Friday, March 22, 2019

FB Scoop: Dani Barretto Defends Self from Basher Telling Her She's Not a Good Daughter, Keeps Mum on Pregnancy Issue

Image courtesy of Facebook: Dani Barretto
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158 comments:

  1. Aay ang sakit naman nung "Ano pinakinabangan ko sa kanya?" "Pagkabuhay ko lang, girl." :(

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    1. She can't even mention Dennis supporting her, kay Kier pa kaya? Sus.

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    2. Ingrata much. Buhay LANG. Kapal mo girl kung sa nanay mo lang egg cell ka lang. Salamat pa din sa tatay mo naging tao ka

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    3. Eh bakit hiningi ba niyang mabuhay?

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    4. 5:53 FYI, if you have watched her vlog, she acknowledged her stepdad who treated her like his own. You are so quick to judge without knowing the facts first.

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    5. True 1125.. Kayong may mga ama.. Wag mga judgmental sa mga taong di lumaki kumpleto ang pamilya. Magpasalamat na lang kayo at mahal kayo ng magulang nyo. Kaloka.. Eh kung sa wala naman talaga tatay nya all these years..

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    6. 6:06 she dodn't ask to be born though. That's not something to be grateful for.

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    7. Kung ako ang future in-laws ni Dani parang matu-turn off ako sa asta nya. Kasi sarili nya ngang tatay kaya nya pagsalitaan ng ganyan paano pa kaya yung in-laws nya nalang.

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    8. people saying she didn't ask to be born... but all of us didn't ask to be born.. let's just be thankful for the life we have as she should be. i find her so defensive. barretto talaga ang nalalalantay sa dugo nya.

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    9. LOL sa " she didn't ask to be born". Such a cop out excuse.

      We were all dealt different cards. Yung iba broken family, iba lumaking mahirap, iba may kasakitan, sexual orientation issues etc. It's what you do despite these things that define you. She didn't ask to be born... Sino ba ang nakapagrequest? I didn't either, you didnt, WALA.

      So her father was out of her life. But she still has a bunch of things going for her. Bakit bitter pa din? Move on din pag may time walang perfect life!!!

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    10. pero nung di sila ok ng mama niya, sabay bonding nilang mag ama hayyyy

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    11. 6:06 she didn’t ask to be born by an absentee father.

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    12. anon 2:46am well kung mabait in-laws nya at tanggap sya at hindi pakialamera bakit sila matuturn-off? ikaw lang yon nag-iisip ng ganon. sobra ka kasing advance mag-isip.

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    13. Ramdam ko pagging bitter nung didnt ask to be born! You’ll never be fully happy with that hatred

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    14. Dani had it easy; di naman siya nagutom or anything nung lumaki siyang walang ama. Other abandoned kids had it worse, yet quite a number closed off a painful chapter by moving forward and still showing some respect sa parent na nag-abandon sa kanila. You think may class si Dani kasi well-educated at well-cared for naman siya, well, that was disappointing...

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    15. Bilib din naman ako sa mga tatay na anak ng anak tapos walang suporta.Mga naglahong parang bula.Tapos mga sensitive kung hindi na sila kilalanin ng anak nila.You reap what you sow

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    16. 2:41 well, may mga dahilan yan, maraming wapakels to the very end. Pero may mga ilan na eventually age catches up with them... and so will regret. Pero minsan nauunahan ng pride chicken at hiya, kaya kahit gustong magpakilala, tiis tiis na lang.

      Sometimes, someone just has to take the high road to mend broken relationships and move on.

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  2. “Ano pinakakinabangan ko sa kanya? Buhay ko lang”

    Shouldn’t one be thankful for that? Yung buhay? Parang ngayon na lang ata sya pumatol sa bashers ah.

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    1. Yeah thankful for the life, so does that mean ok lang na hindi siya pansinin for 25 years? Pag sa inyo nangyari yan tignan ko lang kung hindi magiba ang tono niyo

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    2. NAIINIS ako dun sa basher. Kaso mas nainis ako nung sabi ni dani na BUHAY niya lang daw pinakakinabangan niya. Haller gurl? Di sana wala ka ngayon kung wala tatay mo

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    3. Girls, di naman nya nirequest na mabuhay sya tapos iiwan lang. Go Dani! Defend yourself. You represent the kids like us na pinabayaan ng mga biological dads.

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    4. Wala sya dito kung wala si God. She could have been fathered by someone else.

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    5. Kamusta naman ung mga batang ni minsan di nila nakilala mga ama nila? U cant choose ur father might as well accept it. Jennlyn mercado is a good example ng kids na pinabayan ng both mother and father pero look what she is now! Good karma kc girl

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    6. 8:03, she represents kids like you na pinabayaan ng mga biological dads AT naghold ng grudge sa dad. Don’t include kids like me who were abandoned but have moved on & have forgiven. Madami-dami din kami.

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    7. Naku 8:03, mahirap yang may galit na kinakarga sa buhay. Whatever happened nung bata ka eh wala kang choice, but what happens to your life as an adult... that's all on you. Try healing by reaching out to your dad. Kung tanggihan ka, well, his loss. Kung ok naman, why not give peace a shot?

      Oo, "sperm donor" din tatay ko, but we're good. Now I can move forward na walang emotional baggage.

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    8. You should understand her resentments.Kahit kung sa inyo nangyari yan, na walang ganap yung tatay, magagalit din kayo.

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    9. Ako si 1:49. Oo, nangyari sa akin yan. Super late ko na nakilala tatay ko. Kaya alam ko rin that moving forward means being at peace with your past. Mahirap ang may baggage lalo na pag magsisimula ng bagong buhay bilang mag-asawa.

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    10. there is a right time for everything. Sa tamang panahon, hopefully magkakapatawaran din yan.Wag lang sulsulan ng mga tao sa paligid.

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    11. This shows what kind of mother Marjorie is. Dani did not realize this by herself. What the mother is saying in front of the kids will influence a lot on the child. And Im sure Marjorie had a LOT of help from siblings way back so hindi sa kanya ang ‘lahat’ ng hirap. May space pa ba for bitterness when you lived a good, comfortable life despite her dad being not there for 25 years? And who chose her dad? Certainly not her, but the mother.

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  3. This is sad and hurtful:( kung isa akong ama ang sakit mabasa ang ganito galing sa anak.. but still we dont know what really happened between her and kier.. pero sana dumating yung time na maging ok silang mag ama

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    1. Kakampi sana ako kay dani until sinabi niyanung buhay LANG :(

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    2. If you were an irresponsible father, yes, truth hurts. Bakit gagawa ka ng baby if you can’t be a responsible dad??

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    3. hndi natin alam talaga ang ngyari. Nakaka sad lang talaga.. ang iksi ng buhay kasi, para mapuno tayo ng bitterness at galit.. hndi naman natin maibabalik ang nakaraan.. pero na mention kasi ni dani, sana makitaan daw nya ng effort..

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  4. OMG, nila LANG lang nya pagkabuhay nya
    Oo nandun na tayo dani na absen sya sa buhay mo pero wag naman sana maging ganyan asal mo
    Baka nga buntis talaga sya
    Stay out of social medka muna
    Ikakasal pa naman sya ang nega ng dating pag ganun

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  5. And the cycle continues...

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    1. Grrrrrabe! Super hatred. Ung iba nga di kilala mga tatay nila e. Be a bigger person. Kung walanang tatay mo wala k dto sa mundo even if di sya naging tatay sau. Di ka magiging masaya if di ka nagpakumbaba! Talk to God. It helps!

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    2. Pero kung ikaw ay matinong ama, magpaparamdam ka sa anak mo.

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    3. But why wait for your father to make the move?

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    4. Well both of them should make up for lost time.Pero nung bata pa siya dapat inumpisahan na yan ng tatay niya ayusin

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  6. So hindi siya thankful sa pagiging buhay?

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    1. Sabi nga niya buhay lang binigay ni Kier sa kanya. Ikaw ba magiging thankful kung lumaki ka na puro pain lang naramdaman mo dahil deadma walking ang tatay kuno mo?

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    2. Ask KC, but then again, Sharon took the high road in parenting.

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    3. Buhay lang pala ibnigay sa kaniya ngtatay niya samantalang nung nagkaroon sila ng issues ng nanay niya saan siya tumakbo di ba sa tatay niya.

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  7. grabe naman. di man good provider tatay mo, tatay mo pa rin yan. respeto na lang, kahit yun na lang kapalit ng pagkabuhay mo.

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  8. Absent for 25 years???? But when she needed him when she left her mom's home her dad was there for her. Hyprocrite talaga toh

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    1. For some, being a good father is measurable by financial support.

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    2. wag nga tayo mag galing galingan sa buhay ng iba. tama sya ano ba alam natin sa ngyari sa buhay nila. kahit nman siguro walang financial support pro yung presence mo ramdam. hindi yung wala na ngang financial wala ring presence. ang dami ring hirap ng pinagdaanan ni marjorie no, buti nga anjan si claudine at gretchen para maitaguyod needs
      nila

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    3. ilang linggo lang siya naglayas at siya pa humanap kay Kier noon. Sapat na yun sa lahat ng kakulangan? wow

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    4. Alam mo ba for sure na dun siya tumakbo? Ikaw assuming masyado.

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    5. 11:28 teh as far as i know she posted it on her ig account. Were you living under a rock?

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    6. True. She posted it. Kaya nga daming natuwa sakanya cos akala ng marami okay sila ng dad nya cos of that. Then this recent ganap nanaman, hindi pala sila okay

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    7. 12:50 she just mentioned sa vlog nya na they were together ng dad nya few months ago. Like 4 or 6 months ago yata. Tapos wala naman mairason kung bakit hindi sila okay. Puro “just that it”

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    8. punta tayo sa usapang financial support, nakikita naman natin na mas mayaman si Marjorie kesa sa ex niya pero sana naman kahit kaunti nag bigay bigay din yung tatay niya while she was growing up at hindi ipinaubaya kay Dennis ang burden.

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  9. I can feel Dani's pain since my mom calls my dad as sperm donor nothing else. My mom came fr a well off family got impregnated by my dad. After 30 yrs my family's financial position turned upside down. I was married and got separated fr my ex husband bec of physical abuse. Yun dad ko na wala all those years who is retired gives me 10k a month to help me w my 2 children's monthlyexpenses. Sobra ako thankful he was there in my lowest times. Dani di pa tapos libro NG buhay mo. Maganda din na walang mabigat sa puso

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    1. naiyak nman ako sa story mo.

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    2. Kaiyak naman to klasmeyt. Pero happy Ako for you

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    3. I don't think mabigat ang puso niya, she doesn't talk about him with anger, wala ngang feelings eh.

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    4. Tama! Mahirap may iniipong galit sa kapwa. Un nanga, ama mopa! Just forgive him. And let go the hate

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    5. Never too late!

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    6. Buti bumawi tatay mo sa yo. Sana nga maisip din ni Kier yun.

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    7. ito lang, yung mga ganitong bagay naaayos sa tamang panahon. Maybe Dani is not yet ready. Sana lang kahit na mas may kaya yung mother, nagbigay pa rin ng kaunting support for his kid si Kier. Yung away ng mga matatanda, wag isali sa bata.

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  10. Kasi naman ang usaping pamilya parang online selling lang...Pm is 🔑 😂

    Di na sana sila napapakialaman ng ganyan

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    1. Sana nag PM sent na lang ang reply ni ate hahaha

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  11. Pare pareho lang silang magkakaptid di man lang nageeffort to see their fathers. Tatay niyo pa din iyon

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    1. Bakit tatay ba niya nag-effort? Wala diba? Anak pa din siya ni Kier pero 25 years siyang neglected. 6 na taon na nga daw silang di nag-uusap diba? Di kumo mabait tatay mo ganun din napunta sa iba.

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    2. Seryoso? Neglected? They bonded nung di sila okay ng mom niya. Dun pa nga siya nagstay wth. She posted it on socmed. Lol at you riding in this issue without knowing anything

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  12. Sabi nga ng mga matatanda, pag masama ang loob mo sa magulang mo, hindi magiging peaceful ang buhay mo.
    Dani kung hindi nagbigay ng financial or moral support ang dad mo, hayaan mo na lang. Mukhang maganda naman na ang buhay niyo. Sobra sobra sa blessings.

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    1. Sabi ng matatanda? Those elders are brainwashed by their elders and elders before them.
      Break the cycle. Dani did not ask to be born.
      She does not deserve to be bashed.

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    2. 2:33 brainwashing na pala ngayon ang tinuturo lang ang pag galang sa matanda 🙄

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    3. 4:40 Girl, I so agree with you.

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    4. At anon 2:33 sorry to burst your bubble but I do believe in elder's wisdom dahil sila mismo na experience and through that experience they learned a lot.

      Pansinin nyo yung mga batang may bagahe sa tatay? Never peaceful ang buhay compared to kids who despite of their father's misgivings chose to forgive and respect. Respect is the key, maybe may ginawa nga na mali pero do not go low on shading them at social media. Same with sharing your personal lives. Mas mahirap magkaayos kapag lahat kayo naka detalye ang buhay in public. Eh yung iba kumakain lang ng popcorn sa away nyo.

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    5. But this is true nakakaapekto ng relasyon sa buhay kung meron kang father issues.

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  13. "pagkabuhay ko lang" lang talaga. Nag iba Ata tong si Dani after she got engaged.

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    1. yes, Dani did not ask to be born. duh?

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    2. True... but she has that choice as an adult to make amends, let go of pain, and know her father more.

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  14. you all won't understand unless kayo ung iniwan. In situations like like these, ang sympathy laigng nasa parents but guys, believe me, hindi lahat ng parents kagaya ng meron kayo. There are really those who neglected their children. Reality un.

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    1. Couldn’t agree more. Pero mahirap ma-explain yun sa mga pinoys dahil sa culture natin. Masyado tayong family oriented and dahil na din sa 10 commandments. If we were to be pragmatic about it, hindi naman talaga kawalan yun. Just my opinion. Pinilit ba ni Dani na i-silang siya? In our culture, parang utang na loob natin yung buhay natin sa parents. Kahit lumaki pa tayo sa hirap at hindi tayo mai-provide ng maayos. Sa ibang culture, if you are not able to provide, you’re not even worthy to be called a dad. That’s just the basics. But again, i know iba ang paniniwala sa kultura natin.

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    2. 5:04, wala naman sinasabi ang mga commenters na walang masama na magulang. Ang sinasabi lang nila is kahit gaano kasama ang parents matuto tayong magpakumbaba at magpatawad dahil utang pa rin natin sa kanila ang buhay natin. Yes napakahirap gawin pero kaya pag ginusto mo. I’m speaking from experience, by the way.

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    3. Finally! So true. Aminin man o hindi, habang buhay mong dadalin yung pinabayaan ka ng tatay mo. Tatay mo na imbes na pprotekta at magmamahal sayo, wala. Ang bilis nila kumampi sa magulang dahil siguro magaganda relasyon nila, pero merong magulang talaga na minsan maiisip mo, sana di ka na lang nabuo dahil puro sama lang ng loob binigay sayo.

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    4. 5:04 Correct! Buti sana kung ikaw nag mamakaawa na isilang at alagaan nila. Buti sana kung pinapili ka ng mga magulang. You don't owe your life to them per se. You owe your life to God. Kung pabaya ang nanay o tatay mo, then they don't deserve your love and respect. Kung minahal ka tinaguyod ka kahit gaano kahirap, yun dapat lumuhod ka sa harap ng mga magulang mo.

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    5. Hindi din. Mom ko nga pinag palit kami sa ibang lalaki, iniwanan ang dad ko sinira family namin. Nagalit ako sa mom ko dahil naawa ako sa dad ko pero ngayon napatawad ko na mga nagawa ng mom ko at mas peaceful ang pakiramdam na hindi mo kaaway ang magulang mo.

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    6. 10:53 kaya nga HINDI LAHAT eh di ba?

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    7. Oo nga 10:53 pero nagalit ka pa din. Malay ba natin, nasa point siya ngayon na may galit siya kasi people are imposing na she should acknowledge her dad. Di naman natin alam ang real story niya so we shouldn't compare her story with ours. We also cannot force her to do the same things we will do in the same situation.

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    8. Good for you 1053.. But not everybody is like you..

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    9. Mga baks may kanya kanya tayong opinion. Wala akong sinabi na dapat gayahin din ako. Nag disagree lang ako sa opinion ng commenter sa taas. Let's all agree to disagree. Kung di nyo kaya magpatawad kayo yun, kung gusto ko mag patawad choice ko yun. Kanya kanyang pananaw lang yan.

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    10. 10:53 exactly. ikaw nga nagalit sa nanay mo, bakit si dani nde hayaan kung nasa stage man sya na galit sa tatay nya, actually in the first place we really cant assume pa nga na galit nga sya. point is, let her feel her emotions. wag pakelaman ng tao. wala tayo sa lugar nya to impose what she should feel.

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    11. AGREE! I dont get bakit "utang na loob" ang buhay. Sperm donor lang si kier because he was never a father to her. For all we know, he didn't want to have her anyway. Baka nga aksidente lang siya. Kahit pagpapanganak, hindi naman si Kier ang gumawa. So ano utang na loob sa kanya? He didn't do anything! He just had *** with the mom. Yun lang.

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  15. Yes it's true wala kme sa life mo habang lumalaki ka and truth really hurts talaga pero sana man lng the way u deliver ur msg on ur blog eh bigyan mo konting respect dad mo kahit bilang tao nalang.. Remember, w/o ur dad u will never be alive so be thankful.. And for sure it's not only ur dad ang may kasalanan kung bkit di nag work ang relationship nila ng mom mo.. Magiging magulang ka rin soon & u will realize what the other netizens telling to u.. Whatever happens he is still ur dad kaht marami sya pagkukulang ikaw prin ang dapat magpakumbaba..

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    1. She owes her life to God. Yun na nga we’re merely “netizens” na wala naman place in her life to tell her what to do and how to feel.

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  16. Kaya kahit gano ka hanash si Mega hanga pa din ako sa kanya the way she raised KC. Pinipilit nya irespeto ang ama kahit ano pang pinagdaanan nila

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  17. may tinatago din pala ito. how sad ganyan nya tratuhin tatay nya.

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  18. It's not your life so don't be so affected guys. Wala kayong say diyan. The end.

    Happy she is engaged and getting a positive male figure in her life soon.

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  19. Hindi naman natin talaga alam kung sperm donor lang ang tatay nya. Naramdaman nya ang hirap ng nanay nya kaya ganyan sya. Di gaya ni KC, well off ang nanay kaya di nya feel pagkukulang ng tatay.

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  20. Dani, we grew up that our dad wasn't around and hating him to only realized that he was not just given a chance and it wasn't his choice in the first place. Good thing before I left PH we met and was able to introduced to him my boyfriend who happened to be my husband now and that's also the last time I saw him because he died few months after. Honor your father and mother no matter what they did or how they treated you at the end of the day I believe that God chose them for a reason. Godbless

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    1. @9:05 I agree.

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    2. True.hindi sinabi na suklian ng pagmamahal kasi nga hindi nya nakikita for a long time.But then again dapat hindi pinalaki na may galit sa ama.

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  21. Akala ko ba mabait tong si Dani sabi nyo compare sa mga kapatid nya, anyare?

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    1. Mas maldita yan..kinalaban pa nga ang tita nya at nagpainterview pa!

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  22. Buhay niya lng..hahaha..kung d s buhay n yan wala k..at d ikakasal ngayon..yung fiance think twice..

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  23. Naku Dani, anjan na tayo na may sama ng loob ka sa tatay mo. Still, tatay mo pa rin sya at utang mo sa kanya ang buhay mo. Wag ganon, girl. Be thankful at nagrereach out sya sayo. Mas ganap ang kaligayahan mo kung magpapatawad ka. God bless.

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    1. What's new Si Julia Barretto nga na kapatid niya gustong palitan ang apelyido niya na Barretto na lang ayaw niya ng Baldivia. Masakit iyon para sa isang ama na itcha puwera ang kaniyang apelyido eh siya ang nagbigay ng buhay kay Julia.

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  24. Kung meron man siyang dapat pasalamatan sa buhay nya it should be God and her mom, sperm donor lang ang tatay niya. Madaling maging biological father, pero mas mahirap ang magpaka ama. If he really intended to have her and really wanted to have a child, then he would have been there sa buhay ni Dani. But apparently, since he's done the deed with Marj, so he's also done with her and her baby.

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  25. Her life, her problems.

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  26. Saka mo mararamdaman ang sakit kapag nawala na ang tatay mo, may naitulong man sayo o wala, nakasama mo man o hindi, iba ang sakit kapag nawala ang tatay o nanay. Sana hindi magsisi sa huli, sana maging mapagpasalamat at nagkaroon sya ng pagkakataon na magkaroon ng magandang buhay.

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  27. Mabuti nga may message na ganun father niya. Yung Iba diyan wala ganyan message for their son and daughter. Alam mo ba yung sinabi niya yan about her father na anu pinakanibangan something medyo masakit yun for her father hearing those words.. Kay Dani wala Lang sa tatay may pain yun.. hinde pa kasi siya magulang kaya na sasabi niya yan.

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  28. Can’t help but compare with KC. Ang ganda ng pagpapalaki ni Mega kay KC. Naka separate ang problems nilang mag asawa at hindi talaga sinasali ang anak. Sa isang interview ni Mega, sinasabihan nya si KC nung bata pa na ‘he just made mistakes but he’s not a bad person’ kaya si KC mahal na mahal ang Papa nya. Ibang iba sa mga anak ni Marjorie...sad naman :(

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    1. I agree. Ibang iba si KC. Pati sa pagtanggap nia sa ibang kapatid nia. Mega can be nakakainis sometimes, for all her rants and papansin in IG but she raised her children well.

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    2. Iba situation ni Marjorie and Sharon. Si Sharon mega rich na, mega sikat, at me mega rich tatay pa. Si Marjorie tinulungan lang ni Claudine and Gretchen para mairaos mga anak. Besides, dami ding pasaring ni Sharon ke Gabby e.

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    3. maybe because sharon is well off and can support her kids by herself, just a guess. baka factor din yon. maybe dani saw how her mother struggled to raise them without her father's support. let's not compare sharon and marjorie's way of raising their children. let's not go there, masakit to for mothers.

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    4. marjorie “struggling” couldve mean hindi sila nakaka travel abroad or hindi makapag aral sa private school yung mga anak nya. i seriously doubt na naghirap si marjorie in the true sense of the word.

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    5. teh di ba sa mga vlogs nakikita naman natin na ang yaman yaman ni Marjorie, she could afford lavish vacations, they have a nice house and vacation houses. Baka dahil sobrang mayaman si Marjorie kaya yung mga tatay ng mga anak niya ay parang mga hampas lu compared to her.They cannot give the children the same comforts that Marjorie can provide.

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    1. Dani ang payo ko sau supportahan ka man o hindi tanggapin mo nlng wag mo istressin sarili mo sa 25years mong problema. I-pm ka man o hindi chill klng wag mo hanapan dadi mo. You will get peace of mind. Kc yan ang natutunan ko diz 28yrs on how to get peace of mind. Ma stress klng kung lahat papatulan mo. Oo ka nalang

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  30. Being born in this world is not a choice. I discovered I was pregnant after my partner and I broke up. We both knew this is inevitable so we had a choice whether to take the responsibility or not. The baby inside me had no choice whether he wants to have us as his parents or not. But we do. And I decided to take the responsibility on my own. The father did not offer any help, nor did I ask. He was never a part of ny son’s life. So I won’t obligate my son to meet his dad. But if one day, he’d tell me that he would like to know his biological dad, wih all my heart I will let him.

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    1. @12:34 very well said..and sums it all what other people here dont quite understand,that taking sides is NOT the opinion that is need to hear..We all dont know every moment or what went on during those years..God bless you po 12:34 for being courageous,responsible and understanding..

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  31. Salute to Shawi for raising KC with respect to her biological father!

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    1. Agree. I never heard Sharon spoke ill of Gabby while KC is growing up.

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    2. cguro kasi yayamanin si ateng shawi..never sya nag ask for support ke gabo..cguro si ateng marj hingi ng hingi at d mabigyan kya tuluyan nasira ang relasyon..dapatk asi sa pinas, required tlg by law ang child support e..para walang issue..dito sacanada hahabulin ka tlg ng govt basta alam na may income ka e.

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    3. True Kahit nagkahiwalay sila ni Gabby never nagsalita si Sharon ng masama sa father ni KC kaya si KC at Gabby magnada ang relasiyon.

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    4. susme, wala naman pinagkaiba, yayamanin si marjorie, kita nyo naman mga houses sa vlogs di ba. May mga bonggang debut pa ang lahat niyang mga anak, lavish vacations. So mayaman talaga si Marjorie.

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  32. Madali satin sabihin dapat ganito dapat ganyan kasi we’re not her. Kahit pareho pa tayo ng pagdaanan may kanya kanya tayong paraan para iprocess yung anger. Time might heal it, time might not. Yun lang wala tayo karapatan magdikta.

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    1. True!!! Yung ibang tao kung makapag judge and makasabi ng patawadin na si kiwr.. akala mo nman alam nila ung pinahdaanan ni Dani.

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  33. Darating ang panahon, pagsisisihan mo dani ang lahat ng panahong sinayang mo na di makasama ang tatay mo. I loat my father when I was 8 and all my life, I wished he was alive so I can love him and be loved by a father. Sana di mo kainin lahat ng sinabi mo.

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    1. It's really unfair to judge her. Until we walk in her shoes, we wouldn't know.

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    2. May mali din ang tatay niya for not extending the effort.Aba bakit tumagal ng 20years na wala silang relationship

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  34. Stop judging dani! Di nyo alam ang feeling, kung hindi nyo nman yan naranasan. And so what kung di pa nya napatawad tatay nya?? Di nman automatic ang forgiveness.. may right time yan.. tou dont force forgiveness. Alangan magpala plastic sya? iba iba ang timeline ng tao.. pati pagpapatawad iba iba din.. di nati nalam ang nangyari sknla.. kaya who are we to judge so easily kay dani na bakit ungrateful sya? Dadating din ung time na mapapatawad na nya papa nya. Chill lng ksi kayo. Kung makautos na patawadin si kier kala nyo nman kayo nagtaguyod kay dani. Lol.

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  35. Why are you giving the third degree to Dani? The better person/s to ask why Dani feels this way is Kier or Marjorie or both. And why are you insisting hat she should just forgive and forget the old hurt and grudges? You don't know what she actually went through.

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  36. Ummm your mother didn’t raise u well sabi mo lang. kaloka girl mag aasawa ka na dapat clean slate. But come to think of it sino ba na X ng nanay mo na nakasundo sya same goes to dennis. Maybe its a sign gurl sabi mo nga 2 way yan!

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  37. Leave Dani alone. Children did not ask to be born.
    It is parent's responsibility to care for their children.
    Di obligasyon ng anak to pay them back rather to care for their own children. Kids are not parents retirement funds.

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    1. Tell dani to leave socmed 2:36!

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    2. Leave Dani alone? She should have shut her mouth then, may I remind you she invited all these when she decided to post her life in all her vlogs.

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    3. True..Nag anak ako kasi ginusto ko yun..at kahit kailan hinde magiging utang na loob ng anak ko sa akin ang bagay na ako ang nag desisyon..

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    4. She craves for attention to increase her viewrs in her vlog! Tell her to leave socmed so nobody will bash her!

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  38. Pictures don't lie dani..you were tog. w/ your dad when you were a little girl and there's another photo taken when you are already an adult! So, bakit sabi mo wala sya for 25 yrs?! Baka ikaw ang liar!

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    1. A few photos don't mean he was there. "Being there" could mean supporting her as his daughter (financially, emotionally, etc). Pagkaliteral mo naman

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  39. Dani,you have to remember that half of you is a legaspi..you cannot deny that..that's part of who you are-your identity..Sana man lang be careful with your words kasi baka kainin mo lang in the future..never burn bridged dahil hindi pa natin alam ang ending sa buhay natin. Stop the cycle of hate which was started by your mom..hindi maganda iyan sa future generations..

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  40. That’s bad. Wait until you have your own children and place your beautiful feet to your dad situation. Its ok that you dont have a relationship with your father but to say, ano nagawa nya sayo?! Wow you shouldn’t have said that ikaw ang hindi maka move on. So bad. Have some respect! Maldita ka.

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    1. Pero mga teh iniwan siya ng tatay niya.Si Kier bilang tatay dapat hindi niya pinabayaan sa buhay itong bata.

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  41. Kung ako ang mapapangasawa nito ni Dani kakabahan ako. Kasi kapag di ko nagampanan ang role ko na pagiging ama sa anak namen, ganito ang kakalabasan.
    Absent din ang dad ko sa buhay namen magkakapatid. Nagtampo at some point pero I tried to reach out to him. Maybe hindi ganun ka giliw pero we are civil to each other. Mas magaan ang buhay kapag walang sama ng loob.

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    1. Well said,, hndi lamg magaan, maiksi ang buhay natin..

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  42. Nakakatawa yun sabi ng sabi dito na di nya hiniling o ginusto mabuhay sya. The mere fact na buhay sya means meron syang role sa mundo na ito. At di sinasabi na buhay lang. If she fails as a parent at ganyan din sinabi ng anak nya how would she feel? Bilog ang mundo at di nya pa alam hangga saan nya kakayanin ang responsibility ng pagiging magulang.

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  43. We were abandoned by my father when I was a kid. Ngayong nasa abroad na ako, pinapadalhan ko sya monthly at ng pang maintenance nya kasi at the end of the day, tatay ko parin sya.

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    1. God bless you more. Honoring thy parents is the only command in the bible that has a promise.

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  44. #INGRATE for the life she only had because of her dad giving her LIFE. Sad to hear that #NoFilipinoValues #WagTularan

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    1. I admire Dani she is no sucker! Being a biological parent does not give you free pass to neglect or abuse your child. Kaya ang daming naaabuso because we force children to respect and follow their parents however twisted they are

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  45. Don’t judge her. Hindi natin alam what her mom had to go through inorder to survive. Imagine, lunok pride at tiis siguro talaga si Marjorie when she only had Gretchen to help her. Masakit iyun, I have seen that happen to my mom. She had to lower herself para saamin, tanggapin lahat ng sinasabi ng mga kamag anak namin just because noone else can help us. So I can’t blame Dani.

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    1. Yeah but then again you did not announce it to the world kung anuman pinagdaanan nyo and ng mom mo. she did. She posted it on social media for everyone to read and subconsciously asking for peoples reaction ergo the judgement.

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  46. May pagkukulang si Kier sa anak nya, sana ayusin nya yon.Kung ako din kay Marjorie, given the fact that she is a solo parent, wag nya turuan yung mga bata na magalit sa mga ama nila.

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  47. TO ALL who agrees that you OWE your parents for bringing you into this WORLD, ask yourself if you really do. If you still think you do, the next time you are expecting a child, remember you have the option to have the baby or NOT, and your child do not have that CHOICE.
    Of course you should love and respect your parents but not all parent's are loving, responsible, respectful, good. In Dani's case, I agree, understand and respect her decision. Time might change her point of view and if it happens or not, I still salute her for expressing herself without any fears of bashers and people in the Philippines that you always in DEBT to be born.

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  48. DANI's case is different from KC's situation. Marj and Kier were not even married while KC and her parents were a real family. Mas malalim ang pinagsamahan kaya mas may respeto si KC to her father.And kudos to SHARON who even defended Gabby when Jenny accused him of being a wife beater. Iba ang situation ni Dani kaya madali sya nag let go kay Kier at nandoond rin si Dennis to love her.

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    1. May mali talaga diyan si Kier.Kaya lumamig at naging matigas ang anak sa tatay dahil feeling niya iniwan lang siya.Saan nga naman siya lulugar.Growing up nacompare niya sarili niya sa mga kapatid niya na kahit papano may tumatayong ama.

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    2. And where is Dennis now? Ayun kinalimutan na din yata ng mga anak nila. Makes me wonder ano kaya cnasabi ng ina sa mga anak nya para lumayo sila sa ama nila ng ganun lang kadali. And to think that Dennis stood and acted like a real father to Dani. Pati surname ni Dennis pinatanggal nung isang anak nila. Ang babait di ba.

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  49. At the end of the day,tatay parin niya yan. One thing I learned from this cruel world ay ang huwag magsalita ng patapos. Huwag magtanim ng galut at sama ng loob. Matutong rumespeto. Kasi di mo masasabi ang karma. One day babalik sayo lahat ng mga sinabi mo. I do hope in her case, good things ang bumalik.

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  50. ganito lang mga besh, yung away ng matatanda wag i extend sa mga bata.

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  51. Nabasa ko sa ig yung pinost ni kier legaspi na he had a hard time seeing Dani daw eversince bata pa sya.probably ayaw ni marjorie na ipakita c kier kay dani.parang dineprive nya ng visiting rights yung tatay sa anak.

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