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Monday, June 21, 2021

Insta Scoop: Rica Peralejo Responds to Reaction on 'Insensitive' View that Life is Incomplete without a Father





Images courtesy of Instagram: ricaperalejo

222 comments:

  1. Rica is so out of touch with what’s happening in the real world. Lingon lingon din sa pinang galingan pag may time ☺️

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    1. I don’t think she’s out of touch given that lumaki syang walang tatay.
      It’s her right to express her views.
      Doesn’t mean you have to accept that or follow that.

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    2. She has experienced being a fatherless kid. What are you talking abt that she is out of touch with reality?

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    3. Basahin mo ulet. Hanggang ma gets mo

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    4. 12:24 nagcomment ka na title lang binasa mo?

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    5. I am born out of wedlock.
      I was denied by the biological father
      My mom died when I was 7yo.
      I was raised by my grandmother and tita.
      I grew up seeing my 2 titos being dads to their kids.
      They love me as well
      But i always long to have my own.
      I totally agree,
      Life without a dad is incomplete.
      There will be an invisble hole in your heart that can't be filled by anybody.
      But God was able to make me feel loved thru the people around me and I am very thankful for that.

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    6. 1224 out of touch talaga I agree with you. not only on this post, but a lot of her posts seem like she doesn’t know what’s happening with the world and only concerned in her own bubble, their world as rich people

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    7. She may not be out of touch but sure is out of tact. Holier than thou always.

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    8. No one was meant to parent alone... pero maraming ganun eh! Maraming OFW, maraming single parents, maraming nabiyuda sa gyera at pandemic. Marami nga ampon at both parent hindi na nakilala. Are their children any less of a person? So, kulang-kulang na pagkatao nila, ganun?

      Get off your high horse, girl! Napaka-divisive ng statement mo, so much for promoting Christian love. *eye roll*

      Baka naman ganyan ka magsalita para maraming magreact at dumugin ka sa vlog mo? Sabagay, views din yan!

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    9. I think she is not. That is just one sentence in her whole blog and dyan na nafocus si commenter and I guess some here. Kudos to her for understanding instead na maging defensive. Tatay in her words does not mean only the biological father. God is, above all, The Father. But I guess not all of us can fathom that.

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    10. Yun na nga point lumaki palang walang tatay eh bakit sinabi pa nya yun?! Contradicting kasi..

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    11. 12:24 Lumingon nga siya sa pinanggalingan, kaya nga alam niyang di kumpleto kung walang tatay because she grew up without one.

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    12. 12:01 Huh? Ang layo na ng narating ng utak mo. Void lang ang tinutukoy nya, yun tipong may konting kulang at may hinahanap ang puso. Yung yearning para sa pagmamahal ng ama. Doesn’t mean yung batang walang ama ay magkaka diperensya, doesn’t
      mean hindi magiging masaya ang buhay ng bata. She never said the child will become less of a person compared to other people. Kasi if she did, eh di ibig sabihin she’s less of a person compared to others kasi lumaki siyang walang ama. Grabe, OA ka magreact.

      Ito nalang ang sagutin mo, ang mga bata na walang ama or ina nang lumaki, NEVER bang napaisip na ‘what if andito ang nanay/tatay ko?? Sagutin mo yon. And kung naisip at natanong nila yon, does it mean kulang kulang ang pagkatao nila??? O see kung gaano kalabo ang logic mo?

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    13. 12.01 "children any less of a person? So, kulang-kulang na pagkatao nila"- she didn't say anything about that. Ayusin mo utak mo hoy!.lol

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    14. nkklk binabash nyo si Rica dahil sa opinyon nya pero hindi nyo naisip na ganun din kayo kakitid ng utak kapag hindi nyo matanggap ang opinyon ng iba.

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    15. Not that big of an issue pero ginagawang big deal.

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  2. Kung walang dad sa buhay nyo just celebrate an extra special Mother's Day for your mom. Simple.

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    1. Tama.
      Celebrate life everyday.
      May occasion man o wala.
      Life is too short to be bothered by posts that doesn’f align to your beliefs or views
      Kanya-kanya yan.
      Respetuhan lang.
      Porke ba yan paniniwala nya, dapat yan na din paniniwala mo?

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  3. Mahirap maachieve ang world peace kung ultimo sa post ng mga tao eh laging may nasasabi. Magpost or hindi may masasaktan at tatamaan. Jusko. Ang gusto nyo kasi ivalidate lahat ng situation nyo. PWEDE BA YUN????? Eh post ng yan eh.

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    1. Ang serious mo naman!

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    2. malamang serious ang comment ni 12:26, di naman nagjoke si rica, halerrr?

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    3. 1.58 Bakit joke ba 'yun? Parang hindi. -not 12.26

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    4. Bakit, nakaka-world peace ba ang sinabi nya? Imbes na magpromote ng peace and love, parang nang-iimbyerna pa ang bakla e!

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    5. 12:02 pag ikaw nagpost sa socmed acct mo tingin mo walang naiimbyerna? Meron yan for sure pero di nagcocomment, nilalagpasan lang kasi ganun dapat, respetuhin nyo pananaw ng ibang tao, kanya un di ka naman binanggit sa post nya so bkt affected ka?

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    6. 12.02 Kasi you chose to interpret it that way. Blame yourself!

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  4. Yes I agree with her. Life will never be the same again pag wala na mga magulang mo but life must go on. Di hihinto ang ikot ng mundo pag nawalan ka ng mahal sa buhay. Sobrang sakit pero kailangan mong magpa2loy sa buhay.

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  5. I agree with Rica.

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  6. The pastor’s wife strikes again.

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    1. May problema ka ba sa pagiging asawa ng pastor?
      Kapag religious, may nasasabi.
      Kapag walang paniniwala sa Diyos, may nasasabi.
      Walang kasiyahan. Lahat napupuna.

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    2. Lol! I can’t understand people changing religion when we believed in the same God..

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    3. 2.01 based on observation, may mga practices or system na inaayawan sa old religion yung mga nagpapa.convert

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    4. 3:00 true. pero hindi naman yun required ng religion na ifollow lahat ng tradition. wala naman sila checklist to follow strictly.

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    5. 201 choice nila yun ano ba paki mo? Kung may problema ka sa religion ng ibang tao aba gumawa ka ng religion mo na na mag2unite sa lahat para wala ng palitan

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    6. Ok lang yun, but to impose their ideas and standards to the majority who maybe don't even believe them, iba yun. Instead of being understanding, parang ida-down pa yung situation ng tao. Nakaka-turnoff. Dahil sa mga ganyang pananaw kaya sila iniiwasan na parang may galis e!

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  7. Eto hang single mom nato walang tatay?

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  8. Insensitive remarks coming from a pastor’s wife.

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    1. Eh di ikaw na ang sensitive! Lahat nalang napupuna. Lahat binibigyan ng negative meaning. Basahin mo ulit post nya at nang maliwanagan ka.

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    2. You are sensitive. And that’s your problem not Rica’s. Kung lahat na lang ng sasabihin ng mga tao sa social media eh mahu hurt kayo I dont think you will survive this cruel world. Non issue ginagawan ng issue!

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    3. Sensitive siya... sa number of views ng vlog nya, charot! #parasaekonomiya

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    4. 3:46 Wow as if naman may dapat ikahiya sa pag vvlog. Sa totoo lang ang affected nyo sa napakaliit na bagay, kung di applicable sa inyo ung sinabi nya edi keber bakit butthurt kayo? Kilala ka ba ni Rica personally para patamaan ka?

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  9. Ok na sana, tapos sinundan ng pagpromote ng vlog. Parang insincere tuloy yung mga preachy preach nya kay single mom commenter. Very fake and cheap talaga nito ni Rica.

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    1. Ex showbiz girl kasi!

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    2. Syempre para may extrang kita si girl #justforthevlog

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    3. She’s always been fake and cheap. Very hypocrite din madalas yung mga ibang hanash nya kaya I unfollowed her a long time ago. And based from FP’s articles about her, naging oa sya lalo ngayon. Lol.

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  10. May mga tao individualistic. Keri nila sarili nila kaya di nakapag asawa. Pero may mga tao ding dependent sa iba like sa asawa nila. I believe that two heads are better than one. Mas masaya ang pamilya kung magkasamanag nagmamahalan ang mag asawa.

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    1. Kung nagmamahalan. Mahirap dalawa nga nagpapatayan naman. Wag na uy

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  11. Era talaga ito ng mabababaw na opinionated. Di busy? Nag explain naman siya. Hindi naman attack sa single mothers un. Gamit ng utak libre yan. Di puro antatapang at rebolusyon agad sa mga walang kwentang bagay pero sa kahirapan at korupsyon ng bansa eh bulag, pipi at bingi.

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    1. Sabi ko nga sa inyo yan yung mga produkto ng Demokrasya. Hindi pa rin kayo naniniwala.

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    2. Freedom of Speech. Ikaw nga may opinion sa mga may opinion. Kung hindi mo paa trip yun. Hindi ka na sana nag-comment.

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    3. May opinion ka about them. You also used the freedom of speech. Kung ayaw mo. Huwag na huwag ka nang mag-comment. Okaaaaayyyy?

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    4. Freedom of the speech na gagamitin niyo lang sa kababawan ano? Proud pa kayo.

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  12. Pabida talaga itong si Rica. Nanadya yan para sa clout kasi may vlog sya!

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  13. Thanks for rubbing it in on single parents na may kulang sa buhay nila. Pray that the pain will go away. Kung hindi, accept it, deal with it, learn to live with it. Basta may kulang sa buhay mo.

    Rica the self righteous strikes again.

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    1. You're taking it out of context. She is not rubbing it. It's a fact, masaya pero may kulang. That's just it.

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    2. It is another way of saying that our father is important,
      appreciation day kasi sa mga Dads.

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    3. Bat ka naooffend 12:40, wala naman masama intention ang post nya.

      Truth is, sa context ng pamilya dapat nmn tlg may tatay, nanay at anak. Wag ka mahurt kun may kakulangan sayo. Dapat malawak pangunawa.

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    4. its not a fact 2:59; thats an opinion.

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  14. Inimpose pa din ang opinion. Respect others' situation and opinions. You are not the STANDARD or the AUTHORITY to say what is a complete family.

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    1. The commenter did not respect Rica’s opinion too. She is too caught up with her bitterness na may mabasa lang hindi pabor sa kanya, aaray na

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    2. Someone finally said it. Sobrang self-righteous and may pagka-know-it-all si pastor’s wife

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    3. 12:41 iba po ung inimpose sa nagexplain lang. nakakalungkot na nagpaliwanag na nga ung tao sa abot ng makakaya in a polite manner galit pa din kayo.

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    4. Sabi nga sa kasabihan ang masama at mabuti ay depende sa perception / pagperceive ng tao.

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    5. 12:41 She is not the Standard nor Authority, true. She never claimed that she is. Just a reminder though, you aren’t either. So quits lang kayo. She has her own thoughts, you have yours. So stop being arrogant as well.

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    6. 12.41 okay. But why did you get mad though? Is it because there's some truth to it? Actions speak louder than words!

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  15. Heto na naman ang pastor's wife na napaka-tone deaf, hahaha! Full on palusot.com na naman siyaaaa...

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    1. 12:45 In what way sya nagpapalusot? Hindi nga siya nagpapalusot. On the contrary, she stood by her principles. Bina-base pa nga niya sa sarili niyang experience growing up without a father.
      And ano bang point na sabihin na pastor’s wife? Ikaw ba, gusto mong i refer as security guard’s wife. IT personnel’s wife, call center agent’s wife????

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    2. Always waiting to be offended kasi mga bashers nya. Kung hindi applied sa inyo ang message nya just go elsewhere.

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    3. Ang funny ng defender ni Rica dito. G na g, lahat yata ng comments, nirereplyan nya. HAHAHA

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  16. rica responded nicely in my opinion EXCEPT for the part na niyaya sya manood ng next vlog. haha. iba!

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    1. Nakaka-cheap noh?😂

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    2. 12:45 Kelangan kumita ng pera. That’s the reality.

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    3. Totoo naman need kumita ng pera. Pero hello? Yung preach preach ka at dami mong preachy hanash, sabay invite to watch a vlog? That’s just tasteless. I kinda cringed for her. Lol.

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  17. Opinion niya yun. Nakikibasa lang tayo. Kung naoffend ka wag ka na magtawag ng kukuyog at i assume na lahat ay na offend. Dahil hindi lahat ng tao e kasing balat sibuyas mo.

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  18. Why do we have to justify celebrating the dads today?
    Can we just let them enjoy this day without having to defend why they are being celebrated?
    There are other 364 other days, let’s give this one to them.
    I am with Rica on this one.
    Some people will always find faults no matter what you do or say.
    Everyone has an opinion on everything.

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    1. Meron kasi siguro religious group na against na against sa lahat ng holidays. Kinukwenstyon bat dw meron araw lng nag pagsecelebrate e dapat dw araw araw lol. Imagine kun every day of the year mo icelebrate, edi naghirap kn. kaya siguro jinajustify ang pagsecelebrate jan

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  19. My dad passed in 12 years ago and my life has felt incomplete without him. I miss him so much specially pag may mga important milestones sa buhay ko. He never got to meet my husband and children.

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  20. Rica be like: Preach preach preach check out my vlog. Kaloka!😂😂😂

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    1. Hindi nya kayo pinipilit to check her vlog but you're forcing your views on her.

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  21. Mhaayyyghaads naimbey din ako sa mga pa preachy preachy keme na mga artista pero susmiyo wag naman lahat ay patulan at i sensationalized. Parang araw araw may kinaka outrage mga tao. Freedom of speech people! Hindi mo bet unfollow.

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  22. I agree with Rica. Kahit single parent ka, you will always have a helping hand in Christ.

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  23. Kung wala naman talagang tatay, hindi kayo mabubuo.
    Pwede ba?

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  24. Para sa iba tulad niya. Yun paniniwala niya. Hindi mo kelangan siya awayin kasi magkaiba kayo ng opinion. Yun ang feeling niya e kulang pag walang tatay wala ka magagawa dun.

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  25. Rica mahiya ka. Sana pinag iisipan mo munang maigi yung mga binibitawan mong salita.

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    1. jusko parang naman kasuklam suklam yung sinabi nya. eh tama naman para sa iba yung sinabi nya, kung hindi tama para sayo, tingin sa kabila and move on. hindi naman nya sinabi na absolute tama sya at yun ang batas.

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    2. Oo nga naman—nakakahiya naman sa ‘yo.

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    3. 12:59 Paki explain kung ano ang dapat niyang ikahiya? Dapat siyang mahiya dahil taliwas sa iniisip MO ang sinabi niya? Heller, sayo umiikot ang mundo?

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    4. 1259 Wow! People in the world are not here to please you. Learn to ignore para sa ikabubuti ng utak mo.

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  26. Hala..lumaki akong walang ama pero di nama kasi un ang ounto ng post ni rica.

    Father's day ngayon kaya siya nagpost ng ganyan. Jusme.

    Fyo may lumaki din na walang ina. So bawal na ding magpost ng for mother's day?

    Saka di naman necessarily literal na ama yun eh. Single parents can both celebrate father and mothers day.

    Ewan. Yung nagcomment ang insensitive

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  27. Opinion niya yun. Insta niya yan. E tayong lahat nga lagi nating sinasabi na iba ang may pamilya and blood relatives pero yung mga orphan na nabuhay mag isa ba nagagalit? Lagi na lang may naooffend.

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  28. loving, matino and responsible ang kailangan ng mga bata. mother, father, ideally both andiyan. napakahirap magpalaki ng anak mag-isa.

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  29. I dont find it insensitive. I GREW UP WITHOUT A FATHER. i salute my lola and mom for raising. Masyado lang talagang sensitive ang mundo ngayon. Geeeeez

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    1. Same here. My father left us and it is as painful to the child too as to the mother. Minsan mas masakit pa. Masyadong insensitive sa maliliit na bagay.

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    2. so do u feel like ur lola and mom raised u enough na you dont feel incomplete?

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    3. 1114 bakit mo kinukwestyon ang opinyon ng iba. Isa pa, that is a personal experience. Dapat ba pag iba ang pananaw sayo, incomplete na? O pawoke ka lang din na lahat nlang issue. 🙄

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  30. For me tama naman si Rica, hindi kumpleto ang buhay pag wala tatay. Pero by saying “tatay”, for it doesn’t necessarily mean na biological tatay. Kahit sinong tao na tumatayong tatay like Tito or kahit single moms na ginagampanan din ang pagiging tatay.

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    1. I don’t agree! A mother is enough even w/out a father!

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    2. 2:04 kalma. Yun din ang sinasabi ni 1:20. KAHIT SINGLE MOMS NA GINAGAMPANAN DIN ANG PAGIGING TATAY.

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    3. pait ni 2:04

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    4. 2:04AM I don't agree naman with you! I'm sure everyone would want a complete and happy family. Wag kang bitter dyan. FYI may mga mabubuting ama at meron ding mga pabayang ina.

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    5. 1138 true! Mas malala pa ang bubble ni 204 kaysa kay Rica. Lol

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    6. mali ka dyan 2:04. a child needs both a mother (figure) and a father (figure). kung lalake ka, it will be difficult to have "boys" talk with your mother (figure). that's where a father (figure) comes in. mga lolo, tito, kuya, ninong, etc. same way na girls will find it difficult to have "girls" talk with their father. nilinaw naman ni rica na hindi porke tatay e biological father na. a mother alone or a father alone will never be enough to fill a child's being, and that's the reality. kaya nga merong community, merong friends, merong teachers.

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  31. pareho lang sya sa mga nagsasabing hindi kumpleto ang isang babae pag walang anak.. pleeease 🙄🙄🙄

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    1. hindi naman. may tao na talagang ayaw ng may anak at choice nila yun. pero ang anak hindi naman nila choice kung gusto nila ng tatay, nanay or parents pag napanganak sila.

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    2. Hala ginatungan pa neto. Sana di teaching ang line of work mo, nakakatakot eh dami mo interpretations tapos di ka takot ishare. 😂

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    3. Ti wag isama yang issue mo sa issue na ito. Iba yan. Lol, kakaloka!

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  32. Don't ba a fault finder. She means no harm. Mi sister is a single mom and we celebrates Father's Day for her. Be nice to everyone.

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  33. Nabasa ko yang post nya sa FB pero hindi naman ako affected. Dyusko ang dami nyong problema. Ako din wala akong kasamang tatay nung lumaki pero hindi ako na hurt. Hindi ko alam na may ganito palangkaguluhan. Nabasa ko lang yung post nya abt tabo

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  34. Balat sibuyas masyado talaga mga tao ngyon. Wala nman sinabi si Rica na masama against single moms, she's just honoring her husband as a father because it's obviously Father's Day, and yet the commenter took it personally.

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  35. Totoo nman diba na mahalaga ang mga tatay, pagbigyan nyo na c Rica kasi father's day nman at sabi nga nya, sya rin ay lumaki ng walang ama. Baka na realize lang nya na masarap pala kapag may tatay. Wag na kayong madaling ma hurt dyan. Lol

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  36. Hindi naman naiinvalidate ang mga moms kung i celebrate nya ang mga dads.

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  37. SOME single moms did not try hard enough to make the relationship work and did not
    select a goor partner. Just because you are a single mother does not mean you are blameless. SOME sabi ko ha not ALL single moms. I came from a broken family. And yes my father left us and he is at fault but my mother is too. She did not try hard enough. She keeps blaming my father and everyone. And so bitter like the commenter of Rica’s post. Stop being a bitter person so you can attract love and be happy

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    1. Ewww sabihin na natin blameless yung mom mo pero marami pa rin talagang g@g0 at iresponsableng tatay. Ikaw na nagsabi iniwan kayo ng tatay mo choice nya yun fault nya yun marunong naman syang bumalik! Kung bitter ang mom mo sana binigyan mo ng pagmamahal ikaw na rin nag-advise.

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    2. 8.51 "Kung bitter ang mom mo sana binigyan mo ng pagmamahal" - WALA SIYANG SINABI NA HINDI NIYA LOVE MOM NIYA. DUH! NAGIMBENTO KA!- not 1.34

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    3. 8:51, wag mong ijudge si 1:34 dahil buhay nya yan. nakikita nya first hand ung fault ng both sides. so kung sa assessment nya, me fault din ang nanay nya, so be it.

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  38. These holier than thou peeps talaga napaka self righteous …

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    1. If binasa mo ng mabuti dapat narealize mo na it was an expression of pasalamat for her husband. It has nothing to do with her belief or righteousness. Kung hindi yan asawa ng pastor nagsalita I am sure hindi pupunta dyan ang pag-iisip mo.

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  39. Single moms who are bitter should not blame their partner and the society for their predicament. I came from a broken family. My father can be blamed and so is my mother. Hindi porket single mom kayo e wala kayong fault. You did not select a good partner and you did not try hard enough. Huwag masyadong magmalinis. Some single mothers are not blameless. SOME not ALL. The commenter of Rica’s post is bitter

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    1. Sige iblame nyo na parents nyo! Ang gagaling nyo!

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    2. Well said! I agree na mejo may attitude si ate kahit pa we both share the same faith pero in that statement wala naman masyadong dapat ika issue. Common statement lang yan and it is just her opinion. Hindi naman umabot to the point na parang deliberate na iniinsulto na yung mga families na walang tatay. True naman na ideally in a family may father and mother. Kahit broken family ka etc you know and can acknowledge na tama naman yun and ikaw na yung may prob kung ma trigger ka pa. Dapat pala kung sobrang triggered sila, nag welga sila na dapat wala na father's day kasi di sila inisip na wala silang tatay or pwede din mga walang jowa..mag welga pag valentine's kasi nakaka iinsulto din. Kawindang lang diba?

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    3. 2:08 ikaw din masyadonf magaling! Just because you have good relationship with your parents doesnt give you a right to invalidate the experiences of others!!! So self righteous!!!

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    4. 2:19 true. She wants to impose to Rica her feeling that she is a single mom who makes her family complete. Maybe we can try asking her kid/s if tama assumption nya

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    5. 10.33 right! Hahaha!

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  40. Thanks for reminding us! Sincerely, all the single mothers and their children who were abandoned by their fathers..

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    1. @1:55 AM, don't blame the deadbeat dads :) Why would you allow a deadbeat person impregnate you in the first place? :) It takes two to tango girl :)

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    2. It’s Father’s Day, not Single Mother’s Day or Children Abandoned by Their Father’s Day. If you feel triggered by someone’s appreciation of a good father then log off till tomorrow when Father’s Day is over. Oh

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    3. 1:55 take note of 2:30's advice pls

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    4. Parang kasalan pa ni Rica, na nagalit ka kaloka ka din ano.

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    5. There are great fathers out there that deserve this day actually deserve na irecognized sila kung pwede araw2, so ano lahat kaming may magandang relationships sa tatay namin at ibang wives na inaappreciate yung pagiging mabuting ama ng husbands nila eh lahat kami magadjust nalang para di ka maooffend

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  41. Itong si rica palagi na lang may sablay sa mga socmed hanash nya ..

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    1. hindi sya sablay, dahil yan sa katulad mong masyadong balat sibuyas

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    2. 11:02 Girl, no. This Father’s Day ek ek may not be sablay, BUT madami talaga sya sablay sa socmed.

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  42. Grabe bakit ang daming over na pagka sensitive?! Pag pinuri ang tatay, may aalma kasi gusto ang nanay lang ang purihin. Pag mga nanay ang pinupuri walang umaalma pero bakit pag mga padre de pamulya na deserving naman puriin ang daming babaeng hindi sumasang ayon. Mga babae tlga ang daming arte! Yes babae din ako pero kakainis na karamihan sa atin ang sensitive nyo masyado OA na!

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  43. There are fathers who are irresponsible and only care about themselves. In short, trapo and trash. These single mothers are heroes.

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    1. Single mother’s are indeed heroes, but today is Father’s Day and not Single Mother’s Day so can’t the great dads also just get one day to be celebrated without being sabotaged by the single mothers?

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    2. 2:46 This!

      dapat mga single mom, gawa na lang din ng single mom appreciation day. o kaya deadbeat dad's cursing day

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  44. She is only emphasizing the importance of having a father in a child’s life. She knows the difference because she grew up without a father around.

    Let the fathers have their father’s day celebration. If you feel triggered by people celebrating fathers on social media then just log out till tomorrow. Father’s Day is celebrating fathers and NOT single mothers. Mother’s Day was last month.

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  45. Lmao masyado na bang balat sibuyas at fault finder ang socmed ngayon? Yung mga naoffend sa post ni Rica, check niyo din sarili niyo ha. Baka di lang kayo masaya sa buhay kaya lahat ng nakikita at nababasa niyo e minamasama niyo. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

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  46. Totoo naman sinabi ni Rica. I grew up fatherless, too. Kung sana my dad was a responsible man, my mom would not have suffered so much. Nagkawatak-watak kaming magkakapatid for a few years (I was just 5 y.o. and my siblings even younger!), nakitira sa kung sinu-sinong tiyahin/tiyuhin/lola when my mom got reassigned for work and she could not afford to resign. Afterwards, she gathered us 3 kids and then singlehandedly provided for all of us. It hardened her and made her bone-tired to the point that she was less “motherly”—meaning she somehow lost her soft side. Despite her love shown thru sacrifice, it was a lonely home. We were too quiet at the dinner table because her eyes were drooping half-closed just trying to get thru her dinner and then we’d each all go into our separate bedrooms. In hindsight, sana we tried to understand her more, but we were too young din to sift thru the mess and the trauma.

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  47. Cant Rica have her own opinion????

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    1. Bawal daw pag pastor's wife LOL! Nagshare lang ng opinion at appreciation sa mga dads, naging self righteous na hahahaha!

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  48. Totoo naman na incomplete ang life kung walang father. The question is, is it a bad thing? Of course not. Marami din kasing tatay na iresponsable at toxic at madalas mas masaya ang buhay kung wala kayong imikan. Having a father isn’t everything. Minsan, mas nagiging tatay pa yung ibang tao kesa sa sariling kadugo.

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  49. She is too OA, pampam and full of herself as usual. Go away rica. You’re retired anyway. Be gone.

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    1. Watch her vlogs and you will learn a lot from her . Yes she is retired from showbiz but that doesnt mean from socmed. Go away already te.

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    2. ...and yet here you are responding as if she did you that much harm - try shaking off your hostility

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    3. uhm, 3:16, di ka naman nya pinipilit magbasa ng post nya o manood sa vlog nya. so anong problema mo?

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    4. Hmmm, I agree. She does nothing in life. Just blah blah nonsense all the time.

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  50. Hmmm, bakit nasa social media pa siya. She is a nobody lang naman e.

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    1. Lol nobody na pinag aksayahan mo ng panahon

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    2. 3:17 ikaw sino ka ba? mas nobody ka kesa sa kanya.

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    3. 957 truth hahaha. kung alam ko lang nagiisip na yang ngayon kung magkano budget nya for the day para sa pagkain! tapos todo she is nobody ang linyahan! mahiya ka naman kay R hahaha

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    4. 3:17 Everyone can have a social media account. Even a nobody with questionable logic and reasoning - like yourself.

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  51. Can’t blame yung kumontra may Rica. Fillipinos are the worst fathers for me. Ang dami kong kilala na once naghiwalay ang parents. Totally wala nang pakialam ang tatay and don’t even give child support. Yung mga half Pinoy na friends ko. They never met their Pinoy dads.

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    1. Maka generalize ka wagas.

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    2. Also worst mothers. Madaming ina ang hindi gumagawa ng responsibilidad nila

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    3. 3:20 marami rin pong foreign fathers ang nang abandona s mga anak nila s pinay. Super rami

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  52. Rica said she didn't say it? She did say kulang ang buhay pag walang tatay di ba? If she meant it some other way eh di sana she explained it right away. Okay lang if she's all preachy-preachy, pero I hope she learns a little more about life, and realize that the world DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND HER AND HER PEREFECT LIFE. Or maybe she should just shut up.

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    1. Or just keep your bashing to yourself and bitter about tour life.

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    2. 7:58 I think you should practice what you preach. The world doesn’t revolve around you and your principles either. It’s her opinion, her thoughts. Nothing to do with you, but you treat it like she attacked you personally.

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    3. Incomplete in some way ang meant niya.

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  53. father's day ay para sa mga person na tumatayong ama sa buhay natin pwede biological father pwede din stepfather or tito. pwede din siya sa mga single mothers na tumatayong ama at ina sa kangyang mga anak. hindi siya para sa mga deadbeat dad or sperm donor

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  54. Jusko kasi naman laging ang daming hanash. Pwede namang Happy Father’s Day! Ganern. Hindi yung magsusulat ka pa ng ilang paragraphs sabay promote ng vlog. Funny talaga nito ni Rica.🙄

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  55. Bakit kase lahat kailangan post ng post. Batiin nyo asawa / tatay nyo privately katabi nyo lang naman or alam nyo naman yung number. Sa totoo lang kaya lang nagpopost kase para magyabang na kesyo they have a better life than others. Wala namang ibang reason other than that because we have direct ways of greeting and communicating with the people closest to us. But life is constantly changing. Ngayon kumpleto kayo may taga bili ka ng tabo at may iyayabang ka sa IG mo. Eh kung iwan ka rin nyan in the future???

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  56. Eto yung ayaw na daw magartista kuno pero todo papansin sa youtube. Laos ka na R.

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    1. Sinabi ba nyang sikat sya te? At least sumikat sya noon and now ibang buhay tinatahak nya at hindi napariwara katulad ng ibang sumikat at walang nangyari sa buhay nila.

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    2. 9:08 Iba naman ang pagiging artista sa pgiging vlogger. Bakit, ang mga sikat na vloggers ba ay macoconsider mong mga artista?? Hindi naman diba. Also, profession na ang pgiging vlogger, baka di ka aware. Kaya sya nagpapapansin sa vlog ay dahil source of income narin niya yan.

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  57. Pinapahanga talaga ako ni Rica sa mga insights niya. Kaya marami naiinis sa kanya kasi ni re reflect niya yung insecurities, guilt, and pain ng tao at marami sa atin hindi kayang harapin ang sarili nating kakulangan kaya mambabash na lang tayo para umiwas. Case in point, this thread. Hehe

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    1. Tama ka! Kaya daming nag react sa post niya.dahil may tama sa lahat ng nakaka experience ng ganong situasyon.

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    2. Nope. First time I am commenting on an FP article because saying that naiinis ang mga tao kay Rica because she reflects their pain etc. Some of her vlogs may be insightful, but not all. And yes, she is sometimes out of touch with reality, i know because I ised to be her follower until her posts started to sound pilit and insincere.

      P.s. I follow a couple of pastor’s wives and families too. Ang layo ng tone ng posts nila sa mga posts ni Rica, no matter how preachy she gets.

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    3. 5:16 Akala ko ako lang nakapansin. Medyo mahangin nga yung mga posts nya and puro me, me, me compared to the others in their circle. Kaya siguro madami naiinis kase parang hindi sya genuine and sincere.

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  58. you can celebrate fathers day/ ur husband.. without invalidating single moms… nilagyan pa kasi nya na “hindi kumpleto ang buhay pag walang tatay”… seriously rica? by saying that para mo na ring sinabi na incomplete ang buhay ng mga less traditional families.

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    1. Incomplete naman talaga.

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    2. That's her thoughts, that's how she felt growing up without a dad. Ok lang ba ishare nya feelings nya since socmed acct naman nya un? Mortal sin ba sinabi nya? Masyado kayong mga snowflakes as if isinabatas na kelangan lahat ng pamilya may tatay.🙄

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    3. duh for all I know lahat naman ng walang ama nagiisip din kung paano kaya pag may tatay ako. wag tayong sobrang plastik!

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    4. yes that is her account but she isnt just a nobody. its not being a snowflake to take offense to a comment by a public personality kung talagang nakaka-offend naman talaga.. opinion nga nya yan and ppl also have a right to voice their offense against her opinion.

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    5. 11:18 Kahit single parent na household, pwedeng maging masaya ang bata. Maging puno ng pagmamahal ang buhay , but it doesn’t mean walang void, kahit gaano kaliit, sa puso ng bata. Kahit 1% lang yan, may kulang parin. Sa mga single moms naman, never ba nilang inisip na ‘sana may katuwang ako sa pagpapalaki ng anak ko’?? Syempre naiisip diba? Kasi alam rin nila na iba kung may tatay (na matino) na tutulong sa pag gabay sa anak. Ibang usapan pa ang mga walang kwentang tatay, considered as walang tatay narin pag ganun.

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    6. Tatay na "matino" true!

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  59. I grew up without a father. Neither my mother nor I were offended by her post. Basahin kasi ng mabuti yung message. Haist!

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  60. minsan mas ok pang walang tatay kesa laging magulo ang bahay

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  61. Not related pero bat ganun lagi expression ni Rica? Para siyang nangangasim? hahaha

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    1. I think she’s trying not to let her braces show. Ako din, the second time I had to wear braces I was in my late 30s na, so I did not want to smile showing teeth during photo ops. Haha.

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  62. Mga ibang tao dito masyadong bitter. Nagpost po si Rica based on her situation. Life nya yan, she just wants to share it sa Instagram account nya. If you don't agree with her, it's fine. You have your reasons. But you don't have to disrespect others para lang marinig side mo. You can tell your own story sa sarili mong social media account.

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    1. Tumpak! Meron pa dito comment ng comment ng "holier than thou" as if rica was trying to be a saint. Sa mga snowflakes jan bawas bawasan nyo makipag interact sa ibang tao kasi hilig nyo manghusga pag iba ang pananaw sa pananaw nyo, kulang nlng ibigti nyo. Respetuhin nyo naman post ng ibang tao lalo na kung di naman kayo nakatag. 😁

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  63. How I wish Rica would be mindful of what she conveys, as she carries the name of her church with her. We do not want to stereotype the wives of pastors of her church with such attitude.

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    1. I agree. Funny thing is, she is the only one amongst all the pastors’ wives in their church whose socmed is full of self-promotion. Very tacky.

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  64. Rica is from Ateneo and she's just exercising her gift of writing/communicating. People will never see the same side as she does. Laging may affected. It's how one deals with the diversity in the views that matters.

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    1. Nakita ko nanaman tong Rica is from Ateneo na to. Anong connect ng info na yan sa issue dito? LOL. Ito din yung retort nyo when Rica’s fake and trying hard english accent was called out eh.

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  65. a lot of females who grow up without a father figure or biological father have “daddy issues” and from experience and some women I know, totoo siya. Kaya tama rin naman si Rica na malaki role ng father. A father is supposed to show his daughter how a man should treat her. Kaya ako bwisit na bwisit sa mga deadbeat fathers, mga puro pasarap!

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  66. It's her tone - it's preachy, like : this is what Tatays are for. If you don't have one what's wrong with you.

    It's also her history - she's known to be preachy and self-righteous when it comes to her social media posts. That and she's also a hypocrite - defending the use of fake bags under the guise of being practical.


    She could have phrased it in such a way without undermining the efforts of single moms or those that had to continue without a father due to circumstances beyond their control.

    Bottomline line is she's neither as smart nor articulate as she thinks she is and badly needs a social media manager if she wants to continue building herself up as a social media influencer.

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    1. Which I believe she cannot achieve coz she’s got more bashers than supporters.

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  67. Yung mga ngayong happy sa mga lives nila kala mo kung sino kung maglitanya sa mga iba. Hoy just because you got lucky with having a loving husband and a wonderful family doesn't mean na yung iba hindi nagdadasal and walang relationship with God. Kung makasalita ka kala mo alam mo na lahat... Pa pray for you pa... ang yabang !

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    1. She comes off as insincere if she pray she would have done it in silence. Kaya wlang supporters.

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    2. Just because you are unhappy and is not praying dont pull other happy and prayerful people down.

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  68. there are very few individuals ho would. raise a child by themselves knowingly and purposefully. it also requires a huge amount of resources. maski si angelina jolie na parang tinaguyod mga single moms looked for a father figure. otherwise she wouldnt have had him adopt her children esp she has all the resources. so STOP the nonsense. she spoke the truth.

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  69. What's wrong with what she said? I don't think it's meant to minimize those who have no dads 🤦‍♀️

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  70. naku yung commenter ha. masyado naman pinersonal yung sinabi ni rica. yung statement nyang yun applies to her family lang.

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  71. Lumaki ako na kaming 2 lang ng nanay ko
    From the start honest ang nanay ko bakit kaming 2 lang sa buhay at dahil dun mas madali saking i-accept ang reality nang pagiging anak ng single mother at dahil dun never akong naghanap or naramdaman ko na kulang ako.
    Pero legit na tanong - paano mo mararamdaman na may kulang sa buhay mo if never mo na experience? Laging tinatanong sakin ng iba bat sobrang chill ako na wala akong tatay,hindi ako nagtatanong or naghahanap ng tatay. Ang sagot ko naman alam ko naman na walang tatay na darating para sakin so bat ko laging iisipin na sana may tatay ako.Might as well move on and continue with my life.
    Manhid /dense ba ko or open minded lang talaga ako?

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  72. dami ipokrito dito. sige, tanungin nyo mga anak na walang tatay kung at some point ba, di sila nagwish na sana may tatay sila. at yung mga single mom dyan kung kahit konti wala silang regrets ma single mom sila. kahit nga me nanay at tatay ka, di pa rin kumpleto ang buhay, kaya ka naghahanap ng kapatid, kaibigan, aso, pusa, lola, lola, anak, o dyowa. yan yung reality. mas pa holier than though pa kayo kesa ke rica e mga ipokrito naman kayo.

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