance of who they are in their views and not as you perceive them to be. Sariling pananaw mo lang ang nirerespeto mo kung ganun.

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  5. Bilang hiningi number niya. Sana nagtext ka na lang bat need pa ipost. Also di mo maaalis na di pa sila sanay na BB and “her” ka na dapat. Matanda na si Ricky Lo so sana inintindi na lang. sensitive naman masyado.

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  6. Serious question: I know it's legal sa US but valid ba sa Pilipinas yung gender transformation ni BB?

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    1. In ‘HER’ dreams

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    2. Hahahah kainis ka te 2:01 😂😂

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    3. 2:01 HIS rather lol

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    4. Bineast mode ako eh arti arti haha 7:01

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  7. Bb gumagawa ng isyu. Pwede naman privately i-message si Ricky Lo but no she had to post it pa. Hindi mukhang friendly reminder, maldita reminder kamo.

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    1. Gustong maging relevant baks 😂

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    2. Hahaha! Trulalu. Sorry na pero ako rin natarayan sa message nya huhu.

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  8. Rustom Rustom. Ikaw si Rustom Padilla kahit mag end of the world na. Char

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    1. LOL. inasar pa 😅

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    2. Napaka insensitive namann

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    3. 12:56 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. tawang tawa ako. oo nga naman kasi siya si RUSTOM PADILLA. hahahaha

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    4. Anu insensitive diyan? Totoo naman he’s Rustom Padilla check his birth certificate hinde nag babago yun siya ang insensitive tbh.

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    5. totoo naman kasi anon 2:24am. kahit pa ano gawin nya, lalaki parin siya. huwag nalang kasi masyadong sensitive, ayan gusto pa tuloy mas lalong tuksuhin.

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    6. true, balibaliktarin man ang mundo, bb will always be rustom
      that’s the truth

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    7. Di ko alam kung ignorance to o masama lang talaga ugali nyo. He WAS Rustom, yes, di naman nya dinedeny who he WAS. But BB na siya ngayun, and to her, that's what matters the most. Wala ba kayo ni katiting na empathy sa pagkatao nyo at di nyo magets ang pinagdadaanan ng tulad nyang mga trans? Babae ako, pero nararamdaman ko kung gaano kahirap magkunwari. Magkaiba man kami ng pinagdadaanan ni BB but I can definitely relate to her.

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    8. 10.04 FYI Hindi na siya nagkukunwari. Don't you get it? Ayaw Lang namin ipagamit Sa iba Ang identity natin dahil Ang trans ay iba Sa female. Dapat gumawa sila ng sarili nila. Yun Lang.

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    1. Quite. Napaka nitpicky. Si RuPaul nga doesn't care if people say him/her sa kanya. Hindi naman sinasadya matanda na rin Ricky Lo

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    2. Because RuPaul is a drag queen and BB is a transwoman.

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    3. Yeah.may trans Sa woman niya while kaming hetero walang trans Na word s identity namin. That's. The difference.

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  10. Nako day kahit nag paopera kana rustom ka parin kilala ng madlang people

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  11. Sana nagtext na lang sila lol need talaga ipost medj mababaw naman ang kuda ni ateng

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    1. Ksp nya lately ha. Ung issue nya last time ganon din. Konting di napagbigyan andaming hanash sa katrabaho

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  12. OMG! Ganun k big deal?

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  13. Sige ikaw na ang she,her at miss..okay na..kasalanan ba ng mga tao na na kilala ka nila ng matagal bilang lalaki

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  14. Vaklang twah! Can you blame ricky or anyone for that matter? Kung ano ano na lang naiimbentong term just to make an issue out of something. Susko at discrimination talaga agad.

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  15. I'm gay pero mej nalolowka talaga ako sa issue ng his/her na yan. Tsaka, di kaya masyado ng balat sibuyas ang karamihan sa 'tin? I hope BB reached out to Tito Ricky first before "she" posted this. Kasi baka mas magandang sinabi nya kay Tito Ricky ang point nya kesa nag po-post about misgendering issue.


    Though I am with "her" sa old name part. Rustom is dead. BB is alive.

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    1. true dear...making a mountain out of molehill tuloy

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    2. Natumbok mo! Sana nga nagreach out sya personally to Ricky Lo to air her 'grievances'. Sa ginawa nya kasi, she put Ricky in a bad light pa. And if he really wanted to post this for awareness, sana he asked the permission of the people involved in their PRIVATE conversation.

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  16. Hay daming hanash ng mga kapwa ko lgbt. Yes lgbt rin ako pero di ko pinapakomplikado ang mga bagay bagay.
    Hanggat may pinaglalaban tayo, mas lalong namamagnify ang estado natin sa lipunan. Just live and let it be mga ateng.

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    1. Salamat ateng at nakakaintindi ka. Nakakarindi na minsan mga kabaro mo Day, lahat na lang reklamo

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    2. rock on dear. napakalawak ng pangunawa mo!

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    3. Ay naku baks pareho tayo. Wala na yan sa akin. Ang importante ay masaya at walang awayan at mamuhay tayo ng matiwasay.

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  17. arte nman....patingin nga ng birth certificate mo ng malaman if "girl" or "boy" ang naka sulat dun!!!

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    1. Yes!! This is true! You cannot change your gender in your birth certificate just because you had a sex reassignment surgery. Your current name may now be legal —that is understandable— but your gender is still the same. Pwede ba BB, basahin mo nlang yung Silverio vs. Republic.

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  18. Lalaki ka pa rin. You can't force people to embrace the lie that you're now a woman. You were born male. You'll always be male. It's like asking people to betray God just to feed your lies and illusion.

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    1. Wow how closed-minded and all righteous you are. Do you really think God will be happy with such a bad attitude as yours?

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    2. 1207 whats the bad attitude, ung d lang kami umagree sa gusto nya?

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    3. 12.07 it's not a bad attitude. It's called sticking to the truth.

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  19. entitled naman. you can correct him nicely. THIS is overboard

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  20. rustom rustom rustom! tsarot lang BB :)

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  21. Puwede rin naman kasing mas mahaba i- type ang binibining gandanghari kaysa sa rustom. Saka mali bang iacknowledge na dati naman talaga siyang si rustom? Nagtatanong lang.

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  22. Would have been better if nag PM na lang siya or hindi shinare sa public.

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  23. Mukhang hindi naman against lgbt si Ricky Lo baka nagkamali lang due old habit of calling her Rustom.

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  24. Sa birthcert nagrelay si ricky hahaha. Saka asa pinas tau hello wag paandar

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  25. He at she lang pala, pero andameng gender huh.. Pano ba talaga ??

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  26. this is not new. even my husband and the rest of his family sometimes forget this he she his her thing to his own transchild

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  27. Lol!! Ako nga dito kababaeng tao with matres tinatawag na bakla deadma lang... Kaloka si Atih!!!

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  28. In all his years in the industry and in the public eye Ricky Lo always came across as open minded. Dyusko napaka sensitive. Walang ganap?

    Please stop asking us to comply with these new "pronouns" xe/zer/perself panromantic demisexual eklavu. Daming problema ng lipunan. Its a two way street mag adjust naman kayo ng expectations nyo. Lgbtq are recognized and celebrated now (and rightly so) Time to make useful strides and stop playing the victim game.

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    1. True that. Don't force us. Gusto nyo hayaan kayo ss gusto nyo and yet you are trying to force other people to conform to you

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  29. Mas sikat kasi si rustom kesa kay bb ;)

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    1. Correct mas fresh pa sya.nung Rustom days nya..para syang dehydrated lately not glowing at all..

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  30. How ironic that you're demanding for respect by disprespecting and shaming someone online. That's the real bigotry and hypocrisy

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  31. ok mali na si ricky but be thankful na gusto kang ma-interview for a broad sheet,di ka na relevant

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  32. hirap tlga ng buhay ngayon. laging may na ooffend haha. tanggaling na lang yung mga honorifics at mga pronound na may gender jusko. daming problema sa mundo. wag na lang tayo mag pronoun. proper noun na lang lagi haha

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  33. Ricky Lo was referring to Rustom. So use the use of "he". It's possible that Lo is still used to referring to BB as Rustom having known the person for a long time as Rustom. I have a niece who recently came out as gay. He know has a male name but still accidentally call him by his former female name. Mahirap din for the people around to adjust to the transition. So sana understanding on both sides.

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  34. That was a private message so why call out the person publicly? If BB felt offended, she also offended Ricky Lo in this post. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

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  35. BB is entitled to her own sentiments. It’s just a simple common sense: Why do you address her as a man when she presents herself to everyone as a woman?

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    1. Maybe old habits of calling BB Rustom before? Pwede naman idaan sa simple reminder directly kay Ricky hindi yung ipopost at mag rant agad sa IG. Pa victim ang peg.

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  36. Gusto kong malaman kung mismong nanay ni BB tinatawag ba syang he or she? BB or Rustom pa rin? Sigurado naguguluhan din naman ang mga tao sa paligid nya.

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  37. Paano kaya ang pagturo ng pronouns sa school ?

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    1. 8:40 true!! When someone refers to "her" as "He/Him" and calls her Rustom edi correct nya privately. Hindi yung hahanash kala mo naman kasalanan na nirefer sya as "Him". I have a lesbian cousin I can't address him as "ate" or "Kuya" kasi He might get offender either way. kapag kuya I thought baka isipin nya nagpapaka sarcastic. SO yeah! magulo. Hindi kami sure. Correct nyo na lang kami kung ano prefer nyo. and sana di ginagawang big deal!!!!

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  38. If you want to be recognized as a woman you can't force anyone to call you a woman. There's 2 biological gender. He or She- you can correct someone over what you prefer but you can't be mad. Assuming your gender is not other persons responsibility.You decided to change but don't expect others to change to please you. Laki ng America na kase kaya liberal minded na. Sorry ka Rustom mad big deal si Angie King kesa sayo.

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    1. Angie doesn't even get offended. She corrects them NICELY

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  39. Sana nagPM kana lang tutal PM din naman ung sinend ni ricky lo. Atska baka nakasanayan na lang din ni ricky na rustom tawag sayo.

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  40. Gusto ka na nga makita inissue mo pa? Wala ka na talaga karir nyan. Wala na pakelam mga tao sa yo kahit he she it ka pa.

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  41. I understand her sentiments. Her transition alone is a long and complicated process. Obviously she’s determined to become a woman and it will be a validation if people will acknowledge her as “she”. Let’s just state the obvious. Why would you address someone as a “he” or “Rustom” when she now presents herself as a woman?

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    1. well una syang nakilala ng tao na Rustom at "he" po sya. so kung ngayon bigla syang nagmukhang babae hindi mo naman pwedeng ipilit sa ibang tao na BB at naging "she" na sya. kasi po kahit baliktarin mo man ang mundo lalaki parin po sya nang pinanganak, ano man gawin nya sa katawan nya lalaki parin po sya, hindi po yon disrespectful. unless minura sya, yon ang masama.

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    2. She (ayan ha she) is in for a lot of disappointment if she continues to pin her self worth on other people's choice of what to call her. Gusto nya mag trans that's on her bakit nya pipilitin mag adjust yung iba.

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    3. 3:08 this is true.

      Isn't she doing this transition for herself? Bakit masyado syang madaming hang ups on what people call her?

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  42. ano daw yun??? sensitive naman ni ate gurl.

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  43. i hate bigotry. pero ang OA masyado. hindi ba pwedeng nakaligtaan lang? matanda na si Ricky Lo FYI BB. Jusko. I'm part of LGBT community pero mas may mga importante pang problema ang dapat pagtuunan kesa sa ganito BB. Pwede ding imessage mo na lang si Tito Ricky about sa issue mo na to.

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    1. Mas mali din sa nagsend ng message na to eh. Pwede naman kasing TITA HINIHINGI NUMBER MO NI RICKY LO

      Sinend pa kasi 😂

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    2. Hahaha oo nga noh, copy paste pa yung orig message, ayan tuloy nalagay pa sa alanganin si Ricky Lo, pero sa totoo lang ha, naartehan ako kay Rustom oo Rustom!!! 😂😂😂

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  44. Bastos talaga ng mga Pinoy very insensitive. Ganyan din sa Thailand eh, Babae ka na at lahat, sir pa rin ang tawag sa yo!

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    1. @1:24 at bakit mo naman na generalized ang pinoy as being insensitive..just because of this? Male or Female pa rin ang category sa lahat ng legal documents..for example kung consul ang kaharap nya i aadress ba syang she or female? hindi ba hindi ka ka na lang mag re react ng ganito at baka ma ban ka pa..

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    2. Being in Thailand I know @1:24PM is actually joking and being sarcastic sa kaartehan ni BB. I am sure nawindang si Ricky Lo sa post an to. Hindi sila English proficient dito sa TH kaya one does not mind such "misgendering".

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  45. I'm reading with bb voice!

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  46. Sensya na BB. Napagkamalan ka kasing si Rustom. Parang si Rustom ang nasa pic.

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  47. Pinahiya naman nya si Ricky Lo, hindi naman siguro sinasadya nung tao, eh sa totoo namang HE, at nakasanayan na lang, acceptance at respect hinihingi nya pero, sa ginawa nyang yan ke Ricky, nirespeto ba nya yung tao?

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  48. I wonder, bakit kasi screenshot and send pa eh private message yun

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    1. This is what I wonder about too. Parang may malice tuloy ung pagsend

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  49. Ako ngang lalaki tinatawag minsan na miss, hindi naman ako nagagalit.

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  50. Buti pa si Vice walang arte. He says he's gay and that's it.

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  51. E matanda na si Ricky Lo at kelan lang naman nauso yung mga rules na ganyan na galing sa West. In fact, dati careful ang mga tao kung sa sasabihin na miss o hindi ang isang trans kasi baka ma-offend. Sa mga squatter communities ba, yung mga transgender man di naman nagagalit kung tawagin silang tomboy.

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  52. Addressing him as Rustom is rude but saying "him" is just fine. Ano problem nya sa him? May problem ba sya sa mga lalaki? If pinaglalaban mo equality dapat ok lang sayo matawag na he she him her they them it. Choss.

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  53. Just because nagpagender reassignment doesn't mean babae na. You are not a woman period. Have respect naman sa mga tunay na kababaihan please stop calling yourselves women.

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