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Wednesday, January 10, 2018

Agony of Pushing Onwards

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While everyone builds an image in social media, celebrities have become conscious that wearing their hearts on their sleeves could very well make them vulnerable to sympathizers and bashers alike. Thus, most celebrities have used social media to build an image that they feel would endear them to more followers and for some, attract possible endorsements. Image has become the primary reason for posting, and honesty is negated.

Showing she is happy and having the time of her life seem to be the goals of the social media account of Network Talent (NT) these days. After undergoing a major change in her life some time ago, NT was left to deal with reality that her expectations will no longer be met. The breakup of NT with Former Boyfriend (FB) was not part of any relationship goals of the two. However, circumstances forced the two to separate, much to the disappointment of their followers and friends.

NT and FB seemed to have been made for each other. Having grown up and matured in the same circle, they understood the demands of work and dealing with the public. When, they admitted that they are done and over with, people were shocked, but hoped that they would be able to work things out and reconcile.

Unfortunately, reconciliation did not at all happen. Even if NT would find time to see FB, rekindling his love for her became hard. Still, NT hoped FB would come home to her. Even if FB were linked to Endorser Model (EM), NT hoped nothing serious would come out. When the situation indicated that FB was no longer interested in her, NT was saddened because she felt FB was the one. Then, someone told her that FB already mentioned that he found his soulmate, who was not her. FB had indeed moved on. Reconciliation was merely wishful thinking.

Although devastated, NT projected that she is living well and not bothered at all. She simply turns to humor for comfort. However, she is shattered, as she could not sleep and would sometimes turn to the bottle for company, which are basic behavior of people going through the stages of a breakup. When her close friends noticed the sullen behavior of NT, they encouraged her to talk to a medical professional who could help her snap out of her malaise.

Despite everything that happened and her projecting of being fine, her followers sense she is still in pain, but trying to move on.

‘Two words. Three vowels. Four consonants. Seven letters. It can either cut you open to the core and leave you in ungodly pain or it can free your soul and lift a tremendous weight off your shoulders. The phrase is: It's over.’ ― Maggi Richard

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79 comments:

  1. Karma. Ayusin kasi niya dapat ugali nya.

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    1. Mayabang at palengkera sya kasi dati. Sana matutunan nyang bilog ang mundo.

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    2. Dont judge her, hindi mo sya totoong kilala.

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    3. You are actually worse just so you know.

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    4. Wow, sana hindi sayo yan mangayare. Nobody deserves to be heartbroken. Eh sa nasaktan siya eh? Sino tayo para ijudge sino man sa 3??

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    5. Fan ata ni S ito, hindi pa maka-move on sa dating issue...

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  2. The ever bully A. sobrang pretentious. Obvious naman na hindi na masaya sa buhay

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    1. Ampait siguro ng buhay mo at sunod sunod pa hate comment mo

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    2. Grabe naman tong makapang-judge. Hindi mo naman kilala personally yung tao.

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  3. alam na this! NT walang iba kundi si A! pak! move on na ateng! kaya mo yan, ramdamin mo lahat ng sakit then one day pag gising mo, wala na sya sa sistema mo. Have faith, mahirap
    pero dapat harapan mo ang katotohanan. A as in Acceptance...na may mahal ng iba si FB- J

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  4. All KaF
    NT - A
    FB - J
    EM - E

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  5. Kala mo naman kung sino magsalita itong 12:04 makarma ka din sana. Bakit di kaya ugali mo muna ayusin mo.

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    1. truth hurts ba 12:26

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    2. Isa ka pa 3:47!

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  6. Pride din siguro kaya hirap maka Move on to. Di matanggap ni A na ang pinag palit sa kanya ni J ay isang starlet na si E lang.

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  7. Baby steps. We all go through heartbreaks. You're doing fine

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  8. Kawawa . Lahat naman ng babae kawawa kay J . She should look at it as a blessing to be be seperated from J . May pattern yan si J - he doesn’t last .

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  9. Tagal nang issue yang hindi pag move on ni A. Move on na girl, hindi na babalik sa iyo yang isang yan.

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    1. Wala naman sa tagal yan no? Go lang, ateng! Huwag mong madaliin. You'll learn a lot from this heartbreak.

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  10. Medyo matagal na silang hiwalay pero mukhang di pa talaga sya naka move on. I really hope she finds the one for her.

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  11. Plastikada kasi si A ayan buti nga

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    1. Never ever wish ill to others. Karma is just around the corner, you'll never know when will it land on your lap. So if I were you, I'll be very, very, very careful with my words. - CARMI

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    2. A is one of the most grounded and downto earth girl in showbiz..malas lang sa bf puro mga a h !

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  12. Same din ang hula ko pagkabasa ko neto...
    NT - A...pretending she is happy in all her posts pero mahilig magparinig about the heartbreak
    FB - J...na trying to find himself kuno pero matagal na ding pasaway
    EM - E...di ko talaga sya gusto parang "pakawala" and acting na walang pake eh obvious naman na may pake. I really think she is so fake

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    1. I feel for A..nagmahal lang sya ng tapat at pinaasa..but don't cry for this jerk A, you don't deserved him.bagay sila ni E na playgirl!

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    2. agree ako sa description mo sa kanila 1:21

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  13. Ano ba ang pretentious kay A e totoong tao nga sya. Hndi sya nagpapaka ait baitan.

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    1. She pretends na siya lagi dehado. Pero yung totoo siya naman ang problema.

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    2. True ka jan 1:27.. Hindi sya katulad ng ibang artista na pagka break, nakamove on agad..?

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    3. paano mo nalaman na sya ang problema? kasama kaba nila at mukhang alam na alam mo. sabi nga nila, it takes two to tanggo, pide naman na pareho sila ang problema.

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    4. Please expound your comment. How is she the problem? - CARMI

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    5. Korek 1:27 AM! Maldita siya pero totoo siya. Oh well, goodluck A! kaya yan,gurl!

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    6. 2:07 ang dali nya kayang nakamoveon sa una nyang ex kaya wag mong sabihin na di sya tulad ng iba dyan na ang daling maka moveon,ang sabihin mo napahiya sya sa kayabangan nya

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    7. May tama ka 7:54!!!!!!

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  14. Part lang po ang pagpepretend cguro ni A sa pagtatry na makamove on. Its a sign of strength din po. Makakahanap din xa ng lalaking mas higit pa kay J. Kayang kaya yan ni A. Tiwala lang!

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  15. at this time, she's in the acceptance stage. let's give her the space, she need to find herself, let her heal her heart. eventually she will move on but it's going to take some time. she will get over him. everyone got over with someone.

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  16. Pinaasa kasi na sila na ulit..tapos biglang dinrop sya. shaket non.

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  17. Everyone knows going through a heartbreak is hard. Much more so if you’re the person going through it.. I hope A finds time to heal. Took me years to get over someone. I couldn’t commit to anyone coz I thought i needed to ‘get over’ him. Anywayzzzz, goodluck gurl! Wishing them all happiness, J and E too!

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  18. A, J, E.

    Everyone went through a heartbreak at one point in their lives. May kanya-kanya din tayong pag-cope sa heartbreak. Yung iba, nakakamove on agad. Yung iba, matagal bago maging okay. Let her go at her own pace. Wag namang awayin. Iniwan na nga, nababash pa.

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  19. Don't cry over a cheater.

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    1. Both J and E are nega. J being the cheater. E being a stealer even in her previous relationship.

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    2. Lalaki lang yan na walang kwenta..you don't deserved him!

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  20. Ateng A walang hindi nakakamove on..

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  21. E & D- take note model:endorser. Never na is E ito!

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  22. I like her. Front niya lang talaga yung maldi-maldita, mataray na image, pero vulnerable talaga siya. Generous at nice naman ito. Hindi lang talaga yung ideal na bait-baitan sa showbiz yung ugali niya. Sana hindi na non-showbiz bf na next time. Si J naman, kawawa talaga ang mga babae sa kanya. Sana magbago na siya...

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  23. Makakamove on ka din ateng A. Samahan mo ng prayers

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  24. Why are some people mean to A..it's the guy who's at fault, he's a serial heartbreaker who hurt every girl he was involved with!

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    1. She is also a serial Maldita na walang preno ang bibig.Walang imik yong dalawang babae na binibira nya.Karma x2!

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  25. ayaw pa kasi magpakatotoo si A dapat tanggapin
    mo ang reality na waley na.
    sana matapos na yang kalbaryo mo

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    1. It's easier said than done..as the saying goes.

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  26. KaF
    NT - A
    FB - J
    EM - E

    Sana makamove on na si A. Deserve niya sarili niyang soulmate. Di naman kawalan si J, bagay nga sila ni E eh.

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  27. Hope na dumating sa buhay nya yung guy for her.

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  28. Ito lang atang blind item ang mabilis kong nahulaan. No need for clues. Umpisa pa lang ng kwento alam na hahah. Good luck A. Ikaw kasi eh pinagpalit mo pa si long time jowa D mo kay J.

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  29. Problema din naman si J, wag nyo isisi lahat kay A.

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    1. bakit sisisihin si j e di naman sya ang umasa

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  30. A, someday you will be thankful you did not get what you prayed for. :)

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  31. Why blame a broken hearted girl..the fault lies in the cruel hearted guy!

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    1. @1:40 PM - It's more cruel for the guy to string along the girl even if he no longer loves her, for the sake of keeping appearances. The kindest thing guy did for this girl is to let her go, even when she didn't want to, because he no longer loved her. Just because the girl is broken hearted doesn't mean the guy was cruel. And on another note, maybe girl was not kind hearted either since a lot of people revel in her misery.

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    2. It still takes two to tango. Huwag ibuhos ang sisi kay J. Nag overlap ang relationship ni A at J sa relationship nina S at J.

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    3. Come on..you that j was the paasa guy at may pinagsamahan naman sila ganon lang talaga ang mga playboy pagsawa na the roving eye will look for another victim!

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    4. hindi sya nagpaasa.hahabol habol lang talaga si A kahit ayaw na sa kanya ni J

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  32. NT - A FB- J EM- E

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  33. I guess I'm not updated bakit ganun ang comments ng iba kay A. But what I noticed eh di naman siya walwal ang tagal nga ng relationships niya sa mga ex niya di ba. Sana she heals from the heartbreak, sa pinapakita ng guy mukhang di mo siya deserve A. Kaya bangon na and move on.

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    1. Ang tanong ano bng meron kai A at bkt cia iniiwan kht taon pa ang pinagsamahan ng mga naging ex nia? Possessive kia c ateng??

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    2. Hindi daw walwal? Lol hindi ka nga updated.

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    3. Wala sa pagiging possessive o ano pa man yan. Kung ang tao hindi talaga para sa'yo mawawala at mawawala yan sa buhay mo. Same thing goes with friends. Diba may mga kaibigan kang nawawala lang din sa buhay mo kahit na matagal na kayo nagsama?

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  34. NT- A: She will be okay..soon. It will take sometime FB- J- I hope E is his soulmate na nga.. Its time for him to settle down EM- E- She seems nice..

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  35. There will be someone for you A promise... look ahead.

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  36. "Moving on is a process" We all cope differently. Give A, a break.. obviously she needs more time & space to heal.

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  37. Wag naman natin syang ibash.sa mga nagsasabi na karma, bakit, ano bang kasalanan nya sa inyo? Has she wronged you? Has she done something unforgiveable to you? Di naman siguro. Aside from the things she chose to share with us through her social media, we don't know a thing about her. Be kind guys, dumaan din naman tayo sa break-up(s), heartache(s) or heartbreak(s). Kung di nyo pa naranasan yan, sana di nyo ma experience yan....We've all been let down by someone we loved and cared about. Konting empathy at sympathy naman. At para sa mga nagsasabi na move on na, naiinip kayo? Hindi natin buhay ang buhay nya. Hayaan nyo sya mag move on at her own pace. Di madali pinagdadaanan nya kaya let's not tell her to rush. Nakiki usyoso lang tayo sa buhay nya, that doesn't give us the right to tell her or dictate to her when and how she should move on and what she should and should not do.

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    1. I like this comment. True indeed,! 100%

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  38. Nag mahal sya ng todo kaya nasaktan din mg todo. Kaya mo yan A! Be strong! Pasasaan din at makaka move on ka din at tatawanan mo na lang yang experience mo na yan.

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  39. Sakit! I feel you, A, pero nararamdaman kong malapit na akong maka-move on. Konti pa. Sana ikaw rin.

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  40. Hindi ko siya ma-blame, ganun talaga kapag bigay todong magmahal eh. Ako nga 12 years, di pa nakaka-move on totally. Ha ha. For sure, sa sobrang busy niya.. makaka-move on din siya eventually.

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