If you want to protect your mental health.. stay away from Social Media, Real Talk na tayo kahit anu pakiusap nyo na be kind sa Soc Med it will never happen...
yung hindi kasi magawa in person, sa internet nagagawa like yung maging confrontational sa isang hindi kakilala o maging very vocal o typical sa mga opinion o expressions nila sa mga tao like manglait, mang-asar, manghamak, mangmaliit, at mang-udyok
Truuuuue. People should learn when and how to pull away from social media. Hindi natin maaasahan lahat ng mga tao to always be kind. Human nature na yun. So tayo na ang tumulong sa sarili natin.
1248 on point...Self -care ..unahin muna responsibilidad sa sarili..You cannot tell the rain to stop, just bring your umbrella or do not go out in the rain..
Totoo, malakas ang loob ng iba na magpost ng negative kasi di naman tunay na name nila nakalagay sa account para walang accountability. Those kind of comments would drag u down.
Agree but the world is generally cruel and it is what it is. Di natin hawak ang ibang tao..sarili lang natin yung may control tayo. Essential ang maging matatag
Oh diba subtle jab sa parent. Yung sinisisi pa ang parent. Yun namatayan na sila sinisisi pa. Alam mo you don't need to rub it in their faces. May mga pagsisisi yan sila for sure. Pero who the hell are you na sisihin pa sila na hindi mo naman sila kilala personally o Kapamilya? Kelangan bang mamatayan ka din to have understanding and compassion?
Mga tulad mong tao ang dahilan kung bakit marami nagkakaroon ng depression sa socmed. Sana bago ka nag comment, binasa mo muna ang post ni kuya kim kaso PARA SAYO yun at sa lahat ng mga tao na tulad mo.
Give love na lang and pray for the family.For sure Kuya Kim's family has millions of what ifs at for sure they blame themselves for not being with her.RIP little angel.
Just basing it on Emman's interview, she never said that her parents were there for her. Malaking part din talaga ang guidance and presence ng parents but we are not blaming them.
We don’t know what’s happening in their family. Based on her interviews hindi siya nakikinig sa parents at siya ang nasusunod sa lahat ng bagay. Palagi niya sinasabi hindi niya iniinvolve parents nya in any of her decisions. Kahit anong pilit ng parents to be part of the world of the child, pag ayaw wala talaga magagawa.
1:08 Agree ...And there is nothing wrong with you..Kapag sila ng post and flexi dapat always kind and positive response .kapag ayaw nila, bully or insensitive ka na
Reminder lang ni 1:08 sa lahat na parents...Nothing wrong with it.At the very least, this incident may be a lesson to parents and fam members..Hiragana sa mga tao, gusto plastikan..GROW UP,PEEPS..We are talking about adults here who made their own choices in either lives
Thank u. I find it ironic for those who lost their loved ones in s because of mental health then they’re gonna give advice. Like, u yourself as a parent u didn’t apply your advice nga eh
Where is the irony there? Namatayan nga sila and perhaps social media bullying was one of the triggers. He's just reminding everyone to be kind and compassionate. Kung hirap ka mang maging kind and compassionate PROBLEMA MO NA YUN!
isa ka sa dahilan kung bakit may mga taong sumasapit sa ganitong sitwasyon, dahil sa panghuhusga mo.. hindi mo alam kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng pamilya na may pinagdaanan na gaya ni Emman.. sana hindi mo maranasan at ng buo mong pamilya kung anu man ang pinagdaanan ni Emman at pagdadaanan pa ng pamilya nya.
Especially those people who says check up on your loved ones, see beyond their laughters etc.. Come on, if u have done what you’re saying they’d still be here 🙄
Sadly 101% sa social media ay puro hate and bashing. Kahit biktima na ng isang pangyayari, ang ibabash pa nila ay yun biktima hindi yun gumawa ng masama. I mean people has gotten worst especially in social media. Sa social media nila nilalabas ang kanilang evil, vicious side na hindi nila masabi harapan o personal. Not that they're automatically evil people. It's just their online persona. Kaya if you're the vulnerable, sensitive type wag ka na magsocial media. Pero kung kaya mong makipagbardagulan then go. Na kung ibash ka o murahin ka eh matatawa ka lang o mumurahin mo din pabalik without being affected then go. Social media all you want. People say words they don't actually mean in social media. Take it with a grain of salt. For me ha, walang seryosohan sa online. What happens online, stays online. Iba ang virtual world sa real world. In fact lahat ng nakilala ko online, hindi ko kinilala offline. And people are just one block away. Wag ka mag load, wala ka ng internet. Ang dali maglaho online. So if you're the type to take things seriously, wag kang mag social media. Take it from someone older than you.
Sadly hindi mo maalis ang kasalbahihan ng mga talangkang pinoy(hindi lahat) na dinadaan sa pambubully na lang ang bitterness at inggit sa likod ng keyboard sa mga taong may mga bagay na wala sila - yaman, achievements, ganda, prestige. Kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Yun ang paraan ng pagganti nila dahil sa kapalaran nila sa ibaba. Ang hatakin ang mga nasa itaas anonymously. Damay damay ba sa ibaba. Hindi na sila mababago. Manhid na mga yan. Ang isa mga solution ay ikaw na mag adjust at huwag mag pasikat sa social media
Bullies are everywhere we meet in our daily lives. Sa school, sa bahay mismo, sa workplaces, hindi lang sa online. Bullies gaya ng mga classmates, bosses, schoolmates, relatives, et al. They’re everywhere in the world.
@1:54 Hindi lahat pero super dami! Para silang gremlins. Super mag project sa socmed instead of fixing their issues privately. We paid someone na ma track yung online bully ng pinsan ko. Then nung pinuntahan at ipapahuli, sobrang paawa.
Nagbigay siya ng maanghang na Salita. Doon siya nakatanggap ng matinding bashing. Sa Pagiging opinionated niya, bumalik sa kanya ang sakit ng salita. Vulnerable siya pero nag socmed siya. Naway matahimik ang kanyang kaluluwa.
Ang sakit how his daughter ended. Napakasakit nito sa mga parents lalo kasi 19 y/o lang sya and she chose to that to herself. As a parent parang ako yung gumuho ang mundo at nag doubt bigla sa sarili ko sa nangyari sa batang ito. Sa mga parents be sure na ma guide palagi ang mga anak. Kailangan nila palagi ang presence ng parents. Walang makakatumbas non. Alam mo yan sa sarili mo. Even us adults always long for our parents. Edi ganun din ang mga anak natin. Prayers for her soul at katatagan para sa mga naiwan nya.
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Condolence po Kuya Kim and family
ReplyDeleteIf you want to protect your mental health.. stay away from Social Media, Real Talk na tayo kahit anu pakiusap nyo na be kind sa Soc Med it will never happen...
ReplyDeleteYes I agree and the parents be mindful sa mga anak nyo don’t blame social media
DeleteAgree
Deleteyung hindi kasi magawa in person, sa internet nagagawa like yung maging confrontational sa isang hindi kakilala o maging very vocal o typical sa mga opinion o expressions nila sa mga tao like manglait, mang-asar, manghamak, mangmaliit, at mang-udyok
DeleteStay away from your triggers.
DeleteTruuuuue. People should learn when and how to pull away from social media. Hindi natin maaasahan lahat ng mga tao to always be kind. Human nature na yun. So tayo na ang tumulong sa sarili natin.
DeleteThis! Hindi naman pare-pareho yung isip ng mga tao ngayon. Kaya mas maganda ikaw na mismo umiwas sa napakatoxic na social media 😔
DeleteMahirap talaga. Kung ganun din lang na napapakiusapan ang mga tao to be kind and they will follow, eh d wala na gera sa mundo.
Delete1248 on point...Self -care ..unahin muna responsibilidad sa sarili..You cannot tell the rain to stop, just bring your umbrella or do not go out in the rain..
DeleteTotoo, malakas ang loob ng iba na magpost ng negative kasi di naman tunay na name nila nakalagay sa account para walang accountability. Those kind of comments would drag u down.
DeleteMy condolences. Stay strong! 🙏🏻 lets be kind. Lets be good.
ReplyDeletePara sa iyo yung comment ni Kuya Kim. Sana d mo lang binasa. Inintindi mo din.
DeleteAgree but the world is generally cruel and it is what it is. Di natin hawak ang ibang tao..sarili lang natin yung may control tayo. Essential ang maging matatag
ReplyDeleteEmotions at actions lang natin maccontrol natin.
DeleteBeing a present parent is TRULY CRUCIAL.
ReplyDeleteyou really needed to kick a dying horse? what the heck is wrong with you?
DeleteOh diba subtle jab sa parent. Yung sinisisi pa ang parent. Yun namatayan na sila sinisisi pa. Alam mo you don't need to rub it in their faces. May mga pagsisisi yan sila for sure. Pero who the hell are you na sisihin pa sila na hindi mo naman sila kilala personally o Kapamilya? Kelangan bang mamatayan ka din to have understanding and compassion?
Delete2:40 at 2:46 tumigil kayo sa pa-woke nyo. This is a message to ALL parents. This is a result na may matututuhan ang lahat.
DeleteKakasabi lang be compassionate and kind
DeleteAnd how sure are na they are nor?
DeleteMga tulad mong tao ang dahilan kung bakit marami nagkakaroon ng depression sa socmed. Sana bago ka nag comment, binasa mo muna ang post ni kuya kim kaso PARA SAYO yun at sa lahat ng mga tao na tulad mo.
DeleteKung ang anak mo ay Alam mong may mental health issue at 19 pa Lang, pababayaan mo ba mag Isa Yun mamuhay sa Ibang bansa pa?
DeleteSad to say but original poster only spoke the truth.
DeleteSome things are better left unsaid.
DeleteGive love na lang and pray for the family.For sure Kuya Kim's family has millions of what ifs at for sure they blame themselves for not being with her.RIP little angel.
DeleteJust basing it on Emman's interview, she never said that her parents were there for her. Malaking part din talaga ang guidance and presence ng parents but we are not blaming them.
DeleteWe don’t know what’s happening in their family. Based on her interviews hindi siya nakikinig sa parents at siya ang nasusunod sa lahat ng bagay. Palagi niya sinasabi hindi niya iniinvolve parents nya in any of her decisions. Kahit anong pilit ng parents to be part of the world of the child, pag ayaw wala talaga magagawa.
DeleteOo nga, yung nga Bullies sila yung totoong nag pa Trigger kay Emman...
Delete1:08 Agree ...And there is nothing wrong with you..Kapag sila ng post and flexi dapat always kind and positive response .kapag ayaw nila, bully or insensitive ka na
DeleteReminder lang ni 1:08 sa lahat na parents...Nothing wrong with it.At the very least, this incident may be a lesson to parents and fam members..Hiragana sa mga tao, gusto plastikan..GROW UP,PEEPS..We are talking about adults here who made their own choices in either lives
DeleteThank u. I find it ironic for those who lost their loved ones in s because of mental health then they’re gonna give advice. Like, u yourself as a parent u didn’t apply your advice nga eh
ReplyDeletetama na muna 1:24, they just lost a daughter wag mo muna pangaralan pls lang. hayaan mo na if that's how they grieve.
DeleteWhere is the irony there? Namatayan nga sila and perhaps social media bullying was one of the triggers. He's just reminding everyone to be kind and compassionate. Kung hirap ka mang maging kind and compassionate PROBLEMA MO NA YUN!
Deleteisa ka sa dahilan kung bakit may mga taong sumasapit sa ganitong sitwasyon, dahil sa panghuhusga mo.. hindi mo alam kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng pamilya na may pinagdaanan na gaya ni Emman.. sana hindi mo maranasan at ng buo mong pamilya kung anu man ang pinagdaanan ni Emman at pagdadaanan pa ng pamilya nya.
DeleteTrue. Everything starts from home.
DeleteMay anak ka 1:24? If not, remember your comment pag meron na.
Deleteang samang tao mo 1:24
DeleteEspecially those people who says check up on your loved ones, see beyond their laughters etc.. Come on, if u have done what you’re saying they’d still be here 🙄
DeleteNot only are you so rude, your timing is horrible.
DeleteShowing such grace over unimaginable grief. So sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteIndeed
DeleteSadly 101% sa social media ay puro hate and bashing. Kahit biktima na ng isang pangyayari, ang ibabash pa nila ay yun biktima hindi yun gumawa ng masama. I mean people has gotten worst especially in social media. Sa social media nila nilalabas ang kanilang evil, vicious side na hindi nila masabi harapan o personal. Not that they're automatically evil people. It's just their online persona.
ReplyDeleteKaya if you're the vulnerable, sensitive type wag ka na magsocial media. Pero kung kaya mong makipagbardagulan then go. Na kung ibash ka o murahin ka eh matatawa ka lang o mumurahin mo din pabalik without being affected then go. Social media all you want. People say words they don't actually mean in social media. Take it with a grain of salt. For me ha, walang seryosohan sa online. What happens online, stays online. Iba ang virtual world sa real world. In fact lahat ng nakilala ko online, hindi ko kinilala offline. And people are just one block away. Wag ka mag load, wala ka ng internet.
Ang dali maglaho online. So if you're the type to take things seriously, wag kang mag social media. Take it from someone older than you.
For those who think they need medical help, GO FOR IT!
DeleteTHERAPY+MEDICATION & FAMILY+ COMMUNITY + SELF-MANAGEMENT ARE INTEGRAL TO HEALING.
Tumfak 1:53!
DeleteSadly hindi mo maalis ang kasalbahihan ng mga talangkang pinoy(hindi lahat) na dinadaan sa pambubully na lang ang bitterness at inggit sa likod ng keyboard sa mga taong may mga bagay na wala sila - yaman, achievements, ganda, prestige. Kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Yun ang paraan ng pagganti nila dahil sa kapalaran nila sa ibaba. Ang hatakin ang mga nasa itaas anonymously. Damay damay ba sa ibaba. Hindi na sila mababago. Manhid na mga yan. Ang isa mga solution ay ikaw na mag adjust at huwag mag pasikat sa social media
ReplyDeleteThis what I thought too
DeleteHindi lang yan, rampant na kapag iba ang opinion mo sa kanila aatakehin ka na!
DeleteBullies are everywhere we meet in our daily lives. Sa school, sa bahay mismo, sa workplaces, hindi lang sa online. Bullies gaya ng mga classmates, bosses, schoolmates, relatives, et al. They’re everywhere in the world.
Delete100 percent agree
Delete@1:54 Hindi lahat pero super dami! Para silang gremlins. Super mag project sa socmed instead of fixing their issues privately. We paid someone na ma track yung online bully ng pinsan ko. Then nung pinuntahan at ipapahuli, sobrang paawa.
DeleteNagbigay siya ng maanghang na Salita. Doon siya nakatanggap ng matinding bashing. Sa Pagiging opinionated niya, bumalik sa kanya ang sakit ng salita. Vulnerable siya pero nag socmed siya. Naway matahimik ang kanyang kaluluwa.
ReplyDeleteAng sakit how his daughter ended. Napakasakit nito sa mga parents lalo kasi 19 y/o lang sya and she chose to that to herself. As a parent parang ako yung gumuho ang mundo at nag doubt bigla sa sarili ko sa nangyari sa batang ito.
ReplyDeleteSa mga parents be sure na ma guide palagi ang mga anak. Kailangan nila palagi ang presence ng parents. Walang makakatumbas non. Alam mo yan sa sarili mo. Even us adults always long for our parents. Edi ganun din ang mga anak natin.
Prayers for her soul at katatagan para sa mga naiwan nya.
Sorry for your loss, Kuya Kim and family
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