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Wednesday, January 19, 2022

Insta Scoop: 'Mind Your Own Business!' Jessy Mendiola Tells Netizens Asking and Advising Her on Pregnancy


Images courtesy of Instagram: senorita_jessy

24 comments:

  1. Gayahin mo reply ni heart. “Not your uterus.” 😂

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    1. You can never control people so giving unsolicited advice is inevitable. However, you can always control your reaction. So why be bothered? In short, hayaan mo na ganyan talaga mga tao.

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    2. 12:25 Hindi masama icall-out ang mga pakialamera.

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    3. 12:25AM, alam mo na tao rin sila, naha hurt ang feelings and sometimes, affected din? Mas tama yung sinabi niya na stop unsolicited advice. Yun naman ang dapat. Masyado na kasing nagmamarunong ang mga tao. It's time na they know their boundaries. Huwag na itolerate ang maling ugali.

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    4. Oh sya magpakastress kayo sa mga marites na pakialamera jan na nagbibigay ng unsolicited advice. Pag nagtanong sila bakit di pa kayo nagkakaanak eh maistress kayo at pag nagbigay comment or tips eh magpakastress din

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    5. 12:25 So why be bothered? Haha! Bothered ka rin at naglabas ka ng opinyon mo dito.

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  2. Again, you open your business up for everyone to pick on. If you planned on getting pregnant and don't want to welcome the unsolicited advise, you should've kept mum. Wag overshare tapos senti pag pinakialaman

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    1. Or wag chismosa and pakialamera like you 😏

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    2. another one na tinotolerate ang maling ugali. 2022 na, 12:10AM. magkaroon ka naman ng respeto sa kapwa mo. d naman natin kakilala si jessy personally. kung yung kilala mo nga, masasaktan din siguro sa ganyang mga usapan, d ba?

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    3. Hindi kaba naturuan ng bad manners ? Ganyan ka pinalaki ng magulang mo? You should call out the basher , not the victim .

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    4. 12:10 Baligtarin natin ang situation. How will you react pag ikaw ang tinanong? Di ka maooffend?

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    5. Grabe ka sama mo

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  3. Ito yung reason kaya umiiwas na ako sa FB at messenger. Mga pakialam era sa buhay na laging nagtatanong kelan kame magkakaanak ng asawa ko. May mga kamag-anak at kaibigan pang nagcocomment na wala daw silbi pagkakayod namin kung wala kameng anak. May mga unsolicited advise pa na "Mag excercise ka!" nakaka bwisit n, ipepressure ka nila na para bang sila ang magpappagatas sa magiging anak mo? Mga Pinoy, tama na sa pangengealam sa buhay ng mga mag asawa. Stop pressuring couples to have children! Hindi madali, kung alam nyo lsng ang pinagdadaanan namin emotionally, psychologically and financially para lang mag karon ng anak. Kinikimkim namin lahat ng sakit tapos Dumadagdag kayo.

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    1. People don't understand the struggle, and don't explain to them too. Been there and it only created hatred specially to my in laws who said super below the belt. Now I have baby and post partum me hates them a lot like I don't even want them to know any update abt my baby lalu na I don't have Family around di nakauwi Pinas? so feeling ko kukunin sakin.

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    2. True. Even friends tell you unsolicited advice. Also in laws telling you what's the purpose of marriage if hindi magka anak(as if ako lang yung gagawa ng bata). That's why post partum me also don't want to be near them. Everytime I remember what I went through pre pregnancy and post pregnancy(bcoz I live with them before), parang nagkaka anxiety ako. Cguro they mean well but overly doting.

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  4. Advise ko lang sa kanya, mukhang nakakaaffect sa kanya ang mga unsolicited comments from various people. Jessy, turn off mo ang comment section mo or limit lang sa mga friends mo. Ang simple lang naman talaga, bakit nya pa i-stress-in sarili nya in reading mean comments from bashers. Hayyyy naku.

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    1. Be like Arnold Clavio. Mga finofollow lang sa ig ang nakakapagcomment

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    2. Oh dba effective? Chill lang si Arnold tapos iyong mga haters nya, highblood na kasi di makacomment. Ganun lang naman yun kung expected mong makakakuha ka ng negative comments at di mo kayang ihandle, turn it off.

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  5. Ito ang sakit ng mga Pilipino, ipressure ang mga tao to fit into the norm. Kapag dalaga, dapat may boyfriend. Kapag may boyfriend, dapat kasalan na. Kapag bagong kasal, dapat buntis agad. Kapag nagkaanak na, dapat buntis uli kasi yung opposite gender naman. Itigil na sana ang pagpressure.

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    1. Yes, Filipinos are nosy busybodies. So rude too, albeit overly sensitive.

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    2. 12:35 madami kasing time makialam sa buhay ng ibang tao. In short, hindi busy o kaya hindi masaya sa sariling buhay.

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    3. Spot on. The younger generation are not like this, may tact and manners naman. Yung mga boomers jusko.

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  6. Gusto mong sumikat pero ayaw mong pakialam ka? That's the price to pay dear. Walang 2022 sa ganyan, gusto mong makilala, pwes dapat handa loob mo sa mga sawsawera.

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  7. At kapag kasal na ineexpect na ang hiwalayan

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