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Friday, October 13, 2017

Tweet Scoop: Ella Cruz Gets Bashed for Tweeting about Depression

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  1. There’s a grain of truth with Ella’s tweet. But what is wrong is how it was said as if alam nya ang pinagdadaanan nating lahat.

    Gurl, stop.

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    1. Agree. There's a better way of saying it. Pwede mo kasing sabihin na just coz you're sad doesn't automatically mean that you're depressed.

      Ang mali kasi ng marami akala nila interchangeable ang depressed at sad.

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    2. It's not true naman most cases of depression hindi nila alam until malala na at dun na sila nag speak up or may cry for help. Yung iba parang lonely ang feeling hindi naman lahat umiiyak everyday. Basta kung sabihin ng isang tao depress sila wag niyo balewalain.

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    3. 12:3O Right! People interchange Anxiety and Depression most of the time. This girl tho shouldve have rephrased her thought.

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    4. Overused kasi ang word na depressed. Akala kasi ng marami eh porket malungkot eh depressed na. Hindi lang malungkot ang depression. Ito ay parang mabigat na pakiramdam na gusto mo na lang matulog. Hindi mo ma explain kung bakit. Hindi mo alam kung ano ang kinakabahala mo

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    5. Yikes! Bye girl

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    6. Yes. Iba ang depression sa sadness. Hindi mo maexplain yung feeling. Super low, lagi kang na lang umiiyak na di mo alam yung dahilan, ayaw mo na magpatuloy sa buhay. Yung kahit anong gawin mo, isipin mo, sabihin mo sa sarili mo na kaya ko to after ilang minuto babalik ka nanaman. Para kang nalulunod, na para kang palubog na di mo maintindihan. Yung sinasabi mo sa mga kaibigan mo yung piangdadaanan mo pero hindi nila maintindihan and wala silang pakialam and di sila naniniwala, especially kung ang alam nila eh strong personality ka.

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    7. the mere fact that you diagnose yourself as depressed couldn't be clinical depression. Most depressed people do not know they are depressed. But then again, there's a better way of saying it.

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    8. Yung iba kasi akala yata pareho yung depression at desperation. Iba ang depressed sa desperate. Hindi porke desperada ang isang tao eh depressed na.

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    9. English is her 2nd language. Her message didn’t come across as she may have wanted it.

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  2. Yari ka ate girl. Hirap ka na nga sumikat at sayang naman nakakabwelo ka na tapos ganto pa. Baka maback to zero ka. Sayang naman ang effort mong nagtwerk.

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  3. Sawsaw kasi eh. Yan tuloy. Hayy

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    1. Kakatakot ng magbigay ng opinion hahahaha

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  4. Well, bilang isang tambay sa TUMBLR, mapapansin mo mga tao dun, they glorify depression. Parang di nila alam ang difference between sadness and depressed.

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    1. agree. ung iba nakikiuso na lang

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    2. True. hindi nga nila alam ang scientific side ng depression. They showcase it on social media as a beautiul thing, a reason to be dramatic sa mga posts nila.

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    3. Korek. Nagpapaka emo. When in fact hindi naman emo ang depression. Hindi ito sadness lang. it is more than just feeling sad

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    4. hay salamat may kaparehas ako ng opinyon dito. Kulang lang sa pansin kaya depress depressan ang mga loka

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    5. 3:56 sana di dumating yung araw na totoong madepress ka.

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    6. iba iba naman kasi ang levels of depression and how people cope with it.

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    7. Kung ganyan tingin mo, sana wag ka na magtumblr. Ikaw na lang tong nakikibasa ng post ng iba, lakas mo pa manghusga.

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    8. Mga bes easy lang. Ang pagbash sa mga di nakakaintindi sa mga may clinical depression ay di nyo kina-cool. Tama si 8:53, pero tama bang ibash yung hindi naniniwalang depressed si ganito depressed si ganyan lalo na kung "self diagnosed" lang naman? Hirap sa panahon ngayon pag opposed ka sa mainstream issue sasabihin agad na paurong ang pag-iisip not thinking there might be some truth to it. We all just need balance mga ateng.

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    9. 12:14 agree. This is the exact reason why many people choose not to seek help kasi yung iba ididismiss agad na nagkikuso lang or kulang sa pansin.

      If one is frequently sad or easily gets upset, yes there's a chance that its not depression, BUT if it happens frequently then that person should seek help.

      If it's not depression surely an expert also help that person cope with sadness.

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  5. girl miss ka na daw ni mr.nunal. makipag-chummy chummy ka na lang ulit dun para maging busy ka naman at hindi kung anu-anong sinasabi mo dyan.

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  6. But there are also people who use the word "depression" as some joke and I wish they'd stop. Ang dali-dali nilang bitawan yung "depressed ako eh" hindi mo na malaman, maramdaman, or hear who really cries for help til it's too late already. I've experienced depression and some friends too. And based from experience, as much as possible gusto ko siyang itago during that time. Hindi ko binobroadcast, tinutweet, facebook status etc. na depressed ako. Ni hindi ko nga alam na depression pala yun until I seek medical help. I can only talk about it now kasi tapos na. So I think yung iba they think depression is a just bandwagon kaya pati sila depressed din.

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    1. True. This is the clearer definition of depression 12:29. Yung iba ginagawa na lang common thing ang depression.

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    2. 101% AGREE! Some people are aware and some are not kapag depressed sila. But I think those with true clinical depression hindi nila basta basta ibobroadcast na meron sila nun. Tingin ko kung sino yung pinakatahimik about what they are going through, sila din ang pinakadapat tulungan.

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  7. Rightous people ng twitter world!

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  8. There’s a truth that some abuses ang pag-gamit ng depression as an excuse lalo na hindi naman talaga sila depressed. Pero keep in mind that some people who are depressed doesn’t even know that they are depressed. Sana isipin ni Ella Cruz na mag-ingat sa tini-tweet/sinasabi nya. Kasi iba ang impact ng sinabi nya kung ang maka-basa is totoo ngang depressed. Ella, hindi ka doktor to say that. Wala kang alam. Please educate yourself. Again, depression is real ineng. As real as your lame dance moves.😒 Humahabol ka pa sa issue, humupa na nga yung issue eh. Tsk tsk. Late reaction.

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  9. Wag mo problemahin ang depression Ella. Yung pagsayaw mong pilit at pabebe ang alalahanin mo. Or ikaw mismo na-depress sa sarili mong dance moves?

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  10. Bagay talaga sila ni Xian Gaza

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  11. Sabi Niya "some people" SOME! Basahin kasi ng maigi Hinde naman Niya sinabi lahat ... okay. Mga umaaway Sa kanya kilala niyo na kanino Group yun. Grabe.

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    1. Dapat kasi di na sya nagsalita kung hindi nya alam kung ano yang depression. Yun lang yun.

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    2. 12:57 on point naman talaga si ella hindi nga some kungdi most people na nagclaim na depressed sila is nagiinarte lang

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  12. Be a nadine and james?? Why? Anong ginawa nila regarding depression? I don't get it. Please explain

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    1. Same question, naguluhan ako kung bakit andun haha!

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    2. Ano pa ba? Sawsaw sawsaw lang ang lomis! Baka sakaling bumango ang names bwahahahaha

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    3. Naconfuse din ako dun

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    4. join lang niya, promo promo din daw ng lomis #sawsawlang

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    5. I understand Maine kasi talagang she explained depression - even defended it on live tv kahit against sa veteran host but Nadine and James? Respeto ko sa kanila ha kasi theyre going through something personal but that is all to it. Hinintay muna nilang may mangyari. And what exactly did they say about depression? Yung hashtag na #keepgoing? Check the tag, hindi nga depression ang focus dun. It's JaDine fans showing support for Nadine. Which is not entirely wrong but sana mas nagfocus sila sa kapatid no? What could have triggered it? Sana it was avoided. Or to spread awareness. Pero mostly yung tweets sa tag na nakikita mo dun are still tweets that glorify Nadz and James as a couple. If it were intended to advocate, then people were using it inappropriately.

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    6. Because nagraise awareness sina James, Nadine and Maine about depression. With the two posting the semi colon after the demise of Nadine's brother.

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    7. 1:39, 1:04 explained it wonderfully for people like you

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    8. Thanks 1:04 tama ka

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    9. daming bitter dito. haynako

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  13. May point si Ella Cruz. I am clinically depressed. I have a psychiatrist. I have medications. I go through therapy. I have an illness that is depression. Hindi ko man alam ang situation ng lahat ng tao pero marami and mostly these days they just throw away the term depressed. Na minsan nakaka-offend and minsan hindi mo maiiwasan maging doubtful sa mga taong nagcclaim na depressed sila kasi alam ba talaga nila ang sinasabi nila?

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    1. There. Clinically diagnosed. Ibang tao kasi mai-associate lang sarili, ultimo magmukha na silang may mental disorder, makasabay lang sa pinaguusapan ng mga tao recently. Check yourself. Kung kaya mo kontrolin or you can do something to appease yourself, that's probably just sadness. Depression is a far cry from mere sadness.

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    2. True and I'm with you....

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    3. Iba and depressed (sad, downhearted) sa clinically depressed. There's nothing wrong with saying you are depressed.

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    4. 1:32 So pag inatake ka ng depression sasabihin mo 'i'm clinically depressed atm.'? Of course not. Yan nga ang problema eh, malungkot ka lang that day or moment eh you claim to be depressed already. Wag basta basta gumagamit ng term na hindi fully grasped.

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  14. Aral muna bago twerk kase.

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    1. Hahaha!!! This!!!

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    2. Hahahaha pretty at magaling lang syang sumayaw, yun lang. Balik ka muna sa school.

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  15. I agree though that most are confused on what depression really is... and not all people who claim they have depression, has real depression. im sory but.. yup.

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  16. There's truth in what ella twitted SOME think depressed is the same as simply being sad. Sometimes People make comments to people who are lonely . " ay mukhang depressed sya" even not knowing the reasons. Meron din truth sa sinabi joey, ayaw lang aminin ng mga self righteous.. Some gawa gawa o sila din nagpapadepress sa sarili. I experienced yung ako gumawa ng sarili kong ikakadepress, damidami tumatakbo sa utak ko at naranasan ko yung totoong delression. Thanks naovetcome ko. The doctor prescribed me anantideppressant na gamot Binili ko gamot but i never took it. Binasa ko kc side effects ng gamot sabi suicidal tendency.

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  17. I do get what she meant pero sana tinagalog na lang nya para mas naipaliwanag nya ng maayos. Ume english pa kase hindi tuloy klaro ang point.

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    1. Hindi rin nya siguro matagalog yan, kaya nga nya dinelete kasi hindi naman din ganon kastrong ang conviction nya.

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  18. Ang daling magsalita kasi king hindi ikaw yung nakakaranas ng depression... whether being sad or depressed... but what lies beneath these strong words is the feeling of sadness.... No man is an island .... pag malungkot at feeling depressed... move out from crib of loneliness... laban lang... mahirap mang gawin... kung kailangan ng karamay hanap ng tunay na kaibigan... aliwin ang sarili... ang mundo ay bilog... hindi yan titigil dahil sa makungkot i depressed ka... kaw may hawak ng key to happiness... mind over matter... kung pinaniniwalaan mo depressed ka at sad ka at wala kang ginagawa para matugunan itong feelings na to... yan ang problema....

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  19. Di mahalaga sa akin ang opinion,edukasyon any kailangan ko!

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  20. Depression exists just like love and hate.

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  21. Oa ren kase ng ibang tao. Malungkot lang sila feeling nila depression na un. Moody lang feeling nila bipolar na. Kaloka! Dunong dunungan lang

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  22. Ang mga super affected na naman dito at overreact eh yung mga hindi naman clinically depressed.

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  23. All these people defending Ella... tsk tsk. Malayo pa bago marating natin ang nationwide awareness on mental health because of all these enablers of ignorance and insensitivity.

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  24. Doctor ka ba Ella?

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  25. Huwag na kasing mag mamarunong. Di mo naman alam ang lahat

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    1. alam niya naman yan, pero kailangan niyang mag-comment para mapag-usapan

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  26. sadness short term lang and usuallt my trigger. Depression long term, and usually wlang trigger. May assiciated ding physical symptoms kadalasan na hindi namin macontrol.

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  27. i suffered post partum depression hindi ma explain ung feeling. kasi minsan pag malungkot ka lang alam mo ung rason kung bakit ka malungkot. pag depressed ka hindi mo maintindihan overwhelmed ka bigla ka iiyak hindi ka makatulog tapos dami tumatakbo sa isip mo na minsan pag kinain ka ng madaming negative thoughts maiisip mo mag suicide. pero hindi mo naman alam kung ano ung cause nung sobrang kalungkutan mo. na overcome ko through breastfeeding, music and siyempre nilabanan ko kc iniisip ko future ng baby ko. Masakit nga nung naranasan ko yan sinabihan ako ng husbang ko na nagiinarte lang ako at nagpapa ksp. Ang mga taong depressed hindi nila basta basta na inaamin na depressed sila.

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    1. yes iba iba kasi ang situation, may mga depress dahil sa medications nila, yung iba naman sa sobrang pag didiet, yung iba clinically depressed, ang iba bipolar, yung iba dahil sa hormonal changes.

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  28. Tama rin naman si Ella. Yung iba sasabihing "depressed" sila, yet they have time na magpapansin sa social media. Truth be told, ang totoong mga depressed dont even have time na magpapansin kasi tapos na sila dyan. Yung iba hindi atensyon ang kelangan, that's why clinical intervention is needed kasi pag may depression ka a simple "ok lang yan" may not be enough.

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  29. I had depression in 2014 due to a medical diagnosis. Couldn't sleep., work, eat or even move. Ella it's not controllable when you have it. I sought professional help and got well.

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    1. Where did you get professional help? How much did it cost :(

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    2. yes, this is the correct thing to do. Seek medical help. There are medications and special diet to treat depression aside from meditation, or socialization mga ganyan.

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  30. Ella De Leon is that you? Ew.

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  31. People should stop talking about complex matters in a platform that allows 160 characters only.

    Kaya andaming away eh.

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  32. ANg gusto nya sigurong sabihin, “ kung sa isip mo depressed ka, wag mong isipin para di ka ma despress lalo”

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  33. May iba kasi na minsan akala nila depressed sila pero ang totoo depressed people don't know they're depressed. Basta makasabi lang na depressed sila. Baka yun yung gusto niya sabihin, but still, sana she stayed quiet na lang ngayon pang medyo mainit ang issue. One example din ang wrong used of OC, ung iba panay sabi na OC sila porket they're organized. Hindi nila alam na having OCD is not just about being organized, mahirap yun para silang adik na di mapakali to keep everything in place etc

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  34. Db sa college may Psychology subject naman regardless kung ano course mo?? Bakit ung ibang tao d alam ang depression?

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