Friday, September 13, 2019

So Considerate

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A true test of any relationship is how well either party handles insecurity. These days, showbiz couples are always under scrutiny over whose career is more flourishing or who has more fans. Sometimes, fans would even compete over which partner has more following, box-office pull, acting skills, etc. Thus, the pressure to stay in a relationship can be very heavy for couples with external factors waiting in the wings.

When Upcoming Actress (UA) was often seen with Male Newbie (MN) sometime ago, fans speculated that the two had something special going on. Unlike other couples, UA and MN admitted their relationship. While UA has been given challenging acting assignments, MN has been waiting for his turn to show his individuality. Many actors have been paired with UA, but none emerged as a loveteam partner for her. Hence, she was better off alone and partnered with different performers.

With her many projects, UA’s time with MN was affected. As the cliché goes, strike while the iron is hot. UA is doing such and her commitments were coming one after the other. Meanwhile, MN hardly has any worthwhile project, which has caused him to be irritable. The feeling of not being prioritized over career got into MN and he became cranky toward UA. UA started to sense that MN was putting a tight rein around her. Their disagreements led to frequent fights.

As the resentment grew, during a heated argument, MN allegedly laid a hand on UA. That was the breaking point and they knew they had to part ways. When their social media posts showed more individual photos or with other people, fans asked if something was wrong. The rumor then spread that the two were done. Someone was brave enough to ask UA to set the record straight and she did. However, she no longer divulged the reason why they broke up. Close friends who knew their story could only admire UA for understanding what MN is undergoing and for not making their post-break up worse by divulging the reason or embarrassing MN.  

‘I think we are all insecure, and there is nothing wrong in accepting that. But the problem arises when we try to counter this insecurity by cultivating this illusion of control, and we start taking ourselves and everything we know too seriously.’ -- Sushant Singh Rajput

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31 comments:

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    1. Same guess. Grabe pala si J

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    2. yan din ang hula ko

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    3. Nope. I don't think so. Hindi naman talaga malimit mag post yung 2 ng pics nila sa socmed.

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  2. Si S at J.. Ganun talaga.. Minsan kasi sa showbiz swerte din, talent at right timing..

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  3. UA - S
    MN - J

    In fairness kay UA, mukhang mahal nya talaga si MN. For her to keep her respect to the guy and protect him pa rin kahit nasaktan na sya, good job sayo girl.

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  4. E pano hindi naman nakakatulong sa career ni S yung J.Kaya bye bye.

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  5. MN might be moody and insecure but UA is no angel rin. Mabuti nang break na kayo.

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    1. Gurl, may physical abuse na. Ok ka lang? Ang lala mo porke gwapo yang c J, mukha syang babae sa totoo lang.

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  6. Clue po kay S and J. Slow ako today.

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  7. Good for her. There is no excuse for physical or even verbal abuse.

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    1. this is so true, kahit pa gano kagwapo si J, cancel agad agad kapag nagkakapisikalan na

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  8. Good riddance. They are not helping each other become better versions of themselves.

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  9. UA - S
    MN - J
    Same network KaF. Nung una, parang sisikat ng husto si J. Bakit kaya natigil ang pag build up?

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  10. S and J. Tama yan S hiwalay kaagad pag nanakit. Si J hanggang pa-cute lang ang alam di naman talaga talented eh.

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  11. “Upcoming actress” pa ba si S? Parang matagal na siya sa showbiz ah.

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  12. di ko inexpect si J na ganun. Good for S she got out

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  13. B and G. pak na pak mga baks!

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  14. Whoever this is...She did not disclose the abuse because she was being “considerate” but rather she was afraid of how the society will end up blaming her for everything thereafter...Cause we live in a Patriarchal world lalo na sa Pinas...Lugi ang babae kahit sha pa ang dehado sa sitwasyon 🤷🏻‍♀️

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    1. well you really dont know the reason why she did not disclosed. She may be considerate coz she still has feelings for the guy and maybe this is the first time it happened.

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    2. Ay sows what a mindset. Pwede din naman na hindi na niya gustong palakihin at maging circus ang breakup nila.

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  15. J and E, young loveteam.

    Freezer si E.

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  16. K and X 'to. Sure na! Upcoming actress, meaning may bagong palabas na pagbibidahan.

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