Monday, July 16, 2018

Must Be Patient

Imaage courtesy of www.moneycrashers.com

Followers are always on alert whenever they notice that celebrities unfollow one another in social media. Unfollowing another raises speculation that something is not right in the relationship of the parties involved. When the un-followers are supposed to be in a relationship. Netizens will immediately conclude that the two are undergoing a major problem.

If, however, the following–unfollowing becomes repetitive, other assumptions are floated. The most glaring of such hunches is that one of the celebrities is merely creating an issue to be talked about. An adage in local showbiz is that one has to be talked about whether positively or negatively.

When Lovely Celebrity (LC) publicly admitted her relationship with Hunk Personality (HP), her following increased and good wishes for a lasting relationship filled the air. After all, LC and HP can be lined up with the most beautiful couples in showbiz. Both are attractive and successful in their fields. While followers were confident that the two might end up together for the rest of their lives, news that they unfollowed each other would emerge.

Soon, doubts were cast on whether LC was making her own publicity when she unfollowed HP for the nth time. Like kids, the couple has been unfollowing–following each other and when things seemed to indicate their relationship was over, they start following each other again. This time, word has it that the two are having a major disagreement.

Recently, LC found out that HP has been spending time with his children and even have them have a sleepover at his house. As LC has various commitments, she cannot stay put and monitor the activities of HP. When LC asked HP about it, he affirmed the question casually. This laidback admission infuriated LC and a streak of jealousy prevailed. LC can be very possessive. HP is allegedly a god in bed, which LC enjoys. Thoughts of HP making out with the mother of his children would be raised by LC. Of course, HP would deny such things, as he and her former lover have moved on.

The latest argument seemed trivial, but it again opened up hurts. LC wanted to go to an event, but HP refused. LC replied that she does not need his permission in the same way that he never asked hers when he visits his kids or have them in his home. A discussion ensued, but LC had her way and once again, the unfollowing saga restarted. LC loves HP, but jealousy can sometimes blind love.     

“You cannot reason people out of a position that they did not reason themselves into.” ― Ben Goldacre

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57 comments:

  1. LC: P
    HP: M

    Pakainsecure naman ni LC jusko

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    1. So hindi talaga basehan ang face, body type or aura as being "god in bed"? When you look at HP, parang totoy type naman, but "god in bed" pala?

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    2. @1;44am hdi natin masisi c LC kng ganyan ung nararamdaman nya. Somehow alam naman natin ang family background nya eh. Ang dpt cguro nyang gawin eh mapalapit kht pap@nu dun sa kiddos ni HP and at the same time iassure din nla sa isat isa na hdi cla gagawa ng anumang moves na ikäccra ng relasyn nla.

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    3. Hindi po talaga basehan 1:59. Base on experience.

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    4. agree ako 2:38... ang anak ay anak.. kung mahal at gusto ni LC na sila na ni HP kailangan nia accept ung part na un ng buhay ni HP.. dapat secured sila sa relationship nila.. kung puro insecurities lang naku walang patutunguhan yan

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    5. LC is a toxic partner.

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    6. kawawa ka naman baks1:59. natural walang kinalaman ang looks, aura, body type and "size" sa bed performance.

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    7. Anon 1:59 totoy type pasayo yung lagay na yon?? Sobrang hot kaya niya!

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    8. Anong insecure dun? in a relationship kayo magiging kayo in the future di ba pwedeng mag open up din kasali ka na dapat sa usapan. Iassure ka lang na ganito ganyan tas nung siya na kay LC ayaw na payagan?.. so kanino lang applicable na dapat may paalamanan? haha

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    9. in a way prang may kasalanan din si HP..hindi kasi sya nagsabi ng advance kay LC about dun sa sleepover ng mga anak nya..ofcorz being in a relationship dapat pinaguusapan yang mga ganyan..baka mas maging understanding pa si LC...kaya iniisip ni LC since her opinion is not important kay HP, hindi nya din mapipigilan si LC na mag.attend dun sa event.

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    10. Well, having a partner that has kids already is really toxic. Mahirap talaga ang may sabit. I have been in that kind of situation before my ex had two kids and although it was completely fine with me but my friends and relatives comments which were against him is so stressful. Mas maganda pa rin talaga na walang sabit at okay mga tao sa paligid sa relasyon nyo, in short may basbas.

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  2. LC = P
    HP = M

    I have a feeling they won’t last. Both immature and M seems to be riding on P’s successes.

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    1. they won't last unless P accepts the past of M and M assures P of his love... they should have mutual arrangement pano gagawin sa mga bata dahil hindi pwede itsepwera na lng ung mga bata

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  3. clues pls , row 4 ako ngayon ah

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  4. Pakasal na sila at mag anak,nasa age na pareho LC-P and HP is M

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    1. Yun ay kung kaya nila bitawan career goals nila lalo na si P. At di sure kung ready na rin ba si M.

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  5. If a guy has a child w/ an ex it will always be a source of irritant w/ your present gf or wife unless of course both are in the same situation..i've witnessed a close relative and a friend suffer the same problem..better marry a guy na walang sabit for your own peace of mind.

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    1. If she knew from the start n may anak n c HP dapat tanggap at alam n nya yun pinasok nya n sitwasyon. At wag nya dapat idamay yun bata s kakitiran ng utak nya. Di nmn pwede n ilayo nya yun tatay s anak just to satisfy her ego.

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    2. True at syempre mga anak un so di ka pwede makicompete. Pero bilang tao syempre normal ang selos.. need lng assurance na mahala ka talaga dapat secure ka sa relationship nio at willing ka to accept the kids of ur partner. Kaso lang what if from the start tinago sayo diba tapos inlababo ka na nung nalaman mo so ang hirap talaga.

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    3. I sooo agree with this! And besides, LC deserves better.

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    4. Well the thing is LC didnt know about the kids from the beginning, inlababo na si ateng nung nalaman nya, so maybe of she knew beforw baka di naging sila ni guy
      -girl with same situation

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  6. Ang hirap, clues naman kay P and M please. KaF or KaH?

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    1. Gosh! This is so easy peasy. Dun ka sa CR maglinis.

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    2. 2:57 yabang mo naman.

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    3. HAHAHA, ayaw magpacopya ni 2:57

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    4. nahirapan din ako mga baks. so hindi sya nag iisa.

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  7. Kaya ako ayaw ko sa may anak na kasi gusto ko kami mag-uumpisa na bumuo ng pamilya at ayaw ko ng may ibang kahati ako at mga kids ko sa attention at pera ng asawa ko.

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    1. Exactly...

      P should just find someone else. Sa ganda nyang yan, truly she there is bound to be someone better than M who like her and eventually love her.

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    2. Yeah so kung same mo ang thinking dapat umpisa pa lang wag na dun sa may sabit diba. I mean may ibang tao na okay lang un and good for them. Depende naman sa preference diba. Masaklap lang alam ba ni P at the start na may kiddos si guy?

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    3. Alam ba ni girl in the first place na may anak na si guy? #curious

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    4. Very true Baks. Ang hirap pag may sabit.

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    5. Oo mhirap talaga. Sa totoo lang kahit ung sa money aspect mahirap paghatian lalo na at kung more than one ang anak nio. Hindi din naman pwedeng magdeny ng support sa ibang bata dahil rights nila un. Kaya para sa peace of mind dun tayo sa walang sabit.

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    6. 3:53 Nalaman nya eventually but she stayed so..

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  8. eh oldie na si mother ng kids pero wicked siguro and attempts to seduce the guy thats why the P doesnt trust...oh well he is not worth it then

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  9. One should not be jealous of your love One kids coz thus will show what kind of character your love One has. I will be happy if I were P. It means the man knows his responsibilities

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  10. Sayang na sayang si S... Napakaswerte ni P pag nabingwit nya yun at napakasalan sya ng napakalaking isdang yun kaso mukhang di nya mabitiwan si M na napansin lang ng mga tao because of her.

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    1. Wag idamay si S. Wala naman gusto yun kay P

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  11. Mahirap yan. I'm in the same situation right now. May bf has a daughter already. Accepted ko yun and I know saan lugar ko pero kahit anong iwas, may conflict talaga sa time eh. Anong magagawa ko, anak yun, nakakaselos talaga. I understand P and sana M learns to balance everything.

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    1. mhrap po sa una kpg hndi p kau ksal. pero need lng po tlg ng understanding. ngyun ksal n kmi at me mga anak n din itinuring ko lng cyang hindi iba sakin, un bata. ngyun malaki n cya sama sama kmi ng aalaga sa knya both sides ng ex ng hubby ko at kmi mg asawa. lumaki naman cyang maayos at mbait. wla nman problema.

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  12. Wow, who knew P was such a selfish, insecure woman? What a turnoff. The kids are innocent in this and if M is spending more time with them, that's actually a good, mature thing to do. If she only sees it with jealousy, she'd probably make a terrrible stepmom. Where's the heart in not seeing it from the POV of the children?

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    1. you're not even in the same situation para magjudge ka agad ng pagkatao nya. it's normal to get jealous i guess when you are human and in the same situation.

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  13. They are not good for each other. LC especially is too insescure she cannot let the man be a father to his children. They should just move on. Di rin naman faithful si girl kaya insecure.

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  14. Well LC should make her choice and learn to live with it. Mga bata yun, dugo’t laman ni HP. Matagal din niyang hindi nakasama. Kung hindi niya kaya iwan because he’s allegedly good in bed magtiis siya. Pwede naman nya iwan lalo na if she knows her worth.

    As for HP, kababawan naman din na hindi payagan si LC sa event na yun. Focus sya dun sa mga bata kesa kung ano-ano pang petty issues inaatupag susme.

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  15. The insecurity stems from M not telling P beforehand the existence of his kids. This relationship is flawed by trust issues.

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  16. LC is so insecure. why should she be jealous of the kids. The kids were bron before she met HP. The kids were product of his past relationship.Kung mahal niya si lalake, dapat tanggapin niya na may mga ank na siya. Insecure at selfish talaga itong si LC .Kaya ayaw ko sa kanya.

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  17. grabe naman si LP , controlling.

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  18. Ang takeaway ko rito...he's a "god in bed". Jusmiyo!

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  19. i don't even think P is the marrying type and is ready to settle down. Even with M. They're both insecure and immature, pang good times lang tlg

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