They say C is a blessing to those who will be left behind dahil pagkakataon yun para masabi at magawa ang lahat sa minamahal mo. Pero kapulutan ang ganitong pagsubok ng iba na hindi kailangan humantong sa ganito para lang ipadama at sabihin ang pagmamahal. Every moment is a blessed chance, lalo't malakas pa.
12:51 lost both parents dahil sa big C (breast ca sa mom ko then sa dad ko suspected throat ca kc may malaking bukol nakita sa lalamunan nya, and di na sya makaswallow ng food, di na din sya nag undergo ng diagnostic tests kc di na kaya ng katawan nya). Both times sa hospital binisita sila ng mga kapamilya namin, mga colleagues nila. During da last hours nila kumpleto kami na nag pray over and we talked to them for the last time.
Sa totoo lang nothing will ever prepare us when the death comes by the door, pero at least for us we were given the chance to say our last goodbyes. Ang dami pa rin what ifs (sana hindi sya nag sigarikyo, sana nag pa check up sya ng maaga, I wish I treated them better when they were still healthy, etc) pero yun na eh. Nangyari na. We are constantly reminded to live life to the fullest and to treat others with love and respect kasi you’ll never know when it will be the last.
I'm not a cancer specialist but I've had patients with cancer and no, hindi sya blessing. For me napaka toxic positive nitong comment na to. It's physically, emotionally and financially draining and it exposes the social inequality na meron satin. Kadalasan ubos ang resources mo, kahit comfortably middle class ka.
840 That’s a stretch. Don’t be so out of touch. How can you call cancer a blessing? Not everyone shares the same experience as you. For many, it’s nothing but pain, fear, and loss. Sure, some may find meaning in being able to say goodbye but that doesn’t make it a blessing.
Please don’t push that kind of narrative. It’s insensitive and dismissive of what so many others go through.g
9:32 I'm sorry for your lost. Ako naman yung officemate ko nasagasaan ng bus. Ang weird lang kasi before nun, nagkapalit kami ng pangalan sa records ng HR. Yung picture nya, may name ko. Tapos yung picture nya, may -pangalan ko. Kaya nung namatay sya, sobrang gimbal ako. Naisip ko paano kung ako yung namatay? Simula nun araw araw ako nagpapasalamat sa Diyos na buhay pa ako. Nung burol nya, umupo ako sa isang gilid. Kinausap pa ako ng tatay nya. Tapos iyak nang iyak ang tatay nya. Naawa talaga ako.
This is so sad for Maymay. It was just recently that she got interviewed and became emotional since her mother was sick. Condolence to her and the rest of her family. May God continue to bless you with strength and courage during this time.
Condolences. May her soul rest in peace 🙏
ReplyDeleteIs she sick?
ReplyDeleteWas she sick ang tama, but to answer your question, yes she was. Her mom was recently featured here sa FP. RiP.
DeleteThey say C is a blessing to those who will be left behind dahil pagkakataon yun para masabi at magawa ang lahat sa minamahal mo. Pero kapulutan ang ganitong pagsubok ng iba na hindi kailangan humantong sa ganito para lang ipadama at sabihin ang pagmamahal. Every moment is a blessed chance, lalo't malakas pa.
ReplyDelete8:40 if that's a blessing then i'd rather not be blessed at all
DeleteI hate big C. Not everyone can afford chemoteraphy & even if they do, walang assurance na gagaling. Sana mawala na ng tuluyan ang sakit na yan
DeleteWhat a delusional mindset
Delete12:51 lost both parents dahil sa big C (breast ca sa mom ko then sa dad ko suspected throat ca kc may malaking bukol nakita sa lalamunan nya, and di na sya makaswallow ng food, di na din sya nag undergo ng diagnostic tests kc di na kaya ng katawan nya). Both times sa hospital binisita sila ng mga kapamilya namin, mga colleagues nila. During da last hours nila kumpleto kami na nag pray over and we talked to them for the last time.
DeleteSa totoo lang nothing will ever prepare us when the death comes by the door, pero at least for us we were given the chance to say our last goodbyes. Ang dami pa rin what ifs (sana hindi sya nag sigarikyo, sana nag pa check up sya ng maaga, I wish I treated them better when they were still healthy, etc) pero yun na eh. Nangyari na. We are constantly reminded to live life to the fullest and to treat others with love and respect kasi you’ll never know when it will be the last.
I'm not a cancer specialist but I've had patients with cancer and no, hindi sya blessing. For me napaka toxic positive nitong comment na to. It's physically, emotionally and financially draining and it exposes the social inequality na meron satin. Kadalasan ubos ang resources mo, kahit comfortably middle class ka.
DeleteNaalala ko si Rio Diaz nagsabi rin nyan dati. Siguro punto rito silver lining and chances12:51
Delete840 That’s a stretch. Don’t be so out of touch. How can you call cancer a blessing? Not everyone shares the same experience as you. For many, it’s nothing but pain, fear, and loss. Sure, some may find meaning in being able to say goodbye but that doesn’t make it a blessing.
DeletePlease don’t push that kind of narrative. It’s insensitive and dismissive of what so many others go through.g
9:32 I'm sorry for your lost. Ako naman yung officemate ko nasagasaan ng bus. Ang weird lang kasi before nun, nagkapalit kami ng pangalan sa records ng HR. Yung picture nya, may name ko. Tapos yung picture nya, may -pangalan ko. Kaya nung namatay sya, sobrang gimbal ako. Naisip ko paano kung ako yung namatay? Simula nun araw araw ako nagpapasalamat sa Diyos na buhay pa ako. Nung burol nya, umupo ako sa isang gilid. Kinausap pa ako ng tatay nya. Tapos iyak nang iyak ang tatay nya. Naawa talaga ako.
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ReplyDeleteHer mom’s so young. Condolence to the family and Maymay.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad for Maymay. It was just recently that she got interviewed and became emotional since her mother was sick. Condolence to her and the rest of her family. May God continue to bless you with strength and courage during this time.
ReplyDeleteAng bata pa ng nanay ni Maymay. Gone too soon.
ReplyDeleteAng active ng mama niya sa Mayward sa socmed nakikipag bardagulan sa mga fans. RIP.
ReplyDeleteKaya nactivate ang cancer nastress ba
Deletecondolence to maymay family
ReplyDeleteDeep condolences, Maymay. May your mom rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteI'm crying. Her message should resonate with everyone who has lost a loving parent.
ReplyDeletecondolences po.
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