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Thursday, May 13, 2021

Insta Scoop: Maxene Magalona Opens Up on Facing Her Grief During Quarantine


Images courtesy of Instagram: maxenemagalona

74 comments:

  1. Dapat umuwi na ang husband mo. You should be his home ika nga pwera na lang kung may work siya doon

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    1. Yung kukunan mo pa talaga yung sarili mo para makita mo ichura mo pag malungkot ka.....

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    2. 12:43 Naka-ilang takes kaya sya dyan, noh? Hahaha!

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    3. kalungkot naman kung wala si hubby, baka mag isa lang si ate girl.

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    4. 12:43 exactly

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  2. girl, kami dito sa pinas since last year pa nakulong and nabaliw sa bahay kakaquarantine. more than a year na kaming nababaliw dito pero hindi naman namin pinost with mahabang essay. try mo gumawa ng dalgona and ube cheese pandesal. chozzzt peace

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    1. korek. dami kasing arte sa bali. di inexpect ni ate mo girl ito ang realidad ng buhay sa pinas ngayon.

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    2. Hahahaha dalgona pa nga. Pero true tho, I think having to stay at home itself without worrying for money or funds is already a blessing itself. Sana the fortunate ones also get to see this and talk about the need to stay at home if kaya kasi pag pino post na sa-sad sa bahay which is obviously nararamdaman naman ng lahat mas lalong nakaka down ng spirit

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    3. Haha natawa ako dun sa gumawa na lang ng dalgona ha. Seriously, pag naistress ako tumitingin ako sa langit at nananalangin sa isip. Alam kong may Dios na nalakaalam at nakakaintindi sa lahat ng nararamdaman ko.Sya ang gumawa sa akin at kung kaya Niyang hati-in ang dagat sa panahon ni Moises, kaya Nya rin akong tulungan. Tiwala kang sa magagawa Nya. Minsan naman kumakanta ako nga songs of praise. Try nyo rin guys, mawawala anxieties nyo.

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    4. Tawang tawa ako baks sa dalgona at ube cheese pandesal!!! Pero totoo more than a year na tayo kulong sa mga bahay natin, sha free na free sa Bali! Hiyang hiya ako kay Maxene

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    5. Sama ng ugali nyong dalawa no?

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    6. jusko there's famine, political unrest, malnutrition, cancer...not saying hindi valid nararamdaman nya pero to amplify it on social media na para bang hindi tayo lahat nakakaramdam ng lungkot and with matching selfie pa...napakaself-centered ng dating

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    7. Actually tama naman advice mo baks e. It’s not the dalgona and pandesal but the joy of making it just for the sake of self-satisfaction or making your family happy by serving them yummy food. I pray na lahat tayo maramdaman natin yun lagi nang hindi umaabot sa ganitong level ng kalungkutan kay Maxene. Sana nababasa rin ito ng pamilya ni Maxene and make sure she feels their presence.

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    8. Sames vibes with celebrities complaining how bored they are in their mansions filled with food, internet and yayas. Sure we’re all sad and anxious about the pandemic but be sensitive to those who have lost their jobs and are worrying about how to put food on the table.

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  3. i get it that we all have to look out for each other. pero sana mas inuuna nyo bilangin blessings nyo sa araw araw bago kayo kumuda ng ganito. just to be alive and safe during this time is already a big blessing.

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    1. Amen!!!!πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ Louder!!!!πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―

      minsan pansin ko un mga nakatira sa bubbles or sa hindi realidad ganyan ang nangyayari. hindi kasi sanay na hindi nila nakukuha gsto nila.


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    2. Sana rin iallow mo ibang tao na ifeel nila ang emotions nila at iallow sila na ilabas sa paraang alam nila. Toxic positivity won't solve problems. Yes, we should be grateful for every blessing but allow people to feel what they feel. The more you encourage suppressing it and not having an outlet, will lead to bigger problems.

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    3. 1:36 sa tingin mo itong pagpopost nya ng malungkot na selfie hindi nakakatoxic? it is actually awkward. u dont run to social media to seek validation from strangers. seek help first from your family and real friends.

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    4. 232 tru naman

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    5. Agree much, 2:32

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    6. True this, louder para marinig ng mga validation seekers!

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    7. THIS!!! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ It's really annoying and it shows that people (especially "artists") have high claim to being oppressed, downtrodden and suffering when others are TRULY suffering major losses since the pandemic happened. I get her sadness, but ironically, social media is such a shallow place to ask for validation and comfort. Makes you think about what they value - the number of likes or sino yung nakikiramay sa pag post niya sa sarili niyang umiiyak. Call your family, your husband,or show us that by posting this we feel for you too as most of us have gone through A LOT and are not sitting on millions to wipe away our tears with.

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  4. Halos lahat naman tayo naging ganyan during quarantine. Difference lang sa ating mahirap at mayaman tayong mahirap naiistress sa next na kakainin or bills wala tayong time mag focus sa ibang bagay.

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  5. Practice your yoga girl. Seek for alignment. Be calm. Kaya mo yan

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    1. Yes! Buti ka pa baks words of encouragement

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    2. agree with this!!!

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  6. Yes maxine pero how bout nlng yung mga walang bubong unlike u

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    1. Dapat kumain na sya ng pork at chicken kasi

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  7. Normal lang naman yan natural pandemic. Awang awa ako sa mayayaman na to pano pa kaya kung nawalan sila ng trabaho at walang makain. Sila nga nakaka pag move to a different country while riding out the pandemic eh tayo?

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  8. Kainis talaga tong mga celebrities at mayayaman na to try nyo kayang natanggal sa work at may mga anak na pinapakain goodluck kung may time ka pang mag isip ng mga ganyan.

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  9. A lot of people have bigger problems than you Maxene. Mag pray ka para mawala anxiety mo!

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    1. Is there a competition of who has the bigger or biggest problem? Why invalidate hers? Problems are problems regardless if it is big or small. People handle problems and emotions differently.

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    2. Anon 1:33 dapat ba praise at awa lang ang isasagot kay Maxene? She voluntarily put her problem in a public forum so using your own logic it's acceptable for people to reply and give their opinions from different perspectives.

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    3. Ang daming toxic pa rin ang mindset. As if we know ano man problema o iniisip ni Maxene. Let people feel how they feel, and express it they way they want di yung competition sa palakihan problema.

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  10. Teacher pa naman ng yoga and meditation kaya mo yan girl

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  11. Bat kaya itong mga naka-de aircon, may pag kain sa ref at netflix eh ganyan ang post sa socmed.. Itong mga kapitbahay namin sa probinsya, walang aircon, pawid ang bahay at tv eh tawa lang ng tawa dito sa labas. Kapag tinanong mo about sa problema ng mga ganyang tao, mas natatawa sila, mahihinang nilalang daw! hahah share ko lang

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    1. May bahay ako sa manila and sa province. Super uwing uwi ako sa province palagi kasi napakasarap ng buhay ang free nila at nalilimutan mo yung anxiety. Pero the reality comes back paguwi ko ng manila. Wish ko lang may magandang internet connection na nationwide para makapag settle na sa province kahit during the pandemic.

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    2. I think we cannot judge her. Not everything is about money and luxury. Every person is fighting their own battle we don’t know of. Even the wealthiest of all people. We cannot judge.

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    3. 1:14 mismo!

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  12. Bigla ko tuloy naisip yung bulag na lolo s Mindanao n kailangan magbalat ng 1000 niyo pra maka 300. At yung 90 y/o n lola s Cebu na kailangang maglakad nga kilo kilometro s bangin pra lng s tatlong litro ng tubig.

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  13. HahaHaH inappropriate to send a sad photo pero todo post naman sa social media.

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  14. Sakit ng Mayayaman, hindi nakatira sa realidad, o sanay makuha lahat ng gusto nila.konting hirap sa buhay hindi nakuha gsto nila. kuda na agad! madami ganito! insensitive sa mga totoong nakakaranas ng problema.


    Be greatful dahil comfortable ka, may nanay kapa at kapatid mo ok nmn. aswa mo relax sa bali dami blessings oh! at kahit hindi magwork kuda sa social media comfy parin ng buhay

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  15. Mahirap din ako pero hindi ko minamaliit ang dinaranas ng iba na mas may pera saken. Hindi natin kontrolado ang nararamdaman naten lalo king mental health ang usapan. Para bang madalas kasi mahirap lang may K madepress jusko hindi kaya gamutin lahat ng pera

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    1. 12:58 Contentment po para sa katulad nila

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  16. She's obviously crying for help and raising awareness. Yet she still get scorned here. Simply because mayaman siya at mas madaming mas kawawa sa kanya hindi na sya pedeng mag feeling down arooo

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    1. Seek help sa professional. Don't ask strangers from socmed to help you. They can't.

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    2. 3:50 she’s not asking for anyone’s help? Lol masama mag-share. Check yourself puro kanegahan nakikita mo sa paligid mo.

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  17. dapat nag stay ka na lang sa Bali, di ka na dapat tumanggap ng project dito sa Pinas

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  18. Kakaloka mga comments ng iba. Who knows baka may pinagdadaanan siya bukod sa pandemic quarantine. Malay niyo may sakit sya or may problema sa marriage niya kaya siya ganyan. FYI di lang mahihirap ang may problema

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  19. maaawa na sana ako sayo maxene. pero inimagine ko sarili ko na magselfie habang malungkot, natatawa ako pano ba kasi gawin yun lalo na yung magselfie habang lumuluha??

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    1. Iba iba kc outlet ng tao ng kanilang emotions/feelings.

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    2. Sometimes yung self pity niya ay pure vanity.

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  20. She expressed her feelings, let’s not invalidate what she feels just because it appears that we are more “resilient” than her. She may have a better life than most but it’s not a reason for her not to feel that way.

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  21. People are missing the point. As she said, she has always been keeping her emotions bottled up. She is not posting this to gain sympathy. She is educating people that it is ok to not be ok, to feel depressed and be in touch with your emotions. With the comments I read, it feels like you are invalidating her grief and anxiety. This is not a contest of who have it worst. People should be allowed to express any emotion, even in social media, if it is a way or outlet to relieve themselves or yet help others who are going through the same things. That they are not the only one experiencing those things.

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  22. Ganda ng selfie in fernez ha. Kuhang kuha ang lungkot sa mukha.

    Ako nakakaras na ng feeling of depression. Yung wala ka gana lumabas kahit day off mo, kasi wala naman mapupuntahan at wala pwedeng friend na makasama sa lakad. Work-home, work-home lang. Ginawa ko din lahat dati ng tiktok trends and cooking fads. Ngayon gusto ko mag-plantita na din gaya ng friends ko.

    I feel for Maxene but at the same time, I feel worse for those na wala resources and naghihirap due to the pandemic kasi at least sya nag-enjoy pa sa Bali and she was able to be 'free' until she had to go home. Madami tayo na wala talaga nagawa but to find our own sources of happiness and peace during this time.

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  23. Stay away from social media and focus on appreciating the small things you have. Masyado kayong uhaw sa sympathy and validations ng netizens; madaming mas grabe ang situation kesa sa inyo and yet they don't complain and fish for sympathy and attention.

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  24. She sounds so unhappy and so unhealed despite all the meditation and clean eating.

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  25. Ako wala pambyad sa meralco pero di ko pinipicturan sarili ko

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  26. Guys do not be so harsh. Everyone is fighting their own battles. Just because in your perspective what she is going through is not suffering enough, calling her out na "buti ka pa eh iba walang makain", "mas blessed ka", that does not invalidate her for feeling bad. Itong society natin minsan ang lakas maka gaslight ng ibang tao.

    Because other people can be harsh in their judgment, sasabihin na "nagdradrama ka lang", or enforcing their own beliefs on them, mas madami nagsusuffer na lang in silence. Iba-iba tayo ng threshold ng pain, ng tolerance. May mga taong kayang magfunction talaga kahit nahihirapan, merong hindi. But it doesn't make them less of a human. May kaibigan ako na may anxiety, mahirap talaga kapag out of nowhere she would just feel bad. Minsan may trigger, minsan wala. At ilan na bang celebrities whether here or abroad who suffered from mental health issues and took their own life.

    Kaya please, especially at this time, sikat man o hindi, mas mabuti maging mas empathetic tayo sa isa't isa.

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  27. The overhyped and abused “it’s ok not to be ok” mentality.

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  28. minsan hindi naman masama magcheat day maxene, have an ice cream with a loved one. savor and enjoy it. find joy in simple things. appreciate your life and the lives of your loved ones who are still around for you,

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  29. pag pinost mo yung mga ganito in public, maging ready ka rin sa mga judgmental na magcocomment. see if that will really help you feel better Max, instead of seeking help the right way.

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  30. So wala din pala bisa meditation mo abroad

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  31. Try to mend your broken/estranged relationships, despite who caused them. Maybe you'll find healing from doing so.

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  32. Maxene: “It’s inappropriate to send a sad photo to a friend.”

    Also Maxene: “It’s ok to share a sad photo to the world.”

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    1. Basahin mo uli sinabi niya kakaloka ka.

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    2. 9:42 O tapos? Binasa namen, and 4:15 has a point. She can advocate forental health naman without posting a dramatic photo. Hello, in the middle of grieving and sabi nya uncontrollable crying, maiisip mo pa ba na “ay wait lemme get my phone so I can take a sad pic and post it in my IG”. So cringey!

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  33. Such. A. Privileged. Problem.

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  34. wala naman taong walang problema at di nakakaramdam ng lungkot. Iba iba lang tayo magdala ng problema. Imbes na social media, seek help saka sa familty din...iba din talaga pag may support ng family.

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  35. Ganyan talaga pag wala kang ginagawa. Too much time to think is no good. You need to be busy and productive in life.

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  36. Sali ka ghorl sa Home Buddies para may pagkaabalahan ka. Wala ka time mag-isip ng mga ganyan πŸ˜…

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