Sana lang walang nagyaring 'brainwash' sa batang ito. Not a fan of Derek. However, Jolly's statements were a little sketchy with the details of their marriage and support.
Mali talaga si Derek pero siguradong itinuro sa bata kung ano ang isusulat niya. Akala ata nung babae maganda ang itinuturo niya sa bata - NOT! Do not teach children how to HATE people, especially their fathers.
Nakakaawa naman yung bata, so much hatred sa murang edad! Salamat sa iresponsable nyang ama! Nasa news knina na paiyak iyak pa nung nakita yung anak nya! Plastic!
Isa pa rin yung nanay! Bakit hinahayaan niyang masaktan at makaranas ng ganito ang anak niya? Hinahayaan niyang lumaki ang bata na may poot at galit. Baka nga siya pa nagdikta sa anak na isulat yan.
I agree with you 1.37. What kind of mother would raise their child with hatred in their heart like that. Di ko rin gusto si Derek, pero naaawa ako doon sa bata dahil pinalaki na may galit kay Derek. I hope both Derek & Christine know that they have ruined the psychological welfare of their son. Both parents are losers.
so heartbreaking hearing that from your own flesh and blood. but what can we do, matatalino na ang mga bagets ngayon. very traumatic for the child to go through this.
He's 11 not 3. At his age marunong na yung ata makaramdam at makaintindi. His sentiments are sentiments of a child neglected by his father. Sabihin mong hindi sya pinalaki ng maayos kung may mabasa kang F bombs dun sa letter nya.
Agree ako kay clara, si Derek ang may kasalanan. Hindi naman reponsibilidad ng isang ina takpan ang lahat ng masama gingawa ng ama. Basta wag lang nya magsinugaling o gumawa ng kwento para ma brainwash ang anak
Agree ako na yung bata may sama ng loob kasi absentee father sya, pero not that kind of hate, parang kulang nlang sabhin nung bata mayabang tatay ko! I mean he's too innocent pa sa ganya, pwde sguro malayo loob nya kasi hndi nya nakikita.. It shows lng pano sya pinalaki ng nanay nya. Poor kid..
normal lang ung feeling ng bata.. nakakarelate kasi nag separate din parents ko and never silang (mom,grandparents) nag brainwash, i was 11 that time, when i learned about my father, i felt the hatred and decided to change my last name so my grandparents become my parentals =).
someday the derek would realize what he has done to the kid and sadly, it will be too late to make up and regret...the kid does not even call him dad :(
that's sad. it's either Derek really is a no-good father or his son has been taught to hate him. kawawa ang bata, naiipit sa away at pagkakamali ng mga matatanda sa paligid niya
sa simula palang kasi duda na si derek kung anak ba nya talaga yun until na ma confirm thru DNA. kahit ako yung bata magtatanim talaga ako nang sama nang loob
This is not a letter that would come from an 11-yr old child. The words and the way it was written seem to me like someone made her write this to her/his liking. Poor child. Nagagamit. Walang kamalay malay.
I'm pretty sure you don't have children. You can't teach an 11 year old what to feel or think. Pre-teen na ang bata, hindi nya pwedeng i hide kung may samang loob sya talaga sa kanyang ama. He is the innocent party here. Derek should man up and support his child whom he denied for so many years.
Bakit ba kelangan idamay ang anak sa gulo ng magulang? Kaht sana humantong sa ganito, proteksyon at kapakanan pa rin ng mga anak ang unahin. Hindi maganda na lumaki sila na may kimkim na galit sa dibdib. Makakaapekto yin sa pagkatao at personalidad nila.
This is very disturbing I'm not siding the father pero sana sa mga magulang no matter how bad your wife/husband try hard na wag maapaktuhan nun ang bata ang dami namang bata dyan from separated parents na di rin naging mabuti parents pero walang ganitong burden so for u mrs. Wife please spare your son
Yun din iniisip ko eh, normal ba toh? Khit kasi matapos na kaso nila, yung effect sa bata iba eh..diba sabi nga nila khit ano sama ng magulang mo, magulang mo parin yan... Sguro part ng pagpapalaki ng nanay nyan yan.. Sana lang walang hate sa dibdib nya, he' s too young para sa ganyan..
Iba kasi ang stiwasyon nila, kung ikaw din siguro neglected ka na anak (who by the way is 11 y/o, not 6), tapos halos araw araw mong nakikita sa tv, social media, movies etc na super happy with their GFs.. you would feel some remorse as well..
The boy grew up in another country and uses English as his first language. A boy would want to hear a father's concern towards him (after all they barely see each other) and not brag abt his car collections. The boy is smart, kids these days are smarter, and I don't think so he's been brainwashed. It's a tragic scene for a boy to witness it at an early age but who are we to judge. May they come into a good settlement for the sake of the kid whose hurting so much.
I agree, that's how they do educate kids here. English as prime language in private schools, and more often than not, the British kind of English. That kid had been taught well enough to write that way on his own...not to mention he might be ahead too compared to other same-level school-goers.
The kid was not raised in the Philippines. Malamang iba ang culture... Hindi lang Filipino culture at values ang nananaig sa mundo. Tsaka 11 na yung bata, not 3... The kid went through a lot of pain lang siguro para ma-feel nya yan.
may nag coach talaga. check the last sentence, meron siyang binura. kung sariling thoughts nung bata ang sinusulat niya, di niya isusulat na "The will...", dapat "The truth will...".
The kid didn't grow up in Pinas so you guys would think that he's a bit mature for his age...more so that he speak in english. But kids these days are smarter and more mature to things.
The boy's English is okay, I think that is his first language, never mind the grammar. Anyway, the sentiment it doesn't seems to be like coming from an eleven year old kid. Maybe he's just mature for his age? Maybe he hears them from other people?
Patay kaya pala Derek nakikipag ayos out of court na, pahiyang pahiya siya. No matter if coached or not, maybe just to polish the words but the meaning or what the child wants to convey eh pareho ng laman ng message. Sakit iyon sa isang tatay. Tama yung saying you can choose your friends but not your blood relative. This is like the biggest rejection coming from a son to a father. Siguro karma lang ke Derek kasi dami niyang nilokong babae. While we do not celebrate the misery/misfortune of other people, we are happy that one person suffers as a consequence of his past misdeeds.
So many doubts....I wonder why. Don't underestimate a child's capacity to feel, understand and express himself.
And no matter how much the mother may have wanted to protect him, you cannot hide the fact that the father has been ignoring and neglecting them for years. That is kind of hard to cover up, right?
yan ang napala mo Derek puro pagkakasasa sa mga babae mo at kinalimutan mong anak mo,i connot blame ur child,napakalaki ng pagkukulang mo at pinili mo yong mga pagiging babaero mo
Kung maka comment naman ang iba dyan, kung napaka sama ng ama bakit kelanhan itago sa bata? Di pa ba sapat na reason yung alam ng bata na di nagpapakita dad nya sa kanya? Na wala monetary support? Wala sa school events etc? Natural magtatanong ang bata sa mom nya, alangan pagtakpan pa. Kaya wag kayo mag comment na di napalaki ng maayos ang bata. Ang gusto nyo ata palakihin ng "maayos" sa kasinungalingan na mabuti ang ama nya
the child is 11 years old, hindi yan makakalaban, walang puwedeng mgfight ng kanyang karapatan at ruhts kundi yung kanyang nanay..kahit sabihin nating milyon ang hinihinge ng wife, kulang pa yan to raise a child.
To those doubting the letter written by the child just because it seems well-structured considering his age, I could write essays and poems at the age of 9. Children have different intellectual development capacities and you obviously know nothing about it. He's just really emotional. I know how he feels because I grew up without a dad. It's normal to write or say those hurtful things given the circumstances he's been through.
Bakit may mga nagdududa sa kapabilidad ng isang 11-ys old to write in English with "maganda ang grammar/semantics at composition"? At eleven, most Pinoy kids are expected to be able to express himself well in English. Di ba may press conference din sa grade school. I entered high school when I was eleven (albeit a few months na lang malapit na ako mag-12). Mangmang pa ang ganung edad? I think aware lang talaga say na matagal silang hindi in a-acknowledge ni Derek. He's old enough to read articles na hindi in favor kay Derek, like nung hindi sila hinarap noong 2010 after marelease ang result ng paternity test.
Wanna bet? Some kids are advanced compared to their peer. And he grew up in Dubai, educated there too at some point. The medium for teaching is English primarily in all subjects except Arabic and 2nd language of your choice. This kid is more matured in the sense that he grew up in expat culture.
Dito mo makikita yung pagpalaki ng Nanay malaking bagay talaga. Naaalala ko tuloy si Sharon Cuneta dati nung sinabi niya na hinding hindi niya sisirain ang imahe ni Gabby kay KC dahil she doesn't want KC to grow up feeling na kalahati ng pagkatao niya ay basura. It was mean to say that but she stayed true to her word. Look at how KC turned out?
Teh, Austin-Derek-Mary ang issue, hindi rin sila laking Pinas. Iba ang pagpapalaki ng bata sa ibang bansa. 11 na rin ang bata!!! Isip isip ka muna bago mag-type...
1.42, ang point ni 1.28, yung pagpalaki ng nanay sa anak. Ginamit lang na example si Sharon kasi naman mukhang brainwashed si Austin at sobra ang hatred sa puso.
Parang may mali dito @ 11 years old nakakapagsalita na ganun di kaya na brainwash yan!!! Sana nga lang hindi kawawa yung bata nadadamay sa away ng mga magulang.
Imagine being in that kind of situation with the 11-year old son. He grew up not being recognized by his own father. The latter even didn't even believe that he was the father of the child from the beginning to think that he was the one fooling around. Derek should serve his lessons right. He thinks that he can get away with everything.
Sana lang walang nagyaring 'brainwash' sa batang ito. Not a fan of Derek. However, Jolly's statements were a little sketchy with the details of their marriage and support.
ReplyDelete1st to comment itong si derek :P
DeleteKung pera lng habol nya sana hndi na nya dinamay ang bata.. Spare ur kid..
Deletemali din kc si derek pati ang nakaraang pagpapalaglag ng ina ng bata isinapubliko,ako man ang anak nya magagalit din sa kanya
DeleteMali talaga si Derek pero siguradong itinuro sa bata kung ano ang isusulat niya. Akala ata nung babae maganda ang itinuturo niya sa bata - NOT! Do not teach children how to HATE people, especially their fathers.
DeleteNakakaawa naman yung bata, so much hatred sa murang edad! Salamat sa iresponsable nyang ama! Nasa news knina na paiyak iyak pa nung nakita yung anak nya! Plastic!
ReplyDeleteSinabi mo pa, pa-drama effect, panginig nginig pa ng boses. Pang award acting. Drama king
DeleteIsa pa rin yung nanay! Bakit hinahayaan niyang masaktan at makaranas ng ganito ang anak niya? Hinahayaan niyang lumaki ang bata na may poot at galit. Baka nga siya pa nagdikta sa anak na isulat yan.
DeleteI agree with you 1.37. What kind of mother would raise their child with hatred in their heart like that. Di ko rin gusto si Derek, pero naaawa ako doon sa bata dahil pinalaki na may galit kay Derek. I hope both Derek & Christine know that they have ruined the psychological welfare of their son. Both parents are losers.
Deleteso heartbreaking hearing that from your own flesh and blood. but what can we do, matatalino na ang mga bagets ngayon. very traumatic for the child to go through this.
ReplyDeleteSana kasi kahit di niya inako tinreat niya as a child hndi yun pinagtulakan nya na parang pinandidirian niya
Deletehala?! parang grade 2 student lang ang nag sulat..i mean ung hand written nya lol!
ReplyDeleteNdi ba handwriting teh?
DeleteAnon 8:33 hahahaha basag!
DeleteIf that so mom doesnt raise that boy well.
ReplyDeleteTama ka jan!! (Not a fan of derek)
DeleteKung mabuti talaga syang Ina papalakihin nya yan ng walang hatred sa Ama nya kahit ano man ginawa sa kanila!
may karapatan ang bata na sumama ang loob sa tatay nya and it doesnt mean n hindi sya pinalaki ng maayos
DeleteHe's 11 not 3. At his age marunong na yung ata makaramdam at makaintindi. His sentiments are sentiments of a child neglected by his father. Sabihin mong hindi sya pinalaki ng maayos kung may mabasa kang F bombs dun sa letter nya.
DeleteAgree ako kay clara, si Derek ang may kasalanan. Hindi naman reponsibilidad ng isang ina takpan ang lahat ng masama gingawa ng ama. Basta wag lang nya magsinugaling o gumawa ng kwento para ma brainwash ang anak
DeleteAgree ako na yung bata may sama ng loob kasi absentee father sya, pero not that kind of hate, parang kulang nlang sabhin nung bata mayabang tatay ko! I mean he's too innocent pa sa ganya, pwde sguro malayo loob nya kasi hndi nya nakikita.. It shows lng pano sya pinalaki ng nanay nya. Poor kid..
Deletenormal lang ung feeling ng bata.. nakakarelate kasi nag separate din parents ko and never silang (mom,grandparents) nag brainwash, i was 11 that time, when i learned about my father, i felt the hatred and decided to change my last name so my grandparents become my parentals =).
Deletesomeday the derek would realize what he has done to the kid and sadly, it will be too late to make up and regret...the kid does not even call him dad :(
ReplyDeletekklk ang statement ni bagets. kawawa, may burden na dala-dala. tsk tsk.
ReplyDeletethat's sad. it's either Derek really is a no-good father or his son has been taught to hate him. kawawa ang bata, naiipit sa away at pagkakamali ng mga matatanda sa paligid niya
ReplyDeletesa simula palang kasi duda na si derek kung anak ba nya talaga yun until na ma confirm thru DNA. kahit ako yung bata magtatanim talaga ako nang sama nang loob
DeleteMasyadong maganda ang grammar/semantics at composition. Kinopya ang script ni Mama. Sure na.
ReplyDeleteapir baks! double sure na!
DeleteTrue!!
Deletenasa tabi ba kayo nung sinulat? hahaha
DeleteThis is not a letter that would come from an 11-yr old child. The words and the way it was written seem to me like someone made her write this to her/his liking. Poor child. Nagagamit. Walang kamalay malay.
ReplyDeletegano ka naman kasigurado? dahils sobrang sakit nang mga salita? ikaw kaya abandunahin nang tatay mo anong mararamdaman mo?
DeleteTINURUAN LANG YAN. GRABE.
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure you don't have children. You can't teach an 11 year old what to feel or think. Pre-teen na ang bata, hindi nya pwedeng i hide kung may samang loob sya talaga sa kanyang ama. He is the innocent party here. Derek should man up and support his child whom he denied for so many years.
DeleteYes you can pag madalas mong sinasabihan na walang kwenta ang tatay mo... Every child is impressionable
Deleteitulad mo pa sayo yung bata hahaha
DeleteParang kinopya lang nung bata! Or na-brainwash ng ina!
ReplyDeleteBakit ba kelangan idamay ang anak sa gulo ng magulang? Kaht sana humantong sa ganito, proteksyon at kapakanan pa rin ng mga anak ang unahin. Hindi maganda na lumaki sila na may kimkim na galit sa dibdib. Makakaapekto yin sa pagkatao at personalidad nila.
ReplyDeletekinuha ang statement nang bata para sa kaso na sinampa nung nanay
DeleteThis is very disturbing I'm not siding the father pero sana sa mga magulang no matter how bad your wife/husband try hard na wag maapaktuhan nun ang bata ang dami namang bata dyan from separated parents na di rin naging mabuti parents pero walang ganitong burden so for u mrs. Wife please spare your son
ReplyDeleteYun din iniisip ko eh, normal ba toh? Khit kasi matapos na kaso nila, yung effect sa bata iba eh..diba sabi nga nila khit ano sama ng magulang mo, magulang mo parin yan... Sguro part ng pagpapalaki ng nanay nyan yan.. Sana lang walang hate sa dibdib nya, he' s too young para sa ganyan..
DeleteIba kasi ang stiwasyon nila, kung ikaw din siguro neglected ka na anak (who by the way is 11 y/o, not 6), tapos halos araw araw mong nakikita sa tv, social media, movies etc na super happy with their GFs.. you would feel some remorse as well..
DeleteI agree 3:26 AM.. masyadong babaero ang tatay tsk tsk tsk
DeleteThe boy grew up in another country and uses English as his first language. A boy would want to hear a father's concern towards him (after all they barely see each other) and not brag abt his car collections. The boy is smart, kids these days are smarter, and I don't think so he's been brainwashed. It's a tragic scene for a boy to witness it at an early age but who are we to judge. May they come into a good settlement for the sake of the kid whose hurting so much.
ReplyDeletecouldn't agree more.
DeleteI agree, that's how they do educate kids here. English as prime language in private schools, and more often than not, the British kind of English. That kid had been taught well enough to write that way on his own...not to mention he might be ahead too compared to other same-level school-goers.
DeleteNakaka doubt Kung it was really came from an 11 year olds mouth. . .but still, OUCH!
ReplyDeleteThe kid was not raised in the Philippines. Malamang iba ang culture... Hindi lang Filipino culture at values ang nananaig sa mundo. Tsaka 11 na yung bata, not 3... The kid went through a lot of pain lang siguro para ma-feel nya yan.
Deletehindi pangbata yung mga ginamit na words nung bata... meaning may nagcoach...
ReplyDeletebaka ikaw ganun. di ka pa ata marunong magsulat nung 11 years old ka. wag mo itulad sayo ang ibang bata
Deletemay nag coach talaga. check the last sentence, meron siyang binura. kung sariling thoughts nung bata ang sinusulat niya, di niya isusulat na "The will...", dapat "The truth will...".
DeleteThe kid didn't grow up in Pinas so you guys would think that he's a bit mature for his age...more so that he speak in english. But kids these days are smarter and more mature to things.
ReplyDeleteThe boy's English is okay, I think that is his first language, never mind the grammar. Anyway, the sentiment it doesn't seems to be like coming from an eleven year old kid. Maybe he's just mature for his age? Maybe he hears them from other people?
ReplyDeleteNaka-quota ka na sa comments, baks. Medyo ibahin mo rin ang writing style mo para hindi obvious.
DeletePatay kaya pala Derek nakikipag ayos out of court na, pahiyang pahiya siya. No matter if coached or not, maybe just to polish the words but the meaning or what the child wants to convey eh pareho ng laman ng message. Sakit iyon sa isang tatay. Tama yung saying you can choose your friends but not your blood relative. This is like the biggest rejection coming from a son to a father. Siguro karma lang ke Derek kasi dami niyang nilokong babae. While we do not celebrate the misery/misfortune of other people, we are happy that one person suffers as a consequence of his past misdeeds.
ReplyDeleteNikki gil ikaw ba yan??? hahaha
DeleteSo many doubts....I wonder why. Don't underestimate a child's capacity to feel, understand and express himself.
ReplyDeleteAnd no matter how much the mother may have wanted to protect him, you cannot hide the fact that the father has been ignoring and neglecting them for years. That is kind of hard to cover up, right?
yan ang napala mo Derek puro pagkakasasa sa mga babae mo at kinalimutan mong anak mo,i connot blame ur child,napakalaki ng pagkukulang mo at pinili mo yong mga pagiging babaero mo
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong with you people? Kung laitin nyo ang bata wagas. Perfect ba kayo nuong 11 years old kayo? Dahil sigurado ako hindi kayo perfect ngayon.
ReplyDeleteWhy doesn't this letter sound like it was written by an eleven year old child? Mind you, I'm not a Derek fan, just wondering.
ReplyDeleteKung maka comment naman ang iba dyan, kung napaka sama ng ama bakit kelanhan itago sa bata? Di pa ba sapat na reason yung alam ng bata na di nagpapakita dad nya sa kanya? Na wala monetary support? Wala sa school events etc? Natural magtatanong ang bata sa mom nya, alangan pagtakpan pa. Kaya wag kayo mag comment na di napalaki ng maayos ang bata. Ang gusto nyo ata palakihin ng "maayos" sa kasinungalingan na mabuti ang ama nya
ReplyDeleteI am not with Jolly or to Derek pero mali ito sa bata, hindi maganda na idamay pa ito at magsulat ng ganitong bagay para sa kaso. Spare the kid.
ReplyDeleteTrue. What we write on paper, we write in our brain, our heart. This child has been betrayed by his parents selfishness and ignorance.
Deletethe child is 11 years old, hindi yan makakalaban, walang puwedeng mgfight ng kanyang karapatan at ruhts kundi yung kanyang nanay..kahit sabihin nating milyon ang hinihinge ng wife, kulang pa yan to raise a child.
ReplyDeleteTo those doubting the letter written by the child just because it seems well-structured considering his age, I could write essays and poems at the age of 9. Children have different intellectual development capacities and you obviously know nothing about it. He's just really emotional. I know how he feels because I grew up without a dad. It's normal to write or say those hurtful things given the circumstances he's been through.
ReplyDeleteBakit may mga nagdududa sa kapabilidad ng isang 11-ys old to write in English with "maganda ang grammar/semantics at composition"? At eleven, most Pinoy kids are expected to be able to express himself well in English. Di ba may press conference din sa grade school. I entered high school when I was eleven (albeit a few months na lang malapit na ako mag-12). Mangmang pa ang ganung edad? I think aware lang talaga say na matagal silang hindi in a-acknowledge ni Derek. He's old enough to read articles na hindi in favor kay Derek, like nung hindi sila hinarap noong 2010 after marelease ang result ng paternity test.
ReplyDeleteBrainwash galore! Grabe din tong ex ni derek
ReplyDeletei'm sorry but i don't buy it. an 11 yr old boy won't use such terms.
ReplyDeleteyung mga bata nga sa youngblood ng inquirer parang may phd pag nagsulat
DeleteWanna bet? Some kids are advanced compared to their peer. And he grew up in Dubai, educated there too at some point. The medium for teaching is English primarily in all subjects except Arabic and 2nd language of your choice. This kid is more matured in the sense that he grew up in expat culture.
Deletehambog kasi itong derek
ReplyDeleteIKULONG NAA!!
ReplyDeleteDito mo makikita yung pagpalaki ng Nanay malaking bagay talaga. Naaalala ko tuloy si Sharon Cuneta dati nung sinabi niya na hinding hindi niya sisirain ang imahe ni Gabby kay KC dahil she doesn't want KC to grow up feeling na kalahati ng pagkatao niya ay basura. It was mean to say that but she stayed true to her word. Look at how KC turned out?
ReplyDeleteTeh, Austin-Derek-Mary ang issue, hindi rin sila laking Pinas. Iba ang pagpapalaki ng bata sa ibang bansa. 11 na rin ang bata!!! Isip isip ka muna bago mag-type...
Delete1.42, ang point ni 1.28, yung pagpalaki ng nanay sa anak. Ginamit lang na example si Sharon kasi naman mukhang brainwashed si Austin at sobra ang hatred sa puso.
DeleteParang may mali dito @ 11 years old nakakapagsalita na ganun di kaya na brainwash yan!!! Sana nga lang hindi kawawa yung bata nadadamay sa away ng mga magulang.
ReplyDeleteImagine being in that kind of situation with the 11-year old son. He grew up not being recognized by his own father. The latter even didn't even believe that he was the father of the child from the beginning to think that he was the one fooling around. Derek should serve his lessons right. He thinks that he can get away with everything.
ReplyDelete#it's time
11 years old can even be more articulate than that.
ReplyDeletemy grand mom said..... ayan na... brainwash or not.. you judge.
ReplyDeleteMalas lang ni derek sa nanay ng anak nya.
ReplyDeleteKaya swerte ung mga iba na maayos magpalaki ng anak. Perfect ex Ms Sharon
wow! daming alam ng 11 years old ah. LOL
ReplyDeleteMalamang alamang pinasulat ng nanay mo yan noh? Daming alam ni ading.
ReplyDelete