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Monday, February 10, 2020

Negotiated Relationship

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Relationships in the industry are hard to maintain, especially if pressure comes from fans and non-fans. These days, celebrities have to think many times if they should reveal their relationship given that anyone can express his/her opinion, even if such is not needed. For example, fans often threaten if they do not like the chosen partner of their idol. Only a few would express support and many would even extend threats to family members of the disliked partner.

On the one hand, couples breakup because of such pressure. On the other hand, other showbiz couples breakup for convenience, that is, they realize that being officially together can stifle their career growth. Thus, separation is the only solution they could see to ensure their careers.

When Male Celebrity (MC) was presented a rare opportunity, he already anticipated the reaction of his fan groups and he was right. Even if he would hurt his fans with the project, he opted to see the financial advantage it would give him. After consulting An Advisor (AA), MC realized that cutting-off ties with Female Celebrity (FC) was the only logical decision that could boost his career. Allegedly, AA sees FC as a deadweight in the career of MC and he blames her for the spiraling of MC’s career. MC’s gigs lessened with the presence of FC. His major project was even placed in jeopardy because of FC.

MC opened the idea of breaking-up with FC and presented to her the potential publicity that could be generated. Regardless of the negativity, they will still be in the consciousness of fans and social media. As the cliché goes, good or bad, it is still publicity. MC reminded FC that they needed to stay relevant. Furthermore, MC promised FC that they would still hang-out together and be friends. They would only release themselves from the label of being in a relationship.

At the beginning, FC was uncomfortable with the new setup and MC said that if FC felt awkward, they could officially breakup and be totally free of any personal commitment for each other. FC has fallen too deep for MC and agreed with the proposed setup. However, she expressed her desire that the ‘breakup’ will not be long, as she has invested so much in their relationship.

‘Our ideas about love and attractiveness are so primal, our need for belonging so intense, that most of us are loath to abandon our favorite beliefs on these issues. If you've ever let yourself feel lovable and lovely, only to be deeply hurt, you may see accepting your own body as a setup for severe emotional wounding.’ – Martha Beck

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47 comments:

  1. Naku N. Wake up na uy!

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  2. J and N

    Ang pathetic na ni girl! Move on nalang dami pa dyan! Sinasaktan mo lang sarili mo as pinapaasa nyo nga fans nyo! Kaloka!

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  3. MC = J of KaF
    FC = N

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  4. Ew how low can u go girl siya yung declared independent among her contemporaries pero siya yung di kaya mabuhay wo a man lol

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    1. Funny lang kasi yung mali kay girl ang nkita mo pero yung mali kay guy parang okay lang.

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    2. 2:44 nakikita nga nya ung mali kay guy kaya gusto nya ma-save si girl from that relationship

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    3. Anon 2:44 sinabi ba niya te? Obviously both have problems pero imo N can just leave if she really knows her worth

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    4. Sis matagal ng walang aasahan kay guy 2:44 funny ka

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    5. E kasi nga given na mali na si Guy tapos si Girl hinahayaan syang tratuhin ng ganun.

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    6. 2:44 there are times na may red flags ng binibigay yung guy but she still choose to stay to with him. Ang funny na lang na over protected pa kayo sa actions nung guy before kesyo wala lang, bashers lang gumagawa ng issues but look at you now, in the end iniwan niyo din naman si guy sa ere.

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  5. AA - B
    MC - J
    FC - N

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  6. MC-J
    FC-N
    AA-M

    So, totoo pala talgang gimik lang ang break-up.

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    1. Totoo nga ang break up. Umasa pa si FC na babalikan siya ni MC

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  7. Kung ako kay FC. Truly goodbye, MC! Sa Ngayon mukhang career naman ni FC ang spiraling down.

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  8. Ang toxic naman ito. Let go na girl, please sa pinag gagawa mo magkakasakit ka lalo niyan. Ang martyr.

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  9. It's all business for the guy. Tsk tsk

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  10. Kaloka ano ba yan N i don't like you pero you don't deserve to treated that way. From the start ang tingin sayo business opportunity. My heart is breaking for her use your youth and your love on someone na deserve yun. Let go of J he pick career somewhere else

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    1. Diba? You deserve better fc, but first kelangan mo muna matutunan yung humility and everything wi fall into place... Tama na sana arrogance FC..❤

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  11. N you are such a FOOL! di mo pa be gets???gusto ka na nga i-despatsa ni guy kapit tuko ka parin??? Good luck.

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  12. Kalokah! Sino ba niloloko nila dito?? Di ba mga sarili din nila? Kawawang mga tards.

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  13. Hay nako wake up girl!

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  14. They’re only fooling themselves

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  15. aw. i feel really sad for her. hope in the end, maka move on din sya and si guy naman ang magsisi

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  16. It's only a matter of time before he falls in love with someone else and kicks you to the curb.walang gamot sa taong nagpapakatanga.

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  17. kaloka setup ang takeaway. gising na kami! so setup lang pala lahat for publicity lol desperate times needs desperate measures.

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  18. Letting love go is never easy... pero N you should love yourself first..❤️

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  19. Kailangan din naman nila mabuhay and earn money for a living. Ang di ko magets dito if ayaw nya talaga kay girl then he could really break up with her for real and not sugarcoat it. So obviously he still loves her he’s just being practical. No one is forcing him to still hang with her. Ang iba dito parang kawawa na talaga si girl. I don’t think so.

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  20. FC - N

    Kahit former fan ako ng LT nila, this is really sad for the girl. I hope it's all worth it.

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  21. What a toxic setup

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  22. Ay sus isang oportunista at isang bulag sa pag-ibig. Perfect combo!

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  23. Gamitin lang talaga

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  24. J chose her because of career, and now he left her for the same reason. Painfully ironic :(

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    1. It’s called Karma. What comes around goes around.

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  25. Why is AA blaming FC, MC choose not to work. Don't put the bleme to FC, tamad kc si MC kaya ganyan. I feel sorry for FC

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    1. Pareho silang tamad. Wag maglinis linisan si FC.

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  26. J and N ka f,hays

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  27. This set up won’t last and it won’t work out till the end. Who will suffer here? It’s the girl. She has to man up or else mababaliw ka Lang. Buang na

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  28. Naging sobrang nega naman kasi ni girl
    Sumobrang yabang na feeling sobrang sikat
    Buti nga sayo

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  29. sabi na nga baaaaa..hindi pa tlga sila "break"....

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  30. knew it. medyo obvious naan sa mga mapagmatyag na sinasabayan ng pag-iisip na balanse. even yung pag-amin nila in the beginning was yes, totoo but more than that it was a strategy. a career move. how you begin is often times, also how you also end. I wonder, if you take your 'fans' for a ride, what does that say about you? true to form may arrogance talaga din eh.

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