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Tuesday, July 14, 2020

Insta Scoop: Sunshine Cruz Reveals Continued Sexualization of Family by Groups and Individuals, Including Schoolmates of Daughters







Images courtesy of Instagram: sunshinecruz718

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  1. For me sexual harassment is sexual harassment I am not victim blaming kahit ano pa suot mo ang mga taong masama magisip masama magisip.But we have to keep in mind na tulad ng pagiingat natin sa ibang bagay we have to responsible with the things we share online, you can wear sexy clothes and swimsuit since proper attire yun sa swimming,this is an honest curious question di nato about sunshine and kids this is in general what is the purpose of posting sexy or seductive pictures (that people we do not know can see),yet we do not want to be sensualize? I mean lahat ng pinopost natin online like yung magagarang gamit what is the true purpose behind that?.#justasking don't bash me I still believe that there is no excuse in doing bad things!katulad ng mga kadiri na comments na yan

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    1. The purpose is to flaunt. If i were them, i'll just keep those pics to myself. You can't control/change other's way of thinking. They have to protect themselves that way to avoid this kind of malicious things.

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    2. Exactly! Nagbilad ka ng katawan expect people to react both positively and negatively dont expect lahat maganda lang ang sasabihin. You are objectifying yourself.

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    3. I agree! I always wear swimsuit sa beach pero i never posted them on my sns. For private purposes lang yung pics. Sometimes it is not victim blaming, it is about being careful na din. We always have to look out for ourselves, ladies!

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    4. kung ako kay sunshine, dedmahin na lang nila mga comments. di nila mako-control mga yun e, unless i-private nila accounts nila. wag na patulan, or block..pag lalo kasing binigyan ng pansin ang mga yan, lalong mang-aasar.

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    5. The purpose is I truly admire the clothes! I love crop tops and nice dresses that's why I wear them. I don't give a flying **** about what people think. You probably have a low self-esteem if you wear clothes to impress people or to seduce men. Haven't you met Cosplayers or fashionistas?

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  2. Lagot kayong mga bata kayo.... ang bastos ng mga lalaking ito.

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  3. Ang Pamilya Screenshot. Hehe

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  4. Kaya nga kahit pa galing sa expensive private school, iba mentality ng karamihan sa Pinoy. do your part na Lang to open an new private account na malayang makapag post ng usual clothings nyo without fear or gross opinion of perverts. Isa pa nakaka takot is magamit mga naka swimsuit posts nyo to some gross website.

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    1. Masyado mo namang nilait ang mga pinoy. Look at Epstein's brothers in crime - bill gates, will smith, bill clinton, kevin spacey, prince andrew, at iba pa. The point is, ang masamang tao, ay masama, wala sa race, kulay, or antas ng buhay.

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    2. 1:10 lumayo ka pa eh iba naman ang case nong mga example mo. Mamaru ka din eh.

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    3. Anon 1:10 AM, anong crime or alleged crime ni Bill Gates involving sexual misconduct? Serious question ito sis.

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  5. If I am in her shoes I will set our accounts to private na. Oo walang intention ang mga anak niya na mang akit pero sila na lang umiwas.

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    1. if i were sunshine d nalang magpost ng sexy pics lalo na sa teenager na daughters niya, kasi d natin ma control isip ng tao. pag post publicly yan expect may nega or positive. d ako makapaniwala so young pa yong 2nd daughter niya. dedmahin mo na lang shine ganun talaga. i admire rufa gutierez d niya masyadong flaunt katawan ng mga anak, gusto ko rin mga anak ni regine tolentino mga independed business minded pa.

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  6. As a mom I would not allow my daughters to post those kinds of photos kahit maganda at flawless pa sila.

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    1. True lalo na the minor ones. Sila na lang yung umiwas. Mag private or i-off ang comment section, if nag PM pa sa kanila ng bastos, ibang usapan na yun

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    2. agree on u 1:17.. protektahan na lng sana ni shine.. alam na naman nating di na control yung reaction ng netizens..shookt din ako ha ng malaman na minor pa pala yang 2nd daughter nya.. ang sexy ng mga mga photos nya hehe pero infairness ang gandang bata the more you look at her..

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  7. Ang ganda ng mga anak ni sunshine. Mana sa kanya.

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  8. Sunshine, report mo yung mga bastos na schoolmates na yan sa principal.

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  9. tama naman na you have the right to post any pictures sa Social Media accounts mo but if you choose to make that public dapat tanggap mo ang possibility na you’re opening yourselves to positive, negative and sometimes malicious comments. Hindi mo kasi kontrolado ang utak ng mga tao the only way to protect yourself is either to make your account private and or turn off comments.

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    1. Or if they still want to post pubicly, then they can shame and sue these people. Kaya lang hindi mabubura yung katotohanang nabastos ang mga anak niya lalo na't menor de edad sila. Sunshine should protect her kids.

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  10. 1:10 bine based ko lang po sa screenshot ni Shine lalo pa sabi nya meron pa schoolmate ng anak nya. Mga tagalog ang messages ke babastos

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  11. Yes mali ang mambastos ng babae. Pero Sunshine naman, bat mo naman pinapayagan ang mga anak mong ibilad ang mga katawan sa social media. Sa mga Nanay na nandito, tama ba naman yan? Sa totoo lang tayo.

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    1. I never post a photo of my girl without her permission and or if she’s wearing shorts to think my acct is private.
      Sunshine should private her/their acct or sensor post that shows flesh. She needs to report this sa police for record.
      Replying / screenshot messages will Not stop the attacker. Mas lalong gaganahan.

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    2. Yep. Mga parents di dapat talaga magpost ng mga pics ng minors kasi maraming mga manyak at pedophiles nagkalat sa internet. Pwede pang igrab at iedit or ipost kung saang websites ang pics ng anak nila. I know you're proud of your kids and many parents want to show off their lovely babies, pero maraming predators sa intenet. Protect your children.

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  12. You say, If this is right I don’t know what’s wrong anymore. I’ve seen yours and your kids Instagram. And it really bothers me that you allow your young children to post very sexy photos. I am a mother myself and I find it so disturbing.

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    1. Same here. I have a teen daughter, too. Siya mismo, she objects to having her picture shared sa social media. We only do if relevant for family and friends. And even with that, she checks the pic first before she relents and we hit the post button.

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    2. To add pa na sexy clothes + sexy posings

      5:55 thank u! Ganyan din sa family namin. As a daughter kami nagfifilter ng pwede iupload ng parents namin. Mas conservative pa ako sa parents ko kahit 23 na ako ✌šŸ»

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  13. Kung makasalita naman mga commenters akala mo naka hubo ang mga bata. Normal na kasuotan naman yan, di naman kita mga singit, kuyukot. Yung naka bikini naman rh dahil naniniligo naman sa pool. Ewan s mga tao talaga

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    1. Wala namang nagsabing mali mga suot nila or yung kuha ng pics. Concerned pa nga mostly and not judgmental, which I get more from you. Its about prudence and discretion. Of being proactive in protecting your minor children. That you can't control how people react but you can control what you put out there for people to see.

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  14. And yet there are so many celebrity children who remain grounded and private. Perfect example is Aga’s daughter.

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    1. Exactly. Same with Richard Gomez’ & Zoren’s daughter. U’ll never see them posting pictures wearing revealing outfits.

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    2. Kids of Aga, Richard, Gretchen for example. They don’t need to show skin to get people’s attention. Why do women need to post sexy photos? If it’s included in your job description, well and fine. But if it’s not your job to be sexy for social media, don’t cry foul if men fantasize about you. It’s the reality of this world.

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  15. know your boundaries and limitations when you post on social media. Babae pa naman ang anak niya she has to be careful on what she share. Para lang makakuha ng marami like dapat sexy ka

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  16. Mga babae mga anak mo Sunshine. At a very young age you make them wear bikinis and post them on social media. This is not a perfect world! You must learn how to protect your children. I am not trying to condone the acts of these evil sexual predators, but we as women especially mothers, have the responsibility also of protecting ourselves and our children by not flaunting our bodies on social media.

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  17. E kasi naman din itong si ateng e. Poposing ng mga nakaganun of course expect na may mga bastos na magko-comment. Ganian tlga ang social media. Pag ganian mga kasuotan lalo na at babae mga anak mo, mas maganda na wag ng pinopost sa social media ke artista ka o hindi.

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  18. Dati ko pa nakikita ang Instagram nilang magiina, may sexy photos. At naiisip ko na na balang araw may mga lalakeng magcocomment dito na di nila magugustuhan at aalma sila. Di tamang mambastos, kalaro tayong lahat don sa puntong yon. Pero may responsibilidad ka din Sunshine bilang ina para protektahan mga anak mo. Napakabata pa ng mga anak mo para magpost ng sexy pictures na ganun eh. Payo lang.

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    1. Agree! Natuwa po ako before kasi sa ig lang, feeling ko girls lang tumitingin. Kaso nagipost na sa fb, kaya pinagpyestahan na ng boys. Dapat limit yourselves din lalo minor tapos seductive clothes. Babae din po ako at ayoko ng bastos, but is it right for a minor to post a pic of herself with seductive clothes and posings?

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  19. I am appaled at some people here na nagcomment at sinisisi si Sunshine. Unang-una nagsiswimming sila. Hindi labas ang pwet hindi nakatuwad hindi kita ang singit na katulad ng mga nasa r18 sites. Ang mga gumawa ng memes na kabastusan na yan ang dapat nagiisiip ng mabuti as if wala silang nanay or kapatid na babae or pinsan o gf o asawa. Nakakasuka magrationalize ang ibang tao ngayon to think that they are putting the blame on the victims. Gagaling manghusga.

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  20. Sunshine thrives on issues. Imagine if they just ignored everyone and stopped posting photos like that then di na lalaki issue. I know they want to be heard. Pero lalo lang nila pinaparada sarili nila IMO. It's like asking for more people to view their profiles. Hay.

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  21. It will be a lesson learned to Sunshine... She should limit kasi kung ano dapat niya i-post lalo na Hindi naman mga artista ang anak niya. I checked her IG, young mga girls naka two piece lang, kita ang mga cleavages, masyadong sexy.. Kasi kung ako ang nanay ng mga batang yan, Hindi ko popost ang mga ganun. Alam nating Mali ginawa ng mga lalaking yan pero Tayo mismo dapat mag-ingat.

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    1. Pwede mag bikini sa beach kasi proper attire pero sana iwasan na lang po ipost yung pics sa socmed.

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  22. Wow do you really have to blame pa sila Sunshine, ang pervert kahit ano suot at itsura mo pervert pa rin. Grabe kaya umaabuso mga taong bastos kasi sisihin pa mga biktima, magisip nga kayo pano kung mommy, sister o girl friends nyo sila ano mararamdaman nyo. Blame the victim pa talaga ha Grabe.

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    1. I don't see anyone blaming the victims here but rather giving friendly reminders about the perils of posting pictures online especially those of minor kids. Yes, a lot here are most likely moms, aunts, sisters...women in general. I myself, am a mother of daughters and have sisters, too. It would pain me kung may isa man sa kanila ang mababastos. The reality of times, with social media being the norm now, there is absolutely no way you can stop or censor unwarranted comments as its an imperfect world. As a mother/parent, being the one who is expected to know better, its your responsibility to protect your minor children.

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  23. first step, stay away from soc med or make it private kung hinde keri wala. Alam na namin magaganda kayo ok?

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  24. Once you post it online, you cannot control it anymore.

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  25. I feel bad in saying this but I feel like the more Sunshine is posting this, the more she's putting her daughters out there para mabastos. I hope she understands na once you post something online kahit na private pa yan, you are welcoming different reactions from people. And she keeps mentioning pa na porke nag sexy star sya before this and that... No, it's not because of that. It's because we don't have control of other people's thought. Those comments are bastos and if she can't take it, talk to the person in private or demanda nya.. pero to post it pa and point out what's been said, hindi ko sya ma gets talaga.

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  26. If we will based it on the pictures she posted I would say walang masama sa pictures since nakasmile lang naman sila and normal na emote emote pero ang babastos ng comment,tho we have to admit na we have to be responsible din with the other pictures that we post sa public like ask ourselves if this is too much ba or what pero masama pa din yan and dapat mahiya at maaksyunan

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  27. I have a 15 yr old who looks like a mix of Marian and Julia b. She is also curvy and 5'8. Lahat Ng pic nya sa acct ko naka jeans or long dress .Kung Hindi mukha lang. Protective ako as a mom why Kasi ayoko matrauma sya and lumaki Naman sya na di nagpapakita Ng skn. She is also focused w her studies.

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  28. Sana idaan niya na lang sa legal route kung gusto niya, magdemanda siya or something at wag na sa social media. Kasi the more na pinopost niya yung mga ganyang comments tungkol sa kanila, the more na nag-iiba yung perception ng mga tao sa pamilya nila. Parang mas nagkakaroon tuloy sila ng sexy image, which is ironic kasi yun nga yung ayaw ni Sunshine.

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  29. It's Sunshine's fault.
    Sorry to say. She should
    protect her daughters.

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  30. Omg. Sad!!! I imagine how violated these ladies feel. Esp Sunshine as their mom :(

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  31. She can let her kids wear whatever they feel like or comfortable with PERO make sure it's with people na they're really close with kasi they're minors pa rin. Kapag na-public na yan, open na yan sa kung sino ang gustong makakita, and whatever they do is beyond our control. Reality na mahirap tanggapin, but all we need to do is to accept it kaya ibayong pag-iingat ang kailangan as what most comments here say.

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  32. Kahit na, hindi pa din tama magcomment ng ganon yang mga lalaki lalo na yung mga schoolmates ng mga bata. Tama lang na i-call out sila.

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  33. Wag na muna kasi i-expose sa social media or i-private niyo na lang account niyo.

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  34. In my opinion, this world is so broken that someone who dresses appropriately can still be sexualised. May mga pictures ang mga anak ni Sunshine na nakasuot naman ng disente pero May mga comments pa din na bastos. For me, siguro nga mabigyan din ng lesson ang mga bastos na yan. Unless you call them out, they may not realize na mali ginagawa nila. Siguro sa kultura nila sa bahay, sa school, normal yan kaya ganyan ang values nila. They need to know that it's wrong to sexualize. Sana huwag sila kunsintihin ng mga magulang nila.

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  35. Bakit si sunshine ang sinisisi? Yung mga manyak na nagcocomment yung awayin nyo!

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  36. Kung may batas for for antisensualization, Idemanda mo shine lalo nat may proof ka. Huwag dito sa social media dahil hindi ito korte.

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  37. ang bastos ay bastos kahit ano pa ang suot ng babae at kahit hindi ka mag post.

    hindi ba pwedeng mag kaisa na lang tayo ng mahinto na ang kabastusan kesa sisihin pa yung mga biktima.

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  38. ireport sa principal ang mga nagcomment na classmate nila na yan
    and for the meantime private muna account nila and turn-off comment

    kahit hindi ganyan post or suot
    mo kapag may bastos talaga lalabas yan
    ako when facebook maraming nagme message
    buti nauso ang block and filtering of messages and hindi rin sila basta-basta makakapost sa wall ko

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  39. Clearly sunshine does not know how social media works. Naglagay ka ng pics para mapansin kayo for all to see. Ngayong di niyo na ma control ang mga comments bigla kang magwawala. Hindi victim shaming ito pero napaka suggestive ng mga pics niyo, obviously Alam natin ang klase ng Tao na aabuso sa ganyan. As if naman matitino ang magtitiyaga magcomment. Yung iba nga nang aasar pa.

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  40. I do agree with most comments. Di ok ang mambastos pero kelangan din tayo maging responsable sa ating pinopost sa social media. Di natin hawak ang utak ng lahat kaya dapat tayo ang mag ingat. Ginagawa na ata nating america ang pinas. Freedom, freedom. Di tayo parehas ng america.

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  41. Hay naku, as if they don’t know the realities of social media.

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