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Wednesday, May 5, 2021

Tweet Scoop: Alessandra de Rossi Frustrated at Marriage and Having Kids as Measures of Being a Woman


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167 comments:

  1. Mag form kayo ng support group ni Donnalyn Bartolome.

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    1. m sure a lot of women would join that group.

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    2. I am a big supporter of women empowerment. Society should never dictate a woman’s true essence and value.

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    3. Include me and 99+ others.

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    4. Tama naman sila diba? I would join that group.

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    5. 12:47 they have a point. Ikaw ano point mo?

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    6. 239! I will join

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    7. That would be great. Para matapos na ang toxic ideas about being a woman.

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    8. Sama ako and Im sure maraming sasama sa group na yan kasi ang daming nakakaranas nyan

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    9. Sali din ako dyan baks!

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    10. Sino naman si donnalyn?

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  2. Hahaha gj ka diyan alex.

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  3. Very well said, Alex. Go girl! πŸ™ŒπŸ»

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    1. I agree. Hindi dapat mag impose ang mga tao na “dapat” kasal and may anak ang babae to be “complete”. Whatever circumstances led them to their current station in life, nobody should make them feel less of a woman. Mean din yung ibang mga babae, na sila pa mismo ang nagda down sa kapwa babae. Let her (and others like her) choose her life’s path, let her live it to however she wishes. Kung meron kayong asawa at anak, be happy for yourselves and don’t measure other people’s worth based on your own values.

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    2. 1:49 correct ka jan! My gahd.

      And these are the same women who prolly post “Queens fix each other’s crown...” stuff on socmed. Pathetic.

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    3. Sadly ganyan ganyan ang thinking ng mga matatanda, kamag anak ko dito sa probinsya. Hay

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    4. 1:49 Totoo baks! Lalo na mga "tita/tito-levels" na para bang may checklist ang buhay ng babae. Kailangan kasal na ba by this year, baby # 1 on this year, blah blah blah. Ugh!

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  4. Uhm people don't care. Less of a woman drama mo doesn't matter in these crazy times.

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    1. You have one sad f**ked life anon 1252

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    2. do not invalidate the struggles of others just because someone/you are having it worse. siguro hindi mo po naramdaman mga pinagdadaanan na sinasabi nya, and i hope you won't...

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    3. 12:52 bakit ka pa nag reply?

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    4. sad life mo.. relevant yang sinadabi nya.. dami kasing toxic at nega na katulad mo..

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    5. u'll be surprised how it still mattered in these crazy times. m sorry that people around u dont give much eff about you

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    6. 12:52 never makakarelate ang isang heartless na gaya mo

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    7. Hintayin mo yung araw na magkaproblema ko or issue na di mo kaya ma take. Ampalaya mo.

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    8. It matters.

      People sa pinas have been swimming in toxic cultural rules and expectations sa babae. Alex is simply flipping the middle finger on these so-called requirements.

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    9. 12:52 Your comment doesn’t matter either. In crazy times or normal times, the earth doesn’t need people with mentality like yours.

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  5. Very well said, Alex! You go girl

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    1. I support Alex! I totally get it and thanks for saying this out loud.

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  6. She's smart even if she did not finish her studies.

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    1. Kasi hindi sa diploma nasusukat ang katalinuhan. Parang ikaw di ko sure kung may diploma ka o wla, pero it seems like you are not well-read or well-informed.

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    2. You don’t have to finish school to be smart. Dami diyan de masters degree pero waley.

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    3. Wow you can’t even compliment without throwing shade. You must be fun at parties.

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    4. Another stereotype, you need not finish studies to be smart.

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    5. 8.02am yung presidente nga natin, lawyer pero waley haha!

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    6. 6:56 nakakatawa na yan?

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  7. sa totoo lang, hindi na talaga mawawala sa pinoy ang ganyang pagiisip kaya deadmahin na lang talaga

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    1. tbf hindi lang sa atin ganyan, buong mundo ata ganyan din pero in different degrees ang curiousity at pressure. May mga lalake din na tinatanong kung kelan magkakajowa/pasakal/anak.

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    2. Hindi solusyon ang pangdededma. Hindi matatapos yung ganyang thinking. I-acknowledge at itama ang dapat gawin.

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  8. talagang sabay pa tayo nag-PMS ghorl!!! basta simula napanood ko si madam Candy pangilinan sa interview nya, i take her advice na "do not compare, do not conform, do not compete and you will be satisfied and content." ganerrrn

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    1. This! I stand with you girl!

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    2. Ito kasing mga lola, lolo natin ang pasimuno πŸ˜‚ dahil noong unang panahon padamihan sila ng anak. Ang batayan nila sa lalake ay ilang anak ang mabubuo at sa babae naman ay kung ilan ang kayang ipanganak.

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  9. Married and have kids nga but BROKE πŸ˜†
    I’d rather be single and rich. Paaralin ko na lang mga pamangkin ko.

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    1. Apir madam! Go go go!

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    2. Basta yan ang happiness mo, gorabels πŸ™‚

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    3. Im married, happy and I have money. Not all single woman have money though.

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    4. And not all married woman have money din no 🀨

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  10. I’m married but can’t have kids pero i feel this. NOON. I stopped caring because ang nasa isip ko. May jowa/asawa at anak ka nga. Pero marami ka pa rin namang hanash sa buhay di ba? Atleast ako i have one less problem. Lol.

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  11. Kapag walang project, maingay talaga mga artista

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    1. That’s their job. To stay relevant. Friends mo nga sa FB ang daming ingay. So normal lang yan. Lol.

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    2. at least may saysay ang sinasabi. eh ikaw? puro ingay lang.

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    3. May sense naman ang ingay niya unlike ikaw, nagbabasa ka na nga lang nega ka pa

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    4. 1.01 Pinapansin mo naman sila

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    5. Ikaw nga, di ka artista pero ang ingay mo.

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    6. With few more brain cells, I’m sure you’ll get her point. Walang kinalaman ang pagiging artista ng isang tao in having opinions about certain things.

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    7. kung yung mga ordinaryong tao nga post ng post sa fb or IG para mapansin, artista pa kaya?

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    8. At yan lang talaga ang nakuha mo sa mga sinabi nya? Wawa ka naman.

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  12. Kayo nalang ni Empoy, Alex. Bagay kayo.

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    1. Mas bagay kayo ni Empoy 1:04 go go go na!

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    2. May asawa na ata si Empoy

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  13. Hay, sa atin kasi ang daming pakialamera. Kesyo kapag 30s na mahirap na manganak or matanda ka na (dahil na rin cgro mas mababa ang life expectancy sa atin). Jusko po, yung iba nga nasa 40s or 50s na nag aanak para may pambuhay sa mga anak. Hindi gaya sa atin, wla na ngang pambili ng bigas, mag aanak pa ng marami. πŸ₯΄

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    1. 1:12 mas marami kang issues, sa true lang. LOL

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    2. Uso din kasi sa atin yung mag-aanak para gawing insurance. Yung pag napagtapos na yung anak, aasa na sya na yung magiging breadwinner at magpapaaral sa mga kapatid. Jusko.

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    3. facts lang sinasabi ni 1:12

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    4. 137 gurl, I am just stating facts. Nasa Eu nman ako, may asawa ta 2kids at tumutulong sa pamilya. Nakakaloka lang minsan yung kapatid ko, wla na ngang permanent na work, may plano pang magdagdag ng anak. Hay, ewan sa atin. Lol, may issue nga ako. πŸ˜‚

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    5. 2:01 super agree! Hindi insurance policy ang anak! Unpopular opinion ito lalo na dito sa Pinas with its “utang na loob” culture.

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    6. Tinamaan ka ba, 1:37?

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    7. This is actually kind of messed up, tbh most people aren't good parents. I get na human instict to have hope and to persevere kaya people have kids anyway even if they're not financially and emotionally ready, and to some extent nothing can prepare people for parenthood so everybody ends up figuring it out as they go, but sa totoo lang napakaliit na percentage ng mga tao yung matinong magulang. I feel like overpopulated naman na ang mundo, so there's no need to have kids just for the sake of having them. And no offense, yung mga nagkeclaim na nakumpleto sila nung nagkaroon sila ng anak, or that it's nice to have a child because iba parin yung meron kang maituturing na sayo, kayamanan ang mga anak...from my observation those are the parents who tend to be overbearing, controlling, nirerelive ang buhay nila through their kids...etc. In general, not cut out to raise a whole separate person from themselves cause they treat their children as an extension ng mga sarili nila. Usually, those types of people do a lot of damage to their children, and yung attitude ng mga ganung tao is actually normalized in ph culture.

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    8. 1:37 Comment section ‘to. Duh! πŸ™„

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    9. 1:37, mas ikaw yata at di mo nakita na totoo ang sinasabi ni 1:12. Sa true lang.

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    10. Totoo. Be it relatives, chismosang kapitbahay o kung sino sino na kakilala mo laging ganyan pagiisip pag nalaman na 30s na and single pa. The heck

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    11. agree.ung ibang mga sumasaling bata sa TV contest pra maiahon ang pamilya sa kahirapan ang dahilan...child abuse yon eh. Grabe. Filipino mentality.

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    12. 1:12 Huh? Saang fantasy world ka ba nakatira? Yan ang katotohanan. Ewan kung bulag ka, naive or in denial ka lang. Pwede rin na either nega ka or taong mabilis ma rattle. When people state facts, tingin mo kagad issues. Grow up.

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    13. 358 may pa fantasy world ka pang nalalaman. Nasa Germany lang ako baks. Hahaha, pwede ka pang magkaanak hanggang 40s kung healthy ka nman, lalo nat may pera ka, pwedeng pwede maski pa sampu. At kahit anong edad pwede kang mag asawa. I am a caregiver din dito at karamihan sa mga German hanggang 80 to 100 ang lifespan. Karamihan din sa kanila hindi nag aanak ng marami kasi mahal at gusto nilang magbakasyon kapag wlang trabaho. Sa atin? Wla na ngang permanent n work, nagawa pang mag anak ng mag anak. πŸ™„

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    14. 7:53 You nailed it

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    15. 1:12, on point. Family planning is a massive requirement in the Philippines. It's SO irresponsible. Look ay all the street kids, beggars and such. The number of children should coincide with people's ability to provide for such.

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  14. Honestly, this hurts me the most. when people are so insensitive na ipamukha sa iyo na wala kang anak. sa halip na tulungan ka sa acceptance, kasi they don't know gaano kahirap din sa amin tanggapin na wala kaming anak. minsan naiisip mo naging masama ba akong anak. pero sa ibang tao prang pinapramdam na di ka kumpleto. di naman namin yan minsan choice eh, kaya lang we are not blessed para magka baby.

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    1. 1:16 Very true. Minsan kasi malapit na natin ma accept, pero sadyang may tao lang na guguluhin ang process of acceptance mo. Then you get messed up and start thinking and questioning again. Cycle talaga sya

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  15. Ang daming drama neto. Napaka overbearing. If you dont really care, you wont also care to explain yourself lol

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    1. tulog na po tita.. o ang rayuma mo baka umatake haha

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    2. tinamaan ka auntie?

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    3. 2:35 mas maraming tita and older ang relate sa kanya. Baka younger yan na nag cocomment sa taas like you.

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    4. True! It means affected sya

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    5. 1:20 Baka ikaw ang ma drama. Tingin mo sa lahat ng nangyayari ‘drama’. Sumagot lang ang tao, nadadramahan ka kagad? Ang OA MO naman GEEZ. Also, setting things straight doesn’t necessarily mean you care. Sometimes you just want people with low IQ and EQ to understand. Parang responsibility mo as a human na turuan ang mga mahihina ang utak. Kahit alam mong di nila magegets, you still try.

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  16. Para yan sa mga tita na paulit ulit ang tanong sa family gatherings. Na para bang sobrang laking achievement pag may asawa o anak, e physically and verbally abused naman sila for real at kinunsinti lang ang mga bisyo at pagka babaero ng asawa nila. Lol. Kung ganyan man lang, I'd happily stay single and happy than haggard and stressed.


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  17. Walang jowa kaya mainit ang ulo

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    1. Isa ka pa eh. Lalaki lang ba poproblemahin ng mga babae??? Mygod stop this way of thinking!

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    2. She has jowa fyi. Di lang announced. Director ng gma7 jowa nya.

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    3. You obviously didn’t get her point.

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    4. 1:34 Ganyan ka siguro noh? Eew, pathetic. Well hindi lahat ng tao kagaya mo, na sa jowa umiikot ang mundo.

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  18. I agree with Alex!

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  19. I feel you Alex. Kelangan ba mother ka or wife ka para macomplete pagkatao mo? Hindi ba pwedeng dahil ibang landas gusto mong tahakin kaya ayaw mo maging wife or maging mother. Cmon people 2021 na, bat napaka old fashioned p rin thinking ng iba dyan. Nasa panahon pa ba tayo ng kastila?

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    1. Bakit ung tyahin ko baliktad ayaw pag asawahin mga anak nya kahit nasa 40s na cla?

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  20. Kasi uso ang pagiging sensitive at woke ngayon, minsan mahirap magsalita in case makaka-offend yun sasabihin mo sa kausap mo. Maski hindi mo intesyon ang mag offend ha.

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    1. 2:12, if you don’t know what’s offensive and what’s not then you have a
      problem. Not the other way around.

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    2. So kampi ka sa mga taong ginagawang requirements ang kasal at anak sa pagiging babae?

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    3. 2:21 MALI KA. Usong uso na ngayon ang pagiging insensitive and feeling know it all. I think dito ka sa category na to

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    4. 1:18 kakampi ba ang dapat o solusyon? Walang mananalo kung puro husga ang both sides. Try to see it from each other's perspective.

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  21. Agree ako kay alex. Minsan kaasar na talaga yung everytime may conversations with family and friends, ang laging tanong, kailan ka ba mag-aasawa? Mag-asawa ka na kasi! Ang tanda mo na, mag-asawa ka na! Na para bang ang dali-dali lang pumulot ng aasawahin jan sa tabi-tabi. Nakakabuwiset na rin talaga minsan. Nakaka-down pa na feeling mo, ano bang mali sakin? May mali ba sakin?

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    1. :( i feel you

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    2. Well answer it pakialam mo get a life! Sabay laugh oh Di ba.

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    3. I feel you, nakakaasar lalo na sa mga reunions, tampulan ka ng tukso kasi single ka p din at walang anak. Pero pag nagkakwentuhan na ng buhay, eh mas miserable pa yung buhay nila kesa sa akin

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    4. Hahaha true. Sagutin mo ng aanhin mo ang asawa kung sa Tulfo lang din ang uwi nyo?

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    5. Thankful ako kahit papano sa pandemic kasi walang reunions. Lol.

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    6. 10:41 That is so true, yung married nga sila with kids pero miserable naman ang buhay at nalosyang sa kunsumisyon.

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  22. Good for you, Alex! I like your guts!

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  23. Ewan ko lang pero yung mga humahanash ng ganito parang mas lumalabas pang bitter sila.

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    1. Not bitter, they just had enough of people not minding their own business.

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    2. True! If she doesn’t really care why the hanash? Ignore na lng nya or deadmahin.

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    3. Ganyan e..una iinsultuhin ka kasi walang anak at asawa, tapos pag inexplain mo ang side mo tatawagin ka pang bitter. E kung tigilan kaya yung pamumuna sa mga babaeng single, at wag makialam sa choice ng mga babae?

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    4. Hindi naman bitter. Pwede namang napuno na lang. Ang swerte mo naman na hindi mo napagdaanan yung pinagdadaanan nya

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    5. 2:38 isa ka na dun sa mga daming kuda na kesyo you’re not a real woman if you’re not a wife or mother by a certain age

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    6. Hindi naman bitter. Pwede namang napuno na lang. Ang swerte mo naman na hindi mo napagdaanan yung pinagdadaanan nya

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    7. May karapatan silang humanash at maging bitter dahil sa mga taong toxic na ipapamukha sa kanila ang kakulangan nila kuno dahil iba ang circumstances nila kumpara sa nakararami.

      Ang hindi ko maintindihan, daming taong hanash ng hanash sa buhay ng iba. Samantalang ang dami nilang mas kailangan punahin at ayusin sa sariling buhay nila.

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    8. 2:38 may mali sa utak mo kung pabo mag process ng opinions and beliefs ng tao. Paganahin mo pa ang utak mo to understand.

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    9. Well, to be fair yung level ng pressure sa mga asian cultures to conform ay mataas talaga. We lean towards collectivism and we reject or push out whoever is not sticking to the norm so hindi surprising na maraming nagvevent dito na they are struggling internally cause ang tingin sa kanila ng mga tao ay hindi sila normal or may mali sa kanila. I would not say they are bitter but they are definitely feeling overwhelmed or frustrated from thinking that they are doing something wrong and who they are is not acceptable.

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    10. Ikaw sinasabihan ni alex

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    11. 2:38 bitter dahil ang daming pakialamerang tao sa Pinas. Numpake kung wala pang asawa at anak.mag-aambag ba sila?

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    12. You think Of that? Bawal mag sabi saloobin sa mga nakukutya about why Not yet married? No jowa, no Baby?. Wow ha!

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  24. Oh well, matanda na kasi si Alex kaya parang ganon nga ang makita sa kanya. No love life, no partner and no kids at her age is not expected in pinas kasi.

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  25. Hmmm, in pinas even your family will ask the same questions. Wala ka pang asawa, wala ka pang anak, ang tanda mo na, tumaba ka na, may puti na ang buhok mo, etc.

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  26. Hmmm, that’s why I don’t intend on going back to pinas. Here, abroad, nobody cares about those things. They only care about who you are as an individual and what you can do.

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    1. I hear you. Even Filipinos here can be overbearing. No thanks.

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  27. i agree. being a mom or a wife is never a measure of being a complete woman. dami kayang miserableng mom or wife. no thanks. 2021 na.

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  28. Wag nyo kc pansinin. If you pay attention it means you are affected! If you confidently beautiful with a heart just ignore be silent and create your own paradise.

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  29. THIS. I am one of those women na okay lang hindi makapagasawa at magkaanak. But that doesn't make me feel less of a woman. Alam mo naman sa sarili mo if marriage and motherhood is for you.

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  30. Hirap ng buhay mag aasawa pa ba dapat? Dami gastos kaya at pandemya pa heller. I advised my daughters not to get married less hassle less stress less expenses sorry sa mga gusto mag asawa parang luxury na sakin ang marriage pasensya na po nkk trauma ang bills

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  31. Being Single is a trend nowadays - Seo Dan/CLOY

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  32. Bakit pag binata 30+ elegible bachelor, pag dalaga 30+ old maid

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    1. 9:30, because may biological clock ang babae for child bearing. Ang lalaki wala. They can make babies even in their 90s.

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  33. To each his own. Unfortunately, Philippine society is very traditional, judgemental and yet, so hypocritical. You do you, Alex.

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  34. People love to impose and project their values on other people. Instead of being sensitive and discerning on what not to say, they act rude and ipamukha pa sayo na kulang ang pagkatao mo pag wala kang asawa at anak.

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  35. I wholeheartedly agree na di kakulangan sa babae ang di pagkakaroon ng anak or asawa pero kasi napansin ko yung mga ganitong defend nang defend sa ideals kuno nila, sila din yung atat na atat magka-anak at mag-asawa.

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    1. parang di naman

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    2. I don't think so. Marriage and kids actually scare them dahil alam nilang hindi biro yun. These women are just free-spirited and don't conform easily to traditionalist society.

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    3. Hindi naman. Minsan kasi mapupuno ka rin kapag paulit-ulit ng tanong. Lalo na kung wala ka namang naaagrabyado dahil single ka. Di rin naman nila papakainin pamilya mo kung sakaling mag-asawa at mag-anak ka. Pero kada kita sa'yo tatanungin ka kung kailan ka mag-aasawa. :)

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    4. Hindi naman. Me and my husband 8 years married before mag decide mag anak kasi super inenjoy namin na kaming dalawa lang muna. And hindi kami atat mag anak

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    5. Hindi kaya. 30+ na ko nag asawa. Inenjoy ko ng bonggang bongga ang 20s ko. And i will continue to defend those who choose a different path than mine. Hindi lahat atat. That's a fact.

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  36. It's a struggle to have people tell you why you don't have kids yet. And you know, the pressure is real especially if you see women posting happy mother's day gifts on social media kaya I am not as active as I used to be na sa FB. But I would want my own child, because I grew up as a single child to a solo parent after my father died when I was 8. And then my mom died when I was 15 and the struggle of loneliness and being alone is real on this one. Kaya I am really trying na magkaanak kame ng asawa ko because I've suffered loneliness long enough and I want to grow old with my husband, children and apos. S

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    1. Sending you virtual hug! Whoever you are may you be blessed with a child soon!

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    2. aw hugs for you. that tugged at the heartstrings

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  37. Nagtry kami for 5 years ng husband ko.. pero wala tlga. Lagi akong umiiyak sa gabi, iniisip ko anong kulang sakin, bakit sa iba ang dali. Ngayon tanggap ko na at ng asawa ko na wala tlga, hndi ako blessed magkachild pero blessed naman ako sa ibang bagay. Pero sa culture natin unfortunately may mali at kulang syo kung hndi ka magkaka-anak.. at magasawa. Sana mabago na yan.

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    1. I feel for you. I count my blessings too. Kahit na walang anak, masaya kami ng asawa ko pero etong mga relatives namin ang laging nangungulit. Wala sa plan namin ang mag-anak sa totoo lang is there something wrong with that? Wala, our life- our decision. Periodt

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  38. Frankly speaking marriage is a trap. You will be trapped with responsibilities and expectations. If I had to describe marriage in two words: sacrifices and hard work. Life becomes a routine and it’s very expensive to build a family. Of course kids’ love is the best thing in the world. But kids and husband won’t give you the happiness you need. It should come from within you by not forgetting and neglecting who you are, who you want to be. Find your own source of happiness first and you will be a better wife and mom.

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    1. Agree! You need to have a strong sense of self and identity first instead of anchoring your worth on your husband and kids.

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    2. Wow 4.29pm! Pak na pak! Sayo na ang ms.universe crown! At dahil sa sinabi mo, di ko muna ipush na magka love life kasi wala pa akong happiness from within hehe

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    3. 4:29 pm. Wow clap clap clap. Best answer!

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    4. 429 tama ka nman. Hehe, but for me, single or married without kids was not for me. Nakakadepress yan. Now, married with kids happy na ako. But sa totoo lang, parang sa kids lang nabawasan ang sadness ko sa buhay. I don't know what is wrong with me but lagi akong malungkot.

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    5. Agree! We need to talk about this kasi lagi nalang ginoglorify yung pagiging mommy and wife without much attention sa totoong trade off ng pagaasawa. It's really not for everyone sa truelang.

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    6. Aaaww sis 9:13, i wish mahanap mo ang happiness mo :)

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    7. mag aalaga na lang ako ng madaming pusa kesa mag asawa at magkaanak. ayaw kung may dumidikta sa akin.

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    8. 4:29, agreed. Kids are worth it..the marriage? Hmm. To each his own. It's not for everyone. And it's impossible to predict how it'll turn out too.

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    9. πŸ’― love reading comments like this πŸ™‚ thank youπŸ™‚

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  39. Ok lang sana kung ang mga pakialanera at tsimosa ang magaalaga sa anak mo. Sa hirap ng buhay now my time p kayo mang bwishit ng ibang tao. Unahin nyo muna ang pamilya nyo bago ang ibang tao noh!

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  40. My goal talaga is to be that tita who will dissuade the young ones from getting married. End the cycle ganon! HAHAHA tbh i’m not at that tita age yet but i’m quite open to my nosy titas na i don’t wanna get married coz i don’t wanna be miserable hehehe

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    1. You're not wrong there, haha! Be good to have a tita like that for a change.

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  41. Kelan ka ikakasal?
    Pag kinasal na: kelan kayo mag aanak? Bilisan nyo di na akyo bumabata.
    Pag nagkaanak: oh kelan nyo susundan? Lumalaki na dapat sundan na.
    Pag nasundan: o baka uulit ka pa, tama na yan. Kawawa naman asawa mo na nagttrabaho.

    Bwiset. Mapa single o may asawa, aminin nyo, may mga tao lang talaga na pakialamera sa buhay natin. Kahit ano gawin mo, sinusukat ka lang talaga. Mga pakshet

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    1. Pag naghiwalay: o kelan kayo magbabalikan kawawa naman anak nyo?
      Pag nagbalikan: o kelan mo iiwan asawa mong babaero?
      LOL

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    2. Typical meddlesome folk. Terrible Filipino traits

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  42. applause for alex! well said. clap clap clap and standing ovation too. :-)

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  43. Yes! Allow people to choose their own path, hindi yung minemeasure mo kung asan sila sa buhay based on society's expectations. Kung saan sila masaya, respeto.

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  44. We had a friend who struggled to conceive. It took 11 years after getting married to finally have a baby and we, her barkada, were there for her journey and struggles. Sobrang happy kami when she told us she's pregnant!

    Pero nung naging mommy na siya, she looked at us differently. Parang she thinks she's above us all kasi she's now a mother and kami lahat are lower beings for being single and/or childless. Lahat ng topics niya tuwing hangout is all about motherhood and how she feels complete kasi she has a baby now... Somehow we started to drift apart kasi medyo masakit na sinasabi niya.

    Hay. We're just sad that someone like her, who knew the struggle firsthand, became something like that in the end. A woman putting down other women.

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  45. 1:12 that’s sad 😟 I hope my friends won’t end up like that

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