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Sunday, May 2, 2021

FB Scoop: Donnalyn Bartolome Responds to Netizens Telling Her to Get Married or Have a Child





Images courtesy of Facebook: Donnalyn

114 comments:

  1. Grabe na talaga ang kapal mukha ng mga oakialamerang netizens

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    1. Grabe sila..let her be. Hindi nya pyblema ang magkajowa.madaming willing kung gusto niya.

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    2. truelalu ginagawang atm machine ang mga anak. no wonder plastikan na lang para walang away. lakas pa ng loob na magparinig. " hay nako nag asawa agad di man lang magbigay ng pera".

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  2. may point naman si Ate. ganda pla nya mukhang bata talaga

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  3. Tama hahaha may point sya!

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  4. MAGALING MGA SAGOT NI DONNALYN! ANG DAPAT NA SINABI NG MGA AGNATS NA COMMENTERS E KUMAIN SIYA PARA MAGKALAMAN ULET.

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    1. 12:38 hayaan mo sya sizt, katawan nya yun. pinakelaman ba nya yung taba mo? hindi dba.. body shamer zzzzz

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  5. Puro lalake nag comment, sana dinerecho nalang nila na “kung wala ka pang jowa, ligawan kita at kung suswertehin e bumuo na tayo ng pamilya.

    Pero hindi ba si Donnalyn ung nabuntis at may anak na?

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    1. Wala pang anak si Donnalyn. Lol

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    2. Prank lang yun, inakala ko din nung una di kasi natin tinatapos yung youtube vid eh haha

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    3. 1:35 Prank lang pala, all along kala ko may anak na siya. Hahaha. Thanks!

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    4. Mga youtube content ngayon puros prank. Mga walang kwenta kaya yung mga batang followers puro kaartehan nalalaman

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  6. May point din naman si Donna..ako nga mag30 na parang wala pa sa isip ko magkaanak.. hindi naman kasi yan basta ilalabas mo lang sa mundo tapos bahala ang gobyerno magpakain at magpaaral..

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    1. On point anon 12:43 AM! So true! Ang daming iresponsableng magulang at yung mga ginagawang retirement plan ang mga anak nila which is maling mali

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    2. ako nga may asawa pero ayokong mag anak pero marami pa rin talagang pakialamera sa paligid as if sila yung gagastos sa pagpapalaki. kakapal ng mukha

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    3. Matagal na kaming kasal ng asawa ko pero di p kami nagaanak hanggat di kami nakakabili ng bahay at satisfied sa career namin. Di kami maglalabas ng tao sa mundo para maranasan ang hirap. Responsibilidad ng magulang at bata not the other way around.

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    4. 6:51 naway dumami pa kayong mga katulad ni Donnalyn mag-isip! May pag-asa pa itong bansa.

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    5. Gusto ko yung mga commenters dito mula kay 12:43 pababa sa mga nagreplies sa kanya. Sana KAYO mga kaibigan ko at namumuno sa mga posisyon ng gobyerno. Magkakapag-asa nga itong bansa! DISIPLINA NIYO ANG KELANGAN NG BAYAN!

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    6. Ako nag anak ng 29. And sabi ko sa hubby ko, hanggang 2 kids lang tayo. Ayokong ma sacrifice yung quality of life nila pag madami sila. Although, gusto talaga naman yung big family. But bigger means lesser kasi. Unless if kasama tayo sa ultra rich percent of the population.

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    7. Same here. 7yrs married na kami pero wala pa anak. Hanggat hindi secure ang future wag muna. Para sa amin parenthood is responsibility and kaya ka bibigyan kasi mission mo na mag nurture. Mas piliin pa namin kahit wala kung talagang yun ang will ni God kaysa magmadali tapos hindi naman maprovide ang needs ng bata and we mean lahat ng needs nya until sya naman adult na and bubuo ng sariling pamilya.

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    8. 6:51, yan ang tamang mindset.
      Ang mga Pinoy dapat i-educate ng responsibilities ng parent. Nakakalungkot na ang daming mga kabataan na palaboy o kaya breadwinner ng pamilya at a young age. Di man lang nila na-enjoy ang buhay nila.

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    9. Kung hirap kang pakainin o buhayin sarili mo ngayon, wala kang karapatan magluwal ng bata ngayon. Though di naman mahirap si donnalyn, pero at least alam nya priority nya. Yan din sana malaman ng karamihan sa mga tao ngayon.

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  7. Love her na haha

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  8. I may not like her but I agre on her pero di pa rin nito maalis ang fact na jologs at mediocre siya.

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    1. So ikaw 1:10 ano ka? Taas ng tingin mo sa sarili mo. Ayusin mo grammar mo ha bago ka makapagsabi ng mediocre ek ek mo. AGREE WITH!!!

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    2. 1:10 ok lang jologs at mediocre si Donnalyn, basta wag lang gaya mong nakakamigraine ang grammar.

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    3. 5:03 atleast inamin mo rin na mediocre at jologs sya. Cheap pa pala.

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  9. Yuck yung mga nagcomment pang-sinauna yung mga paniniwala.

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  10. Because Donnalyn isn’t really doing anything. She doesn’t have some stellar career earning her millions of dollars that’s why it’s so easy for people to say just get married.

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    1. I doubt na hindi milyonarya yan. She’s one of the OG YouTubers na marami ng followers don ngayon.

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    2. I think may kaya naman sila Donalyn to begin with pero it is true na walang kinang ang career niya. Marami na siyang nagawang project pero hindi man lang tumatak sa tao.

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  11. Tama naman ang sinabi nya except dun sa asawa. Lol, if mali ang pinakasalan, eh di hanap ka uli. πŸ˜‚ Wag ka nga lang sa Pinas magpakasal at hindi ka Pilipino kasi wlang divorce. ✌

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  12. Mature naman pala si ateng :) sa sobrang pabebe niya sa youtube. Naoverlook ko ito.

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    1. Hindi ko pa rin makalimutan yung nakipagpalit siya sa mga mahihirap. Yun ang pinaka-immature na nagawa siya sa vlogging journey niya

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    2. Agree 10:05.. bumilib ako sa kanya doon

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  13. tama si Donnalyn. E ano ngayon kung single siya and happy. Hindi uso yung lahat dapat magpakasal. Sang kweba ba itong mga commenters nakatira.

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  14. I really hate this type of people. Arghh. As if nman kayo/sila ang mamomoblema sa mga gastusin. Ang kaapppaaallll.

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  15. I love seeing women hit the wall :) Waste your youth and beauty ladies :) But don't expect someone will wife you up in your 30s :)

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    1. Eh kung choice naman di mag asawa at di magkaanak. Wag mo ipilit yung standard mo sa ibang tao. Im sure kahit 40’s o 50’s pa sya, eh thank you nalang sayo.

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    2. Yuck kadiring paniniwala, kung babae ka man o lalake, wag mo ipo project sarili mong chakang paniniwala sa iba. Hindi lahat naghahanap at natatakot na walang mapapangasawa in their 30s. Sa PH lang naman ang ganyang napakalumang paniniwala.I know a lot of people living their best lives in their 30s, 40s and beyond na hindi married. At marami ding married sa ganyang age na miserable naman. Marami ding nagpapakasal ng older, wag mo itulad ang lahat sa miserable mong buhay at projections, :)

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    3. What makes you think that we're wasting our youth and beauty by not getting married? Mas waste kaya kung magpakasal sa mga walang kwentang lalake para lang masabi na meron. Siguro pangit ka.

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    4. ahahahahaha nice joke. one more please.

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    5. wow what kind of mentality is that? no offense, mas marami kayang mukhang fresh na singles on their 30's nowadays kesa sa mga babae na maaga na nag asawa pano hinaggard ng mga asawa nila ending lolokohin lang pala. hindi mas waste na mapunta ka sa walang kwentang lalaki, just because natakot kang tumandang dalaga?

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    6. Kung ganyan lang din mag isip yung lalaki, that we're not worth "wifing up" during out 30s and beyond, never mind. How shallow.

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    7. You're a horrible person!!!

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    8. Ano naman kung wala . Toxic pinoy mindset. Ano ba ang purpose ng babae para lang mag asawa at mag anak? Ghad.

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    9. Eh ano ngayon kung wala na pumatol sa amin kasi 30s or 40s na kami? Maganda at may career naman haha! Mas gugustuhin ko pang ganito, kesa naman may anak nga, hirap naman sa buhay.

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    10. Daming triggered :) When you hit 35, please remember this saying... nasaan na ang mga eligible bachelors? ;) Sagot? nag hahanap ng potential mate na bata :)

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    11. Halatang chakaret na lalake tong nagcomment hahaha

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    12. Married nga pero miserable naman. I'm happily single in my thirties. Samantalang yung pinsan ko may asawa nga pero haggard na haggard sa irresponsableng husband. No thanks.

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    13. 1:43 projecting his hate. I bet you 100% he’s been rejected by women multiple times.

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    14. women in their 30s are mature enough to handle relationship issues and are already successful in their careers. Some of them don't need a man to live comfortably. Palamuti na lang ang jowa.

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    15. So inamin mo rin 1:43 na ang mga lalaki interested lang sa mga babae in their 20s, kaya yung mga asawang babae pag30s na pinagpapalit na sa mas bata?

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    16. Sabi ng babae sa pinas, di na uso ang marriage, it's an old concept. Tapos, in another sentence, sabi ng babae sa pinas, mag pakasal ka kapag ready ka na.... wait, what?? :) That my ladies is called cognitive dissonance :)

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    17. 2.04 It means they dont know what they want! Lol.

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  16. I get this also... sabi pa ng tita ko sa akin “napag huhuli kana” sa sobrang inis ko sinagot ko siya

    “ hinde naman po ako nakikipag karera sa kanila, hinde ako gutom para makipag unahan hinde ako others”

    Pinagalitan pa ako ng nanay ko nung sinagot ko tita ko pero well.. sinagot ko lang siya ng truth. Ayun tinigilan din ako pakialemera.

    Ugali Pinoy mga ganyan na pasarin.

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    1. Ako din mga kamag-anak laging nagtatanong kelan mag-aasawa at mag-aanak. Sinasagot ko lagi “nag-iipon pa po”. Usually tumitigil na sila agad hahahaha

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    2. Hay nako true na true kayo! May mga relatives ako na iniiwasan pag may gatherings kasi iisang linyahan lang lagi. Nakakapikon na.

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  17. Mga Pinoy esp mga senior na tita lagi ganyan mga comment. Tapos malalaman mo yung tita nag sasabi niyan sila din may problema sa asawa nila nambabae kung kelan tumanda. Madami ako kakilala tita ko ganyan, nag babae pa mga asawa nila minsan ubos din pera pang pegasus! Amp

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    1. Pero mga lalaki yung mga nagcomment ke Donnalyn.

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  18. i don't watch/follow her on youtube pero I love how she answered the comments. bakit ang lala ng pake ng mga netizen na yun, eh di sila na mag-asawa at mag-anak.

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  19. crush na crush siya ng bro ni ivana, sana yun na lang, good boy pa.

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  20. Eversince arteng arte ako sa babaing to napaka KSP.

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  21. Hmmm, good answer. Very smart of her.

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  22. Backward thinking kasi ang karamihan sa pinas. They want to get married so that their partner or their children will take care of them. Those are not good reasons why you want to get married. Take care of yourself first, don’t be a burden to your partner or your future children. You are responsible for your self not them.

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    1. Me mga tao pa palang like you! Akala ko AKO NA LANG! Dapat ilagay ka sa mga relocation sites para mapagsabihan mga tao dun at maeducate ng ganyang simpleng teaching. Ako kasi masakit magsalita minumura ko sila at mga anak nila dinederecho ko ma WAG MAKIPAGRELASYON.

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    2. 4.24 There's nothing wrong with taking care of your husband/wife because that's part of the marriage. Responsible men don't complain about it provided that their wife knows how to be a wife.

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    3. yes correct! for women who are sure of themselves and are successful in their own right, they dont have to get married to latch on a man. Masyadong backwards yung maghanap tayo ng lalaki para umunlad buhay natin.

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  23. Tama siya. That’s the right way to think.

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  24. Bet ko yung mga sagot nya witty.

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  25. Ang daming pinoy na ganyan kabakya mag-isip. As if pag-aasawa at anak ang solusyon sa lahat. They make such a huge deal of getting married, like its the only ultimate goal a woman can have. Yung mga tita ko ganyan, as if malaking kakulangan sa pagkatao kung wala kang asawa, e yung iba sa kanila hiwalay naman o may babae asawa nila. Ang sarap sagutin at insultuhin mga ganyang tao.

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    1. may pagka fairytale mindset mga ibang kababayan natin. Maghunting ng mga mayayaman at eligible na jowa para gumanda buhay. Hindi yung magtrabaho tayo para umunlad, then get married.

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  26. Most Millennials(Gen Y) do not want to get married. Most are focused on their careers. I have a group of 8 friends. Only 2 got married, The rest of us are focused on our careers . We all hold good jobs but still not contented. Most went back to school to get their masters degree, the only drawback- our student loans are increasing. Oh, btw, none of us wants to have kids yet. Perhaps Donalyn is the same.

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    1. What? Student Loans? Yan ba yung panukala ni Angara na Study Now Pay Later na ginaya sa US na magbabaon sa mga Estudyante sa utang Tulad nung nangyare aa mga student ng US? Loans means me interest yan! Diabolical!

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    2. 7:26 I think 6:08 is based in the states

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    3. @6:08 AM, that's great :) Just do the hookup culture and be the designated TITA of the clan :) Also, daming cats sa pinas so you can adopt one of those :)

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    4. Nothing is free in this world, 7.26!

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    5. Baka naman nasa US si 6.08am. Ang alam ko kasi dito sa atin libre na ang tuition fee sa state colleges and universities. So kung mahirap ka, dun ka na mag aral.

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    6. yes that is correct. They youth now don't prioritize marriage as their goal. 10 years ago kailangan magpakasal ka kung nabuntis ka. Ngayon hindi na yan ang trend. Bakit magpakasal kung maging miserable ang buhay mo. Do not get married for the wrong reasons.

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    7. Im from a state university, di namam libre pero sobrang baba lang ng tuition around 5k per sem..ganun..

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    8. 10:36, 6:08 here. Ha ha, my aunt has started hooking me up with not just one but two men who according to her are the most eligible bachelors in our hometown. Good catch, she said. Depends on what she means by good catch. I said huwag na lang. If I get old and decide to have a baby, there is always IVF to save me. 😁

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  27. Those commenters, they all have the 'poor dad's mindset'. πŸ˜–
    I pity those people who anchor their value based on societal stigma and pressures. Their insecurities must be unbearable to handle.

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    1. It’s a third world country

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    2. napaka backwards dito mag isip. Ang mga kaunlaran nila naka base sa lalaki.

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  28. Men age like fine wine :) Women age like milk :) MGTOW brothers unite!!! :) Don't ever get married and enjoy the hookup culture :) Ladies, thanks for liberating men :)

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    1. I understand the concept of MGTOW, while I don't agree 100%, I know that ladies can learn a thing or two from it.

      Happily married here for 5 yrs (got married at 28) and when I hear women say getting married isn't a priority, not important, etc, typically sila yung single. Pero once nagka jowa, pressure nila agad (aka manipulate) magpakasal yung lalaki. Napansin ko lang naman in some cases, not generalizing.

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    2. 10:42 Men age like fine wine - LOL NO. Andaming lalakeng 20s pa lang chaka na while I know a lot of women na kahit 40s na still exude that can't be bothered with shit attitude. Toxic masculinity shit culture is so disgusting. Grabe talaga misoginy dito, lakas maka 3rd world.

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  29. In my age of 29, i want to get married but still conflicted on having children. It's difficult to rear a child and I'm still not ready for it. I'm conservative but I'm not old fashioned like other people's thinking that marriage equates to having children

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    1. Find someone who doesn't want to have kids as well.

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  30. Ako nga 34 na mu nobyo pero wala pq balak mag anak o asawa. Panahon ngayon mahirap pag may responsibilidad lalo na wala pang ipon. Hehe

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  31. Puro lalaki pa pinang realtalk niya. Haha

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  32. Napaka witty ang sagot

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  33. Ang ganda ni girl. Ang panget ng bashers.

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  34. Eh diba may anak na yan si donalyn. Nag vlog pa nga sya dati na yung vunsong "kapatid" nya turns out anak talaga nya

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    1. well kung may anak na siya at single mom pala siya, then she probably learned her lesson kaya matured na mag isip.

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    2. Ewan ko sa 'yo. Research ka na lang. look for the word Prank.

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  35. May anak na sya..no need ng asawa mastress lang

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  36. pretty pero walang star factor

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    1. yun ang kulang sa kanya. Kasi sa mga vlogs parang OA at bobble head. Malaki ang ulo , mapayat ang katawan.

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  37. When you don't have dreams in life, you have children to validate yourself.

    Having a family should really be about sharing love instead of check box ticking... Kudos to her. Me, I know so many people in broken marriages with so many kids, with unfulfilled parents who can't parent their kids, and so the kids end up with psych issues because there is no love. Family should be about love, genuine love, hindi yung may masabi ka lang na may pamilya ka pero cash cow lang ang eldest mo... or something along those lines haha.

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    1. wala siyang asawa, wala din siyang anak. Prank yun, younger brother ni Donnalyn yung nasa vlog.

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    2. I know lol ang ibig kong sabihin is that yung sa mga ibang tao na nagiisip na dapat magkaanak to have a beautiful life, eh for them, wala naman silang mga goals sa buhay kaya anak lang nang anak.

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  38. friendly reminder lang huwag magalit...

    if you are well established na and may enough properties i thinks its better pa din to have a child, puwedeng conceived niyo ng partner/husband mo or adopt a child in need... kasi in reality you cannot bring naman your properties to your grave, so its better kung may makikinabang nito afterwards... its good if you have good pamangkins pero what if hindi sila good sayo... make a last will kung gusto mo idonate yung earnings and properties mo kasi kung wala nun sa immediate family mo yan mapupunta, ang dami ko na din kasing nawitness na well of senior citizens na tumandang dalaga then nung namatay sila yung anak ng kapatid nila yung nakinabang kahit hindi man lang nagawang alagaan yung matanda nung mga pamangkin niya...

    if you are planning naman to stay single for a long time for your carreer... remember girls na lugi tayo sa boys, once we hit our 40s mahirap na magkababy may iba nga menopause na agad.. so make sure na yung mahahanap mong guy eh hindi maghahanap or maghahangad ng sarili nilang anak (there are men like that sadly)

    some women prefer fur babies pero lets face the reality when you get old its important na may magaalaga sayo ... specially kung nandito ka sa pinas na walang facilities for seniors...

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    1. I’m 8 years married with my husband. Childless. Have 1 dog. We have a good life here in the UK. All our properties and savings will go to shelter for pets when we die. We’re happy, that’s what we want. We chose not to have a child because of what’s happening in the world, we love our own time and freedom. Nothing’s missing. When you die, you die. I love my life. I have my own time, I can do whatever I want. That’s what you call “living” - making the most out of your life whilst you’re alive. When you die, you die.

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    2. I agree with 208. As for 1105, I say this with much respect, open your mind. There's not just one way to live a fulfilling and meaningful life.

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    3. 2.08 Because life is easier without kids.

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    4. 10:24 agree 100% and this is from someone who has kids. I don't regret having kids but I understand how different (ie easy) life could've been if my husband and I didn't have kids

      But I'm also not discounting the happiness a child brings. I know life is easier without kids, but I couldn't imagine being here now without them.

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    5. Agree with 10:43. Nobody has the right to dictate how others should live or find happiness.

      11:05 is just to self-righteous. I pity his/her family members.

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  39. dyosmiyo. 26 y/o palang naman pala si donnalyn. At that age, puro career pa nasa isip ko. Feeling ko hindi magiging proud sakin family ko, future husband ko at ng family nya if tambay lang ako at palamunin.

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    1. That's a good perception but this perception sides with the man. It sounds unfair to me kasi kung makikihati ka sa 50% sa lahat ng gastos like food, shelter, clothing and utility bills dapat 50% ng household chores sa kanya din. But unfortunately, 99% of men doesn't want to do household chores because they view it as a woman's job. Pero kung hikahos naman kayo,pwede mo siyang tulungan pero dapat ganun din siya. Dapat ang hanapin mong lalaki ay yong iniisip niya ang future mo tapos dapat hindi yong mamas boy.

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  40. i like her comments. showing how she mature her thinking is.

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  41. opinion ko lnag, Donalyn is matured na, the way she thinks. Sana ganyan din ibang kabataan. Hindi puros lovelife. Doon na nakasalalay ang buhay.

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  42. Blah, blah, blah... Syanga pala, whatever happened to DOnnalyn's video interview with ZBoys? WHo deleted it and why? Kilig pa naman ako duon eh...

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