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Monday, November 14, 2016

Insta Scoop: Rhian Ramos Sexually Harassed, Culprit Repeats Act After Apologizing and Then Runs Off

Image courtesy of Instagram: whianwamos

106 comments:

  1. Pangalanan mo at idemanda yang bastos na yan!

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    1. yeah sue him please

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    2. Dapat sumigaw agad sya para malaman nung mga nakapaligid sa kanya na may namboso.

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    3. Malakas ang loob because our leader promotes rape culture! Sabi niya nothing wrong if you look at a womans body..kaya ayan, ang lalakas na ng loob ng mga bastos ngayon!

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    4. Epal 2:54 maisingit lang pulitika?

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    5. 2:54 Mema ka rin no? Hinawakan sya, hindi tinitigan. Layo mo tsong, may masisi ka lang

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    6. Wala naman kasi dapat ikatakot mga tao ngaun kasi presidente nga bastos. Ganyan ang change na gusto nyo so yan ang nakikita ng lahat. Ok lang kahit mali.

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  2. Maniac! Sue him para madala

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    1. Yeah correct. Maiba lang ako naharrass mata ko sa white letters w/ black background.

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    2. Same lol. Had a hard time reading. Quite dizzy now. But pls name him.

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    3. Torture sa mata! Hahaha puwede bang pakilakihan para sa mga malabo ang mata hehe

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    4. Natapos ko basahin pero naduling yata ako. Pero agree dapat maturuan ng leksyon yang manyak na yan.

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    5. 8:59 True, baks. After reading her long post puro black and white stripes na ang nakikita ko sa screen ko, KALOKA!

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    6. 1:32 ay korek! Pag nagbi blink ako, hindi nawawala hahaha

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    7. ako rin mga baks nahirapan sa pagbasa. nakakapraning sa mata haha

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  3. Bastos Hindi nakuntento sa naunang ginawa! Man mahiya ka sa mga anak mong babae pa naman.

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  4. dapat te nung unang pag hipo gumawa kna ng eksena para nakuyog na agad

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    1. Easy to say but kapag andun ka na sa situation, mamemental black ka na. Yung tipong para kang nakuryente, hindi mo alam gagawin.

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    2. True 6:52. Akala ko din pag nangyari un lalaban ako. Pero hindi ko nagawa. Hindi ko alam kung bakit. :(

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    3. 6:52 di rin. Kasi ako nagrequest pa akong pisilin pang mahigpit.

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    4. KAPAG NASA SITWASYON KA, MAGUGULAT KA TALAGA AT MAWAWALAN KA NG LAKAS. IYON IYONG INITIAL REACTION MO TALAGA. LALO HINDI KA SANAY NA GINAGANUN.

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    5. Same here, parang na-mental block ako. Saka parang ako pa ang nahiya sa sarili ko :(

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    6. Totoo yan! Ako hinawakan yung kamay ko ng tricycle driver nung magbabayad ako. Sobrang gulat ko na hindi ako nakapag react na nakakapanghina at ako pa yung nahiya. Grabe kaya naintindihan ko talaga si rhian dito.

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    7. MAhirap kasi para kang na freeze and hindi ka makapag react,
      Ang kapal nung guy ha dapat turuan ng leksyon yan
      Iyong kasi ssabihin maarte or kasi ganyan suot mo
      Medyo may pet peeve ako sa crowded places
      Yes nakkaa paranoid
      Pero i have to live my life, i said ill be okay pero pag naisip mo na naman
      You feel powerless
      i ageee with what rhian posted what made that guy think that he has the right to touch her
      At inulit pa

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    8. sobrang totoo yung na memental block ka. Kasi ako, nakaupo ako sa mrt tapos may tumabi sakin na lalaki tapos yung bag nya talagang dinadaosdos sa aking hita (take note naka pants ako) tapos tiningnan ko sya, naka pikit yung mata nya nagtutulog tulugan. Tapos buti sana kung one time lang nya ginawa. inulit ulit nya hanggang sa makababa ako sa station. alam nyo yung feeling na alam mong dapat kang lumaban pero di mo magawa kasi baka mapahiya yung lalaki na para sila pa maagrabyado? ganun naramdaman ko. kaya hindi madali na sabihn na sana nung first time pa lang gumawa ka na ng eksena kasi ibang iba talaga pag nandun ka na sa sitwasyon. Grabe this is so wrong. Women should not be oppressed like this. sana dumami ang mga girl power pls

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    9. Totoo yan. Hindi mo kasi ineexpect na yung mga naririnig at nababasa mo lang, pwede din palang mangyari sayo. Pag andun ka na sa sitwasyon, parang bumabagal ang reflexes and galaw mo. Bilib ako dun sa iba na nagagawa agad mag-react.

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  5. tama naman si Rhian, ano pa man ang suot ng babae hindi nya deserve ang mabastos. kaya idemanda mo na yan para malaman ng mga bastos na gaya nia na may kalalagyan sila.

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  6. Ang tanda na maniac pa! Rhian ilaban mo yan ng matuto!

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  7. give him a lesson he will never forget! ang kapal ng muka ! nakakainis din yung mga friends mo na guy na kasama mo thjt time na walang ginawa!

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  8. Grabe mabait pa naman yan si Rhian

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  9. Kahit ano pang suot ng babae hindi pa rin yung dahilan para bastusin sila. Kasi kung may disiplina ang mga lalaki at may control sa sarili kahit ano pang suot ng babaeng nakakaharap nila, walang harassment at rape na magaganap. Haayy!

    Nakakalungkot lang na may kasama kang lalaki pero di ka man lang nagawang ipagtanggol.

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  10. This is very sad. Some guys just have that kind of mentality. That it is ok to touch or stare even if the attention was not invited at all. As if it's "homage" for the ladies, even if unwanted. Guys, we're not flattered at all. It makes us feel sick, it makes us question ourselves, when in reality, it should be you who must explain why should you do it at all. The shame should be yours, for sexually harassing women.

    Please sue his ass out. And please do not settle. It will drag for a long time, but don't give up.

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    1. 6:44 true because he thought he can get away with these we'll never know he has other victims too... give him what due for him

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    2. Yes sue him
      Pangalanan na yan

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  11. This hits close to home. Something similar happened to me when I was 14.Now i am 28 and no one in my family knows. People always seem so brave when they think about the situation theoretically pero kung andyan ka na, magiging bato ka (at least for me). I hope girls will find the courage to speak up in these matters (me included) rather than keep it bottled up. Sana.

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    1. I feel for you. I was 10 and it was a relative. Couldn't tell too, was more afraid of what will possibly happen if it becomes known. Was afraid that mi padre will become a criminal if he learns about it and who did it. I held on as much as I could with my sanity whenever I see that relative, but had a very rebellious and wild streak later on. I was angry. When I reached college, I had very good friends who were my confidantes just as much as I was their confidante. We all had similar experiences with varying degrees of abuse. Guess that we really bonded because we could break down when we're reminded and no one raises a brow. Found some kind of peace but there are times we can not avoid thinking of it.

      Hope you have or find a very good person with whom you can really open up. Hugs sister. Trust me, karma would come to that person who wronged you in one way or another.

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    2. Hugs and prayers for you girls. I hope na you'll get over it

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    3. same here =( nasa elementary ako nun tapos sya highschool. I wonder kung naalala nya ung mga kabastusan nya before. thank God lang na lumipat na kame ng bahay at namuhay ng sarili baka kung nakatira padin kame sa house baka hindi lang pahawak hawak nagawa nya.

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    4. ako din since elementary days mga 8 or 9 ako tapos sa relative din at it's my first time to confide here..i was sexually molested at a very young age..kala ko laro2 lng but iv grown to be a loving mother at no one knows in my family about that..naiyak ako while writing this..

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    5. 8:02 I was 5 or 6yrs old nung nangyari yun and relative ko I think he was 16yrs old nun. I never told anyone about this ngayon lang dito sa fp. Bata pa ako noon hindi ko alam na mali yon. Ngayon may asawa at mga anak na siya at hindi pa siya na kuntento nagkaroon siya ng kabit ayon nagka STD siya. Alam kong masama ang mag wish ng masama sa kapwa pero hindi ko mapigilan na magsabi ng "BUTI NGA SAYO!"

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    6. OMG! Same tayo mga girls. Elementary ako nung hinalikan ako sa lips sa kapatid ng father ko. Tas maraming beses ko nahuhuli yung father ko na sinisilipan ako pag naliligo ako. Isang beses pumasok sya sa kwarto ko na naka-brief lang sya, sumigaw lang ako at lumabas na sya, dahil bata elementary pa ko, natulog na lang ako ulit. Nung HS na ko, yung isang kapatid naman nya ang humalik sakin. Kaya nakatatak sa isip ko na maniac angkan nila. Kaya siguro mailap ako ngayon sa guys, wala pa talaga ako bf at the age of 25.

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    7. 12:23 meron talaga ganun sa pamilya pa mismo..kahit boy ang anak ko im still worried about him dahil di lang babae ang nabibiktima

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    8. First time to open this up but I too was molested.. by my very own uncle. I was 9 or 10 then. He kept visiting our house during summer break while my parents were at work and i was home alone. He touched me and my private parts. I knew what he was doing wan but bad but i kept mum about it for if i open it up to my family, esp my mom, i was afraid of what my happen to my family. I didnt want to cause any trouble and ruin the relationship of my family and relatives.

      How do I move on from this?

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    9. After mabasa ko ang inyong mga revelation I felt sad but proud of you all na nailabas nyo ang mga nangyari dahil naging mabuti kayong tao after that terrible experience... its an eye opener dahil ngayon nangyayari talaga yan like what Thian experience... marami na sigurong nabiktima ang Mamang yun... God bless you all...

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    10. Hugs to all of you!! If you can, seek help from a professional.

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    11. Hugs for you ladies! Sana wala ng mangyaring mga ganito. Kaya minsan nakakatakot na magtiwala kahit na kamag-anak mo pa yan eh, kasi di mo alam na may masama na palang balak sayo. They'll get the karma they deserve. Or maybe nakuha na nila. Shame on them. Para silang walang mga nanay. Hope they'll burn in hell. I just hope wag mabastos mga anak nilang babae, ewan ko na lang.

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  12. Sue him, Rhian! Mention his name ng mapahiya!

    Anyway, it took me 3mins to comment. There's an after effect on my vision after I read her post.
    Masakit po sa mata šŸ˜¢

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    1. Ako din baks sakit sa mata

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    2. Ako rin naging stripes yung vision ko after. :(

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    3. Sakit sa mata kakairita din tong si rhian..

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  13. Sana magkaroon ng courage si Rhian sabihin kung sino yung lalaki. Kasi mamaya hindi lang pala sya ang victim ng manyak na yan. May sakit sa utak siguro yung lalaki. Lumuhod pa tapos gagawin naman pala ulit.

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  14. His vile opportunity to finally touch those perky assets that she posted in her IG several months ago. Nakursunadahan ng manyak yung lovely bikini pic nya.

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    1. What she wears or posts on social media is not an invitation for anyone to touch ANY PART of her body. Ang lakas mo makavictim blame ah? YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM.

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    2. You are a sick. You better hope this never happens to any of your female friends/family.

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    3. Don't be hypocrites or be politically correct. What you post in IG plays a part! You subject yourself to stalking, obsession and perversion. There are many sick psychos out there who would ogle at bikini posts and even innocent children.

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  15. I admire how rhian was still able to consider d maniac's daughter reason why she held his identity.

    But still justice must be served.

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  16. Oh no kaya ako pag nasa bar ako nag iingat talga ako baka lagyan nila inumin baso ko kaya hindi ko basta2x ininum icheck ko muna

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    1. 8:38 true you have to be cautious and dont just leave your drink and come back for it you never know people around you

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  17. Loko!
    May anak din pala yon!
    Mapapahiya ka rin manong!

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    1. 8:42 kaya nga noh di ba nya naisip what if gawin sa mga anak nya and my gosh the shame mismo sa sarili nya! kapal nya! Lumuhod pa talaga...right there and there it was an admission na talagang ga** sya! If I we're Rhian pag di pa sya magkusang gumawa ng tama from his actions I'll sue him! Na violate nya pagkatao mo! para leksyon yan s mga manyakis who cant keep hands on themselves

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  18. Posts like this make me want to ask Duterte's bashers. All he wants is to stop these kind of situations. Bad guys inside jail. And what we do is we keep on judging him why he do this and that. I know this post has nothing to do w the President. Napaisip lang ako bigla. šŸ˜Ŗ To Rhian, sue the guy. He deserves to be in prison or pay whatever he has to for doing that to you.

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    1. Nyek e nambabastos din ng babae si duterte! Remember the rape comment?

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    2. Maraming law si Duterte to protect women's rights and safety. Try din magresearch 2:56. Paulit-ulit tira pero ang raming nagawa ng Presidente to benefit women's safety.

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  19. sumakit eyes ko doon. pero anyway mas masakit makarinig ng mga stories na ganyan. cause it happened to me too. pauwi na ako from school around 5 malapit sa sakayan ng tryc. in uniforms binastos ako at tinaas yung palda ko. i was 15 pero idk what to do kaya tumakbo na lang ako. kaya kahit college na ako hindi na ako sumasakay ng tryc doon sa place kahit mas convenient

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  20. I understand her intention of keeping the identity of the culprit anonymous for the interest of his daughters. I would have to disagree though. He must be identified and shamed so that he won't be doing this again to other girls. Not naming him will only give the opportunity of even being more confident in doing the act again with other girls since he got away with the deed that was done to her.

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    1. I agree 10:30 he think he can get away with this

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  21. Just squeeze on your tush? Eh di squeeze back...sa dingdong nya. Of course, that's just my comical side.

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  22. I was also a victim of sexual harassment when I had my OJT in college. We had the guy killed. He was married and had children. Mahinang babae ang magve-vent out pa sa social media. Retaliate, then it's over.

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    1. Kaloka ka! Hahahahaha

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    2. Makapagsabi kang mahina ang babaeng nagvent out. Eh ikaw nga pinapatay mo sa iba lang. Dapat ikaw mismo ang pumatay.

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  23. Walang puwang
    sa lipunan
    ang pambabastos
    sa mga kababaihan!

    V for Vendetta

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  24. I admire Rhian for speaking up and not backing down. You can't really judge a person because unless you've been in that situation. Sometimes you're just in too much of a shock to react. That happened to me before with a family friend. He was married and his wife was 8 months pregnant. He decided to grab me inappropriately and asked me if I wanted to carry a relationship with him. After telling him that he better get his hands off me, he apologized and begged that I don't say anything. I felt bad for his wife and I didn't say anything to anyone till later. He never got punished, but he knew not to do that again specially my BF threatened him to hurt him if he tried.

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    1. 12:22 ang kapal nya! Buti nga sa kanya

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  25. It happened to me sa LRT..may bastos na nanghipo....a long long time ago. Bastos at manyak talaga. I wish i had d courage to slap him pero natakot ako kc teenager ako. Ibalik ang panahon malamang sinapak ko at nag iskandalo ako sa loob ng LRt.

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    1. 12:35 i witness soemthing happened in the subway system, it was rush hour and that was summer... that time there was a power outage so biglang namatay ang ilaw sa train mga 5 mins siguro, dahil siksikan sa train biglang may sumigaw na babae then naglights on yung babae hinihipuan nung guy as in nakita naming lahat right there na pagsindi ng ilaw! the guy was reprimanded by other customer naghysterical yung babae... dito kasi s train merong emergency yellow strip...so pinidot nung babae dahil nakastop nga yung train... juice kong buko isang battalion ng police ang dumating...nakakahiya me kasamang media at kitangnkita ang mukha nung nanghipong guy! napakadisente ng itsura...He wore suit and tie and all napakalinis pero manyak pla! yung hinipuan nya eh parang nanay na nya nka office uniform slacks and blazers pa...

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    2. your comment anon 1:43 :D hahaha natawa ako dun ah. pero diba sa mrt minsan magkahiwalay yung train ng girls at boys?

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    3. 3:00 I think overseas si 1:43. I doubt may darating na police or security agad pag sa Pinad..at ang Pinoy (I think Asians in general) kase minsan ayaw makialam sa mga gnayng instances in public,or not very vocal at di confrontational by nature.

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    4. Mukhang sa New York si 1:43. Subway system daw.

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    5. 10:20 oo nga kahit magsusumigaw ka pa nobody will step-in... pero dito dumura ka lang lagot ka

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    6. 3:00 dito sa subway train di magkahiwalay lalo na pag rush hour... meron din talagang mga manyakis

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    7. 2:59 Subway does not exist in NY only.

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  26. I know what rian feels.. Im a mother of 2 kids.. While i was jogging early in the morning.. A guy riding a motorcycle touched my left bust.. I really disnt know what to do.. Up to now, i cant tell it to anyone, even my closest sis..

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    1. 12:45 yes i feel you... kasi feeling mo naviolate ka talaga and nagulat ka sa nangyari sometimes you will think nangyari ba talaga?

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  27. Happened to me too nung bago pa lang ako dito sa US. My co-worker pinched my behind too. Nagulat ako and my initial reaction was to punch him in the gut. I was young and naive kaya hindi ko nareport sa HR. Akala ko kasi mas matotrouble ako dahil nasuntok ko siya.

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  28. I feel bad for Rhian and the rest of those who were abused, molested, assaulted and taken advantage of. :( I hope you get the justice you deserve. Fight for your right. Fight fight fight!!!

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  29. This kind of harassment happened to my classmate in college before. She is maingay and iskandalosa so our initial reaction is "bakit di ka sumigaw?" But when same happened to me months after, ganoon pala un. Matutulala ka at maiiyak na lang kasi parang napahiya ka na hindi mo alam, na takot at nandidiri at the same time. Basta iba. Luckily, I got the plate no.of the jeepney and complained sa association nila. Go girl, sue that guy!

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  30. 1:04 parang kapag nagreklamo ka ikaw pang mabivictimized ulit alam mo yun.. they will say we'll try to do something abbout his behavior, counseling maybe but doesn't do something about what he did ganun yun... once a victime always a victim... parang ikaw pa me kasalanan...

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  31. Y talk, just sct on it. Sue the dumba**.

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  32. Ok lang yan. Ung president nga ok sa mga ganyan.

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    1. May problema ka siguro sa pag iisip? Bigti ka na lang!

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    2. true 1:50. Pareho lang sila ni Trump na grab them by the Pu$$Y! bwiset!

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    3. Uuhmm, you know sarcasm. 2:58?

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  33. Someone also touched my rear but I just laughed thinking 'Buti nga". Size 32A lang kasi ako but looks 36B because I'm wearing bra na may makapal ang foam so natawa ako kasi disappointed siguro sya. LOL. pero kidding aside, naisip ko pano kung sa ibang girls un ginawa. Di na talaga safe kahit saan ngayon kaa doble ingat and be alert at all times. #winkemoticon

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    1. 4:35am Teh, seryoso ka? Nilalagyan mo ng bra ang rear end mo? Alam mo ba ang rear?

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    2. Alam mo ba Kung ano ang "rear"?

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    3. Pinagsasabi mo te?! Vajayjay ang ibig sabihim ni rhian

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    4. She meant arse, people.. Ass, butt, her behind :)

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  34. Name him and sue him. Ang bopols lang ng mga boys na kasama ni Rhian ha, parang walang mga balls. The minute the lady mentioned the indecent act done to her, those boys should have insisted to the management to have the pervert thrown out of the club. Isa pa, alam na nga nila na nahipuan na si Rhian ng first time bakit hindi nila inalagaan na hindi na sya malapitan pa ulit? If I was the guy with her, I would be on high alert and vigilant already. Pag inulit pa yun pambabastos aba suntukan na yan!

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  35. And who is this coward who took her out. He did not even have the b a l ls to defend her.

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  36. Nakakalungkot. Madami talagang babae ang nahaharass. Maglakad ka nga lang sa kalye. Saka sa mga public transpo. Idemanda nya na sana yung lalake.

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  37. dapatsa ganyang mga lalake, binibitay... i feel u rhian

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  38. Hesitant victims like you are the reason why this perverts are still doing what they want to do. Expose him and the society will be grateful to you. He hasn't done this just once, he seems like a pro. Malay mo he abuses his own children and you could be an instrument pa to get his own ass behind bars.

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  39. please SUE! it will awaken awareness on this matter.

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  40. nangyari to sa akin sa lrt noon siempre kapag rush hour mapipilitan ka na sumakay sa may lalaki yung lalaki sa likod ko hinawakan ang behind ko dahil siksikan di ka makareact at worst pa naramdaman ko na pinipilit nya pang ipasok yun kamay nya sa bulsa na pants ko sa likod. nakakatakot ang pakiramdam na nakakaiyak na wala kang magawa dahil ang ending ikaw ang sisihin na dun ka nagpunta at choice mo yun.

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