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Wednesday, March 13, 2013

A Rare Gem

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In many ways, proper parenting continues to be a sticky subject. Raising kids is such a monumental task, requiring skills that have no manual or formal study. It just happens, and you are there to accept
and welcome it. Parenting these days often go by gut and feel. There are many parenting styles that parents adhere to, believing it will work effectively for their children:

Helicopter – Parents constantly interact with and often interfere with their children's lives. They hover like a helicopter.

Authoritative – “You live under my roof, you follow my rules!” Discipline is assertive, yet democratic and with reason. Parent is warm, nurturing, but still strict when necessary.

Permissive - Otherwise called as "lenient." This style is often evidenced by parents who try to be more friend than parent, avoid confrontation and are generally nurturing and communicative.

Authoritarian -Authoritarian parents believe strong, harsh discipline is the key to raising good kids. Research has shown that while children of authoritarian parents often perform well academically but they are more at risk of becoming adults with low self-esteem and poor social skills.

There are even parents who believe that parental authority does not stop when a child is 18, but only with marriage. Some kids fight hard to get out of it..

This has been Obedient Daughter’s OD predicament ever since she can remember. At her matured age, she thinks she would forever be a follower with no mind of her own – unless she does something to reverse it. She thinks she has become passive, and often, OD will rather not discuss her issues with her elders ( indeed, why bother if you are always wrong or ignored?).

At a recent musical event, OD had a role to fill in. Before the show started, OD and her co-stars were already called to sit down on their assigned tables. OD came in looking very sad with eyes that looked puffy from crying. One of the staff asked her why, OD just smiled said she was okay. But when it was another staff who was close to her approached and asked her, OD told her the truth. OD rejected and hated very much the outfit she was made to wear that evening. She had another preference but again, her elder was the one who chose for her and she had to follow – without question.

As usual, the elder does not prize anyone’s opinion but hers -- just hers alone.

Will OD finally come out stronger and unscathed from this ordeal - in this lifetime?

“Never let the hand you hold, hold you down.”

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222 comments:

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    1. Obvious naman na si S. Hindi bale sana kung maganda ang taste ni elder. Palabigasan na nga, inaabuso pa.

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    2. Pangarap daw kasi ni mader maging stylist!

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    3. I like S, but I pity her so much. My parents were controlling me at some point too, but I told them that I'm old enough to decide on my own, and hope they will trust me. Sana she will explain to her mom also her feelings. Proper communication lang talaga.

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  2. H***g event?...P b toh?

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    1. I love S so much. So much that I always find articles about her, I watched all her movies... And what makes me so proud of her is that she's a good daughter. Ang mabuting anak ay lubhang pinagpapala ng Dios. Mahal ka naman S.

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    1. Si Miss Minchin naman ang mudra niya! Poor Puff. Mentally abusive kasi si mother.

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  4. matic guess na, this is puffs. i just dont know what event.. i like her but i hope she fights for what she wants naman, tulad nyan, outfit lang si Elder pa rin masusunod? di naman siguro taas-slit outfit yung gusto nya.

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  5. P fOr P*in***s?

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  6. This is S! The recent musical event was HHPPLS. Her mom's too controlling. A kind of mom who will never listen to other people's say. Tsk. I feel bad for this girl.

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    1. I feel bad for her but she really should learn how to stand up for what she wants and believes in. when will she ever learn???

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    2. she will always be submissive all her life. She was brought up that way.

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  7. kung lovelife nga pinapakialaman ung pananamit pa kaya

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    1. correct ka dyan. sana for once mag decide si S for herself. Sya naman nagwowork diba. Sana she will have the courage to do what she likes. Tumatanda syang malungkot bec of her parents. Instead of enjoying her life, her salary, wala, parents lang nya happy. how selfish.

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  8. S. I think it's the parents' call now. If I'd be gifted with a very loving daughter, I'll treat her right. Just saying.

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  9. MP!! So sad. You can't really have everything. She should be living a great life now if her parents are not too authoritative.

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  10. Easy peasy! Ang M.P ito.

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  11. Move out na, darling. Ready k na!

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  12. Sa sobrang obedient na anak, inaabuso na ng nanay. But seriously hope she would find someone , a friend or boyfriend who would give her the courage and strength to fight for her right.

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    1. She doesn't need a man. Kailan ba papasok sa isip ng mga tao na ang babae, kayang maging independent on her own without a man supporting her. Mga Pilipino talaga, masyadong patriarchal.

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    2. Sabi niya friend "OR" boyfriend. Makareact ka naman. Mga pilipino talaga masyadong pakialamaro/ra.

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    3. Bitter naman! Parang galit na galit ka. Friend or boyfriend naman sabi ng commenter. And a good man in your life can also do wonders for you. Di naman ibig sabihin na if you have a man, dependent ka na sa kanya to the point that it's already delibitating.

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    4. sana she finds the strength within her. mahirap pag nagboyfriend siya na ganyan ang situation niya, magiging clingy, weak, asa lang siya. mas maganda ung mabuo muna niya sarili niya on her own at matutunan niyang mahalin, respetuhin at pahalagahan ang pagkatao niya bago pumasok sa isang relasyon. marami siyang issues na dapat maresolve otherwise, magiging miserable lang sila ni bf. it is possible na isa ring rason yan why she has this tendency to fall fast and hard sa mga leading men niya or guys na mabait na nakapaligid sa kanya... she's probably wishing for her prince. :( pero, kaya niya yan. tiwala lang kay God and sa sarili niya. :)

      pero sana may totoo siyang friends nto be there with her... o kaya, sana makakuha siya kahit .05% lang ng tigas ng mukha ni cr... pwede na yun to help her become bolder.

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    5. sorry, affected ako. i met her 6 years ago. ung ate niya kasi nagpagawa ng paper sa akin.. buti pa siya, she was nice enough to smile and ask me if i want some water. kaso si mamang, pinagalitan si girl for talking to me. i wish her the best.

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    6. single and waiting ka ba anon 1:34?

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  13. ipacheck si mudra kay dr. camille baka ma arrest pa. hahaa

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    1. Hahaha! Baka maihabol pa!

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    2. hahaha! i-face to face ni P si Mudrabels pr d lang si Dr. Camille ang makausap, Trio Tagapayo tlga kasama pa ang Pambansang Kapitana!!!

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  14. Definitely the goody image daughter everybody knows. My question is... how the hell can she survive her kind of lifestyle? I find it so boring. It must be very hard to live under a roof full of hypocrisy and laws, where nobody listens to you.

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    1. easy nasanay na siya eh, ang hirap nga naman pumili if at sake ang relasyon mo sa parents mo na sobrang love mo.

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    2. Sana makakita sya ng kaibigan na magpapalakas ng loob nya yung kakampi nyang matatawag yung di mapapamukha ng mudra nya na "ayan mali ka nanaman ng desisyon at napili" kaya the more na lumalakas ang loob ni mudrang rendahan sya

      fanney

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  15. kaloka xa na bumubuhay sa pamilya na dapat obligasyon ng parents nya tapos gnyan pa gagawin sa anak?kafal mukz!

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  16. A RAre GEm - okay sya nga to! si La*** ito

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  17. kalurks..basta may involve na mother si S na kaagad..sabagay usual suspect na ika nga..

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    1. basahin mo teh mabuti BI tapos ung title buong name nya nakasulat at mahahanap mo dun

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    2. buti nga sa knya!SHE DESERVES IT. hinahayaan nya kc gawin s knya iyak iyak nlng parati walang backbone!

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    3. buti nga sa knya!SHE DESERVES IT. hinahayaan nya kc gawin s knya iyak iyak nlng parati walang backbone!

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    4. Anon 1:02AM: "Buti nga sa kanya. She deserves it.:?! Wow.. Malaki galit mo sa mundo teh? Pati ang taong di mo personal na kakilala, ganyan ang sinasabi mo? I pity you..

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    5. @1:56 - Hoy! Wag kang makialam sa comment ni 1:02! Opinyon nya yan. Saka may point naman talaga siya. Bakit kasi hinahayaan ni S na ganyanin sya ng mga magulang nya eh malaki na sya. Pano sya matututo sa buhay kung halos palitan na ng magulang nya anino nya. Kung maka-kampi ka naman bestfriend mo si S teh??? o baka ikaw mama nya! kalerQUI ka! LOL!!!

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    6. Uod lang! walang backbone~ LoL

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    7. 10:46 Exactly te! Kelan kaya matututunan ni Puff na maglakad? Hanggang ngayon, crawling mode pa rin si Puff eh.

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  18. xa na ngtatrabaho para sa family nya wala man lng pakunswelo mga magulang nya tanda na ng anak nila may sariling isip na.konting hiya nmn sana sa ginawa nilang gatasan na dapat sana obligasyon nila kulang pa ba yun?

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  19. kaya pala xa lumaki na mahilig magparinig kc marami xang kinikimkim na di nya kyang sabihin sa taong gusto nyang sabihan ng sama ng loob kaya pagsumasabog nagpaparinig na lng xa kc d nya maprangka.nauunawaan ko pinanggagalingan nya.

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  20. If I were her I will get my own place and try to be independent, it doesn't mean naman na magrerebelde ka. Nakakasakal ng masyado ang parents nya, its a torture na yan. Sana bigyan naman ng konting kaluwagan ang idol ko, its for her own good too, npkabait pa naman nyang anak. Sana she will allow to have her own decision.

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    1. i agree. matanda na siya and she needs to spread her wings. kung maganda talaga pagpapalaki sa kanya, her parents dont have anything to worry about. :)

      hay, girl.. di pwedeng laging susunod ka lang. normal naman talaga na gustuhin ng kahit sinong magulang na mapabuti ang anak nila pero may mga bagay na you have to determine on your own. start defining yourself by knowing what you want and what you dont want.... food, clothes, etc.. even investments. unless you learn to stand up for what defines you, tama nga na wag ka muna magboyfriend. isa-isa lang. be the master of your ship first. trust yourself, kaya mo yan. masaya yong kontrolado mo buhay mo. :)

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    2. e pano kung si mudra ang may hawak ng pera? di ba allowance lang ata nakukuha nya?

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    3. korek! my cousin was her sister's classmate a few years ago. hindi nakakahawak ng pera si girl.

      internet nga pinapatay pag gagamitin nya, pera pa kaya? (re: Yes mag article, statement ni rc)

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    4. 11:28 Puff is the star. Unless stipulated sa contract, di ba sa manager mapupunta ang pera first or diretso sa kanya mismo? Hello, she's of legal age already, but it seems like she's acting like a teenager.

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  21. she deserves to be treated that way because she allows them.she doest want to be her own person then so be it

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    1. She allows them because she loves them. I don't think she deserves to be treated that way. I think the parents should be sensitive enough to know if their daughter is having a hard time.

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    2. I beg to disagree with you, no one deserves to be treated that way, masyado lang nyang mahal ang mga magulang nya na ayaw nyang bigyan sila ng sakit ng ulo or sama ng loob, kung ganyan ang anak ko, I would be very happy and blessed, iilan na lang kaya silang mabait sa magulang at hindi umasagot sagot ng pabalang, sana yung nanay na nya ang makakita na masyado na syang mahigpit! maawa naman sya sa anak nya na puro kabutihan na lang pinapakita sa kanila.

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    3. i so agree. pagtiisan nya yan kasi wala naman syang balak baguhin. or she doesn't see anything wrong with it.KASI MABAIT SIYANG ANAK. oh please.

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  22. Ugh! If i were you M.P, fire your elder! Continue to be a good daughter, but you need to stand on your own and decide for yourself. Respetuhin at mahalin mo pa rin elders mo..pero wag mo na silang hayaan sumama palagi sa work mo at lalong wag mo na silang hayaang makelam sa trabaho mo. Matuto lang manindigan para sa sarili mo.

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  23. Dear mother of S, you are not GOD. Bow.

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  24. Si Powerpuff P! Quota ka na te!

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  25. Sobra kana Mommy. Isa pa at ibabash na kita sa twitter.

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    1. my twitter b c mommy?

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    2. may twitter ba si mommy.monster mom..pati damit ..

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  26. problem is, she is also brainwashed by them. wala syang gagawin because she sees no wrong in how they are treating her.

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    1. Did you read the bi carefully? "This has been Obedient Daughter’s OD predicament ever since she can remember. At her matured age, she thinks she would forever be a follower with no mind of her own – unless she does something to reverse it. She thinks she has become passive, and often, OD will rather not discuss her issues with her elders ( indeed, why bother if you are always wrong or ignored?)."

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  27. Si Puff na naman! Kakaumay na lahat ng kaartehan mo sa buhay, te! Pwede ba, learn to stand up on your own and don't always run to your mommy when you need to do something? GROW SOME SPINE! I'm sure her fantard army will be here any minute. They're the very same people who will kiss her feet no matter what she does and tolerate all her bad traits.

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    1. bad trait ang pagiging good daughter para sayo? kawawa ka naman. kaartehan? i call it values. u shud learn some values in life. anyway, did she run to her mommy? i think it's the other way around.

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    2. Don't worry. Hindi naman kagaya mo ang Pster. Marunong kaming tumingin sa isang sitwasyon in an objective manner. May kakulangan si S dito pero higit na may kakulangan ang magulang niya. Anong klase akong fan kung dahil lang doon ay kamumuhian ko siya? Marami akong inidolo sa kanya para iwan siya dahil lamang sa sobrang buti niyang anak. :)

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    3. so yung pagiging OBEDIENT Daughter eh Bad trait na para sayo? grabe ka teh! in fairness BALIKTAD ata mundo mo, Idol ko pa rin sya kasi mabuti syang anak, ang mga magulang nya ang may problema, masyado na nilang inaabuso ang kabaitan ng anak nila.. Fan pa rin aketch :) sana nga yung mga junakis ko maging tulad nya na marunong rumespeto at magbigay galang :)

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    4. Ineng..ang daling magsabi na maging independent sya. pero dahil mula pagkabata ganyan na si mudra, paano? wala syang talagang close friend na matatakbuhan dahil hindi sya binigyan ng chance na magkaroon ng social life. masyado syang kinulong na kahit makawala sya, eh baka bumalik pa rin sa kanila dahil walang alam ang pobreng bata..dami nang gigil sa nanay na 'to. si tatay naman, hinahayaan lang na ganun. seriously, nakakaawa si MP :(

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    5. lahat ng sobra masama. sobrang pakikielam, sobrang pagsunod. mahal nya masyado parents nya to the point na she gives way. i think love God first, 2nd is love urself. wala namang magmamahal ng sobra sa sarili mo kung di sarili mo. sikat nga sya, daming pera, lungkot naman. whats the point.

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    6. ako naniniwala pag gusto may paraan. kung talagang gusto nya maging independent, magagawa nya yun. but i think she is scared of what other people would say like naku sinuway nya magulang nya, or naku nagrerebelde na sya. i think that she cant handle that.

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  28. Sobra sobra na ang pagiging STAGE MOTHER ni Mommy ha!

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  29. M.P... sureness... bagay sa kanya yung trendng topic kanina na #nakakaSAKALna. hehe

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  30. wawa naman. not!

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  31. Please naman l***a lumaban ka naman! Hindi na ko magtataka if 40 years old ka na eh cinocontrol ka pa din ng parents mo.

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  32. de susi si ineng.pati cguro pagpanty si mudra pa din nagdedecide.kawalang respeto.

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  33. Sino si puff and mp??? Clueless me!!!

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    1. Puff puff! Hahahahaha!

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  34. u dnt do that to me! ure fired mader!

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  35. wonder who that staff is he/she shouldn't be trusted..granting that this is true..showbiz talaga..pili lang pwedeng pagkatiwalaan..why even make big deal out of it

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  36. Ganito pa rin kya siya kahigpit kay S kahit maubusan nang pera si S?

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    1. i doubt it na mauubusan sya ng pera hahahahaha

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  37. Hay, si S ito! Psychologically, sobrang laki ng epekto nito sa kanya. Ngayon pa nga lang, nakikita na. Yung self esteem niya halatang mababa. Tingnan niyo kapag pinupuri siya, di siya nagtthank you instead tinatawanan lang niya kasi di niya alam yung mga strengths niya. weaknesses niya lang alam niya. kalerks.

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    1. Kaysa naman sa mga sobrang lakas ng hangin sa ulo tulad ni Time Giver or mga palengkera like A.

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    2. pag pinuri ka,a simple thank you is the best response,,pag nag-thank you hindi ibig sabihin mayabang ka na,,at tamah hindi ugali ni SG na mag-thank you kapag pinupuri siya.

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    3. 4:50 Yung parang pa-humble pa na "Oh no...di ko deserve yan, etc. etc." The most courteous way would have been saying a simple "Thank you", that's it. Siya mismo she's doubting her talent.

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  38. S. Nanay niya rin siguro ang nagpaalis sa kanya sa twitter kasi maaapektuhan ang "IKINONDISYON" nilang mindset niya ng mga iba't ibang opinyon sa twitter. Kaya nga din ayaw iwanan kasi baka may makausap ng "BAD INFLUENCE" at magrebelde. Pwede ko ba idemanda nanay niya? Hahaha. Kakainis eh.

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    1. nabasa mo teh yung Yes! interview ng mommy nya before? kung makapagsalita kala siya lang ang anak ng Diyos, bad influence lahat ng nakapaligid! sarap sabunutan ni mommy!

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  39. Depressing naman ang ganyang klase ng buhay. Wala ka ng karapatan magdesisyon para sa sarili mo. Ang hirap kaya na pamilya mo e hindi nakikinig sa sinasabi mo. Siguro mas positive pa ang magiging dating kapag nilayasan ni S ang pamilya niya. I dont think huhusgahan siya negatively for that. Madami pa nga yatang matutuwa.

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  40. only a matterof time before things unravel nd she ends up in a looney bin

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  41. nung time na nag break sila ni river. nag back read ako sa twitter ni singapore. mega twit sya ng love quotes.. sana ndi sy aumalis sa twitter, sana nailalabas nya pa ren ung sama ng loob nya gaya nuon. ty na lang kay kubeta at umalis sya sa twitter. hayy

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  42. Rare gem endangered species. Bago man mawala ang kinang at mapagod ang mga fans mo sa u at sa Nanay mo. Una sa pakikipagboyfriend, ngayon naman sa pananamit. Sayang ang gandang meron ka kung hahayaan mong imami obra ka ng Nanay mo. Seksi ka pa naman at medio matangkad kaso daig ka pa ni Kimi Dora pagdating sa fashion dahil hinahayaa mong mangyari itosa u.

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  43. Guys, mali kayong lahat. This is obviously Time Giver. Gusto nya daw kasi tupperware ang isuot nyang outfit para bagay daw sa kanya, pero pinagalitan sya ng nanay nya kasi sinabihan sya "Plastic ka na nga, plastic pa isusuot mo?"

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  44. i don't think this is S clues are too broad just because my mother na involve si S na kaagad?! pag si S normally description is talented performer or singer/actress.pero dito wala..pinaka clue na lang is the mother kaya si S kaagad.and besides maganda dress ni S that night eh a bit revealing pa nga eh, if the mother really intervened she would have worn something else na mas conservative.

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  45. Hinihintay kong maging 30 anyos na itong si anak at biglang humina ang market value nya at hindi na magatasan ng ina at magpapakapariwara na sya sa wakas. Para naman araw-araw eh umiyak sa pagsisisi yang mahadera nyang inang mukhang pera.

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    1. Mukhang imposible dahil next M ito. Alam mo yon, kahit abutin ng ilang dekada, yung worth niya ganon pa rin. Unless kagaya ni M, lumipat siya ng network at magwala sa twitter. Tingin ko nga politician din ang mapapangasawa ng batang ito. Opinyon ko lang.

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    2. 2:36 Ganun din ang sinasabi kay Nora noon, na her "market value" won't diminish. Look at how she is today, sure she has fans, but her fanbase is not as strong as it was. In every generation there will be someone to take another person's place in showbiz. It's the reality. Just like the subject of this BI, she may be at the top now, but she will slow down eventually. That's life teh!

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  46. Hay naku, hanggat may takot walang mangyayari, patuloy ang pang-aabuso. Wala ng pag-asa yang si P. Khit buong FP fans p ang mgsabi na gumising n xa, d p din nya mkikita ang nkikita natin....

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  47. Mama Cream Puff strikes again!

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  48. Siguro nga feeling ng nanay nya shunga-shunga yung anak nya sa pag decide ng mga bagay-bagay kaya nakadikta palagi. Walang tiwala sa anak. Pero infairness sa nanay, naisalba nya si daughter sa user na guy.

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  49. S? O yung the onewho lives in mendiola?

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    1. S. The one who lives in mendiola already found someone her parents would approve of.

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  50. The event happenef not in S?

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  51. Very obvious.. L****

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  52. feeling ko, kung meron pgrereklamuhan si S sa mga bagay na ganun ay yung mommy nya. Nkukurot-kurot nga nya mommy nya e. Like sa OwnShow guesting ng parents. When mom trying to expose G. At sa mga ayaw nya na small things like make-up, mom nya nsasabihan nya. Personality kc tlga nmn ni S na mahiyain, cguro dahil sa pgppalaki sa kanya at environment na knalakihan nya pero sa tingin ko si S yung tipong ilalaban sa magulang kung gusto nya tlga. ironic ba sinasabi ko? Feeling ko kc over lng ung write-ups sa family nya. Simpleng-simple nmn sila. Masyado lng namamagnify yung values at gngawa nila.

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  53. Si S! Sure na! :)

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  54. Si mudra nga naman.. Feeling kasi nya 15 years old lang si S. Kaloka.

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    1. kahit 15yrs old anak nya hnd parin tama un not unless too revealing ang gusto isuot ng anak nya pero i doubt nmn na ganun ung gusto ni S suutin

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  55. Parang nakatira lang sa UAE itong si S! Ang daming bawal! LOL. Kakaawa siya! Umalis ka na sa bahay ninyo! Turuan mo ng leksyon ang nanay mo nang matauhan na may sarili kang buhay. Susko!

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    1. UAE talaga teh? Saudi siguro... FYI, pwede kag maglasing at mag magbikini sa Dubai at Abu Dhabi!!!!

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  56. OMG If this is S; I officially HATE YOU MOMMY. Mommy at Daddy nya nag stop na mag work since super sikat na sha I hope u realize na ang anak nyu ang bread winner nyu.My god. give her a break. I HATE U I HATE U I HATE U MOMMY

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    1. matagal ko na hate yang MOMMY na yan!

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  57. hndi ba pwedeng mg-isip muna kayo bago manghula? I don't know who she is. But bka kasi mgkamali n nmn like nung 'did she give it to him?' na BI. All along akala si S yun pla si All Giver. Hnd lng nmn kc ang S ang may mudrakels na strict. Like Time Giver, vocal sya na controlled cla in terms of outfits. At ung event na sinasabi nyo ay mg-isa lng xang bata. Katabi nya si ibon-husband. Accdg sa Bi, prang my ksama siyang ksabayan nya. Un lng.

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    1. sino si ALL GIVER? time giver ? iisa lang ba yan?

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    2. naisip ko rin un pero kung pagbabasehan ko ung title ng BI masasabi kong si S tlg ito

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  58. grabe naman na nanay yan :(

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  59. M.P. ..so many "righteous" people everytime the BI is abt S

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  60. oh well the same old story! super nega na talaga this D.I. what if some day di siya matiis ni P? sana ma realize niya yung nasa huli ang pagsisisi..

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  61. nagmukhang matured sya sa gown nya nun event. Parang ang lakj ng tinanda nya kay kalansay sa mga pictures. Si mudra talaga!

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  62. Nasasakal na siya sana d sya simabog someday. I jopr and pray that she finds her own light but let her parents guide her and repect her decisions.

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  63. Pwedeng si S Ito, pero nakita ko suot niya sa event na yun,nagulat nga ako eh may pagkadaring ng kaunti, Kita ang cleavage, Baka naman baligtad ang iniisip natin, yun talaga ang gustong ipasuot ni mother at ang gusto ni S yung conservative style.

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  64. in fairness naman kay mommy na-save niya si S from playboy G

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  65. My mga designer at wardrobe naman sila di ba? My stylist naman si S kung siya man ito. If sa judging nyt ito, mas ngpakita nga siya ng skin dun, sexy S mga pictures nya. Nkkpgshort-shorts na rin nmn sya. At kht pwde nmn, siya rin ang ayaw mgpkita ng skin. Clues are so general, it can't be S. And i love her wardrobe nowadays.

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  66. She hides behind her smile. Sad sad eyes. I feel sorry for her. Hope someday i see her stand on her own. Be a confident woman and PLEASE fan of hers stop calling her "bata". She's almost 25.

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    1. Tama, fake yung giggle nya. Pinipilit lang nya pakita na okay sya. Poor woman.

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  67. Doesn't seem like it's S. S's dress that night was far more revealing compared to her previous attires. Unless of course, she wanted to wear a far less revealing dress. Online photos of her on the table does not show S with puffy eyes. It was said though that after that most publicized embrace both of them got teary eyed. TG just recently guested at a night talk show and her Mother was discussed. Tama nga FP uses a different description for S.

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  68. for what event was this???

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  69. I bet kung humiwalay si S sa kanyang magulang ang sasabihin na naman nagrerebelde na sya at pakawala na. Di natin alam kung ano or pano yung pamilya nila pag wala sa camera para husgahan natin sila. Masama ba maging masunurin sa magulang? Ang showbiz ay mundo na puno ng tukso kaya nga nagiisa si S kasi napapanatili nya yung values nya dahil na rin sa tulong ng magulang nya. Kung basehan yung nakikita natin sa kanila napakasimple ng pamilya nila pati magulang nya. Kaya sana wag na gawing isyu.

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  70. Juice koh, Powerpuff Gurl, kelan ka ba magigising?

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    1. i know. wawa naman si girl. superstar nga pero nakakulong sa kwarto.

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  71. Sino mas gusto nyo yung isang singer na d makontrol ng nanay at iniba na yung itsura nya o etong isa na masunurin pa rin at nirerespeto pa rin magulang?

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    1. this kind of reasoning is so funny. as if there are only two things you can be....

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    2. anon 7:15 AM you can respect your parents without letting them take control of your life. you can only respect others if you respect yourself. S, don't let anybody, even your parent, dictate what's good for you. you should know what's good for you. anong klaseng tao ka kung hindi mo alam kung ano ang tama o mali para sa iyo? speak up. stand up for yourself. let your voice be heard. kung di mo kaya, wala kang karapatang maging coach.. ano gagawin mo, mamandohan mo ang mga contestants kung ano dapat gawin samantalang ikaw di mo magawa mga gusto mo? yung nanay mo na lang kaya paupuin mo sa panel? tseeeh

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  72. i remember, Raymond Usher's manager was his mom until he fired her... They're still close though...

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    1. Usher Raymond, teh. Last name ang Raymond.

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  73. she is of age. she can very well decide for herself. she should stop using the "i'm a good daughter" act and start standing for herself. her issues with her parents are getting old and tired. she should give it a rest. only she can do something about it.

    as the old adage goes, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen! if you can't get out, shut up and burn!

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  74. C'mon S, move out of the house. You have more than enough money to live on your own.

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  75. sadly, you are a battered child psychologically/emotionally ija! don't you know or feel that? you'll have very poor EQ at dadalhin mo yan ija hanggang pagtanda mo. grow up girl!

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  76. Si S ba talaga Ito, imposible kasi na pahbawalan pa Siya ni mudra, di ba yung dati niyang show nakakapagsuot na nga Siya ng sexy, nakakapgshorts pa Siya at may sexy performances pa sya.

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  77. It is her own fault because she doesn't have a mind of her own and she is spineless.

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  78. nakakatawa lang kasi sa mga hindi public figures na tao, yung mga normal everyday people, eh hindi na bago ang ganitong set-up na family. madami sa filipino families ang may ganitong strict parents, mapa-mahirap man o mayaman, nothing new. na-mamagnify lang dahil mga celebrities ang involve. pero karamihan sa filipino familes eh ganitong values ang sinu-sunod.

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    1. Her pristine values are not being questioned here po. they are commended pa nga. pero yung pagdidikta and not being able to do what she wants (which in my opinion aren't wild by any stretch of the imagination,hello, dress na nga lang)...yun yung odd here.

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    2. Kahit groceries niya, siguro kailangan pang ipagpaalam kay Mommy!

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  79. she wanna be a princess ayan prinsesa na talaga sya... diba pag rinsesa ka dami bawal??? lol

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  80. i was one of di's critics. but so far, she's proven right in her decisions, esp. concerning men. maybe she has a direct line to God. if you think about it, DAMIT lang yon. i mean how many times have we ordered a gown we didn't like. sure we cry but we still pay right? i mean it's the same. sometimes you do what's mature. dapat ba magwala or magalit? or magrebelde? sa wedding industry nga if you make a scene over a gown tinatawag agad bridezilla. yon iba nga jan, they have to wear ill fitting clothes/borrowed/tattered clothes for lack of funds, lack of clothes etc. it's just our society who likes to teach everyone to rebel. rebels without a cause.

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  81. Ang BEATRICE sa totoong buhay! Haha! Grabe na yan ah! Hindi matututo yung anak nya kung ganyan sya ng ganyan.

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  82. i dont like all these comments, hindi maganda na magrebelde sa magulang unless kung binubugbog ka nila, lasenggera sila, etc., siguro i would have the same comments if i were younger pero parents are mostly always right & everyone of us would've been better off had we followed our parents' advise, sana wag sya magbabago, just look at where she is now, she wouldn't be there w/o having those kinds of parents (or mom), she has a stable career na panaginip lang ng iba, hindi naman siguro masyado pinakikialaman ang lovelife, nagka-ex nga sya ng lalaking napakalayo sa level nya, ung manliligaw naman nya na pumatol sa isang cheapipay ngayon eh hindi naman worth it to rebel against her parents for, she is too young to give up her parents & everything just for a useless guy, she has everything she needs right now, hope she will always have a sound mind, wala akong prob sa outfits nya, sobrang admired ko nga sa concert nya super ganda ng mga damit pero hinding-hindi sya masisilipan, walang bahid ng kalaswaan, tamang-tama lang pero super mga bongga

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    1. the thing is....this is HER LIFE. not theirs. the fact that she has felt miserable time and time again with the choices made by her parents FOR HER....is very telling. and NO SHE DOESN'T HAVE EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS.

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    2. Standing up for what you want, even in simple things IS NOT BEING A REBEL. Masama ang maging too submissive, especially at her age. She's almost in her mid-twenties! Yes, she has her parents to thank for, for being supportive, etc. pero ultimo ba naman yung susuotin sa stage, dapat may approval pa ni Mommy? I don't think the dress was sl*t*y naman ah, in fact, I don't think her manager will let her wear something bastusin at all. Holding a vice grip on her daugther's neck will surely rebound on Mommy later.

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  83. Di ba niyo naiisip na kaya di pa nagiging pakawala itong babae is because andyan ang mother niya para i-guide siya?naisip niyo ba na sa present generation of people in their mid-20's still behave like retards kaya di puedeng pabayaan ng mga magulang ng ganun lang?oo andun na ako na minsan sobrang protective ang parents niya pero come to think of it, this girl whoever she is is in a good place right now.she may be too sheltered at some point pero she is not missing anything outside of that shelter.napaka dumi ng showbiz, na kung di ka marunong magrenda ng sarili mo magiging patapon ka eventually tulad ng marami diyan.she may not realize it now but she is lucky indeed.

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    1. haha. she's not even allowed to go out without a chaperon. is that NORMAL? how is that healthy for a woman her age tell me.

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    2. to each his own, i bet mas gusto n'yo ang pakawala na tulad ni banyo at kakanin...MADUMI ang showbiz, ayaw ng elder mabahiran ng ganyang dumi ang obedient daughter...nakaka-proud ka, OD... walang masama maging masunuring anak!

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    3. well that is normal for someone so famous... im not a fan but she had a show somewhere na she couldnt even get out of the car because theres too many people waiting for her to get out. just saying. and she is a famous perai
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    4. gusto lang ng freedom every individual deserves....gusto na agad pakawala?? what shallow thinking.

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    5. Walang masama sa pagiging submissive? Duh! Oo, madumi ag showbiz, pero as someone who is already in her 20s, I believe she has already the discernment of what is right and wrong. I won't be surprised if kahit sa brand ng sanitary needs niya, sa Mommy pa rin ang pumipili.

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  84. this is overblown. parents are just being parents. she's in showbiz not in real world. cut some slack people

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  85. the key is balance. whether nasa showbiz or regular world.

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  86. raise an obedient daughter, like this elder does. bawasan ang INGGIT sa katawan, nakamamatay!

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    1. ay baket may GABRIELA dito?

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    2. pray do tell how is this about inggit?

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  87. i love S i really realky do and i pray na she gets d freedom she deserves. i want her to be able to be fully happy and she cant be if mrs D wont let her free... she is turning 25 she needs to be free from all this hindrance kasi sa growth and she cant fully grow kung hindi hahayaan. maybe its hard for them to let go of their baby but they should also realise na a little freedom wont hurt. S is a very good person she knows her limits and if they dont let her god knows what she will do pag dumating ang panahon na hindi na nya kayang madiktahan.

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  88. mas MONSTER MOM pa to sa orig na monster mom! at least si Bisaya hindi sinasakal ang mga anak. grabe tong nanay ni S! gnagawa nang gatasan ang anak tapos kulang na lang ikadena!

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  89. Yung mga galit sa nanay ay yung may gusto na maging sila ni B. Galit sila sa nanay dahil natuklasan ang baho ni B. In the guise of being concerned for S welfare yung iba inaadvice na humiwalay na si S sa magulang para makaladkad na sya ni B kahit saan. 

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  90. bless this child. i hope she will be able to move out and away from her horrible mother.

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  91. masyadong OA mga nagcocomment against MD dito...

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  92. bottomline - they don't trust her enough. some upbringing huh?

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  93. her respect for her parents is one factor that makes her admirable but, i guess being too much submissive isn't good as well. i guess she should make a move like moving out of their house and getting a unit of her own to give herself some space and life as well.

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  94. Hay... Nakakaawa naman si S

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  95. She has no one to blame but herself. She holds up all the aces (money), pero she can't even capitalize on that leverage. Hello malaki ka na noh! Sometimes u have to let them see reality, no matter how harsh it is! Forever duwag, just because she is ur mom doesn't mean she is always right! Set some boundaries girl! Dont tell me kahit makipags*x ka anjan dn ag mudra mo....kakaloka! Haha walang privacy! -- coco paminta 

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    1. Wag maging super judgmental. Mahirap baguhin ang nakasanayan na. She does not know what's on the other side of the fence kasi na shield s'ya masyado, and maybe change is a scary thing for some people. Nakakainis nga na she is supposed to be old enough to stand on her own but she still can't. We also can't fully blame her kasi she was programmed to depend on her mother. Maybe even brainwashed to think she can't make right choices on her own.

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  96. sana she finds the strength within her. mahirap pag nagboyfriend siya na ganyan ang situation niya, magiging clingy, weak, asa lang siya. mas maganda ung mabuo muna niya sarili niya on her own at matutunan niyang mahalin, respetuhin at pahalagahan ang pagkatao niya bago pumasok sa isang relasyon. marami siyang issues na dapat maresolve otherwise, magiging miserable lang sila ni bf. it is possible na isa ring rason yan why she has this tendency to fall fast and hard sa mga leading men niya or guys na mabait na nakapaligid sa kanya... she's probably wishing for her prince. :( pero, kaya niya yan. tiwala lang kay God and sa sarili niya. :) I SOOOO AGREE WITH YOU. RIGHT, SUPER BILIS MA-INLOVE NI S SA MGA LEADING MEN NIYA. I REMEMBER BEFORE, BETTING NA SHE WOULD FALL FOR W.GUY, AND NANGYARI NGA. BASTA MAKASAMA LANG NIYA NG MATAGAL, NAIINLOVE AGAD SIYA. :P S IS WEAK AND VULNERABLE. PARTLY FAULT NI MADER. BUT IT'S S BODY. KUNG TALAGANG AYAW NIYA, GAGAWA SIYA NG PARAAN.

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  97. Ibon man may layang lumipad kulongin mu at umiiyak!!!!hahaha parang beatrice lng ang peg?buti at nkapag isip to be independent.omg ikaw na ngppakahirap mgwork pra sa family yung family happy eh sya lonely.grrrrrr!

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  98. Sa sitwasyon ni Puff, siguro magiging matandang dalaga to. Girl, you don't need your mommy to tell you kung sino dapat ang tinitibok ng puso mo. Sure, you can go to your parents for advice, pero yung didiktahan ka pa kahit sa anong susuotin? Kaloka! I'm sure naman your wardrobe managers won't let you wear like what Anne Curtis did during her ASAP bday prod. Kung di naman bastusin, then insist on what you want. Learn to stand up to what you want. It is not disrespectful to your parents. Maglagay ka ng limit. Ikaw rin, tatanda kang bitter.

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  99. freedom = pakawala. then we live in a sad, sad society. showbiz man yan o hindi.

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  100. oo nga ndi ko type ung sinuot ni S sa isang event na may award sya.. ung pink ung suot nya. parang ang init at hanggang bukong bukong ang damet... yayy

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  101. wawa naman. sad pala siya nung night na yun. buti na lang nandun si bff to hug

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    1. wawa ka nmn! ang sadness ng ibang tao ang nagpapasaya sayo! haha get a life :)

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      your pathetic idol should get a life. self inflicted naman yung kalungkutan nya. siya lang makakapagpabago ng buhay niya wala nang iba. so bahala sya kung desisyon niyang maging malungkot habang buhay magpakaalila sya sa pamilya nya basta andito lang ako to remind her to grow some spine. di na sya 12 years old no pa-manang na nga sya eh.

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  102. pwede ba??? asikasuhin nyo ang mga buhay nyo!!! wag kayo comment ng comment dito, panay pa ang bash nyo sa best friend ever and forever amen ko!!!!!!! ------- K

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    1. hihi...i love you bff. thank you sa support.

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    2. echosera tong dalawang to...-love your ex BFF

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  103. I hope some friend will be brave enough to convince her that its time to be independent. The thing is all her life dependent siya sa family nya kaya takot sya. I know unti unti kakayanin nya yan. Di ba recently she went to B*a**l with K so baka this year naiiba na yan.

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    1. shokot lang si mommy d kay mega kaya pumayag na sumama si s kay k sa brazil. pag hindi kasi siya pumayag para na rin niyang sinabing bad influence si k. im sure nagdasal ng kung ilang gabi yan si mommy d na makaisip ng excuse para wag pasamahin ang anak kaya lang wala na siyang maisip. lol

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  104. Hay naku! Si S lang ang makaka solve ng problem nya. Ano ba ang dahilan at di cya makapalag sa nanay nyang controlling? Di naman cguro masamang mag reason out paminsan minsan sa nanay nya. Tutal cya naman bumubuhay sa pamilya nya. Mahina lang cguro loob ni S or sadyang mabait cyang bata! Pero nakaka irita na pagiging mabait nya. Hay! 

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    1. correction pls, nakaka irita ang nanay nya.full stop!

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  105. Before inis ako sa nanay nya kasi laging nangingialam sa lovelife ng anak nya pero at some point medyo ok na rin sa nangyari ngayon at least naiwas sya sa lalaking d naman talaga sincere sa kanya. Ang dali nyang nagGive up kay popsicle kaya naman pala dahil may ipapalit na sya na d sya mahihirapan sa kakanin na ito

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  106. over nman mga ngcocoment dito. Parang kung anong ifeed ng mga tabloid, bi at chika ay basta-basta na lng ppaniwalaan. Hndi nmn mla-teleserye buhay nila na puro pagdidikta, sampalan at dramahan. Naniniwala pa rin ako na kpag si S ay may gustong ipaglaban, ipapaglaban nya. Hndi naman siya katulad ng akala na iba na sunod na lng ng sunod. Matalino si S, kaya nyang mgstand.

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  107. mother knows bleed. este knows best kasi!!!!

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  108. sa totoo lang wala naman talaga tayong alam... kahit sa BI na to ni hindi natin alalm kung totoo to, kunghalf truth or gawa gawa lang...

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