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Sunday, October 29, 2017

Insta Scoop: Sarah Lahbati on Mother-Shaming





Images courtesy of Instagram: sarahlahbati

40 comments:

  1. Ok Sarah pero wag ka na magpabuntis ulit kung ayaw mong nababash pregnancy mo or magtago ka ulit. Dami mong kuda.

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    1. Bakit? Tinamaan ka ba? nag share lng namn sya about sa article

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    2. The message is right. Pero si Sarah parang naging over sensitive since nagbuntis ulit. She's not entirely happy. I guess she was not prepared for this pregnancy, tapos na udlot pa wedding. When i got pregnant with my second one, it was a surprise din pero di ako naging ganyan, i was happy, didnt care about anything... sya lahat na lang ininda.

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    3. She's oversharing. That's not the first time.

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    4. Her IG her rules

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    5. 1:04 good for u, pero alam mo naman ang buntis sensitive at nasa stage sya ng paglilihi tapos artista pa sya na laging pinupuna.

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    6. Ang oa mo. Pangit siguro childhood mo no?

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    7. Whatever Sarrah feels about her second pregrancy, is not for us to judge. Masaya man sya or hindi. It's her life, it's her emotions, it's her feelings. I believe, if she can look outside her, she would not want to feel that way while goibg through pregnancy. We do not know what she's going through. At least di nya pinaabort baby and continued with her pregnancy no matter how she is feeling.

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  2. pls dont generalize sarah. not all good mothers are really mothers. hindi lahat nagpapakaina.

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    1. May hugot, 12:26am? Haha! Agree, in fairness. Some mothers kasi, mas inuuna pa ang OOTD and social media upload and pakitang-gilas kaysa sa general welfare of their kids. Hahahaha!

      #SadButTrue

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    2. I agree 12.39. Nakakainis pag nakakakita ako sa mall na, yun mom ang bongga ng porma, but her kid looks close to a batang hamog. 😡 Say it’s Exaggerated but I saw it. Kaasar. Mas gugustuhin kong purihin ang anak ko ng ibang tao kesa sa sarili ko. (Or pwede rin naman both kami) 😁

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    3. My former boss usually says that she looks like a yaya beside her son. She dotes on her son too much but that would be better than have a ootd mom and a hamog son.

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  3. napakahypocrite lang ng "dont compare". In this world girl, everything is about comparison. Yuo cant avoid to be compare. kung ayaw mo makumpara, doon ka sa bundok. iyong walang social media.

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    1. Defensive mo nmn mesyede teh, nangumguna ka siguro mg compare2x haha

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    2. right 12:27 sobrang arte eh maganda at mayaman so lamang na sya sa comparison. paano na ako na medium lang ang ganda at yaman. eh di tinodo ko sa work ethics at brains. artista talaga wag gawing idol

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  4. a happy mama is a happy baby?!?

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    1. Ibig sabihin nyan bes, kung masaya si mommy, di nya mapag didiskitan/mapag buntunan ng inis si baby, gets mo na? Mother of 3

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    2. Pag happy si mama, happy si baby.
      Yes technically wrong grammar tayo talagang mga pinoy hilig magcorrect ng gramma. Punta ka ng US or UK kahit Mali mali grammar mo di ka nila kokorek.

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    3. Tama.. dito nga sa Australia, laban kung laban rin ako sa English kahit mali.mali ang grammar ko basta maitawid lang ang sasabihin ko.. wala naman Astralian na nagsasabi ng comment about sa grammar ko. Tuwangtuwa pa nga sila kasi daw ang galing ko daw mag English kahit inaral ko lang ang language nila. Hay kung alam lang nila na kung sa Pilipinas ako nag salita ng english makakalbo ako sa mga puna ng mga tao dahil sa grammar.

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    4. 1:15 ok lang mag correct ng grammer, wag lang mayabang ang dating at pagtatawanan.

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    5. ang isang masayang nanay ay isang masayang sanggol. ang linaw ng kahulugan pag sinalin sa filipino. pasensya na, mga bes.. #pwedenasyndrome

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  5. Lol lahat nalang eh about sa defense from all forms of shaming...puro shame, shame, shame, pero incapable tayo of feeling guilt. Narcissism talaga ang pathology ng gen natin.

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  6. This! People are so quick to judge.

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  7. More like #STOP-OA-MOTHERS. Kairita na kasi.

    True ang each mother has different challenges and skills, so stop comparing and competing naman talaga.

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  8. New mom of 2 months here. I can definitely relate especially on the breastfeeding part. Grabe yung pressure ngayon lalo na galing sa ibang moms, parang competition lahat ng bagay. As long as the baby is healthy at maayos mong pinapalaki, how you raise your child is nobody's business.

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    1. Mommy of a 1 month old baby here. Sinabi mo pa anon12:44. Sa hospital pa lang I see a lot of moms na umiiyak kasi yung nurses and doctors pinipressure sila na magbreastfeed kahit walang lumalabas na gatas. Yung nanay tuloy di napapansin masyado yun baby kasi stressed out na sa kaka-pump. Hindi naman tumutulong yung medical staff para maturuan yung nanay kung paano talaga. Puro pagalit at pananakot lang.

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    2. Truth teh ♥️ Nang maging nanay ko, marami akong narealize kaya pag may ibang nanay na nagsheshare sakin, papasintabi muna ako bago magbigay ng opinyon. Laging may disclaimer hehe. Like, ‘hindi sa nagmamarunong ako, or ‘yun judgment mo pa rin ang best, but let me share a story. Mga ganern.

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    3. When I had my first child, yung unang buwan talaga sobrang challenging. I was crying a lot because people kept on telling me what to do, kept calling me out na mali ginagawa ko. I know that their intentions are good, pero sobrang nakakawala ng confidence. I believe that first time mothers should be given enough space to learn on their own and feel that they are good mothers. Hirap kasi ngayon, lahat ng tao may opinyon. Hanggang sa diaper na gagamitin ng anak mo may hanash pa din sila, as if naman sila ang bumibili.

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  9. Obviously di kayo mga nanay, di kayo maka relate sa post nya tsk tsk..

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  10. Ang hirap naman kasi hindi i-compare yung mga Mama na proud sa ipinagbubuntis nila tska sa mga mama na tinatago ang pregnancy. Di’ba? hahahahahahaha

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    1. 1:08 the old mama Sarah vs the new mama Sarah ba ito? Hahaha!

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  11. a happy mama is a happy family!

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  12. Says someone who did everything to hide the pregnancy only to reveal it for a reality show.

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  13. Some hide it for a reason, different situation and reasons, Bakit lahat ba nang ipinagsigawan naging totoong nanay? naging totoong hands on?

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    1. Thank i 2:25. I know she has reasons to hide. We may never know the details but her reasons are her reasons.

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    2. It's not about her, it's also for the moms whom some point of their lives chose to hide their pregnancy na sila lng nkaka alam whatever their reasons is pero they took care, love and provide for their child Hindi naman Ibig sabihin nun masama na silang nanay agad compared to those ipinagsigawan nga nila sa buong bundo pero Hindi namn naging hands on, or mas inuna muna pansariling kaligahayan,. stop comparing, we have different situations. ang dali lng mag judge pag di kayo nasa situation

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  14. Totoo naman. Lahat ng tao ay different. Mgkaiba tayo ng buhay, ng situation, ng kalagayan, ng stado, mgkaiba tayo ng katawan, ng health issues, ng background. Tama na pointing fingers sino mabuting ina at sinong hindi. Ano pa kaya silang mga artista na kilala lang natin sa anong nakikita natin on tv, on social media o sa writeups. Who are you to judge?

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