Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Costly Letting Go

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When one feels the time is right, one simply plungers into settling down without regard for the what-ifs. As long as the feelings are right, some people commit their lives to forever even if they have known their partners only for a short time. Then, when all filters are down and the best foot has been taken aback, the test begins.

Eager Actress (EA) thought she found Her Forever (HF) in low profile man. Although HF is new to showbiz life, it did not matter to EA. All she thought was that she found the man with whom she was willing to share her life with. That also meant, her sharing of everything she has worked for in her impressive career in the entertainment industry.

By going steady with EA, HF found himself thrown in the limelight, as EA is far more popular. Her fans became curious as to the man who could make EA settle down and forget her career. For EA, family came first and thus, she took time out from entertaining people. It seems she has found bliss.

After some time, the commitment was showing cracks, which were causing problems. Throughout her public life, EA has been known to be a workaholic. She worked hard and was moving from one project to another, which made her financially secure. Then, she decided to drop everything to be with HF, who was allegedly not as he had expected in a partner.

Allegedly, HF could not brush off a laidback lifestyle and his attitude toward work and fending for his family was disappointing. In terms of standards, HF was deemed ‘lazy.’ He has no solid career outside of his field and it seems EA was supporting him. She could not take it and thus, she made a decision: It was over. However, such is not easy, as that meant swallowing her pride for EA and facing the ‘I told you so’ moments for her whirlwind romance.

Between living with contempt for HF and her peace of mind, EA chose the latter. However, the choice came with a hefty price. EA opened her wallet and gave HF a very hefty sum of money for him to leave. So much for his laziness. For such an amount, EA is slowly realizing that nothing is cheap, but if it’s for her serenity, financial matters can be resolved later anyway.

“Sometimes, take a moment and ponder; yes, take a moment and stir your life just as you stir that delicious stew! Taste it to know how delicious or the otherwise it is! And if there be a need for a change, be swift and tactical.” ― Ernest Agyemang Yeboah

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73 comments:

  1. C at A

    -balektoryan ng student canteen college

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    1. KaF or KaH?

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    2. C A... yes aga ko magsleep tonight...ay 2am n pla

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  2. Clues naman mga classmates

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    1. C is a good actress na sexy, dating KaH naging KaF. A has a small role in umay KaF serye.

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    2. more clues on this please/

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    1. Ipilit mo yan baks, push mo yan haha

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  4. Grabe si HF. Tamaaaaaaaad. Walang kwenta. Di naman nakakapatili ang itsura.

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  5. sad.But, all for the best. ❤❤❤

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  6. C was so determined to have a family but apparently A still wanted o lead a bachelor life

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  7. Gets! Kaya pala hindi na sinusundan.

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  8. C and A for sure magbabalik serye si girl.

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  9. EA:C
    HF:A
    Nag wonder lang ako, bakit nya kailangan bigyan ng money si HF? for what?

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    1. Para lumayas na siguro at hindi na mang gulo

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    2. True! Kikitain nya din naman yun kesa naman pakisamahan pa yung uubos din naman ng pinag ipunan nya sa mahabang panahon

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    3. good riddance money.

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    4. hindi ba pwedeng maghiwalay lang nang walang bigayan ng pera? bkit kaya?

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  10. Sabi ng tatay ko ang top 2 daw lagi daw pinag aaaayan ng mag asawa ay PERA at Pangangaliwa. Ito daw ang 2 pinaka worst of all...

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  11. C and A. Pero kala ko pa extra extra sa mga shows si A? Maybe not enough to sustain a family.

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    1. Baka ginagastos lang din nya sa sarili nya like expensive hobbies. Si girl mukhang all the way, like me, meaning daig pa asukal de papa kung mang give away ng pera at pinapabayaan na di na mag abot si guy basta happy lang ang pagsasama. In the end, matatauhan na din. Good for her this early on, unlike me, inabot ng matagal

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    2. You think ang extra extra will be enough?

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  12. C and A ... kapal ng mukha ng lalaki ginawa ang girl na para siyang sugar mommy, napakabata pa niya para maging ganun.

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  13. kaya mo yan C! go girl! mababawi mo talaga ung pera na un someday. yaan mo na kesa mastress ka lng araw2

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  14. Salvage din naman at bastos yang si C. No sympathy for her

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  15. Kaya nga, worth it naman for the oeace of mind. Pwede kitain ulit ang pera. Tsaka if you're going to commit your life to someone, yung deserving na nga naman.

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  16. C & A. Pero I think ang main reason ng away nila is because nakabuntis si A.

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    1. Yupppp! At yung pera pang hinihingi nya kay C yung pinangtutustos nya sa kabila. Ang kapal din eh!

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  17. Really unusual story. C could have any man she wants. She so pretty and sexy. and quite successful in her own. why did she end up with this guy? Sa kapipili nauwi sa bungi?

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    1. nadisgrasya nga kasi

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  18. Feeling ko Karma na rin yan kay ate girl... Oh well, mababawi mo rin naman yan since bumabalik showbiz ka ulit...

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    1. pero makabalik pa kaya sya? grabe yung iniwan nya dati. andun na momentum. tsaka yung mga fans ang roles nya, bata at single ang hanap usually

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  19. Sa totoo lang... pwede naman talaga si wife ang mag work tapos sa bahay si husband... kung gusto lang nila. Kasi ganun sa ibang mag asawa. Lalo na ung sa mga OFW. Basta ba behave si hubby at di nambababae. Hahaha.

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    1. Hindi nambababae sa panahon ngayon girl?

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    2. tama walang problema sa ganun. kaso siguro kay guy hindi okay yun kaya naghanap ng iba na hindi sya naooverpower

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    3. Ate, naka jontis nga daw si A.

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  20. Hindi rin nag effort tumulong sa kanilang naging business venture.

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  21. I would have kicked him out without giving him a penny.

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    1. Chrue..Im not gonna give him a single penny or property..He is selfish and lazy..

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  22. I hope c will be able to recover financially..mahirap maging single mom.

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  23. syang talaga ang moment ni C that time.... she was in her peak, sikat siya nun then bigla n lng dumating c A..and then parang sayang lng ang sinacrifice ni C..pero laban lng C, its not too late, balik tv na.. go go go girl..!

    yehey hindi ako kulelat today!

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  24. It was C's fault. A has always been as he is and changing truly is difficult especially if wala ka namang career from the start. Umpisa pa lang destined to be disappointed si girl kasi mataas expectations niya. She should never have chosen him in the first place.

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    1. Absolutely true! At ang pamilya ni C ayaw na sa kanya from the very start dahil nga wala siyang stable income pero hindi sya nakinig, naniwala.

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    2. never ka pa sigurong nainlove. pag in love ka kase u see hope na magbabago ang tao ng kusa someday. u will believe na all he needs is time to fully mature. na kaya nyang maging better if you just give him a chance. wala namang masama paf ganun ang paniniwala mo. at least for C, d naman nya maiddeny na naging happy naman sya kahit na sandali lang with A. for a marriage to not work, let us all acknowledge na both had a part. d kasalanan ng isa. hindi lahat ng magagandang choices nagsstart na magaganda na. dahil kung ganun, sana ibinenta na tayo ng mga magulang natin ng minsan tayong ngpakabatugan hahaha we were not good children rin naman but love parin nila tau.

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    3. 1:34 syempre bulag sa pag ibig sa umpisa...the important thing is she has no problem kicking him out..marami kasi nag ti tiis na lang.

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  25. You cannot just barge into someone's life and expect him to change for you. That is the number 1 mistake C made. For one thing high maintenance siya she should have chosen someone who has the capacity to indulge her or who has the same ideals as she has. If kaiba paniniwala nyo, C gusto masipag at mayaman pero si A mas prefer laidback na buhay means less stress and simpler life, di talaga kayo mag-aabot unless one or both of you change. By standards he is lazy does not mean he is lazy as per his own standard.

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    1. I think laziness is not the reason of their separation. It's because the guy impregnated another girl. Adding insult to injury is that the guy always asks money from his wife and spent it to his mistress.

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  26. so sad for EA-C, nagpaka tino xa pra kay HF-A tapos gina** lang xa, ang saklap.

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  27. C and A for sure. Grabe talaga. you're willing to give everything pero still not enough. Not a fan of C, pero i think malaking kawalan sayo si C. Ikaw yung nawalan A! KAlORKI! --Nasa star section na ko next enrollment classmates! WOOOHOOO! Achieve!

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  28. siguro naman hinde j level yung nakuhang pera

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  29. C and A.. Hindi na nga nakatulong nambabae pa at binuntis pa ay naku dapat lang talaga hiwalayan para nga naman matahimik buhay mo girl.

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    1. nawawala ka baks 2:48

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  31. Better na bigyan niya ng pera para lumayas kesa mag file ng annulment si A kasi mas malaki makukuha niya kay C. Ala j at K ang peg

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    1. seriously asking, bakit sya ang magbabayad? usually its the husband diba? please enlighten me.

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    2. 5:34 eh baka ayaw lumayas nung guy unless bigyan nya ng pera? Mabuti na rin yan kesa habang buhay kasama nya sakit ng ulo lang.

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    3. nasa process na sila ng annulment baks

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  32. girl you are so pretty and still young masipag pa marami magka gusto sayo.

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  33. It's ok, C. You made a mistake, but it's not the end of the world. Bangon.

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  34. grabe naman ung iba jan. im not a fan of the girl pero she's obviously responsible kahit na may issues sya. nag effort rin naman sya. no one deserves to be cheated on. karma man o hinde we shouldnt rejoice in the misfortune of others. im very happy for her. sana malagpasan nya to and sana maging long lasting na happiness nya next time :)

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  35. The money C gave to A won’t last forever. Pag naubos yun, babalik siya at hihingi ulit under the guise of “hindi niya guguluhin” buhay ni C. In reality, it won’t stop. Vicious cycle lang yan. Kapal ng mukha. Laki nga katawan, hindi magtrabaho ng maayos.

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  36. C and A. dapat wag na marxpect si C na magprovide si A kasi alam naman ng lahat na kaya sya pinakasalan eh dahil sa dating nia. wala namang nag isip na real love si A kay C.

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  37. I feel sad for C, she left her career on hiatus but A can't even be a good father. I know C has issues towards other artists but no mother deserves to deal with a good for nothing husband.

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