Sunday, September 8, 2019

Insta Scoop: Barbara Ruaro to Speak About Recent Domestic Abuse Experience





Images courtesy of Instagram: bhueruaro

43 comments:

  1. Laying hands on any living form is a big NO-NO!

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    1. Kung sino ka man teh, magpakatatag ka. Walang atrasan ituloy mo ang laban.

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    2. Napagoogle tuloy ako. Well, maganda ka naman Ate Gurl. Kung tutuusin tigulang na nga un jowawa mo, jumbager pa. Luging lugi ka Teh..

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  2. kung sino ka man, sana makawala ka nang tuluyan dyan sa nananakit sayo.

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  3. who’s the abuser?

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    1. Same question. Regardless, that person should be punished.

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    2. The one she loves daw teh. Basahin mo nga uli. Anuveh.

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    3. Sino pa, partner niya di ba.

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  4. One of the non-negotiables in any relationship is hurting the other physically. As soon as this happens, please get out of the said relationship. Know your worth.

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    1. True, she stayed for one year of abuse. That’s unthinkable.

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    2. Correct.Mayaman,mahirap,maganda,hindi maganda.No one deserves this abuse

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  5. kung ung partner man niya yun..naku girl! why? sa ganda mo..bakit siya? dibaleng pangit wag lang nananakit.

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  6. Boyfriend’s from a band. Is he the one who hit her? They’ve been going out for quite some time now.

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  7. Nakakalungkot naman ito. Sana makawala kana sa taong yan kung sino man yan. At sana makulong ang gumawa nyan

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  8. Sini po siya?
    Sorry, di ko kilala.

    Pero ang pananakit sa kanya ay walang justification. Managot ang nagkasala

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  9. taga super sikat na banda (dati) yata. based on their ig accounts.

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  10. Jombagero pala si M.. Tama yan girl labanan mo at ipakulong mo! Grrrrr

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  11. Hmmm......leave him. Go to the police and hospital to have a legal record of the abuse or abuses.

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  12. Social media is not going to work for you legally. You need to go the proper authorities for that.

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  13. Close to a year na pala ang abuse but she is still with him? You are part of the problem if you simply accept the abuse for that long.

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    1. Sabi niya narcissist si bf. Kapag narcissist manipulative at pafall sila. Kapag nahulog ka sa kanila mahihirapan kang makawala o iiwanan ka nila kapag may nahanap na ng bago. Kaya wag mong sisihin ang mga babae kung hindi niya iniwanan ang lalaki kasi hindi normal na lalaki yung lalaking minahal niya.

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    2. Wow. Talagang sisihin pa yung biktima? Iba ka rin.

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    3. Na kita ko sa Igstory niya ngayon lang ata yung physical abuse, pero for a year na siyang may emotiona/mental abuse. Pag na start na ang physical mag tuloy tuloy na yan. Kaya good at early plang ng share na siya. If it’s indeed her bf, my God! Swerte na yung guy kasi mukha mahal tlga siy ni girl.

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    4. She said psychological abuse yun. Mahirap marealize yun nang taong inlove. These abusers also manipulate you. Kaya nga we should all look out for one another kasi tayo yung nakakakita sa maling ginagawa sa taong bulag sa pag-ibig. Be emphatic naman sis.

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    5. YOU are the problem 1:54. Instead of blaming the accuser, you're putting the blame on the victim. You don't know how mental and emotional manipulation work. In domestic abuse cases, it's not always easy to get out.

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    6. Very true. She basically consented to the abuse by staying with him for that long.

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    7. it’s called trauma bond. look it up instead of victim blaming.

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    8. 3:14am are you serious? Consented? Sino may gusto mabugbog huh?. Di mo alam pinagdadanaan nila emotionally and psychologically para magbigay ka ng ganyang comment. Basa basa din girl ng mga scientific findings sa mga ganyang victims. Hindi un paurong kang magisip.

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    9. True, sometimes the victims are partly to blame because they make no effort to get away from their abuser.

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  14. M of E band. Tsk tsk

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  15. The first time it happens, put him on notice to never do it again. The second time it happens, you leave the relationship. Period.

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    1. There might never be a second time though. Ang lala nyan oh sa mukha pa at hindi lang basta sa braso. Baka mabuntis pa sya if she stays in the relationship, mas delikado.

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    2. 1:58 Beg to strongly disagree, the first time shouldn’t even happen to begin with. Do not think you can change an abuser.

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    3. nah. no chances. that’s how the cycle starts sis.

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  16. Ang shonda na at ang chaka ng jombagerong jowa ni Ate. Iwan no na yan and expose him!

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  17. Galing sa legendary band yung lalaki. Hindi ko akalain ito dahil mahilig yung tipo ni guy sa charity at vocal sila about morals na dinadaan sa artistry. I guess totoo yung you are not what say you are.

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  18. Lady, you don't deserve this. Leave him, and never return. You're safety and well-being matters more than his company. There are things you can forgive and forget in a relationship, but you beating you up isn't one of it.

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  19. Hitting a women even once is wrong.

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    1. Well, it’s also wrong for the victims to stay with the abuser even after the first hit, often for years.

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    2. 3:11, girl, stop. Di mo alam pinagdadaanan ng mga yan or kung paano sila i-manipulate into staying. Di nila kasalanan. Wag kang nagmamagaling dyan.

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    3. So true. They never learn kasi.

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  20. The problem with some victims is that they let the abuse go on for a long time. Stop being a victim from the first hit or abuse.

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