Thursday, December 21, 2017

Insta Scoop: Ice Seguerra Clarifies His Identity as a Transman


Images courtesy of Instagram: iceseguerra

193 comments:

  1. uo nga naman, may pinakasalan siyang babae tapos ang tawag sa kanya "madame"

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    1. Sick! One of Satan's Demons

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    2. me mga palabel pa itong tiBong ito! pag wala sa nilikha ng Diyos e bakla o tibo lang na sakit! ang ibang tawag e badap, tomboy, t-bird, jokla, bading! Pauso pa ng mga nakuha lang sa Wastern terms para palaganapin ang KASALANAN AT REBELYONG ITO!

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    3. Kung babae ang tingin nya sa sarili nya, and kinasal sa babae, pwede pa rin madame. Ibig sqbihin lesbian ang relationship. Kaso Ice considers himself a man, na straight kasi babae ang minamahal nya. Iba ang lesbian (babae pa rin ang tingin sa sarili pero babae ang minamahal) at transman (pinanganak na babae ngunit lalaki ang tingin sa sarili). I know nakakalito. I had to wrap my hear around it as well.

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    4. bigyan mo pa ng stress ang tao kung ano itatawag sayo.. napaka demanding mo naman.. hindi na maaalis sa tao nasa isip na nila na babae ka, dahil babae ka naman, kaya deal with it.

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    5. Wow Ice daw, e di ikaw na ang (pa)cool! Yeah!

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    6. OKAY PEOPLE OF THE WORLD, ADJUST TO HER LIKINGS ACCORDINGLY!!!

      nkklk! kami ang mag-aadjust ganun?

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    7. Ayaw patawag ng mga pangbabaeng term pero yung pagiging sensitive at kuda babaeng babae parin.

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    8. 10:38 lol true!

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    9. 10:38 yung kaartehan niya girl na girl pa rin. Hahaha!

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    10. *HIM* kase dapat 8:29. Lagot ka kay 'sir'.

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    11. Palit name na din si ateng. Jume jake cyruz? Paki enlight nga ko ano pinagkaiba ng transman sa lesbian? Ganun din naman lesbian di ba they were born in woman's body but the feeling is like they feel like a man. So anong pinagkaiba po?

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  2. Aiza, when a person calls you ma'am, sis, tita, ate, etc., that person is just staying true to his faith and belief in God. Sa mata Ng Diyos, isa kang babae. If I call you Sir even if deep down I know that you're a woman, I'll be betraying God and my conscience. Pasensya na pero that's the consequence of the life you chose. You have to deal and live with it. You cannot expect people to bend their morals, faith, values, and belief just so they don't offend you.

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    1. Very well said.

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    2. This! It’s not about offending you or hindi alam ang itatawag. Maybe it’s a bigger story of personal conviction as well.

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    3. Nabigyan lang ng pwesto sa govt gagamitin kunong platform to show tolerance. E napaka intolerant nyo din sa mga taong gusto lang ng normal old fashioned values!!

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    4. Very well said. I agree totally. When a person changes his/her sex, it only changes in paper, period! No amount of surgical operations can change what God has created you to be!

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    5. Kaya hindi umaasenso ang Pilipinas jusko talaga naman. Napakahirap unintindi at puro bibliya. Bakit kaya hindi nyo sundin lahat ng nakasulat sa old testament. Eh hanggang jan lang naman sa bakla tomboy nyo. Tingnan ko kung mabuhay pa kayo mga gunggong kung sundin nyo yang old testament

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    6. Obviously faith in God doesn't teach everyone the meaning of basic respect. And I am referring toe very commentor above me.
      Your personal conviction is to deliberately call someone something they have asked you not to call them- because God? The self-righteousness is beyond belief.

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    7. Kaya nga just call he Ice.

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    8. THIS! kahit pa anong gawin mo, kung ano ka ipinanganak yun ka at hindi na magbabago. marami akong kaibigan at kakilalang gays na hindi naman pinapabago ang tawag sa kanila kaya mataas respeto ko sa kanila.

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    9. There is no God. Relax with the religious ideologies. Let her be what she wants to be.

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    10. I completely agree with you 12:32. Some LGBTs kasi seek so much respect na minsan di na nila ma consider to respect other people's beliefs/faith din. Respect begets respect.

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    11. Not everyone shares your faith. Just a friendly reminder to everyone.

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    12. OH THIS! ON POINT.

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    13. 7:52 precisely. And not everyone shares the same view as Ice/Aiza. Just a friendly reminder to you too. Have a nice day!

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    14. Hindi ito issue ng religion pero mula bata ka pa kilala ka na namin bilang babae. Ako nga naooff ako pag may lesbian hindi ko matawag na kuya or yung bading, bakit ko tatawaging madam?

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    15. 3:55AM matakot ka sa pinagsasabi mong there is no God. Wala ka sa mundong Ito Kung wla si God na nag create sa u at I allow kang mkita Ang mundong ginagalawan mo ngayon.

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    16. SLOW CLAP! Berigud itong comment na to 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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    17. 5:51Pm I should be thanking my parents. I see how u judge a person because they don't belive in something u believe. More people have died in the name of God than in anything else, FACT. I have nothing against religious people. But if u use that belief to persecute someone,I have the right to say something about it.

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    18. 10:37, if you agree that each of us have our own beliefs, then it should all boil down to MUTUAL RESPECT. Respect other people's preference the way you want others to respect yours. Its not that hard to do.

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    19. 6:40 kaya nga I reminded 7:52 (if that's not you)that not everyone shares the same view as Aiza/Ice. Why emphasize mutual respect? As if I disrespected someone's belief with my comment.

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    20. 7:35 PM, you don't have to share/agree with Ice's views to respect his decision. And pls, pakibasa na lang yung original post para magets mo ang trail ng convo. K?

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  3. Pwede naman iexplain humbly, kasi kahit ako lito pa din sa mga terms about LGBT.

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  4. Im a gay but i dont consider myself as a transgender woman why simplt because i dont have vagina and im a man but i am gay.. Advice ko lang sau aiza you are a lesbian not a man wala ka nman penis di ba? So pano pag sinabi kong mas mabigat ang langgam sa elepante kasi ayon yung paniniwala ko so kelangan irespeto nyo yun kasi opinion ko at paniniwala ko pero reality mali naman ako.. Just like ikaw aiza you said you are a TMAN pero wala ka naman facts at evidence na lalaki ka talaga.. Sana wag kang lumayo sa realidad!

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    1. Truelaloo, apir!

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    2. 12:36 baks sali kna sa pageant,and i thank you!👸

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    3. Konting aral pa baks.

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    4. Very well said!!! Applause. Humanga ako sayo

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    5. 12:36 research research pag may time

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    6. Pak! Korek na Korek

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    7. Mag research ka kase

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    8. Hindi yung puro sarili mo lang alam mo

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    9. My respect to you @1236

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    10. That’s why there’s a T on LGBTQ. T means transgender. It means that there are people who were born with female/male genitalia pero deep down they feel/wanted to be recognized as man/woman. Transman= female born but wanted to be a man. Transwoman= male born but wanted to be a woman. Kaya din may sex change na tinatawag

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    11. 12:36 the lgtbq should be ashamed of you. Educate yourself first before you post.

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    12. jeez 12:25 kaya nga TRANS Man at hindi MALE ang sinabi ni Aiza. You may be gay but you definitely have no empathy to your fellow LGBTQ brothers and sisters. Such a shame.

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    13. I'm also a gay man pero naiinis din ako sa transwoman o transman. Alam na alam naman nila na lalaki o babae sila kapag umiihi. Nag iilusyon ba. Tsk. Niloloko ng mga trans ang sarili nila.

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    14. 12:36 sana lahat ng gay katulad ng thinking mo.. I admire you.

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    15. 12:36 ang shallow mo! aral k muna bgo kumuda. hindi lng penis ang basehan ng pagiging lalaki. hindi m maiintindihan c ice kc hindi k nmn yun.

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    16. How can you compare a person's sexuality to your ants and elephants analogy? Sobrang illogical teh. Sexuality is very complex. Even experts on human sexuality and psychology e hirap iexplain ang human sexuality. Kaya please lang, magkakaiba kasi tayo, kahit straight ka pa, iba pa rin preference mo sa ibang straights. So it all boils down to one thing, RESPECT!

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    18. Baks sayo na ang Korona!!! Isang masigabong palakpakan para sayo.

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    19. Wait lang di ba transgender kapag nakapagpasex change na?

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    20. My boss is gay but superfriendly and he prefers to be called Mr. or Sir..And my butch friends they are fine when they are called ate ma'am tita..Nasa pagtanggap lang Sa sarili siguro..

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    21. Tmsn or twoman, pinanganak siyang girl. So acceot niya dapat if people call her that. Demanding ka tita aiza at iniimpose sa iba kung anong gusto mo

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    22. 2:18 PM Transsexual yun.

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    23. 12:36 AM Tsk! Ikaw na nagsabi na gay ka! So malamang hindi ka nga transgender. Kabilang ka sa LGBTQ community pero ikaw mismo walang alam? Magkaiba ang Gay at Transgender. Ipinanganak kang lalaki at alam mo sa sarili mong lalaki ka pero pusong babae (sexual orientation). Si Ice trasman babaeng ipinanganak pero hindi niya tanggap na babae siya dahil para sa kanya lalaki siya (gender identity). Isa ka sa dapat na sumusuporta at nakakaunawa pero mukhang hindi pa ganoon kalawak ang alam mo sa komunidad na kinabibilangan mo.

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    24. It baffles me how a gay person in this day and age still does not know what LQBTQ stands for. Each is different and it is not just because you were born a certain way or just plain gay. I implore you to google it when you have the time.

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    25. 11:47 Outdated naman talaga ang alam mo. Hindi mo nga alam kaibahan ng sex at gender. May nalalaman ka pa dyang dapat documents ang dapat iupdate, sex lang ang tinatanong dun. Hindi gender.

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  5. Pasensya na Ice ang hirap kasi magmaintain ng listahan ng mga dapat itawag sa mga VIP na katulad mo e

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    1. This game got me. Hahaha! Clever

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    2. Youve mastered sarcasm! Haha

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    3. Puro na lang sila! Pa pampered! That is why gender equality is 2017's most hated word in Netherlands. Ultimo na naman 'ladies and gentlemen' na announcement sa public transpo? Bawal na?! Nampupu oh! Sa inyo na lahat! Mga..!!!

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    4. Agree 2:22. Sobrang sense of entitlement ng mga ito. Lahat na lang issue sa kanila. Juice ko.

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    5. 12:36 family or friend ka ba? Affected ka sa kung ano ang tawag dapat kay Ice. Dear family and friends lag daw. Kebs niya sa'yo.

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  6. BB, Jake, Ice, who's next?

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  7. hindi ang pangalan or kung ano ang tawag sa iyo ang importante. kahit tawagin kang tita, ate, etc. at may respeto, katanggap-tanggap yon kesa naman ice, tito, manong, etc. ang tawag sa iyo pero wala namang paggalang sa iyo, walang kwenta rin. ang mga pinoy, notorious na mali minsan sa paggamit ng she/he, her/him kasi walang equivalent sa tilipino, at walang problema yon lalo na at di naman sinasadya.

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  8. Ang gulo ng mga yan. Nasosobrahan pag manipulate sa ating mga normal ang sexual preference/ gender.
    Bahala ka, TITA ICE!

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    1. Yes. They’re trying to make if seem that this is the new normal tapos tayo pa ang disrespectful diba mga madame tita?

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    2. Paano, agree na ang tatay idol nila sa same sex marriage kaya malakas na loob niyang mag angas now.

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    3. TITA ICE KA JAN! SABI NG AYOKO NYAN EH! ETO LANG PWEDE:

      pards
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      bossing
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      chong

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    4. Ayan. Nag comment na si madame ice. Hahaha.

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  9. Ako rin. Hindi ko pa rin magets ang difference ng lesbian and transman. Ang lesbian din naman; they were born with a vagina but they identify their selves as a man. So bakit kelangan pa ng transman? I thought the term transgender are for those who went under the knife, kaso hindi rin eh.

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    1. ang alam ko sa pagiging Transman based sa mga napapanood ko, sila ung naguundergo na ng HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). Si Charice ganun ung ginawa nya, transitioning na sya. Idk lang with Aiza kung nakaundergo na sya ng HRT.

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    2. This is from the GLAAD webpage: Sexual orientation describes a person's enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction to another person (for example: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual), while gender identity describes a person's, internal, personal sense of being a man or a woman, or someone outside of the gender binary.

      Simply put: sexual orientation is about who you are attracted to and fall in love with; gender identity is about who you are.

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    3. Lesbian..babae na may gusto din sa kapwa babae pero tingin nila sa sarili nila ay babae pa din. Masaya sila na babae ang anyo at katawan nila
      Pag trans..babae na may gusto din sa kapwa babae pero tingin nila sa sarili nila ay lalaki talaga sila. Issue nila na nasa maling katawan sila kaya pumapasok ang sex change.

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  10. Madame ang hirap naman kasi mawala sa isip ang mga nasubaybayan namin throughout the years. Nakita ka pa namin nag little ms philippines. So diba pwede ikaw ang mas umintindi. Di naman nila sadya na maoffend ka

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  11. ang yabang at sungit ng dating. pwede naman magrequest nang maayos. parang the universe owes her and is required to call her the way she pleases. OA. And yes, she is still a she.

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    1. Perfect words. Parang the universe owes her. Tama. Di porket pinili nya yan para sa sarili nya gusto nya lahat na susundin siya

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    2. entitled masyado si tita aiza

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    3. 12:48 EXACTLY!!!! Grabe sila to demand respect from everyone. Sana they'll learn din to respect our paniniwala.

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    4. oo nga 12:48 makapagdemand eh no. well sabi nya naman kasi family and friends. Family or Friends ka ba?

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    5. 12:48 did Ice command the universe? It clearly says FAMILY AND FRIENDS. kabilang ka ba sa dinedicate niya?

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  12. Daming hanash ni madame ate tita sis!

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    1. Kaloka. Wala kang gift!!! Natawa ako baks (ate baks)

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  13. Mahirap baguhin ang nakasanayan, lalo na't kilala ka. Di mo naman mappwersa ang tao kung ano ang itatawag sayo. Patience Aiza. Hintayin mo yung panahong makakasanayang tawaging kang SIR o KUYA o TITO o NINONG. Hindi mo naman mauutusan o ma-command ang mga tao. Oo, command term na ginamit ko kasi yung pagkakasabi mo pautos eh. It will be a major adjustment, hindi madali and alam mo na alam mo yan. I saw you 18 years ago, at kung masasalubong kita ulit, Aiza pa din ang itatawag ko sayo. Hindi sa pangbabastos o sa kung ano pa man, pero ikaw pa din naman yun kahit nagbago ka ng gender identity.

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  14. gusto mo si ice ka, kaso tubig ang paliwanag mo, nag-evaporate sa utak ko kaya gas lang ang natira.

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  15. Sa birth certificate mo nakalagay you're a female so yun na yun.

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  16. Family and friends naman daw, hindi para sa ating mga usi. Hehe. So, yes, we can still call her Madame. Haha.

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  17. Daming gusto. If people call u such di ka naman binabastos. Identified ka as a girl. Kaya wag ka maoffend kasi di naman lahat alam kung pano mo gusto iclassify sarili mo.

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    1. Kaya nga linagay sa public post diba, para mas marami makakaalam.

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    2. The way she said it was off. Kaya magrereact mga tao.

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    3. 3:05 Why would people react? Sinabi ba niyang dear people of the Philippines? Ang sabi niya ay Dear Family and Friends. Malinaw naman ang nakasulat so bakit nagrereact ang hindi naman kasali sa pinakiusapan niya?

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  18. Tita Aiza, ang dami mong arte eh babae ka pa rin naman. Lesbian ka at hindi Transman.

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  19. Taas tingin sa sarili

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    1. Kung mababa ang tingin mo sa sarili mo, huwag mong itulad sa'yo ang ibang tao.

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  20. Ano ba gender mo sa mga papeles panggobyerno? Kung F, rh di ate ka pa rin para sakin. Duh!

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    1. Sex and gender are 2 different things. Sex is anatomy (vagina for females and penis for males) while gender is mainly about your preference. Aiza's sex, therefore, is female, but his preference is that he is a man.

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    2. What I was trying to imply was, regarding the papers, literal papers po. So can she now check M on application papers? Will it be legal? I'm honestly curious. -1:19

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  21. Magtrabaho ka nga aiza sayang tax namin

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    1. Wala kang idea sa kung gaano siya nagwowork sa NYC so please google lang katapat niyan.

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  22. If anyone wants to know how backwards this country is, just look at the comments here. Ang daming self-righteous. Times like this I'm happy to be an atheist. No faith-based judgment. Live and let live, people. It's NOT your life, it's THEIRS. Why is that so hard to understand? Why don't you take a hard look on your own lives? I bet you're committing several of the Ten Commandments left and right. Talk about being hypocrites.

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    1. Sabi mo nga, it's their life. So why require us to call her a certain way? Why order us about? She cannot dictate to us because it's our mouth doing the talking. She can do as she pleases and we can call her as we please. End of discussion.

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    2. it's their life and yet they are imposing their beliefs on us! LOL patawa ka masyado teh. sinasabi mong nangengelam kami, eh ikaw din naman pinapakelaman mo kami. it's our life not yours. besides asan ang fatih-based judgment? these are scientific facts. kung may uterus ka eh di babae ka. kung xx or xy ang chromosome mo eh di yun ka. you cannot change your DNA make up. go on and join your atheist friends and mock people who have a religion, but you cannot do it here because these are based on science lol.

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    3. 1:34 totally agree. People like 2:04 and 2:06 go right on here to prove exactly your point.

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    4. 2:19 respect their opinion din naman sana as we respect yours and 1:34's

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    5. 2:19 edi kayo na ang tama. Iimpose ba ang opinion sa lahat?

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    6. Opinion nyo na nagdidiscriminate sa pagkatao ng iba
      2:04 2:06 at 12:21? Bakit namin irerespeto yun? Iba ang opinion sa judgment. Ang sinasabi lang bakit hindi nyo sila hayaan mabuhay sa gusto nilang paraan, as long as wala naman sila sinasaktan na ibang tao. They just want to be happy. Let them be. Susunod nga sila sa dictated norm ng society pero hindi naman sila masaya. Isa yan sa reasons ng depression at suicide sa LGBT community. Kaya hindi mo rin masisi ang mga sjw na lgbt. It's aldeady 2017 but they still feel discriminated, ostracized and judged just because they want to live their lives the way they want to.

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    7. Hello fellow atheist! Kaya wala na talagamg pagasa pilipinas dahil sa relihiyon nila!

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    8. At clueless pa rin sila all this time!

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    9. Ang labo ng logic ng iba rito. Ice prefers to be identified as male. So male-based terms ang gagamitin for him. Siya naman ang tatawagin so bakit niyo pinipilit na female terms ang gagamitin to address him? Self identity niya ang issue rito at dapat masunod dahil pagkatao niya yun. That trumps your backwards belief systems.

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    10. I'm agnostic, sort of, but Aiza's way is imposing, commanding, not asking nicely. So nah!

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    11. 2:04 I will call you Sprikitik from now on. That's how it will please me. End of discussion.

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  23. Hahaha. Ito totoong dilemma ko with lesbian strangers, I have no idea how to address them. Gay strangers who are openly gay I can call beks or baks or sis. But with lesbians I really have no idea. Like say when you’re buying something from them tapos wala naman sila nametags. So confusing.

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    1. Ask them, then call them what they ask you to call them.

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    2. Ask, and then call them what they. ask you to call them

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    3. do you realize how awkward it is to ask a person how they want to addressed?

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    4. I do t know, maybe it’s more awkward to keep calling them something that offends them don’t you think 11:18? Maybe a “May I address you as Ma’am?” Could give the person a chance to say yes/no or Give an alternative.

      What surprises me is here is someone clearly stating his preference and look at the reaction that person is getting. It’s like who cares what you want to be called we want to call you what we want to call you. Wow unbelievable.

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  24. Kawawa naman mga inaanak niya, nadamay pa. Malay ba ng mga chikiting sa transman transman na yan.

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  25. Madam aiza, sabihin mo sa kin yan kapag Male na ang nakalagay sa legal documents mo.

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    1. Gender ho pinaguusapan, not sex. Sex is just male and female (based on genitals) and the basis for documents. But gender is decided by the person. Magkaiba po yun. Sana ma-update na yung mga outdated na paniniwala. Nung ancient times kala ng mga tao kinakain ng dragon yung araw kapag nagdidilim until maexplain sa kanila na eclipse pala yun. Sana maupdate narin ang mga tao ngayon about gender and sexuality.

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    2. ano ba kinaibahan ng gender at sex sa documents?

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    3. 8:30 PM Sex ang nakalagay sa document na ang dapat isagot ay male or female.
      Sex (Genitals): Male or Female
      Gender Identity (Mind): Girl/Woman; Boy/Man; Transgender
      Sexual Orientation (Heart): Lesbian, Gay, Straight, Bi, Asexual, Queer

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    4. I concur, 1:55. Wag naman sabihin na sana ma-update kami. I'm never outdated sa paniniwala. I have gay and lesbo friends. I am liberated. But for now, sex is black and white on documents, so M and F lang. Tell the govt to update the documents, not us "outdated" people.

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    5. i agree with 11:47!

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    6. 1:55 Wow feeling relevant. Sino ka naman para hanapin ni Ice o ng kahit sino pa para lang sabihan ng gender nila?😂 Can you see the addressee? Family and friends. Kamag-anak ka ba? Kaibigan? Lol!

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  26. Ang babastos ng mga tao. Nilinaw na nga nung tao kung ano ang ibig sabihin ng transman at kung paano irefer ang isang transman (as a HE), tapos hindi niyo pa makuha irespeto. Naiintindihan ko religion niyo pero hindi naman lahat nagsusubscribe sa religion niyo. Mas mataas ang respeto sa tao kesa sa religion. Maraming bansa sa mundo umuusad na. Mga mauunlad na bansa pa yun. Lumalawak na pagtanggap sa LGBT. Kayo paurong parin. Pinas olats parin. Catholic country pero di makausad dahil sa corruption, hate, panggugulang sa kapwa, tsismis, etc. Try niyo kaya maging mas bukas at welcoming.

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    1. Try mo din kayang maging patient at hindi demanding.

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    2. Wala yan sa religion. Wala rin sa bansa. Any person, pag nakagawian ka na tawagin a certain way, mahirap na baguhin yon. No disrespect intended. Ganun lang kasimple.

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    3. 2:04 I dont think bastos is the right term. And don't you think calling people bastos because they practice their faith bastos din? Respect everyone's beliefs. Hindi yung may mas pinapanigan.

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    4. I am agnostic. Not all who oppose your opinion here are sagrado katoliko nor kristiano. Tsimis? Coming from you, wow! Then what's your business here? Either to check on scoops or you could be Aiza, right?

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  27. Ginagalang ko ang lgbt. Pero hindi naman maalis sa iba kung isipin pa rin nila na babae ka o lalaki ka. Magkaiba naman kayo ng mga paniniwala. Lalo na kung mga bata ang makakapuna. Maaring tanggap nila ang preference mo ngayon, pero hindi rin ganun kadali para sa iba ang mag adjust kung iba ang nakikita nila lalo na kung nakasanayan nila ang dati mong sarili. Pwede naman siguro na dedmahin na lang kung iba ang tingin nila sayo. Basta alam mo sa sarili mo kung ano ka talaga.

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    1. Very well said.

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    2. Agree. To add to that, depende din sa intensyon or motive ng tumawag sayo na ma’am. Eh kung ang pagkakaalam ng marami, male or female depende sa sexorgan nung pinganak ka. Hindi nman sila nagddisrespect, yun lang ang orientation ng marami. Respetuhan ng orientation.

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    3. 2:14 AM Kaya nga sinasabi na niya ngayon eh. Kailan pa matutunan ng iba na tanggapin sila kung hindi niya sasabihin ngayon at patuloy na hahayaan. May ilan sa mga nakakabasa ng post niya na naging aware na "ay dapat pala he, sir, etc." ang (gusto niyang) dapat itawag sa kanya. So ayun na ang itatawag nila sa kanya. Yung iba na nabasa na ito pero patuloy pa rin siyang tatawagin sa she, miss, etc. ewan ko na lang if ano ang intention nila para gawin yun.

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  28. Grabe nakakasuka ang self righteous dito na walang kaala,ala, tungkol sa respeto. As in WALA.

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    1. Grabe nakakasuka ang mga self ENTITLED dito na walang kaalam-alam tungkol sa pagpapakumbaba. As in WALA.

      Gets?!

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    2. Mas nakakasuka ka!

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    3. they hate Aiza because she's with D30. Yung mayamang trans, love nila

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    4. Sus 3:01 anong alam mo sa pagpakumbaba?

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    5. Walang konek si D30 dito. juice ko. Ipilit ba.

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    6. @7:59 Yung mayaman na trans na sinasabi mo hindi kasi sila mayabang ng wife nya. Hindi sila demanding sa madla na irespeto sila nag out lang si husband hindi patola sa mga negatibong reaction ng mga tao. Sila Aiza at Liza iba ang dating nila pinipilit nila na tanggapin paniniwala nila. Yung dalawang mayaman na nag out in the open hindi namemwersa.

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    7. 12:30 Basahin mo ulit ang post. Dear family and friends daw. Kabilang ka ba sa family and friends? Kung hindi e manahimik ka.

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  29. bawal ang trans-fat. nakaka heat attack un.

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  30. Eto na lang tawag nyo, “Aaayy sya!”

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  31. Ean ko sayo besh! Ate ka pa din!

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    1. dami bang hanash ni Beshi??? hahhaa

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  32. Most of the time, hindi sinasadya ng mga tao yun. Siempre ang nakagusnan natin pag ipinanganak kang babae, babaenpa rin ang gender mo. Hindi nman kawalang respeto yan. Sabihan mon yan sa mga bata, sobrang maguguluhan sila.

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  33. Napaka close minded ng ibang tao.

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  34. I like KAYE CAL. Wala syang ganyang mga hanash. She's so secure.

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    1. Korek!!! Etong si aiza daming issue... Grabe

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    2. Lesbian (soft butch) kasi si Kaye Cal. Magkaiba sa transgender. Sexual orientation lang ang kay Kaye samantalang si Ice na gender identity. Tanggap ni Kaye na babae siya (dahil babae naman talaga siya) pero pusong lalaki siya (SHE likes woman). Si Ice hindi niya tanggap na babae siya dahil para sa kanya isa siyang lalaki (HE likes woman). Don't compare them hindi po pare-pareho ang katangian ng nasa LGBTQ+ community.

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    3. So it all boils down to acceptance. Hmmm.

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    1. 11:14 AM gawin mo sa ibang bansa yan kulong ka! Ang tawagin ang mga trans sa pangalan na hindi na sila labag sa batas yun sa ibang bansa. So please wag mo dalahin sa labas ng bansa ang pagkaignorante mong yan baka ikapahamak mo.

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    2. 12:58 nasa ibang bansa ba tayo?

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    3. Ms Aiza lang. Sobra nman maka madame!

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    4. 3:58 PM Obviously wala kaya nga sinasabi ko sa kanya di ba na yung ganyang pananalita ay hindi uubra sa ibang bansa. Para maging aware siya na ang ganyang pag-uugali ay mali sa ibang lugar. Sa Pilipinas insulto lang ang tawag dyan pero sa ibang bansa crime na yan. Awareness dear! awareness! ayun lang po ang intention ko dyan. :)

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    5. 9:11 I dont think gagawin ni 11:14 yan sa ibang trans. Ang sarap lang kasi asarin ni Aiza dahil pinapakialaman nya ang gustong isipin ng ibang tao.

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    6. Senyora Aiza nalang!

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  36. Hay naku! Yang mga transman, transwoman at kung ano ano pa, pauso lang ng mga lgbt community yan! Eh talaga namang pag papipiliin ka ng gender, ang orig na pagpipilian lang either Male or Female! Ngayon kung matawag kayong ma’am/ sir, it’s respect! Pati mga inaanak tinakot pa! Bahala ka na nga!

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    1. Sana nga pauso na lang talaga yun para at least hindi sila nasasaktan sa tuwing may mga ganyang kumento tulad sayo na tungkol sa kanila. Kaso hindi ito pauso o nakikiuso lang na usapin. Respect na lang sana. :(

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  37. People gender identity/expression ang pagiging transgender hindi lang basta sexual orientation. Please respect transgenders' identity dahil para sa kanila hindi sila babae (if transman) o di kaya hindi sila lalaki (transwoman) talaga. Kaya ibigay natin sa kanila ang pagataong sila talaga. Kulang pa talaga sa pagtanggap ang Filipino sa LGBTQ+ community. Yung iba naman dito maka proclaim pa na kesyo kabilang sa LGBTQ+ pero napakabababaw naman ng kalaaman sa sariling komunidad na kinabibilangan. Imbes na sila ang unang makaunawa sila pa ang nagsasabi ng hindi maganda kay ICE.

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  38. Nakakalungkot na marami pa rin ang ilag sa LGBTQ+ issues. :( People 21st Century na po pero ganyan pa rin kababaw ang pananaw nyo. Hindi nyo kailangan alamin lahat pero sana igalang nyo na lang kung ano ang gender orientation, identity o expression ng bawat isa.

    Basahin nyo ang #LS4N1 ni Pilosopotasya sa Wattpad baka sakaling medyo matanggap nyo kahit kaunti ang mundo ng LGBTQ+.

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    1. Cmon guys it’s 2017

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    2. so kailangan igalang kahit nalalayo na sila sa realidad? dalawa lang ang gender male and female, dalawa lang ang third sex, gay and lesbian. wag kang mawala sa realidad kasi sa mental bagsak mo baks!

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    3. 8:34 PM Anong realidad ba ang totoo para sa iyo? Ang realidad kasi para sa akin mayroong mga taong kabilang sa LGBTQ+. At iba-iba ang katangian ng mga ito mapa-sexual orientation man o gender identity. Ikaw ang dapat kumawala dyan sa lesbian at gay "lang" ang third sex na idea mo. Hindi nakakabaliw ang tanggapin ang idea ng LGBTQ+ community. Mas masaya actually na tanggap mo lang ang bagay bagay sa kanila. :)

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    4. hay naku! wag nyo na pagtalunan yang post ni aiza na yan... tutal naman e para sa "Family and Friends" nya lang naman naka-address yung message.

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  39. Tatawagin ko syang ice pag kaharap ko sya para lang di sya ma-offend dahil yun ang gusto nyang respeto na ibigay sa kanya. Pero walang makakapagbago ng paniniwala ko na babae pa rin sya. Respetuhin nyo rin ang paniniwala ko!

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  40. Hello, ICE! Malamang me regalo na rin ako sa Pasko.
    Thank you in advance hahahahah

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  41. pati yung mga inaanak e idinamay pa noh?!

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  42. So ok lang magka gender confusion ang mga batang inaanak mo para maging komportable ka. Edi gudjab!

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  43. I wonder san ka umiihi, Ice? Sa CR na din ng lalaki? At nakatayo din?

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    1. Is that even the topic here? Gender preferences ang usapan, hindi genital.

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  44. Okay... cobsidering me ganyan ngang pagkakaiba. Pag me nakasalubong ako sa kanto at nakaharang sya sa dadaanan ko, sasabihin ko pa rin excuse me miss kung tingin ko, babae sya regardless kung straight sya o tomboy o lesbian o transman dahil outward appearance lang naman ang nakikita ko at that moment at hindi yun dreams, aspiration o delusion nya.

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    1. Kabastusan ang gagawin mo. Alam mong itsurang butch pero tatawagin mong Miss. Just simply say excuse me, kailangan pang mang-insulto ng kapwa?

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    2. 11:05 AM Agree!

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  45. Mga Mema dito, hindi para sa inyo ang post ni Ice kundi para sa family and friends. Affected kayong masyado.

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  46. Iniisip ko... paano kapag kinakapkapan sa mall or airport? Sa pang female o male ka magpapakapkap? Naisip ko lang bigla. Kasi nung minsan may nakita ako, tomboy (di ko alam kung transman na siya kasi parang ung hitsura at pananamit niya si Ice.) Pumila siya sa pang male na side... aun. Naguguluhan ako. Pinalilipat siya nung guard na lalaki in a nice way. Syempre kakapkapan niya eh. Tapos nagalit si tomboy. Ang gulo lang. Paano mag-adjust lalo na sa part ng mga guards.

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  47. When people call address him as "ma'am, miss, etc." they don't mean to disrespect. Besides, this is a relatively new concept adopted by those na nakaka-angat sa buhay na mas agad nakisabay sa western concepts. If u go sa mga poor baranggays, I don't think those who are like him will say I am a trans man and most of them will still prefer to be addressed as "ate, miss, etc." even if they feel that they are male.

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