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Tuesday, June 6, 2017

Insta Scoop: Rita Avila Shares How She Dealt with Losing Her Child


Images courtesy of Instagram: msritaavila

45 comments:

  1. This made me cry, i can't imagine the sorrow she has gone through. Ang mga bashers ngayon parang wala ng pakialam dapat sila ang mgpacheck up ng mental health nila.

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    1. Iba iba naman kasi ang pagcocope sa loss ng bawat tao ata yung sa kanya parang sa mga anime me mga dolls siya na parang ginawa niyang puppets niya. Pero wala naman siyang powers like sa mga animes kaya yung mga dolls steady lang. Ang harsh nung basher....

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    2. Malamang yung bashers walang anak. Or utak talangka lang talaga. Jusko.

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    3. Mga bashers either sobrang conservative or papansin or heckler lang talaga

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    4. Madami kasing nagmamagaling sa buhay ng iba. Mas alam nila kung paano patakbuhin ang buhay mo. Lahat naman tayo nadedepress. Kanya kanya lang tayo ng ways sa pagcope. Yung iba inaacknowledge di lang nila na di kaya ihandle ang depression kaya nagpapatingin sa psychiatrist o psychologist pero hindi ibig sabihin na baliw na sila.

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    5. Ano na ba ang nangyari sa mga tao? Bakit nang bubully ng taong namatayan??? What gives anybody the right to question one's coping mechanism to reconcile the untimely death of her children and having to continue living life? Mahirap po mamatayan. Even more kung ang magulang ang maglibing sa kanilang anak, in this case, she had to bury both her children. How cruel and evil that person is. Huwag sana nila maranasan ang hirap na naranasan ni Ms. Rita Avila.

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  2. Si basher kasi. Ayan tuloy.

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  3. napakatapang mo madam ikaw yung kwento na totoong nakakainspire ng pagbangon at katatagan

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  4. Feeling ko kulang sa kaalaman ang Pilipinas when it comes to depression and mental illness kaya ganyan na lang mag react yung karamihan. I remember hearing from someone sa Pilipinas nung umuwi ako at sinabi kalalaking tao may depression. This woman is right and her pictures show a very happy person. It comes from within. If she wants to surround herself with dolls to make her happy, who are we to judge.

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    1. Not only that, nosy and judgmental, too. So much rooted in ignorance. When it comes to understanding mental illness, we still have a long, long way to go.

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    2. Depression is not a joke. Boyfriend ko meron depression or should I say diagnosed with bipolar I. Dahil yun sa past life story nya at nadeveloped na lang dahil sobrang stress sa buhay nya noon. Sabi nya, hindi nya napipigilan yung mga pop up thoughts, kahit lyrics ng kanta biglang nagpapa pop up kahit di nya naiisip. Natatakot sya malaman ng iba na may depression sya dahil dito sa Pilipinas,kapag may depression or bipolar e baliw na kagad. Kahit ang totoo e hindi naman.

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    3. Ako rin may depression. I had to take meds for it. While tapos na yung therapy, I still have bouts with it every now and then. My older brother calls me "sira ulo" when he's "joking" daw. It really hurts my feelings immensely but I couldn't argue with my siblings for fear of being labeled "weak" and "overly sensitive". Unfortunately, I was born into a family and culture that refuses to recognize my existence because of my illnesses. Story of my life.

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  5. My sister's daughter died prematurely because of APAS, an autoimmune condition of my sister. We were all devastated when our first pamangkin left us...So much more to my sister...She had her own battle and up until now, she still cries whenever she remembers her first born...so to those bashers, please show some sympathy..Think before you click.

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  6. ugh! Now I'm crying at trying to hold it together kc im at work.... had back to back miscarriage too this year... it's not easy to share and you dont get that much sympathy esp. for some people who think na it's not big deal kc early preg "lang"

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    1. Virtual hug to you. Be strong.

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    2. A hug from here, too. This too, shall pass.

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    3. Once a mother, always a mother. Hugs to you too!

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    4. Hugs, hun. Give it a year or two for the body to recover. Try to be in shape and healthy. That's how two of my pals finally had kids after several miscarriages. I'm sure you will have your bundle of joy too when the time is right.

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  7. Ako nga nakunan last feb lng after 11 yrs, 6 mos n ang baby ko ng mawalan sya ng heartbeat, me doll din ako n binihisan ko p ng baby dress kse its my way of coping up but it doesnt mean n baliw ako, hirap lng tlga makaget over

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  8. Mga bashers kasi.. losing someone is never easy on anyone! My parents lost my sister and i wouldnt be surprised if they crazy or not. Mahirap mamatayan ng anak. Masakit and mahirap mag move on sa situation na yun lalo na pag ina

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  9. Hindi biro ang makunan lalo na at medyo me edad na. Naranasan ko yan. At the age of 46 wala na kaming plano pero naka buo. Na i give up ko lahat pati work ko dahil sa gustong gusto naming magka anak at yun na yun time kaya hala give up lahat para lang sa baby... Pero sadly after 3 months nawala din. 2 years. 2 years akong di man lang makatingin sa mga baby commercials sa TV. 1 year akong di sumimba. At 2 years akong nagmukmok sa bahay at di lumalabas. Kung dyan yun sa atin sinabihan na ako ng kung ano ano. Salamat sa Diyos at nakabangon din ako. Kaya yung mga walang puso ng nanghahamak ng mga dumadaan sa ganyan... Wag sana ninyong danasin ang naranasan namin!

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    1. I feel you, been there too.

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  10. Ang sakit nito para sa ina na namatayan ng mga anak. Namatayan din ako ng anak. My baby was born sleeping at 37 weeks last dec. Yung urn ng baby ko andito sa kwarto namin ng asawa ko. Madalas kinakausap rin namin ng asawa ko. Hindi alam ng karamihan ang pinagdadaanan ng mga magulang na nawalan ng anak. Sana hindi maging mapanghusga mga tao. May iba ibang ways para makapag cope up. Pero hindi ibig sabihin non nabaliw o nadepress na dahil lang may ibang weird kami na nagagawa. You wouldnt really understand til it happens to you.

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  11. Kaya ang hirap mag-'out' dito na may depression ka eh, sasabihin nila kesyo nababaliw ka. O masyado ka lang ma-drama. :-(

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    1. Haaayyy totoo baks! Or minsan, sasabihan ka rin ng 'nag-iinarte' lang :(

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    2. True, I'm a guy and everyday i fight depression... Sad part no one knows I go through with it everyday kasi an daling itago

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    3. Korek teh. Tapos sasabihan ka na lilipas din yan wag masyado intindihin, maglibang ka lang,pasyal ka, nood ka ng comedy.kung ganun lang kadali sana

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  12. Naiyak ako sa pist ni miss rita dinagdagan pa bg mga commenters huhuhu

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  13. Ang tagal mong hinintay, pinagdasal at inasam. Finally binigay sa 'yo pero babawiin din pala in the end. Hindi kailangan ng masyadong common sense for someone to understand the kind of pain Rita Avila went through. Kaya sa mga walang magandang masabi, shut up na lang please. Just be thankful na hindi nyo pinagdadaanan yung pinagdaanan niya.

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  14. Di ba c Kisses pang 8th nabuo yong iba nawala din. Try and try lng Rita.

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    1. i understand you, and i'm not disagreeing with you there, pero kasi minsan nakakawalang gana na. lalo na kung lagi ka nalang nakukunan. parang, "ano ba?" you can't help but question everything na. haaay.

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    2. Too late for Rita kc 52 na cya at kahit nung medyo bata pa cya hirap cya talaga mag buntis.

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  15. I never knew she lost a child. Ang sakit nyan. Kaya pala nahiligan nya magsulat ng children's stories, ang lalim ng pinaghugutan.

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  16. Sa mga nag post dito na nawalan ng baby, I offer prayers to all of you.

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  17. Yung basher is a shallow, materialistic lola from America.

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    1. Typical yan sa mga nagretire sa america na feeling rich na kahit ano pwede na nilang sabihin. Kaloka.

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  18. You will never know how it feels until it happens to you kaya wag judgmental

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  19. If people only know kung ano nangyari sa kanya at sa baby nya na matagal nyang hinintay, maawa kau sa pinag-daanan ni Rita, matibay shang babae sa totoo lng

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  20. This made me cry about her loss. I am praying to have kids too. Di po madali para sa aming mahirap magkaanak. In His time.

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  21. grabe! i felt her pain. i'm sorry, Rita, and at the same time I'm proud of you. kahit hindi mo ako kilala, I'm proud of you for being that strong.x

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  22. to all the women that have suffered a miscarriage or have lost their beloved babies, I sincerely apologize for your loss. I'm know no words, no gestures could ever heal that wound, that nothing could ever comfort you from your pain. Please stay strong.

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  23. Ke gwapong bata ang tangos ng ilong. Sayang di man lang nabuhay. May his soul rest in eternal peace.

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  24. God bless you Rita. You are a great woman!

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  25. Cute pala ng baby ni Rita no? 52 na pla sya....well hindi sa nagmamagaling, she can easily apply for an adoption.Madali na lang nman proseso ngayon or be a foster parent.

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