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Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Go Away Pain

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When a big change happens to someone, reactions are manifested. For example, whenever a woman gets a haircut or a makeover, expect comments assuming that she is undergoing something. When someone posts a bunch of cheesy quotes or lyrics of sad songs, the immediate assumption is related to feelings of the social media owner. Then, people could also do what they do not normally do, such as going on eating and drinking binges. For others, retail therapy is the best way to cope with any issue. Still, the ones who have the budget can book a ticket and fly away to escape reality.

The actions of In Denial talent (ID) are being observed these days, as people are curious if she would bother to give a statement on the recent development in her life. ID, whose life has been an open book, seems to be taking every controversy that is linked to her in stride. ID appears cool and calm, and keeps her opinions to herself. Although she looks like she has her act together, ID is still coping with the aftermath of a failed relationship.

Given that the public is aware of her lovelife, ID has always been known for her long-term relationships, which often prompted her fans to wish that her current partner would take her to the altar. The last one was thought to be the final one, but things did not turn out the way ID had expected. Somewhere along the way, the relationship soured. ID thought she would still be able to work it out, but Her Former partner (HF) had moved on. Still, ID would visit the home of HF and bring food, but he would not be home, and the assumption is that he is with a New Lover (NL). ID would allegedly even stalk HF, but her efforts were futile. HF was not giving her attention.

Whenever ID would come across HF and NL together, her emotional pain would hurt, and slowly, she had to accept that she would never have him back. In this context, she decided to do what she usually does, which is to take a break away from the industry. With a Trusted Companion (TC), ID went to a place she had never gone before. The trip was refreshing and distracting. More importantly, ID wanted to show everyone that she was doing okay and unaffected with everything that was happening.

The social media accounts of ID showed happy photos, but behind all these joyous posts was a very sad ID. Sometimes, TC would catch ID crying and drinking. At one point, ID released her frustration for the wind to catch. Anything to release her negative feelings, TC gave ID the leeway.

Things allegedly reached a climax when ID sneaked out while TC was sleeping. Lucky for ID, TC woke up and started to look for her. After walking a distance, TC saw ID drunk outside a pub. Thankfully, nothing happened to ID. TC took ID back to their room. When day came, ID was back to her bubbly self, as though nothing happened the night before. Everything seemed back to normal. However, the true test of her emotional hold is if she could truly accept that she no longer has space in the heart of HF.

‘Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.’ – Kevyn Aucoin

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103 comments:

  1. Still rooting for this girl. Punong puno ng talent, pero laging naghahabol sa mga taong di worth it.

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    1. mahalin nya muna sarili nya bago sya magmahal ng ibang tao. mahirap ibigay sa iba ang bagay na wala ka.

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    2. Disagree. Can't root for someone who is known to bully others for laughs. Karma is teaching her a lesson not to count her chicken before it hatches.

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    3. Agree 👍

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    4. Huh, kelan to nangyare 2:06? Alam kong maldita siya lalo na pag insecure, pero wala akong maalala na she bullied somebody for laughs

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    5. Have to agree anon 2:06

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    6. Girl also needs to tone down on her reactions to others. Ngayon nakanino ang huling halakhak

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    7. Lahat ng “binubully” at nakaalitan niya eh either may atraso sa kanya o sa mga malalapit sa kanya.

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    8. Kalokang TC, nilaglag si ID. I would never do that to my friend.

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    9. Apir 5:08. Thats what most people dont realize. She’s a strong woman for others, lalo sa kaibigan. Sana she could be that strong too for herself now.

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    10. 5:08 yun namang mga malalapit sa kanya mtagal ng nka move on at ngpatawad dapat xa rin

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  2. ID- A
    HF- J
    NL- E

    Di ko knowing si TC ahaha

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    1. 1:11am, TC -- G na long time friend niya.

      J is not worth your tears and pain, A.

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    2. TC is G kaH na magaling na artista

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  3. Awwwww A, mas mabuting wala sya sayo kaso sinisira nya nag buhay nya sa pagwawalwal. Bata ka pa dadating din ang para sayo sa tamang panahon.

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    1. korek besh, darating din ang para sa kanya. yun nga lang nasasaktan sya now kasi mahal nya talaga.

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    2. Anong bata. Tanda na niya noh. Yan kasi, sa sama ng ugali niya kaya walang nagseseryoso sa kanya

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    3. healing pa lang si ID kasi matagal din ang pinagsamahan nila, ngayon na lumabas na ang totoong ugali ni guy, Imagine that ID had to put up with this for a long time.

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    4. Masama rin ugali mo 1:28 AM. So much hate in your heart. Di ka rin maka move on no?

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  4. Tama na A. Gising!

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  5. ID - A
    HF - J
    NL - E
    TC - G

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  6. ID-A
    HF-J
    NL-E

    Pang altar talaga to si ID. Okay langna naghiwalay sila. Di nya deserve si pakawal boy ngayon. Chos

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    1. Eh kaso yun ang mgq hilig niya. Mga sakit sa ulo

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    2. Kelangan nya muna mahalin sarili nya. Masyado nya binibigay lahat sa karelasyon nya. Baka about time magpakasingle muna sya. Kasi even if long term relationships nya, di rin naman sya natatagalan na bakante after matapos isang relasyon nya.

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    1. true.darating din right guy for her!

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  8. Sobrang dami pa jan A! Alam naming darating yan for u!

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  9. Parang teleserye pla ang buhay netong nsa blind item natin today. Ang past jowa na gagawin lahat pra mapasaknya lang ulit si jowa, pero ang ex jowa meron ng mahal na iba. Tpos ang present eh hindi good influence sa kanya. Tpos ung nagmamahal ng todo eh good influence.

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  10. I feel terribly sad for her. Don't worry "A" time will come darating din and rightful person for you. Just be sad for now and try move on kahit baby steps. Mahirap pero you have to. Madami ka namang friends they will help you to be back on your feet.

    ID - A
    TC - G
    HF - J
    NL - E

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  11. Meaning si TC binuking na umiiyak pa din
    si ID dahil kay ex? What kind of a trusted companion are you?

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    1. Parang hindi naman ganung tao si TC. Uhm thinking of the TC I know lang.

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    2. Yun din naisip ko. Hayyst! Ni-leak pa niya talaga miserable moments ni ID

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    3. Bka na imbey n dn friend d nmn kc deserving tlg c guy

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  12. Iiyak mo lang yan girl. Lahat ng nagmamahal, nasasaktan talaga.

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    1. Korek! ako rin hagulgol pa noon but now married and happy.

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    2. Troth!! nakakatawa lang n ung mga iniyikan q dti mapapatanong n lng aq s sarili q ngaun talaga b?? 😂😂

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  13. Move on na A. Love yourself. The right one for you will come along soon 😊

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  14. ID - A
    HF - J
    NL - E
    TC - P?

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  15. This is A. I have been in that situation believe me iha it's not worth it. You will have the last laugh! Just take care of yourself and move on!

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  16. Karma yan ni A sa lahat ng mga nakabanggaan niya sa showbiz. Sa mga pambubully niya sa lovelife lang pala siya kakarmahin

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    1. Kaya hindi nya nakatuluyan yung mga exes nya kasi hindi sila yung para sakanya. Dadating din yung para sakanya. Wag kang ano! Good for her nga at di nya nakatuluyan yung last ex nya.

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    2. 1:29 yes good karma i would say... at least hindi sya natali sa isang walwal na lalake na tumatandang paurong.

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  17. I feel hurt for ID-A.. you’re too good for TC-J.. shes the type na ibibigay lahat.. one day you’ll realize that it’s a blessing in disguise kung bakit di kayo nagkatuluyan.. it’s not your fault kung hndi ikaw hanap nya. and i salute you for wanting him to become a better person and not tolerating him. i sincerely believe whoever is meant for you is a very lucky guy. kapit lang!

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  18. Honestly di ko bet si ID at HF nung sila pa. Na awa naman ako sa kanya ngayon Nagmahal lang naman sya. Sa tingin ko nga parang wala namang pinagkaiba si NL kay ID. Kaya gurl, dadating din ang time na ang ending nila tulad rin siguro ng ending nyo ni HF. And by then you will be laughing and sana by then someone else has found you na. Siempre normal lang naman ang mga emote emote ni ID. Be grateful na meron kang TC and other friends na nahihingahan.

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  19. We love ypu ID. The right one will come. My right one came when i was 31. Three years na kami ngayun.

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  20. Mga bes, ganun talaga pag umiibig.. nasasaktan, iiyak at gagawa ng kagagahan para bumalik ang ex, at mag mo-move on, iiyak pa rin.. intindihin na lang natin sya.

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  21. Makakamove-on ka rin girl. Pinagdaanan ko din yan. Pero lampas one year yata bago ko masabi na di na masakit. Bigla na lang mangyayari. Pero yung process ng moving-on ang hard! Dami kong tears. Buti na lang nandyan ang mga friends na makakatulong sayo makalimot. Mahirap lang talaga kung alak ang kasama mo sa pagmomove on kasi not good for the health, at baka madisgrasya ka pa. Good luck A, hope your someone finds you na! No need to go after that guy who does not deserve you.

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  22. Rooting for you A...no easy way to move on, we all know that.

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  23. Na-experience ko na rin yan. OA pero it took me 2 years bago ako naka-recover. Sobrang sakit pero kinaya ko. Ngayon, may bago na akong partner at masaya na ulit ako. Kaya mo yan A! Tiwala lang!

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  24. Na karma ka din kasi A.stop bullying others,tapos ikaw pa mai ganang mgpaka playing victim.

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    1. Good karma pero di nya pa naaappreciate. She dodged a huge bullet. Maiisip nya din yan in the future.

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    2. @1:46, it's good karma because she's able to get out herself from a very toxic kind of relationship. She's hurting now but at least you can see a better future for her. Ikaw, anong klasing karma ang sa iyo?? Ang mga taong kagaya mo ay I'm sure may bad karma din. Just wait at darating din iyon.

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    3. Ito talaga si 1:46 AM paulit ulit. No.1 basher ni A here. Sana mangyari yan sa yo. You think what you are doing is not bullying? Such a hypocrite.

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  25. A. Girl, nung nawala sya nabigyan mo ng time ang sarili mo. Daming projects tas gumanda ka tas more time with friends and family. Focus na lang muna sa sarili, then eventually dadating din si mr right. Kapag mas hinahanap, hindi dadating. Saka mas ok na single, kaysa sa masayang ang time mo sa relationship na hindi seryoso. Saka overrated ang marriage. What I mean is hindi porket kasal na kayo happy ending na. It takes two to tango pa din. Kaya mas ok na ang pakakasalan ay talagang kayang magcommit at paninindigan yung vow nyo nung kasal. Time heals all wounds sabi nila so di magtatagal magiging okay ka din. Go girl or girls para sa mga broken-hearted ngayon. 💪

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  26. Move on na te di sya worth it

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  27. Grabe magmahal kasi tong si ID eh todo bigay

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  28. I feel the pain of A. You have to start going on a date again. More than a year is good enough to move on. It's not worth it to wait.

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  29. Naaawa ako kay A. Kasi mukang matindi magmahal. Sobrang matyaga. Ipaglalaban ka talaga. Sana i-open na lang nya yung puso nya sa non showbiz personality. Yung isa nyang ex nakahanap ng right one sa isang non showbiz girl. I pray na sana makahanap na sya ng lalakeng hindi na sya iiwanan :(

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  30. I've always liked A. With her looks, she could have had strings of relationships, but she's the sort who is really committed to make it work. She might still be grieving until now, but I am sure she'll get over this last failed relationship. At least she's still single and thankfully childless, because if problem happened while already married, it would only make things more complicated.

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  31. Maybe there is something wrong with her kasi kahit ang tagal nung mga relationships niya iniiwan pa din siya.

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    1. Sana mangyari sayo para ma realize mo na something's wrong with you!

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    2. Yes there is 2:01 sobra kase syang magmahal. Maxado nyang sinasamba nagiging bf nya. Ayaw ng mga boys ng ganon na halatang head over heels gusto pa din nila nachchallenge sila. Sana mag gets na Ni A na hindi nagwwork ung ganong formula bilang ilang failed relationship na sya. Sana mas mahalin nya na ang sarili nya sa susunod.

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    3. Bakit ganun babae lagi yung may problema pag di nagwork relationship? Pwede bang mga maling lalake lang yung minahal niya?

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    4. 12:35 infer alam ng lahat may mali si J pero may kasalanan din si A kaya sya palaging iniiwanan.

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    5. Wow, 2:01! How did you come up with that conclusion? Ako naniniwala na darating din yung guy na magmamahal sa kanya at di sya iiwan. She has to get with a few wrong ones to finally get with the right one.

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    6. Nagsama ang mga hopia ha ha

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  32. Fake pala yung 'moved on' act nya.

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    1. When did she make a moved on act? Yung interpretation mo ata ang peke.

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    2. In denial pa more lelz

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    3. 1:08 bash pa more. kaya mukhang puro hangin utak mo eh. magbigay ka naman ng time sa sarili mo para mag-aral o gumawa man lang ng productive things.

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  33. Maxado kaseng magmahal si ate girl..know your worth wag todo bigay mas mahalin ang sarili. pag natutunan mo ng mas mahalin ang sarili every will fall into place at makakakahanap ka din ng taong mas mahal ka kesa mas mahal mo at rerespituhin ka. Not worth the trouble naman si Ex kaya wala syang dapat panghinayangan.

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  34. i love you A.. may taong dadating na talagang para sayo.sabi nga ng ex mo sobrang matyaga ka, dont worry the right person will come..

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  35. I think she is a very kind human being, it saddens me that some men just play with her feelings. She deserves somebody who has a heart in the real sense of the word. May God let bring to someone who is not going to hurt anymore in any way or form. Maybe think of God first and then its up to you to love whoever is next but dont ever love another human being more than GOD thats when life start to show you who is really important and worth your love. I wish u all the best, u will find someone worth it. Keep your kind heart but use ur wise brain.

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  36. Alam mo A, napagdaanan ko din yang phase na yan. Mahirap maka move on. Kasi talagang masakit. It took years, para masabi ko na ok ako. Umiyak ka Lang pag kelangan. Kasi maswerte ka nga at di mo sya nakatuluyan dahil sa vices nya. Maiisip mo in the future na may reason lahat ng bagay. Enjoy being single. Darating din ang nakalaan for you.

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  37. Pain teaches us great lessons. Kapit lang ID. And be thankful for having friends like G na andyan para sa'yo.

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  38. ID- A
    HF-J
    NL-E
    TC-G

    Yung tatlo Kaf tas yung isa Kah

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  39. Been in a similar situation as A at napakasakit talaga. Iyak nag iyak at gusto ko nang tumigil sa job ko but thanks to my family and friends. After 2 years naka move on na ako at pinagtawanan ko nangyari sa akin. Very thankful na hindi kami nagkatuluyan ng Ex ko.

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    1. Yeah me too. Now I'm married to the most wonderful man in the world.

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  40. Sabi na nga ba peke eeh!
    Para masabi lang na nka-move on na!

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    1. she's been trying to move on. hindi ganun kadali yun. ang tagal nila.

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  41. Mabagsik etong c Guy, daming girls ang broken hearted

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  42. She is in so much pain kasi nagmahal siya ng totoo. Everybody deserves to be loved. Sana dumating na yung para sa kanya talaga.

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  43. kaya mo yan A, minsan talaga dumadaan tayo sa ganyang sitwasyon pero malalampasan din.

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  44. Blessing in disguise na hindi naging sila nung guy so maswerte pa din si A. I'm sure she's going to be smarter and stronger pag naka move on na siya completely.

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  45. He's not worth it ID..lalaki lang yan! Pick up the broken pieces of your life and put it back together. Pray..

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  46. ID- A can really be b**chy when she wants to but for some reason I have a soft spot for her. I hope she finds the right one for her.

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    1. Why are you giving her a pass for being bitchy? Doesn't the other person she hurt have feelings too?

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    2. 1:30 Do you know any person who did not make any enemy in their entire life? No, right? All of us could get really bitchy to our enemies. And girl, what do you think you are doing right now? You don't know? Then let me tell you.. you are being a bitchy basher right now, you self-righteous hypocrite!

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  47. Bata pa lang, gusto ko na si A. One day, you will wake up na hind na masakit. Until that day comes, kaya mo yan.

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  48. Someday she will realize that the man she lost is really not worthy of her. Just ride you wave, girl, and remember to always better yourself.

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  49. One ma-appreciate ni A at di sila nagkatuluyan ni J. You will get over him, take it a day at a time.

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  50. Napakasakit talaga. Di mo ba nakikita ang mga ganap, ang mga pangbabastos ? Mahal mo pa rin? Sa beauty mo, lots of fish in the Pacific Ocean. Mag-aral ka, mukha ka namang matalino. Like din ng mga decent guys ang smart at kalog.
    Malayo pa ang road of life at maraming bumps in the road. Jusko

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  51. I feel you A, masakit talaga yan. I'm telling you it'll get worse before it gets better but once you're on the path of healing tuloy2x na yan. Mahal mo eh kaya masakit pero wala eh minsan hindi talaga para sa atin yung mga gusto natin. Hayaan mo na sila. You're way better than them. Patuloy mo lang pag travel2x, mag aral ka, enroll in a language course, learn to play a musical instrument. Anything to get your mind off things. Pataasin mo lalo market value mo A. Minsan kahit sourrounded tayo ng friends natin, ang sakit pa rin. Kaya dapat tulungan mo sarili mo rin na maka bangon. You have to help yourself move on and forget the hurt.

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  52. True this. Ang ganda ganda mo, Ate A. Yaan mo yan. Hanap ka ng mayaman, matalino, businessman siguro...wag ka maghabol dyan sa taong yan.

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  53. A, please help yourself...

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  54. Grabe din siguro magmahal si J kaya nahihirapan mag move-on si A.

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  55. napagdaanan ko din yan. ang hirap. pero matatapos din yang phase na yan.

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