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Sunday, September 7, 2014

'Rude Priest' during Christening at EDSA Shrine

Assistant of the Priest 
Image courtesy of Mark Prianes

Source: www.xolxol.ph

A social media user named Mark Prianes shared his unexpected experience during the christening at EDSA Shrine.

Prianes said he was frustrated to this event because there was this point that the priest was throwing some foul words even though everyone was responding appropriately.

He even thought that this priest was just having a bad day, but he strongly pointed out that there are better ways to cascade messages without using foul words at all, especially the fact that this person is a 'priest'.

Prianes believes that the (rude) impression given to them was just not right.

Aside from that, he said he was humiliated by the assistant of the priest who furiously shouted at him when he tried to approach him.

Here's the full story of humiliation and frustration posted by Mark Prianes

UNEXPECTED EXPERIENCE DURING THE CHRISTENING AT EDSA SHRINE

Aug 31, around 330 pm i attended a baptismal ceremony at the EDSA SHRINE. When i arrived, it was already in the middle of the ceremony were these cute little angels with thier parents and godparents were standing in the middle of the altar. I notice that the priest was mad and his tone is somehow irritated. Reason? the parents are not responding "Amen" loud enough as what the priest wanted them to do. Im shocked when the priest stated "kanina ko pa kayo sinasabihan na lakasan ang pagsabi ng AMEN pagkatpos buhusan ng tubig sa ulo mga anak nyo pero para kayong walang boses. Sana wag lumaki ang mga anak nyo na katulad nyo na matitigas ang ulo!". A moment of silence.

It was my godson's turn to be baptized. The priest said "glory be to the father, to the son and to the holy spirit", EVERYONE responded with amen. At that same moment the priest said "naknang kanina ko pa kayo sinasabihan na lakasan ang amen! Bahala n kayo s buhay nyo!", the priest walked-out. Another moment of silence. I approached the assistant of the priest and asked "Excuse me, what happened? Will he still finish the ceremony? I felt humiliated when this guy responded with "Kanina pa kasi kayo sinsbhan n sumagot ng malakas na amen hindi nyo magawa! Titigas ng ulo nyo! Then i replied with "wag kang sumigaw, ngtatanong lng ako". This guy (in the picture below) furiously shouted back at me and said "Gusto mo ikaw kumausap kay father!!! Punthan mo!! Sino ka ba?!! I opted to reply with "isa ako sa mga ninong. Wag kang sumigaw. Nagtatanong lng ako. You're so rude! Then he responded with "Rude? Eh d ikaw pumunta kay father, tangnang to"

I was about to respond when a girl (one of the godparents) reacted "Excuse me, he was just asking what will happen. He just asked you in a nice way, man. You're not supposed to serve the church if ur attitude is like that, Bastos ka! This guy did not react and left to call the priest back. When the priest got back, he tried to finish the baptismal ceremony in the fastest way he could. After the priest stated the final blessing, he had his last words "o ayan tpos na, magsialis na kayong lahat"

That was very frustrating event. I can hardly imagine we have these people rudely serving GOD, churches and our people. I would say this is just a manifestation that Devil can always disguise into an immaculate Angel.

We gathered some reactions and comments of various netizens regarding this incident.

Image courtesy of www.xolxol.ph

88 comments:

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    1. baka WOW MALI lang?

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    2. Anong masama sa ginawa?

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    3. Andropause. Pwde. Scary naman.

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    4. Pwede pala yun, mag-walk out in the middle of a supposed to be holy event? Grabe!

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  2. Grabe naman na kabastusan yan. Palibhasa walang set amount na bayad jan, whatever donation lang bigay. Walang modo. Parang mga demonyo sa loob ng simbahan.

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    1. anong wala? me byad kya kng mgpabinyag, pati godparents kelangan mgbyad per head.

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    2. Hindi po donation lang magpabinyag sa simbahan. Libo ang bayad dyan sa edsa shrine.

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  3. There are TWO sides to a story. Let's NOT be quick to judge here.

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    1. I don't believe the priest. There were too many witnesses for this not to be true. This supposed priest should just come clean, apologize and not do it again, just like that other priest in Cebu.

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    2. two sides OF the story

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    3. 4:22, tama naman ang "there are two sides to a story". Magcocorrect, mali naman

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    4. Two sides to every story.

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  4. Madami talagang abusadong pari even nuns. Sayang walang video like nung k father obach.

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    1. I AGREE ESPECIALLY ABOUT THE NUNS!!!

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  5. Ginagamit lang naman ng mga taong yan ang pangalan daw ng diyos para magka-power over sa iba. Astang padre damaso. Pinapamukha na makasalanan kayo para magmuka silang santo. Kung maka-reprimand tong mga to. Nilalahat ko na mga taong katulad nyan sa lahat ng relihiyon.

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  6. even so.. tama bang magmura ang naturingang "alagad ng Diyos"? tsk2.. banal na aso, santong kabayo talaga..

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    1. Hindi nagmura si Father. Pakibasa nang maigi yung kwento wag yung puro comment lang ang gawin.


      Agree ako doon sa isa na there are two sides to every story. Ewan ha kasi ako 3times na akong naka attend ng binyag dyan pero hindi naman rude yung mga pari.

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    2. How about the assistant? He's a God servant kuno too! Maling mali tlg ung choice of words nla, wala sa puso ang pag seserve nla kung gnun...

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    3. oh? eh ikaw, nagbasa ka ba? well enlighten me please.. what do you consider as pagmumura? hindi pala pagmumura ang "naknang"? and acceptable pala for them to say "bahala na kayo sa buhay nyo" especially during a supposedly sacred ceremony? oh well, continue to defend this priest & be a blind follower. good luck with that.

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    4. 12:31 magbasa ka mabuti...ganyan ba dapat magsalita ang pari...dapat magset ng example kung paano maghandle ng anger...isa yan sa mga itinuturo pero yung pari mismo, hindi nya ma-contain ang anger nya. Rude talaga.

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    5. Sabi nung pari "naknang"
      Naknang ano?!!!

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  7. Lahat Tayo nagkakasala. Mga pari din... :)

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    1. True, pero more is expected sa mga pari. Pinili nila magsilbi sa Diyos, panindigan nila hindi yung sorry, person lang nagkakamali.

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    2. Hindi rason para palagpasin ang maling asal. Kung nagagawa nya yan sa loob ng simbahan, anong klase ng konsensya sye meron pag labas? You worship God, not people. He is accountable for his actions. Wolf in sheep's clothing. What could be worse?

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  8. O yang mayayabang na CBCP, sagutin nyo nga kung bakit may mga pari kayo na asal demonyo? Kung makahusga at makadikta kayo....ayusin nyo nga mga sarili nyo

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    1. Tamaaaa! Ang hilig makialam sa political affairs, sariling bakuran hindi linisin at bantayan!

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  9. Bingi siguro si father at yung assistant? Hahaha Nag p-PMS din siguro? Hahaha Gaano kalakas ba dapat ang response? Next time magprovide na lang ho kayo father ng microphone or megaphone para sa mga tao. Para naman rinig na rinig niyo sila!

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  10. Mainit ulo ni fader, baka maliit lang kasi ang collection that day! Waaaah pero seriously, wag ng magpare kung ganyan ang attitude jusko ang bastos

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  11. And the next best thing that the people in the ceremony did was to post it on the internet lang? I mean at least tell the authorities about this incident man lamang di yung parang lumalabas hingi-hingi nalang ng simpatya sa netizens.

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    1. Tell the authorities? Seryoso k?

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    2. anong authorities? you think CBCP will act on this? Number 1 ang simbahan sa pagtago ng baho. Mabuti ngayon high tech na, pwede na ma-video at masiwalat ang mga hindi mabuting pinagagawa nila.
      Noon akala mo kung sinong santo kung maka-akusa sa mga inang hindi kasal, pati mga bata na walang kasalanan pagsabihan pa ng masama.

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  12. Bk may deprensiya n ang ears ni father ky ganun.

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  13. which church is this? and the name of the priest? You'll be doing us a service for disclosing these information. pra naman wla na mabiktima itong mga abuso na pari

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  14. this must be escalated to CBCP, it's an untolerable incident.

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    1. Tama ka jan! Anu ba yung CBCP?

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    2. Grammar police--- intolerable not un

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  15. Tsk tsk tsk I can only say one thing , he's obviously not happy serving The Lord

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  16. Kht dn dto s village nmn nung mag sermon n ung pari sbi p nmn nia ang mga bakla at lesbians ay makasalanan nagulat aq kc paulit ulit p niang sinabi >_<

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    1. Kahit naman ibang christian religion sinasabi nila yan. Si manny nga nagcomment tunkol dyan at nakita ko sa tmz, tapos nag sorry sya after na realize nya madami negative reaction. Hindi lang catholics ang ganyan kasi nakasulat sa bible yan, na sin ang maging gay or lez at wala na tayo magagawa kasi matagal ng nakalagay yan.

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    2. oh yes, I remember Miriam Quiambao too.

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    3. 1:35 give 1 verse sa biblr na sinasabing sin ang maging Gay o lez. Baka kainin mo sinabi mo. Wag kasi magmarunong sa bible te.

      - totong babae from davao

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    4. D nla kasalanan n maging gay/ lesbian tao p dn cla I love lgbt :)

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    5. And the Bible also says that if your brother dies, you should marry his wife. And that servants must be loyal to their masters.

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  17. Here they go again. I asked a photographer friend to cover for another friend's baptismal event on that very same church. (I had my own son baptized there also 6 yr ago and we never had problems) Apparently strict sila even sa dress code. Pinahiya yung friend ko, the nanay of the child na bibinyagan just because her dress does not cover her knees kahit na she was decent looking naman. Mema lang din si father. Maliit na bagay ineeksena. Sya yata dapat mag seminar bago ang binyagan. Seminar ng ethics and conduct.

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    1. kasalanan yan ng friend mo. may dress code pala. simply follow it. Some priests wants dress to be below the knee. Since nasa jurisdiction ka nila, follow the rules. as simple as that. considerable naman kase may chance na aakyat siya sa altar to take photo.

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    2. Yung mga pari ang dapat i-blame. Di naman sa simbahan or sa binyag lng dapat may dress code. Hello? Nasa bible yan, and we should apply it kahit sa loob o labas ng church. Parang hipokrito labas natin nyan kng sa church lng.

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    3. I agree with you Anon 2:18

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  18. May away si Father at ang sakristan kaya bugnutin at nag-iiwasan.

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    1. Hahahaha baka nga walang Score nung nagdaang Night.

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    2. LQ lang, nyahaha

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  19. Minsan kasi tayong mga tao lalo na yung ibang katoliko Pag banggit lang ng Amen kinahihiya pa. Samantalang pag umattend ng ibang service dun todo amen na pasigaw pa. Kahit nga pag kanta/o pag tugon kinahihiya pa. Tama yung sinabi sa taas, wag agad manghusga pakinggan ang kabilang panig.

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    1. Hindi bingi ang dyos. Ke mahina o malakas nag amen ka un na un.

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    2. OA yung reaction ni father para magalit nang ganun at magwalkout pa...at yung assistant nagmura pa. Mga bastos!

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    3. Tama. Hindi bingi ang Dios. Ang pari lng. Lol!

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    4. Tama Hindi bingi ang Dyos Hindi sya bingi sa mga taong sumasampalataya sa Kanya ng may malugod na pagsigaw ng amen at alleluia at pagkanta sa loob ng simbahan. Anon 2:48 am

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    5. @gomez ann I know. Pero bakit nung nakakarinig ako ng ivang service sinasabi ng Preacher eh, "Isang malakas na Amen, or di ko marinig mas malakas pa!" Bakit kailangan pa nilang iutos kung pwede naman palang mahina. Ganun din ang gusto ng pari para maginh alive at ipakita sa lahat na tinatanggap natin ito. Ipag sigawan para di mahiya ang iba.

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  20. I can sense the story above is half truth and half lies...

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    1. Yeah, napahiya siguro sila kaya go na Lang sa social media.

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    2. Nasakasihan ko yan. Nandun din ako. Basto talaga ung pare lalung lalo na ang assistant. Buti nga may nglakas ng loob isiwalat ito. Hindi ito ang unang pangyayari na may naganap na ganyan sa simbahan na yan. This is TRUE.

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  21. mahirap mg jump into conclusion if we have not heard the other side. I am a roman catholic and minsan I find members na too complaining. To think, mas malawak ang freedom ng catholic when it comes to dress codes, tithes, church attendance. Not that kinu-compare ko ang ibang religions, but just to state a fact na may religion akong alam, na dapat bawal mag-alahas, or magpa-iksi ng buhok. Masyado lang mareklamo ang tao. Generally.

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  22. Yan ang sinasabing alagad dapat ng Diyos pero ang gawain ay hindi umaayon sa sa supposed to be 'paniniwala' nya. One of the reasons why I do not go to church now, ang daming kaplastikan na nangyayari, bawal daw ang sugal pero sa loob ng simbahan nagpapabingo, may vow of poverty pero may DMax at may personal chef pa, courtesy of taong bayan's donations. Grabe di ba?

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    1. Eh di wag kang pumunta sa church, choice mo naman yan. Eh masisi mo ba Ibang Catholics na magbigay sa mga pari ng konting comfort sa buhay. Eh yung mga pastor nga lahat ng comfort nasa kanila na. Wag ka na ring magbigay sa church Kung ang isip mo pari Lang makikinabang. How can you be a person of faith if you doubt where you donation goes. Marami rin inagkakagastusan ang church, kuryente, tubig, sweldo ng layman, maintenance and improvement ng church, pagkain ......Saan ba sila kukuha nyan kung di sa donations ng may mabubuting loob. Ang importante nakapagbigay ka ng walang kondisyon Kung Saan mo Ito gagastusin. Di naman sa masama napupunta. Sobra ka naman.

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    2. religion was created for a reason and those reasons are not applicable anymore sa panahon ngaun

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    3. Hnd narin ako nagsisimba. Nagdarasal nalng ako. Bhira lang s mga pari ang mtino. Pari namin dati nuknukan sa pagkasugarol. Chain smoker pa. Tapos ung isa nmn nanligaw sakin. Nawalan ako ng gana dahil dun. Graveh sila.

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  23. Natanggal na yan si father at pinabalik na sa pinanggalingan niyang parish. good for him. dapat pati assistant tanggalin na.

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  24. May horror story rin ako about a bastos priest somewhere here in Binondo..(not Binondo church).pareng espanol !

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  25. Diyos na ang bahala sa priest at asst. ni priest na yan.

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  26. weird talaga ang ibang priest kaya nakakainis minsan magsimba sa kanila. i'd rather have a personal relationship kay God.

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  27. wala bang video diba pag ganyan maraming mga nagvivideo, ilabas ang mga videos

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  28. Plastik ting mga 'alagad ng dios' na to. Kunwari holy pero deep inside demonyo. Ba't sya magagalit eh binyaran naman sya ng mga nagpapabinyag? Naka-state naman sa bible bawal tumanggap ng bayad. In the first place di naman talaga dapat binyagan ang baby.

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  29. Meron siguro si Father.....he he he! Tayo naman kasing mag katoliko....mag amen Lang sariling tenga Lang nAtin nakakarinig. Pati pagkanta ng mga holy mass songs di rin magawang kumanta ng malakas knowing na open air ang simbahan...dapat me force sa pagkanta. Pagdating naman sa offering walang reklamo ang simbahan kahit magkano biyaya yun sa kanila, Kung manamit pa naka miniskirt, naka sleeveless naka short shorts, naka tsinelas meron na ngang dress code na nakapaskel sa mga simbahan di pa sundin. Susme naman.....be a little understanding naman sa mga pari....nakakawala din kasi ng pasensya minsan ang katigasan ng ulo nAtin. Remember me vow sila ng celibacy....Hindi Madali yun para sa kanila. Unlike the pastors they can have relationships with the opposite sex....and marry and raise a family.

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  30. Dapat may video, baka ideny ng pari at assistant niya? He said she said...

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  31. Mag born again nalang kayo, para pastor nalang ang mag pray...

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  32. i have experienced it personally. he pin pointed me for not responding even if i am responding. then he walked out. i apologized, decided to stood beside him just to finish the ceremony. my entire family witnessed the situation.

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  33. baka high blood si father...

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  34. if these were true bakit hindi na lang sabihin ang name ng pari?

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  35. dear father, ♪ why'd you to be so rude♫

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  36. Naging biktima na rin ako ng mga paring ganyan.lakas mang trip.imagine sampahan ang isang emplyado ng criminal case eh ang may problema eh ang kumpanya..at eto pa,ni.minsan hindi nakaharap ng empleyadong yun ung paring nagdemanda sa kanilang upisina.nagkataon lang na sya ang bisor kaya ayun.xa ang inereklamo

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  37. I was there.
    Rude talaga ung pari.Lalo na ang assistant.
    Lahat natulala sa bastos na asal.

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    1. Dami nyong nagsasabi ng " i was there" impossibleng walang picture yun o video. Feeling ko me dagdag na kwento to.

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    2. Sige nga, kung nandun ka, nasan pics? Feeling ko me halong kasinungalingan to.

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  38. Kaya dami nag papalit ng religion kasi maraming bastos na pari!!!

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  39. One of the reasons why Catholism is declining.

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  40. Im not surprised. Marami na rin akong na witness na kabastusan at masamang ugali ng mga pari. Mula highschool hanggang college. Maski ng magsimba ako sa ibang lugar. Parang 1:10 ang ratio ng matino ang ugali sa hindi.

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