Besh get a medico legal at mag file ng case. Pangalanan kung sino talaga yan instead na post post sa social media. I know what you are going through is hard pero may system tayo para ganitong case ng abuse. Ilaban mo sa hustisya.
True. She has to make this official by filing the legal documents. She can keep posting on socmed but she should not forget to file a restraining order and legal case/s against her abuser.
Ginawa na nya. Antay ka lng. Yung binabasa mo ngayon, napatungan na to ng maraming actions from her. Putting this out there without naming the culprit will save her from legal backlash. Kaya mag antay ka at may kadugtong tong tsismis na kinasawsawan natin.
Galit ako sa taong gumawa nito sa yo. Galit din ako sa yo sa kakablind item mo. Para ba maging curious na curious mga tao at dumami page views mo? Kasi girl if not for this incident di kita knows.
9:24 then she made her point across, now you know her, and now she got views, now people are aware. why are you mad at her for raising awareness and her coping mechanism on her OWN page? “di kita knows” - domestic violence happen to anonymous and unknown people. i swear people are too entitled but uneducated.
I’m glad that she is free from her abusive relationship and on her way to healing, but my chismosa self can’t help it: sino ba talaga yung tinutukoy nya? Yes I tried to google pero wala akong nakita. Saka, sana nagsampa na rin sya ng kaso for real.
it is obvious that you have never been in this kind of situation, and i do not wish it upon anyone. have you ever heard of trauma bond? that the abuser makes you so dependent? that one has so much hope for the person they love to change? that point where someone clings to that hope? please know that abuse is caused solely by the abuser, never the victim. never her fault. you can talk so much outside from the window, but it’s different when you’re inside. please read more on domestic abuse and it’s psychological effects, there is more than what one posts on social media.
Happy for you hun. Hope others will have the same courage to love yourself first as you did.
Girls, and gents to some extent, once they lay a hand on you, or emotionally/mentally abuse you, leave. You matter more than others' wants or wishes. A partner who truly loves you won't demand things that will hurt you.
Aww. This is so sad. The guy was talented and would have left an awesome legacy. Now he'll only be remembered for this. Hope he gets the help he needs. And girl, don't look back - just keep moving forward.
Besh get a medico legal at mag file ng case. Pangalanan kung sino talaga yan instead na post post sa social media. I know what you are going through is hard pero may system tayo para ganitong case ng abuse. Ilaban mo sa hustisya.
ReplyDeleteTrue. She has to make this official by filing the legal documents. She can keep posting on socmed but she should not forget to file a restraining order and legal case/s against her abuser.
DeleteGinawa na nya. Antay ka lng. Yung binabasa mo ngayon, napatungan na to ng maraming actions from her. Putting this out there without naming the culprit will save her from legal backlash. Kaya mag antay ka at may kadugtong tong tsismis na kinasawsawan natin.
DeleteGalit ako sa taong gumawa nito sa yo.
DeleteGalit din ako sa yo sa kakablind item mo. Para ba maging curious na curious mga tao at dumami page views mo? Kasi girl if not for this incident di kita knows.
hitsu pa lang ng bf nya mukha ng abusive. tsktsk! maganda naman tong si girl pero baket pumatol sa ganon (sa true lang)
Delete9:24 then she made her point across, now you know her, and now she got views, now people are aware. why are you mad at her for raising awareness and her coping mechanism on her OWN page? “di kita knows” - domestic violence happen to anonymous and unknown people. i swear people are too entitled but uneducated.
DeleteI’m glad that she is free from her abusive relationship and on her way to healing, but my chismosa self can’t help it: sino ba talaga yung tinutukoy nya? Yes I tried to google pero wala akong nakita. Saka, sana nagsampa na rin sya ng kaso for real.
ReplyDeleteTumingin ka sa IG nya, dun mo makikita.
DeleteBawal pangalanan at nasa korte na ito. Baka mademanda pa sya.
DeleteAng tanda na ni Guy.
DeleteYou go, girl. Doing it the right way means the abuse stops with you. He should never be given the have to hurt another vulnerable being.
ReplyDeleteSame wish as you, that justice will be served.
I guess it’s good that she has finally decided to be away from him but it’s also her fault for staying with him for along time while being abused.
ReplyDeleteit is obvious that you have never been in this kind of situation, and i do not wish it upon anyone. have you ever heard of trauma bond? that the abuser makes you so dependent? that one has so much hope for the person they love to change? that point where someone clings to that hope? please know that abuse is caused solely by the abuser, never the victim. never her fault. you can talk so much outside from the window, but it’s different when you’re inside. please read more on domestic abuse and it’s psychological effects, there is more than what one posts on social media.
DeleteIt’s true, the victims are usually the ones making all kinds of excuses for themselves not to leave.
Delete11:56, you are making way too many excuses. It’s simple lang naman, don’t be a victim. Have some self worth.
DeleteNagising na rin.
ReplyDeleteI am glad I got away from the abuser myself. Before it got worse. But Hindi madali to get out from such situation. It’s easy said than done.
ReplyDeleteHappy for you hun. Hope others will have the same courage to love yourself first as you did.
DeleteGirls, and gents to some extent, once they lay a hand on you, or emotionally/mentally abuse you, leave. You matter more than others' wants or wishes. A partner who truly loves you won't demand things that will hurt you.
True, it depends on how strong the victim is. The first time it happened to me, I was out of there. I am not about to become a victim.
Deletematanda na yung guy pla!
ReplyDeletewayyy older that is why the control was easier for him.
DeleteAww. This is so sad. The guy was talented and would have left an awesome legacy. Now he'll only be remembered for this. Hope he gets the help he needs. And girl, don't look back - just keep moving forward.
ReplyDeleteName him! Para mas malalang kahihiyan abutin nya.
ReplyDeletefor legal purposes and confidentiality, she cannot. but of course we been knew who he is.
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