Ako I believe her kasi it also happened to me while I was pregnant. People need to learn to control their mouths if they can't control what they're thinking. Honestly don't even know how they can say those things. Tama ung sinabi nya.Did they forget? or they really still expect you to be model-thin whilst pregnant.
Sanay kasi nasasabihan na maganda sya kaya dinidibdib ang bashers pagsinabing pangit sya! If she’s really rejoicing in pregnancy wag nang patulan ang bashers...nahahalata tuloy pagkasuperficial nya!
Sungit naman ni Sarah. Culture na ng Pinoy ang mamintas lalo na kapag buntis ka at nag-iiba ang itsura at bigat ng babae. Huwag mo na lang pansinin para stress free ang pregnancy mo.
Seriously? Do you even have any idea what a pregnant person goes through? The sudden surge of hormones makes you go through extreme and rapid changes in emotions. Minsan super saya and minsan depressed. It gets worse afer pregnancy as other moms go through post partum depression. I just gave birth and the first thing that insensitive people say is how much weight you have gained and even noting all the other things that your body went through during abd after pregnancy. It is really tough to ignore especially when you go through depression because of the high level of hormones which are still in your system. I find it insulting that instead of educating ourselves, we condone such behavior because "that's how Filipinos are". If our predecessors never bothered to learn and improve then we would still be living in caves and rubbing rocks to make fire. Then again, with that kind of thinking, perhaps most of us still do (only that they dress fancier) 😑
Nakakalungkot at nakakainis ang mga taong ganyan ang ugali. “Tumaba ka” ang greetings nila sayo. Hindi ba pwedeng hi/hello? Buntis man o hindi, kakapanganak man o hindi, masakit po sabihan na “tumaba ka”. Hindi sya nakakatuwa! Meron pa nga nagsabi sa akin “tumaba ka.” Sabi ko “oo nga po kasi nanganak ako at nagbi-breastfeed.” Alam mo ano sinabi? “Naku mahihirapan ka na pumayat nyan!” Napaka insensitive noh?!
Bakit minsan parang dama kong gawa-gawa lang niya to just to get everyone's attention? Shame shame shame
ReplyDeleteYou are not alone may pagka pretender at pa fame whore din Kc si ateng kaya di natin magawang di mag isip ng ganyan
DeleteAko I believe her kasi it also happened to me while I was pregnant. People need to learn to control their mouths if they can't control what they're thinking. Honestly don't even know how they can say those things. Tama ung sinabi nya.Did they forget? or they really still expect you to be model-thin whilst pregnant.
DeleteOo nga e. Ganyan na ba ka shallow mga tao ngayon?
DeleteSanay kasi nasasabihan na maganda sya kaya dinidibdib ang bashers pagsinabing pangit sya! If she’s really rejoicing in pregnancy wag nang patulan ang bashers...nahahalata tuloy pagkasuperficial nya!
DeleteTama naman sya
ReplyDeleteMema kasi ng mga pinoy talaga esp online.
ReplyDeleteDrama naman? Papansin much? Wala naman pumapansin sayo or nanlalait
ReplyDeleteBakit kaya ang hilig ng mga starlet sumagot sa mga bashers?
ReplyDeleteKasi tao lang din sya. Nasasaktan at tlagang mali ang mga bashers sa pagjudge either preggy or not. For all we know - isa ka sa kanila.
Deletedi sya sumagot directly, di sya patola kagaya nang idol mo.
Deletesimple, negative publicity is still a publicity, and some starlets are holding on to that just to stay "visible". shame.
DeleteSungit naman ni Sarah. Culture na ng Pinoy ang mamintas lalo na kapag buntis ka at nag-iiba ang itsura at bigat ng babae. Huwag mo na lang pansinin para stress free ang pregnancy mo.
ReplyDeleteA terrible cultural aspect that deserves to be called out and changed. Why standby and excuse people's bad behavior?
DeleteAng tanong magbabago pa ba ang Pinoy?
DeleteSeriously? Do you even have any idea what a pregnant person goes through? The sudden surge of hormones makes you go through extreme and rapid changes in emotions. Minsan super saya and minsan depressed. It gets worse afer pregnancy as other moms go through post partum depression. I just gave birth and the first thing that insensitive people say is how much weight you have gained and even noting all the other things that your body went through during abd after pregnancy. It is really tough to ignore especially when you go through depression because of the high level of hormones which are still in your system.
DeleteI find it insulting that instead of educating ourselves, we condone such behavior because "that's how Filipinos are". If our predecessors never bothered to learn and improve then we would still be living in caves and rubbing rocks to make fire. Then again, with that kind of thinking, perhaps most of us still do (only that they dress fancier) 😑
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DeleteNakakalungkot at nakakainis ang mga taong ganyan ang ugali. “Tumaba ka” ang greetings nila sayo. Hindi ba pwedeng hi/hello? Buntis man o hindi, kakapanganak man o hindi, masakit po sabihan na “tumaba ka”. Hindi sya nakakatuwa! Meron pa nga nagsabi sa akin “tumaba ka.” Sabi ko “oo nga po kasi nanganak ako at nagbi-breastfeed.” Alam mo ano sinabi? “Naku mahihirapan ka na pumayat nyan!” Napaka insensitive noh?!
Iwasan na lang ang babad sa socmed kung nase-stress siya. Mahirap yang buntis tapos nakukunsume sa mga basher.
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