Sad that this generation cannot handle stress and not strong enough to deal with struggles and pain.i have notice the change of children’s behaviour too.i think parents should really be present in their life knowing they have the mean and money rather than doing all this sports and keeping healthy.just saying.
That’s what I said in another post here: parents presence in their child/ren’s life is CRUCIAL. Wag na mag-drama mga pa-woke, the result is the proof why parents need to be present at huwag puro career.
I agree. The 'safe spaces ' created for protection, while well-intentioned, does not develop resilience and the ability to confront life's realities.
With all due respect to loving parents and guardians, the biggest lessons in life come from experiencing failures and pain. It makes you stronger. We dont want to see our kids and our loved ones hurt and in pain, pero when we witness how they grow and bounce back, we can be rest assured they will be ok.
Some will not agree with this sentiment, but it has always proven true all the time. Support oue loved ones, be there when they need you and guide them, but let them experience failure and while they go through the growing pains, give them your support and the wisdom you have also learned the hard way. Only then can they grow.
People that are poor often focus their energy on finding food, shelter, and safety. This gives them meaning in their life. A goal to focus on like paying bills. Which gives a clear sense of achievement.
Unlike privileged people who have all these needs met, the human mind begins to seek something less tangible like purpose, connection, and meaning.
If all your basic needs are met, you are often left with the question, “Now what?”
Parents should have an open communication with their kids. Wag puro rules and restrictions. This way you know what’s going on in their lives. Have a relationship na kayong magulang ang unang lalapitan ng mga anak nyo if something is going on in their lives be it happy or sad.
I pity her. Call me conservative but it is the parents or one of the parents who should be taking care of our children. Nannies can assist the parents. They can afford to be 24/7 parents knowing her condition unlike others. We cannot turn back the hands of time so please spend time with your children before we regret anything.
11:49 first and most importantly, we need to get right with God..not with other people. Of course, as a teen and young adult hindi kasi maaalis na you want validation from your peers or close family dahil sila yung nasa paligid mo and to get the feeling that you belong because nobody wants to be out. It is a part of self esteem building but as you grow older and mature, you really will realize that you do not need these external validations and only God matters. On another note, there is too much emphasis din nowadays na you need to be someone in social media and parang mas important yung cyber world compared sa real life. Sobrang warped yung pag iisip ng tao and if your social media life is in shambles parang wala ka na mapupuntahan e sa totoo lang real life goes on but these people do not see it that way
Sakit niyan. Parents aren't supposed to bury their children. The pain, loss and grief must be unimaginable. I saw them on tv walking on a red carpet. Sparkle event ata yon. Si Emman kasama niya. Sayang. Sad for a lost, young life. I lost my brother last January. Death is the most painful thing one could experience in his lifetime.
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Sad that this generation cannot handle stress and not strong enough to deal with struggles and pain.i have notice the change of children’s behaviour too.i think parents should really be present in their life knowing they have the mean and money rather than doing all this sports and keeping healthy.just saying.
ReplyDeleteThat’s what I said in another post here: parents presence in their child/ren’s life is CRUCIAL. Wag na mag-drama mga pa-woke, the result is the proof why parents need to be present at huwag puro career.
DeleteThis generation is looking for validation in socmed. They should be getting it from people close to them like family, guardian, friends.
Deletecaution is warranted, as numerous studies highlight risks of social media use for mental health
DeleteI agree. The 'safe spaces ' created for protection, while well-intentioned, does not develop resilience and the ability to confront life's realities.
DeleteWith all due respect to loving parents and guardians, the biggest lessons in life come from experiencing failures and pain. It makes you stronger. We dont want to see our kids and our loved ones hurt and in pain, pero when we witness how they grow and bounce back, we can be rest assured they will be ok.
Some will not agree with this sentiment, but it has always proven true all the time. Support oue loved ones, be there when they need you and guide them, but let them experience failure and while they go through the growing pains, give them your support and the wisdom you have also learned the hard way. Only then can they grow.
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.
DeletePeople that are poor often focus their energy on finding food, shelter, and safety. This gives them meaning in their life. A goal to focus on like paying bills. Which gives a clear sense of achievement.
Unlike privileged people who have all these needs met, the human mind begins to seek something less tangible like purpose, connection, and meaning.
If all your basic needs are met, you are often left with the question, “Now what?”
Parents should have an open communication with their kids. Wag puro rules and restrictions. This way you know what’s going on in their lives. Have a relationship na kayong magulang ang unang lalapitan ng mga anak nyo if something is going on in their lives be it happy or sad.
DeleteI pity her. Call me conservative but it is the parents or one of the parents who should be taking care of our children. Nannies can assist the parents. They can afford to be 24/7 parents knowing her condition unlike others. We cannot turn back the hands of time so please spend time with your children before we regret anything.
Delete11:49 first and most importantly, we need to get right with God..not with other people. Of course, as a teen and young adult hindi kasi maaalis na you want validation from your peers or close family dahil sila yung nasa paligid mo and to get the feeling that you belong because nobody wants to be out. It is a part of self esteem building but as you grow older and mature, you really will realize that you do not need these external validations and only God matters. On another note, there is too much emphasis din nowadays na you need to be someone in social media and parang mas important yung cyber world compared sa real life. Sobrang warped yung pag iisip ng tao and if your social media life is in shambles parang wala ka na mapupuntahan e sa totoo lang real life goes on but these people do not see it that way
DeleteDo not hand your self-worth to strangers on the internet. Do not confuse validation with identity. Do not believe that you must be seen to exist.
DeleteI’m sorry for your loss, kuya Kim
ReplyDeleteSakit niyan. Parents aren't supposed to bury their children. The pain, loss and grief must be unimaginable. I saw them on tv walking on a red carpet. Sparkle event ata yon. Si Emman kasama niya. Sayang. Sad for a lost, young life. I lost my brother last January. Death is the most painful thing one could experience in his lifetime.
DeleteCondolences kuya kim… sobrang bigat nito.. 💔
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