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Monday, June 20, 2022

Tom Rodriguez Wishes Carla Abellana Happiness as Their Divorce Decree Has Been Granted, Actor in the US with Family

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  1. Nakakalungkot besh

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    1. Di man lang nagwedding anniversary

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    2. So malamang sa alamang eh tama un chika na naubos lahat ng pera ni Tom sa supposed to be partylist na sasalihan niya na hindi nagmaterialize.

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    3. Well at least tapos na. Sayang na 7 years pero im sure they learned something from it. Time to move on mga Marites

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    4. "despite all my efforts" and "at no time did I ever lay a hand on her" na statements.

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    5. nakakalungkot. bet ko pa naman sila

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    6. Nakakalungkot? :) :) :) On which side? :D :D :D So you want to stay in a toxic relationship just to save it? :D :D :D Tita, that's not natural po :D :D :D

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    7. March pa pala andun sa US si Tom. :( Un kinilig ako sa chemistry nila sa My Husband's Lover na nauwi sa totohanan and both are beautiful people naman na bagay sana hahahayyy pinakinggan ko na lang un theme song ng My Husband's Lover. I don't know what else to say but sad :(

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    8. Divorced na sila. Meaning -- It's over. Ang lungkot naman. "Tell me why did we find each other. Only to part ways in the end."

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    9. Ang peg ni Tom ay “YOU. YOU GAVE UP ON US.”

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  2. May divorce na ba sa Pilipinas? I thought dito sila kinasal sa Pinas?

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    1. Sa ibang bansa yata baka nagpakasal ulit sila dun

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    2. american citizen c Tom kaya sya nagfile for divorce sa US months ago pa yan, yan ang other side of the story na di alam ng mga tao. Pinarecognize lang dito ung divorce papers kc filipina ang wife

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    3. Tom is a US Citizen kaya applicable ang divorce sa kanila kahit dito sa Pinas sila ikinasal.

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    4. Us citizen si Tom mare kya pwede cla mg divorce khit sa pinas cla kinasal.

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    5. Kc US citizen sya kaya pede sya mag apply don. Tapos pede ata gamitin yon sa Pinas para mapabilis ang annulment. Hula lang..hehehe

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    6. Tom is American so he can file for divorce.

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    7. Both are US citizens ata...

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    8. same question

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    9. 9:49 c Tom lang po

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    10. US citizen si Tom. Nag-file siya ng divorce sa US. Pwede yun tapos ipapasa dito sa Pilipinas para sa annulment proceedings.

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    11. Baka ceremony lang yung wedding dito pero nakaregister silanor legaliy kasal sa US tlga. Baka lang!

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    12. Regardless of where they were married so long as it is a mixed marriage (one is fil, the other a foreigner), either of them may file for a divorce in the country where it is allowed. Our laws will just recognize the finality of divorce so long as it was validly obtained.

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    13. Refer to 8:31pm’s reply

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    14. Si Tom lang ang US citizen.

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    15. I have a friend who got married, both of them are filipino, the girl migrated to usa and within 3 months of setting her feet in US, she filed divorce. And got married with another man, i think even if both of you are filipino citizen, you can file divorce in US but i think it is not honored in philippines.

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    16. Mga Marites eto ang sagot: Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines:
      “Where a marriage between a Filipino citizen and a foreigner is validly celebrated and a divorce is thereafter validly obtained abroad by the alien Spouse capacitating him or her to remarry, the Filipino Spouse shall have capacity to remarry under Philippine law.”

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  3. Haaaays ang sad. 🥹

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    1. Yoi can feel the sadness in Tom’s message

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    2. Kung tayo ngang mga Mosang, Maritess at strong, independent women kuno eh nalungkot, sila pa kaya. Devastated yan sila. Kakakasal pa lang. :(((

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  4. Divorce? How? I don’t understand how they get a divorce. Anyone here who knows? All along I thought they’re working on annulment

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    1. Maybe they just opted on divorce ‘cause less gasto? And as per Tom, he lost all his money. Good thing, they both agreed on getting the divorce

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    2. us citizen c tom kya my divorce

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    3. dual citizen c tom nagfile sya divorce sa us , pwede po un bsta isa sa spouse e american citizen. irerecognize lang dto nung filipina spouse para mapawalan bisa ang kasal. sa kaso na to mukang c tom ang nagfile at hindi c carla

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    4. Yes US citizen c Tom, recognise sa Pinas ang foreign divorce as long as isa sainyo is foreign citizen, tawg dyan is recognition of foreign divorce, you just need to file it sa rtc.

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    5. Yes, there is.

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    6. pero pag ganyan he cant remarry here tama ba?

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    7. Yeah, but they are still probably waiting for the annulment decree for the church wedding they had. For all intents and purposes, Carla is still married to Tom—as far as the Catholic Church is concerned.

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    8. Wow good to know

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    9. 9:00 he can remarry sa US. American husband ng cousin ko ganyan nangyari. He filed for divorce sa US and told my cousin “as far as i am concerned i am single now in the US.” Ayun nag asawa ulit ng iba sa US. Samantala yung pinsan ko di makasal sa iba kasi married pa rin status nya sa Pinas.

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    1. Congrats Tom.

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    2. Congrats to me. Akin na si Tom. Mas bagay kami.

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    3. Lol. For what?

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  6. Ano ba talaga nangyari sa mga ito?!? 😞

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    1. Swak na swak sa kanila yung kanta ni Aiza. Anong nangyari sa ating dalawa.

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    2. Oo nga, parang nasa gitna na kasi.kaagad ang kwento tapos ending na

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    3. Naghiwalay bakz. Slow?

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  7. Maybe Tom is American Citizen and their wedding here wasn’t “reported”

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  8. Nakakalungkot. My TomCar heart is 💔

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    1. Meeeeh too baks. Binalikan ko un mga clips nila sa my Husband's Lover where it all began. Grabe nakakalungkot. Ang ganda pa naman nila tingnan. Hindi masakit sa mata. Bagay na bagay.

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  9. Oh no… so money issue pala?

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  10. ibig sabihin nagpakasal sila sa US bago nagpakasal dto

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  11. US citizen cya so it’s allowed yata. Tama naman cya there’s always 3 sides of the story hers, his and the truth. So let’s not believe in one-sided biased.

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    1. So laging lie yung "his" and "hers" na sides?

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    2. Not necessarily a lie in itself, pero may naoomit madalas. So not completely honest rin.

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  12. So pera an puno't dulo.

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    1. Pero naalala niyo ba bakit na-evict si Tom sa PBB?

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    2. Di ba isa nga yun sa mga reason ng paghihiwalay. Ubos ang perang ipon ni tom pati na din ata yung ipon nilang dalawa. Baka hinde naging aware si carla sa decision nyang gamitin ang pera kaya sinabi ni carla na nagamit sya at makakabangon din sya uli dahil malamang nawalan din sya ng malaking halaga. Di naman pwedeng dahil lang sa pera but yung betrayal siguro

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    3. Baka money matters, imagine artista na yang mga yan, nagkakaproblema pa sa usaping pera lol, to think malalaki kita nila compared sa mga ordinaryong manggagawa

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    4. Yun nga baks!

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    5. Nahh echoz nalang nya yan. Parang pinalabas pa nyang mukhang pera si Carla. While it’s true siguro na he never lay a hand on Carla kasi based din naman sa sabi nung ex nya dati, hindi naman sya mismo ang pinagbubuhatan ng kamay pero he would punch walls and break things around her kapag nagagalit. It’s a form of abuse na rin yan. That and the cheating. Napuno nalang si Carla malamang.

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    6. sinabi lang nya na may nangyaring ganun but did not say that was the reason

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    7. Hindi besh. Pride. Though i wish them a second chance in the future, once they have both become better people, better themselves… mabuti na rin nangyari to para matuto, para magtanda.

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    8. That is what Tom wants people to think, but, that is not all!

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    9. Kelan pa naging form of abuse ang pagsuntok Sa walls instead of the person? Normal Sa tao na magalit at Pag Sobrang galit ka you need to vent it out or else baka bumulagta ka or mabaliw ka!

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    10. 9:56 gano ka ka sure na echos lang? december pa lang may keme na sya about budol budol sa pera teh so di yan echos wag kang ano jan

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    11. Baka pera nilang dalawa ung nascam tapos di kagad sinabi ni Tom then nalaman ni Carla na nawala kaperahan nila tapos di naniwala kay Tom kaya ayun na ung lied and betrayed. Charot lang! Naisip ko lang hahaha

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    12. 10:15 abuse is not only physical sigaw sigaw kawan ka, pagsabihan ka ng masasakit na salita pag nagwawala na sya, naninira ng gamit, it's a form of emotional abuse, can be verbal abuse can be mental abuse

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    13. nakakalungkot naman if pera lang. what happened sa for richer or for poorer. if she felt betrayed naman about sa money, di pwede pagusapan nila at di nalang maghiwalay. tagal na rin nila kasi. so it means di ganon ka-deep yung love ni carla kay tom

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    14. 11:03”4 exactly! Akala siguro nila pag sinabing abuse pisikal agad. May economic abuse pa nga sa relasyon eh. Just goes to show limitado pa ang kaalaman ng mga tao sa all forms of abuse. Sa case ni Carla hindi naman nya sinabi na pinisikal sya. In-assume lang ng mga tao na ganun when she said “makakatikim ako.” Could be makakatikim ng verbal abuse at kung ano pa.

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    15. 10:20, he made it seemed like iyon ang dahilan ng hiwalayan when it’s obviously more than that. Mema ka intindihin mo mabuti comment ko. I didnt say hindi totoong nawalan sya ng pera pero para seemingly palabasin na yun ang dahilan ng hiwalayan yun ang echoz.

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    16. 1015 destruction of property is abuse too. kaya nga pag ninakawan di ba sabi nung victims,sanctity of (personal) space was violated.

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    17. 9:56 almost 8 na nga sila magkasama. 2014 pa sila BF at GF. Tumira na din si Tom sa kanila even before marriage. Kung may masamang ugali ang bawat isa eh lumabas na un during that time at umayaw na un isa. The mere fact na they even sealed it with a marriage eh ibig sabihin tanggap nila ang ugali ng isa't isa. Something terrible must have happened kaya sila naghiwalay. Ano kaya un

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  13. Tom is an American citizen, so he can file for divorce. It will only be recognized in the Philippines when the court approves a petition of recognition of foreign divorce decree.

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  14. Kinasal ba sila sa US kaya may divorce? So pinapalabas ni Tom Na money ang pinaka dahilan kaya sila Nag hiwalay?

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    1. Parang ganun na nga kasi yun ang ini emphasized nya sa statement nya. The nerve, pinagmukha pang pera si Carla.

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  15. Bk nagpakasal sila sa US? Kaya don divorce na sila

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  16. is it really possible to unlove someone? lalo na kung minahal mo sya ng totoo, sa matagal na panahon? is it? I am talking in general ah..ung mga relationships na nag fell apart kasi ndi n tlga pwede. How can u move on from that feeling, from that person? ang pinakanakakalungkot, ung mahal nyo pa ung isat isa pero ndi lang tlaga kayo tinadhana. there's no moving on from true and great love talagang you just need to live with it.

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    1. Of course it is. People can get over deaths of family members and move on and these people they have known their ENTIRE lives, how much more someone who was once a stranger and whom you’ve only got to know in your adult life.

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    2. May iba ibang kind naman ng love. I always thought na love ko pa ang 1st bf ko kasi maganda separation namin, sya lang yung naiisip kong ex na payag ako makipagbalikan. Pero both of us are married na. You learn to accept naman as time goes by, minsan nostalgia lang naman yung nagpapaalala sayo abt sa feelings mo.

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    3. I agree. I found my great love but wasn’t brave enough to pursue it. I married someone else but sometimes naiisip ko si totga. You dont really forget them, you just learn to live your life without them.

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    4. Baks anything can happen. If two people can fall in love, they certainly can fall out of love. Minsan totoo din un seven year itch.

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    5. Possible naman po. Lalo na kung mas lamang ang sakit na pinaparamdam kesa love. Last year nag hiwalay kami ng naging jowa ko for 5 years dahil nag hanap sya ng mas malapit. Actually wala ngang break up na nangyare. Inaway lang nya ko tapos nalaman ko may iba na sya lol. Nag work lang ako ng nag work hanggang sa naramdaman ko na naka move on ko. Then itong year lang yung plano namin na bumili sana ng bahay eh nagawa kong mag isa. Ang daming realization kapag nakawala ka na sa taong toxic.

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    6. Ang shakit shakit.

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  17. Jusko parang nabudol lang c Carla. Be strong ate girl.

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  18. His manager posted on his ig din yung statement ni tom na ni like ni dennis and benj alves. i remember around january or feb nagpost c tom about nabudol sya sa pera and mga commenters dun c dennis and jc tiuseco his brothers sa luminary talents. so malamang noon pa lang alam na nila na it was indeed money all along

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    1. tell us more marites. san yan haha

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  19. Nakakabilib naman how Tom handled the situation. Very classy!

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    1. Really? Parang dami din nman nya ingay before ma gag order.

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    2. Patawa ka ba? Syempre ginawa un ng lawyer nya

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    3. Lol sya nga unang humanash before the gag order and even after

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    4. Ala na bang ibang word aside from classy?

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  20. Eh bakit parang kasalanan pa ng babae na nakipaghiwalay sya? Eh bakit parang kasalanan ng ibang tao na nalimas yung pera nila? Bakit parang sa lahat ng nangyari eh biktima sya? He's a freakin adult with sound mind. His actions, his decisions - dapat he can own up to it. Napakamanipulative ng statement na parang biktima lang sya ng pagkakataon. Sabay galawang sadboi sa dulo para makakuha ng simpatya. Until the very end, iaabswelto pa ang sarili sa nagawang mga kasalanan para mabaliktad ang sitwasyon at mapunta sa kanya ang simpatya. Haaaay, Carla. Praying for her peace of mind, healing, and happiness. Ibibigay rin ni Lord ang lalaking irerespeto ka in every way.

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    1. Lol ikaw kasalanan mo dakdak ka ng dakdak wala ka naman alam

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    2. 9:02 basahing mabuti ang posts bago kumuda.

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    3. Korek. Pinalabas pang liar si Carla.

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    4. This! Ito din feeling ko sa statement nya. I used to be on his side but napa isip din ako the way he responded. He sounded like he is much more a victim than Carla. Haays, sana this happened before they got hitched.

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    5. Puro ka parang. Dun ka sa facts.

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    6. True magaling gumawa ng statement mukha tuloy syang inosenteng victim lang eh sino ba at fault

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    7. I sense manipulation too. Ewan ko ba pero yan din mismo nafefeel ko sa nabasa ko na para bang he is just a victim of inevitable circumstances. Wala akong alam sakanila but thats just how his statement sounds to me

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    8. Second this! I don't understand why people keeps blaming Carla. No relationship is perfect pero mukang mas agrabyado si Carla than Tom.

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    9. Agree 9:02. At hindi nya inaddress ang cheating issue. So infidelity must be the trigger talaga.

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    10. Pwede din naman kasi yun. Pwede kasing mgkamali ang tao without the intention hurting the people he loves. Worng judgement, wrong choices, wrong attitude towards problems. Mahina ang utak. Ganern. Pwede ding he felt like it is unfair to blame it all on him, para bang oo ngkamali ako, but giving up on us ang solusyon? Ganern. Mejo slow cguro si Tom. Idk. Spekulasyon ko lang.

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  21. Grabe my heart is really breaking for this once beautiful together couple. Anyway, it’s theit choice, decision and happiness so I hope they will both be happy on their own.

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  22. congratulations to carla. may she find peace.

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  23. Lahat ng pera niya? OMG. No wonder ayaw na ni Carla kasi parang traumatized yata siya pag dating financial problems like nakasandal lang sila sa lola (mother’s side) niya growing up.

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  24. Mabilis lang ang divorce. Annulment ang matagal. Balewala yang divorce na yan kasi nasa Pilipinas naman si Carla. Meanwhile, si Tom pwede na mag-asawa uli sa US.

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    1. they dont need annulment. carla can take that divorce decree and file for recognition. mas ok yun kesa sa annulment.

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    2. Or si Carla pwede naring mag asawa uli basta American citizen at sa us ikakasal.

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    3. With foreign spouse, divorce is recognized in the Philippines. Please education yourself.

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  25. Ano ba sino ba tlaga ngsasabi ng totoo?! Please kailangan nmin malaman ang totoo sa ikakatahimik ng isang marites na katulad ko..😩

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  26. Everyone has their own opinion and I am one of the few who believe on what Tom says. Nosebleed

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    1. awww same. ewan ko bsta gut feel lang , ung mga sinabi ni carla kc prang doesnt add up sa lahat lalo nakita ko ung mga past videos and interviews nila very genuine e. prang di sya talaga abused but hey thats just me lang

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  27. Diba si popoy rin manager ni carla? Parang ang unfair lang na side lang ni tom ang may official statement. Hmmm

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    1. Kasi inunahan ni ateng carla mag spill eh. Naglabas n ng sama ng loob sa YT. Eh si guy laging pinapashut up.

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    2. 9:38 am sabihin mo kay Carla mag official statement din. kaloka ka!

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    3. obvious kc na mas close si popoy kay tom, naging alaga nya c carla 2021 lang, and mukang mas super close sya sa mga datihan nya ng alaga Tom and dennis

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  28. Carla wants an annulment, mahabang proseso at magastos kaya si Tom na nagfile ng divorce sa US. Saves them both time and money. And sabi nyo naman si Tom may kasalanan so sya na nagfile since US citizenship meron sya edi ayan na, sabi nyo kc kapal ni tom na si carla pa gagastos ng annulment oh di ayan na

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    1. 9:47 bakit parang G na G ka? lol. dapat lang na si Tom para mapadali ang proseso, at siguradong yan din ang advice ng lawyers nila

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    2. 10:37 i think Tom filed the divorce to start the healing process for both of them.

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    3. fyi, kahit sa US ngfile sya ng divorce walang bisa yan dito at sa status ni carla. need pa rin ny ngfile ng kaso dito to recognize that in ph bago ma, registro sa civil registrar

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    4. 12:06 baka Tom has no plans pa na bumalik dto sa Pinas kaya dun na sya mag move on sa US start na sya new life

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  29. I shipped them even before pa sa My Husband’s Lover and was the happiest when they became lovers and then got married. Heartbreaking din para sa akon as a fan.

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  30. Naiiyak ako sa dalawang ito sa totoo lang. Ang sakit mga baks. Mas masakit pa sa hiatus ng BTS nung isang araw. Itatali ko ang kamay ni tom at bubusalan ko ang bibig ni carla para lang mapagsama sila ulit kahit ayaw nila. Pake ko sa inyo!

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    1. Sayang talaga baks dba. Gusto ko yang idea mo

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    2. 9:56 get a life!

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    3. I second the motion: Get a life!

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    4. 10:52 let them be. Wish lang namn ng fan yan kahit imposibleng mangyari.

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  31. Drop n ba ni popoy si carla o si tom ang bye showbiz na? Poy ikaw nalang ang magkwento ng nangyari. At saka ano ba wala na ba talagang way magkabalikan yan?

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    1. I think you should just respect their wishes. Gusto mo pa ng details

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    2. ANO KA BA sa ganitong nangyari babae ang kakampihan, mas dumami nga endorsement ni carla because of his issue so syempre di bibitawan si carla

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    3. Lol ang bts makakabalik pa yan if gusto pa nila. Ito kasal ni Carla at Tom never na maayos Mas masakit ito.

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  32. Pa-victim ‘til the end! Hindi nya cnlear na may cheating so probably meron talaga. Tapos parang si Carla pa pinapalabas nyang masama sa statement nya and unforgiving. Sus

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    1. Anyare sa pasuyo suyo nya kunware kay Carla. Apaka plastic

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    2. ayaw nya ng mahabang mahabang essay gaya ni carla kaya straight to the point na lang. ang point is di nya sinaktan physically dahil napakabigat na accusation nun teh and divorced na. un lang finish

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    3. Hayaan na natin. Sa kanila nalang yun kung sino nagsasabi ng totoo. Mag move on na lahat

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    4. It's not for you to question that. Sinabi naman niya between the two of them na lang kung anuman nangyari sa kanila. But go ahead judge who you want to judge. 😉

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    5. Malamang he will save face 11:11 naniniwala kayo agad sa sinasabi ni Tom pero ni Carla hindi? Why?

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  33. NAKAKALUNGKOT!!!!!

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  34. "I have to teach myself how to fall out of love from her"

    Relate ako dyan. Yung ayaw na nya sayo pero mahal na mahal mo pa sya. Ang sakit sakit 💔

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  35. Sa tono ng statement ni Tom, mabuti nalang talaga at iniwan sya ni Carla. Grabe, no remorse, pinapalabas pang si Carla ang may mali

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    1. gullible naman kc talag ung nagsabi lang c carla na inaabuso then naniwala na lahat e wala naman proof. ano gusto mo iadmit ni tom e kung sa hindi naman talaga totoo. porket nagsalita ung babae un na ang truth?

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  36. THANK GOD nakapag divorce! See! Ganyan kabilis! Sana talaga may divorce na sa Pinas!

    Peace of mind SA KANILANG DALAWA

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  37. Mas interested ako sa scam na nangyari sa kanya anyone know anong scam yun? I heard sa Cebu daw?

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  38. Dual citizenship ako. Hiwalay sa asawa 2yrs Na. Pinoy ang asawa. Kinsal sa Pilipinas, pwede ba akong mag-file ng divorce dito sa US?

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    1. Consult a lawyer wag dito kasi need i check documents mo

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    2. pareho tayo divorced ako sa Canada. pero kasa pa din sa Pinas. the answer is YES!

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    3. basta upon marriage e you are a dual citizen. kase if after the marriage hindi sya pwede

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    4. Consult ka sa lawyer

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    5. Yep gayahin mo lang yung ginawa ni Tom

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    6. Yes pero kasal parin kayo sa Pinas. Pero magiginh single ka sa US

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    7. I think yous should consult a lawyer dito sa Pinas..
      Wag dito mamsh, pare pareho tayong marites dito, baka kung ano mapayo sayo 😂

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    8. yes and you can use it for annulment sa Pilipinas. Mas mabilis.

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    9. 10:39 teh, kahit magkasama pa kayo ng asawa mo pede ka mag file ng divorce dito sa amerika.

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    10. I think you can kasi citizen kana dyan pwede mo na ipa divorce. Kaso sa Philippines legally married parin kayo kasi walang divorce sa pilipinas. Pwede kana mag asawa dyan basta divorce na kayo ng ex mo.

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    11. Tama. Consult a lawyer sis. Kse totoo naman na na pwede i divorce talaga ang spouse na nasa Pinas. Me friend ako na divorced nya ang husband nya. Pero ang totoo pineke ang pirma ng asawa dyan sa Pinas na bedridden na. So ayaw na ayaw ng friend ko na pag uusapan ang tungkol sa asawa nyang kano kse kahit pala nakasal na sa Puti pag nalaman ng immigration na me mali sa proseso ng pagkuha ng citizenship pwede i revoke ang citizenship mo? Di ko alam kung totoo eto. Kse di naman ako nakatira sa US.

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  39. So parang totoo ang issue na dahil sa political desires ni Tom. Naglabas siya ng pera and lost them.

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    1. Yes. And it was someone very close to him who scammed him.

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  40. Totoo talaga ang kasabihan na it's not about the length of time na you were together. Kung kayo, kayo talaga hanggang dulo. May nagpapakasal kahit short period of time pa lang na couple, tapos maayo ang pagsasama. Sila naman, 7 years before nagpakasal but after 3 mos, ayun nasakal. Being in relationship doesnt only require being in love, kailangan rin maging matalino. Kung may red flags na, out na.

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  41. Hindi dineny yung infidelity/infidelities. The fact na he wanted this to go away quickly means totoo lahat sinabi ni Carla, they're avoiding this getting bigger with other details spilling out.

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    1. Luh, straight to the point na nga ano gusto mo pahabain nya pa? porket haba haba ng sinabi ni carla ilan pages ata yun kelangan ganok kahaba din sagot ni Tom? luh ok ka lang so pahabaan at paramihan ang standards mo sino nagssbi ng totoo? kelangan lahat putak ng putak?

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    2. Diba kasi yun naman talaga ang issue. Sa tingin ko naman kung naging faithful si Tom magagawan pa ng paraan kahit nalugi si Tom. Emotional abuse ang pag cheat niya kay Carla. Sabi pa ni Ogie na may nag flirt kay Tom ang tanong pano nakuha ang number ni Tom.

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    3. Patawa ka. Si girl nga nag-initiate ng legal process.

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    4. Korek! The moment nag spluk si Carla biglang ayaw nya na pag usapan eh samantalang g na g sya dun sa mga deleted IG posts nya about wanting to speak blah blah kesyo baka kung sabihin nya lahat mawendang mga tao. Duh!

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    5. kaloka ka, gusto na nga matapos para matahimik na palibhasa ikaw gusto mo magsagutan cla ng magsagutan para lagi ka makichismis e,

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  42. Sya na ang nag file para di na mahirapan si carla AWWWW

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    1. More on, to save his face. Para kunwari siya ang tunay na biktima

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    2. Ay kalokah ni romanticize pa ang ginawa ni Tom. 😂

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  43. Grabe yung nangyari sa carla kaloka ang bilis ng pangyayari tuwinf nakikita ko mga post nila sweet sila kahit sa vlogs ok namn sila si tom under kay carla tapos puro religious mga post nila about couples whatever YUN PALA NAG WA WARLA SILA in real life!!!

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  44. While we dont know the whole story or who is more at fault, nakakalungkot talaga. May they both find happiness and peace.

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  45. Waits Lang may divorce na ba sa pinas? Not unless nag pakasal sila sa US. Anyway, now we hear his side. I think for me both Carla and Tom may pagkakamali. Wala communication nangyari sa kanila napairal ang pride. Diba pag galit ka Anu Anu na mga nagagawa natin na Hinde natin Alam Pati mga decision natin agad agad Hinde na Pag isipan ng Mabuti . Again sa akin Lang ito ha. Nakakalungkot nangyari sa kanila sa totoo Lang Medyo Nakaka depressed din. My prayers for Tom and Carla for their healing

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    1. walang divorce for filipino citizens. tom is american. he can file for divorce in the US; carla can petition for recognition of foreign divorce sa pilipinas.

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    2. 10:58 am failed relationship parehong may mali kaya nga failed eh

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  46. Galawang sadboi.

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  47. Ang yayaman Dito ang mga lawyers ni Tom
    And Carla’s Pero sa totoo Lang nakakalungkot at Mas naawa ako sa kanila. Sa Dami Dami sila pa nagkaroon ng failed marriage. Napanood ko nga mga vlogs ni Carla during her wedding prep, you can see excited siya gusto niya maayos lahat kasal niya Kahit busy siya sa work niya. Napanood ko pa nga, May time na Ayaw siya pay Ayan mag abroad Pero sobrang nag paalam siya para puntahan yung gown niya sa NYC!

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  48. Ang manipulative ng statement ni Tom grabe, I can't believe some people in these comments are actually falling for it. "I will be alone in this lonely path" is so paawa.

    Si Carla pa talaga pinapalabas na mali kahit na inamin nya na he lost all his money in a scam, and si Carla pa talaga nag-give up sa marriage?? No, Tom, you already gave up on your marriage when you chose to give all your money to a scam without telling Carla. All the rumors pointed to you spending all your money without letting her know. How do you expect a marriage to work when your partner can't trust you to look out for both of your futures? Winaldas mo lahat ng pera mo na dapat pinundar mo sa mga magiging anak nyo, and you expect her to still trust you? You don't respect your partner enough if you can't even be honest about your finances.

    And once again, abuse isn't just physical. Him insisting he never laid a hand on Carla still doesn't make it untrue that he has been manipulating and gaslighting her. He should've said he never did any form of abuse against her if Carla's statements were all lies. He knows what he did. He can only claim he didn't hit her, but her can't claim innocence on everything else because what Carla said was true.

    I hope Carla finds happiness and peace. Good riddance to bad rubbish, as they say.

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  49. i wish both of them find peace and happiness sooner than later.

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  50. Whoever falls for his statement has not lived with a manipulative, narcissistic person.

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  51. The way Carla keeps leaving people because of money or lack thereof. She left her ex because he couldn’t buy her a house and then left her now husband cause he was scammed. Seems like financial stability is of the most important factor for her to have a relationship with someone.

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  52. Sa dinami dami talaga? So okay lang na sa iba mangyari, ba’t sa kanila pa?

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  53. carla is wise when it comes to her money. nakapag invest na siya ng house in tagaytay and may unit sya malapit sa gma at may condo din. carla is frugal as seen sa vlogs nya conservative whereas tom naman i think ma-risk.

    ayoko si carla parang masyado siyang controlling but now i think gets ko na. controlling si tom as you can see umikot mundo nya kay tom at family but now she's with her coactors which is good.

    sa vlogs during pandemic carla housewife na she gave her all and i believe naubos siya..

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  54. I don't believe sa insinuation ni Tom na dahil sa pera sila nagkahiwalay, ang pera nababalik, you can earn it back especially with their status, powede nilang pag ipunan ulit. I believe it is the infidelities and trust. Yung trust mahirap mabalik kung niloko ka.

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  55. I feel really sad for them. Hindi ko na rin maimagine yung pain na kailangan mong daanan from a heartbreak like this. At the same time naiinggit ako sakanila sana may divorce nalang din dito para hindi natatali sa mga asawa specially yung victims of abuse and infidelity lalo ng mga babae na daladala pa apelido ng lalake. Haaaaay

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  56. Kung iba base ang statement pareho i'll go for Tom.Short,sincere,walang kinilingan.Yun kay Carla kasi parang all about " me me me" .Lets all move on mga marites hahaha!

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  57. MOVE ON NA DIN KAYO MGA MARITESS !!! TAPOS NA BOKSING!

    SA MAG ASAWA NA ITECH, PAHINGA NA KAYO SA SOCIAL MEDIA NOH. MOVE ON!

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  58. mabilis ang divorce sa arizona, mga 2-3 months lang. di ba doon si Tom? mas mahaba sa ibang states kasi may waiting period.

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  59. Nakakalungkot naman if the reason is money nga. Kahit hindi ka pa naging part ng decisision at kahit naapektuhan ka pa, if you really love the person hindi mo basta basta iiwan dahil lang maghihirap kayo. Pwede pa naman kayo ulit magtrabaho at mag-ipon. Kun yun lang talaga ang issue, naaawa ako kay Tom for investing 7 yrs Sa relationship na iiwan ka pala when times get tough. So naloko ka na at naghirap, iniwan ka pa ng asawa mo.

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  60. Grabe yung ending nila. After 7 years na live in tapos nagpakasal after 3 months naghiwalay. Nakakabaliw po opo.

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