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Sunday, June 14, 2020

Tough Decision (Part 2)

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According to Talked-about Woman (TW), she felt that Male Personality (MP) seemed to be holding her back from fulfilling her dreams. She felt the support she expected from MP was not there. Moreover, TW had personal issues towards MP that were not resolved and might have soon grown into resentment. However, TW was in love with MP and thus, she adjusted to make their relationship work. The crux is that TW did not see any growth in MP personally and professionally. For example, when they talked about the future, TW sensed MP was complacent and had no concrete plans. MP was too comfortable in his zone.

When TW encouraged MP to find his career, as he has a degree, he became irritable. Given that TW is a go-getter, plans and preparations are essentials in her life. She wanted security, but with MP’s attitude then, it was far-fetched.

Sometime ago, when MP had no work, he relied on the funds sent by overseas relatives. Instead of finding stable ways to support his needs, MP opted to buff his body. Sadly, rumors about MP’s alleged bookings to sustain his lifestyle reached TW, who did not believe such stories. Rather than dwell on finding out if the rumors were true, TW assisted MP in finding gigs.

Things changed when TW had the opportunity to pursue her dreams. By contrast, MP seemed to have no dreams that were as challenging as hers. The tide changed as MP decided to give new-found work a try. While TW was busy, he, too, was working on something. That, however, was not enough. One morning, TW realized that she and MP were not meant for each other. She tried, he tried, but the feeling was over. Thus, TW finalized the end of her relationship with MP. Meanwhile, MP was man enough to accept his fate. After all, TW had helped him in his career and he was aware of his faults in their relationship as well.

‘We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better.’ ― C. JoyBell C.

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20 comments:

  1. Mahirap din kasi pag puro papogi lang, dapat may plano sa buhay.

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  2. So may reason naman pala si TW na mawalan ng gana.

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  3. Sobrang turn off ang taong walang plano sa buhay, may it be a guy or girl.

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  4. I'm sure they loved each other but it's not enough. There's more to in in life than just love.

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  5. Well parang hanggang ngayon happy go lucky parin si boy. Good riddance

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  6. si lalaki ang madaming kulasisi to sustain his needs. Tamad kamo at puro papogi.

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  7. Yun naman pala eh. Go gurl!

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  8. Ayon, legit naman ang reason ni TW na iwanan si MP. Goal achiever din kasi si TW, tapos pa-petix petix lang si MP.

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  9. might as well leave the relationship kung ganyan naman pala si guy diba. Mas ok yung pinalit ni girl, at least yun financially secured na at may career.

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  10. Turns out. Girl wants a mature man. Caused her to fall out of love.

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  11. This is what we call conditional love

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  12. I feel you TW. Mahirap ma stuck sa taong walang pangarap sa buhay. Kaya iniwan ko ex ko dati kahit daks. Batugan kasi. Ako lahat gumagastos. Nung nagka trabaho sya never sya nagbigay ng share sa mga expenses. Kapal ng muka. Ngayon buti pa itong partner ko napaka sipag at responsable.

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  13. Nakakalungkot. Pero ang hirap nga namang magstay sa isang relasyon na walang future. :(

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  14. Kahit ako man hihiwalayan ko agad ganyang klase ng lalaki. Maging realistic tayo. Hindi tayo mabubuhay ng pag ibig lang, darating at darating tayo sa point na maghahanap tayo ng ka komportablehan sa buhay. Hindi sapat ang pogi at pag ibig, kailangan may pangarap sa buhay at may pagpupursigeng makamit yun.

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  15. Happy for TW at nakaalis na sa relasyon nila. Mukhang mas masaya sya ngayon.

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  16. I feel you TW. Yung ex ko puro porma at papogi lang. Ok naman sya nung una, masipag mag work. Pero dahil OFW ako, naging masyado na siyang chill habang tumatagal. Pag nashoshort siya or ang family niya sa akin sila umuutang. Kaya di ko na pinatagal, hiniwalayan ko na. Ang hirap yung ako na yung nagpapakahirap sa ibang bansa, ako pa breadwinner sa amin, pati siya at family nya sa akin lalapit pag nagigipit. Tama lang ginawa ni TW.

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  17. Her new relationship is better. Made na si new guy. Succesful and guwapo.

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