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Friday, February 5, 2021

Insta Scoop: Kobe Paras on Removing Number of Followers and Comments in Social Media


Images courtesy of Instagram: _kokoparas
 

71 comments:

  1. Kerek. Sinabi na sakin yan ni Kobe bebe kanina. Sabi ko support ako na ipost nya para sa madlang pipolks.

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  2. True! Seeking validation thru social media is a big no.

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    1. Sad to say alot of my friends are like that. Posting everything expensive or everything they think is sosy kahit fake luxury item pero they would post it as if it was legit using effects to mask the flaws of the item. Napaka superficial ng mga tao ngayon soc med likes nalang yata ang life goals nila

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    2. May friend din akong ganyan who claims she is a christian but post luxury items. Kontra sa pagiging christian nya hehe.

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    3. May friend din ako na kasagsagan ng covid everyday nagpopoat ng feast nila sa bahay. I get it they are attorneys. Kaya madami pera..pero be sensitive sa feelings ng iba who are highly affected with the pandemic. Sad lang.

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    4. kaya may mga kaibigan ako na fake ang kanilang pakita sa social media accounts lalo na sa insta. yung iba kala mo sobrang yayaman pero mga hiram yung mga gamit nila at nagpopost ng mga pekeng paandar about their lives. Yung mga bahay na pinapakita sa background ay hindi kanila.

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  3. Yes social media made many people insecure and depressed and many are trying so hard to be somebody else

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  4. Oh my, is there a trouble brewing again?

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  5. This is true. I deactivated all my socmed accounts and messaging apps kasi I am so depressed. Good things are happening to others only. Sabi nyo dito kapag inggit, pikit. Hindi pa rin effective..

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    1. Same. But I created one na puro good vibes lang ang post (quotes, life tips, workouts, humor). Wala akong finollow na kakilala para no more selfie at showoff posts sa feed. it's been very calming since then.

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    2. I wanna do that also..been feeling down lately due to financial worries and i see people on socmed who doest seem affected by the pandemic. Di naman ako inggit in an evil manner, i just feel bad that life is not really fair.

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    3. Hahaha! Natawa ako sa last sentence mo. Kahit hindi ka naman mainggitin talagang makakafeel ka sa mga nakikita mo sa social media lalo na dyan sa mga likes na bakit sila ang daming likes ng mga post/pics nila hundreds/thousands samantalang sa akin wala pang 10 hahahaha! Mapapaisip ka rin ay ano bang problema sa akin hehehe.

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    4. Huh!? Sis ano kaba. Don't compare yourself. Be happy sa kung anong meron ka. Meron ako kilala laging nagpopost ng expensive things pero galing sa nakaw.

      What do you want expensive things but you'll go to hell? Or simple things and simple life pero you know na sa heaven ka mapupunta?

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    5. 11:11, I'd rather go to Iceland, Paris, Japan, London than Heaven. - not 1:10

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    6. My friend, don’t measure your life with the numbers of likes you get with your posts.

      Share ko lang, I thought the same din before. I have four hundred friends, only average of 3 - 4 people likes my post, kasi mga post ko dati Di naman ka like like, but I didn’t care.

      I started to be myself (in a good way) and started posting about my passion, which are flowers and watercolour paintings. Same number of friends, but I usually get 100 plus or something.

      Travel photos are good din kaso so gasgas naman.

      If likes are important to you, think about the aesthetic, quality and content of your post. If not, eh di mas okay.

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    7. Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot para sa akin na back to the old days. Hindi naman ako naiinggit kaso kagaya ng sinabi dito, may times na nakukwestyon ko bakit sila parang ang gaan gaan ng buhay at nakukuha lahat.

      Try ko yan na new social media account pero walang kakilala na ifofollow para magaan lang.

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    8. Babalikan ko palagi itong post na ito ni FP kapag feeling down ako uli kahit ilang taon pa lumipas. Nakakataba ng puso na kahit anonymous tayo pare-parehas pero naglalaan ng oras and share ng advice and insights.

      Salamat FP classmates.

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    9. 1:28 screenshot mo hahaha.

      I know na kahit Hindi ka naman inggit, you can’t help it but to compare your life to others on social media. Most often than not, they only posts their achievements and good things about their lives, to make themselves feel good about themselves, which is sad.

      When something good happens in your life, do you really go to socmed and announce it? Di ba Hindi? Dun pa lang, panalo ka na :)

      So ayun, try mo ipost yung hobbies mo na nagpapasaya sayo. Feeling ko maraming maglalike. Kung wala, okay lang.

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  6. Kamukha ni Kobe si Coal Sprouse sa pic.

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    1. Layo baks you need to have your eyes checked lol

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    2. Sino si "Coal" lol

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    3. Kahit natawa ko sa Coal Sprouse, ang kahit anino malayo baks.

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  7. Agree, people are so pathetic just wanting to get more followers, likes etc

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  8. Where’s the lie tho?

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  9. 💯! Masyado na caught up in the soc med fantasy mga bata! Fee bad for them actually. Sana nga ganun n lang. You guys should watch social dillema.. andun why talaga soc med is using us not the other way around

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    1. Nangyayari kc aliw sa socmed magulang imbes bigyan ng time ang anak, kaya ang anak sa socmed na rin nakatutok at kung saan saan na gumagala ng mga mata sa you tube atbp.

      Nong kapanahunan q,wala pa,then nagkaron ng black & white keypad pa lang yun at walang apps kaya ang mga bata nagagabayan ng magulang.
      May celfon man may oras paggamit,
      ngayon kc ultimo 2yrs old may hawak ng celfon.

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  10. Totoo naman. Kahit sa Facebook paramihan ng friends and followers ang labanan. I'd rather go with quality than quantity.

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    1. Mahirap nga yung madaming friends sa fb. Andaming nangungutang, kahit yung matagal mo nang di talaga nakakasama... kaya di na ako nag fb. Ayokong mabilis ako ma contact. Kungbclose tayo, then sigurado may number mo ako. So just contact me that way kung baga.

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    2. Ako po sa fb 86 lang friends and people always asks "why"..kako i dont accept those people na di ko talaga friend o kamag anak na di ko naman close..kahit kawork pag di ko sobra close din..i keep those who are really close to me and concern sakin talaga

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    3. Totoo yan minsan sasabihan ka pa ng kakilala mo na ilike yong post nya,ayoko rin ng ganon.

      Uso pati pasaringan sa fb,ig.
      Pati away ng magpapamilya inilalagay pa sa fb acct nila, ayan tuloy lahat ng friends alam na ang story,kaya yong iba yun din gusto makasagap ng tsika.
      Ang awayan ngayon sa social media na hindi na sa kalsada, murahan at labasan ng baho.

      Sana matuto mga may soc med na wag na ilabas yong sobrang personal sa buhay nila.
      Sila rin kc nakakahiya.

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  11. Ndi din talaga minsan uubra un inggit, pikit haha! Kaya para iwas nega or minsan pagoverthink, deac sa iba. Or less notif. Mute ibang apps. For my own peace of mind.

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  12. Nakakabwisit pa yung like ka nila kapag like mo din sila. Like for like. Kaya ako, mas gusto ko walang comment like at followers. Yung free to post lang ako whatever I like.

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    1. Ganyan na ganyan ate ko. Nakikita ko sa feed ko kung sino sino lang like nya kahit alam ko never nya naencounter ang taong yun. At sagot nya kasi para mapansin daw sya at ilike din posts nya. Sarap untugin ng matauhan.

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  13. Same sentiments too. I have FB account pero minsan ko lang buksan for the sake of communication sa mga close ko lang talaga. I save my photos pero nakaprivate lahat ang karamihan. Mahirap nga hindi pa nakuntento si FB s likes lang, nagdagdag pa ng reactions and wala silang option na pwede matanggal ng account owner unlike sa comments na may delete. My hubby posted a bday greeting na nakatag ako tapos may angry reactions. Alam ko naman na unintentional kasi matanda na ang nagreact nun pero ang nanay ko one time inaway sobra ng malayo naming kamag anak kasi sya naman ang nagreact ng angry na hindi nga sinasadya. Imagine what those simple reactions and other features of soc med can do to people?

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    1. Same. It's been a while since nag stop ako mag FB. Nanjan lang sya pero naka logout. Lol. I don't browse anymore kasi too toxic and puro flex lang ung posts ng mga tao. Puro payabangan how wonderful their life is. Daily diary ganon haha. Mas peaceful ung buhay ko when I did that. Walang comparison sa buhay mo sa iba. Sa IG na lang ako nabubuhay. Follow follow lang ng mga idols and such, mga online stores and cute accounts pampagoodvibes. Haha. Plus less crowd. Totoo naman sinabi ni Koko. Most people are living for the likes and validation of other people

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    2. Sobrang Bihira na din aq magfb kc ayoko ng may nagko comment sa post q,mapipilitan tuloy sagutin,
      yong iba sa wall pa itatanong yong pangprivate na tanong.

      Sa IG nman nkaprivate aq at di nag a accept ng followers kc dyan nag uumpisa yan yong parang feeling mo kelangan mo pa magpost para may makita silang post man lang.
      Samantalang kung walang followers chill lang.

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  14. True! Malala ngayon yung tiktok. Makadami lang ng views and likes lahat gagawin kahit makatapak ng tao.

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    1. Im fortunate and blessed coz my 2 girls listen to me na hindi pwede mag tiktok. And they are not into social media. They are 15 and 6. And makita ko girls their age panay na tiktok and nagmamaakawa to like their videos.

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  15. Tell that to your mom

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    1. Ang Sabi nya naman, remove the likes and the comment section. He didn't say na wag mag post. Reading comprehension po 😜

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    2. Ang bitter mo naman haha. I feel like jackie is just too excited to post all the stuff na hindi nya nagagawa before. Lalo na pag about kay andre ung posts parang sobrang controlled ung posts nya dati pero ngayon all out na and he even comments. I don't think she post for validation of other people.

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    3. 3:28 You nailed it.

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    4. Bat ang sama nyo ke Jackie, give her this! Sobrang tagal nya nag antay kung ok lang sa anak paki nyo! Sama nyo din

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  16. At least he knows that he is not a celeb naman e.

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  17. Hahahahaha, Ganyan kasi ang karamihang pinoys. Walang ginagawa. Kung sino sino na lang ang ini ek ek nila sa social media.

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  18. Well, the SocMed companies would definitely not do it. It's like asking a farmer not to plant seeds

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  19. May point si Kobe. Karamihan ng active sa social media na mga bagets sila ung less interaction in person. Kasi nasa phone nakatutok. They miss out on having real friendship/relationship. Ung connection nla sa tao iba. Dati rati we share our secrets to people we truly trust, pero ngayon ginawang diary ang FB at IG.

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  20. Addicted sa social media ang pinas kasi. Kaya walang asenso. Naka tambay lang lagi, doing nothing.

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  21. Ginawa na kasing main goal ng mga tao ngayon ang social media engagement. Dumagdag pa yung tiktok.

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  22. Totoo nman yan,gamitan ang nangyayari sa social media.

    Influencers,artista,paramihan ng followers,likes,comments to gain endorsements,TS,movies,ng dahil sa fame and money.

    But Kobe is an endorser too,cguro sobrang sensitive sya or ayaw lng talaga pinakikialaman buhay nya, but he cant avoid it,endorser sya at player.

    Kapag kilala kc, yun ang pagpipiyestahan ng tao para yong comments,bashing ay mapansin ng commentors at ipafollow din sila.

    May mga politician din na atat din sa followers,likes at comments,may GGSS pa nga.
    To gain voters,for power,money.

    Mga fans nag aaway ng dahil sa artista, nag aaksaya ng pera.
    Pero di nman pinapansin kapag may ipo promote lng.

    May fans na pineperahan kapwa fans lalo pag binabatikos yong ayaw nila sa kapartner.

    Mga botante puro away,batikos sa social media.
    Sinasamantala nmAn ng bawat partido para lalo mag away ang supporters nila.

    Bad influence talaga sa young generation.

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  23. I know not related, pero bakit parang ang tuyot niya sa pic?

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  24. Actually not just likes and followers. Even mga posts of “perfect” life nila. Kaya I deleted my fb and ig. Feels a lot better after.

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  25. Social media is the new diary, yung iba Kasi doon nilalabas ang emotions instead of writing it sa notebook..may validation din Kasi and kaso for some toxic naman ang dating.

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  26. True. Deactivating social media is so liberating. Peace is just priceless. I'm not one to get jealous or envious of what others' lives are like. I just feel uncomfortable seeing the shallowness of people from my age group (late 30s). Napapaisip ako na bakit ganun nalang kababaw maging masaya ngayon? Sa likes, comments and pambobola ng iba. I don't want that to be my norm. I see so many senior citizens na babad din sa socmed and super cringe mga comments. I don't want to be that, so better walk away now and be private.

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  27. Magpapakatotoo ako. I use FB para magbasa lang at makichismis. Pandemic atsaka wala me magawa. Break ako for one month from work due to my recent surgery (don't ask na lang what surgery). Pero kahit noong nagtatrabaho ako nakaka FB pa rin ako kasi hindi naman ako super busy. Saktohang busy lang. Admit most of us use FB kasi wala ng mga lakad, gigs, outings. Kaya most people nowadays aminin babad sa internet. Kadalasan sa atin work from home. Pag mag business ako, mas lalong need ko ang FB. Hindi naman need pumikit pag inggit. Just be happy for everyone para hindi ka bitter. Lahat naman tayo nakakatanggap ng blessings, if you think about it. Lol. Kung pwede nga lang mag post ng mga ordinary stuff like "I have eaten a meal today. Hashtag blessed." O kaya "my family is healthy and complete." Iwasan na lang mainggit kasi what you see on social media is just a facade, a show off. Hindi mo lang alam kung ano pinagdadaaanan ng taong kinakainggitan mo.

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    1. Ako sa yt nagbababad at ang kinagigiliwan ko ngayon ay tigers! Ang cute kasi! Fb? No! Ang dami kasing fakeness dun!

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    2. I understand you 8:03. - 4:50

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  28. ito talaga agree ako, kaibgan, byenan ko kng ano ano mga pinopost ang fatanda na, puro may kaaway, parinig, npaka nega at toxic sa fb.. poat pa ng post ng kung ano anong walang katuturan.

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  29. Agree! Isama mo pa yung naging ads nalang soc med dahil naging "influencer " na lahat

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  30. Happy ako na madami akong kapareho dito sa FP. No FB and madalang mag check ng IG. Pero aliw ako magbasa ng comments dito sa FP at news after a days work. Social media is really toxic kahit kamag anak mo minsan nakakabwisit e.

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  31. What people post isn't the full story, and sometimes, it's not even real. Believe the noisiest on social probably have the most meh lives - or at least ones that don't interest me. When you're living life more fully, you don't really bother documenting every moment, nor every emotion. Oversharing screams a desperate need for both attention and validation.

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  32. Lol, social media are full of fakers and pa-hambug lang. All shallow and useless nonsense. Nothing good there at all.

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  33. Wala namang maganda sa social media. People just want to get noticed for likes or they are selling something. Totally useless and lame. Not worth anything at all.

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  34. Hay naku, social media is too lame and boring na. Puro posing posing lang naman or they are promoting some useless product. Total waste of time.

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