Saturday, December 22, 2018

Ateneo De Manila University Releases Official Statement on Bullying Incident Involving HS Students

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  1. Suspend na yang mga makukulit na yan pero hwag sa bahay. Papulutin Ninyo ng basura sa campus.

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    1. Sorry but have you seen that video? Suspension is not enough. That boy should be expelled.

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    2. Suspension lang?

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    3. Its not like he's bullying dahil malalaki naman sa kanya mga nakakaaway niya. Yun lang nga marunong siya ng martial arts.

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    4. Di ko pa nakita eh. Saan nga ba makikita?

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    5. He should be expelled. Pwede nga idemanda ng parents nun victims eh. It's not just simple bullying, it's assault.

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    6. Check twitter, dami videos nun hambog na batang un

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    7. nasa news 12:57

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    8. suspension is kulang. habit na nya ang pambubully at pambubugbog. many times na ngayon lang nalaman ng admin nila?? tsktsk

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    9. 12:39 naku teh.. yang suspension at pagpupulot ng basura eh kulang dahil marami na syang nasaktan at nabully

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    10. 1:26 nabasa ko lang sa internet hindi ako sure kung totoo, may mga parents na daw na nag sumbong before. Pati older brother bully din daw sa school wala daw ginawa yung school sa magkapatid.

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    11. 12:52 what? anu man ang difference sa height ng dalawang involve, bullying pa din yun. It doesn't mean na since maliit sya hindi na sya bully. Isa syang napakaliit na bully na matapang lang dahil black belter sya.

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    12. Isuspend, kung umulit, expulsion na para magtanda at matakot pa ung ibang mga bullies...

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    13. I agree. Other tham your standard expulsion or suspension, there should also be a corresponding sanction like community service. He needs to be exposed to real stuff and hopefully will serve as a humbling experience for him. Like maybe magvolunteer sa OSY groups, ganun. Bata pa sya, may pagasa pang magbago.

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    14. Bakla ang dami niya videos kumakalat at ibat ibang bata ang binubully niya! May isa nga pinaluhod niya yung isang bata mukhang nerd tapos inuutusan niyang magsabi ng kung ano-ano. Jusko kung ako magulang ng mga batang binully niya nako ewan ko na lang magagawa ko riyan!

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    15. 12:52 ano bang definition mo ng bullying? Hindi nadadaan sa laki yan. If nakadepende sa size, pag cyberbullying, pano nila nalaman na bullying kung hindi naman nila alam gano kalaki mga nagcocomment.

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    16. If that matter has been ongoing for a long time, there is definitely something wrong with the school and the parents as well. The school should have been punished by DepEd aside from the kid

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    17. pag binully ka i say FIGHT BACK! di yung iiyak ka na lang sa isang tabi. give as good as you got.

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    18. 12:52, wala po sa laki (or liit) ng aggressor if the act is bullying or not. On a personal note, na-bully rin ako ng mas maliit na tao kaysa sa akin nung high school ako. Ninanakawan ako ng project at kinukurot kapag ayaw ko magpakopya pag exams. May emotional bullying din by the way, which I consider more hurtful dahil hanggang ngayon may trauma ako. Nung nagsumbong ako sa parents ko at teachers namin, lalo lang akong inaway. All because I had higher grades than those bullies.

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  2. Sa mababang paaralan nga expulsion agad agad..wala ng investigation..

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    1. I think that’s just for formality’s sake. Anyone with eyes and ears who heard and saw that video will see and hear what that boy did and said. To keep him in school is dangerous. Especially since he has martial arts background and he’s using that for bullying other kids.

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    2. bullies should be expelled from school. No exceptions, kesehodang anak ka pa ng kung sinong pontio pilato.

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    3. 12:47 just saw the vid on news and tama pala hula na ko na may martials arts background yung bata. my son in studying karatedo kaya napansin ko yung style nung bata pagkick. I feel so sorry for the victims, the mothers pain inside me wants to kill the bully but I prefer the fair justice.Sana ma expelled yung bully.

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    4. There were 3 videos of this kid bullying 3 different students. 2 of those involved physical attacks and 1 where he made a student kneel before him (in a cafeteria, i think) asking him to say: "bobo ako"

      This kid lacks proper guidance.

      There were also claims that his older brother is a bully himself.

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    5. 12:47 dapat may parusa din 'to galing sa taekwondo association chuva eh. this is against their rules

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    6. Ateneo should protect other students from bullies like this one.

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    7. Agree 1:30. Expell sa school thenPwede kaya taggalan ng belt or demote sa taek?

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  3. ito yung bata na Taek WonDo medalist then nambugbog ng mga iba pang bata. I think may pananagutan dapat dito hindi lang ang school pero ang parents kasi minor ang bata. Sino ba ang mga magulang nito at ganito ang asal ng anak? shame on the parents.

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  4. after rape scandal...bullying scandal naman

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    1. Meron pa yung ang fetish ay paa ng boys.

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  5. I hope the families involved help and work together to shower their kids with love, support, guidance and understanding, in order for them to get through this challenging time.

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  6. Mga mayayabang. Typical rich kid problems

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    1. Hindi lang naman sa rich kids nangyayari yung ganyang sakitan. Ang diperensiya lang may pambayad ng lawyers yung family ng bully na yan just in case kasuhan sila nung binully niya. O pwede siya ipadala abroad (hopefully wag nang bumalik pa). Pero mayaman o mahirap hindi talaga dapat i-tolerate yung physical violence. Kung bata pa ganyan na siya pano pa kaya pag lumaki na.

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    2. Teacher ako sa isang public school. May makukulit akong students pero wala namang mga bastos sa awa ng Diyos. Magalang naman Kahit karamihan mahirap lang.

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    3. 1:49 sigurado ka ba? I have a neice from public school at magugulat ka sa mga kaya nilang gawin. Dami nyang kwento sakin na ginagawa ng mga schoolmates nga. At the age of 13-16 di mo akalain kaya nila. Of course hindi ipapakita sayo dahil teacher ka.

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    4. Entitlement. Imagine , after a couple of years yung mga nag aaral diyan will become your next political leaders. Kaya kailangan ngayon pa lang putulan na ng sungay mga yan.

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    5. 2:21 e parang sinagot ng last statement mo yung tanong mo kung sigurado si 1:49. To the best of his or her knowledge, wala syang nalaman. Wag mong igeneralize ang public schools base sa accounts ng pamangkin mo.

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    6. Bakit nanggagaglaiti ito si 2:21. You lack comprehension dear. Wala naman sinabing masama si 1:49. She was just sharing her experience as public teacher.

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  7. Bully kid’s got serious ego issues. Mas malaki pa talaga sa kanya tinitira niya. Little man, big ego

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    1. TRUE ! Typical short guy prob....NAPOLEONIC siya n dangerous....

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  8. Kung hindi pa nag viral di magsasalita ang ateneo... naka tatlong videos na nga ung bully kid.... ano ba inantay ng ateneo gusto ba parang harrybpotter series... wala silang action simula noon.... thanks to the internet

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    1. di lang tatlo yan. many times. gawain na nya

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    2. Because most of them think it's just "away-bata" kahit na nagsumbong na ang isang estudyante. Kelangan pang magviral para gawan ng aksyon. Hay, dami ganto sa school. I wqs also bullied in elem and high school pero di naman nag end up sa pananakit.

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    3. Naku, malamang higit pa sa 3 beses nyang ginawa yang pananakit sa kapwa estudyante nya.

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    4. hindi yan away bata, nakikita sa lahat ng video niya na nambubully. Papano naman pala tinotolerate ng magulang ang ganitong behavior ng anak nila.

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    5. Bullies are usually either battered or neglected kids. Kung mahusay ang guidance ng pamilya at pinalaking may takot sa Diyos ang mga anak eh hindi yan magkakaganyan sa ibang tao. They should've been taught empathy and care for others. Nakakaawa rin sila how their young minds were improperly molded.

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  9. may pananagutan dapat ang parents nitong bata dahil kulang sa gabay ang bata at ganyan ang ginagawa sa mga kaklase. He is a minor and the parents should also face the consequences.

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  10. Bullying is a symptom of something, such as seeking attention or saying being smaller can be tough. Bago yan bigyan ng sanction, ipag counselling muna nila kase kahit paalising yan ng walang psychological help, gagawin at gagawin niya.

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    1. Not only psychological. It's also medical. I'm an OFW working with an integrative psychiatrist here in the Land of Uncle Sam. Most of the kids who have aggression and poor impulse control suffer from severe imbalances in neurotransmitters and in nutrients like magnesium. It can be also due to a yeast infection.

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    2. Correct mam sa kinakain din natin may mga chemicals pero ang mahal ng oranic

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  11. Someone post on FB that the boy has been bullying students for 3 years now. Maraming parents na daw ang nagreklamo before but hindi sya na-e-expel because the family has connections. Hoping this time na na-media na, the school would give him the necessary punishment.

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  12. Ateneo is cancelledt.

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  13. Napoleon syndrome ang tawag dyan

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  14. Such a disgrace! Pity to the parents who has no time in teaching their kids the proper attitude needed to become a person for the society. Such a nuisance in the peaceful community of such a good school

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    1. correct! If I'm a parent in that school, ilalayo ko ang anak ko. I will not tolerate this kind of bullying baka mabiktima pa ang anak ko.

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  15. Makabubuti din dun sa bully na umalis na sa Ateneo. Kalat na yung name and face niya sa socmed. Hindi na siya makakalabas na naka-Ateneo uniform, may makakita pa sa kanya malamang may susubok rumesbak diyan.

    At sa tingin ko hindi din matutuwa yung ibang parents na may ganyan palang nag-aaral sa school ng anak nila.

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    1. Korek ka dyan

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    2. Sana nga mag reklamo ang parents ng mga students, kung magulang ako hindi mapapanatag ang loob ko pag nasa school ang anak ko knowing na May student na ganun ka violente. Threat siya sa lahat ng student

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  16. Napoleon complex. Ganon talaga yata pag kulang sa height dinadaan sa pambubully para kunwari superior sya sa iba.

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    1. Yung siga din dito samin sobrang pandak pero kung duru-duruin at murahin niya mga kaaway niya akala mo anlaki niya. Lakas pa ng boses eh ang liit na tao. Magaling kasi sa suntukan katulad niyan, pati mga tanod takot sa kanya.

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  17. Konti lang naangat sa lupa kung magyabang na. Makakatagpo ka rin ng katapat mo.

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  18. Sa mababang paaralan lang ako nag-aaral pero di ko naranasan na binully ako or yung mga kaklase ko. Ang mahal ng tuition mga padre, asan na yung Christian values na tinuturo ninyo?

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    1. Isisi lang ba sa school? Sorry pero most bullies got that attitude from home, inaapply lang sa school. Dapat yung magulang ng bata ang icall out nyo

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    2. 8:24 That's not the first incident. So yes, the school is partially to blame.

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    3. Marami din ganyan sa public school. You're lucky ok ang school mo and ur classmates

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    4. Bullying can happen in all schools, sa Pinas, sa ibang bansa. It's up to the school what they do about it.

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  19. black shirt protest pa more ateneo!! haahaahahahaha!!!

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    1. 1:44 parang tuwang-tuwa ka pang may nangyaring ganyan para lang mapahiya mo ateneo no? Pustahan tayo bully ka din.

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    2. i agree 1:44 am

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    3. tama naman si anon 1:44

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  20. Sabi sa official statement, “A hallmark of Ateneo education is teaching our young men to respect the dignity of others”. Naku, wala na, finish na ang bully. Kita naman sa video na pinaluhod nya ang schoolmate nya at pinipilit na sabihin na “bobo ako”. That is a very clear display of disrespecting other’s dignity.

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  21. ATENEO dont wanna use the term bullying!!! If you read the letter walang bullying na sinasabi... bakit kaya?

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    1. kagaya sila ng dating school ng anak ko, hindi naniniwala na bully yung estudyante kaya puro lang restorative justice...nilipst ko na lang ng school ang anak ko kasi walang action na ginawa

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  22. Sobrang nkakaawa yung binully nya,i wonder how low his self esteem was.that bully should be expelled!! Nkaka GG!!

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  23. Expel that kid!!!

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  24. dalawa daw sila nabubully. yung isa daw sinuntok yung braso ng classmate kahit pilay na siya and kinaladkad siya sa hallway. :( super grabe daw pambubully sa ateneo. ngayon takot na ako mag paaral ng anak sa big school.. hinde pa ako nanay sa lagay na ito. imagine 3 years na pala nila ginAwA sumotuk ngayoj lang guMAwa ng action? paano kung hinde lumabas tuloy parin pambubully at Marami MasASAKTAN? ateneo you guys must do something. hinde na ito nakakatuwa..

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  25. Yung anak ko na bully. Nandidilim tuloy paningin ko bakit ko pa kase pinanood yung vid. Good luck sa sasapitin nitong batang ito

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  26. i have a big feeling since lumabas na ang videos at nakita ng magulang na bully ang anak.. lalaban mga magulang na ito. im sure hinde nila ito palilipasin. at sa nangyari this will be a big effect sa ateneo baka mag pull out ang mga magulang sa anak nila. sabi ng friend ko na taga ateneo high before sobra.daw ang pambully sa ateneo kaya ayaw na paaralin ang anak nila sa ateneo.

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  27. Expulsion plus tanggalin sa kanya pagiging black belter nya! Hindi ba bawal gamitin yung skills nya sa taekwondo for bullying?

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    1. true. first code is to use their skills for defense and not be the aggressor. kahit naman bawiin ang black belt andun pa rin ang skill niya.

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    2. 2:46 May medals pa ang bully kasi champion daw. Dapat tanggalan din ng medals from competition.

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    3. 3:31 Pero I'm sure maapektuhan si bully kasi passion nya yung taekwondo. Mukhang sobrang proud sya sa kakayahan nya. Kung walang medal o banned sya sa pag-compete that'll hurt his ego a lot. That's where we hit, his big ego.

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  28. ito daw parents ay politically connected. E nu ngayon ke kay pontio pilato pa kayo naka connect, you people should apologize not just to the victims but to the whole universe, in national TV. Kakahiya ang anak ninyo.

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  29. parents, guard your children. They could be the next victim of this boy. Itong bata naman na ito sana mapagsabihan ang parents bago pa yan lumala sa paglaki niya. Mamaya mo yan ang may mga future sa kulungan dahil bata pa lang basagulero na.

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  30. Pag walang action ang Ateneo dyan, I don't think parent's would want their kids to be enrolled in such school. The fear of having your kid bullied by this kind of kids?Why would any parent want that on their child. The shame he did to that prestigious school. nakakahiya ateneo, you tolerated this kind of kids? parang wala na akong trust sa safety ng mga schools, in the future, ipapa homeschool ko nalang bata ko pag ganun man situation ng mga schools.

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    1. 11:05 Ateneo's more likely to expel him than not.

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    2. Sana nga 1:18, Salamat s mga netizens n nagshare at nagalit, kung hndi papabayaan lng din nila ito as if nothing happen and just snubbed other parents' report

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  31. One more thing is that baka wala nang matinong private school ang tatanggap diyan. Not LSGH, Xavier, CSA...Baka public school ang bagsak niyan haha

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    1. Di siya pwede sa public school, kawawa lang yan, pagtutulungan yan

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    2. banned na yan.

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    3. Correct me if I’m wrong but expulsion means you won’t be able to enroll in any school

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    4. mag homeschool na lang sila, pa-tutor siya sa tatay nya

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    5. Kung hindi siya bibigayn ng reco letter mosr likely hindi siya makakapasok sa ibang school.

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    6. Sus hindi problema ang expulsion. Mayaman ang pamilya nung bully. They will just send him abroad. Solved ang problema.

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    7. oo ipadala sa abroad para siya naman ang mabully doon

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    8. Ipadala yan dito sa America yang bully na yan, tingnan ko lang kung makakaasta pa ba siya ng ganyan. Grabe ibang level ang bullying dito.

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  32. For those parents of boys in Ateneo hahahhahhaha hwag na magpaka die hard. Change allegiance na! Lipat na kayo ng La Salle GH, Xavier, Don Bosco. Di naman Pala inaalagaan mga anak nyo dyan.

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    1. Mahal pa ng tuition.

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    2. 8:24 Nako wag kayo yung mga schools na yan may malalang bullying din. Yung isa may malaking homophobic bullying issue. Another one has a notorious group of cyber-bullies. Tapos isa yung soccer team naman. Nako no school's safe sa totoo laaaaang.

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  33. i saw the three videos! grabe kala ko sa movies lang nangyayari mga ganung pambubully, to think na sobrang liit nya, sana maexpell sya kasi kawawa yung mga victims nya, kung hindi man sya alisin sa school sana maraming students ang umalis sa school na yan!

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    1. ha? 3 videos pala? keeps on repeating!? yan ang produkto ng restorative justice na yan

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  34. He wasn't alone in bullying other kids. In the video that showed another student being forced to kneel and say "Boss ang itawag mo da akin", the "boss" wasn't the Montes kid. Plus other bystanders, some of whom are likely part of Montes' entourage.

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    1. They should also be expelled. The other students should speak up.

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  35. “I request you to be mindful of consequences spiraling out of control when specific videos and comments are shared on social media”- meaning to say itigil na ang pagshare because you wanted so much to protect the bully, tsk tsk first of all ateneo you would’t pay much attention to the issue had it not gone viral. There were numerous reports already about the boy yet you continue to turn a blind eye, hypocricy at its finest!

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    1. Imagine din if you were in the victims' shoes, would you want videos of your humiliating and traumatic experience circulated for all the world to see? Kung parent ako nung victim I'd ask Ateneo to try to take down the videos din. Gusto ko bang pagpiyestahan sa internet yung video nung anak ko na nabubugbog, lumuluhod, napapahiya? Isipin din yung perspective ng victim. And most importantly if I were the victim's parents, I'd ask the admin to kick the bully out of the school, and I'd want to speak with the bully's parents too.

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    2. I think the video did the victims a favor, because it’s time to stop ateneo from covering it up, numerous reports and yet no plan of action because the family of the bully is connected to a powerful politician.

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  36. Yung sa nag vi-video and whoever uploaded the video, dapat may punishment din. Form of bullying parin yun. Expulsion para dun sa nang bugbog.

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  37. Ang buhay ay parang gulong minsan nasa taas at minsan ay nasa baba, may kalalagyan yang batang yan pagdating ng panahon. Sana di pagsisihan ng magulang ang kanilang kapabayaan. Kapag nakakuha ng katapat yan goodluck na lang sa kanya.

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    1. Yung nambully sakin nung bata ako (still lives near us, still arrogant) naging mayor pa. Umiiwas na din lang ako pero yung mga ganyan personality drawn to power talaga eh. Disturbingly, a lot of people follow them either because they're afraid, or theyre attracted to strongman personalities. Yung mga bully na yan tignan niyo kadalasan maraming alipores.

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    2. Dapat yung mga ganiyang klase ng student nila pinapatalsik nila sa school kasi masisira ang pangalan ng Ateneo. Iyan ang hirap sa mayayaman ang magulang tinotolerate nila ang anak nila di nila alam sa ikakasama iyon ng anak nila na makapatay na dahil di sila marunong magpangaral pinababayaan lang nila kung anong ginagawa ng anak nila sa school. Napaka walang kuwentang magulang naman meron iyan estudaynte nila na iyan.

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