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Thursday, October 19, 2017

FB Scoop: Father of Nadine Lustre Wears the Semicolon Tattoo

Image courtesy of Facebook: Ulysses Lustre

137 comments:

  1. Hongtoroy! Lakas maka-bagets ng tattoo.

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    1. Ibigay mo na sakanya yan. Ung semi colon malaking symbol yan sa mga may pinagdadaanan.

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    2. Shame on you and God bless your soul.

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    3. Sana niliitan ng konti ung tats, mejo di magandang tingnan tpos kulobot pa ung kamay.

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    4. Answer the question muna on how the son got hold of the gun inside your house.

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    5. 1:45 same thoughts. something doesn't add up.

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    6. Guilty conscience?

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    7. 1:45 kaya ayaw ng autopsy para walang investigation. Something is hidden 6 feet below the ground.

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    8. Agree 1:45 & 2:08. The family is grieving right now but at some point the investigators should get to work while they can still find or follow a hot trail on the incident.

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    9. Spreading awareness na Lang yan. Wala ng investigation sa kung paano napunta sa kamay nung anak yung baril. Sad lang kasi he died in vain and no justice.

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    10. Is it hard to get a gun if you have money? Does it mean na sa dad agad yung baril? If the son is suffering depression and wants to end it it doesn't have to be a gun at kahit nakatago pa...

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  2. Condolences po. However, please get real help in coping with loss or even depression. Na bother ako sa "your likes and shares will help me go on"...ganito na ba ngayon? Napaka shallow. Please get real and professional help. Nothing on fb or any social media will ever help cure depression.

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    1. Thumfak! Parang nagpapaka famewhore si itay

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    2. Yun din naisip ko when I read this. Baka akala ng iba, ganun lang kasimple ang solution sa depression. Absolutely not. Sometimes, based on my own experience, social media even exacerbates it.

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    3. Pa cool pa more

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    4. what he is trying to say basically is that by spreading awareness, people going through depression can get the help they need and people around them will be aware that the condition really exists. people will start looking after each other. he is hoping he can eventually move on knowing that people are more aware and less will commit suicide

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    5. Agree baks. Personally whenever I feel depressed I try to avoid social media because most of the time mas natritrigger ako by the most random things I see sa socmed which causes further depression. Better to avoid. Social media if anything brings temporary respite only from your sadness tas mamya may makikita ka pak balik lungkot ulit

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    6. Maybe ibig niyang sabihin magiging ok na siya kahit papaano pag na-spread yung awareness about depression dahil maraming tao na pinagdadaanan 'to. Para maaksyunan bago mahuli ang lahat. Na maging eye opener ang nangyari sa anak at sana huwag mangyari sa iba.

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    7. they've been misusing that symbol imho and making it look like a symbol of sorrow and depression over a symbol of hope and moving on.

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    8. yung pag lagay nito means na may depression din sya at nilalabanan din nya.I think that's what he is trying to convey.

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    9. Tama ka 1:49 am wrong message na tuloy ang binibigay nila.

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    10. exactly! Same thoughts Hayyy

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    11. oo nga eh, sana man lang "your prayers" bakit likes and shares. kaloka.

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    1. How is this funny? I get that this might be too much pero LOL? Seriously?

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    2. famewhore kasi si father

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    3. 1:06 Tama. Hindi ko maisip kung paano pa siya nakakapagsocial media sa ngayon. May mga tao siguro talagang sa social media nagpapapansin kapag malungkot.

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    4. Anon 11:30 iba iba kasi ang way ng pagluluksa ng tao. Hindi dahil di mo nakikita na humahagulgol, di na sya nagluluksa. Baka yung social media yung way nya para malimutan yung sakit at lungkot pero yung mga katulad mo iniisip na nagpapapansin lang sya.

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  4. Okay pudra, taos puso akong nakikiramay. Nauunawaan ko na baka yung pagpala tattoo mo ay parte ng moving on and grieving phase mo. And spreading awareness on depression may be your advocacy now; kaya iniintindi ko pa din kaya pinapa share mo ang post mo... but seriously, TO LIKE IT TO HELP YOU GO ON???

    Pudra, kung sana ay tinutukan mo lang ang mga anak mo habang pinagtatrabaho mo si ate nadine...

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    1. I think mga teh if you sort it out, he is also suffering from the same sickness, he needs to see a doctor.

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    2. Is this genetic?

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  5. sagutin nyo po muna kanino galing yung baril.

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    1. mukhang wala nang balak sagutin at mukhang wala na ring nagpupursiging magtanong na mahalagang katanungan na iyan

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    2. hay ganyan talaga sa pilipinas, hindi ba nasa authorities ang final say if they will investigate or not. sa ibang bansa kasi (oo alam ko na, eh di dun na ako tumira diba) i think if someone dies outside the hospital automatic investigation agad ng police para clear ang cause of death. Meaning until everything is done, walang libing libing muna.

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  6. sorry daddy pero ang tacky ng itsura...sana sinimplehan na lng..pero cge kung yan magpapagaan ng kalooban nyo..wapakels na!

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  7. Hopefully this would be a good start to the advocacy of spreading awareness about depression and suicide especially among our children. I'm sorry he had to lose a son because of this but may you help out other parents who might have children battling depression to be more mindful on the behavior of thier kids.

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    1. Paki sabi kay Pudra na it is not easy to have an advocacy, he has to walk the talk. How could he inspire e wala pa naman ako nakita. He has to heal first. Tuloy ang dating gusto lang magpasikat . Na sila ang nagpapakalt sa (;)?... That is how I look at it.

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  8. parang nakakatakot po yung tattoo niyo po

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  9. depressed din po ba siya?

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    1. Ikaw kaya mawalan ng anak sa suicide? Kaloka tanong mo baks.

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    2. yes depressed sya, he's been posting na parang humihingi din ng tulong aside from his son. Paki intindi mo rin ha bes 2:30. Please read his previous posts. Sya din may depression

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  10. as parents, dapat tayo ang maging strong para sa pamilya. tayo ang mag initiate. di yung tayo pa ang nauunang na dedepress. hanap ng ways to cope up stress or depression like family bonding or even out of town trip. feeling ko yung ang kulang sa kanilang pamilya. may kanya-kanya silang mundo.

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    1. madaling magsalita ano? Lalo na pag hindi ka pa namamatayan ng anak? Iba ang mamatayan ng anak teh. Para kang pinagsakluban ng langit at lupa. Hindi ka makakahinga. Ayaw mong gumising.

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    2. hindi pagkamatay ng anak ang ibig kong sabihin dito kuya. before namatay ang anak, may mga signs of depression na sila yun ang gusto ko ipaliwanag.

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  11. No wonder longing si Nadine ng love and validation sa ibang tao.

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  12. Hay. I have a semicolon tattoo too for 3 years now at sa totoo lang nakaka-insulto na 'tong mga sumasakay sa 'trend' na 'to.

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    1. This does not make your tattoo better than all the other semi-colon tats in the world. Hindi ikaw ang unang nakaisip niyan at matagal na na yang "trend" na yan, over three years ago pa. People grieve in different ways, so let him be.

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    2. hindi kasi pinaglalaruan yang issue about depression.

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    3. nakapatent sayo yang semicolon tattoo baks? yaan mo kung gusto din nya.

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    4. 12:50 I get you. Years ago hindi pa ito trend. You do it not for others to see, not as a symbol to be bragged on social media, but just as a reminder to yourself whenever you look at it. It holds a significant meaning, unlike today na bandwagon effect na lang. Most do not understand its real meaning. Kids, it's not cool to have this tat.

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  13. I don’t get it. Please grieve in private. Please seek help for the family. With Nadine’s actions, we don’t know how she is really feeling inside. She seem unbothered but for sure she is. Who knows. With dads message and all, seems like the whole family needs counseling.

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    1. my thoughts too. what you are from the inside manifests outwardly. kahit anong tago mo, lalabas at lalabas. you crack at the slightest trigger.

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  14. i wish there would be a specific advocacy like more affordable mental health counseling thru schools, churches, community centers etc.

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  15. Cant he find a better artist?

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    1. MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY... DITO PA ATA NAGTIPID

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    2. parang tinipid nga baks pero sa laki ng tattoo niya na semicolon baka mahal siyang siningil niyan

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  16. Likes?okay sure share it pero ang paano makakatulong ang likes will help you go on?

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    1. baka likes and shares ang sine-seek niya

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    2. may pagka famewhore.Pero ha, inamin naman nya sa kabilang posts na he is also suffering from depression.

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    3. In my understanding, the likes and share means his desire to spread awareness regarding depression is being heeded to. This will give him the drive to continue with his advocacy thus it help him to go on.

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    4. 6:22 hindi pa rin connect. Famewhore lang.

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    5. 6:22 sabi ko nga ang tinatanong ko yung likes. Paano makakatulong yun?

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    6. baka sa likes and shares niya mararamdaman na may mga taong may concern at care sa kanya?

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    7. may depression din kasi sya, the tattoo is a constant reminder not only of his son's death but his personal experience with depression. It's also his battle.

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  17. likes & what will help him to go on? While nakikiramay ako di ko gets ba't need niya ng "likes". for awareness ba? Ok. pero ang weird parin! stay out of socmed and mend your broken hearts. hindi naman kailangan magsalita kung masakit pa.

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  18. maybe he's not really depressed. need lang ng atensyon.

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    1. o nga eh. sana people would stop using depression as an excuse. at sana rin, magpayo ng tama tungkol sa depression.

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    2. Correct. Seek professional help na lang. Yun talaga ang makakatulong, kesa sa likes and shares.

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    3. True. He says he too has depression but his action says otherwise.

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    4. maybe he is just sad. people confuse sadness with depression and I get it coz depression is associated with that feeling. pero hindi lang sya pure sadness, there's fear, sometimes anxiety,longing, anger, confusion etc. etc.

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  19. he bothers me... sorry. and if they claim they have depression pls ask for prof help rin po.

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  20. Depressed or not, when you grieve you grieve. I give this as his form of grieving and moving on but I hope it’s not all for nothing. The family’s actions seem weird for a family who lost someone. Grieving differs from this family is weird. Sorry.

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    1. Please like it and share para mahelp mo si tito

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    2. there are different types of depression, pls read and research, then maiintindihan nyo what he is suffering from.

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    3. depression and attention seeking can actually be intertwined. read!

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  21. Sending all my prayers to Nadine and her family but if I am on her shoes and I saw my father doing this madedepress ako lalo. Kasi anyare father dear? Bat need magpost ng ganito? Nagpa ink pa.

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  22. Jusko. Anu ba yan! :( na bothered ako sa tattoo ganyan ba dapat? Go seek help, check up and pray! Of all tattoo pa and it looks I'm sorry jeje!:(

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  23. I hope lahat ng depressed sana di sila mag rely sa social media and ask for likes

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  24. You think Nadine likes this tattoo of her dad? Feeling ko tuloy may problema sila sa family Kaya nagkakaganyan sila Anu ginagawa Sa katawan. Ang panget tingan baks.

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    1. Wala namang masama sa tatts art naman ang tawag jan famewhore lang ung tatay ni nadine talaga

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    2. That tat rocks daddy dude! So 2017, yeah!

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  25. Sorry ha, natawa talaga ako. Siguro yung tinuro nyang picture na gayahin sa tattoo artist was yung sa fb na ganyan. Yung tatakpan yung buong profile pic mo. Ang laki, Father! Lol.

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    1. In fairness, gayang-gaya ang size ahahahahhaah

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  26. There’s something wrong with this family.

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    1. Grabe ka naman makaconclude.

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    2. they should see a doctor na lang mga bes, grabe naman din kasi nangyari sa kanila.

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    3. this family should seek counseling. Kailangan nila ng tulong, not social media or not our judgement.

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  27. Wag nyo lang po isisi sa depression ang pagkawala ng anak nyo. Meron din po kaung role doon dahil kayo po ang magulang. Dba sabi nga po ng iba nyong anak nagiging mainitin ang ulo at lagi gusto mapag isa ng anak nyo nawala. Sana dun palang po gumawa na kau ng paraan or kahit kinausap nyo man lang at binigyan nyo ng assurance na kung ano man pinagdadaan nya ay lagi kau nandyan para skanya. Guidance po ang kailangan nila.

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    1. pano kung depress din sya? kailangan nila komunsulta sa doktor

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  28. likes and shares will help you sir?? wth

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    1. for now gusto kong intindihin muna si Mr Lustre dahil namatayan ng anak at sinabi nga nya sa dating post he also suffer from depression. Let him be, I just hope na may doctor na tumulong sa kanila.

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    2. ewan ko naturnoff din ako sa like and share na part lol

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  29. maiintindihan ko pa kung name non anak na namatay ang pinatattoo, at maliit na semi colon to remind himself to keep going. Pero ang laki masyado nyan, parang it reminds you na guilty ka, na nagkulang ka sa anak. Walang perfectong anak, walang perfectong ama, at may mga bagay di talaga kayo magkaintindihan, pero kahit too late na magsorry, magsorry ka pa din. Asking for forgiveness is another way to help you move on and ease the pain.

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    1. hindi teh, feeling ko yung paglagay nyan is a cry for help, he too suffers from depression.

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    2. anon 3:09 depression or seeking for attention?

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    3. sympre depressed din yan kasi namatayan ng anak, masakit talaga yon para sa isang magulang. Pero kung talagang awareness ang gusto nya ishare,hindi lang dapat gamit ang semicolon or tattoo, sana umattend din sila sa mga public forum about depression or support group para mashare nya yon experience nila at para lumawak din pagiisip nila. Para sa akin ang boses mo ang pinakamabisang instrument, speak-to let them know that you care. Diba kung nasabi nya lang sa anak nya na, "anak, keep going, kaya mo yan" ang laking impact non, baka may nagbago pa.

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  30. Anong “I shout to everybody”? Baka shoutout to everybody. What’s with the English kasi eh message nya sa Pinoy.

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    1. Mind you, Engineer 'yan. Kaloka. Loss and lost. Tapos ito. Madami pa. Tagalog na lang kasi 'Tang.

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  31. Naalala ko yung pelikulang The Hand.

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  32. When I saw the thumbnail photo akala ko talaga dinrowing ng pentel pen. Yikes, very tacky. A small, discrete tattoo would have sufficed.

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  33. parang nalilihis na yung simbolo ng ;
    sa pagkakaalam ko, it's about hope. oh well, baka he finds hope if people would like and share his picture with a ; tattooed on it.

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  34. Nadine won't like this

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  35. Bakit sobra focus nung family nila sa depression at sa kani kanilang ganap? Isa lang ata nakita kong tribute nila dun sa namatay

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  36. People have diff ways of coping. If that makes him feel better, then so be it. Wag na manghusga ng tao kung wala naman kayo sa kinalalagyan niya

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  37. Ang papait ng buhay niyo. WALA KAYONG IDEA GAANO KASAKIT MAWALAN NG ANAK

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    1. hindi yun ang pinopoint out nila. may pag ka famewhore din naman kasi

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  38. He has bigger problem if the likes and shares of peeps he does not know is the one that will make him go on

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  39. shares and likes can't treat your depression. see a doctor and seek for help.

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  40. OK na sana eh pero bat natawa ako sa like and share? hehehe

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    1. dahil may sakit beh, intindihin mo na lang.

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  41. I suggest that Nadine spends more time with her Family. As the Eldest child, she needs to help her Parents heal. Also she needs to comfort and guide her younger Siblings.

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  42. its too late itay!

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  43. While I appreciate spread of awareness, I hope they too, check and talk to each other within the family to know what is really going on.

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    1. they need to talk to a shrink

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  44. There is a thin line between sadness and depression. wag sanang i oa ung sadness. ikaw lang makakatulong sa sarili mo. Happiness is a choice.

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  45. His intentions are good about spreading awareness but the way it's conveyed is in very bad taste - a loud, garish tattoo and spotty English are big distractions turning off and confusing readers

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  46. Paanong makakatulong ang like and share ?

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  47. question. can I say I am depressed or do I have to be diagnosed by a professional first?

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    1. You have to be diagnosed by a psychiatrist or psychologist. Depression is deeper than sadness.

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    2. If you feel deep sadness or other feelings that you feel is depression, it would be be helpful to see a professional. Good luck, stay strong- there is light at the end of the tunnel.

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    3. Yup, get diagnosed first. Then they'll give you meds to take.

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    4. diagnosed, there are also medications for this.

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    5. You need to consult a specialist and go through
      1. Lab tests ( hindi lang sa utak or feeling yan nakikita pati sa lab tests na gagawin)

      2. Counselling with family or spouse

      3. If you need to take meds you will be given prescriptions. Or you will attend therapy sessions to process instead of supressing your thoughts and feelings.

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  48. #keepgoing lang ng keep going but not hurting yourself nor destroying

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  49. Nadine should best more time with her family especially now yung pinag dadaanan ng family nila ngayon sobrang hirap. Love, communication, support nila ang kailangan Sa isat isa esp now may naiwan pang dalawa Mas bata...Kung may kailangan ayusin ayusin wag na patagalin pa.. if needed check up do it now before it's too late.

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  50. Please be responsible in using the word Depression. Yun iba kasi they use that to get away with anything “inappropriate” na actions ginawa nila. If you think you are suffering from depression, or your family think so, please consult a specialist. Kaya you can’t blame mga ibang tao if they think na hindi serious ang depression kasi dahil na din sa mga taong nakikisakay dito.

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  51. I feel sad for the family. Hindi biro mawalan ng anak at mauna sa magulang. While it is true, a parent must know everything about their kids, pero minsan talaga nagkakaroon ng pagkukulang ang magulang. Nagiging busy, nagiging divided ang attention na minsan di nila alam neglected na pala mga anak nila. Minsan naman kahit punong puno na ang pagmamahal sa pamilya at sa loob nga bahay pero sa paglabas rejected sila like sa school or among friends or ibang bagay like career, sports, relationships... hindi na kasalanan ng magulang.. kanya kanyang coping mechanism lumalabas... kaya mahalaga ang EQ. Wala naman gusto sa nangyari sa anak nila but it was his choice to end his life. Maraming pwede nag trigger sa kanya to commit suicide, ang problema din dun sa anak, he didnt ask for help and his actions were not evident enough and sa pamilya, sayang hindi nila napansin agad na may suicidal tendencies na pala. Kaya nakakalungkot. Kaya kapit lang tayo sa diyos at pag dasal natin ang isat isa at ang mga mahal natin sa buhay. Kelangan maging sensitive sa isat isa

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