Friday, January 18, 2019

FB Scoop: Girlfriend of Razorback's Brian Velasco Appeals to Sympathizers


Images courtesy of Facebook: Portia Carlos

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    1. Me mga nakasave ba ng vids?

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    2. Last Words: Mahal.......maaayos yan. Pakialagaan niyo na lang si..si Ponchito. Ok ha. Sorry bro. Shurry bro. He was intoxicated

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    3. He asked his friend MAEL to take care of his dog. Yun ata yung last na sinabi

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  2. For your own sake get off social media then. Sigurado wala mag tag sa yo and wala ka makikita.

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    1. What if she needs those apps to communicate with people she has to talk to?

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    2. girl mas mabuti nang wag ng i-upload kahit kelan. Respeto nalang sakanya dahil nasaktan siya.What if nga di muna sya magsocial media sa ngayon tapos non okay okay na sya eh nagsocial media sya so anytime soon makikita nya un accidentally, diba mas masakit. Kaya much better not to upload

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    3. Get off social media.u cant help it.he is a public figure and mental health is an issue.if u need to communicate with ppl close to u, use ur phone the good old fashioned way.ur welcome.

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    4. 8:03 Try looking up the word compassion. You’re welcome.

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    5. fyi, i know her and she DID get off social media after that post. #respeto

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    6. Grabe ang mga tao. Mahirap ba yung pakiusap niya na wag i-spread? Kahit di pa siya magrequest, sana out of RESPECT sa family nung namantay kasi I’m sure di din nila gusto makita yun

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    7. 3:58 yung totoo? kilala mo ba talaga? her post was yesterday and she has 2 new posts today that’s still related to her ex. she didn’t get off socmed. just saying.

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  3. I understand her feelings. Kung ako nga hindi ko siya kilala and I also don't want to see it. Para ano pa? Wala naman benefit yun seeing it other than to say "Nakita ko yung video". Hope people respect her wishes WITHOUT saying anything nega

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  4. People should be very sensitive to other people's feelings kasi. It is very traumatic and sad and haunting. I hope people learn to respect others esp in times of grief. And even when you go to a wake it is always best not to ask or discuss the cause of death, maybe unless the bereaved starts the conversation about it. Let us celebrate the life of the departed and not the tragedy.

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  5. Break from Socmed is the key.

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    1. i know her and she did after that post.

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    2. No she didn't. She has a new post 30 mins ago.

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    3. oo nga, this was yesterday and she had 2 posts today.

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    4. malay nyo naman gusto na mag-focus sa masayang alaala kaya sya nag-post ulit. who are we to tell her what to do?

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  6. shes grieving and no one has the right to tell her "its okay" , "everything's going to be alright" etc. Leave her alone.

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  7. Condolences to the gf.. suggestion lang po no social media muna to help you grieve at your own pace.. may you find comfort that people you dont know are praying for you too

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  8. Sana sinabi niya feelings niya briefly,directly na lang, ang haba kasi.

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    1. Marunong ka pa sa kanya. Account niya yan.

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    2. At sino ka to tell her how to express her feelings? Goodness! The person is grieving and here you are dictating her how to express it?

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  9. I don’t understand why people are obsessing over a suicide video, forwarding it to friends and asking if you’ve seen it. BAKIT? I myself was sent the video twice, by close friends and frankly nakakadisappoint that they did. I didn’t watch it. I can’t watch it. What is the point of watching it? Respect the request of his loved ones. Stop spreading the video.

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    1. Kaya maraming Obsessed sa video ay dahil minsan lang tayo makakita ng ganon.

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    2. Super agree.

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    3. At merong nakagawa in just one take! Yan din naman panigurado gusto nun ang mapagusapan yung ginawa niya. Kaso hinarang na ng FB! WHAT TWERPS!!!

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    4. 3:17 oo nga e, what's the point kung haharangin din naman pala ng fb, failed

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  10. ako nmn i think he did it on fb live for the purpose of people seeing it. morbid as it may seem, maybe he really wanted it that way. i watched it because i felt he would've wanted me to see it, because he posted it live on facebook, otherwise he would've done it quietly alone. i didnt share it though, and never intended on doing it. for me, watching it made me feel like at least i did something for him. it's just me.

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    1. You’re not alone..

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    2. He wasnt obviously in his right mind when it happened. Nagsuicide nga diba. so stop making it an excuse that he made it live kaya he wants you to see it. There’s a reason why FB removed it. Things like this are not supposed to be seen ever, lalo na as casually as that na FB live lang.

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    3. Exactly my thoughts. I don't click on posts like this pero nung narinig kong nag fb live siya, he wanted to be seen and probably remembered for what he did.

      And omg, i also thought the same. Na ginawan ko siya ng favor by watching then prayed for him after.

      Although i cannot still grasped the concept of what drives people to commit suicide, (hindi din peefect ang buhay ko, hardly. And im so struggling too pero never ko inisip to take my own life), pinipilit kong mag empathize. There must be something that pushed people to do it kasi parang mahirap. Sayang din. RIP.

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    4. Oo nga e, iniisip ko kung gusto niya talagang mamatay, kung totoo talaga at walang kiyeme, pwede naman siyang uminom na lang ng lason or barilin niya na lang sarili niya. Bakit kailangang ibroadcast?

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    5. Agree. People have their reasons kahit pa final moments na nila. And in this day and age of social media Facebook ang pinakaconvenient to take his point across, as he seemed to have one. Very sad way to go, though.

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    6. 3:09 charot... nacurious ka kaya mo pinanood, yun lang yun... worse, shinare mo pa SMH

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    7. Hindi natin maintindihan yung feeling ng mga gustong mamatay kase wala tayong condition na ganon.

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    8. 8:56 Nagbabasa ka po? sabi niya she just watched iit, didn't share. smh

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  11. Ang tanong is bakit sya nagsuicide kung ganyan naman pala at mahal na mahal sya ng gf nya?!

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    1. Kulang at hindi yun ang pagmamahal na hangad niya or hindi niya alam yung pagmamahal na yan.

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    2. Because what a lot of people fail to understand is depression including suicidal ideation can be an actual pthophysiological disorder.

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    3. Di naman kasi ibig sabihin na pag may depression ang isang tao, O kaya may taong nagbabalak magpakamatay eh wala ng nagmamahal sa kanya.

      Depression is a mental illness. Depression kills.

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    4. Depression is a mental illness. There's no reasoning with it.

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    5. just because you have a significant other, doesn't mean you can't experience depression. yung iba nga may asawa't anak pa and yet they were still able to take their own life.wag kang mema

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    6. Andaming rason kung bakit and one of them is mental illness. And yung mental illness also is a very complex problem. Di lang because wala kang pera o walang nagmamahal sayo. Sometimes it’s a chemical imbalance that needs medications. The richest and most loved people commit suicide too.

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    7. may sakit siya, may depression.

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    8. depression is real.

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    9. Kasi baka may iba pa sya pinagdadaanan sa buhay nya. You may be loved by many people but still feel lonely.

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    10. Karamihan sa mga nagpapakamatay ay may nagmanahal sa kanila. Pero tignan mo sya dun sa perspective ng nagpakamatay, kaya nga sa ibang bansa tinitignan na mental health issue sya...ang mahirap kasi dito sa atin sa Pilipinas hindi pa ganoon tanggap pag-usapan ang mga issues sa pag-iisip, lalo na may stigma sa atin na kapag pinag-uusapan ang mental health eh madalas na naiisipnna baliw yung tao o nasisiraan ng bait.

      Baka may depression yung tao. Kaya dapat mas sensitibo tayo sa mga tao sa paligid natin. Walang tao na gustong maging miserable ang buhay lalo na kung dati ay masaya ang pagkatao dati nung tao.

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    11. Tama. People nowadays don't have contentment. Dapat maging kuntento kung ano lang meron ka. That is the key to happiness.

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    12. May iba din factors why people commit suicide. Hindi dahil mahal ka na ng gf/bf, partner, asawa mo hindi mo maiisipan at some point to end it. Depression can hit anytime, anywhere

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    13. 3:22 Read further on suicide, depression and other mental issues so you would learn that being loved is not enough for some people who are depressed and hopeless.

      Educate yourself.

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    14. Depression is a beast

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    15. Obviously, may depression siya. Hindi mo mapredict ang pag-iisip ng taong may sakit na ganyan. Mental health is important. You can educate yourself about that.

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    16. This is precisely why everyone needs to understand what depression is. Para kung sinoman ang nagsa-suffer nito ay mabigyan ng tamang tulong at maipaunawa dun sa mga walang ganitong condition kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng may sakit na ganito nang sa ganun ay maging sensitive sila. Ang depression ay isang sakit. Hindi po kontrolado ng may depression and nangyayari at naiisip nila. Kailangan po nila ng pagunawa at tulong ng isang propesyunal.

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    17. Lol akala mo kasi nadepress siya dahil heartbroken ulit siya dahil may post Siya about sa x. Sobra tagal na nun.Isa ka ding assuming

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    18. 7:55

      Depression is an illness. Wala yang pinagkaiba sa lagnat na kailangan ng Paracetamol or bacterial infection na kailangan ng antibiotic.

      Hindi "contentment" ang gamot sa depression because depression is deeper than that. Biologically-speaking, chemicals sa brain ang pinag-uusapan dito. Maaaddress ba ng "contentment" ang chemical imbalance? Jusko. Eh di sana walang gamot like Escitalopram at Vortioxetine para dito. Pakigoogle na lang kung para saan yang mga yan para medyo nalilinawan ka.

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    19. Wala naman tayong lahat alam what he felt. And what he was going through. So wala tayong lahat karapatan magtanong. Magkumento. We just pray for his peace. And his family

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  12. Kinilabutan ako nung nakita ko yung video. Rest in peace, Sir!

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  13. bilang respeto sa mga mahal sa buhay, wag na iupload. Parang naalala ko noon sa news yung mga pinagpapatay na media na nilibing, Nakunan ng video at pinapanood sa mga kaanak ng mga namatay. Nagsisigaw yung mga tao, yung iba naman nagbaliktad mga sikmura. Traumatic yung mga ganyang bagay.

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  14. kung ikaw din ang nasa kalagayan ng girlfriend, hindi mo din gusto makita yang tragedy na yan. Baka ma shock ganyan.

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  15. Most people who have thought about suicide do not want to die; they simply want to find relief from the physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual pain they are going through.
    Although it is wrong to take one’s own life, a person who does so may not be responsible for his or her actions. Only God can fully understand and judge the situation. Rest in Peace Lodi

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    1. So sino responsable then???

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    2. No one has to be responsible. There are many reasons to suicide. In most cases, due to mental illnesses and conditions like depression. You cannot blame anyone.

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  16. Torn ako kung I feel sorry for Brian or not. I feel bad kasi maybe he went through deep depression para mag suicide ...BUT at the same time I don't feel sorry for him kasi napaka selfish nya. You filmed your suicide para lalong saktan ang family nya, or kung meron man syang anak or just to spook people. He intentionally filmed his "death" para ma depress din ang mga taong nagmamahal sa kanya especially knowing he had a video of him killing himself na pwedeng accessible sa mga nagmamahal sa kanya. Yes I felt sorry for what his medical or mental state that drove him to depression pero Nakakainis din kasi nag LIVE pa while killing himself. Opinion ko lang ito. Huwag masyado affected.

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    1. Thought these things myself. Wondered too why kaya he felt the need mag live feed? Dami impressionable mga tao, baka gayahin...

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  17. Ako rin nung namatay asawa ko ang daming bwiset sa fb na ngppost ng pix nya at condolences at tinatag ako pero never namang personal na nagreachout. Kapal talaga ng mga tao magpasikat lang kahit tapakan yung grieving family!

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  18. I have watched the video and I honestly believe he isn't in his right senses...even I can't also gasp the theory that it's abt loosing his dog. Meron pang mas mabigat na dahilan Hindi language natin Alam at d na din nila ipapaalam kaya..move on n Lang tau and pray for his soul to find peace and forgiveness...

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    1. Yung mga chismosa lang kasi porket namatay yung aso sinisi ba ang aso sa pagka depress. Pabida yung iba inuunahan na kala mo alam lahat. Kung makikita mo sabi nya sa video “maayos din yan” so ibig sabihin di yung aso.

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  19. Nung sinasabi nya na here i go here i go baka naka feel din sya mag back out kaso naka live na kahiyaan na. Sana di na lang nya tinuloy :( nakaka lungkot.

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  20. Nung nakita ko yung video hindi naman nakakatakot kasi di nman talaga makikita yung katawan nya. Para nga ang sarap pa sa pakiramdam kasi kung di mo alam di mo iisipin na tumalon siya para kasi yung kuha ng video para siyang lumilipad na masarap sa pakiramdam. Oa lang kasi ang iba. Ni hindi nga nakita yung pagbagsak ng katawan nya. Yung nagsasalita lang siya parang may pag aalinlangan at parang ang bigat ng dinadala nya.

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  21. Jusko akala niyo ang daling mag-get off sa social media lalo na kapag natraumatize ka sa nangyari sa mahal mo. Be sensitive naman, para kayong mga tsismosa na mema lang eh. Also, who are you to judge if may ibang motive 'yung tao why siya naglive? Wala sa tamang pag-iisip ang taong depressed, hindi nila kayang magdecide logically dahil nilamon na sila ng sarili nilang demonyo. Mababaw man o malalim ang pinaghuhugutan, hindi judgment kailangan nila. They need help.

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