Some people shouldn't be having children talaga. Kahit tanggapin pa ang mga beks ng chosen family nila at ng large part of society, yung trauma na sarili mong magulang reject who you are is a trauma na malalim nang nakabaon sa isang tao. Proven na na hindi naman kayang baguhin ng bakla ang mga sarili nila, they are born bakla and they will be bakla forever, so anong point na pasakitan ang anak sa bagay na wala siyang control? Anong point to pressure them to stay in the closet so you as a parent do not feel uncomfortable? Sana, naiisip ng mga tao to bago sila maganak.
I have a nephew who is gay. And while the parents have been nothing but supportive- I have cousins, aunts and uncles who are very judgmental and homophobic. Kaya ok lang na malayo pamangkin ko at laging wala sa family gatherings, I don't want him around such toxic relatives.
Wow 7.17. Shouldn't be parents agad kasi di matanggap na gay ang anak? Pwede naman mahal at inaruga ang bata pero di tanggap kasi mali sa mata nya at mata ng Diyos. Di porke anak kelangan mo tanggapin ang sa paniniwala mo mali. Love, and let him live his life. Respect his choice. Let him grow to the person he wants to be. But parents do not have to bend their morals and beliefs for what they think and believe is wrong. Daoat lng dyan respect. Respect from parents na anak eh gay and he has to live his life. Respect from the child that his lifestyle is not in line with the parent's moral and belief. Live and let live. At bago kayo magalit, share ko na. Gay ang kapatid ko and police ang tatay na minister sa church at active sa Catholic ang nanay ko. Di tanggap ang kapatid ko. Pero di naman iba Turing sa kanya. Un lang, di xa nagbabakla pagmagkasama kami pamilya. Di rin nagdadala ng boyfriend nya. Nakakabisita ng walang problema. Parents ko naman di nagsasalita at nakikialam sa lovelife nya. Ok naman kami. So wag agad not allowed to have kids.
1:08 And you think masaya yung kapatid mo sa ganyang patingi tingi na acceptance? Na you only welcome him pag minimeet niya yung certain conditions pero pag hindi na e iba na ang magiging trato? Wake up.
1:08 so proud pa kayo? kung tanggap niyo walang limitations kasi anak/kapatid pa din yan regardless kung anong gawin niya basta hindi nakakatapak ng iba then go. hindi ko gets yung tanggap niyo kuno pero binigyan niyo ng boundaries yung tao. hindi ko gets kung bakit pagdating sa sarili niyang pamamahay kailangan niyang controlin yung actions niya diba dapat mas may freedom siya sa inyo kasi kayo ang safest place niya? parang ikaw lang yan, tsismosa ka pero proud devoted christian yung pamilya niyo. ironic lang diba. lol
Partly agree with 1.08 to live and let live. Medyo hypocrite lng kasi tinotolerate nyo pa rin naman kapatid mo. Kung sunod talaga kayo sa relihiyon, dapat yung mali eh mali at bawal ay bawal. Hinahayaan nyo sa mali at wala kayong ginagawa kundi tolerate sya eh di epokrito tawag sa inyo.
Amo bang meron na kelangan mo pang ireveal na I lied in an interview blahblha, bakit sikat ka ba para ibigdeal mga ireveal mo? Ang ooa kala mo hihinto mundo pag nagreveal. Ikaw lang me paki no!
Laki mg galit mo. Inano ka ni andrei? Eh yung nanay nya unang nagpost. Pinagtakpan na nga nya sa naunang interview nya eh. Tapos biglang post yung nanay. Di pala sya tanggap talaga.
Napansin ko sa generation ngayon masyadong ginawang personality and gender nila. Growing up, I have friends of all genders pero di naman sila mga pa-special snowflake. Walang need for validation.
6:23 oh my god it's the nanay kasi ang nag post nang ganyan kaya siguro napa amin na lang din yong tao. If you read some of the comments. Ramdam ng mga tao na nakabasa yong pagiging passive-aggressive nung post.
725 mga artista ba friends mo? si andrie ininterview, initriga at sumagot. eh yong nanay naman ayan nagpost kaya naman nagpost din si andrei to clear that interview na ansabi nyang nag lie lang pala sya don. sa tingin mo kung walang nag.iinterview sa kanya eh magsasalita yan? dyeske esep esep din noh!
Pampam din talaga tong batang to. Di sumikat to kasi mayabang di pa nag uumpisa nagyabang na. Nawala group mo at di sinuportahan kasi nag uumpisa palang mayabang na. Ngayon sa drag naman pero di pa nag uumpisa pa controversial agad.
7:25 true. gen z generation may pagkaentitled. My nephew one time said dapat lang na gastusan siya dahil anak siya. While that’s true, yung lack of gratefulness and appreciation sa magulang ang nakakawindang.
5:26 and 12:35 te hindi ako kasapi ng gen Z huh pero pansin ko sa mga naunang generation tayo yung dahilan bakit mahirap ang Pinas, expressive lang ang mga bata pero mas may utak sila mataas lang ego natin kasi hindi natin tanggap na mas may utak sila and also to 12:35 nasa pagpapalaki yan so kasalanan pa din ng magulang bakit naging ganyan ang bata.
5:26 I am actually not a Gen Z - just someone older with a gay brother who I will defend for the rest of my life from closet homophobes like you and 7:25.
7:25 5:26 13:35 I TOTALLY AGREE!!! Yung feeling nila ikinatalino nila mga nasasagap nilang wokeness sa social media pero in reality, halatang hindi naman talaga nila alam pinagsasabi nila. Mga unoriginal thinkers. Gaya gaya lang sa mga influencers who also doesnt know what they are doing.
Forever nang may ganitong usapin. Para sa bata, it’s simply a matter of ‘hindi ako tinatanggap…’ pero naiintindihan ko din ang bawat magulang. Kung wala kang ‘faith’, hindi mo talaga ito maiintindihan.
1 Samuel 16:7 7 But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
I'm an atheist now but I grew up religious. I used to believe in heaven and hell and iba talaga 'yung takot for you and your family to imagine na may possiblity na at least one of you will go to hell because of their action, whether dahil sa malaking sin or just for as simple as not being close enough to the Lord. It sometimes keep me up at night
I understand both of their sentiment. It sucks lang na mukha namang both of them mean well and their concerns are genuine but they're just not in the same page and never will, unless piliin ni Izzy babaan ang faith niya.
Sa bible kasi, only a man and woman created but it doesnt you cant love your neighbour for who they truly are. Ay ewan ko sa inyong super religious people, super closeminded nyp. U only believes whats beneficial for you.
Religion is the root of all evil. Oh right evil is not real just like heaven and hell. It was all made for you to believe, to be scared and to be controlled. Dahil sa turo ng religion hindi nya tinanggap anak nya bilang kung sino talaga sya. Whereas kung pagmamahal lang paiiralin, ang healthy sana ng relasyon nila at growth nung bata.
Pero dapat di na nagpost si izzy ng ganyan. Dapat within the family na lang. Kontodo takip pa ung bata na nakasupport sa kanya tapos biglang may paganyan.
To clean her image. Baka ayaw nya masabihan na tinotolerate nya anak nya sa ganyang gawain kasi nga daw eh christian daw sya 🙁 she did it for herself not for her son…
What do you mean he is lost? I have a gay brother who is achieving well in school, a responsible child to my parents, and a wonderful sibling. You can be gay and be even better than most humans. She needs to be in therapy for her to understand that the mindset she has an impact to her child.
My gay as* self is supporting my pamangkins, brought my parents to Europe for a vacation, and bought a house for them — buti hindi ikaw magulang ko. Hindi namin need ng therapy, vaklang twoah.
Before po sia magpakasal , umalis sia sa sexbomb Nung naging christian sila.so clearly nagcocomment lang yung iban Ng walang ka alam alam,Nung nasa sexbomb pa sia hindi pa sia christian. Nung nagkakilala na sila ni Alvin Aragon , Yun na yung umpisa Ng pagiging christian and before sia magpakasal,Wala na sia sa sex bomb and Nung pinag guest sia sa Isang show sa channel 2 tinangihan nio yung guesting kasi gusto pang sex bomb yung outit which is alam Ng production na converted na sia as born again Christian.
Nakakasad yung ganito. Ang hirap kasing mag-judge. We don't exactly know kung ano para sa Diyos ang mga gay people. Of course, they are His children pero meron kasing nakasulat sa bibliya. Yun nga lang, mahirap din iinterpret ang bible. May mga madaling unawain, meron din namang malalim.
you really think God wants people to become straight even though they are really gay? being gay js not a choice, and that is a scientifically proven fact God would want you to be compassionate and understanding sa choices ng mga mahal mo, di naman yan crime maging bakla.
Exactly. Yung mga straight people dito, did you CHOOSE to be straight? Hindi diba? Ganun lang talaga. You were born that way. Same thing with gays/trans. Tbh, knowing how cruel the world is towards lgbt, why would one even choose a life of misery? Kaso wala eh, ganun talaga. They were born that way.
Sana hindi na pinost ni Izzy para hindi na naging public spectacle. In a way, napahiya lang yung anak niya. They could have dealt with it privately. It's one thing na hindi niya suportahan, karapatan niya yun bilang nanay lalo kung magkaiba sila ng beliefs, pero to make it public para niyang pinagalitan anak niya sa harap ng maraming tao. Mas lalo lang lalayo ang loob sa kanya.
7:04 mas masakit na di sya tanggap ng Nanay nya at mas masakit kasi Di rin sya tatangggapin ng mapanghusgang society. Sadabihin na di ka nga tanggap ng sariling kong ina kami pa kaya. Di ba Izzy mas masakit yun?
matanong ko lang san ba napapanood yang drag drag queen na yan? hahahaha until now di ko knows na may mga ganyan. nalaman ko lang ang drag queen nun kay luka. hahahaha... at nong ginagawa sa mga ganyan? pabonggahan ba ng make up and props? parang anime costume mga ganun?
May anak din akong gay. As a parent, kung mababago pa ang preference nya, sana mabago pa. Di sa di ko sya tanggap, natatakot ako na lokohin lang sya ng kapwa nya. Pero pinapakiusapan ko sya na sana yong refined na kilos lang para irespeto pa din sya ng mga makikitid ang utak.
Yung ka work ko din dati, super religious family nila. Then nung nag out sya, yung tatay nya tinakwil sya, ang sabi sa kanya, bahala ka na sa gusto mo gawin, basta ang isipin mo di ka pupunta sa heaven. Yung nanay nya na depress di nya matanggap na hindi mapupunta sa heaven anak nya. Basta ganun ang sinaryo. Kakaloka.
Imagine having gay friends but not actually accepting your son’s identity? She kept emphasizing her faith to the point that she’s willing to let it stain their mother-son relationship. I don’t think that’s how it works, Izzy. If your view is coming from a religious perspective, go back and read the stories in the Bible how different people were accepted despite having sinned. Being gay is not even a sin. In the long run, you will regret doing this. You will realize that no matter how mad you get, he is what he is and that won’t change. You are only creating a rift.
Ibang klase talaga ang generation ngayon, porket "im sustaining" akala mo kung sino ng mapag-mataas sa magulang. May kalalagyan kang bata ka. Makita mo.
Of course. Here in Norway, children’s rights are even supported and that includes their right to express themselves and their right to freedom. Backward thinking lang sa Pinas. “May kalalagyan” ka pa dyan.
8:54 ay bakit anong mali dyan? kung hindi bida bida yung nanay considering na pinagtanggol na siya nung anak sa unang interview sana nanahimik siya diba? wala na pala sa puder niya yung bata. yan ang problema sa ibang magulang, sariling pagkakamali ayaw mapuna. naging magulang lang inilagay na sa pedestal ang sarili? tanggap tanggap din minsan na may sariling utak at decision sa buhay ang anak. kung ayaw mabastos wag babastusin kahit anak mo pa yan ganun lang yun! sus
Nakakalungkot na isang gay icon ang nanay pero masyadong naging homophobic ang naging statement nya. Naiintindihan ko naman na siguro nahihirapan syang tanggapin initially pero sana as a mother sya unang-unang tatanggap sa anak nya.
mukhang mahal nmn nila ang isat isa. May kanya knyang paniniwala lang. Sa bandang huli respeto lang naman ang kailngan ng bawat tao kahit magkakaiba ang tinitignan.
Izzy .I think magkaedad tayo I also have a 16yr old bi child whom I accept. We just agreed that he can only have relationship pag responsible adult na sya. I love my bi son to bits also. 5 yrs ago I gave birth to a stillborn child. I will give anything to spend time w my lost baby. Time is short .Just hug Andrei now
As if naman napaka pure ni mother ano? Sexy dancer ka nga eh na ang purpose ay buhayin ang dugo ng mga kalalakihan tapos ngayon may pa bible quotes eme...kalurks
Nakakapagod na yung ganito lagi tatakbo sa bibliya para mag cherry pick ng trip niyang verse. Dzai Izzy, sinple lang yan. Do not do to others what you dont want others to do to you. Love and kindness. Napakasimple.
Itong si Izzy kala mo hindi gumiling giling sa noontime show na halos walang damit. Malinis ka girl? Judge pa more! Sariling anak pa talaga. Nakakaloka ka!
Ako tanggap ko anak ko kung gay sya pero diko ata kayang makitang nagdadamit babae sya. Kaya naiintindihan ko rin naman ang pakiramdam ni Izzy. I dont know, parang di ko talaga keri. Of course susuportahan mo na lang din pero deep inside, ayaw kong umabot sa ganyan sana.
Ako din mars as much as I would like to tolerate it hindi ko kaya makita anak ko na magdamit babae at nakakolorete. Parang dagok sa dibdib ko nayan. Sabi ko gawin nalang nya pag wala na ako sa mundo.
You both are ridiculous 11:24 at 12:06. You are the fvcking adults but yung child niyo pa ang hinahanggad niyo to tiptoe around your feelings? Dagok sa dibdib at hindi kero that your kids dress a certain way? Unbelievable.
I get ur point. Pero di mo naman siguro ipopost sa facebook para dumugin ng mga religous hypocrites ang anak mo diba? Yun ang problema sa kanya. Kung di nya kayang manahimik, eh di sana nagusap na lang sila mag ina privately.
Kasi mali!!1:47. Anong taon na pero ayaw padin naton magexpress yung mga bata. Mga boomer mindset. Kung wala namang tinatapakang tao, what’s the big deal? A lot of gaya and trans and drag queens I know are some of the biggest breadwinners ng family nila and all out kung magmahal ng pamilya basta tanggap sila.
12:23, which part did i mention in my post that my kids have to tiptoe around my feelings? Di mo ba nabasa na i said susuportahan ko pa rin naman kahit deep inside ayaw ko sanang umabot sa ganun. Who are you to invalidate my feelings din? I am entitled to have my own feelings din sa ganyang sitwasyon. But if my child should ever desire to cross dress, alangan namang bubugbugin ko? Masyado kang reaksyunista wala naman sa katwiran. You are putting words in my mouth.
12:23 grabe naman maka react baks. Lol! Based sa reaction mo mukhang di ka accept ng mga magulang mo. Wala namang masama sa sinabi ni original poster. Syimpre nanay yan intindihin mo rin na may pakiramdam din naman yan. Im a lesbian at kahit nakikita ko namang suportado ako ng mama ko pero nararamdaman ko pa rin yung lungkot nya lalo na nung nag decide akong makipag live in with my gf. Inintindi nya ako at inintindi ko rin yung lungkot nya sa mga nangyari. Kasi alam ko na hindi ito ang gusto nya for me lalo na at only child ako. Pero she she still lets me be. Agree to disagree baks. Di yung gusto natin tayo lang iniintindi palagi rin kasi tayo ang mga anak. Gusto natin tanggapin tayo pero tayo naman tong ayaw tumanggap at rumespeto sa opinion and pakiramdam ng iba. One way street yarn?
9:28 you are funny. Within the same post you were just saying na hindi mo kaya at wag sana umabot sa ganun, when it was never about you in the first place and you don't have to do anything but let your child be and not dread or hate what they could become. Mas mabigat that you don't outwardly show it, but deep inside, you reject him. And you know what, your child probably fvcking knows what you are thinking--refer to 10:06's comment.
10:06 I'm a cis woman what are you talking about. Also, my point is, there is never a two way street because iba ang dynamics ng magulang at anak. For a big chunk ng buhay ng mga anak ang magulang ang adult sa dynamics na yun. The parent is also the one who chose to have kids, and it is dreadful that they don't even consider the possibility of having gay kids and try to either supress them, or reject them subconsciously after they discover the fact...instead of thinking ahead of time if they should be parents if they have certain biases and hatred that they may direct towards their kids in the name of hypocrisy. This also doesn't completely apply to gay children, but children who may end up pursuing career paths that parents reject, children with disabilities, etc. Madaming pinoy ang niroromanticize yung parental rejection and I just feel strongly about it because I work with these types of cbildren na bunga ng ganitong parenting.
For people who are commenting that Izzy should not have made her disapproval public, they probably don't know that Izzy is serving in the kids' ministry in her church. Therefore, the parents of these children trust her to teach their kids Christian values. If they start to believe that Izzy is supportive of a lifestyle that goes against the teachings of Jesus, that trust would be broken and Izzy would have to step down from her ministry.
Wtf. Mas matimbang pala ang mga strangers na ito sa kaligayahan ng anak, na ni hindi nga niya sinusupprtahan financially. Filipino parents really are pathetic.
Pathetic filipino parents mas matimbang pa yung kung ano sasabihin ng ibang tao kesa sa buhay ng anak. A good parent would step doen from that ministry role.
Teachings of jesus? Mas tama yatang sabihin "the group's interpretations" of the teachings of jesus. Because jesus' teachings is about love, mercy, compassion. Love your neighbor as you love yourself diba.
11:26 1:36 kayong dalawa should probably get your priorities straight and be educated more about LGBTQ people. wag nyo nang isali ang dios sa usapan. tanungin nyo na lang ang mga sarili nyo, ano at sino ba ang mas importante?
12:25 NO. You missed the point. VALUES are important to her. As a parent, may kanya kanya tayong values and teachings na tinuturo sa mga anak natin. She's firm to what she believes in and this is what she wants her child to realize. Hindi naman niya itinakwil anak niya, anak niya ang nagdesisyon na umalis sa poder niya. How could she support financially if the child distanced himself from her? Kahit ikaw naman siguro ayaw mong tumanggap ng tulong kasi nga may gusto kang patunayan sa magulang mo di ba?
10:54 I'm ok. My parents and I have a good relationship and itinaguyod nila ako as much as itinaguyod ko sila. At kami ang magkakampi to whatever life throws our way. Hence I am baffled with parents like Izzy.
1:58 those are not values but biases. I've never heard of someone who claims that they value hating gay people 🤣
Lol you are right, hindi ako nanghihingi sa magulang ko since 17 years old palang ako because I want to help them out and relieve some worries that they might have financially. It is not because I want to do whatever I want. But I still stand by the fact that Izzy doesn't provide her child with anything anymore, she should at least feel some shame to treat him like tbis in public. Parents do not own their children.
si jesus nga tanggap si hudas, niyakap pa niya bago siya ipako sa krus. lol sino ka ba tao ka lang din naman lahat tayo. im very sure ayaw ni lord ng ipokrita sa langit.
Di na ba sya nakatira sa parents nya, di na ba sya asa sa parents nya? If that's the case then do what you love and be what you are in perfect time ma accept din yan ng parents mo
I have a gay friend. Hindi raw nya bet mag mujer or kahit gaya ng mga ootd ni Paolo Ballesteros sa EB or ni John Lapuz. Mas bet nya ang pa-aesthetic na fashion ng mga lalaki ngayon.
yes, kaya nga SOGIE e. If you are gay and you express as masculine, gora lang! di yan ang identity mo. beks ka pa rin. magkaiba ang sexual orientation (ano bet mo karelasyon, intimate with), gender identity (pano ka nag-a-identify: bakla, lesbian, trans, pan, bi etc, etc etc andami nyan ante!), expression (masculine, feminine, androgynous, etc. kasama na dyan ang panlabas na pananamit, make up, gawi, etc)
hindi lahat pare-pareho ang taste sa fashion mapa kahit anong kasarian mo pa. hindi mo pwedeng sabihin na kapag gay dapat ganito mananit or kapag lalaki dapat ganito ang suot. respect and acceptance lang for everyone. gusto ko yung mga taong brave enough to be their true and authentic selves ano man yon!
Hmm, ako din feeling ko may isang anak ako na gay, pero di naman sya nag a out. Ramdam ko lang.. siguro kaya ayaw nya mag out kasi ayaw ng asawa ko mabubugbog nya daw. Pero sabi ko sa asawa ko subukan nya bugbugin kami ang nagkakalaban.. sa totoo lang syempre mas gusto ko kung lalaki sya, pero anong magagawa ko kung ganun nararamdaman nya. Mamahalin ko pa din kahit ano pa yan tatanggapin ko
Agree to this. If someday iba din preference ng mga anak ko. I’ll understand. Di kase macocontrol mga ganito. Kesa pilitin mo maging straight tapos masira lang life worst eh may masaktan pa Silang iba kakapilit maging straight mas masakit yun
kung wala kang reservations at tanggap mo sya kung ano pa sya, baket hindi mo sya matanong kung ano ba talaga ang preference nya? baka yon lamg ang iniintay nya na may magsabi sa kanya na “ok lang yan anak. magpakatotoo ka. suportado kita “
ang bait naman ng mga nagcomment. persecute pa more. you guys and your acts of persecutions are all written in the Word. so go on if that's what you think would make you "better" than others. sinong self-righteous ngayon?
There are times you need to distance yourself away from certain people. Toxic is toxic whether it’s family or not. “The blood is thicker than water” is an overrated and often misleading statement.
Every time someone cites the bible as their source, I immediately tune out. You know the bible is rigged, right? I’m not an atheist and I strongly believe in God but I’m just turned off by overly aggressive, bible-touting, self-proclaimed morally supreme people.
No you do not believe in God like that. Or malamang, iba pa ang God mo. Bible is His love letter to us. We are supposed to meditate in it, not just know few verses or books. Jesus is also isn’t for religion, but for a relationship.
simply because you do not believe. you only see the truth if you have faith. and since you dont have, i guess that explains why nagtutune out ka. no acceptance of Christ = no Holy Spirit = no revelation.
ajo nmn I dont want any of my kids to be gay. not because of faith, religion or homophobia. it is because i have a lot of close friends who are gay and i see tthat most of them had a hard time finding true love and they go through so much hatred and discrimination. i just feel like it's harder being gay than straight. and of course I want my kids to have an easy life. pero ic one of them turns out to be gay, i will nit make their life harder i will try my best to help thme in any way
The Mom is Christian. Yun yung belief nia.hindi sa sinusumpa nia Ang anak nia.xmpre mahal nia . Just like yung gusto nio ipaglaban karapatan as LGBT . Christians may belief na pinaglalaban.and hindi po yan self touting.the mom is nagbabase lang sa sinasabi sa bible and that's the truth. Alangan Naman gagawa lang Ng nanay.
“When it comes to offending religions, there are so many ways to do that. But universally, regardless of faith or moral standard, there is no greater sin than rejecting your own child.”
nakakalungkot ang mga "religious" parents who are willing to sacrifice their relationship with their children based on 3-4 bible verses, as if those few verses are what the whole bible is all about.
I dont know their story but I'm a mom also and di ko maimagine not supporting my son in something he wants to do/be. Andrei is obviously talented and drag is an avenue for him to do what he enjoys.
Yung ikaw na nanay you cannot accept your gay son, how much more ang ibang tao. Ang alam ko ang nanay unconditional love. Minsan nga kahit kriminal, kukupkupin pa rin ng magulang. Nanay ang unang magtatanggol sa anak. Ang sagot dapat pag may bad words sa anak, "ako nga Nanay tanggap ko sya, ikaw pa na walang ambag sa buhay namin"
sorry huh pero kay izzy pa galing? i find it hypocrite na bigla kang maging ganyan ka religious when u know for a fact na nagpabuntis ka naman sa hindi mo pa asawa, hindi bat nasa bibliya na bawal yan. maiintindihan ko pa yung sexbomb journey niya since baka naman nagsisi siya pero yan? hmmmm tingin sa sarili accla.
A mom can love unconditionally. It doesn’t mean she has to agree with her child’s life’s decisions. Yung mga taong mahal mo di naman nagbabago ang pagmamahal mo kahit bakla or drug addict pa yan. Why are people so quick to judge the parents?
Imagine the trauma of being brought to this world by someone who will never accept you just because you are attracted to the same gender and/or dress up differently. If you can't stand the LGBTQ then better na wag ka na lang mag anak. Being a parent requires unconditional love. Ang sakit sakit sa anak na sariling magulang mo tatakwil sayo, hindi mo naman hiningi sa magulang mo na ipanganak ka.
To Izzy sana kinausap mo na lang anak mo in private, this is very personal lalo na sa anak mo. If nag usap naman na kayo, keep it between the two of you. The public doesn't need to know it. You said you just want to protect your son from any harm that might caused his decision, but posting this personal and family matters might make everything worse.
I have a friend who has a gay brother na meet ko na Pati boyfriend niya mababait sila parehas sobrnag happy sila. They support each other ha at magaganda mga trabaho. Maayos sila couple. I never judge them since I met them my friend told me mga kids na sila Alam na niya he has a gay brother at sobrang tanggap sila ng family open arms. Also ha mga magna cumlaude pa sa UP! Oh diba bongga?
Nasa denial stage pa kasi ang mother like my tita nasa denial stage pa rin siya na gay ang anak niya. It takes time matatanggap din niya yan if not well….. that’s her choice it will haunt her forever Hangang Grave.
I don’t think na hindi tanggap ni izzy ung anak nya for being gay. Nanay yan eh so for sure maliit pa lang si andrei ramdam na nya na gay ang anak nya. May mga tiktok videos nga sila na naka make-up, spaghetti strap at pekpek shorts si andrei nagsasayaw silang dalawa and mukang ok naman sila. Tingin ko ang hindi lang tanggap ni izzy is ung pagda-drag ng anak nya. Baka un ganun klase ng lifestyle ang hindi nya approve na feeling nya baka mapariwara ang anak nya. Siguro meron idea si izzy kung anong nangyayari sa loob ng mga bars and behind the curtain since dati rin naman syang performer. Isa lang syang ina na nag-aalala para sa anak nya.
Kulang lang yan sa usap, hindi na dapat sa socmed o public ipost dahil problema ng pamilya yan at wala ding ibang makakasolve kundi sila, ipublic o socmed nyo man kung di nyo din maiintindihan ang isa't isa, useless, pinagpiyestahan lang kayo, lalo kayong nagulo. Unawain nyo muna isa't isa mas makakatulong yun
Parang nanay at tatay ko lang din yan na galit na galit sa mga bakla, pero bakla din anak nila.
ReplyDeleteSome people shouldn't be having children talaga. Kahit tanggapin pa ang mga beks ng chosen family nila at ng large part of society, yung trauma na sarili mong magulang reject who you are is a trauma na malalim nang nakabaon sa isang tao. Proven na na hindi naman kayang baguhin ng bakla ang mga sarili nila, they are born bakla and they will be bakla forever, so anong point na pasakitan ang anak sa bagay na wala siyang control? Anong point to pressure them to stay in the closet so you as a parent do not feel uncomfortable? Sana, naiisip ng mga tao to bago sila maganak.
DeleteAyaw ka nila maging bakla. Ramdam nila mag oout ka na
DeleteI have a nephew who is gay. And while the parents have been nothing but supportive- I have cousins, aunts and uncles who are very judgmental and homophobic. Kaya ok lang na malayo pamangkin ko at laging wala sa family gatherings, I don't want him around such toxic relatives.
DeleteGALAWANG SELF PROMOTION NILANG DALAWA
DeleteWow 7.17. Shouldn't be parents agad kasi di matanggap na gay ang anak? Pwede naman mahal at inaruga ang bata pero di tanggap kasi mali sa mata nya at mata ng Diyos. Di porke anak kelangan mo tanggapin ang sa paniniwala mo mali. Love, and let him live his life. Respect his choice. Let him grow to the person he wants to be. But parents do not have to bend their morals and beliefs for what they think and believe is wrong. Daoat lng dyan respect. Respect from parents na anak eh gay and he has to live his life. Respect from the child that his lifestyle is not in line with the parent's moral and belief. Live and let live. At bago kayo magalit, share ko na. Gay ang kapatid ko and police ang tatay na minister sa church at active sa Catholic ang nanay ko. Di tanggap ang kapatid ko. Pero di naman iba Turing sa kanya. Un lang, di xa nagbabakla pagmagkasama kami pamilya. Di rin nagdadala ng boyfriend nya. Nakakabisita ng walang problema. Parents ko naman di nagsasalita at nakikialam sa lovelife nya. Ok naman kami. So wag agad not allowed to have kids.
DeleteGalit na galit ba? Parang d naman
DeleteAgree 1:08! Respect begets respect.
Delete1:08 And you think masaya yung kapatid mo sa ganyang patingi tingi na acceptance? Na you only welcome him pag minimeet niya yung certain conditions pero pag hindi na e iba na ang magiging trato? Wake up.
DeleteBackwards 1:08 am.
Delete1:08 so proud pa kayo? kung tanggap niyo walang limitations kasi anak/kapatid pa din yan regardless kung anong gawin niya basta hindi nakakatapak ng iba then go. hindi ko gets yung tanggap niyo kuno pero binigyan niyo ng boundaries yung tao. hindi ko gets kung bakit pagdating sa sarili niyang pamamahay kailangan niyang controlin yung actions niya diba dapat mas may freedom siya sa inyo kasi kayo ang safest place niya? parang ikaw lang yan, tsismosa ka pero proud devoted christian yung pamilya niyo. ironic lang diba. lol
DeletePartly agree with 1.08 to live and let live. Medyo hypocrite lng kasi tinotolerate nyo pa rin naman kapatid mo. Kung sunod talaga kayo sa relihiyon, dapat yung mali eh mali at bawal ay bawal. Hinahayaan nyo sa mali at wala kayong ginagawa kundi tolerate sya eh di epokrito tawag sa inyo.
DeleteAmo bang meron na kelangan mo pang ireveal na I lied in an interview blahblha, bakit sikat ka ba para ibigdeal mga ireveal mo? Ang ooa kala mo hihinto mundo pag nagreveal. Ikaw lang me paki no!
ReplyDeleteLaki mg galit mo. Inano ka ni andrei? Eh yung nanay nya unang nagpost.
DeletePinagtakpan na nga nya sa naunang interview nya eh. Tapos biglang post yung nanay. Di pala sya tanggap talaga.
6:23 nag-exert ka nga ng effort para sknya so meaning huminto mundo mo.hahahahah
DeleteNapansin ko sa generation ngayon masyadong ginawang personality and gender nila. Growing up, I have friends of all genders pero di naman sila mga pa-special snowflake. Walang need for validation.
DeleteG na g, mami
Delete7:25 OK BOOMER
Delete6:23 oh my god it's the nanay kasi ang nag post nang ganyan kaya siguro napa amin na lang din yong tao. If you read some of the comments. Ramdam ng mga tao na nakabasa yong pagiging passive-aggressive nung post.
Delete7:25 agree.
Delete725 mga artista ba friends mo? si andrie ininterview, initriga at sumagot. eh yong nanay naman ayan nagpost kaya naman nagpost din si andrei to clear that interview na ansabi nyang nag lie lang pala sya don. sa tingin mo kung walang nag.iinterview sa kanya eh magsasalita yan? dyeske esep esep din noh!
DeletePampam din talaga tong batang to. Di sumikat to kasi mayabang di pa nag uumpisa nagyabang na. Nawala group mo at di sinuportahan kasi nag uumpisa palang mayabang na. Ngayon sa drag naman pero di pa nag uumpisa pa controversial agad.
DeleteTrue. Pampamilyang bagay yan. Pampam dn eh
Delete8:53 so that’s your reply to 7:25? Hahaha! Mga gen woke talaga always walang matinong comeback. Puro emosyon pero walang utak.
Delete7:25 Yes masyado ng palaban ang mga anak ngayon sa magulang ginagaya ang western ways.
Delete7:25 true. gen z generation may pagkaentitled. My nephew one time said dapat lang na gastusan siya dahil anak siya. While that’s true, yung lack of gratefulness and appreciation sa magulang ang nakakawindang.
Delete5:26 and 12:35 te hindi ako kasapi ng gen Z huh pero pansin ko sa mga naunang generation tayo yung dahilan bakit mahirap ang Pinas, expressive lang ang mga bata pero mas may utak sila mataas lang ego natin kasi hindi natin tanggap na mas may utak sila and also to 12:35 nasa pagpapalaki yan so kasalanan pa din ng magulang bakit naging ganyan ang bata.
Delete5:26 I am actually not a Gen Z - just someone older with a gay brother who I will defend for the rest of my life from closet homophobes like you and 7:25.
Delete7:25 5:26 13:35 I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
DeleteYung feeling nila ikinatalino nila mga nasasagap nilang wokeness sa social media pero in reality, halatang hindi naman talaga nila alam pinagsasabi nila. Mga unoriginal thinkers. Gaya gaya lang sa mga influencers who also doesnt know what they are doing.
Forever nang may ganitong usapin. Para sa bata, it’s simply a matter of ‘hindi ako tinatanggap…’ pero naiintindihan ko din ang bawat magulang. Kung wala kang ‘faith’, hindi mo talaga ito maiintindihan.
ReplyDeleteFaith?
Delete1 Samuel 16:7
7 But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
I'm an atheist now but I grew up religious. I used to believe in heaven and hell and iba talaga 'yung takot for you and your family to imagine na may possiblity na at least one of you will go to hell because of their action, whether dahil sa malaking sin or just for as simple as not being close enough to the Lord. It sometimes keep me up at night
DeleteI understand both of their sentiment. It sucks lang na mukha namang both of them mean well and their concerns are genuine but they're just not in the same page and never will, unless piliin ni Izzy babaan ang faith niya.
6:52 mali ang punto mo. Hindi tungkol sa appearance ang usapan. Tungkol sa sekswalidad/kasarian.
Delete6:52 as anon said, walang katapusan ang usaping mga ganito. So let live!
DeleteSa bible kasi, only a man and woman created but it doesnt you cant love your neighbour for who they truly are. Ay ewan ko sa inyong super religious people, super closeminded nyp. U only believes whats beneficial for you.
DeleteReligion is the root of all evil. Oh right evil is not real just like heaven and hell. It was all made for you to believe, to be scared and to be controlled. Dahil sa turo ng religion hindi nya tinanggap anak nya bilang kung sino talaga sya. Whereas kung pagmamahal lang paiiralin, ang healthy sana ng relasyon nila at growth nung bata.
Deletemamahalin at susuportahin ko pa rin kung magcome out as lgbtq ang anak ko. sa faith ko kasi, God's love is for all.
DeleteAng ganda nyang drag queen at ang galing nyang sumayaw. Manang mana sa nanay nya. Di pa tanggap ng mama ang anak nya. Nakakalungkot.
ReplyDeleteMay point nman both. They will agree to disagree.
ReplyDeletePero dapat di na nagpost si izzy ng ganyan. Dapat within the family na lang. Kontodo takip pa ung bata na nakasupport sa kanya tapos biglang may paganyan.
DeleteTama! private nlng sana...
DeleteTo clean her image. Baka ayaw nya masabihan na tinotolerate nya anak nya sa ganyang gawain kasi nga daw eh christian daw sya 🙁 she did it for herself not for her son…
DeleteNaku he seems lost. He needs his mom more than anything. Baka madaan pa sa counseling at therapy, bata pa sya.
ReplyDelete6:38 Anong pinagsasasabi mo?
DeleteWhat do you mean he is lost? I have a gay brother who is achieving well in school, a responsible child to my parents, and a wonderful sibling. You can be gay and be even better than most humans. She needs to be in therapy for her to understand that the mindset she has an impact to her child.
DeleteCounseling for being gayyy? 21 na si andrei.
DeleteTherapy? Bakit may sakit ba sya? Ano feeling mo na pag nag therapy mawawala na pagiging bakl nya?
DeleteAre you serious?
DeleteWhat do you mean 6:38? Therapy para bumalik sa pagiging straight? You’re being funny
DeleteI agree with you, 6:38. Maraming kwentong ganyan; akala nila hindi sila straight. Pero nahawa lang pala sa friends. May mga naaagapan pa naman.
Delete11:14 what’s being funny? If you’re a parent you’ll understand
Deletetry to set up a meeting with a pastor and do prayover stuff i think that would help
Delete1227 eh paano po yung mga Pastor na bading at may tinatagong boylet?
DeleteHer tatay is supportive base na nakita kong post ng tatay niya.
DeleteYung mga straight diyan, baka maisip niyo maging gay magpatherapy daw kayo. According to the logic of 6:38 nadadaan sa therapy ang gender orientation.
DeleteMy gay as* self is supporting my pamangkins, brought my parents to Europe for a vacation, and bought a house for them — buti hindi ikaw magulang ko. Hindi namin need ng therapy, vaklang twoah.
DeleteOnly in Pinas na mas matimbanh ang faith kesa sa love
ReplyDeleteAs it should.
DeleteLove of God first — o ayan
DeleteTalaga namang dapat.
DeleteHindi dapat. Very backwards.
DeleteSya nga nag sex-bomb eh. Kumontra ba family nya? Disente ba sayaw ng sex bomb dancers? real talk lang
ReplyDeleteI dont agree with the mom pero decent naman sayaw nila. Sexy pero di bastusin unlike sa ibang gg dito sa pinas
DeleteIba naman yung issue sa chosen work niya (mom) versus sa issue sa seksualidad (son). Wag kang mema ng basta 6:48
DeleteAre you kidding me??!??? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
DeleteSo meaning, oks lang kay God pag get get aw pero pag beks, mali? Ang lala.
Delete6:48 Same old na pag wala kang magandang argumento hahanap ka ng butas. Why bring up sexbomb?
DeleteBecoz being a sexbomb dancer doesn't make you a bad person & so is being a drag queen. There's really no difff. between the 2.
DeleteBefore po sia magpakasal , umalis sia sa sexbomb Nung naging christian sila.so clearly nagcocomment lang yung iban Ng walang ka alam alam,Nung nasa sexbomb pa sia hindi pa sia christian. Nung nagkakilala na sila ni Alvin Aragon , Yun na yung umpisa Ng pagiging christian and before sia magpakasal,Wala na sia sa sex bomb and Nung pinag guest sia sa Isang show sa channel 2 tinangihan nio yung guesting kasi gusto pang sex bomb yung outit which is alam Ng production na converted na sia as born again Christian.
DeleteNakakasad yung ganito. Ang hirap kasing mag-judge. We don't exactly know kung ano para sa Diyos ang mga gay people. Of course, they are His children pero meron kasing nakasulat sa bibliya. Yun nga lang, mahirap din iinterpret ang bible. May mga madaling unawain, meron din namang malalim.
ReplyDeleteClear naman sa Bible; hindi kelangang bigyan ng ibang interpretation.
DeleteLeviticus 18:22
Romans 1:24, 26
1 Corinthians 6:9, 10
Still no one deserves hatred and disrespect.
you really think God wants people to become straight even though they are really gay? being gay js not a choice, and that is a scientifically proven fact
ReplyDeleteGod would want you to be compassionate and understanding sa choices ng mga mahal mo, di naman yan crime maging bakla.
Exactly. Yung mga straight people dito, did you CHOOSE to be straight? Hindi diba? Ganun lang talaga. You were born that way. Same thing with gays/trans. Tbh, knowing how cruel the world is towards lgbt, why would one even choose a life of misery? Kaso wala eh, ganun talaga. They were born that way.
DeleteExactly. As a gay guy na 38 y/o in a 16-year relationship since our early 20s, kung alam nyo lang how much we wish na sana hindi kami ganto.
DeleteWe are at a point na gusto na namin bumili ng house pero ang dami namin need ayusin dahil may mga legal stuff etc. na never namin ma-meet.
It is not something we choose. Ang hirap kaya.
Sana hindi na pinost ni Izzy para hindi na naging public spectacle. In a way, napahiya lang yung anak niya. They could have dealt with it privately. It's one thing na hindi niya suportahan, karapatan niya yun bilang nanay lalo kung magkaiba sila ng beliefs, pero to make it public para niyang pinagalitan anak niya sa harap ng maraming tao. Mas lalo lang lalayo ang loob sa kanya.
ReplyDelete7:04 mas masakit na di sya tanggap ng Nanay nya at mas masakit kasi Di rin sya tatangggapin ng mapanghusgang society. Sadabihin na di ka nga tanggap ng sariling kong ina kami pa kaya. Di ba Izzy mas masakit yun?
DeleteAng nakakatouch dito yung daddy nya. Sobrang supportive.
ReplyDeleteNahilo ako kay izzy. Sana nagtagalog na lang sya
ReplyDelete7:40 pati anak nya. sana nagtagalog pareho pwede naman
Deletehindi talaga nawawala mga honor student sa comment section
Deletematanong ko lang san ba napapanood yang drag drag queen na yan? hahahaha until now di ko knows na may mga ganyan. nalaman ko lang ang drag queen nun kay luka. hahahaha... at nong ginagawa sa mga ganyan? pabonggahan ba ng make up and props? parang anime costume mga ganun?
ReplyDeleteMag search ka te, may internet
DeleteAng haba ng kuda mo dito hindi mo man lang nagawang mag search sa google or youtube?
DeleteThey will have to agree to disgree. Kasi tama nman sila both pero opposite nga lang ang kanilang beliefs.
ReplyDeleteMay anak din akong gay. As a parent, kung mababago pa ang preference nya, sana mabago pa. Di sa di ko sya tanggap, natatakot ako na lokohin lang sya ng kapwa nya. Pero pinapakiusapan ko sya na sana yong refined na kilos lang para irespeto pa din sya ng mga makikitid ang utak.
ReplyDeleteI feel you sis. Super relate ako kasi may anak din akong gay. And may mga kaibihan din akong gay, so I know what they've been through.
Delete08:38 pag straight na po ba wala nang manloloko? Kasi parang mas madaming straight na nangangabit, nagnanakaw, pumapatay...
Deletenapanuod ko yung video todo bigay sayaw nya nf mga sexbomb n kanta, parang medyo nakakahiya nga sa part ni izzy. pde namang discreet at hindi bastos
ReplyDeletelol e ung Izzy discreet ba nung sexbomb dancer pa sya?? double standard
DeleteBakit pag si Izzy nagsayaw di ba nakakahiya?
DeleteYung ka work ko din dati, super religious family nila. Then nung nag out sya, yung tatay nya tinakwil sya, ang sabi sa kanya, bahala ka na sa gusto mo gawin, basta ang isipin mo di ka pupunta sa heaven. Yung nanay nya na depress di nya matanggap na hindi mapupunta sa heaven anak nya. Basta ganun ang sinaryo. Kakaloka.
ReplyDeleteImagine having gay friends but not actually accepting your son’s identity? She kept emphasizing her faith to the point that she’s willing to let it stain their mother-son relationship. I don’t think that’s how it works, Izzy. If your view is coming from a religious perspective, go back and read the stories in the Bible how different people were accepted despite having sinned. Being gay is not even a sin. In the long run, you will regret doing this. You will realize that no matter how mad you get, he is what he is and that won’t change. You are only creating a rift.
ReplyDeleteIbang klase talaga ang generation ngayon, porket "im sustaining" akala mo kung sino ng mapag-mataas sa magulang.
ReplyDeleteMay kalalagyan kang bata ka. Makita mo.
Of course. Here in Norway, children’s rights are even supported and that includes their right to express themselves and their right to freedom. Backward thinking lang sa Pinas. “May kalalagyan” ka pa dyan.
Delete8:54 ay bakit anong mali dyan? kung hindi bida bida yung nanay considering na pinagtanggol na siya nung anak sa unang interview sana nanahimik siya diba? wala na pala sa puder niya yung bata. yan ang problema sa ibang magulang, sariling pagkakamali ayaw mapuna. naging magulang lang inilagay na sa pedestal ang sarili? tanggap tanggap din minsan na may sariling utak at decision sa buhay ang anak. kung ayaw mabastos wag babastusin kahit anak mo pa yan ganun lang yun! sus
Deletehirap sa pinas ang daming magulang na pa high and mighty pero majority naman ng anak ginagawang atm machine lang yung anak pag kumakayod na. yikes
DeleteNakakalungkot na isang gay icon ang nanay pero masyadong naging homophobic ang naging statement nya. Naiintindihan ko naman na siguro nahihirapan syang tanggapin initially pero sana as a mother sya unang-unang tatanggap sa anak nya.
ReplyDeletemukhang mahal nmn nila ang isat isa. May kanya knyang paniniwala lang. Sa bandang huli respeto lang naman ang kailngan ng bawat tao kahit magkakaiba ang tinitignan.
ReplyDeleteIzzy .I think magkaedad tayo I also have a 16yr old bi child whom I accept. We just agreed that he can only have relationship pag responsible adult na sya. I love my bi son to bits also. 5 yrs ago I gave birth to a stillborn child. I will give anything to spend time w my lost baby. Time is short .Just hug Andrei now
ReplyDeleteSorry accla. Mag kaiba kayo nang pananaw
DeleteNagiingay lang si accla para mapagusapan. Ni wala nga nakakaaalam na may anak pala na drag queen c izzy
ReplyDeleteKkout nya lang mhieeee 😅
DeleteSya yung leader ng dating Ppop group na Beyond Zero.
ReplyDeleteOo, yung lalagpasan daw sb19, ayun, nawala yung group.
DeleteAs if naman napaka pure ni mother ano? Sexy dancer ka nga eh na ang purpose ay buhayin ang dugo ng mga kalalakihan tapos ngayon may pa bible quotes eme...kalurks
ReplyDeletenagpabuntis din ng maaga, nasa bible din yan na bawal so anong inaarte niya ngayon. lol
DeleteNakakapagod na yung ganito lagi tatakbo sa bibliya para mag cherry pick ng trip niyang verse. Dzai Izzy, sinple lang yan. Do not do to others what you dont want others to do to you. Love and kindness. Napakasimple.
ReplyDeleteTrue sis!
DeleteItong si Izzy kala mo hindi gumiling giling sa noontime show na halos walang damit. Malinis ka girl? Judge pa more! Sariling anak pa talaga. Nakakaloka ka!
ReplyDeleteWalang masama sa pagsasayaw. Ito ay isang talento bigay sa kanya ng dyos
DeleteTrue! Ang ininabuhay nang anak nya ung kakagiling nya.
DeleteAko tanggap ko anak ko kung gay sya pero diko ata kayang makitang nagdadamit babae sya. Kaya naiintindihan ko rin naman ang pakiramdam ni Izzy. I dont know, parang di ko talaga keri. Of course susuportahan mo na lang din pero deep inside, ayaw kong umabot sa ganyan sana.
ReplyDeleteAko din mars as much as I would like to tolerate it hindi ko kaya makita anak ko na magdamit babae at nakakolorete. Parang dagok sa dibdib ko nayan. Sabi ko gawin nalang nya pag wala na ako sa mundo.
DeleteYou both are ridiculous 11:24 at 12:06. You are the fvcking adults but yung child niyo pa ang hinahanggad niyo to tiptoe around your feelings? Dagok sa dibdib at hindi kero that your kids dress a certain way? Unbelievable.
Delete11:24 ano kayo anak nyo pa magadjust sa inyo? Ano kayo sineswerte?
DeleteBabaw
DeleteGrabeng mentalidad mga genzing to 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
DeleteSino ba kayo 12:23 and 12:43? Saloobin nang mga magulang yan.. bat pinanghihimasukan?
DeleteI get ur point. Pero di mo naman siguro ipopost sa facebook para dumugin ng mga religous hypocrites ang anak mo diba? Yun ang problema sa kanya. Kung di nya kayang manahimik, eh di sana nagusap na lang sila mag ina privately.
DeleteSurely 12:23 and 12:43 is a Gen Z with that kind of response they have
DeleteKasi mali!!1:47. Anong taon na pero ayaw padin naton magexpress yung mga bata. Mga boomer mindset. Kung wala namang tinatapakang tao, what’s the big deal? A lot of gaya and trans and drag queens I know are some of the biggest breadwinners ng family nila and all out kung magmahal ng pamilya basta tanggap sila.
Delete12:23, which part did i mention in my post that my kids have to tiptoe around my feelings? Di mo ba nabasa na i said susuportahan ko pa rin naman kahit deep inside ayaw ko sanang umabot sa ganun. Who are you to invalidate my feelings din? I am entitled to have my own feelings din sa ganyang sitwasyon. But if my child should ever desire to cross dress, alangan namang bubugbugin ko? Masyado kang reaksyunista wala naman sa katwiran. You are putting words in my mouth.
Delete12:23 grabe naman maka react baks. Lol! Based sa reaction mo mukhang di ka accept ng mga magulang mo.
DeleteWala namang masama sa sinabi ni original poster. Syimpre nanay yan intindihin mo rin na may pakiramdam din naman yan. Im a lesbian at kahit nakikita ko namang suportado ako ng mama ko pero nararamdaman ko pa rin yung lungkot nya lalo na nung nag decide akong makipag live in with my gf. Inintindi nya ako at inintindi ko rin yung lungkot nya sa mga nangyari. Kasi alam ko na hindi ito ang gusto nya for me lalo na at only child ako. Pero she she still lets me be. Agree to disagree baks. Di yung gusto natin tayo lang iniintindi palagi rin kasi tayo ang mga anak. Gusto natin tanggapin tayo pero tayo naman tong ayaw tumanggap at rumespeto sa opinion and pakiramdam ng iba. One way street yarn?
9:28 you are funny. Within the same post you were just saying na hindi mo kaya at wag sana umabot sa ganun, when it was never about you in the first place and you don't have to do anything but let your child be and not dread or hate what they could become. Mas mabigat that you don't outwardly show it, but deep inside, you reject him. And you know what, your child probably fvcking knows what you are thinking--refer to 10:06's comment.
Delete10:06 I'm a cis woman what are you talking about. Also, my point is, there is never a two way street because iba ang dynamics ng magulang at anak. For a big chunk ng buhay ng mga anak ang magulang ang adult sa dynamics na yun. The parent is also the one who chose to have kids, and it is dreadful that they don't even consider the possibility of having gay kids and try to either supress them, or reject them subconsciously after they discover the fact...instead of thinking ahead of time if they should be parents if they have certain biases and hatred that they may direct towards their kids in the name of hypocrisy. This also doesn't completely apply to gay children, but children who may end up pursuing career paths that parents reject, children with disabilities, etc. Madaming pinoy ang niroromanticize yung parental rejection and I just feel strongly about it because I work with these types of cbildren na bunga ng ganitong parenting.
For people who are commenting that Izzy should not have made her disapproval public, they probably don't know that Izzy is serving in the kids' ministry in her church. Therefore, the parents of these children trust her to teach their kids Christian values. If they start to believe that Izzy is supportive of a lifestyle that goes against the teachings of Jesus, that trust would be broken and Izzy would have to step down from her ministry.
ReplyDeleteWtf. Mas matimbang pala ang mga strangers na ito sa kaligayahan ng anak, na ni hindi nga niya sinusupprtahan financially. Filipino parents really are pathetic.
DeleteDi nila maiintindihan yan mars. Agree ako sayo 11:26
DeleteI would rather stepdown kesa ma-hurt ko ang anak ko. Mas important pa pala career nya lol
DeleteSooooo.. all in all para sa reputation nya lang sa ministry.
DeleteSus 1:36. Parents are not special, especially the bad ones. You all have a pattern.
DeletePathetic filipino parents mas matimbang pa yung kung ano sasabihin ng ibang tao kesa sa buhay ng anak. A good parent would step doen from that ministry role.
Deletethanks for this, mas naintindihan ko si Izzy.
DeleteTeachings of jesus? Mas tama yatang sabihin "the group's interpretations" of the teachings of jesus. Because jesus' teachings is about love, mercy, compassion. Love your neighbor as you love yourself diba.
Delete12:25 Wow! If your parents are, I hope you are ok.
Delete11:26 1:36 kayong dalawa should probably get your priorities straight and be educated more about LGBTQ people. wag nyo nang isali ang dios sa usapan. tanungin nyo na lang ang mga sarili nyo, ano at sino ba ang mas importante?
DeleteAll the more na sana mas accepting siya sa mga cases ng kids sana, especially this is her son and those are just strangers?? 😅
Delete12:25 NO. You missed the point. VALUES are important to her. As a parent, may kanya kanya tayong values and teachings na tinuturo sa mga anak natin. She's firm to what she believes in and this is what she wants her child to realize. Hindi naman niya itinakwil anak niya, anak niya ang nagdesisyon na umalis sa poder niya. How could she support financially if the child distanced himself from her? Kahit ikaw naman siguro ayaw mong tumanggap ng tulong kasi nga may gusto kang patunayan sa magulang mo di ba?
Delete10:54 I'm ok. My parents and I have a good relationship and itinaguyod nila ako as much as itinaguyod ko sila. At kami ang magkakampi to whatever life throws our way. Hence I am baffled with parents like Izzy.
Delete1:58 those are not values but biases. I've never heard of someone who claims that they value hating gay people 🤣
DeleteLol you are right, hindi ako nanghihingi sa magulang ko since 17 years old palang ako because I want to help them out and relieve some worries that they might have financially. It is not because I want to do whatever I want. But I still stand by the fact that Izzy doesn't provide her child with anything anymore, she should at least feel some shame to treat him like tbis in public. Parents do not own their children.
si jesus nga tanggap si hudas, niyakap pa niya bago siya ipako sa krus. lol sino ka ba tao ka lang din naman lahat tayo. im very sure ayaw ni lord ng ipokrita sa langit.
DeleteDi na ba sya nakatira sa parents nya, di na ba sya asa sa parents nya? If that's the case then do what you love and be what you are in perfect time ma accept din yan ng parents mo
ReplyDeleteHindi na 2 /3 yrs n ata
DeleteAyaw ka lang niyang maging Luca Puca
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DeleteAm gay pero wit ko carry mag damit babae lalo nat mag panty hahaha You can be gay without trying to be a woman. Ako lang naman yun.
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DeleteI have a gay friend. Hindi raw nya bet mag mujer or kahit gaya ng mga ootd ni Paolo Ballesteros sa EB or ni John Lapuz. Mas bet nya ang pa-aesthetic na fashion ng mga lalaki ngayon.
DeleteMay kakilala ako nag-sasanitary napkin pa as in every month. Mapapa-roll eyes ka sa mga ganyan.
Deleteyes, kaya nga SOGIE e. If you are gay and you express as masculine, gora lang! di yan ang identity mo. beks ka pa rin. magkaiba ang sexual orientation (ano bet mo karelasyon, intimate with), gender identity (pano ka nag-a-identify: bakla, lesbian, trans, pan, bi etc, etc etc andami nyan ante!), expression (masculine, feminine, androgynous, etc. kasama na dyan ang panlabas na pananamit, make up, gawi, etc)
Deletehindi lahat pare-pareho ang taste sa fashion mapa kahit anong kasarian mo pa. hindi mo pwedeng sabihin na kapag gay dapat ganito mananit or kapag lalaki dapat ganito ang suot. respect and acceptance lang for everyone. gusto ko yung mga taong brave enough to be their true and authentic selves ano man yon!
Deletepero pag babae na nagsusuot ng mens shirt and jogger pants oks lang? d ko gets ang utak ng mga ganitong tao.
DeleteHmm, ako din feeling ko may isang anak ako na gay, pero di naman sya nag a out. Ramdam ko lang.. siguro kaya ayaw nya mag out kasi ayaw ng asawa ko mabubugbog nya daw. Pero sabi ko sa asawa ko subukan nya bugbugin kami ang nagkakalaban.. sa totoo lang syempre mas gusto ko kung lalaki sya, pero anong magagawa ko kung ganun nararamdaman nya. Mamahalin ko pa din kahit ano pa yan tatanggapin ko
ReplyDeleteAgree to this. If someday iba din preference ng mga anak ko. I’ll understand. Di kase macocontrol mga ganito. Kesa pilitin mo maging straight tapos masira lang life worst eh may masaktan pa
DeleteSilang iba kakapilit maging straight mas masakit yun
Grabe ang sad naman nung sa asawa mo :( buti nandyan ka to protect your son.
Deletekung wala kang reservations at tanggap mo sya kung ano pa sya, baket hindi mo sya matanong kung ano ba talaga ang preference nya? baka yon lamg ang iniintay nya na may magsabi sa kanya na “ok lang yan anak. magpakatotoo ka. suportado kita “
Delete12:16 - ❤️❤️❤️
DeleteUng mga “Christians” lage tlga noh? 🤣
ReplyDeleteGanun talaga kaya nga they say it’s hard to cross the narrow path but you will end up getting the reward in the end.
DeleteHhaahhaha i know right. Marami rami akong know na Christians na hypocrites.
DeleteIn my experience, yung mga palasimba at goody goody pa yung judgmental at sobrang sama ng mga ugali. 🤢
DeleteUnbothered pa nga yung iba!
Deletemostly, ung "reward" lang naman ang reason kung bakit gumagawa sila ng mabuti like 12:39 lol
DeleteMga self righteous. Feeling sila lang anak ng Diyos
Deleteang bait naman ng mga nagcomment. persecute pa more. you guys and your acts of persecutions are all written in the Word. so go on if that's what you think would make you "better" than others. sinong self-righteous ngayon?
DeleteThere are times you need to distance yourself away from certain people. Toxic is toxic whether it’s family or not.
ReplyDelete“The blood is thicker than water” is an overrated and often misleading statement.
Every time someone cites the bible as their source, I immediately tune out. You know the bible is rigged, right? I’m not an atheist and I strongly believe in God but I’m just turned off by overly aggressive, bible-touting, self-proclaimed morally supreme people.
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DeleteNo you do not believe in God like that. Or malamang, iba pa ang God mo. Bible is His love letter to us. We are supposed to meditate in it, not just know few verses or books. Jesus is also isn’t for religion, but for a relationship.
Me too. It's difficult to say it as a believer pero the more I read the Bible the more I see it as fiction.
Deletesimply because you do not believe. you only see the truth if you have faith. and since you dont have, i guess that explains why nagtutune out ka. no acceptance of Christ = no Holy Spirit = no revelation.
DeletePero pam pam yung bata dito hanap kakamper
ReplyDeleteajo nmn I dont want any of my kids to be gay. not because of faith, religion or homophobia. it is because i have a lot of close friends who are gay and i see tthat most of them had a hard time finding true love and they go through so much hatred and discrimination. i just feel like it's harder being gay than straight. and of course I want my kids to have an easy life. pero ic one of them turns out to be gay, i will nit make their life harder i will try my best to help thme in any way
ReplyDeleteThe Mom is Christian. Yun yung belief nia.hindi sa sinusumpa nia Ang anak nia.xmpre mahal nia . Just like yung gusto nio ipaglaban karapatan as LGBT . Christians may belief na pinaglalaban.and hindi po yan self touting.the mom is nagbabase lang sa sinasabi sa bible and that's the truth. Alangan Naman gagawa lang Ng nanay.
ReplyDeleteYan kasi problema sa iban porket christian judgemental. Spend time reading the bible para before kau mag comment maintindihan nio Ang Punto Ng nanay
ReplyDeleteHindi sya tanggap ng nanay nya pero tanggap naman sya ng tatay nya!
ReplyDelete“When it comes to offending religions, there are so many ways to do that. But universally, regardless of faith or moral standard, there is no greater sin than rejecting your own child.”
ReplyDeleteStanding up for what she believes does not necessarily mean she has rejected her child. That's illogical reasoning.
Deletenakakalungkot ang mga "religious" parents who are willing to sacrifice their relationship with their children based on 3-4 bible verses, as if those few verses are what the whole bible is all about.
ReplyDeleteBasahin nyo yung life story ni Vins Santiago, transgender na nagdetransition, maraming mapupulot na aral
ReplyDeleteI dont know their story but I'm a mom also and di ko maimagine not supporting my son in something he wants to do/be. Andrei is obviously talented and drag is an avenue for him to do what he enjoys.
ReplyDeleteYung ikaw na nanay you cannot accept your gay son, how much more ang ibang tao. Ang alam ko ang nanay unconditional love. Minsan nga kahit kriminal, kukupkupin pa rin ng magulang. Nanay ang unang magtatanggol sa anak. Ang sagot dapat pag may bad words sa anak, "ako nga Nanay tanggap ko sya, ikaw pa na walang ambag sa buhay namin"
ReplyDeletesorry huh pero kay izzy pa galing? i find it hypocrite na bigla kang maging ganyan ka religious when u know for a fact na nagpabuntis ka naman sa hindi mo pa asawa, hindi bat nasa bibliya na bawal yan. maiintindihan ko pa yung sexbomb journey niya since baka naman nagsisi siya pero yan? hmmmm tingin sa sarili accla.
ReplyDeleteRELIGIOUS PEOPLE DO WHAT IS BEING TOLD WVEN IF ITS NOT RIGHT. SPIRITUAL PEOPLE DO WHAT IS ROGHT EVEN IF BEING TOLD
DeleteA mom can love unconditionally. It doesn’t mean she has to agree with her child’s life’s decisions. Yung mga taong mahal mo di naman nagbabago ang pagmamahal mo kahit bakla or drug addict pa yan. Why are people so quick to judge the parents?
ReplyDeleteImagine the trauma of being brought to this world by someone who will never accept you just because you are attracted to the same gender and/or dress up differently. If you can't stand the LGBTQ then better na wag ka na lang mag anak. Being a parent requires unconditional love. Ang sakit sakit sa anak na sariling magulang mo tatakwil sayo, hindi mo naman hiningi sa magulang mo na ipanganak ka.
ReplyDeleteTo Izzy sana kinausap mo na lang anak mo in private, this is very personal lalo na sa anak mo. If nag usap naman na kayo, keep it between the two of you. The public doesn't need to know it. You said you just want to protect your son from any harm that might caused his decision, but posting this personal and family matters might make everything worse.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who has a gay brother na meet ko na Pati boyfriend niya mababait sila parehas sobrnag happy sila. They support each other ha at magaganda mga trabaho. Maayos sila couple. I never judge them since I met them my friend told me mga kids na sila Alam na niya he has a gay brother at sobrang tanggap sila ng family open arms. Also ha mga magna cumlaude pa sa UP! Oh diba bongga?
ReplyDeleteNasa denial stage pa kasi ang mother like my tita nasa denial stage pa rin siya na gay ang anak niya. It takes time matatanggap din niya yan if not well….. that’s her choice it will haunt her forever Hangang Grave.
ReplyDeleteNo, she knows what she's doing. I stand with her. If you know Christ and understand the gospel, you will understand.
DeleteI don’t think na hindi tanggap ni izzy ung anak nya for being gay. Nanay yan eh so for sure maliit pa lang si andrei ramdam na nya na gay ang anak nya. May mga tiktok videos nga sila na naka make-up, spaghetti strap at pekpek shorts si andrei nagsasayaw silang dalawa and mukang ok naman sila. Tingin ko ang hindi lang tanggap ni izzy is ung pagda-drag ng anak nya. Baka un ganun klase ng lifestyle ang hindi nya approve na feeling nya baka mapariwara ang anak nya. Siguro meron idea si izzy kung anong nangyayari sa loob ng mga bars and behind the curtain since dati rin naman syang performer. Isa lang syang ina na nag-aalala para sa anak nya.
ReplyDeleteKulang lang yan sa usap, hindi na dapat sa socmed o public ipost dahil problema ng pamilya yan at wala ding ibang makakasolve kundi sila, ipublic o socmed nyo man kung di nyo din maiintindihan ang isa't isa, useless, pinagpiyestahan lang kayo, lalo kayong nagulo. Unawain nyo muna isa't isa mas makakatulong yun
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