Monday, December 18, 2017

Out of Pride


Whenever changes happen in a household, not everyone will be happy with the new rules and the limited movement. However, one must accept changes, especially if one no longer has power in the said household. Thus, Dependent Talent (DT) must learn to change his lifestyle, as reality says things are changing in the home that he has often relied on for many years.

When the Master of the Home (MH) finally decided to share his life with the New Boss (NB), DT thought nothing would change and he would still do as he pleases. He thought he could still go in and out of the house without being noticed as always.

Over time, even if he has his own family, DT has enjoyed unlimited access to the home of MH. When NB entered the picture, things started to become awkward. Nonetheless, as NB wanted relationships to be pleasant, she allowed DT to continue with his ways and she tried to adjust to his lifestyle. NB is aware that DT is still relying on MH, as he does not really have a stable career and has a family to support.

The sad part is that given his situation, that is, having no steady source of income and having increasing needs of a growing family, DT will not make his lifestyle simple. While His Partner (HP) could very well make their financial situation more stable, DT will not allow it. HP stays in their house and with the kids. Work outside the home for HP is non-negotiable.

With no source of income himself, DT has to find means and one of his ways is to dig into the generosity of MH. So, whenever he is at the home of MH, he would allegedly go through the pantry and get what he wants. One time, NB came home and was shocked to see her groceries that she had just bought a day or so before depleted. The household staff revealed that DT had just visited. NB just kept quiet. However, she decided to speak up when DT raided her stash of healthy food another time. NB has been investing in healthy stuff to help her trim down.

Having had enough with DT asking for money from MH and raiding her pantry, NB finally opened up to MH. As his official partner, NB requested MH to do something about the behavior of DT, as they already have a family as well. For a time, DT no longer came over and the assumption was that MH told him off. However, that did not last long, as DT showed up again and one can only guess what his objective was in seeing MH. NB felt slighted when DT did not even bother to talk to her. She was invisible as far as he was concerned.

Photos for public consumption can be deceiving as the household moves in silent tension whenever NB and DT are together. MH can only do so much with the rift in his home.

‘Disciplining yourself to do what you know is right and important, although difficult, is the highroad to pride, self-esteem, and personal satisfaction.’ – Margaret Thatcher

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    1. Hanggang ngayon parasite pa rin si O kay V. Tanda mo na uy.

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    2. Can't DT get the money via ATM na lang? Why the need to physically go to the house of MH? Kumuha pa sa pantry ng grocery items, kaloka!

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    3. Mahirap talaga pag anak na lalake ang di marunong mag hanap buhay. Ang babae kasi pwede dumepende sa magiging aswa nya (not all cases though).

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    4. Can't DT just ask for money and do the grocery shopping himself? So tacky the raid the pantry of MH and NB. Ano ba yan.

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    5. true may mga lalake kc na kulang sa diskarte sa buhay hindi marunong magtaguyod ng pamilya.

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    6. @1:16 baka nga may allowance pa sila O from V.

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    7. Pasalamat sya mabait si NB

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  2. DT - O
    MH - V
    NB - P
    HP - C

    Kay C ako pinaka-naawa. Oh well...

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    1. C ka jan. Write minus wrong to teh.

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    2. Right minus wrong teh...

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    3. 8:53 isa ka pa! Hahaha right teh uy! Hahaha

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  3. MH- V
    NB- P
    DT- O
    HP- K sayang ka girl tsk tsk

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  4. If DT is O, does that mean his businesses are not thriving?

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    1. oo nga. san na yung businesses niya? or meron pa ba?

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  5. Mh - v
    Nb - p
    Dt - o

    Sila una ko naisip. Pero d ba may mga businesses naman c dt?

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    1. hindi naman niya solo ung business 1:31, may mga partners siya at hindi naman din siguro ganun kalakas ung business nila..

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    2. Siguro kulang pa din kasi nga DT does not want to make his lifestyle simple. Grabe, may nga ganito talagang tao

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  6. Grabe naman yan, may family na nga naka-asa pa rin, sino to mga baks? dami nila

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  7. V, P, O and K. Pak uwian na!

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  8. DT- O?
    MH- V?
    NB- P?
    HP- K?
    ???

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  9. DT - O
    MH - V
    NB - P
    HS - K

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  10. ahahaha kapal muks din kase si DT ha!!!

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    1. Naka San ayan na kung baga. Tinolerate naman kasi ni MH

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  11. K,O,P and V. Kawawa naman si DT dapat kasi nag aral at nagtapos sya..

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    1. Pasadena ka baks! Masaya ang Pasko mo.

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  13. NB is P
    MH is V
    DT is O
    HP is K

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  14. J AND R HAHAHA GOODBYE CLASSMATES

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    1. Bye. Bagsak ka

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    2. Sayonara too.
      Wag ka ng babalik too.
      Eto floorwax at bunot...dalhin mo na rin

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    3. hahaha kainis ka 2:05

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  15. DT = O, MH = V, NB = P, HP = K First honor tulugan na! Grabe rin etong si O no? Kalurkey! So plastikan lang pala yung mga photos at for public consumption lang? hahaha

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    1. Ganyan talaga ang showbiz. Mga plastic.

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  16. DT - O
    MH - B
    NB - P
    HP - K
    Easy peasy. Uwian na classmates!

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  17. MH - V
    HP - P
    DT - O
    All KaH

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  18. omg nakakaloka si DT aka O. magtrabaho ka uy!!

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    1. May trabaho naman kasi kulang ang kita. Daming anak eh

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  19. DT - O
    MH - V
    NB - P
    HP - K

    Sayang si HP. Si DT habambuhay bum

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  20. DT - O
    MH - V
    NB - P
    HP - K

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  21. Bakit kasi ayaw payagan si K mag work?
    Naku naman

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  22. Well parents should know better he made him lazy by spoiling him right?

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    1. pero pamilyado na si O kya dapat lang magbanat din ng buto

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  23. Tapos magagalit yan si O pagsinabihan siya

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  24. Puro yabang yang si O. And pag si P nainis goodluck!

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  25. sayang talaga potential ni K.

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  26. more clues pls, nakakaloka halos iisa lang ang hula ng lahat pero ako kahit isang karakter sa BI na to di ko mahulaan.

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  27. Napakacontrolling na husband, ok sana kung nagttrabaho cya, ma pride na wala sa lugar!

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  28. Ay kilala ko na!!! Grabe naman!

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  29. shookt ako saksakan ng yabang eh tirador naman pala ng refrigerator bhwawawa

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  30. If this is O and V is allowing him to go in and out of the house with groceries at hand, e I think P should also allow it. Nemen ang dami nilang pera at saka anak si O. Kung payag si V e di go lang. Kung ako si P, I will just make sure to buy for 2 households kung ganun pala kase ganyan na yan ng dinatnan nya.

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    1. Eh di parang kinunsinti mo na rin yung pagiging batugan at palaasa nya. Hindi naman sila nagdadamot, it’s just that kailangan nyang matuto mag-provide for his own family hindi yung hingi nalang ng hingi.

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    2. Me too bes. Andami namang pera ni MH susmio haha! Para groceries lang

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    3. Hello, ilang taon na nga ba si O? Sa edad nya at sa estado nya na may pamilya na dapat di naman talaga dumedepende na sa magulang nila lalo na kung may ibang pamilya na rin ang magulang nila. Ano un habang buhay nakadepende? Hindi yan sa dami ng pera, at di rin pagiging madamot ang turuan mong tumayo sa sariling paa ang anak mo.

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    4. hindi yan ang point! matanda na si O. dapat naman mag isip siya ng paraan kumayod at hindi umasa lang sa ama. pano pag namatay na ang ama? pano na? kawawa dyan ang asawa at mga anak nila.

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    5. Nako baks (11:26), oo anak nya yan pero hindi habang buhay ay andyan si V to support O. Para tuloy naging 2 na household ni V. Syempre siguro di lang talaga sya matiis ni V kasi anak nya yan.

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    6. That would make O dependent on them dahil tolerated naman siya. Paano matututo mamuhay yun?

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    7. Part na si P ng household, so may say siya.

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    8. Hanggang kelan naman papabayaang ganyan si O. Porket anak ok lang?

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    9. Hindi lang kasi yun about sa pera. Isipin mo na lang din kung ikaw naggogrocery ka ng mga bagay na para sa iyo, pinagaksayahan mo ng oras piliin at bilhin, tapos inaasahan mo meron ka pang stock, yun pala sa oras na kakainin mo na or gagamitin eh wala na kasi natokolachi walang bawi na pala. Di ba nakakainis yun?

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    10. Well, si MH ang nagspoil ke O. Saka malamang naman, hindi papabayaan talaga ni MH yan kasi anak niya yan eh.

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  31. Hehehehe kilala ko to. Akala ko ba may negosyo to si O!

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  32. Oh my, puro yabang tong si DT-O, kawawang HP-K, ni hindi nga mapakasalan ni Dt si HP, inaanakan lang ng inaanakan, grabe. napakairresponsableng anak, pasalamat siya sa yaman ni MH.

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    1. Pinagsasabi mo

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    2. baks, kasal po sila!

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    3. Naiimagine ko ung aalis na may dala dalang bags of grocery. Nakakaloka! D ba pwedeng i cash n lng from MH, kung ako naman si NB magagalit din ako mahirap mag grocery no!

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  33. only one word to describe O: linta.

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  34. Kawawang P. She has to live with O’s attitude. Magmumukha pa siyang kontrabida ngayon.

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  35. its not about the money. try mo bumili ng grocery ngaun then bukas lang eh makikita mo wala na.. dba maiimbyerna ka rin kahit mapera ka??

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    1. Korek. Pinag iisipan din kaya ang bibilhin s grocery hahaha

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    2. And it's not as if P can just do her grocery now whenever she wants. Tsk!

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  36. P is so mabait.

    O is so batugan.

    K is kawawa. Inanakan na lang ng inanakan ng asawa nyang batugan.

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    1. Di ko knows. KaF o KaH?

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    2. ouch. ang harsh mo, baks. pero totoo nga naman.

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  37. Bakit ndi na lang bumili ng groceries si O? Im sure binibigyan sila ng allowance ng dad nia. Cia na kumuha ng groceries, cia pa ayaw mamansin. Gosh! Kaloka si O!

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  38. Mahirap din kaso asawa Ka Lang, anak yun....do not think for a minute or even a second na pagbabawalan nya anak nya Gawain yun...hehe Kung sa Haitian nga ng mana lamang at lamang pa din mag anak...perĂ² batugan talaga yan si o yabang pa

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