Saturday, December 29, 2018

Repost: Family of Bullied Student in AJHS Incident Releases Statement

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57 comments:

  1. Ayon... when the bully nasa tamang edad na pde na xa habulin for case... akala ng bully makalusot xa...eh ayan mukhang lalaban ung pamilya ng binully...

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    1. Meanwhile, Thank You, Sen. Kiko Pangilinan!

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    2. Your wish will be granted, we support your son , your family and all the bullied victims, God Bless your family

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    3. Naluha ako. I was bullied by a big guy back in HS and hid it from my parents. Nakakahanga dahil they celebrated the bravery of their child. Sana justice will be served to them.

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    4. Me to 9:59am. Kasi halimbawa kung nangyari sa anak mo iyon di ba masakit halos di mo pinapadapuan sa lamok ang anak mo tapos isang katulad niya lang ang mananakit sa anak mo di ba masakit iyon para sa iasng magulang na nakaranas ang anak mo ng ganoong kasakit na suntok at tdayak.

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  2. Inspiring statement.

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  3. Hindi ko alam bakit, pero naluluha ako habang binabasa itong statement ng parents. Siguro dahil magkakaanak na rin ako. Walang bata ang deserve ma-bully at walang magulang ang dapat makaranas ng ganito kasakit na pananakit sa anak nila.

    Tama ang napanood kong video ng isang tatay na humamon sa ama ng bully, kagagawan nila yun kaya bully ang anak nila. Nagkulang sila bilang mga magulang

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    1. 12:20 - ME, TOO. WHEN I FIRST WATCHED THE VIDEO, MEDYO NA-ANO LANG AKO DUN SA VICTIM NA ONCE LANG SIYA LUMABAN PERO NAKUROT IYONG DIBDIB KO DITO DAHIL NAEXPLAIN NANG MAGULANG BAKIT HINDI SIYA LUMABAN NG PISIKALAN. NAIIYAK AKO.

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    2. Naiyak ako while reading this. Walang magulang na hindi masasaktan sa nangyari sa anak nila. I admire their strength and composure. I wish the boy well. Praying for his complete physical and emotional recovery from that dreadful incident.

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    3. Me, i thought of how the bullied boy was brought up. Pinili niya ung bugbog at hindi siya lumaban. That speaks a lot of his upbringing and this impression was cemented by the statement above. Kudos po sa parents nung bata.

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  4. naramdaman kasi natin lahat yung nararamdaman ng mga parents nitong mga nabiktima.

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  5. My 7 y o son was bullied too. He came home from school with some mud on his uniform because his classmate kicked him. Ginawa ko, pinuntahan ko ang bahay ng bata at kinausap ang tatay at ang bata, sinabihan ko na wag nya nang ulitin dahil kung Hindi, pakukulong ko tatay nya. Mula nun di na nya inulit.

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    1. How was your kid? Maybe you should teach him to defend himself.

      Sana di mabully anak ko pag nagschool na siya. Tuturuan ko siyang lumaban. Maganda na yung me alam.

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    2. 12:24 Kudos to you for defending your kid at buti natigil ang bullying but the truth is may mga parents na sila pa nagtuturo sa anak nila ng mali. Both the Ateneo bully and his older brother are known bullies, I’m sure alam yan ng parents nila pero wala rin. Baka nga parents mismo nila ang bayolente or bullies din kaya sila natuto

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    3. 12:49,my son do not fight back. My son is okay actually. I told him, marami talagang bad nantao sa mundo, may good din. Yung gayahin nya at yung good. Personally, no matter how we protect them, more or less, our kids will experience bullying one way or another. I don't curse or say foul words, but I know that my son hears bad words outside unintentionally, so I just guide him telling him to emulate only the good.

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    4. 1:16 dont judge naman the parents sana huhu. We do not know what happens inside their house. I am a mother and as one, I would want my kid to grow with respect towards everybody. Kaso kasi mahirap i-monitor ang kids pag lumalaki na and nag iiba ung environment. So sana spare the parents, and let us hope that even the bullies recover and change for the better.

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    5. Somehow parents of the ateneo bully are to be blamed for their child's behavior. Coz its not just one of their children, but two of them are bullies. The way they raise their children is really questionable!

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    6. 8:53, I don’t usually comment on other people’s parenting skills but when you have 2 sons who are both old enough to discern right from wrong, both kids are known bullies with the elder one even dismissed from school for being a bully, I can’t help but question the kind of rearing up the parents did.

      -not 1:16

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  6. Naiyak ako. God bless your family.

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  7. Your son is not a loser. Joaquin Montes is.

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    1. 12:34 - BATA RIN IYONG BULLY PERO ANG HIRAP HINDI SUMAMA ANG LOOB SA KANIYA SA GINAWA NIYA NO?

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    2. Yes he is still a minor but definitely he knows what he was doing na. Ang hirap hindi magcomment ng masama sa batang bully na yun.

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  8. In the end, it all falls down how their parents raised those kids involved

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  9. Nakakaiyak yung statement

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  10. taong bayan din ang magtatanggol sa mga inaapi.

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  11. The bullied boy has high EQ. He knows how to control his emotions and remained patient the entire time Joaquin Montes was taunting and hitting him. That's a sign of maturity na sobrang kahanga-hanga for a 15 year old boy.

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  12. Mam, your son is not a loser. I felt bad for him because of what the other guy did to him, but I am VERY proud of him. Mighty respect for him for not kneeling down and kissing the feet of that monster. In any case like this, I'd rather my son be the bullied, than the bully. It shows how you raised him. I think the people are not saying what they are saying about your son because they think he is a loser, but because they all want to defend him from that monster. To me, just like you said, he is not the bullied boy from Ateneo, but he is the boy who'd rather be beaten than kneel down to an A hole.

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  13. God bless the brave boy and his family. The public will help protect you and make sure that justice is served.

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  14. Inulit ulit ko yung third paragraph
    Naiyak ako! Grabe!
    Stay strong

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  15. May statement na din ba yung family ng Montes like apology?

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  16. God bless your son,naluha ako.No to BULLYING!

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  17. Naiiyak ako. Ramdam ko yung sakit na naramdaman ng parents. 😢

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  18. I wonder what the "expensive school" has done about this. The bully kid shud be expelled from the school, di sapat ng suspension lang.

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  19. Awww... Nakakaiyak. Habang binabasa ko to naaalala ko yung mukha ng anak nila s video. Muka talaga syang mabait at ayaw ng gulo. God bless you.

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  20. We never heard a single statement from Kiko nor CHR concerning this.

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  21. Yung mga binubully naman kasi bakit hindi agad magsumbong o magsabi sa nakakatanda? Hindi naman yun kabawasan sa pagkalalaki, tinutunulungan nyo lang din yung nambubully na umayos ang buhay hanggang maaga pa.

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  22. Just like what i was thinking while watching the vid, that the bullied boy for sure might have easily kicked that bully on his chest to stop the fight but seeing him trying to get away, i came to realize that the boy just doesnt want to retaliate with violence because he surely wasnt raised that way. Nevertheless, the bullied boy had to take all the pain for that bully and other resident bullies in Ateneo be exposed and be put to an end. For me, he's a hero.

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  23. Naiyak ako while reading this. God bless your family!

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  24. kinuyog din ng mga tao yung nambugbog sa mga bata, hindi natin papalampasin mga ganyang gawain. Pag may makita tayong mali, kailangan isumbong para mapangaralan.

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  25. Naiiyak ako sa mga comment, nakakkarelate din kasi ako. Nasanay din kasi ako sa bully, and need lang talaga kalma at wag lumaban. Hayaan mo sila.

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  26. good for them
    p.s. the writing is so atenean :)

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  27. Bless the family of the bullied boy and the family. Such an inspiring boy, and not allowing anyone to take away his dignity. I will include him in my prayers. May he be healed and may justice be rendered.

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  28. Im not a parent, pero ramdam ko ang sakit sa mga magulang nitong bata. Makikita mo talaga sa asal ng anak kung paano sila lumaki sa bahay nila. Sana lahat ng tao, sa school man o sa bahay eh maging aware sa bullying.

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    1. ikaw ba naman baks makita mo sarili mong anak na pinagbubugbog at mag undergo ng surgery habang wala kang kaalam alam na on that day naghihirap na pala anak mo malamang maiiyak at manginginig ka sa galit. pero ibang klase din tong mga magulang na to. malakas talaga moralidad. i salute them

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  29. I stand with everyone saying that the bully got what he deserved. Still, the incident in the washroom was a reaction to an earlier incident that day. Apparently, the bully was walking, minding his own business when he was pushed (pinatid) by a group of boys. Because he was alone, he chose not to react. Then when he entered the washroom, he saw the boy who pushed him without his friends. That's when he did what he did. That is why Ateneo says they are investigating because the bullied boy was the one who instigated the incident. Still, there is no denying that the Montes boy is really a bully. Also strange is why he agrees to being videoed each time. Did it never occur to him that these videos will be used as evidence against him? Or he must be so proud that others will see what a toughie he is.

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    1. Oh, please. Pinatid and then Montes and his production crew waited for him in the washroom and then asked him to choose between his dignity or get beaten up. If you heard this version from the Montes' family na hindi nauna anak nila, please advise them to have their son checked, counselled and rehabilitated so that he will never hurt anyone instead..

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    2. siguro okay lang naman kung pinalo na lang nya yung pwet ng bullied boy pero suntukin at sipain ba naman yung mukha hanggat magdududugo? pikon na pikon siguro uung bata. baka anger management kelangan din

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    3. Assuming that what you are saying is true (though parang mahirap paniwalaan), how do you explain the other incidents of bullying caught on video?

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  30. Baka naman napagbintangan lang yun bata na sya yung pumatid ke Montes. walang scene na nagtanong si montes ng ganito: "ikaw ba ang pumatid sakin?" Verdict/execution agad ang ginawa ni montes

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    1. Kahit pa 9:45am wala siyang karapatan na manakit ng kapwa at sobrang bigwas ang ibinigay niya doon sa batang walang kalaban laban sa kaniya na blackbelter pa siya.

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  31. The bully and his family fled abroad already before the school issued the expulsion memo.

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