7:27am tumigil ka sa poverty mentality. Abuser yung tatay kaya ayaw na nila makipagdeal diyan. Para ka namang walang napanood at nabasa sa news. Yung mga anak ang biktima dito. Wag mo silang igaslight.
na comment mo na to dati, inulit mo na naman? drama paawa excuse para pagtakpan ang mga ginagawang mali! ganyan ung mga abuser.. sasabihin dahil mahirap sila kaya inaayawan pero ang totoo, SILA UNG MASAMANG TAO
Di ba pwede mag file ng restraining order magkakapatid? Kung eto magulang ko nakuuuu… patawad po Lord pero mas mahalaga ang buhay Na regalo mo sa akin kaya aalagaan at iingatan ko.
Honor your father and mother doesn’t mean blind obedience, lalo na kung absent parents sila or nag-cause ng trauma from childhood hanggang adulthood. Respect is still important, pero hindi ibig sabihin na you ignore the pain or tolerate harmful behavior. Honor can mean boundaries, healing, and choosing what is healthy for for the children/child too.
12:06 AM and 12:10 agree with you, parents also have commandments that we need to fulfill, it's never one sided and children can still honor their parents by respecting and forgiving them but keeping your distance is an option to maintain your peace as well
The emotional trauma( distress, manipulation and abuse) is different from physical abuse. Both carry the same weight and depth but the effect on the kids are all different. Napapalo man ako o nakukurot nung bata pa ko, pero ang sakit ng pinapahiya ka sa ibang tao at ramdam mo na hindi ikaw ang paborito or a parent sees you as a competition. Thats's me. Sa case ko, masakit ang mga salita kasi di mo na mababawi lalo na pag bata ka pa lang naririnig mo na. Kaya lumaki din ako na insecure at hindi confident sa sarili. Eto siguro ang nararamdaman ng mga anak nya. Resigned and too exhausted. The difference is, mahal ko pa din ang magulang ko. Maybe one day, magkakaayos din sila when Dennis is ready to admit his mistakes and forgive himself and his kids are all willing to open their hearts again to their father. Naniniwala pa din ako na God heals all wounds in His time.
Wawa naman si astig Dennis wala nang ma post na latest pictures man lang nila mag ama, puro luma na lang alam nya ipost. Ganyan talaga pag dika huwarafng ama
Dahil hindi mo na kailangan magbayad ng child support kaya super clingy ka na ngayon sa kanilang tatlo, since may may mga sariling income na sila, naghope yata si Dennis na mabiyayaan mula sa tatlo. Hindi niya inisip na love, protection and respedct ang needed ng mga anak nya kay Marjorie mula noon pa. Tapos ngayon si Dennis pa ang talak ng talak para maging kawawa. Not only nakakahiya sa mga anak but mentally and emotionally drained na talaga sila si Julia.
@10:53 Why? Getting away from a toxic parent is actually fulfilling and brings peace. So paano mo nasabi na hindi sasaya ang buhay nila?? Hindi dapat maging willing victim ang mga anak habang buhay just to please a narcissistic parent.
10:53 as if nman nakakasaya ang pagkakaroon n grabeng katoxic n tatay like Dennis noh!!! Pati, diba lahat ng anak niya from other women ay nilayuan n siya?? So bakit sa Barretto children lng kayo nakafocus?? Dhil sikat?? Kasuka kayo
Absentee father ka siguro kaya ayaw nila sa surname mo. Marami makaka relate dito, yung dala nila apelido ng tatay nila kahit inabandona sila, kaya marami nagsisisi mga nanay na sana apelido nalang nila nung pagkadalaga ang nilagay na apelido ng bata simula pagsilang.
This guy is shamelessly piling on judgement and anxiety to his kids. Good parents will do everything they can for their kids, always hope for their best outcome and the last thing they would want to do is hurt them. Ito si DP regular ang psychological and emotional abuse. As kids dati may dagdag pa na economic/financial neglect pari na rin physical abuse. For the rest of their lives, his kids will be his emotional trash can because they will try their best to maintain dignity and not fight back. They must be exhausted.
I don't think your love still matters for your children. Your name is the only thing that connects them to you, and now that they've decided to remove your name, your cut-off from their lives completely. Kung may natitira man siguro is yung respect na lang nila sayo bilang tao, and not as their father. You deserved it.
Same love same hope tapos nagpainterview. Minura mura, siniraan sinabihan na itrato na patay na now going back on his words akala ko ba tapos na wala na bakit papasin ulit
Your love is not enough if hindi ka nagpaka-tatay sa kanila, hindi mo sila sinustentuhan, wala kang support. Sinisira mo pa buhay nila kasi narcissist ka. Matanda na pero sarili lang iniisip. Mabuti na lang di tulad mo mga anak mo, pero binigyan mo sila ng matinding trauma. Paulit-ulit pa. Di ka naging ama sa kanila kaya dapat tumahimik ka na.
They should follow the law at the time they were born. Technically di valid kasal ni Marj at Dennis dahil kasal na si Dennis sa ibang babae before Marj. Sa old family code, pag illegitimate yung anak, surname ng nanay ang gagamitin. Tinama lang nila ang dapat na last name nila. And this is an old issue na pinost na naman ni Dennis for being pa victim pero abusive and deadbeat dad. Maybe he has upcoming show kaya ganyan or sadyang papansin.
Ito ang mas tama: IF YOUR CHILDREN'S HAPPINESS IS YOUR SADNESS, THEN WALA KA TALAGANG KWENTANG TATAY.
KAUMAY KA! LAGI NA LANG PA-VICTIM.
When will you stop putting your children in a bad light? Panay naman sila reach out sayo pero lagi kang gumagawa ng gulo or dami mong hanash. Napaka entitled mo for someone na deadbeat father. Isipin mo nga, your children still respect you kahit ganyan ka, di ka nila pinapatulan. They tried to make an effort for you many times pero sinayang mo lahat ng chances na yun. Yung ginawa mo nung kasal ni Claudia, grabe ang lala nun.
At this point, with everything you've done, I can confidently say you really don't love your children. Gusto mo lang magmukhang kinawawang tatay. Or gusto mo maghabol to get financial support from them -pero di umubra ang style mo. If only you were nicer.
so sorry for this guy but the kids for sure has their reasons why they chose peace. He was given a chance for sure. Being a father is not just blood it comes with responsibilities, respect, and growth. the blame game his playing with his kids caused him. hard to swallow especially with our culture but the "norms" had evolved. he got his own family now he can still change and learns from his mistakes. he can't change the past, but his future can, if he is willing.
Wow. Guilt trip tong ginagawa mo Dennis. Bakit ganyan kayong mga magulang imbes na isipin at unahin ang over all well being ng anak ninyo, well being at pride niyo ang inuuna ninyo? I think Filipino parents don't know how to become a responsible parents because of death of gratitude. Mine included.
May movie kasi si Dennis with Robin kaya need mag ingay
ReplyDeleteDati pa yata yan name change
DeleteDi ka kc mayaman wala silang mamanahin sau, dami mo pa anak. Kung si Elon Musk ka for sure di gantan treatment nila sau
Delete7:27 me point ka
Delete@7:27 hindi matatapalan ng pera ang any past abuse in words or actions
DeleteIF MY SADNESS WILL BRING JOY TO YOU MY CHILDREN...MY HEART IS FULL OF HATRED!!!
Delete7:27am tumigil ka sa poverty mentality. Abuser yung tatay kaya ayaw na nila makipagdeal diyan. Para ka namang walang napanood at nabasa sa news. Yung mga anak ang biktima dito. Wag mo silang igaslight.
Delete@7:27 Estranged din yung isang anak ni elon musk sa kanya. Goes to show na if di ka mabuting ama kahit gaano ka kayaman tatakwil ka pa rin ng anak mo.
DeleteElon Musk is estranged with one of his children . The child refuses any contact with Elon . If Im not mistaken.
Deletena comment mo na to dati, inulit mo na naman?
Deletedrama paawa excuse para pagtakpan ang mga ginagawang mali! ganyan ung mga abuser.. sasabihin dahil mahirap sila kaya inaayawan pero ang totoo, SILA UNG MASAMANG TAO
Ang pagmamahal sa gawa hindi sa salita🤮🤮🤮
DeleteNauuto pa ako nito dati pero nung reregaluhan ng cap at bagoong ang anak sa araw ng kasal isa lang masasabi ko. Yaaaaaaaaak
DeleteDasurb
ReplyDeletePagmamahal sa SALITA. sa gawa Wala
DeleteKawawa talaga din sila Julia, Claudia & Leon for having a manipulative father.. acknowledge sila when it’s convenient, laging pavictim si Dennis.
ReplyDeleteTrue, tsk3 Ang hirap maging ama si dennnis, siya lagi Ang kawawa sa storya ng Buhay niya pa victim Ang narc
DeleteJusko eto talaga yung winiwish mo sana ibang tatay nalang ang tatay mo! Ugh! I feel for his children!
ReplyDeleteNakakapagod na yung never-ending drama ni Dennis.. sabi nya ang kapal ng mga anak nya and ituring na patay, tapos ayan nanaman 😓😓
ReplyDeleteGsto tlga sa knya spotlight well gets q nman masakit pero you could've settle this back door. Mghahabol kpa e sperm nga lng ambag mo tsk
ReplyDeleteNakakabaliw yung ganitong tatay taon2 ka sasaktan mentally
ReplyDeleteDi ba pwede mag file ng restraining order magkakapatid? Kung eto magulang ko nakuuuu… patawad po Lord pero mas mahalaga ang buhay Na regalo mo sa akin kaya aalagaan at iingatan ko.
Delete1:01 banggitin pa ang Lord talaga, hahaha! Hindi bagay!
DeleteIt is in the commandment, obey and honor your parentsl
ReplyDeleteColossians 3:21
Delete“Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”
Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger…
Never forget!! hindi lang pro-parents ang bible!!
Honor your father and mother doesn’t mean blind obedience,
Deletelalo na kung absent parents sila or nag-cause ng trauma from childhood hanggang adulthood. Respect is still important, pero hindi ibig sabihin na you ignore the pain or tolerate harmful behavior. Honor can mean boundaries, healing, and choosing what is healthy for for the children/child too.
Lol… buuin mo buong utos. Wag mo i shortcut
Delete12:06 AM and 12:10 agree with you, parents also have commandments that we need to fulfill, it's never one sided and children can still honor their parents by respecting and forgiving them but keeping your distance is an option to maintain your peace as well
DeleteGood riddance! Just cut him out entirely. Clearly, he never had the best intentions for you. Blood does not equate to family, the relationship does.
ReplyDeleteThe emotional trauma( distress, manipulation and abuse) is different from physical abuse. Both carry the same weight and depth but the effect on the kids are all different. Napapalo man ako o nakukurot nung bata pa ko, pero ang sakit ng pinapahiya ka sa ibang tao at ramdam mo na hindi ikaw ang paborito or a parent sees you as a competition. Thats's me. Sa case ko, masakit ang mga salita kasi di mo na mababawi lalo na pag bata ka pa lang naririnig mo na. Kaya lumaki din ako na insecure at hindi confident sa sarili. Eto siguro ang nararamdaman ng mga anak nya. Resigned and too exhausted. The difference is, mahal ko pa din ang magulang ko. Maybe one day, magkakaayos din sila when Dennis is ready to admit his mistakes and forgive himself and his kids are all willing to open their hearts again to their father. Naniniwala pa din ako na God heals all wounds in His time.
ReplyDeletethat's true, for now siguro it's best they keep their distance kasi mauulit ng mauulit and ipagdasal nila ang ama nila
DeleteIt is without a doubt you are a sperm donor.that’s it.
ReplyDeleteWawa naman si astig Dennis wala nang ma post na latest pictures man lang nila mag ama, puro luma na lang alam nya ipost. Ganyan talaga pag dika huwarafng ama
ReplyDeleteDahil hindi mo na kailangan magbayad ng child support kaya super clingy ka na ngayon sa kanilang tatlo, since may may mga sariling income na sila, naghope yata si Dennis na mabiyayaan mula sa tatlo. Hindi niya inisip na love, protection and respedct ang needed ng mga anak nya kay Marjorie mula noon pa. Tapos ngayon si Dennis pa ang talak ng talak para maging kawawa. Not only nakakahiya sa mga anak but mentally and emotionally drained na talaga sila si Julia.
ReplyDeleteAwat na.. hindi pa ba kayo nag sasawa or nahihiya sa mga family issues niyo…
ReplyDeleteJusko te, tahimik naman ang mga barretto kids, etong idol mong so dennis ang panay post
DeleteBuhay na naman ang dugo ng astiging tatay. May pang-content na naman siya
ReplyDeleteMarjorie’s kids are adults and they can cutoff toxic people for their peace of mind
Deadbeat dad, gaslighter and narc pa
narcissistic parents will never reflect but blame others for their own failures
Deletesumabay sa pasukan si dennis agaw eksena
ReplyDeleteTigilan na, Astig. Leave them in peace. That’s the best thing you can do to make up for all the heartaches you’ve caused them.
ReplyDeleteSana lahat sila mag file ng petition.
ReplyDeleteLahat yan hindi magiging happy sa buhay.
Delete@10:53 Why? Getting away from a toxic parent is actually fulfilling and brings peace. So paano mo nasabi na hindi sasaya ang buhay nila?? Hindi dapat maging willing victim ang mga anak habang buhay just to please a narcissistic parent.
Delete10:53 as if nman nakakasaya ang pagkakaroon n grabeng katoxic n tatay like Dennis noh!!! Pati, diba lahat ng anak niya from other women ay nilayuan n siya?? So bakit sa Barretto children lng kayo nakafocus?? Dhil sikat?? Kasuka kayo
DeleteThis guy uses his kids everytime he wants attention...
ReplyDeleteAbsentee father ka siguro kaya ayaw nila sa surname mo. Marami makaka relate dito, yung dala nila apelido ng tatay nila kahit inabandona sila, kaya marami nagsisisi mga nanay na sana apelido nalang nila nung pagkadalaga ang nilagay na apelido ng bata simula pagsilang.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is shamelessly piling on judgement and anxiety to his kids. Good parents will do everything they can for their kids, always hope for their best outcome and the last thing they would want to do is hurt them. Ito si DP regular ang psychological and emotional abuse. As kids dati may dagdag pa na economic/financial neglect pari na rin physical abuse. For the rest of their lives, his kids will be his emotional trash can because they will try their best to maintain dignity and not fight back. They must be exhausted.
ReplyDeleteFor me lang ha, wala naman talaga kaso if they wanted to use Barretto. Mom naman nila nagsilang dyan sa mga yan at nagpalaki.
ReplyDeleteisn't she a lorenzo now???
ReplyDeletepero the middle name lalo ng future kids.
Deletethe petition was made before the wedding
DeleteTatlong question mark pa talaga girl? Porke ba married na at gamit na ang family ng asawa, wala ng importansya ang sariling family name ng babae?
Deleteyes but this petition was from when she was still single, So her future kids will be Barretto- Lorenzo
DeleteSukang suka sila sa apelyido ng tatay nila
DeleteThey gave you so many chances, and on the most special day of your daughter dun ka pa talaga nagkalat. Pero sorry ah ang hirap mag move on from that.
ReplyDeleteThats the spirit Dennis!
ReplyDeleteI don't think your love still matters for your children. Your name is the only thing that connects them to you, and now that they've decided to remove your name, your cut-off from their lives completely. Kung may natitira man siguro is yung respect na lang nila sayo bilang tao, and not as their father. You deserved it.
ReplyDeleteSame love same hope tapos nagpainterview. Minura mura, siniraan sinabihan na itrato na patay na now going back on his words akala ko ba tapos na wala na bakit papasin ulit
ReplyDeletePag ang bata ayaw na nya sa last name mo wag kana makipag associate sakanya kasi dika na welcome sa buhay nya
ReplyDeleteYour love is not enough if hindi ka nagpaka-tatay sa kanila, hindi mo sila sinustentuhan, wala kang support. Sinisira mo pa buhay nila kasi narcissist ka. Matanda na pero sarili lang iniisip. Mabuti na lang di tulad mo mga anak mo, pero binigyan mo sila ng matinding trauma. Paulit-ulit pa. Di ka naging ama sa kanila kaya dapat tumahimik ka na.
ReplyDeleteAnu ba namimiss mo Dennis pag anjan naman sila na nagrereach out sayo gumagawa ka ng gulo. Yung kasal ni claudia invited ka na pero anung ginawa mo
ReplyDeleteThey should follow the law at the time they were born. Technically di valid kasal ni Marj at Dennis dahil kasal na si Dennis sa ibang babae before Marj. Sa old family code, pag illegitimate yung anak, surname ng nanay ang gagamitin. Tinama lang nila ang dapat na last name nila. And this is an old issue na pinost na naman ni Dennis for being pa victim pero abusive and deadbeat dad. Maybe he has upcoming show kaya ganyan or sadyang papansin.
ReplyDeletemay upcoming movie daw kaya kahit last year alam na nya yan
Deletenow lang posted sa socmed
Buti pala si Dani simulat sapul Barretto na sya pagkasilang palang
ReplyDeleteIto ang mas tama: IF YOUR CHILDREN'S HAPPINESS IS YOUR SADNESS, THEN WALA KA TALAGANG KWENTANG TATAY.
ReplyDeleteKAUMAY KA! LAGI NA LANG PA-VICTIM.
When will you stop putting your children in a bad light? Panay naman sila reach out sayo pero lagi kang gumagawa ng gulo or dami mong hanash. Napaka entitled mo for someone na deadbeat father. Isipin mo nga, your children still respect you kahit ganyan ka, di ka nila pinapatulan. They tried to make an effort for you many times pero sinayang mo lahat ng chances na yun. Yung ginawa mo nung kasal ni Claudia, grabe ang lala nun.
At this point, with everything you've done, I can confidently say you really don't love your children. Gusto mo lang magmukhang kinawawang tatay. Or gusto mo maghabol to get financial support from them -pero di umubra ang style mo. If only you were nicer.
so sorry for this guy but the kids for sure has their reasons why they chose peace. He was given a chance for sure. Being a father is not just blood it comes with responsibilities, respect, and growth. the blame game his playing with his kids caused him. hard to swallow especially with our culture but the "norms" had evolved. he got his own family now he can still change and learns from his mistakes. he can't change the past, but his future can, if he is willing.
ReplyDeletethere is obviously something wrong with him
ReplyDeleteWow. Guilt trip tong ginagawa mo Dennis. Bakit ganyan kayong mga magulang imbes na isipin at unahin ang over all well being ng anak ninyo, well being at pride niyo ang inuuna ninyo? I think Filipino parents don't know how to become a responsible parents because of death of gratitude. Mine included.
ReplyDeletesabi nga nung nasa itaas…DASURB!!!
ReplyDeletewhat a shameful and disgraceful father