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Saturday, January 29, 2022

Insta Scoop: Unfollowing and Subsequent Following Lead Netizens to Assume Something is Amiss with Tom Rodriguez and Carla Abellana







Images courtesy of Instagram: carlaangeline/ akosimangtomas

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  1. Meron talaga something nangyari sa kanila. Since the Odette tragedy, I never saw them together na. Since naging sila, they would always spend Christmas with Carla’s family. Pero last Xmas, Tom was missing na. Parang he spent his holidays someplace else. Ang sad naman nito. Sana maayos na nila.

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    1. Yes, since Odette tragedy in Cebu bigla naging weird silang dalawa. Sa US sila dapat mag holidays sa family ni Tom pero di na natuloy. Praying for them na magkaayos, nakakasad inaabangan ko pa naman magiging babies nila na puro dimples din

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    2. Ginagawa ko rin yan pag nag aaway kami ng asawa ko. Binablock ko pa nga sya sa fb ko. After ilang oras, friends kami ulet at ako din mag aacept ng friend request kasi fb nya nasa cp ko rin. Fb lite gamit nya ako naman browser. Haha. Sana same same lang situation nila carla at mang tomas.

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    3. @12:17 am Insider? Dami alam sa holiday plans ah.

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    4. @12:44 mars same tayo sa asawa ko din block number, fb messenger, tapos mayamaya pag lumambot na unblock na ulet haha!

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    5. Kami naman talaga ni Tom ang bagay.

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    6. Ano'ng nangyari kay Tom and Carla durinv Odette?

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    7. May comment na sana daw malaman ang katotohanan para sa peace of mind ng fans. Susko dinaig pa nila yung may problema talaga ano?! Napaka mahadera

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    8. 11:16 May vlog sila ng Christmas FYI magkasama sila. Sus

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    9. 9:09 that vlog was before Christmas with Carla’s friends. She uploaded it recently lang. But after Odette they were not seen that much together. Something must have happened/ discovered before Christmas and it must be an issue that they can’t resolve right away because maybe it’s too much to take.

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  2. Tong mga kapwa Marites na to, oo! nag-aadjust pa sila sa buhay may asawa. Dami pa yang awatan at tampuhan after the honeymoon. Let them be. Matatauhan din ang mga yan.

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    1. Te kaya nga marites eh! San ka nakakita ng tsismosang concern at understanding?

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    2. What adjustment? Theyve been living together for 7 yrs. Ang nabago lang naman ay formalization ng pagsasama but they’re basically living as husband and wife na before the marriage. Malamang may mas matinding rason yan kesa sa adjusment kemerlu.

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    3. 11:51 I know controversial ito but based on observation, iba yung cohabitation sa marriage pa rin. Ang dami kong nakita na nagcocohabitate for a long time, then divorce a few months or years after they finally decided to get married. Example din yung si brad and angelina.

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    4. Iba kasi pag kasal na vs live in pa lang. Pag kasal na ibang pakisama na din sa family ng bawat isa. Kaya kahit paano may adjustment pa din.

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    5. Iba ang cohabitation sa kasal na
      May adjustment period pa din.

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  3. Dumadaan talaga lahat ng mag asawa ng ganito. Sana ma resolve..

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  4. They are still together. I’m friends with them. Please let’s not assume

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    1. Ofc they’re still together, technically they still are. But you know the marites definition of hiwalay na, no?

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    2. 11:17 ambisyosa ka haha

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  5. Tom must be still hot headed and easily flares up. Remember his PBB days that’s why he got evicted. Hopefully he changed.

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    1. yeah. ..may temper si tom

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    2. Malakas ang personality ni Carla. Kung pinapanood mo vlogs nila, grabe kung maka-dominate si Carla. Tino-talk to the hand niya si Tom. So patas lang sguro din sila sa part na to.

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    3. yep si girl may pagka know all din naku clash sila

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    4. Carla has a know it all attitude. May kayabangan din. But then, wala naman problem that can't be solved if they are really committed to each other. Sana may mag mediate

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    5. OA nyo naman, di naman tatagal ng 7 mahigit years yang dalawang yan kung nagka clash sila. lahat naman ng tao may pangit na attitude, tanggap na nila isat isa no tagal na nila eh. they are compatible kaya nga sila tumagal ng ganyan at never nagkaron ng hiwalayan at intriga. Baka naman ksi this time may pinag awayan na matindi. hayaan na sila magkakaayos din naman yan.

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  6. bakit nakafollow naman pagcheck ko? binalik na?

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  7. Wag nman sanaπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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  8. May adjustment period naman talaga in the early stages of marriage. Hopefully they will overcome it.

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  9. Sa almost 8 yrs ng relasyon nila wala silang naging mabigat na problema,walang issue,walang selosang naganap almost perfect ang relationship nila,kya ngaun na ngkaroon sila ng away hindi nila na handle ang isat isa.

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    1. Kaya lesson learn dapat mg away din kau habang mgbf/gf para alam muna kung panaano magalit ang isat isa.

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    2. May something talaga kc ung mga ig stories ni carla simula dec 13,mukha talagang may problema

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    3. same thought 11:40 ngayon lang yata sila nagkaron ng ganito kalaking away or tampuhan baka parehas nabigla di nahandle ng maayos, pero hopefully magkaayos, bagong kasal lang eh nag aadjust pa lalo s mga decision makings

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  10. Akala ko may forever sa tomcar,nakakalungkot nman.

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  11. Naiiyak ako,sakit sa puso.

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  12. Hanggat hindi pa sila ngdedelete ng picture nila sa isat isa hindi ako maniniwala

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  13. Let them be. Normal naman sa buhay mag asawa yan. Kaloka kayo.

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  14. Wag nman tomcar wag kau gumaya sa ibang artista na nghihiwalay.please

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  15. Ganyan naman talaga ang IG. Kahit naka follow and di naman nag unfollow, nawawala sa list.

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  16. sad nman! nasa honeymoon stage pa cla

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  17. I’d understand if they weren’t living together so might be adjusting ang issue.

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    1. Yun na nga mare, magkasama na sila sa isang bubong ng 7 years, anu pang adjustment ang kailangan diba? Mukhang malaking prob talaga ito

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    2. Wala sa tagal yan ng pag-live in. Maraming marriages na happy at nagtagal kahit whirlwind romance nung umpisa.

      Iba pa rin ang may legally binding contract, the dynamics will change. Ang tanong na lang eh kakayanin ba?

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  18. People saying adjusment period normal lang sa bagong mag asawa when these 2 are already living together for 7 years. What adjustment are you talking about? 😳

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  19. mkpgassume nmn agd...Kkakasal lng nila...Grabe nmn kung hiwalay agad..

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    1. buti na lang sa Pilipinas sila kinasal no. Kasi sa ibang bansa lalo sa amerika nangyayari talaga yan, meron nga pagkatapos ng kasal di pa natatapos ang araw naghihiwalay na.

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  20. Matagal ng di suot ni carla ang engagement at wedding ring nya.pero si tom suot parin nya wedding ring nya

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    1. Na-notice ko ko dn yan

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    2. Oo nga nasight ko din. Before Christmas di na suot ni Carla

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    3. 1:35 isyusera ka, magkasama pa sila ng Christmas. May vlog pa.

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  21. May kakilala ko tagal naging mag boyfriend mga 10 years pero nung kinasal nag divorce din agad.

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    1. kaya dapat wag ng pakasal kasi walang divorce sa atin,magastos pa pa annulled

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  22. Nakakabilib din yung ang bilis nalalaman who unfollowed who… hahaha the level of vigilance is astounding

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    1. Nag deactivate kasi si tom ng ig few days ako so madami na ang nagtaka,at nka abang.kaya nung inactivate nya ult kanina, ayun namm ncheck na agad ng mga tao haha

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    2. Panung di mapapansin eh may pa deactivate si koya. Kung follower ka nila mapapansin mo talaga kahit before mo pa tingnan kung nagpa follow-han pa ba sila kasi wala na silang post together not even during christmas pati comments wala. So next step ng mga followers usisahin kung naka follow pa ba sila sa isat-isa. Tapos biglang may pa emote na post about leaving si Tom nung nag activate sya.

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  23. Whatever it is na pinagdadaanan nila sana maayos na din nila. Tahimik lang silang couple for almost 8yrs nilang relasyon never nagkaroon ng intriga. Sobrang inlove sa isa't isa lalo si Tom kulang na lang sambahin si Carla. Di naman din sila papansin sa social media , kakalungkot na naiintriga sila ngayon. Sana magkaayos na din, baka nagkatampuhan lang ng malala. Ikaw naman kasi Tom , lagi ka sa cebu wag mo iwan lagi misis mo 😒

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  24. Tom & Carla.. Whatever it is you both are going thru in your marriage, I pray you can surpass this. I read of this news earlier & it was quite hard to believe. I mean hello.. they just got married. Shocking news.

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  25. I doubt na hiwalay na sila. 8 years sila, matagal na nilang kilala ang isa’t isa so I don’t think they’ll easily let their relationship be destroyed by one misunderstanding. Kung di matibay relationship nila, di naman sila siguro tatagal ng ganun. Baka nasa adjustment period sila ng married life nila kaya medyo rocky sila ngayon.

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    1. Huh? Parents ko naghiwalay after 33 yrs of being married, Brangelina nagbreak din after being together for 11 years, Kim and Kanye after 9, hindi ibig sabihin na matagal na e di na posibleng magkahiwalay pa.

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    2. Look at Brad and Angelina. Smooth sailing when they were living together tapos nung kasal na nah divorce after a few years.

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  26. Omg that was fast! Seryoso ba ito ?

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  27. Alam ko before naman sila nag pakasal they are living in each other na dun pa Lang nakikita na nila ugali nila sa isat isa. I know kasi client ko sila Carla hahahaha.

    Baka may drama Lang mag asawa

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    1. 1217 You are so unprofessional. I wouldn’t want to get a vendor who shares info about me

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  28. Ang bilis naman πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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  29. Ang daming ganyan kahit sa Hollywood or yung mga kakilala ko. Ang tagal mag bf-gf, tapos nung kinasal na...ilang months lang hiwalay na. Ano sa tingin nyo ang reason? Too much pressure for the commitment of marriage ba? Hayyy, sana wag naman sila maghiwalay.May article na sinasabing, may pinagseselosan si Carla na GMA actress din.

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  30. Ang tagal nila bago kinasal tapos wala pang ilang buwan hiwalay na?! Sayang ng pera at effort. Wag masyado kasi puro love love. Matuto mabuhay maging single..im saying this to everyone..dahil hindi lahat marrying kind at di lahat magkaka jowa na hahantong sa kasal.

    i came in this world alone and damn it i'm a leave alone so i ain't trippin - Bunifa Latifah Halifah Sharifa Jackson

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  31. Feeling ko maghihiwalay din sila.

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  32. Hay sana naman hindi totoo. Ang lakas ng personality ni Carla. Kita mo how dominating she is kay Tom and Tom just takes it like a man. I noticed this nung una pero naisip ko na, kaya ni Tom tanggapin.

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    1. He respects Carla that much eh , pero sa guesting nila sa Mars with Iya, tinanong ni Carla si tom ano quality nya ang gusto sana ni Tom mabago nya, sabi ni Tom yung patapusin daw muna ni Carla si Tom magsalita bago nya pangunahan kase madalas may gsto sya sabihin na hindi na nya nasasabi, natawa si Carla oo daw aware naman daw sya don at babaguhin naman daw nya

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    2. We accept our partners for who they are - both the good things and the bad. Pero syempre, tinutulungan din natin sila to be better para makaiwas rin na may masaktan sila dahil sa kanilang bad habits or di kagandahang traits. One of the reasons kaya nga ang relationship needs constant work, lots of patience and understanding too. Sana maayos nila kung ano man ang problema. I watched their wedding video at muhkang sincere naman sila sa isa't isa at sa pagmamahal nila to each other's family as well.

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    3. Domineering si Carla talaga pansin ko rin yan sa vlogs nila.

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    4. maldita c carla nadagdagan pa na smart siya kaya ayan gusto palagi siya ang tama

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    5. Smart din si Tom at talented pa.
      Cguro pinagbibigyan lang nya si Carla at mahal nya kaya hinahayaan.
      The thing is si Carla ang napapasama sa ginagawa nya kay Tom kc kita sa vlogs how she treat him.

      Sana maayos nila if ever nag away sila.

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  33. Noooo πŸ˜­πŸ’”

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  34. Parang si Hailey, 10 years or so naging mag jowa kay Chad pero sa isang taon nagdivorced agad. Bakit kaya ganun , nagbabago pag kinasal na compared sa mag jowa pa lang?

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    1. Live in na cla Carla at Tom before cla kinasal kaya I don’t get why May magbabago pa

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  35. Drama Lang yan para maging relevant cla

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    1. Mga artista lang ng Ignacia ang gumagawa nyan. Mga idol mo!

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  36. Awww, jusme sad kung kelan may papers na ng kasal, sana noon pa nag warla at nagdedisyon ng ganyan! Antagal naman nilang lived-in e. Anyway, sana maayos pa nila, kahit sabi ng iba na e ano naman, formality lang naman ang ksal. Sa akin kasi, ayoko humina ang power ng kasal. Edi dapat pala, hindi na pinauso ang kasal kung madali lang naman bumitaw, dahil sa sobrang open-minded natin, kaya parang nagpapakasal nalang ngayon, pero pag nagbago isip back out! Paano na ang next generations, kung wala na palang power ang kasal? Para lang makapag suot ng Wedding suit at Wedding Gown at ma doll-up??? Sana, maayos pa. Kung wala na talaga, edi wala na. Sayang lang memories nun kasal.
    Nakakainis talaga 'yung mga maling tao, sila ang dahilan kaya humihina na ang faith ng mga tao sa halaga ng legal marriage.

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    1. I'm sorry to say this, but I think the problem lies with the fact na hindi talaga as powerful yung kasal as it appeared to be, nasa tao nakadepende talaga. Those who choose to stay together will do so and endure it all kasal man o hindi, while those na never naman talagang marrying/commitmemt type but nagpadala sa mga norms at pressures ng society ay di talaga tatagal, wala lang silang way out dahil walang divorce sa atin. All in all I think exception sa norm yung mga tao na may meaningful unions. Majority ng mga adults ay hindi self-sacrificing, at hindi willing to compromise, madami sa atin emotionally stunted din. Masyado lang madami yung mga ganung tao kaya it seems normal that they are getting married and are having families, but in reality, yung mga ganung tao don't benefit from marriage/building families and produce even more emotionally stunted or traumatized children.

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  37. bakit naging standard ng relasyon ang follow at pag unfollow sa isat isa sa socmed. di ba pwedeng magkaroon ng individuality ?

    magkasama or hiwalay, it's their life and choice.. ok mga marites?

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  38. Matagal silang live-in. Masyado ngang parang perfect ang relationship kaya medyo suspicious din.

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    1. OA mo naman, pag parang perfect ang relationship suspicious agad? Daming couple na almost perfect tingnan dahil ganun talaga, sadyang masaya sila at smooth sailing. Lungkot ng life mo siguro kaya suspicious sayo ang mga happy couples

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  39. Bat kasi nagpapakasal agad eh, tapos konting away/tampuhan maghihiwalay na, tsk task

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    1. Hindi sila nagpakasal agad. 7 years na silang live in. Wala yan sa tagal.

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  40. Nabasa ko dati pag daw they got married for wrong reason ganyan nagiging ending. Kunwari napressure dahil matagal na sila so ngpakasal to resolve it tapos pag kasal na naging mas empty un feeling.

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    1. Hindi sila napressure. Gusto n tlga ni Carla magpakasal kay Tom. May mga interviews sila na nagpapahaging na si Carla. Si Tom ang mukhang npressure pero head over heels tlga sya kay Carla. Anyways, mahal naman nila ang isat isa at wala silang naging issue sa loob ng 7yrs na mag bf gf sila kaya bka typical na away magasawa lang ito. Wait lang tayo sa ssabihin nila o ng source.

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  41. Ano bang pinagsasabi ninyo na kasi live in na sila for many years, wala nang ibang iaadjust when they're married? From the label itself, married, iba na. There might not be much changes with living arrangements but there's still changes when you've signed those papers. And may pressure din with the fact that making it official means it's going to be harder to separate, whereas if live-in lang kayo, there's less consequence to separate.

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    1. Iba naman talaga pag married pero masyadong mabilis e kakakasal lang nila

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  42. hiwalay agad, baka nag-away o may tampuhan lang ganyan naman tayo minsan ah. wala ba kayong karelasyon?

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    1. Oo nga. Bka away magasawa lang. Pero honestly as a fan ng TomCar, worried din ako.

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    2. true marami naman ganyan, kahit ibang ordinary couple pag nag away may pa block pa nga na nagaganap, may pa change relationship status pa nga un iba. artista kase kaya bawat kibot napapansin , magkakabati din yan

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    3. Di kami artista. Bye.

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  43. Hindi ba napilitan magpakasal si Tom? Laki din ba sya sa US? Pansin ko lang na may mga artistang guys na laking US tapos hindi nagcocommit sa kasal or matagal magcommit kahit maging tanders na sila.

    Pero don’t get me wrong, mukhang ok namam si Carla pero based sa ibang comments dito, baka need nya ng guy na kaya ihandle at iembrace strong personality, as in everyday, till death do they part.

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  44. Napakaganda ng mukha ni Carla

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  45. Hmmm, more ek ek and drama for attention.

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  46. ngayon nakafollow naman sa isat isa ,may tampuhan lang siguro

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  47. 7 year itch is real :D

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  48. Un pag unfollow at pag block parang immature thing naman un. May LQ lang naman cguro cla natural na ya, maaayos din nila yan. God bless TomCarla ❤️

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    1. mukha naman may LQ lang talaga... baka sila din mismo nagulat sa epekto ng pag unfollow nila e, away mag asawa nauwi sa eskandal. Nahiya aminin na nagkatampuhan lang kaya di pa naglalabas statement nag iisip pa ng sasabihin na di sila magmumukhang mga immature sa ginawa nla

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  49. Sila na ata pinaka short ang marriage sa local showbiz if ever totoo man to.

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  50. Domineering c Carla base SA MGA napapanood ko SA MGA vlogs nila..may attitude sya the way he threat tom..minsan Makita Kung paano napahiya c Tom pag nagsalita sya parang akala mo walang narinig c Carla binaliwala nya palagi ang sinasabi ni Tom ..para tuloy lagi out of place c Tom

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    1. dami dami mo pang sinabi about carla di mo naman ma spell ng maayos. threat talaga? kaloka ka

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  51. Si carla sweet ang boses pero pabalang sumagot.

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  52. Pang apat na kayo sa mga celebrity na sobrang hinagaan ko na nagpaiyak sa akin to ang matindi kasi wala pang nagsasalita haaay ang hirap humanga kasi kht di ako kilala grabe ang luha ko..

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    1. jusko teh live your life or get one if you dont have one yet. bat mo iniiyakan ang buhay ng mga artista?

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  53. I remember nung nagpost sya na kamukha nya si Katy Perry tapos sabi, mas kamukha ni Bianca Intal, ni block agad ako sa IG. 🀣🀣🀣🀣 Ewan ko ba. Skl haha

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    1. sagwa mo din naman kc girl tama lang i block ka

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  54. Di sila nagsasalita kahit na ano...just give them break, space sabi nga. Maybe they are sorting things out... Magsasalita din yan after awhile, kasi siguro ayaw nila sumabay sa mga "maritess" dyan😊 kasi yan ang nakakatrigger to a negative outcome... God bless Carla & Tom πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ if ever something is on, you can survive!!!

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