Thursday, June 28, 2018

Insta Scoop: Solenn Heussaff Calls Out the Asking of a Person's Weight, Improper



Images courtesy of Instagram: solenn

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  1. Tama naman nakakarindi kaya lalo na pag reunions. Pag sila sinabihan mo naman naooffend duh haha kairita. Pero shempre d ka makaganti kse gumagalang ka hehe. Pansin ko most pinoys talagang shallow ang mga bagay na napapansin siguro bored sila sa buhay bigyan ng konting sustansya utak para lumalim heheheeh joke

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    1. I agree with you.

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    2. pet peeve ko yang weight comment na yan. As a result, kahit di ko gusto, sumasagot ako. "ay tita kayo rin po pataba ng pataba. pareho tayo. hahahahah" sorry tita!

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    3. I totally agree with Solenn. Commenting on the weight or physical features of the person you are greeting is totally bad manner.

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    4. Sometimes, when one says to me , "hoy! Ang taba mo ngayon!", I want to answer back ,"hoy! Ang pangit mo pa rin!".

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    5. Hahaha korek anon 2:00 nakakairita yung mga insensitive n mga tao na ginagawang conversation piece ang weight ng kapwa nila. Samantalang hindi naman natin napupuna yung mukha nila.

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    6. Correct. Very correct. It is plainly impolite and rude to comment on weight (loss or gain). I always equate the topic to religion, preference or finances: sensitive. People should seriously stop this awful habit.

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    7. ako nga eh, inuunahan ko na lang ang mga tita. ang bungad ko na "yes, nananaba po ako. happy lang.. kumusta na po?"
      Nang matapos na ang weight hirit. bastos naman kasi talaga, bakit naging form na yan ng paggreet.

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    8. Talagang madami sa atin sa Pinas di alam ng improper ang mga commento na ganyan. Sign rin ng kung may pinag aralan ang tao.

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    9. Parang yung dentist ko lang kanina e. "Ang laki ng tinaba mo" grabe sya e may ang laki pang pabungad e.

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    10. tama sya. inappropriate talaga to ask that,very offensive lalo na to ask kung buntis kasi madalas hi di naman. People should just have manners and shut their mouth pag dating sa bagay na yan.

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    1. Malamang auto correct yan baks.

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  3. I like solenn.
    Kahit mali spelling go pa din :)

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    1. Lol. Siguro naman Autocorrect lang yan. Saka sa IG walang edit option ang comments.

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    2. Pag gusto ang tao kahit mali spelling isasagot auto correct. pero pag ayaw sa tao sasabihin balik sa school.

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    3. Oo nga 3:00.

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  4. parang greetings na yan sa pinas eh. at ang nakakainis pa jan yung nagsasabi nyan eh mas mataba at swangit pa. nakakatrigger!

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    1. Hahaha you nailed it! And if they see you are toned and fit sasabihin “ Pumayat ka na nagpa lipo ka ba? “ eh kasi wala kang anak kaya marami kang Time mag workout “ pag nagkaanak ka for sure mas malaki ka pa sa akin “ and all the comments . Family reunions are overrated .

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    2. 5:01 pati pagkawalang anak imemention?? sana wala ka pang asawa bes, kasi kung meron man and you're trying to get pregnant, doble hurtful at pressure naman yan.

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    3. Tama. Kinasanayang mali ng Pinoy.

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  5. sorry pero she's not mataba for me. nagkalaman sya yes, but still sexy. ano ba gusto ng mga tao? yung payat na parang buto't balat nalang?

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    1. Ang problema kasi is yung term. Wala yata tayong "you gained weight" in tagalog.

      Pero talagang magaling ang Pinoy mag-call out ng weight and they always meant to insult.

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    2. Pwede namang sabihin na nagkalaman siya kesa sa tumaba. Hustisya naman sa aming matataba! Hahaha

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    3. Huhu 5:05 Kung mataba na si Anne sa lagay na yan, e ano nalang tayo? Haha

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  6. Kaya ayaw kong nagpapakita sa mga kamag anak eh. Or sa mga reunions. Kse mga pinoy talaga ung weight ang unang papansinin syo. Kaimbyerna.

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    1. same tayo. pag alam kong tumaba ako, di ako aattend. ano ko masokista, alam ko na malalait ako, eh di pass 😁😁😁

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    2. Me too. Kahit anong reunions pa yan. Kahat anong changes sayo esp your weight, or how old you’ve become, papansinin nila. So offensive. Tapos paulit ulit pa sasabihin, yjng para bang di sila makapaniwala sa present ichura mo now. MAY MALI BA MGA TITO TITA MGA TEH???

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    3. Me ayoko umuwi by pinas kasi ang laging tanong eh kung kailan ako mag aasawa at mag aanak.tumatanda na daw ako sabi ng mga pakialamira kung kamag anak.Palibhasa teens palang magsipaglandian mga pinsan kot maagang nabuntis!

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  7. There are things we, Pinoys, say and do that are offensive to others. It's about time we all learn to be aware of what we say and not just thoughtlessly throwing out questions. There are things we shouldn't be asking people unless you are very close to them. Age, weight, income, relationship status, political stand are some topics to be avoided. Learn to converse with respect (and dignity), what comes out of mouth (or what you type on your keyboard is a reflection of you).

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    1. Marami pang dapat matutunan ang mga Pinoy when it comes to Political Correctness and Sensitivity. Lahat na lang joke. Lol.

      Pangit man pakinggan pero i rarely hangout with Pinoys sa public here in US. Ang lakas lakas na ng boses, lakas pang tumawa. Lahat na lang may side comment about weight and skin color.

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    2. Sinabi mo pa, mga hindi mo kakilala pagtsismisan ka na agad. Kakatapos lang magsimba, tsismisan na agad.

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    3. True that,2:05. Although marami rin ako naencounter na tahimik, and they give a polite smile, nod or occasional, "hello"/ "kabayan", kapag may nakakasalubong na kapwa Pinoy. Mas magaan sa loob batiin ung ganun kesa ung biglang feeling close agad.

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  8. Aww if these people think Anne is fat/malapad eh paano na lang ako? Obese na pala ako :(

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  9. Malaking check! Naalala ko mama ko, malaman siya at nainis din siya nung may nakasalubong siyang kakilala ang una ba naman sabi eh Ui ang taba2 mo na!

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  10. Nakalimutan pa yung May bf/gf ka na? Kelan ka mag aasawa

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    1. At pag nag asawa ka naman na, yung ‘kelan kayo mag aanak? Tumatanda na kayo’

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    2. meron pa. ang puti mo ngayon..

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    3. 7:04 kung may anak na, tatanungin naman kung kelan susundan

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    4. 9:35 tapos pag sunod-sunod nanganak, kelan daw titigil. Lol

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  11. Weather for whether
    Propper for proper

    Yes, Solenn can type. Haha!

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    1. Obvious naman na typo errors, pinatulan mo pa. Feeling mo matalino ka na nyan? Haha. Ultimo 'are' nga, naging 'arr' eh. She posted another reply saying she CAN'T type kasi puro typo error 1st comment nya.

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    2. sus galing kaya magenglish nyan. inis na inis cguro habang nagtype kaya mali mali. si sollen pa ba sisitahin mo sa englisan?

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  12. Wala ka pang asawa? Pihikan ka naman masyado! Wala pa kayong anak? Hindi ata kayo masipag gumawa! - mga greetings sa reunions dahil walang ibang masabi

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    1. Yes 1:15 you nailed it. That's why I hate going back to the Philippines because of those statements. Along with the weight comments as well. People are so cruel.

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  13. Kasi nga yung pagpupuna na ganyan eh naging conversation starter na. Pero in fairness nman kc sating mga pinoy we could always come up with a funny answer to any questions or observation about our weight. Wala naman kasi sa culture natin ang pagiging overly sensitive kasi nga masayahin tayong mga pinoy unlike sa ibang culture na super sensitive about this topic. Not that I'm saying that this is correct but that's just how our culture is, either sakyan mo na lang or kebs.

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    1. Wag Mo lahatin pinoy ako pero Hindi ako ganyan

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    2. Sa ating Pinoy pero wag dalhin sa ibang bansa or pag-kausap mo ay di pinoy.

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    3. O edi ikaw na ang hindi nanglait kahit minsan 3:41. Kung never ka nanlait sa kapwa kahit konti, kahit pabiro makakatulog ka ng mahimbing ngayong gabi.

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    4. Pag sinabing pinoy, matic na ibig sabihin, "In General" wag mong isisingit yung isolated case mong argument.

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    5. Exactly my point 7:27. Pag mga pinoy kaya nmang pagtawanan na lang dba? pero adjust adjust din sa ibang bansa kasi di lahat matatake ung ganyang pag pupuna or better yet just shut up if you have nothing good to say.

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  14. “Wala ka pang asawa?” Nung nag asawa ka na, “o kelan kayo mag aanak?” Ng mag kaanak na,
    “O bat d nyo pa sundan?”

    Hahahaha, wala, wala kang mapaglagyan sa mundo. Lahat me komento d na natapos.


    Madalas sagot ko noon kelan k mag aasawa, “bukas na po mag gagabi na e”.

    Pag comment e o kelan kayo nag aanak?
    “Bukas po bibili kami sa palengke”

    O tumataba ka, “kayo rin po tita”

    Hehehe
    Trip trip lang


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    1. Pagbuntis sasabihan pa din bat ang taba mo, hello buntis nga eh hindi ba pwde kumain ng extra.

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    2. Ang bastos lang diba at ang awkward sa part ng kailangan mo sumagot kahit ayaw mo out of respect.

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    3. Pag nag comment about sa weight sinasabi ko agad “ganun po talaga pag madaming pera pambili ng pagkain”

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    4. I remember an incident sinamahan ko tyahin ko sa insular kasi gusto na nya i cash in ung insurance nya. Kaharap namin ung agent then tinanong tyahin ko kung kaano ano ako.
      Anak nyo po? Sumagot ang matabel kong tyahin, “nde ah, taba taba nyan”

      Wow! Hahahaha ako na nagsayang ng oras nag leave para samahan sya sabay nag comment ng ganun. Yung agent parang nahiya sabay tingin sa kin.

      After nun d ko na hinarap khit kelan o binati ever yung tyahin ko na yun. Tatay ko lang nakansin. Lolllllll

      Kabwisit lolll.


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    5. HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA! Lakas ng tawa ko, 12:29! Hahaha.

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  15. Sabi nga nia “i cant type” so feeling ko lasing sya understandable naman ang mga spelling hihi

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  16. only in the Philippines, I live in Canada everyone respects each other no matter how you look or what your colour. I am glad i live here because I can't stand Phil society I mean the bad traits of people, judgemental, insulting,mean and rude but not all though. I agree with Solenn she is from Europe so she knows the difference between Phil society and European or North American.

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    1. Exactly. I live in Australia and wala ka madidinig na ganyan except pag mga Pilipino kausap mo. Lalo na skin color, kung maka bash mga Pinoy sa mas maitim sa kanila grabe. My mom came to visit and narindi talaga ako sa mga comments nya like “tabachoy”, “negra” etc

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    2. dyan ka na lang sa canada at wag ka ng bumalik pa ng pinas. everone in Canada? I dont think so. madami ding masamang ugali na Canadians, eh! hindi lang nila pinapahalata sayo or bulag ka sa katotohanan

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    3. I totally agree to anon 5:59. napa comment tuloy ako kse mga ibang pinoy sa Canada are either so loud or soooo habang aysus!can't stand them kaya limited ang friends namin ni hubby dito. paka tsismosa pa no manners talaga! para bang ang mga pinoy dito eh trying to compete w each other in terms of outfits and accessories. eh ako ang baduy ko pa naman and dont "dress up" jeans and t-shirt lang ok na sa akin. I dont wear jewelries except my wedding band neither use designer bags.May isang pinoy dito who told me once I looked like a katulong:( I was so offended. all my sis in laws shows off their bags and all on family gatherings. ugh! can't stand them. in the meantime, there I was in t shirt and jeans and bare face hahaaa

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    4. @3:54 I live in Australia too at maraming din masamang ugali na Australyano.Tingnan nyo yung malalaking kompanya at makikita mo halos lahat puti ang nasa taas Ng posisyon.Meron diskriminasyon pero Hindi pinapakita.Masyadong sarcastic sila at Kung makikita mo sa news eh grabe magsalita at patì live na TV reporter eh nagmura.Gusto ko lang liwanagan ang lahat Ng kaFP natin.Buti pa sa US Kahit An Dyan Si Trump eh Kahit papano may oportunidad ang mga blacks at Asians.Gusto ang pinoy sa trabaho...

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    5. @11:43 Karamihan Ng ASIANS ganyan hinde lang pinoy FYI.Pansin Ko lang ha (no offense meant) pero karamihan (Hindi lahat) Ng medyo ok ang pamumuhay eh Hindi naman ganyan Ka-obsessed sa branded at designer na gamit.Usually, those na first-timers pa lang make-experience Ng designer goods sa life nila eh nagaganyanan.Doon Kasi dinadaan ang insecurities at materialism nilA.If hinde ka insecure or materialistic, kaya mo maging simple at confident, which you obviously are πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘πŸ‘

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    6. Napaka idealisitc naman netong mga nakatira sa ibang bansa. Sa mismong statement/ comments niyo nadala nyo parin ang pagiging laiterot laitera sa totoo lang hahhaha. Pinoy nga kau na nakatira sa perfect kuno na countries hahahha.

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    7. @1:33 Anong napaka idealistic na Sinabe nila?Eh Totoo naman yung mga pangyayari shineshare lang nila para Hindi namaN mabulag ang mga pinoy.Bakit masama ba magshare sila Ng nararanasan nila Kung Totoo naman.Di naman panlait yun.At saka bakit may sinabe ba sila sa itsura mo?Hahahaha

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    8. Thanks 12:42, sa area namin kasi walang ganyan kasi multicultural. Hindi pa naman ako nakakaranas ng racism dito. Opportunity-wise, ok naman din kami. So I guess baka kanya kanyang area or maybe kanya kanyang field and experience lang din. :) Wala pa ako nadinig na nilait dahil sa weight or skin color dito sa mga nakakasalamuha ko.

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    9. @2:54 Nangyayari sya Kahit pa sa multicultural areas eh.Ang daming ganyan dito Kahit ano pa field mo o Kahit San ka pa dito.Usually hinde mo malalaman talaga yan eh.Siguro hinde Ka pa po ganun katagal dito tumira?May mga pinoy akong nakilala pagpunta ko lang sa hospital.Sinuntok suntok at Duguan ang mukha.Ipinagtanggol lang yung kasama na babae dahil racially motivated yung pag-attack.Kawawa yung tao.Sana mabigyan ng hustisya.

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    10. @2:54 Tingnan mo Kahit multicultural po dito, Kahit pa anong field mo...Tingnan mo yung mga nasa mataas na posisyon eh Australyano pa rin kinukuha.Hindi ka pa matagal dito sa Australia ano po?Di mo Lang po alam Kasi hinde pa ganun Kayo katagal.It happens everywhere po Kahit sa mga cities.Laganap na po yan.Maraming pangyayaring ganun pero Hindi sinusumbong o pinapaalam sa pulis.

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    11. 4:27 Matagal tagal na din ako dito. Dito na nga ako nag aral. Like I said, opportunities-wise, wala naman kaming reklamo pa. Yan lang naman ang experience namin so thankful kami.

      Well kahit saan may racism obviously pero ang topic di ba yung walang pakundangan pagbati ng weight gain ng tao na ikinagalit ni Solenn? Never ko yan na experience dito. At di ko din yan nadinig sa ibang tao dito. While sa Pilipinas napaka common niyan pati panlalait sa mga tao dahil sa skin colour dahil mas maputi, mas maganda para sa mga Pinay. Sa Pilipinas kasi, parang "hello" and "hi" lang yan. Dito hindi. I dunno sa area mo, pero sa area namin di naman laganap yan.

      Sana soon maging mas positive ang experience mo dito.

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    12. To be fair, madaming magagandang trait ang mga Pinoy. Like hospitable, resilient, etc. Pero di natin maitatanggi na tatak talaga natin ang pagka laitero sa physical appearance. Lalo sa weight at kulay.

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    13. Filipinos in general are condescending sa kapwa pinoy nila.

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  17. This is really bad Filipino culture. At dahil parang norm na sa atin Ito, nadala ko sya sa US and actually offended one of my co workers when I said I think she’s gaining weight (I meant to compliment her in all honesty dahil lahat talaga sya). She said I was so rude lol. Coz she’s trying to lose weight and wasnt so successful in doing so. Now I learned my lesson. I explained to her our culture of saying it in the Philippines na parang normal lang. Ay...

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  18. Lagi namang magwoworkout si Anne, nag strength training yab for the marathon so siguradong muscle mass yan. Unnecessary rin yang comments about pregnancy dahil hindi naman natin sila kilala sa in person, hindi natin alam kung ano choices/decision nila about the subject

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  19. Well she's living now in the Phil. And with Filipino blood so she should know better the country's traits. And I totally agree with you. Many Filipinos are so rude,mean and a disgrace to society. If they can't take the rudeness better get off showbiz or back to the country where they came from. But they won't leave because of huge money they're earning which they won't enjoy elsewhere.

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  20. Kurek baks Solenn! Tsaka as if naman hindi alam ng taong un na tumaba sya if ever noh! Hello d kailangan ng validation nyo thank you very much.

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  21. may isa ako kakilala na taga sa amin ang lagi bati sakin sumesexy raw ako pero ang totoo kabaligtaran yun ng sinasabi niya. eh everytime na dumadaan ako yun lagi sinasabi. gusto ko sabihin eh ikaw gumaganda ka.

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    1. LOL, go beshie. baka sakaling manahimik

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  22. wala na talaga atang ibang pwede malait kay anne.

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  23. sa mga nadagdagan ng timbang o laman. si anne ang pinaka blooming at maganda pa din. cute nya tignan. lalo pag kumakain ng egg tart... tsaka masarap pisil pisilin ang mga taba. :)

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  24. Tama nman..minsan sa mga okasyon Yung kukuha ka Ng kakainin mo ilalagay mo pa lng sa plate mo sasabihin "oy diet mo" o kaya " oy magtira ka nman " nkakainis minsan

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  25. I actually experience a lot of "uy tumaba ka" comments from people na matagal kong 'di nakita as if it's a sin to gain a little weight. Deep inside they don't know that these comments make me depressed, because I'm trying to go back to my original shape. Not because I want to conform to society's view of a perfect shape, but because it already is hard for me to even just go up the stairs, I just want to be healthier and di madali mapagod. And those comments from people about weight gain are not helping. :(

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  26. Pag binati ka ng “ui, tumaba ka” sagutin mo na lang na ng “may pambili na kasi kame ng masarap na pagkain e” kesa seryosohin mo masyado. E s nag gain k ng weight e. E s nag eedad k n at bumabagal na yung metabolism mo e.. normal lng yung pagtaba.. ung pagsama ng ugali ang hindi.. haha

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  27. I think it's simply cultural in the same way that when you make sounds while having soup in Japan is ok while doing the same in Europe is not ok.

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  28. Kaya nga ako sa mga tita gatherings na yan inuunahan ko na sila. "Ang taba ko diba?" Dalawa lang pwede mangyari, shut up sila or feeling nila green light yun para ituloy tuloy. Haaay

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  29. Thank you Solenn! Yung mga Tito Tita na ganyan, they don’t know their comments have a lasting impact. Hanggang ngayon Di ko malimutan yung Tita Kong walang ibang sinabi kundi ay Ano nangyari Bakit Ikaw mataba? (Comparing me to my skinny sister). Ever since then I’ve always thought something was wrong with me. Kaya hanggang ngayon matanda nako umiiwas ako sa Tita kong yun.

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  30. Funny how all of the comments here indicate na naooffend sila sa "tumaba ka" expression (paano naman, may sumasaya ba pag sinabihan ng ganito?). Maybe we gotta do something about our judgemental tendencies, especially dun sa mga kinoconsider nating "other". This is just one of those cases when that particular trait starts working inwards. The more judgmental people are kasi, the higher standards they gotta live by for themselves...so as a nation, we are kinda harsh on ourselves and on each other. Lahat dapat eh size 0 na rebonded ang buhok, maputi, matangos ang ilong, branded ang mga gamit, always may boyfriend pero di dapat malandi at liberated. At definitely hindi ko nilalahat, pero sometimes pag extremely offended ka sa pagpansin ng weight gain kinda indicates din na you perceive fatness/weight gain pretty negatively, so sometimes both parties are guilty hindi lang yung nagpopoint out. Pansin ko yung mga kaklase ko sa facebook na payat nung HS but gained weight are the ones who don't know how to handle it, at nagpopost lagi ng defensive comments about their appearance. They get offended prolly because may associated na life event or adversity dun (nanganak, nadepressed, nagkasakit etc.), but also because they have always seen weight gain/fatness as despicable and laughable. Meanwhile, the "fat kids" in our class who are all prolly scarred in some way, are handling it much better and pinatutunayan nila araw-araw na you can like yourself kahit ano pa ang panlabas na anyo mo.

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    1. The point is that it isn't anybody else's business but yours. So it's not proper for people to point it out - which seems to be so deeply ingrained in the Filipino culture.

      Yung mga matataba pagkabata nasanay na lang din and developed a coping mechanism, but would they prefer not to have been the victim of bullying because of their weight gain? Of course. It shouldn't even have happened in the first place.

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  31. tama naman si Solenn

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  32. this is exactly what I was talking about why Catriona can't easily answer her stats. It is just not proper.

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  33. Well, it’s true, so huwag umarte.

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