Monday, February 11, 2019

Dilemma of the Singer

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Sometime ago, Notable Performer (NP) broke down in tears while rehearsing for a show. NP was reading a letter of a woman whose dilemma was like her personal predicament. Her heart felt the tug and as tears flowed, the production staff had to stop the taping until NP was emotionally better.

The said scenario was witnessed by Older Singer (OS), who knows of NP’s personal story, but felt she should not intervene unless NP opens to her. At the backstage, NP did just that and opened up to OS, who had to play big sister, mother, and adviser at that point.

NP shared that she has been in a relationship with Talented Hunk (TH) for several years and such time was sufficient for them to know each other. TH had been caring, patient, and understanding when it came to her career and family matters. TH has been brave to express his intentions of living with NP for the rest of his life, but NP has been feeling hopeless, as Family Forces (FF) have been psychologically and socially threatening her relationship.

TH has been wanting to propose to NP, but FF has been adamant in preventing such from happening. Granting that TH and NP would plan their wedding, FF has been vocal that all family members will boycott any union that would happen. Such scenario would be a big scandal. NP could not understand the attitude of FF, considering that she’s no longer a teenager. Moreover, she can very well stand on her two feet and TH has, at one point, told her that he can fend for her needs.

As NP continued pouring her heart out, OS could only listen and advise NP to pray that FF would have a change of heart. However, what was worrisome was how long could TH wait for such to happen. TH might realize that NP cannot seem to detach herself from FF and he might have a change of heart.

‘Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today.’ – Thich Nhat Hanh

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    1. The public knows how FF is and I assume most of the public will side with NP and would still support her should she decide to follow her heart and marry TH despite FF's disapproval.

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    2. Tingin ko, if NP feels the time is right, knowing kaya naman syang buhayin ni TH, wala naman magagawa ang FF eh. Yes, they may boycott her big day, but soon magiging OK din yan.

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    3. Si H nga binoycott din ng fam yung kasal pero #lovewins

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    4. True 6:04! Kaya S, go na! Talk to H kung pwede.

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  2. NP - S
    Os - R
    TH - M
    FF - D

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  3. NP - S
    TH - M
    OS - R
    FF - D
    Tulog na tayo mga classmates 😴

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  4. Sad for NP. Sana maalala ni FF na matanda na si NP. Baka ikinakatakot nya na matigil sa pagwowork si NP pag kinasal.

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    1. conjugal property na kasi. wala na silang control sa finances ni S once na kinasal na sila.

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  5. As I can see it, si NP na talaga ang makakapagpalaya sa sarili nya from FF. Parang ganun na paninindigan ni FF, no matter what. She just have to make a decision and stand firm by that decision.

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  6. There must be some other reason why the family is against the union. Something deeper than just taking away their milking cow.

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    1. Um , think not . Peace classmate baks!

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    2. I think so too. Im just waindering why there is no issues against M that is oit there. I do believe there is a skeleton in the closet on M kaya D doesnt approve of him

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    3. Yan din naisip ko pero parang its too much na rin tska and matagal na din sila.

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    4. Feeling ko kahit sino maging bf ni ate girl against parin sila family

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    5. kurek, 10:27. wala naman silang pinanigan. milking cow lang talaga tingin nila kay S.

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  7. I admire how S respects her elderly but this is too much to the point that it’s already her fault. Sabi nga nya hindi na sya bata. May sarili na syang utak para magdesisyon, apparently desisyon pa din nya magpatali kahit na hindi na tama

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  8. :( huhuhu i really feel bad for NP. Ano ba namang FF yan oi!

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  9. S M R night mga baks

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  10. Hay nako S. Pwede kana maging santa

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    1. Hindi na pwede kasi sumasama na sa jowa eh

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  11. Anong tingin ni FF-D, ke NP-S, milking cow nila forever??? Suerte na kayo ke TH, buena familia pa si TH.

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  12. NP and TH should just elope.

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  13. Ano bang gustong gawin ni D kay S? Kaloka ha? At si S naman ano naman gusto nyang mangyare sa buhay nya? Maging sunod sunuran habang nabubuhay? Bakit di sya kumalas kay D kahit pa maiskandalo ang pamilya nya noh sigurado namang suportado pa din ng tao si S kasi wala naman syang ginagawang masama

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  14. Oh no... okay lang yan S, kung si H nga nun & C di rin tanggap ng fam. Live your life and they’ll learn to love your choices in the future. If not, at least masaya ka na and free.

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    1. Exactly and I speak from personal experience.

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    2. You're right, 2:26. I was in the same boat 20+ years ago. Buti na lang, I sought the counsel of somebody wiser who told me, I had to make my own choice and stand up for him. Ke tama o hindi yung elders ko, only the future will tell. So far, happy ako with my choice. And if nagkamali man ako, at least it was my choice. I've no one else to blame.

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  15. I feel bad for NP😞😞 she's not getting any younger. They should trust her, look at T. She's happier.. NP is a great catch, & so as TH. It will be easier for TH to look for kind hearted woman as well but more independent & better possible IL. With profile of NP, it's harder to look for a serious man with good background who can take her FF. #JustSaying

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    1. True! She'll end up an old maid!

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  16. Well sino ba naman ang magiging masaya na wala lahat ng side of your family on your wedding day? Grabe. Torture na ginagawa ni FF.

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    1. NP should take a risk. They might boycott her wedding pero I guarantee, they'll come around in time. Hindi rin nila siya matitiis lalu na pag nagka-supling na siya. And so what if they don't show up? Andiyan naman ang family ni TH who are very supportive plus their friends and fans. That is more than enough!

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    2. 3:13 tama! More than enough! (more than, more than) more than enough! (more than, more than) more than enough!!! for me... for me... for meeeeehhh!!! LOL

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  17. Ang issue kasi is not that NP can't stand on her own two feet, it's more like if FF can stand on their own without her. Ang selfish lang talaga nila.

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  18. so what kng magboycott cla? pakasal kau without them and with friends and loved ones na supportado kau. of age na nmn silang magjowa

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    1. True si H nga from Ka-H nagpakasal ng walang pamilya, but they are okay now :)

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  19. There must be a reason why FF does not approve of the guy.

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    1. Reason of insanity and selfishness. Yun lang yun.

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  20. Backbone ang kailangan mo NP. U need to stand up for yourself kay FF kasi walang gagawa nyan kundi ikaw. Hindi ka forever young.

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  21. Just get married. They will be there on your wedding day. Believe me.

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    1. Ganun din tingin ko. Di rin sila makakatiis.

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  22. Mabuti na lang talaga andiyan na si OS. May mapaghihingahan at masasandigan na si NP ng saloobin niya at mararamdaman niyang may susuporta sa desisyon niya sa buhay. Tibayan mo loob mo NP! May mga kaibigan ka at support system. Di ka na nag-iisa.

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  23. It’s just sad that she’s trapped in this situation. But I agree na siya lang ang makakapag decide for herself. She knows she’s old enough and can stand on her own feet and M can provide as well. She’s not going to cut ties with her family. She’s just going to marry and be with the man she loves.

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  24. Noooo! It is not a scandal on the end of NP Kung hindi dumating sila FF. OK Lang! No problem! Eh di hwag. Grabe kumukulo blood ko malapit na maging dinuguan! NP go go go pa kasal ka na!

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    1. Pareho tayo, 7:14, lol. Parang gusto ko nang batukan etong NP para gumising naman.

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  25. The guy can always propose to the girl if he really wanted to!

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    1. Malamang he respects NP’s situation for now. Alangan naman alam mo ng ganun ipressure mo pa. baka niwait lang din ni guy na no backing out na si NP pag nagdecide

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  26. magtanan na lang kayo

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  27. NP, gurl, pakasal na kayo! sige ka baka masulot ng ibang gurl yang TH mo. ikaw rin.

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  28. Doesn't make sense. Eh ano kung iboycott ang wedding, it's the loss of the those doing the "boycott" and if I know - mas madami ang gustong mag attend than magboycott. Let's be real, it'll be a big showbizy event and given the humble beginning of NP's family they will still be excited to be in the company of showbiz people. Second, matanda na si NP. She should grow a spine. Nakakainis na ung drama nya with FF. Third, if your family doesn't want you to be happy like in the case of FF and ung mga magboboycott - then kahit kadugo mo sila, it's time to cut them loose.

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  29. Wala na kay FF ang problema, di kasi mag decide si NP, nasa tamang edad na sya to make her own life. Hope di magsawa si TH sa paghihintay.

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  30. Grabe talaga si FF maawa naman sila kay NP grabe na pagtitiis nya para kay FF.. Ano ba gusto nilang mangyari sa buhay ni NP tanda na nya...😗

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  31. ate gurl, tagal mo ng dilemma yan. hindi ka naman kumikilos. mag-decide ka na!

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  32. Dear NP, If ever you are reading FP, think deeply about it. You do not need the approval of anybody to live your life. When you grow old, I just hope you will not have any regrets about things na hindi mo nagawa. For me, mabuti na nagkamali ka kesa tumunganga ka lang and then mag what if sa huli. Do what makes you happy :)

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  33. Dear NP kung ayaw nilang umattend kami ang aattend ng wedding nyo ni TH. You've done so much for your family it's time to focus on your own happiness.

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  34. Go go go NP. You are of age na. Malaya ka nang magdesisyon. Andyan naman si OS na matatakbuhan mo pag tinakwil ka ng FF. They'll eventually come around. OS, pakitulungan na ngang kausapin ang FF ni NP

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  35. Now this, is the textbook case of someone emotionally abused by her kin. I would rather they get married, never mind that her side do not attend. It won't be them who'll be embarrassed and scandalised.

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    1. yep, H & C weathered the storm.

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  36. Parang may borderline personality na yung FF ni NP kaloka. Sobra na sila

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  37. Kung walang FF na pupunta sa wedding ni NP at TH, jusko andyan si OS at yung jowa niya, they can stand in hahaha. Jeske maraming susuporta sayo NP dahil alam ng madla na mabait kang bata at wala kang ginagawang mali.

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