Her father doesnt help at all. Pinalala p nga ni Robin. Tpos ginamit p ang pagiging Muslim para ijustify ang infidelity. So if I were Kylie, lumayo k n s tatay mo.
Her posts seems like she’s justifying Aljur’s cheating on him. That she’s difficult to deal with because of childhood trauma and emotional conditioning. Don’t do that Kylie!
11:45 my interpretation is — she’s trying to resolve her traumas so she wont fall (victim) to the same type of person again (like her father, like her husband). She now sees her preference was largely due to her unresolved traumas
2:22 i hope so. I hope she heals and cut the ties with toxic people (or even family). Sa totoo lang mahirap mag heal pag palagi mo nakikita yung taong cause ng trauma mo
Di ba? Asteeg pa, ganda, sexy, martial artist, can ride a motorbike pa. Why not hasain nya skills nya, she can be a stuntwoman in Hollywood or even a star.
di ba!!!! ano pa bang hahanapin kai kylie jusko kahit na sabihing stay at home mom sya at iniwan nia pansamantala ang pagiging aktres at nagpaka nanay ng ilang taon di yun valid reason para lokohin sya 😞😞
pag yang si kylie nagbalik artista, gumanda at tumiktok-tiktok ayokong makita na pa comment comment yang si aljur na yan sa feed nia 😂 katulad dun s recent couple kung kelan nagmukhang fresh at bata ulit asawa nia prang aso na hahabol habol haha kakagigil ah
Go Kylie, accept the responsibility of going through life with a corrected mindset. Pag lagpas 25yo ka na, wala ka nang masisisi sa magulang mo; it's your choice to change for the better and not get stuck in your past.
It's not easy, but it's the right thing to do. Otherwise, she'll be stuck in the mistakes of the past for the remainder of her life. She's taking control of her future, I hope she goes through therapy soon.
She has to get past it especially she already has her own kids. Shes even capable to love and be happy so why cant she get over her trauma. The mind is powerful and you can either make it work or not work for you the bad experiences shouldnt take over you life its up to you how to overcome challenges after all youre not the only person who goes through or went thru a difficult phase.
You think Kylie can go thru that struggle without Robins help, life is easier for her bc she has Robin to support her financially half her problem is solved. If basura wag sya lalapit for help bc shes an adult and should be responsible hindi sya batang paslit. But thats reality for you guys served mainit init pa! Thats the thing called life no matter how much you hate.
Having a womanizer dad is traumatic for both the mother and the kids. Lalo na kung ang mother mo ay super affected to the point of not taking care of the kids because she wallows in her sadness Years. Try NLP and EFT, Kylie. It helped me a lot in releasing my childhood trauma.
I always tell my daughter that you cannot change who you are, you cannot change your roots nor what happened in your past. But you can change what you want to become and how you want your future to be. - Divorced Mom
1.55 "But you can change what you want to become and how you want your future to be." - If your daughter wants to become a doctor for example, and do her best to reach that goal, why do you want her to change that? What you said to her doesn't make sense at all.
You cannot change who you are? So your child doesn’t have the capacity to mature and learn from her mistakes? Dapat your broken family doesn’t define you and you can still be successful in life despite that.
1:55, ikaw ata di naka gets. Ibig sabihin ni mommy, ikaw ang gumawa ng sarili mo tadhana. Baguhin mo ang kaya mong baguhin. Hindi dahil galing ka sa magulong nakaraan, eh magulo na din future mo. Pwede mo baguhin in a way na magiging maayos ito. Okay na? Tinagalog ko lang. Hahaha. You're the master of your fate sabi nga nila..
Di mo pwedeng piliin ang magulang mo, ang pamilya mo, at ang mga decision nila nung lumalaki ka. Pero pwede mong piliin kinabukasan mo, pag-iisip mo, tadhana mo. Ayan, nawa'y mas madaling maintindihan!
Not her fault na niloko siya ng asawa niya. Not her fault too kung hindi siya martir. Mas hindi healthy para sa mga anak niya kung makikita na miserable siya. If mas healthy for her well being na maghiwalay na lang sila, karaptan niya piliin yun. Hindi dahil pinili niya kapakanan niya ibig sabihin na di niya sineryoso marriage niya.
Yuck. Toxic mentality much. You stay with your cheating or abusive husband. But don't force your standards upon those who are empowered and self-respecting enough to walk away and stand on their own.
Saka ka nag asawa at nag anak? Apaka unfair nun di ba? Naiinis ako sa mga grown adults na childhood trauma ek unless its battery or sexual assault iba talaga yun.
Pero broken family pero maayos naman napalaki me career me pera tapos ganyan pa? Mahiya naman kayo sa mga taong super hikahos sa buhay.
Where you are now is your own doing because may wisdom and free will ka.
Grabe ka 2:39 as in grabe. Lawakan mo ang isip mo pakiusap. Trauma is trauma. We all go through a lot of things in life, trauma manifests at whatever stage in life wala yang hard and fast rules. You may even have your own undealt trauma with the way you are speaking and judging other people.
2:39 wag kang insensitive dyan. Lahat tyo iba iba ang situation ang how they cope up with that. Hndi porket hndi extreme ang experience ng isang tao, iinvalidate mo na agad. Haiz🤦🤦🤦🤦
teh hindi mo alam ang storya ng buhay niya . Nakikita mo lang yung panlabas na anyo. Wala tayo sa buhay nila para makita yung structure ng pamilya nila while growing up. Natural sa mga tiga showbiz na iba ang pinapakita sa harap ng camera at sa totoong buhay.
Uy! perfect ang buhay mo? I bet you have many regrets and frustrations like everyone else. Not everything that happens in your life is your own doing. Sometimes, you will be forced to be in a situation that is never your fault nor your choice. Walang kinalaman ang pera at estado sa buhay ng childhood trauma. At kung ano man ang pinagdaanan nya, wala kang karapatan na isawalang bahala lang yon dahil mayaman sya at ikaw hikahos omg anong mentality yan?!
And who are you to belittle another person's pain which, by the way, you know nothing of? Did you see her grow up? Do you have personal knowledge of what she's going through? Nakikinood ko lang sa social media. So much more is happening or has happened behind the camera.
And who are you to judge people na hindi mo kilala personally? Sino ka to invalidate their feelings and own trauma? Wala kang alam sa buhay nila sa likod ng camera.
But her decisions in adult life are based on preconceived notions from her childhood. Maybe that's why she married early and gave up her career, ganun mom niya dati di ba? Maybe being raised in a broken family (and with a machismo dad) is the reason why she got off that sinking ship of a marriage that fast. Iba ang norm nya. Kaya nagiging cyclical ang mga events ng buhay ng tao, unless the person decides to correct it.
4:17 pinagsasabi mo? kahit ang mga taong nanggaling sa buong pamilya can make bad decisions and those who came from problematic families can have a better hapoier life later. ang punto ko, there are no guarantees kahit ano pang background mo or saan ka pa nanggaling or ano pang desisyon ang pinili mong tahakin. the most important thing is she made a decision for herself and her kids at di lang sya nagtiis. she became wiser.
Grabe ka 2:39 napakainsensitive mo.Walang mahirap o mayaman sa ganitong sitwasyon.Di biro ang gamitong sitwasyon struggle talaga sya.Dibmo pa nararanasan siguro kaya ganyan ang pagiisip mo.Respeto nman sa mga taong may pinagdadadaanan.Need nila support
2:39 You must have lived a pampered and sheltered life. "Trauma" does not only equate to the physical, it is just as painful to be traumatized emotionally. You do not get to tell someone else that hers is not real trauma.
siguro easy life tong si 2.39. just because we have not experience what other people experienced doesnt mean their feeling are not valid. grow up, ang kitid ng utak. mukang di dumaan sa hirap kaya ganyan magisip
Sobrang sakit ng nafefeel ni Kylie now, imagine womanizer father mo tapos yung napangasawa mo eh babaero dun, sakit tlaga, don't worry Kylie, isa ako sa nakakaintindi sayo dahil ganyan din sitwasyon ko dati.. pero sabi nga ni Dory kapag nalulunod ka na... just keep swimming!!
Just a piece of advise , Kylie just be quiet. Create a paradise with your kids. Focus on work and kids. Staying on social media won’t help you.it’s more peaceful if you don’t shared So much on social media, most people are not that sympathetic as you might think they just want gossip or waiting for your next fall - been there done that - Single mom for 15 years.
Robin ang father The husband Aljur has similar qualities sa father You are destined to be heartbroken Love yourself muna, focus on the kids Kung babalikan mo si Aljur, aanakan ka lang
It's good she understands that her conditioning has also effed her up. This is one tough chick. Aljur really lost a catch. I wish her all the best. She is young, competent and beautiful. Whether she decides to stay single forever or finds someone more deserving, there's more to life. As a mother, some women find that a man isn't that important in the grand scheme of things. Best to be alone and happy, than to put up with the heartache.
I was reading holistic psychology, usually women are attracted and drawn sa replica ng father nila (attitude and how he treats a woman). Growing up seeing how a father treats the mother, sets the standard of what love is. She really needs to heal from her childhood traumas.
Her father doesnt help at all. Pinalala p nga ni Robin. Tpos ginamit p ang pagiging Muslim para ijustify ang infidelity. So if I were Kylie, lumayo k n s tatay mo.
ReplyDeleteSi Robin pa nga nag announce. Not his news to tell kahit pa father sya. Before that wala naman ingay
Delete12:47 True. Stay away from toxic for her peace of mind.
DeleteHer posts seems like she’s justifying Aljur’s cheating on him. That she’s difficult to deal with because of childhood trauma and emotional conditioning. Don’t do that Kylie!
Delete11:45 my interpretation is — she’s trying to resolve her traumas so she wont fall (victim) to the same type of person again (like her father, like her husband). She now sees her preference was largely due to her unresolved traumas
Delete2:22 i hope so. I hope she heals and cut the ties with toxic people (or even family). Sa totoo lang mahirap mag heal pag palagi mo nakikita yung taong cause ng trauma mo
DeleteSa ganyang ganda mo ghorl nagloko pa si tuod acting? Ahhh di sya kawalan🤣
ReplyDeletetrot.Gwapo lang and thats it. Walang career.
DeleteDi ba? Asteeg pa, ganda, sexy, martial artist, can ride a motorbike pa. Why not hasain nya skills nya, she can be a stuntwoman in Hollywood or even a star.
Delete3:45 not even gwapo. Macho lang. in short, hipon.
Deletedi ba!!!! ano pa bang hahanapin kai kylie jusko kahit na sabihing stay at home mom sya at iniwan nia pansamantala ang pagiging aktres at nagpaka nanay ng ilang taon di yun valid reason para lokohin sya 😞😞
Deletepag yang si kylie nagbalik artista, gumanda at tumiktok-tiktok ayokong makita na pa comment comment yang si aljur na yan sa feed nia 😂 katulad dun s recent couple kung kelan nagmukhang fresh at bata ulit asawa nia prang aso na hahabol habol haha kakagigil ah
Delete345 di din gwapo. fact
DeleteDi nga guwapo. Dugyotin.
DeleteAgree ang ang dumi ng dating nya pero yung kapatid nya moreno din parang ang bango bango.
DeleteTakang Taka padin talaga ako pano nabingwit ni aljur si Kylie. Gosh she's leagues ahead of him!!
DeleteHipon na tuod naman yung lalake. Ganda ganda ni kylie kaya
DeleteRobin Padilla left the group.
ReplyDeleteGo Kylie, accept the responsibility of going through life with a corrected mindset. Pag lagpas 25yo ka na, wala ka nang masisisi sa magulang mo; it's your choice to change for the better and not get stuck in your past.
Easy to say. You will never understand trauma of broken children
DeleteIt's not easy, but it's the right thing to do. Otherwise, she'll be stuck in the mistakes of the past for the remainder of her life. She's taking control of her future, I hope she goes through therapy soon.
Delete1:25, who said it’s easy? But you gotta do it when you want a better life and a better you.
DeleteShe has to get past it especially she already has her own kids. Shes even capable to love and be happy so why cant she get over her trauma. The mind is powerful and you can either make it work or not work for you the bad experiences shouldnt take over you life its up to you how to overcome challenges after all youre not the only person who goes through or went thru a difficult phase.
Deletethis girl is so pretty
ReplyDeleteLalo in person!
Deletetrue. Nagagandahan ako sa kanya. Tumatak siya sa Encantadia.
Deleteso trueeee! lalo pag wala make up. actually lahat sila magkakapatid
DeletePuro patama at drama
ReplyDeleteWow naman @100 AM ikaw na ang perfect ang buhay at walang pinagdaanan ever.
Deleteporket may pinagdadaanan patama na agad ung post?
DeleteTraumatic talaga siguro maging anak ni boy sili.
ReplyDeleteFor sure. And the girl just wanted an intact family unlike the one she grew up in, but unfortunately, her husband is no different from her father :(
DeleteTrue. I can hardly imagine
DeleteStay strong, girl. From a broken family, basura dad, now your basura husband naman.
ReplyDeletedont call her dad or husband basura. No one is perfect we all have our flaws. Tatay nya pa din si Robin at ama ng mga anak nya si Aljur.
Delete1:51 sanay ka suguro sa toxic relatives. You keep giving excuses for their garbage. I pity you.
Delete1:51 what kind of mentality do you have lmao
Delete1:51, kaloka ka! Kaya dumadami ang mga basurang members of the family e dahil sa katulad mong enabler!
DeleteYou think Kylie can go thru that struggle without Robins help, life is easier for her bc she has Robin to support her financially half her problem is solved. If basura wag sya lalapit for help bc shes an adult and should be responsible hindi sya batang paslit. But thats reality for you guys served mainit init pa! Thats the thing called life no matter how much you hate.
Delete1:51 Enabler ang tawag sayo. Hold them accountable account
DeleteAdvice ko is mag therapy siya, it will be good for her and her children's mental health. Di madali ang makipag hiwalay and start over again.
ReplyDeleteWith that kind of dad, I wouldn't be surprised.
ReplyDeleteShe was hit the most because she's Robin's favorite daughter. Iba ang naging effect ng hiwalayan ng parents nya sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteHaving a womanizer dad is traumatic for both the mother and the kids. Lalo na kung ang mother mo ay super affected to the point of not taking care of the kids because she wallows in her sadness Years. Try NLP and EFT, Kylie. It helped me a lot in releasing my childhood trauma.
ReplyDeleteI always tell my daughter that you cannot change who you are, you cannot change your roots nor what happened in your past. But you can change what you want to become and how you want your future to be. - Divorced Mom
ReplyDelete1.55 "But you can change what you want to become and how you want your future to be." - If your daughter wants to become a doctor for example, and do her best to reach that goal, why do you want her to change that? What you said to her doesn't make sense at all.
DeleteYou cannot change who you are? So your child doesn’t have the capacity to mature and learn from her mistakes? Dapat your broken family doesn’t define you and you can still be successful in life despite that.
Delete1:55, ikaw ata di naka gets. Ibig sabihin ni mommy, ikaw ang gumawa ng sarili mo tadhana. Baguhin mo ang kaya mong baguhin. Hindi dahil galing ka sa magulong nakaraan, eh magulo na din future mo. Pwede mo baguhin in a way na magiging maayos ito. Okay na? Tinagalog ko lang. Hahaha. You're the master of your fate sabi nga nila..
DeleteDi mo pwedeng piliin ang magulang mo, ang pamilya mo, at ang mga decision nila nung lumalaki ka. Pero pwede mong piliin kinabukasan mo, pag-iisip mo, tadhana mo. Ayan, nawa'y mas madaling maintindihan!
DeleteLaro laro nalang pag aasawa ngayon, kung ayaw na hiwalay.
ReplyDeletepag bata nag asawa at hindi pa talaga ready emotionally etc, mukhang nagkakahiwalay.
DeleteKylie gave her commitment pero niloko siya ni Aljur. Would you like that she stay with the person who betrayed her?
DeleteNot her fault na niloko siya ng asawa niya. Not her fault too kung hindi siya martir. Mas hindi healthy para sa mga anak niya kung makikita na miserable siya. If mas healthy for her well being na maghiwalay na lang sila, karaptan niya piliin yun. Hindi dahil pinili niya kapakanan niya ibig sabihin na di niya sineryoso marriage niya.
DeleteMga lalake ang panay laro at feeling binata
Delete3:46 si Robin hindi na bata pero mahilig parin mag laro
DeleteYuck. Toxic mentality much. You stay with your cheating or abusive husband. But don't force your standards upon those who are empowered and self-respecting enough to walk away and stand on their own.
DeleteGood job! Focus on your healing for you & your sons.
ReplyDeleteSaka ka nag asawa at nag anak? Apaka unfair nun di ba? Naiinis ako sa mga grown adults na childhood trauma ek unless its battery or sexual assault iba talaga yun.
ReplyDeletePero broken family pero maayos naman napalaki me career me pera tapos ganyan pa? Mahiya naman kayo sa mga taong super hikahos sa buhay.
Where you are now is your own doing because may wisdom and free will ka.
Grabe ka 2:39 as in grabe. Lawakan mo ang isip mo pakiusap. Trauma is trauma. We all go through a lot of things in life, trauma manifests at whatever stage in life wala yang hard and fast rules. You may even have your own undealt trauma with the way you are speaking and judging other people.
Delete2:39 wag kang insensitive dyan. Lahat tyo iba iba ang situation ang how they cope up with that. Hndi porket hndi extreme ang experience ng isang tao, iinvalidate mo na agad. Haiz🤦🤦🤦🤦
Deleteteh hindi mo alam ang storya ng buhay niya . Nakikita mo lang yung panlabas na anyo. Wala tayo sa buhay nila para makita yung structure ng pamilya nila while growing up. Natural sa mga tiga showbiz na iba ang pinapakita sa harap ng camera at sa totoong buhay.
Delete2:39 how insensitive. Who are you to invalidate other people’s feelings and experiences just because you think you/others have it worse?
Deleteang babaw mo yan lang talaga ang definition mo ng childhood trauma? please just go back to school aksaya ka sa oxygen.
DeleteUy! perfect ang buhay mo? I bet you have many regrets and frustrations like everyone else. Not everything that happens in your life is your own doing. Sometimes, you will be forced to be in a situation that is never your fault nor your choice. Walang kinalaman ang pera at estado sa buhay ng childhood trauma. At kung ano man ang pinagdaanan nya, wala kang karapatan na isawalang bahala lang yon dahil mayaman sya at ikaw hikahos omg anong mentality yan?!
DeleteAnd who are you to belittle another person's pain which, by the way, you know nothing of? Did you see her grow up? Do you have personal knowledge of what she's going through? Nakikinood ko lang sa social media. So much more is happening or has happened behind the camera.
DeleteAnd who are you to judge people na hindi mo kilala personally? Sino ka to invalidate their feelings and own trauma? Wala kang alam sa buhay nila sa likod ng camera.
DeleteBut her decisions in adult life are based on preconceived notions from her childhood. Maybe that's why she married early and gave up her career, ganun mom niya dati di ba? Maybe being raised in a broken family (and with a machismo dad) is the reason why she got off that sinking ship of a marriage that fast. Iba ang norm nya. Kaya nagiging cyclical ang mga events ng buhay ng tao, unless the person decides to correct it.
Delete4:17 pinagsasabi mo? kahit ang mga taong nanggaling sa buong pamilya can make bad decisions and those who came from problematic families can have a better hapoier life later. ang punto ko, there are no guarantees kahit ano pang background mo or saan ka pa nanggaling or ano pang desisyon ang pinili mong tahakin. the most important thing is she made a decision for herself and her kids at di lang sya nagtiis. she became wiser.
DeleteGrabe ka 2:39 napakainsensitive mo.Walang mahirap o mayaman sa ganitong sitwasyon.Di biro ang gamitong sitwasyon struggle talaga sya.Dibmo pa nararanasan siguro kaya ganyan ang pagiisip mo.Respeto nman sa mga taong may pinagdadadaanan.Need nila support
Deleteagree
Delete2:39 You must have lived a pampered and sheltered life. "Trauma" does not only equate to the physical, it is just as painful to be traumatized emotionally. You do not get to tell someone else that hers is not real trauma.
DeleteAgree 4:17, good to know that Kylie is taking responsibility for it and is on a journey to get better.
Deletesiguro easy life tong si 2.39. just because we have not experience what other people experienced doesnt mean their feeling are not valid. grow up, ang kitid ng utak. mukang di dumaan sa hirap kaya ganyan magisip
DeleteSa tagal kong silent reader sa blog na to, gusto ko lang magcomment kay 2:39 B*** ka
DeleteYou go girl
ReplyDeleteSobrang sakit ng nafefeel ni Kylie now, imagine womanizer father mo tapos yung napangasawa mo eh babaero dun, sakit tlaga, don't worry Kylie, isa ako sa nakakaintindi sayo dahil ganyan din sitwasyon ko dati.. pero sabi nga ni Dory kapag nalulunod ka na... just keep swimming!!
ReplyDeleteJust a piece of advise , Kylie just be quiet. Create a paradise with your kids. Focus on work and kids. Staying on social media won’t help you.it’s more peaceful if you don’t shared So much on social media, most people are not that sympathetic as you might think they just want gossip or waiting for your next fall - been there done that - Single mom for 15 years.
ReplyDeleteRobin ang father
ReplyDeleteThe husband Aljur has similar qualities sa father
You are destined to be heartbroken
Love yourself muna, focus on the kids
Kung babalikan mo si Aljur, aanakan ka lang
Kylie please open your Bible not this karma trash books.
ReplyDeleteIt's good she understands that her conditioning has also effed her up. This is one tough chick. Aljur really lost a catch. I wish her all the best. She is young, competent and beautiful. Whether she decides to stay single forever or finds someone more deserving, there's more to life. As a mother, some women find that a man isn't that important in the grand scheme of things. Best to be alone and happy, than to put up with the heartache.
ReplyDeleteI was reading holistic psychology, usually women are attracted and drawn sa replica ng father nila (attitude and how he treats a woman). Growing up seeing how a father treats the mother, sets the standard of what love is. She really needs to heal from her childhood traumas.
ReplyDelete