12:52 Sa pulis muna siya pumunta at magfile ng complain against that abuser kesa sa socmed. Anong magagawa nating mga netizens, eh taga comment lang tayo dito.
12:52 Sa pulis muna siya pumunta at magfile ng complain against that abuser kesa sa socmed. Anong magagawa nating mga netizens, eh taga comment lang tayo dito.
7:07 kung wala nga syang balak magsampa ng kaso against the abuser, eh she is sending the wrong message sa mga future victims. Na pag sila naabuse eh idisplay na lang sa socmed ang mga pictures. Hindi mapaparusahan ang abuser. Kamote.
6:43 talaga naman victim blamer siya. Hindi lahat ng tao may kakayahan magsampa ng kaso. Kasi hindi madali un! Porket hindi magsasampa ng kaso hindi na pwede magsalita?
Di ba mas madaling magsampa ng kaso kaysa magbuyangyang ng photos sa socmed? At least sa pulis, private. Iyong socmed buong mundo. Maliban doon, mas tamang magsampa ng kaso kaysa magsumbong sa netizens.
2:58 May alam Ka ba sa buhay?Pagnagreport sa pulis,lalo na pagcelebrity,Kahit papano lalabas ang balita.Baka sa socmed ang tingin ni Barbie na mas mabuti dahil Kahit papano mabibigyan siyang encouragement at support Ng Maraming followers Kaysa Ilan lang sa pamilya niya lalo na Di kumpleto.
Parang mainitin kasi ulo ng bf baka sobrang selos naku sa totoo lang marami babae kahit sinasaktan na stay pa din kasi nga mahal daw may kilala ako ganito.pag sinuyo bumabalik parin tpos paulit ulit nalangm saludo ako kay barbie sana nga di na nya babalik don. 💔
Naku may friend din akong ganyan. Nagdedeny pa samin noon pag nakikita namin yung mga pasa nya. Paasain lang daw talaga sya. Naniwala naman kami kasi mestiza sya. Nagkaanak pa sila. Buti hiniwalayan na nya after so many years.
Girls, and guys as well, if your partner abuses you verbally, physically, and emotionally, leave them. Do not hesitate. Ask help from friends and families. Most of all, love yourself enough to have the will to help yourself. THEY ARE NOT WORTH STAYING WITH. Do not be afraid to leave. Because the next time they abuse you might just be your last. Let your instincts of self preservation and survival kick in.
totoo, kapag natatapakan na ang inyong karapatang pangtao, leave. Hindi naman sinabi na hanggang kamatayan ipilit ang sarili mo sa taong hindi ka mahal. Hindi ka punching bag. Tao ka. So LEAVE.
Ohh tapos? Ano pa palabas mo Barbie?!! Pa-victim ka? Uhaw ka sa fame? Attention seeker?!!! Hahahaha! Dapat nireport mo na. Tsaka walang delete delete! Naipost mo na eh. Nakakapag duda tuloy!
That’s why victims of abuse don’t come out easily because of people like you who blames the victims instead of showing empathy. Reporting someone you loved who is also your abuser is not easy to do especially at her age right now wherein confusion and fear is common. Yes, she posted and deleted them few minutes after because she is confused on what exactly what to do.It’s easy for us to think on what to do because we are in her shoes. You don’t have to like her but at least show kindness & empathy.
Wow! This is the type of response which makes today's society unprogressive and full of chaos. Instead of trying to check what happened, you go on and blame the supposed victim. Abused victims are usually in a state of shock or confusion. She might not know yet what to do or hurting. That's why her actions could have been undecisive.. why don't you stop for a moment and pray tha all goes well for the people involved instead of spewing hate and negativity?
Sana hindi si barbie na nanakit na nga pero pah tinanong kunh sino gumaw noon pagtatakpan nya. Parang nag papansin lang so please barbie sue him/her kung sino man gumawa nyan
Ganon ba kadali yon? Paano kung iniisip mo din yung feelings nung pamilya ng bf mo na napamahal na din sayo? Ang dali kasi magsalita bec di kayo naabuse or nasaktan physically. Whatever the reason is, its still not right to hurt someone physically. Yung outlet niya na magpost sa social media bawal? Yun na nga lang ginawa ng tao kaysa magfile ng kaso, makasakit ng magulang, etc
Aq nung 1st time n ng ka pisikalan kme n hubby (at d nmn n naulit) bcoz of inis and sobrang tensyon cgro, nahagis nia skn ung unan with sobrang force napasama kamay nia, syempre lumaban dn aq kc naalala q sb ng lola q kht babae k lumaban k so lumaban aq kht matangkad cia skn haha after that nagkaiyakan kmeng 2 nagusap and nagpromise kme n d n mauulit ung ganun. Kaya after nun pag may problema naguusap kme pra maiwasan n ung d magandang mangyayari open communication dpt and patience. ngyari s men un newly wed kme kia mahirap ang adjustment period.
Pinagdaanan ko 'to. Matindi. Yung malalaki at violet to black na ang mga pasa ko sa mukha, tagiliran, braso, binti. Sobrang sakit pa ng katawan mo pero papasok ka pa rin sa trabaho. Tatakpan na lang ng concealer at mag-long sleeve at pantalon. Naiinis ako sa sarili ko kapag naaalala kong tiniis ko to at pinatagal pa ng ilang taon. Mauuwi rin pala sa hiwalayan. I was young, so I forgive myself. 'Wag niyo ko gayahin.
happy for you kasi you got away from him. Truth is, ang hirap pag nasa abusive relationshio ka then may mga anak. Seven years and counting. Wala akong matakbuhan. Nahihiya akong mag kwento. Pero gusto ko nang makawala. Minsan, parang kamatayan na lang ang solusyon para makawala sa impyernong ito. Ang daling sabihin na iwanan na lang ang partner. Pero napaka hirap gawin lalo na wala kang support system..
*hugs* for you 1:29. I hope things would get better for you and your kids. Have courage to live till your situation changes. Importante na may makausap ka. Andito kameng mga ka-fp mo
1:29 Huwag Ka Mahiya magkwento.Kailangan mo Ng tulong.Alam Ko pakiramdam na wala kang support system.Yung mga abuser Kasi talagang ginagawa yan para magdepend Ka sa kanya at Di Ka makaalis.Ilan po ba ang mga Anak mo?kumusta sila?
Jusme pati sa may bandang boobsie may pasa. Di ba delikado yan? Dapat magsampa si Barbie ng reklamo. nakakagigil kung sino man ang nanakit sa kanya. Sarap ipabugbog ng hina**pak.
Do not single out women. Kahit sinong tao HINDI DAPAT SAKTAN PHYSICALLY. I also know battered men. They do not want to complain kasi pagtatawanan pa sila kasi binubugbog ng asawa or gf.
Huhuhu i know the feeling. Sinasaktan din ako ng bf ko pag super galit, minsan in public pa :( nahihiya ako sabihin sa fam and friends ko. Ang masakit is pa super good image nya kaya walang maniniwala sakin nagsabi ako. But im recording everything. I wanna give him a chance to change sayang naman kasi 8 years namin together :((
Run na teh.. :(( wag ka na manghinayang sa 8 years. You still have a lifetime to be happy. Don't give him the privilege to hurt you dahil sa chances na binibigay mo. Lalo na if he is doing it in public. That's so humiliating. Please run while you still can. Fast and far. *hugs* lakasan mo loob mo teh
Girlash, don't waste this chance for you to go and leave that nondeserving guy! Eight years have passed and yet your bf never changed! Run while you still can and let him know your worth. A guy who can treat you a lot better may come along. It's easier said than done but it is a must if you are in this kind of toxic relationship. Love and respect yourself first. Value your well-being.
Leave. Who cares if walang maniwala sayo? Okay na yung nakawala ka sa isang toxic or abusive relationship. God will do the rest. I hope that someday you'll heal from this pain. Hindi love ang pananakit.
Hey run while you can. Ive been there. 3 years nga lang kami. pero still. same situation wala ak omasabihan kasi nahihiya ako and public shaming dati ng ex ko. ang result sakin ngayon is ngka trauma ako. ngpapanic agad ako pag nakakarinig ako ng nagsisigawan or ng aaway, usually di ako mkahinga coz of anxiety attack. Kaya please save yourself. ako after two years ko pa nsabi sa mama ko n papa ko and ngsisi ako na hndi ko agad sinabi kasi ngayon feel ko need ko mg pa consult or what dahil sa trauma. so please lakasan mo loob mo you deserve someone who will treat you better and wont hurt you. yung mga abusive na gnyan lagi lang nila sasabihin sayo na magbabago sila pero hndi naman. so please.
Do not waste your time with that guy.REmember, hinde naman yung family at friends mo ang makikisama dyan.Ikaw.Huwag ka mahinayang girl!Tandaan mo kaya mo yan!Isipin mo ha, Kung hihiwalayan mo yan ngayon mas magagawa mo gusto mo sa buhay.Alam Ko medyo hinde ka sigurado at nahihinayang ka Kasi iniisip mo Baka tumatanda ka na at bigla kang mag-isa.Don't be scared.Break up with him.Focus on yourself, makakahinga ka sigurado ako.Magpray ka.Huwag ka mag-alala.Isipin mo Kung Magkatuluyan Kayo hinde lang Ikaw ang Kawawa kundi ang mga anak niyo.Kaya mo yan!Andito kaming Ka-FP mo!Kung pwede lang Iemail ka Ginawa Ko na eh...
I hope you find the courage to give yourself more chances of being happier than giving your partner chances to change his ways because if it's gone on for 8 years then I think you must face reality that that's just his nature. Be thankful you're not married yet, because the violence will escalate when you're man and wife. If someone truly loves you he'll protect you from harm - not be the one dishing it out. Get help and get out of that painful situation before it's too late. Good luck m'dear!
hi sis im kee. i came from a 9yr abusive relationship. within those yrs. all i ever wished was for him to change. but hindi. its a cycle. battered girlfriend syndrome. bigla na lang magiiba ng mood. sasaktan ka. iiyak ka pero wala syang paki. sasabihan ka pang paawa effect. tapos aamuhin ka suauyuin dahil di nia kaya mawala ka. u know the drill. iniisip ko nun everytine sinasaktan nia ko. mahal ba ko nito. kase ako nga di ko kayang magampas siya and masakit sakin makaganti sa kanya. pero sya sige lang sa pag tadyak sakin pagsabunot pag hampas. kahit magmakaawa ako at super down na dahil di naman ako ang my kasalanan pero ayun nagmamakaawa para di na masaktan. lagi ko na lang ipinagppray nun na Lord kung sya po talaga para sakin sana magbago na sya. or kung di man po sya magbago tulungan nio po ko makawala. okay nako nun sa basta di nia na lang ako saktan kahit lagi akong taken for granted. tapos tinatago ko sa parents and friends ko. laging good image pinoportray ko sa kanya kesyo mabait sya tahimik. all that he is not. and sya din ganun pinapakita nia sa mga tao. kaya bandang huli ako ung mukhang masama talaga. tapos sasabihan pa ko ng mga tao na. e bakit di mo agad hiwalayan. oo mahal mo andun na tayo dun. pero ako kung may chance lang talaga within those 9yrs na makawala kahit mahal ko. ginawa ko na. kaso di lang ako sinasaktan e. binablackmail pa ko. lalo na nung nakikiaggiwalay na talaga ko nung hopeless na talaga sya dumating pa sa point na ipapapatay nia daw tatay ko. ewan. lara silang may mental issues. i struggled sa pag move on. pero rhis is the best choice. kase sayang ang natitirang yrs pa sa buhay ko. 27 ako nung nakipagbreak sa kanya. i dont care. alam ko naman na nanjan si God. he will not forsake me. sinurrender ko sa kanya lahat. ngayin may boyfriend na ulit ako na ibang iba sa past ko. pinapakita nia sakin pano mahalin ang babae. madami din blessings na dumating sakin. magkakawork pa ko sa europe soon. hindi talaga tayo papabayaan ni Lord. and to my ex din naman. pinagppray ko pa din minsan na wag din sya pabayaan ni Lord. ayoko naman makarma sya. okay na sakin ung nakawala ako. nakahinga nako. and ang light lang ng lahat ngayon.
papansin lang. uhaw sa atensyon. u dont post a case like this on social media. u report it to the police and you file a case. Obviously naghahanap lang ng intriga para suportahan. So cheap.
mahirap din kase minsan na gantihan or ipakulong ung abusive partner mo kase kahit pano mahal mo pa din. kaya okay na yung basta makawala ka na lang sa kanya.
Si Barbie ang may sariling teleserye ngayon. Sa kanilang dalawa ng ex niya, siya yung may di kailangan sa exposure. God bless you. Yung mga katulad mo yung dahilan kaya takot yung mga victims ng abuse na magcome forward.
Sana lang di mangyari yan sayo at sabihin ng tao na papansin ka lang. Hindi ko maiintindihan saan ba nagmumula ang hatred ng basher na to. Ikaw ang So Cheap.
Baka naman for her teleserye lang. Nagpost si JM na may black eye eh. Kasi kung totoo yan for sure ang nanay ni Barbie hindi papayag na walang justice na mangyayari db..
The sad part is, the abuser will blame the victim, then he’ll ask for forgiveness and will do it again. Not only he’s physically hurting her but he is also playing her mind.
Please don't judge if hindi pa kayang ipa blotter and nag post Lang sa social media. Each has her/his own coping mechanisms. It's not cheap or naghahanap Lang ng intriga but this might be a call for help. Pag pray nalang natin na me gagabay sa kanya para magdecision ng tama.
Seryoso ba ito? If Totoo naman ito Ang lala Lang ha! Bata pa sila to go sa ganitong situation. paano kung mag asawa na? Maskatakot takot yun. Haaay! I rather be single than be with a abusesive na lalaki.
Tama! Mas mabuting mag-isa Kaysa may karelasyon na abusive.Hindi lang Ikaw ang Kawawa kundi Anak at pamilya.KUng nagawang saktan nga ang asawa pwede mangyari sa Anak.Pero Kahit Hinde sa anak, yung emotional abuse andun eh tapos nakikita rin Ng Anak yung abuse.Apektado yung pamilya.
Damn. Feel ko si barbie siya yung tipo babae hinde palaban. Yung sinaktan ka na physically hinde Niya magawa gumanti. Sa katawan pa Lang Niya e kita na!... Talo siya :(
So sad if this true and yet people are thinking that this is just for promo. And if ever that it is, she has some explaining to do because she is making people worried.
ako dati binubogbog ako ng karelasyon ko, kahit sa daan hinahatae ako. That was the time that the bill was not pass yet about Women abuse. Di ako makasumbong sa pulis kasi nahihiya ako at sinaksak sa isip ko ng karelasyon ko na kasalanan ko lagi kaya ako blue and black. i was so insecure that I clinged to him as if he’s the onlly guy for me.
Kung naexperience nyo na magmahal, maiintindihan nyo si barbie. Kakapit at kakapit kayo sa relasyon kahit hnd na tama. And to those na nagsasabing bakt sa socmed why not report sa police? Natiis nga nya masaktan eh, ipapulis pa kaya? Cge nga!
Naku bakit post na post lang. Walang mangyari diyan kung puro lang dakdak. Leave him, go the police and have him charged. Don’t be a victim na walang ginagawa.
I’ve read a lot comments here, so sad that there are people who have no empathy nor kindness in their hearts. It’s not easy for Barbie to come out and file a case against her abuser because she loves that person still despite of what happened. Ask any victim of similar case and they will say the same thing. She may have posted pics because at that time she wanted to be brave and say enough is enough and let other victims know that they are not alone. Then she had dilemma, common among victims, whether what she is doing is right or not so she deleted the posts. To all people who doubts her, who thinks she wants attention, who blames her ,... you don’t have to like her but at least show some kindness and hopefully empathy.
Agree ako dito. I have friends na VAWC victims same guy. May money and ability to file cases pero never nila finile. So nakakalungkot na pag sinasabi ng tao what should they do pero kapag ikaw na ung nasa posisyon mahirap talaga.
You are making all kinds of excuses. The posters are saying for her to claim her life and do something about it instead of just parinig that serves no purpose.
I told my husband from the very beginning of our relationship that soon as he cheats on me or physically hurt me we're over and done with. I will not hesitate to walk away. I've seen my mom being beaten up by my dad far too many times I promised myself not to allow anyone to do the same to me.
naalala ko ung bf q for 6 years sinasaktan ako and sinasakal ang ginagawa ko naghihimatay matayan aq or nagpapatay patayan pag sinasakal nya aq :( buti nagbreak kami hndi q na kz kayang magtiis what more pa kaya kung mag-asawa na kami , ayun nabalitaan ko nung nag -asawa xa eh naghiwalay din agad
If you know your worth you will not allow anyone belittle you let alone physically hurt you. Kaya yung bf ko for 6 years binatukan ako e d goodbye walang lingon lingon. Alam ko kasing symptom na yun e. So I better put a halt in it. Nobody has the right to hurt me.
Never did I regret my decision. I am happily married and have my own family now. So there, my unsolicited advice, KNOW YOUR WORTH. Be safe and God bless you guys.
if this were me, i will give as good as i get. i’ll kick the douche’s a$$ and leave. barbie, kung sino mang scumbag yan, he has no right! pag controlling at possessive ang guy, malaki ang chance na mananakit yan.
Never did I regret my decision. I am happily married and have my own family now. So there, my unsolicited advice, KNOW YOUR WORTH. Be safe and God bless you guys.
Habang fresh pa tale pics nasayo if you need to post it, it’s like an insurance na din for her thus making girls going through the same be aware. Who knows maybe nag complain na sya. Saw this girl before, she is pretty and petite. I can just imagine that guy abusing her, kawawa.
I hope nagsumbong na sya sa pulis or sa mga magulang nya para maaksyunan to. Then maybe go to a therapist to help her at baka may dulot itong trauma. Iwas na rin muna sa socmed, this isnt a good place to get counseling.
Bakit nya binura? Di nya ba kayang panindigan pinost nya? Hurting women is a serious accusation and because of that post, her ex-BF is getting a lot of hate comments in social media. Kung di kayang panindigan then wag ipakita sa mga tao, baka sa huli sya pa mapahiya nyan.
Anon 1:42 i dont know, we dont know what she's going through or what is really going on. one thing is for sure, she is in trouble. Sana matulungan sya ng mga taong nagmamahal sa kanya. may pinagdadaanan ang bata
kung totoo man to wag daanin sa ig or any social media. she is starting trouble here. kawawa din naman ang naakusahan ng di dapat. dumeretso sa ospital get a medical certificate then go to the police para magsampa ng kaso o reklamo. whatever she is trying to do, parang ksp na lang. she is loving the attention that she is getting. reminder lang girl, di ka pa sikat na sikat and if this is one way of trying to make it big don't. polish your craft at doon ka sisikat, di sa panggagamit ng tao. noon nakikita na kita sa mga pics wala ka talagang ka dating dating. i've seen paul salas posts sa ig niya professing how much love he has for you. getting you those concert tickets and buying you all those stuffs. tapos ngayon basura na tingin mo sa kanya. always remember na me karma. kung di ka takot sa diyos matakot ka sa karma.
To 737pm Many abusers are affectionate but are capable of doing abusive things. Knowledge yourself with facts about abusers and victims, so you won’t write foolish thoughts. Karma is real but I think you’ll be the one getting it with the way you think.
Totoo ba yan?
ReplyDeleteYan din ang tanong ko. Magkamot lang akong konti during that time of the month, mas malala pa dyan ang nangyayaris sa balat ko.
DeleteI noticed before sa Araw Gabi na may paso din yan si Barbie sa deltoid. Nagtataka ako pano sya mapapaso sa part na yun.
DeleteNapaso sya sa plantsa ng buhok during taping.
Deleteipopost niya ba kung hindi totoo?
Delete12:52 Sa pulis muna siya pumunta at magfile ng complain against that abuser kesa sa socmed. Anong magagawa nating mga netizens, eh taga comment lang tayo dito.
Delete12:52 Sa pulis muna siya pumunta at magfile ng complain against that abuser kesa sa socmed. Anong magagawa nating mga netizens, eh taga comment lang tayo dito.
Delete*complaint
DeleteGrabe sinong relative kaya niya ang gumawa niyan sa kanya?
Delete1:01 baka naman kasi wala syang balak magsampa ng kaso. Pinost lang nya to remind other girls.
Delete7:07 kung wala nga syang balak magsampa ng kaso against the abuser, eh she is sending the wrong message sa mga future victims. Na pag sila naabuse eh idisplay na lang sa socmed ang mga pictures. Hindi mapaparusahan ang abuser. Kamote.
DeleteKung sino man gumawa nyan grabeh. Kawawa nman si barbie. Yung left breast nya laki ng pasa. Loko yon ah? Ipakulong mo yan. Thats not right.
Delete11:53 victim blaming. Grabe ka sana hindi mangyare sayo yan. Tindi mo
Delete3:15 ang matindi yang kahinaan ng utak mo. Anong victim blamer pinagsasabi mo? Tagalog na nga di mo pa naintindihan.
Delete6:43 talaga naman victim blamer siya. Hindi lahat ng tao may kakayahan magsampa ng kaso. Kasi hindi madali un! Porket hindi magsasampa ng kaso hindi na pwede magsalita?
DeleteDi ba mas madaling magsampa ng kaso kaysa magbuyangyang ng photos sa socmed? At least sa pulis, private. Iyong socmed buong mundo. Maliban doon, mas tamang magsampa ng kaso kaysa magsumbong sa netizens.
Delete2:58 May alam Ka ba sa buhay?Pagnagreport sa pulis,lalo na pagcelebrity,Kahit papano lalabas ang balita.Baka sa socmed ang tingin ni Barbie na mas mabuti dahil Kahit papano mabibigyan siyang encouragement at support Ng Maraming followers Kaysa Ilan lang sa pamilya niya lalo na Di kumpleto.
DeleteOmg...
ReplyDeleteNaku, naku naku... lagot si Yabang
ReplyDeleteHindi kataka taka. Ung personality nung guy masyadong mainitin ang ulo at maikli psensiya
ReplyDeleteSadly totoo to. Parang hindi ka na magugulat na kayang gawin nung guy to kay barbie
DeleteTrue. Parang nasa personality nung guy. Pabugso-bugso magalit.
DeleteAng petite pa naman neto ni barbie. Kawawa
ReplyDeleteAi talaga akala q matangkad cia pero very very wrong ung gumawa nian s knya nkakaqiqil d nia dpt gngwa yn so sad 😔
Deletehurting a woman doesn’t make you a man. SOBRANG UNACCEPTABLE 🤬
ReplyDeleteParang mainitin kasi ulo ng bf baka sobrang selos naku sa totoo lang marami babae kahit sinasaktan na stay pa din kasi nga mahal daw may kilala ako ganito.pag sinuyo bumabalik parin tpos paulit ulit nalangm saludo ako kay barbie sana nga di na nya babalik don. 💔
ReplyDeleteSad but true, pg d kasi yata iniwan magloloca de amor ibang girls, naku!
DeleteTrue think twice boys and girls it should not be tolerated
DeleteNaku may friend din akong ganyan. Nagdedeny pa samin noon pag nakikita namin yung mga pasa nya. Paasain lang daw talaga sya. Naniwala naman kami kasi mestiza sya. Nagkaanak pa sila. Buti hiniwalayan na nya after so many years.
DeleteOmg ano ba yan -.-
ReplyDeleteRun barbie run!
ReplyDeletePress charges Barbie! Sue whoever did that to you.
ReplyDeleteFull of insecurities yan ang nagagawa ng insecure na tao.Deserve lang na ilet go ang toxic na tao. we love you bie. 😢😞
ReplyDeleteOmg. Walang kahit na sinong babae ang deserve saktan. Huhu
ReplyDeleteGirls, and guys as well, if your partner abuses you verbally, physically, and emotionally, leave them. Do not hesitate. Ask help from friends and families. Most of all, love yourself enough to have the will to help yourself. THEY ARE NOT WORTH STAYING WITH. Do not be afraid to leave. Because the next time they abuse you might just be your last. Let your instincts of self preservation and survival kick in.
ReplyDeleteTRUE!
Deletetotoo, kapag natatapakan na ang inyong karapatang pangtao, leave. Hindi naman sinabi na hanggang kamatayan ipilit ang sarili mo sa taong hindi ka mahal. Hindi ka punching bag. Tao ka. So LEAVE.
DeleteTotoo yan. Sadly kapag nasa ganung situation ka iba ang mindset mo. I hope that her relatives step in to do something about this.
DeleteDapat nagpa medico legal muna siya bago mag socmed.
ReplyDeleteOMG dapat sabihin to sa mother and sa management ng abs. Di to tama!
ReplyDeleteOhh tapos? Ano pa palabas mo Barbie?!! Pa-victim ka? Uhaw ka sa fame? Attention seeker?!!! Hahahaha! Dapat nireport mo na. Tsaka walang delete delete! Naipost mo na eh. Nakakapag duda tuloy!
ReplyDeleteThat’s why victims of abuse don’t come out easily because of people like you who blames the victims instead of showing empathy. Reporting someone you loved who is also your abuser is not easy to do especially at her age right now wherein confusion and fear is common. Yes, she posted and deleted them few minutes after because she is confused on what exactly what to do.It’s easy for us to think on what to do because we are in her shoes. You don’t have to like her but at least show kindness & empathy.
DeleteWow! This is the type of response which makes today's society unprogressive and full of chaos. Instead of trying to check what happened, you go on and blame the supposed victim. Abused victims are usually in a state of shock or confusion. She might not know yet what to do or hurting. That's why her actions could have been undecisive.. why don't you stop for a moment and pray tha all goes well for the people involved instead of spewing hate and negativity?
Delete8:15 Nakakapanggigil ka bes. Galing ka?
DeleteSana hindi si barbie na nanakit na nga pero pah tinanong kunh sino gumaw noon pagtatakpan nya. Parang nag papansin lang so please barbie sue him/her kung sino man gumawa nyan
ReplyDeletetutal pinost na nya, why not file a case against whoever did that to her? otherwise, parang nagpapansin lang.
ReplyDeleteGanon ba kadali yon? Paano kung iniisip mo din yung feelings nung pamilya ng bf mo na napamahal na din sayo? Ang dali kasi magsalita bec di kayo naabuse or nasaktan physically. Whatever the reason is, its still not right to hurt someone physically. Yung outlet niya na magpost sa social media bawal? Yun na nga lang ginawa ng tao kaysa magfile ng kaso, makasakit ng magulang, etc
DeleteThen don’t just post it on twitter/IG. You need to teach the person a lesson. File a complaint, have that person arrested baka doon matuto.
ReplyDeleteAq nung 1st time n ng ka pisikalan kme n hubby (at d nmn n naulit) bcoz of inis and sobrang tensyon cgro, nahagis nia skn ung unan with sobrang force napasama kamay nia, syempre lumaban dn aq kc naalala q sb ng lola q kht babae k lumaban k so lumaban aq kht matangkad cia skn haha after that nagkaiyakan kmeng 2 nagusap and nagpromise kme n d n mauulit ung ganun. Kaya after nun pag may problema naguusap kme pra maiwasan n ung d magandang mangyayari open communication dpt and patience. ngyari s men un newly wed kme kia mahirap ang adjustment period.
ReplyDeleteAww. Mahirap talaga pag adjustment period. Pero girl always remember kapag paulit ulit hindi na un tama ha. Always take cre of yourself.
DeletePinagdaanan ko 'to. Matindi. Yung malalaki at violet to black na ang mga pasa ko sa mukha, tagiliran, braso, binti. Sobrang sakit pa ng katawan mo pero papasok ka pa rin sa trabaho. Tatakpan na lang ng concealer at mag-long sleeve at pantalon. Naiinis ako sa sarili ko kapag naaalala kong tiniis ko to at pinatagal pa ng ilang taon. Mauuwi rin pala sa hiwalayan. I was young, so I forgive myself. 'Wag niyo ko gayahin.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you left. I'm happy that you are still there to write about your experience. You are alive sister, whereas others didn't make it 😥
DeleteYou are a testament sis. I hope young people learn from your story.
Deletehappy for you kasi you got away from him. Truth is, ang hirap pag nasa abusive relationshio ka then may mga anak. Seven years and counting. Wala akong matakbuhan. Nahihiya akong mag kwento. Pero gusto ko nang makawala. Minsan, parang kamatayan na lang ang solusyon para makawala sa impyernong ito. Ang daling sabihin na iwanan na lang ang partner. Pero napaka hirap gawin lalo na wala kang support system..
Delete*hugs* for you 1:29. I hope things would get better for you and your kids. Have courage to live till your situation changes. Importante na may makausap ka. Andito kameng mga ka-fp mo
Delete1:29 Huwag Ka Mahiya magkwento.Kailangan mo Ng tulong.Alam Ko pakiramdam na wala kang support system.Yung mga abuser Kasi talagang ginagawa yan para magdepend Ka sa kanya at Di Ka makaalis.Ilan po ba ang mga Anak mo?kumusta sila?
DeleteI feel you 1:29 Am, we are on the same boat. prayers for you, too.
DeleteButi na lang umalis na siya sa relationship na yan.
ReplyDeleteJusme pati sa may bandang boobsie may pasa. Di ba delikado yan? Dapat magsampa si Barbie ng reklamo. nakakagigil kung sino man ang nanakit sa kanya. Sarap ipabugbog ng hina**pak.
ReplyDeleteIf thats true.. whoever did that should face legal consequences!
ReplyDeleteDo not single out women. Kahit sinong tao HINDI DAPAT SAKTAN PHYSICALLY. I also know battered men. They do not want to complain kasi pagtatawanan pa sila kasi binubugbog ng asawa or gf.
ReplyDeleteNo offense, gusto ko lang malaman promo ba to para sa teleserye Niya?
ReplyDeleteDi Ko na alam Kung ano ang totoo sa socmed Minsan pagdating sa artista
Mahal kc nya teh, ive been there done that.. tanga ka pag mahal mo. Period! Break up lang solusyon pro dimo papa kulong ang mahal mo
DeleteShe should leave him then. Otherwise, I don’t really pity her.
ReplyDeleteHuhuhu i know the feeling. Sinasaktan din ako ng bf ko pag super galit, minsan in public pa :( nahihiya ako sabihin sa fam and friends ko. Ang masakit is pa super good image nya kaya walang maniniwala sakin nagsabi ako. But im recording everything. I wanna give him a chance to change sayang naman kasi 8 years namin together :((
ReplyDeleteDon't stay just bec 'sayang' 8 years nyo. Leave. You could have found a better one earlier pa
DeleteRun na teh.. :(( wag ka na manghinayang sa 8 years. You still have a lifetime to be happy. Don't give him the privilege to hurt you dahil sa chances na binibigay mo. Lalo na if he is doing it in public. That's so humiliating. Please run while you still can. Fast and far. *hugs* lakasan mo loob mo teh
DeleteGirlash, don't waste this chance for you to go and leave that nondeserving guy! Eight years have passed and yet your bf never changed! Run while you still can and let him know your worth. A guy who can treat you a lot better may come along. It's easier said than done but it is a must if you are in this kind of toxic relationship. Love and respect yourself first. Value your well-being.
DeleteTakbo na sis before it's too late. I know it's hard to let go but if sobra na bitaw na. Ingatan mo sarili mo sis!!!
DeleteLeave. Who cares if walang maniwala sayo? Okay na yung nakawala ka sa isang toxic or abusive relationship. God will do the rest. I hope that someday you'll heal from this pain. Hindi love ang pananakit.
DeleteHey run while you can. Ive been there. 3 years nga lang kami. pero still. same situation wala ak omasabihan kasi nahihiya ako and public shaming dati ng ex ko. ang result sakin ngayon is ngka trauma ako. ngpapanic agad ako pag nakakarinig ako ng nagsisigawan or ng aaway, usually di ako mkahinga coz of anxiety attack. Kaya please save yourself. ako after two years ko pa nsabi sa mama ko n papa ko and ngsisi ako na hndi ko agad sinabi kasi ngayon feel ko need ko mg pa consult or what dahil sa trauma. so please lakasan mo loob mo you deserve someone who will treat you better and wont hurt you. yung mga abusive na gnyan lagi lang nila sasabihin sayo na magbabago sila pero hndi naman. so please.
DeleteREMEMBER TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST. Wag na maghinang sa 8 years na yan be
DeleteDo not waste your time with that guy.REmember, hinde naman yung family at friends mo ang makikisama dyan.Ikaw.Huwag ka mahinayang girl!Tandaan mo kaya mo yan!Isipin mo ha, Kung hihiwalayan mo yan ngayon mas magagawa mo gusto mo sa buhay.Alam Ko medyo hinde ka sigurado at nahihinayang ka Kasi iniisip mo Baka tumatanda ka na at bigla kang mag-isa.Don't be scared.Break up with him.Focus on yourself, makakahinga ka sigurado ako.Magpray ka.Huwag ka mag-alala.Isipin mo Kung Magkatuluyan Kayo hinde lang Ikaw ang Kawawa kundi ang mga anak niyo.Kaya mo yan!Andito kaming Ka-FP mo!Kung pwede lang Iemail ka Ginawa Ko na eh...
DeleteI hope you find the courage to give yourself more chances of being happier than giving your partner chances to change his ways because if it's gone on for 8 years then I think you must face reality that that's just his nature. Be thankful you're not married yet, because the violence will escalate when you're man and wife. If someone truly loves you he'll protect you from harm - not be the one dishing it out. Get help and get out of that painful situation before it's too late. Good luck m'dear!
DeleteDo you want to waste 8 more? I say, run! Love yourself first. Make sure you're ready before finding a new partner.
Deletehi sis im kee. i came from a 9yr abusive relationship. within those yrs. all i ever wished was for him to change. but hindi. its a cycle. battered girlfriend syndrome. bigla na lang magiiba ng mood. sasaktan ka. iiyak ka pero wala syang paki. sasabihan ka pang paawa effect. tapos aamuhin ka suauyuin dahil di nia kaya mawala ka. u know the drill. iniisip ko nun everytine sinasaktan nia ko. mahal ba ko nito. kase ako nga di ko kayang magampas siya and masakit sakin makaganti sa kanya. pero sya sige lang sa pag tadyak sakin pagsabunot pag hampas. kahit magmakaawa ako at super down na dahil di naman ako ang my kasalanan pero ayun nagmamakaawa para di na masaktan. lagi ko na lang ipinagppray nun na Lord kung sya po talaga para sakin sana magbago na sya. or kung di man po sya magbago tulungan nio po ko makawala. okay nako nun sa basta di nia na lang ako saktan kahit lagi akong taken for granted. tapos tinatago ko sa parents and friends ko. laging good image pinoportray ko sa kanya kesyo mabait sya tahimik. all that he is not. and sya din ganun pinapakita nia sa mga tao. kaya bandang huli ako ung mukhang masama talaga. tapos sasabihan pa ko ng mga tao na. e bakit di mo agad hiwalayan. oo mahal mo andun na tayo dun. pero ako kung may chance lang talaga within those 9yrs na makawala kahit mahal ko. ginawa ko na. kaso di lang ako sinasaktan e. binablackmail pa ko. lalo na nung nakikiaggiwalay na talaga ko nung hopeless na talaga sya dumating pa sa point na ipapapatay nia daw tatay ko. ewan. lara silang may mental issues. i struggled sa pag move on. pero rhis is the best choice. kase sayang ang natitirang yrs pa sa buhay ko. 27 ako nung nakipagbreak sa kanya. i dont care. alam ko naman na nanjan si God. he will not forsake me. sinurrender ko sa kanya lahat. ngayin may boyfriend na ulit ako na ibang iba sa past ko. pinapakita nia sakin pano mahalin ang babae. madami din blessings na dumating sakin. magkakawork pa ko sa europe soon. hindi talaga tayo papabayaan ni Lord. and to my ex din naman. pinagppray ko pa din minsan na wag din sya pabayaan ni Lord. ayoko naman makarma sya. okay na sakin ung nakawala ako. nakahinga nako. and ang light lang ng lahat ngayon.
Delete@KG Ikaw rin ba yung nagpost Nung ANON July14,2018 11:33 PM?Medyo nalito na ako.
Deleteanon 1:42.. no po.. 9yrs po kami. si jul14 @ 11:33.. 8yrs sila
Delete@Kg Ah ok, nahilo na po ako.Pero good to know.Nasan na kaya si 8 years girl?Sana matauhan na siya at mabasa Niya comments natin.Hay...
DeleteOh my gosh! Ang sakit nung sa dibdib ha!?
ReplyDeleteI hope she does something about this or else mawawalan ng saysay pagpopost nya sa social media ng mga pasa nya.
ReplyDeleteBe strong Barbie. God bless you
ReplyDeletepapansin lang. uhaw sa atensyon. u dont post a case like this on social media. u report it to the police and you file a case. Obviously naghahanap lang ng intriga para suportahan. So cheap.
ReplyDeleteTAMA!!!!
DeleteYung ibang abuse victims hindi din agad nagsasalita dahil sa takot. God forbid something like this will happen to you.
Deletemahirap din kase minsan na gantihan or ipakulong ung abusive partner mo kase kahit pano mahal mo pa din. kaya okay na yung basta makawala ka na lang sa kanya.
DeleteSi Barbie ang may sariling teleserye ngayon. Sa kanilang dalawa ng ex niya, siya yung may di kailangan sa exposure. God bless you. Yung mga katulad mo yung dahilan kaya takot yung mga victims ng abuse na magcome forward.
DeleteSana lang di mangyari yan sayo at sabihin ng tao na papansin ka lang. Hindi ko maiintindihan saan ba nagmumula ang hatred ng basher na to. Ikaw ang So Cheap.
DeleteBaka naman for her teleserye lang. Nagpost si JM na may black eye eh. Kasi kung totoo yan for sure ang nanay ni Barbie hindi papayag na walang justice na mangyayari db..
ReplyDeleteThe sad part is, the abuser will blame the victim, then he’ll ask for forgiveness and will do it again. Not only he’s physically hurting her but he is also playing her mind.
ReplyDeleteOne of his friends is already saying na "pavictim" si Barbie. If this is true sana mapunish talaga yung nanakit sa kanya
DeleteWhich friend of his said this?
DeletePromo lang yan...
ReplyDeletePlease don't judge if hindi pa kayang ipa blotter and nag post Lang sa social media. Each has her/his own coping mechanisms. It's not cheap or naghahanap Lang ng intriga but this might be a call for help. Pag pray nalang natin na me gagabay sa kanya para magdecision ng tama.
ReplyDeleteSeryoso ba ito? If Totoo naman ito Ang lala Lang ha! Bata pa sila to go sa ganitong situation. paano kung mag asawa na? Maskatakot takot yun. Haaay! I rather be single than be with a abusesive na lalaki.
ReplyDeleteTama! Mas mabuting mag-isa Kaysa may karelasyon na abusive.Hindi lang Ikaw ang Kawawa kundi Anak at pamilya.KUng nagawang saktan nga ang asawa pwede mangyari sa Anak.Pero Kahit Hinde sa anak, yung emotional abuse andun eh tapos nakikita rin Ng Anak yung abuse.Apektado yung pamilya.
DeleteThe f! Nagalit ako at nabigla nung nalaman ko to! Sinaktan nya si barbie!
ReplyDeleteMikagami Tokiya
Damn. Feel ko si barbie siya yung tipo babae hinde palaban. Yung sinaktan ka na physically hinde Niya magawa gumanti. Sa katawan pa Lang Niya e kita na!... Talo siya :(
ReplyDeleteSo sad if this true and yet people are thinking that this is just for promo. And if ever that it is, she has some explaining to do because she is making people worried.
ReplyDeleteYou can't blame people knowing that artists and celebrities are into cheap gimmicks in socmed for publicity.
DeleteExactly. That's why I said IF THIS IS TRUE. Ok na??
DeleteShe could have gone to the hospital and the police instead. Why didn’t she?
DeleteBarbie is fragile.
ReplyDeleteAng laki ng bruise Niya sa chest part Niya. Fresh pa!:(
ReplyDeleteako dati binubogbog ako ng karelasyon ko, kahit sa daan hinahatae ako. That was the time that the bill was not pass yet about Women abuse. Di ako makasumbong sa pulis kasi nahihiya ako at sinaksak sa isip ko ng karelasyon ko na kasalanan ko lagi kaya ako blue and black. i was so insecure that I clinged to him as if he’s the onlly guy for me.
ReplyDeleteHope you are no longer with him
DeleteKung naexperience nyo na magmahal, maiintindihan nyo si barbie. Kakapit at kakapit kayo sa relasyon kahit hnd na tama. And to those na nagsasabing bakt sa socmed why not report sa police? Natiis nga nya masaktan eh, ipapulis pa kaya? Cge nga!
ReplyDeleteNaku bakit post na post lang. Walang mangyari diyan kung puro lang dakdak. Leave him, go the police and have him charged. Don’t be a victim na walang ginagawa.
ReplyDeletemagpa medico legal agad agad.
ReplyDeleteAng ganda pa naman ni Barbie para saktan ng ganyan.
ReplyDeleteHuh. So kung pangit pwede palang saktan?
DeleteI’ve read a lot comments here, so sad that there are people who have no empathy nor kindness in their hearts. It’s not easy for Barbie to come out and file a case against her abuser because she loves that person still despite of what happened. Ask any victim of similar case and they will say the same thing. She may have posted pics because at that time she wanted to be brave and say enough is enough and let other victims know that they are not alone. Then she had dilemma, common among victims, whether what she is doing is right or not so she deleted the posts. To all people who doubts her, who thinks she wants attention, who blames her ,... you don’t have to like her but at least show some kindness and hopefully empathy.
ReplyDeleteAgree ako dito. I have friends na VAWC victims same guy. May money and ability to file cases pero never nila finile. So nakakalungkot na pag sinasabi ng tao what should they do pero kapag ikaw na ung nasa posisyon mahirap talaga.
DeleteYou are making all kinds of excuses. The posters are saying for her to claim her life and do something about it instead of just parinig that serves no purpose.
DeleteHaay naku. Will never happen to me. Maghahalo balat sa tinalupan talaga...
ReplyDeleteI told my husband from the very beginning of our relationship that soon as he cheats on me or physically hurt me we're over and done with. I will not hesitate to walk away. I've seen my mom being beaten up by my dad far too many times I promised myself not to allow anyone to do the same to me.
Deletenaalala ko ung bf q for 6 years sinasaktan ako and sinasakal ang ginagawa ko naghihimatay matayan aq or nagpapatay patayan pag sinasakal nya aq :( buti nagbreak kami hndi q na kz kayang magtiis what more pa kaya kung mag-asawa na kami , ayun nabalitaan ko nung nag -asawa xa eh naghiwalay din agad
ReplyDeleteMAbuti Di mo napangasawa teh! Pero Kawawa yung naging asawa nun!
Deletenaku teh sana hinambalos mo ng dos por dos ang hitad! wala talaga akong respeto sa lalaking nananakit ng babae.
DeleteIf you know your worth you will not allow anyone belittle you let alone physically hurt you. Kaya yung bf ko for 6 years binatukan ako e d goodbye walang lingon lingon. Alam ko kasing symptom na yun e. So I better put a halt in it. Nobody has the right to hurt me.
ReplyDeleteTama yan Teh! Laban!
Deleteyes 2:53, it will hurt you for a while but atleast not forever
DeleteNever did I regret my decision. I am happily married and have my own family now. So there, my unsolicited advice, KNOW YOUR WORTH. Be safe and God bless you guys.
DeletePag ito promo na naman ha ewan ko na lang.
ReplyDeleteRed flag right there. Tama lang na ipaglaban mo sarili mo. Di na uso martyr ngayon
ReplyDeletethe daiana effect
ReplyDeleteif this were me, i will give as good as i get. i’ll kick the douche’s a$$ and leave. barbie, kung sino mang scumbag yan, he has no right! pag controlling at possessive ang guy, malaki ang chance na mananakit yan.
ReplyDeleteNever did I regret my decision. I am happily married and have my own family now. So there, my unsolicited advice, KNOW YOUR WORTH. Be safe and God bless you guys.
ReplyDeleteSana bago mag post s social media ireport muna s pulis.. ano maggawa ng mga followers mo? Tsk... seryosong bagay na inuuna p pag popost kaloka
ReplyDeleteshempre social media muna at baka gumaling ang pasa nya, sayang publicity noh..lol
DeleteHabang fresh pa tale pics nasayo if you need to post it, it’s like an insurance na din for her thus making girls going through the same be aware. Who knows maybe nag complain na sya.
DeleteSaw this girl before, she is pretty and petite. I can just imagine that guy abusing her, kawawa.
146, talaga? Why doesn’t she go the hospital and the police instead for proper documentation. Social media can be faked, nobody takes it seriously.
DeleteI hope nagsumbong na sya sa pulis or sa mga magulang nya para maaksyunan to. Then maybe go to a therapist to help her at baka may dulot itong trauma. Iwas na rin muna sa socmed, this isnt a good place to get counseling.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Naooveruse masyado ang socmed.
DeleteWhat's her purpose in posting this? A cry for help? Is it real or just a scene in her ts?
ReplyDeleteEh di sana wala na caption? Laliman mo naman pag iisip mo.
DeleteActually making this public protects the victim. So if something happens to Barbie, alam na.
Deletegirl unahin mag aral umakting bago gumimik
ReplyDeleteayan nga sinisimulan nya na, acting victim..chechek nya if marami kakagat
DeleteGrabe, ang dudumi ng utak ninyo!
DeleteGrabe, ang bilis mo maniwala kadramahan ni barbie 119!
DeleteNow she deleted the post.
ReplyDeleteBakit nya binura? Di nya ba kayang panindigan pinost nya? Hurting women is a serious accusation and because of that post, her ex-BF is getting a lot of hate comments in social media. Kung di kayang panindigan then wag ipakita sa mga tao, baka sa huli sya pa mapahiya nyan.
DeleteAnon 1:42 i dont know, we dont know what she's going through or what is really going on. one thing is for sure, she is in trouble. Sana matulungan sya ng mga taong nagmamahal sa kanya. may pinagdadaanan ang bata
DeleteMaybe utos din ng management. Hinde mo rin masisi
Deletekung totoo man to wag daanin sa ig or any social media. she is starting trouble here. kawawa din naman ang naakusahan ng di dapat. dumeretso sa ospital get a medical certificate then go to the police para magsampa ng kaso o reklamo. whatever she is trying to do, parang ksp na lang. she is loving the attention that she is getting. reminder lang girl, di ka pa sikat na sikat and if this is one way of trying to make it big don't. polish your craft at doon ka sisikat, di sa panggagamit ng tao. noon nakikita na kita sa mga pics wala ka talagang ka dating dating. i've seen paul salas posts sa ig niya professing how much love he has for you. getting you those concert tickets and buying you all those stuffs. tapos ngayon basura na tingin mo sa kanya. always remember na me karma. kung di ka takot sa diyos matakot ka sa karma.
ReplyDeleteWalang karapatan Ang isang tao na manakit...
DeleteTo 737pm Many abusers are affectionate but are capable of doing abusive things. Knowledge yourself with facts about abusers and victims, so you won’t write foolish thoughts. Karma is real but I think you’ll be the one getting it with the way you think.
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