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Wednesday, March 29, 2023

FB Scoop: Andrea Brillantes Lectures Basher on Criticizing Women Making the First Move

Image courtesy of Facebook: Andrea Brillantes, Senyora

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    1. Si Andrea daw. Bakit kailangan i-ask ang bf sa prom? No need to ask the bf na maging date sa prom dahil given na iyon. It makes more sense kung sa crush mo (kesa sa bf) gagawin ang promposal. I'm not against girls asking guys out. Pero attention seeker moves ginawa ni Andrea. Anyway, napansin sila ng Black Pink, which I think was the main purpose

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    2. Hindi ko kayo maintindihan bakit happy kayong ibash si Andrea. Anong anong gagawin niya, ke umarte or simpleng sumayaw lang siya pero lagi binabash nyo pa rin. Inggit ba yan o sadyang malungkot lang ang buhay mo?

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    3. 11:43 Let me give you a similar situation para maliwanagan at mahimasmasan ka at yung iba pa ditong kinukwestyun bakit kailangan ayain. Think of a wedding party. Close friend mo yung kinasal. Matik invited ka but that doesn't mean obligado yung bf mo to attend. You still have to ask him kung gusto niya. And most of all, kung okay lang sa friend mo na may +1 ka. Ganun lang kasimple. Whether it's a prom or any other parties, hindi automatic na kasama ang bf.

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    4. pampam... day just ask him. bakit need gumawa ng eksena? KSP lang?

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    5. 12:26 hindi yan inggit or malungkot ang buhay. sadyang OA ng idol mo. kasama nya bf nya sa concert tapos idaan pa sa BP para e ask ang bf nya na nasa tabi nya para yayain sya sa prom. ang OA/corny/papansin talaga.

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    6. 3:11 sorry but mali din ang sample mo bcuz wedding and prom ay totally magkaibang event dahil ang wedding/bday ay may main focus or character, while ang prom ay group kyo. Ung may wedding/bday ang dapat may last say, so hndi porket "close" friends kayo means automatically invited ka dhil hndi lahat kaya mag imbita due to budget reason. Sa pinas or asia lang nman may ganto kultura na feeling "required" n may 1+. Kaya nga kahit hndi kaya ay napipilitan n lng and feeling obligated na isama ang hndi nman tlga nila feel isama.

      So back to this topic, the Prom. Prom ay ginawa tlaga for big gathering. No main person. The organizer will dictate whos invited and theres an option na may date. Well some ay part ng prom na doon makipagchami chami sa ibang inviteds.

      So yeah.

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    7. They call it, Star Magic Promposal. Gimik sa gagawin nilang prom prom ek-ek.

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  2. Itong mga ipokrita na mga mahinhin kuno na nasa loob ang kulo deep inside gusto gawin pero pa demure?

    Tigilan na yang kaartehan na yan

    TAMA si Andrea sya ang attend kaya sya mag invite or propose

    At eh ano kung sa BP na okasyon.

    Sa America's Got Talent ang ibang contestant doon sa stage mismo nag propose.

    Love love love you Andrea....go girl❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    1. Fantard na fantard lol

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    2. 11:10 it’s a given mag jowa sila noh, hindi na need GU mimic for promposal if not for ATTENTION!

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    3. Minsan nakaka excite ang relationship pag may onting gimik πŸ˜‚

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    4. Pwedeng hindi fantard si 12:11 pwedeng inis lang sya sa mga hipokrita. Nakakainis naman talaga

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    5. BF na nga eh, so anong purpose bukod sa magpapansin?

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    6. Girl, walang masama kung sya ang mag ask. pwede naman at jowa nya yung guy... kahit di sya mag-ask sure na sure na yun ang partner nya sa Prom. ang tanong bakit need magpapansin? kailangang gumawa ng eksena para que? mapag-usapan? KSP much.

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    7. What make this eclavo so papansin is the fact na nasa likod mo lang jowa mo. As in you can make ikot the paper or whatevz she waz holding para he can make basa-basa, unless her jowa doesn’t know how to make basa-basa, kaya need pa ng help ng BP. One more thing, how come her jowa doesn’t know what’s naka-print sa hawak nya, while he was centimeters away lang from andeng?

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  3. With baby tone of voice yarn...pabili poooowwwsss kendi... Isa lang powzzz ehhh

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  4. Sorry Andrea but desperate move talaga kapag girls nauuna.

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    1. 11:30 sabi din ng guys, they also like when girls makes the first move kasi tbh daw, mahiyain din ang iba sa kanila

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    2. This mindset is sooo outdated. Tsk.

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    3. only insecure people would think that. alphas would NOT give a hoot about what anybody else thinks.

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    4. Sorry to say pero marami pa ring lalaki nowadays na may conservative na pananaw sa mga ganyan. Especially kapag serious sa relationship Ang person. Isa pa nasa culture natin Ang ganyan .

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    5. What an incredibly backward way of thinking. Ang lungkot siguro ng buhay mo.

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    6. 12:33 AM - True pero hindi naman sila ung inask ni Andrea, she asked a specific guy and not some of the "marami pa ring lalaki" so what's the issue?

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    7. 12:33 nag first move lang ang babae, hindi na conservative? Kung maghihintay ka lang talaga sa lalaki, hay baka may tendency na tatandang dalaga ka o maunahan ka na ng iba sa lalaking crush mo.

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    8. Medyo oa ka. All girls school ako nung highschool and we had to ask boys to be our dates. Di pa nga boyfriends nun kasi we were too young to have boyfriends. At least itong si andrea eh boyfriend niya tinanong niya.

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    9. 12:33 Baka nakakalimutan mo te na si Ricci ang jowa ni Blythe at hindi ibang lalaki. For sure kahit pano siguro alam niya kung conservative o liberated si guy or else hindi siya maglalakas loob mag-ask di ba? At isa pa, if Ricci can ask her publicly to be his gf, why can’t she ask him publicly to be her date?

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    10. Nah only in very patriarchal bavkward countries like Philippines. Kaya I prefer the afams, walang kiyeme and they don’t slutshame women who ask them out first. Open-minded. There’s nothing wrong with initiating. Sa pa-conservative Pinoy lang iso yan, paconservative eh nasa lupb naman kulo. Lol.
      I’m married with an afam now and that’s how we started. Thank goodness di makitid utak niya

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    11. She's 20! Anong pinagsasabi mong desperate? She's an adult, it's her prom and it's her boyfriend.

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    12. 12:33 te wala naman kaming paki sa conservative na lalaki. Bakit naman namin ipipilit sarili namin kung ganun ang upbringing niya. Of course we would go after men who have the same mindset like us. Kung open minded siya then go. Kung hindi, move on to the next kasi it means we are not compatible sa personality.

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    13. Equality pala ah! Pag sa workplace aangal ng discrimination. If you want to be equal with men, dapat mga ganitong bagay pwede din gawin ng babae. Para naman sinaktan nya kayo, masyado kayo affected.

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    14. 11:30 yung situation kasi nila, hindi pwedeng yung guy ang mag ask. Kasi si Andrea yung may event.

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    15. It's her event. Syempre sya ang magyayaya hahaha mga tao kasi inuuna ang inggit.

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  5. I’m sorry Andrea… hindi naman ako against sa promposal mo but I dont agree sa other statement mo. I think desperate move na kapag nauuna ang babae sa lalake. Kaya madami tinitake advantage ng mga lalake dahil alam nilang patay na patay sa kanila. Mas ok pa din yun lalake lalapit at gagawa ng move kesa babae.

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    1. 11:38 luh, very 1923 mindset

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    2. Girls should be able to do whatever guys can. Hingi2 palagi ng equality, tapos mga ganyang bagay dami pa ding hanash.

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    3. Masyado kang makaluma. At masyadong madumi pagiisip mo.

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    4. so sisihin natin ang babae instead na un lalaki na nag take advantage? victim shaming much?

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    5. 1138 - no hate on you but not everyone is just as backwards as your approach. Kung mas comfortable ka na hihintayin mo ang lalaki to approach you then good for you. Just cause other girls have the courage to do so doesn’t mean dESPeRAtE mOvEs agad. Where’s freedom above all? Also kung hihintayin ko bang mauna yong lalaki does that make me more of a respectable woman? Apaka mo ante gigil ako ah

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    6. sigaw sigaw ng equality pero pagdating sa first move stage gusto special? mga babaeng to daming ngawa and yes! babae din ako. lol

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    7. I admire people who have strong beliefs. Pero once na you pushed yours to others and mock them or judge them, ibang usapan na yan. At girl, nakakadiri yang reasoning mo na it’s an excuse for men to take advantage of women! Such a perverted mindset you have.

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    8. Point is, puwede naman siya mag propose sa guy, bakit sa Blackpink concert pa? Papansin ang dating... Bakit, hindi ba niya ma-invite in a simple manner??? Tapos pag na call out, defensive pa ang Andre na ito. Panindigan mo hija. Huwag pikon.

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    9. 1:29 I think ang point is mapansin talaga ng idols niya and at the same time do something romantic for her bf. She has every right to be defensive kasi she’s being judged and degraded. Either wala ka lang jowa or you haven’t experienced having the opportunity to get noticed by your idol.

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    10. 1:29 nothing wrong with making it extra special. Ang DAMI na gumawa nyan (proposal sa concert) It's actually common! So you guys live in caves? Ganyan ba tayo ka - 3rd world??

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    11. I diasgree, it actually shows some power in the relationship if the girl makes the first move. Guys who are intimidated by this tend to be insecure and want constant control of the relationship.

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  6. Bakit parang narinig ko un boses nyang pababy nung binabasa ko un sagot nya ke basher! πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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  7. sa true naman kasi wag kayong mema masyado bashers go andrea

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  8. Bakit ko naririnig yung boses ni andrea sa post hahahaha

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  9. Go girl, you did nothing wrong! Yes, she was right for asking him since she's part of the Star Magic. Also, I see nothing bad if a woman do thr first move. I call it having balls for being so vocal about your feeling towards the guy so especial to you. Mema lang yon mga inggit, baka wala sila jowa haha.

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    1. True. And she also actually gave Ricci flowers before. I don't think it's just for the gram. And Ricci was appreciative about it.

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  10. Go andrea! Inggit lang mga yan

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  11. I watched one yt video abt this topic... eversince naman talaga babae ang nag ffirst move kung gusto nila yung guy. The theory in the classics movie na yung babae nag huhulog ng panyo and then ung guy kukunin at ibibigay sa girl... women initiate the first move by choosing the guy who she wanted to make "the first move".

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  12. Its not about girls who moved first.

    Its about you making papansin.

    Promposal ka pa eh jowa mo na yan.

    Alangan namang magbitbit ka ng ibang date?

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    1. Hindi ka pa siguro nagka jowa no teh? Hindi mo kasi naisip na baka hesitant si guy na pumunta bilang busy siya or hindi niya crowd yung crowd ni girl. It happens actually. Minsan kailangan mo pang pilitin ang partner mo to attend an occasion. Lawakan mo din isip mo te. Hehe

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  13. Yes go Blythe! Dedma sa mga lola bashers! Lol.

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  14. This isn't about shaming girls doing the first move. Asking your BF na to be your promdate comes with the relationship, it doesn't have to be done by stealing other peoples' thunder. Obviously clout-chasing eh. Hence the mockery.

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    1. 12:17 hindi naman si andrea ang unang may paposter na ganyan. Kahit saang concert, may mga nagpapapansin talaga, kaya nga yung iba, on stage pa nagagawa yung mga proposal or whatever. Just saying.

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    2. Mag jowa sila, kailangan pa ng ganitong paandar??? They are both kulang sa pansin.

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    3. Kaninong thunder ang nasteal? Normal na gngwa yan sa mga concert..

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  15. Yung titig ni ricci sa blackpink parang mas amazed sya sa members na nakatingin sa kanya kesa sa promposal lollπŸ˜„

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  16. I went to an exclusive school for girls nung high school. I have to ask somebody to be my prom date. Nakakakaba talaga. Imagine what boys go through then just feel rejected. I think boys appreciate being asked first.

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  17. Hindi pala gwapo si ricci noh

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    1. 12:41. Sino bang nag sabi na guwapo si Lalaki. Bagay sila ni Andrea. They are both attention seekers.

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  18. Di naman first move yung issue. Yung pagka uhaw mo sa atensyon.

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  19. pampam naman talaga mga ganyan lol, pwede mo naman itanong direkta personal or text sa jowa mo.. kaw talaga kukis and kwiiim

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  20. dami namang bashers. wala na tayo sa year kupong kupong. hayaan nyo sila!

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  21. Wla nmn masma qng ikw ggwa ng moves ok nga yan atlst nzgpapakatotoo c andrea..ayw qlng s bfπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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  22. Bakit kasi need iask sa prom e bf n nga so ofcourse sya ang isasama duh

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    1. 1:23 yung ibang magjowa nga nagaask pa rin sa actual prom. Part lang din yan ng festivities

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    2. She can bring his dad, brother, literally anyone.

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  23. I'm setting aside the fact na may maldita stories circulating about this girl. But if there's an event that I'm invited to, of course I'd also be the one to ask my bf to come with me. Men aren't psychic so why expect them to always initiate? Weird naman if yung bf pa nya mangulit para dun sa prom event ng Star Magic.

    I'm too old to prep for public proposals though, but that's just the lazy Tita in me.

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  24. Nung nag prom kami nung late 90s I asked my date to go with me. All girls school kami so ano, maghihintay kami sa wala? Wala sa kapanahunan yan no.

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    1. πŸ˜ƒ Oo nga naman..

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    2. 2:00 AM - True. Nerve wracking kaya mag ask ng guy sa prom lalo na if all girls kayo sa school from prep to high school and may pre prom meeting pa yan because it's not like you're going to meet at the prom for the first time. It's like a rite of passage, part of growing up and wala naman kinalaman sa pagiging desparate. Sometimes you have to make the first move, simple lang.

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  25. Move on na kayo mga marites na boomer, mapapait ang buhay at inggitera. Tapos na concert.

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  26. The boy is already her boyfriend so why do people care what she does for him? People stay mad at her cos she doesn't want love team syndrome. They should stay mad forever and leave love team to people who enjoys it πŸ’―

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  27. Hindi naman kasi kelangan ng paandar since mag jowa sila and may +1 ang Star Magic Ball. Matik na yun na sila ang magkasama umattend unless may laro si lalaki. Pampam lang.

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  28. Go Andrea! Care bears mga sinasabi ng hindi kapareha ng pag-iisip mo. Basta wala naman kayong tinatapakan na ibang tao, go lang. Life is too short para hindi mo maenjoy ang relationship mo. Hindi lahat na nagfifirst move na mga babae are taken for granted. Babae man or hindi ang first move, hindi iyan ang batayan kung magtatagal ang relationship or hindi, or if the guy would treat you well of not. Cheers Andrea!!! Love, love, love!!!

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  29. I don’t even like Andrea pero grabe na talaga mga tao ngayon. 2023 na pero very 1970’s pa rin mag isip. Kaya di umuunlad ang bansa.

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  30. Hayyy...basahin nyo nalang Reply ni Andrea sa bashers.. Dahil tamang tama at savage ang Response nya sa bashers... Syempre sya yung artist ng star magic...sya talaga dapat magyaya..at advantage pa dun, Boyfriend na nya yung niyaya nya.. Atleast si Ricci parin nag ask sa kanya to be his Gf publicly...yan Date lang sa PROM (Star Magical Prom) ang OA nyo mag react.. in my 39 years here in Earth.. syempre andun parin yung lalaki mag ask. to be his GF, pero Ghurls!! ok lang din yan lalo na kung alam mo may gusto o love ka ng lalaki at love mo rin yung lalaki, ikaw mag ask to be your Bf.. at kadalasan naman ngayon sa BF/GF or in a Relationship kung sino may pera siya na magyaya ng Date.. babae man o lalaki.. labas tayo or kain tayo sa labas.. May pera ako ngayon, kakain kami sa labas mamaya or bukas. Maybpera ako Yayain ko sya lalabas kami,. ganon!!

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  31. Ano ngayon kng gusto nila ng attention? Aren't we all especially sa mga idols like BP? Be happy nlng for them na napansin sila. I'm sure yun naman talaga gusto mapansin and kiligin kasi BP yun eh and fun fun lng sa cobcert. Wala po silang inaapakan na ibang tao grabe kayo

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    1. Onga eh ang bababaw maka bash lang.

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  32. It's just like asking your boyfriend to go out, watch a movie, mag beach. Nothing wrong with that. Jusko.

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  33. basta iba talaga datingan nitong andrea na to! pa bebe

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  34. Like her no pretentions, what you see is what you get

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  35. i think men are also worth pursuing. anyway baka naman for fun lang nya ginawa and para sumikat din. ako I also pursued my husband and sobrang worth it.

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  36. People who slam othher people for trying to live their best lives is so sad. She got attention from her idols while trying to do something cute and memorable for her boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with wanting either one of those things yet there are people here who would put her down for it.

    Have her courage and go for the things you want and maybe you will be less judgy, hypocritical and unhappy with your own lives that you can only see this negatively.

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  37. Yun mga ibang classmates natin dito sa FP, minsan parang kapanahunan pa ni kopong-kopong mag-isip :(

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    1. Akala ko nga walang ganto. Jusko nakakadismaya mga gantong outdated mag isip.

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    2. Baks, faneys yan ng Blackpink na either hindi afford ang ticket o kaya nagpapansin sa idols nila pero hindi napansin kaya galit kay Andrea. Nakakatawa sila actually.

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  38. omg guys let her live

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  39. Lol sana tinext niya nalang bwahahaha

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    1. Ganyan din ang reaction ko nung start pero nung nakuha ko yung context, ginawa lang pala nila for fun. Di na nila kasalanan kung pinansin sila ng BP, pwede naman silang di pansinin tulad ng ibang mga banners dun.

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  40. Ang laki ng isyu ng karamihan dito sa paandar ni Andrea. Yes, she can do it privately but since concert ng idol niya, she took advantage of it to make a sweet, romantic gesture for her bf and at the same time ma-notice ng Blackpink. She's not the only person to do this pero you made a big deal out of it just because either bwisit lang talaga kayo sa kanya, wala kayong pambili ng ticket to watch your own idol's concert, or wala kayong jowa kaya hindi niyo magawa yan gustuhin niyo man. It's funny how you use lame reasons like desperada, kababaing tao, stealing thunder sa Blackpink, etc. You people get offended by trivial things tapos gagamitan niyo ng personal attack at feminist card. Get a life!

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  41. Malisyosa at makitid ng utak ng mga Negatizens.

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  42. Ayan ang concert naging sya na ang bida sa usapan.

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    1. 1:02 dito lang sa article, baks. Blackpink pa rin ang bida everywhere else. Lol

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  43. Fact remains, BP noticed them and were happy for them. Eh kayo?

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  44. O after nun, dedma na blackpink. Eto ultimate clout chaser. Sana lang forever na kayong 2. Tapos iiyak iyak ka pag naghiwalay kayo. Bakit ang problematic ng mga young stars ngayon?

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